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Dating Talk with Kealy

Dating Talk with Kealy

By Kealy Ryder
Dating Talk with Kealy is a sex positive podcast that includes the best/worst stories of dating. Kealy is here to talk all things sex and dating with her fun, intelligent, and energetic guests. Each week she brings a new perspective on dating in this day in age. Pour some wine and get ready to giggle, learn, and relate!

Email Datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any of your dating/sex stories to be read on the pod!

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Twitter: @datingtalkwithk
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Ep. 14 "I'm cool just being a single dad" with Brett Allan

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Ep. 39 "I'm a unicorn baby from Jupiter" with Jezebel Jeffrey
Today I interview Jezebel Jeffrey who is a 32 year old lead singer (ToasterBasket) who owns a bike shop. We talk them being a pansexual cross dresser, them getting banned from Tinder, how they aren't a conventional dater, masterbating at a queer nightclub, being into bondage & so much more! Enjoy! Socials: @jezebeljeffrey on all platforms Onlyfans.com/jezebeljeffrey @toasterbasket (band) on all platforms Merch available through Instagram DM @vintagefixie (bike shop) on all platforms Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email Datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun dating stories to be read on the pod!
01:13:14
March 17, 2021
Ep. 38 "Different seasons of dating" with Alexandra from Poddraland
Today I interview Alexandra Cohl living in NYC. She is a blogger, writer and editor who uplifts women's voices by showcasing their podcasts. Check out www.poddraland.com to hear about those podcasts and more about her! We talk her first long term relationship, me wanting to have a crush, an awkward date at a crowded bar that ended with an even more awkward kiss, her rule of no sex while drunk in college, and so much more! Enjoy. Alexandra Insta: @Pod.draland Alexandra Twitter: @poddraland Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk
57:28
November 13, 2020
Ep. 37 "I've never had a real relationship" with Clarissa from Five12Studio
oday I interview Clarissa from five12studio! She is a 34 year old digital designer from Texas. We talk her being demisexual, what is happening in America and how we should listen and learn from eachother, her not having experience with sex, and so much more! Enjoy! Check out Clarissa's podcast Five12 FM. Clarissa insta and Twitter: @five12studio Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod!
54:33
October 23, 2020
Ep. 36 "Buried it for a really long time" with Amy
Amy is back! We talk her coming out as Bisexual, her joining a Matchmaker service, Quarantine dates, and so much more! Enjoy. Amy's Insta: @amy_loosabeth Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod! Please subscribe, rate, and review!
01:50:31
October 14, 2020
Ep. 35 "Throwing darts in the middle of the gender spectrum" with Zach from Keep It Gay Podcast
Today I interview Zach from Keep It Gay: A Musical Theatre Podcast. He is 29 years old living in LA. We talk our favorite Broadway shows, a meet cute that turned into a very interesting date, a funny sex encounter during a hotel tour, & plenty more hilarious stories! Enjoy! Zach's Podcast: Keep It Gay: A Musical Theatre Podcast Twitter: @keepitgaypod Website: keepitgaypodcast.com Listen on all platforms! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod!
46:47
May 29, 2020
Quarantine Updates with past guests!
I check in with some past guests on how their Quarantine is going. Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Emails datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod!
01:03:55
May 1, 2020
Ep. 34 "I lost my virginity to Finding Nemo" with Hailey
Today I interview Hailey. She is 24 years old and works in fashion in NYC. We talk dating in NYC, losing her virginity while watching Finding Nemo, how this year has been a real sexual awakening for her, and so much more! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod!
50:44
April 16, 2020
Ep. 33 "If I wasn't being a brat I would have been naked in 10 seconds" with Colleen
Today I interview Colleen. She is 27 and living in Seattle. We talk her journey into Facebook dating, her being polyamorous, a first date with a guy who claimed he forgot his wallet, breaking up with a guy on his birthday and so much more! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod anonymously!
58:32
March 26, 2020
Ep 32 "You eat ***** like it's the last thing you ate" with Charles aka Mean Joe Scheme
I interview Charles. He is a rapper/artist based in NYC. We talk his last breakup, his first time with the hottest girl in school, him being honest about not wanting monogamy with the women he dates, a story about a NY strip club, and so much more! Go listen to Mean Joe Scheme music on apple, Spotify, etc "you'll be fine one day" is his newest album so check it out! Insta: @meanjoescheme Twitter: @meanjoescheme Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod!
