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Keeping it Coy

Keeping it Coy

By Coy Vanel

Season Two is here!

Last season my guest discussed the changes occurring due to the pandemic, radicalizing for change, generational differences, coparenting, quarantined while pregnant and much more.

This season I chat with friends about our hopes for a positive and happy 2021, how to stay positive in life, black history, what we miss or don't during the pandemic, transgender womanhood, vegan dieting, the support or lack there of for black women and more!

Check out any episode that you missed because they're all relatable.
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Triumphant and Tenacious

Keeping it CoyDec 02, 2020

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 Stop Body Shaming

Stop Body Shaming

Love the skin you're in! Often times we are so hard on ourselves and it can be from outside criticism. My friend and I discuss why body shaming needs to stop and share experiences we've learned from.  


Host: Coy Vanel  

Guest: Melissa Redding 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaredding.co/

Mar 24, 202125:59
Sibling Love

Sibling Love

Is there a different dynamic in your home when having half siblings? Maybe that term doesn't exist to people because whether your sibling is your maternal or paternal family, they are just simply family to you. 

I sit down with one of my younger sisters to discuss the importance of forming a family bond and how that ties into exactly who you call family.


Host: Coy Vanel 

Guest: Harmony Blackwell

Mar 17, 202118:04
Supporting Black Women

Supporting Black Women

There is a