01:26:23
March 20, 2020
Ep. 31 "The birds and the bees talk" with Jay
Jay (Ep3 and Ep15) is BACK! We talk how our dating lives have been recently, our first sexual experiences, sex education, tv shows/movies/songs that impacted our sexuality, and consent. Jay is a working actor in NYC and is currently in “Donuts and holes: a play about sex” “Becky knows what sex is” at Caveat Theatre in NYC on March 14, 15, 21, and 22nd as well as April 4th and 5th. Get tickets at Caveat.nyc 😉 Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Jay insta: @itsjaypadilla (link in his bio for tickets)
01:19:19
March 12, 2020
Ep. 30 "It's always the men with the sketchiest bedroom" with Becky
Today I interview Becky. She is a 26 year old grad student living in Northern Utah. We talk dating in a small town, how she likes to be dominant in the bedroom, a hilarious story about having balls in her mouth, a walk of "fame" story where she was wearing a sexy Halloween costume to get donuts with friends, getting asked to take a mans virginity, and so much more! Enjoy! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod!
50:58
February 26, 2020
Ep. 29 "Somebody did give me a hickey this week" with Alex
Today I interview Alexandra. She is 26 years old living in New Hampshire. We talk about her first time not being great, a hickie that scabbed over, a hookup where a guy was a bit too drunk, dating as a single mom, and plenty more! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Alex Insta: @a.halle Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email Datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories!
33:59
February 6, 2020
Ep. 28 "I was attracted to low life losers" with Molly Johnson
Today I interview Molly. She is 21 years old living in California. We talk her rough teenage years/trauma and how she overcame. We also go over a bad date where a guy would rather listen to Edm than talk to her, how she's attracted to "losers", play a game of would you rather and so much more! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email any fun dating stories to datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com to be read on the pod!
43:47
January 30, 2020
Ep. 27 "I have a bigger leather fetish than the average vegetarian" with Monica
Today I interview Monica. She is a 26 year old living in Brooklyn. We talk about her experience being poly and pansexual. We also talk about her being into Shibari rope bondage, going to sex parties, peeing on a man, a romantic date with her husband on Christmas Eve and so much more! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories!
01:11:49
January 21, 2020
New Year New Dating Resolutions with Jadian Strachan
It's 2020 and we have Dating New Years Resolutions! Email me yours at Datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk
39:14
January 9, 2020
Ep. 26 "We were the weird couple in high school that dated other people" with Jeremy
Today I interview Jeremy. We talk him being non-monogamous starting at a young age, a very rough breakup, a serious injury during shower sex, a vamp role play story and so much more! Enjoy! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny date stories to be read on the pod!
43:58
December 18, 2019
Ep. 25 "I brought a just in case weapon" with Stephon
Today I interview Stephon. He is 22 and my youngest guest! He tells me about his intense coming out story, understanding his sexuality, having sex at his school, a story about his first time with a man, how social media plays into the dating world today and so much more! Enjoy! Also I realize I say "like" WAY too much. I'm working on it listeners 😂 Stephon's insta: @smard_ass Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny dating stories to be read on the pod!
01:13:24
November 27, 2019
Ep. 24 "Being an Ethical Slu*" with Max
Today I interview Max. He is 28 and living in the Atlanta, GA area. We talk dating sober, taking a sexual sabbatical, getting head in an alley, learning lubriderm is not used for sex and so much more! Enjoy! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny date stories to be read on the pod!
01:03:39
November 18, 2019
Ep. 23 "Everyone needs a break from online dating" with Jadian Strachan
Jadian from episode 1 is back! She is now my roommate and we catch up on how our dating lives have been since we recorded the very first episode of this podcast! We talk taking a break from online dating, a football Sunday date, being friends with an ex, and plenty more! Enjoy! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun date stories to be read on the pod!
59:12
November 5, 2019
Ep. 22 "We still hooked up because he had big d*** energy." with Shelby
Today I interview Shelby. She is a 31 year old receptionist/model living in Las Vegas! We talk dating older men/ sugarbabying, running into a micropenis, men lying about their age, catfishing, and plenty more! Enjoy! Shelby insta: @shelbylove88 Shelby Twitter: @shelbylove88 Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any good, bad, or funny date stories to be read on the pod! Go try out Beautology Lab 24K Gold Collagen Eye Masks! Insta: @beautologylab
57:24
October 13, 2019
Ep. 21 "I went down on this guy with 50 people watching" with Olivia
Today I interview Olivia. Olivia is 29 and living in Westchester. She's been a friend of mine for 13 years. We talk swingers clubs, her car getting towed while at a dates house, meeting men "in the wild", and so much more 💞 Enjoy! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny dating stories to be read on the pod!
01:22:42
September 28, 2019
Ep. 20 "So, we're having sex and she just yells ITS PIKACHU" with Blake
Today I interview Blake. He's a 26 year old teacher originally from Texas. We talk having sex on a beanbag, dating as a man of color, "thrusting to the beat" and so much more! Enjoy! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny dating stories to be read on the pod!
01:06:26
September 14, 2019
Ep. 19 "Sex all the time" with yup, MY PARENTS.
Turn down your volume because today I interview my parents. My dad is loud and hysterical while my mom is timid and thoughtful. We talk what they think I'm like on a date, how they've stayed together for so long, what it was like before they had kids, and play the Marrywed Game! Hope you enjoy! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny date stories to be read on the pod
30:13
August 23, 2019
Ep. 18 “Oh so you’re a f***boy then?” with Jabari Rose
I interview recovering f***boy Jabari Rose. We talk cheating, we get into a healthy debate on our differing opinions, his best date with a girl who only spoke French, how to be honest with women, and so much more! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny date stories to be read on the pod! Jabari insta: @acciperemundi
58:36
August 16, 2019
Ep. 17 "Dr. Heidi is in!" with Heidi Jo
Are you in a toxic relationship? Toxic friendship? Dr. Heidi is here to help and educate. I interview Dr. Heidi on emotional abuse, warning signs of being in a toxic relationship, what questions to ask yourself and so much more. Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email Datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any fun dating stories or questions to be read on the pod! Dr.Heidi Podcast: Its not Normal Its Toxic All social media @coachingwithdrheidi Website: coachingwithdrheidi.com
28:46
August 9, 2019
Ep. 16 "He gave me bus money as the sun was coming up" with LeShonda
I interview LeShonda of C.Q.P Moments podcast. We talk about her being a single mom, her awkward first time, having to ride the bus home after being on a date so long the sun came up and much more! Enjoy! Insta: datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any dating stories to be read on the pod! LeShonda insta: gadgitprincess001 LeShonda Twitter: couponqueenpin
38:14
August 2, 2019
Ep. 15 "ITS MY TURN" with Me your host!
On today's episode I get personal. Jay from episode 3 interviews ME! Listen and get to know my background, my best/worst dating stories, what my first time was like and so much more! We get a bit political and a bit tipsy. Enjoy! Insta: datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: datingtalkwithk Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny date stories for a shout on the pod!
01:11:03
July 26, 2019
Ep. 14 "I'm cool just being a single dad" with Brett Allan
I interview fellow podcaster Brett Allan. He is a 45 year old wine broker in the Bay Area. We talk being a single father, a story about being catfished, playing some red flag or proceed with caution and much more! Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email any fun dating stories to datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com to be read on the pod! Brett's podcast: The Brett Allan Show Brett's insta: @thebrettallanshow
30:39
July 12, 2019
Ep. 13 "Anyone who's kind of nerdy.. I'm into that" with Meredith
I interview Meredith. She's a 24 year old living in Chapel Hill, NC. Meredith works in HIV research and community outreach. We talk her first relationship being long distance, dating a professor, setting off an alarm and evacuating a dorm during her "walk of fame", and so much more! Enjoy 💞 Insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Email Datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny dating/sex stories !
57:13
June 26, 2019
What does Pride mean to you?
What does Pride mean to you? Spent the day walking around Brooklyn Pride asking people that very question and showcasing some amazing organizations! 🏳️‍🌈 1. Atreyu Rodriguez Insta: @atreyu_xx 2. Ft@fiertemtl.com 3. Linda Drummond 4. Insta: @bishqueen 5. Yaw Amanfoh Insta: @yawlikecow 6. Kweercards Insta: @kweercards 7. Brandi Larkin 8. Abby 9. Matt 10. Erin Bried Kazoo Magazine for girls 5-12 Insta: @kazoomagazine 11. Jonah Alphonse 12. Lisa Eddy Leddy@griotcircle.org 13. Ashley 14. Arthur Insta: @pbeaarthur 15. Devon Johnson NYC Anti-Violence project Insta: @antiviolencenyc 16. Lolan Sevilla NYC Anti-Violence Project Insta: @lolanbuse 17. Joshua Caraballo Insta: @jayanthonnyc 18. Latoya Leflore Co-founder of Gotham Cheer Insta: @gothamcheer Gothamcheer@gmail.com 19. Dashawn Wilson Go Magazine Insta: @day_is_bae @gomagazine 20. Cholula Lemon Drag Queen Story Hour Insta: @cholulalemon 21. Trace - Front Runners FRNY.Org Insta: @frontrunnersny 22. Hector Flores Jr www.hectorfloresjr35.com 23. Elizabeth Madden Elizabeth@getaround.com #getaround 24. Ivan Ortiz Ivano@camba.org Camba.org 25. Luis Alberto Medina Twitter: @almeco1983
11:22
June 18, 2019
Ep. 12 "He threw me into therapy" with Amy Cain
I interview Amy Cain. She is tailor cutter, head tailor's assistant, and a friend from the good ol high school days. We talk moving to NYC after a bad break up, her worries about being fetishized, how she considers herself a sapiosexual, and plenty more! Amy insta: @amy_loosabeth My insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: @datingtalkwithk Remember to subscribe, rate, and review 💞
01:09:17
June 11, 2019
Ep. 11 "It's a total science experiment" with Sara
I interview Sara. She is 29 living in Winter Haven, Florida. We talk ghosting, dating in your small hometown, her roommate sleeping with her date, sex on the porch and plenty more! 🍷 Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny dating stories to be read on the pod! My insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter @datingtalkwithk
01:02:02
May 29, 2019
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08:40
May 17, 2019
Ep. 10 "If the girl makes the first move, that's a turn on for me." with Chris Mattera
I interview Chris Mattera from Norwalk, CT. We talk a crazy story he shared on the radio, his ideal date, whether or not a man should pay on the first date, and much more! Enjoy! Email datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com with any funny dating stories to be read on the pod! Chris insta: @cmattera89 My insta: @datingtalkwithkealy Twitter @datingtalkwithk
01:03:08
May 14, 2019
Ep 9. "Gimme a little yank, give me a little spank" with Chelsea Ellsworth
I interview Chelsea Ellsworth. She's an IT specialist based in Boston. We talk sex in cars, getting caught by cleaning staff at a hotel, having a date turn down sex, and much more! Listen and enjoy!
01:11:22
May 7, 2019
Ep 8. "I had a crush on your man" with Danielle Yapp
I interview Danielle Yapp. She is a stay at home mom, entrepreneur, and a long time friend. We talk showing up at your boyfriends parents house wasted, how to come on to a guy, having a crush on your friends man and much more! You can find Danielle on insta @danni.yapps Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple podcasts! Insta: datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: datingtalkwithk Email funny date/sex stories to datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com to get a shout-out on an upcoming episode with listener stories!
51:48
April 23, 2019
Ep 7. "It's okay to be a dude but we should all be better dudes." with Joe Dimeo
I interview Joe Dimeo of the Broaum podcast based in Portland, Oregon. We talk about trying to be a "better bro", complimenting women with no secondary intent, being vocal in the bedroom and much more! Enjoy 🍻 You can find Joe on @Broaumpodcast on Instagram and Broaum podcast on all platforms! Insta: datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: datingtalkwithk Email any funny dating/sex stories or questions to datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com to be shouted out on the pod! Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple podcasts. Also on Spotify and all other platforms!
58:20
April 16, 2019
Ep 6. "I guess I was too perfect for him." with Sheila Smires
I interview Sheila Smires. She is a freelance writer and fellow podcaster based in San Francisco! We talk dating shortys, guys who ghost, creepy dates we've been on, and so much more! Pour a glass and enjoy 💞 You can find Sheila's podcast "It's not She, it's You" on all platforms. (Seriously it's such a fun listen! Go subscribe!) Insta: @itsnotsheitsyou Follow me on Insta: datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: datingtalkwithk Subscribe, rate and review on Apple podcasts!
57:08
April 9, 2019
Ep 5. "Dude, you can get me off other ways." with Jamelah
I interview my friend Jamelah! We talk about meeting people irl vs an app, puking at a guy's house, and friends with benefits situations she finds herself in. Grab a mimosa, listen, laugh, and enjoy! Insta: datingtalkwithkealy Twitter: datingtalkwithk Email any funny dating/sex stories or questions to datingtalkwithkealy@gmail.com to be shouted out on the pod! Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple podcasts. Also on Spotify and all other platforms!
01:04:18
April 2, 2019
Ep 4. "What's it like to date while not drinking?" with Fallon Fitzpatrick
I interview my hairstylist Fallon Fitzpatrick. I am her longest standing client and she knows all about my dating life so it was fun to hear about hers! We talk about her dating while not drinking, a story about skidmarks, and so much more! You can find Fallon at fallonfitzpatrick.com Insta: fallonfitzpatrick Head over to @datingtalkwithkealy on insta to see the pics of my Disney princess hair when she's done with it! 😍
39:13
March 26, 2019
Ep 3. "Are you acting right now?" with Jay
I interview my friend Jay. He is an actor in NYC. He tells me his struggles with conventional and online dating, dating an older woman, how he doesn't label himself and SO much more! As always, grab some wine, listen and enjoy 💞
01:12:48
March 19, 2019
Ep 2. "Let's rename Walk of Shame" with Steve Bosco
I interview my friend Steve Bosco! He is a doctoral student, sexual health researcher, and an all around fabulous man! Sex with a divinity student, difference between a significant/real relationship, and so much more! Grab a glass of wine and enjoy! Public apology to Steve for cutting him off so much during the game segment (wine took over 😂)! You can find Steve at @steveawesomepants on insta.
01:20:29
March 12, 2019
Ep 1. "Omg stop shimmying" with Jadian Strachan
Jadian is a fun loving mom of 2 and one of my close friends. She tells me about her dating disasters like falling off a bed and laughing during sex. She's been single for a while and has plenty of tea to spill! Enjoy ❤️
01:04:54
March 5, 2019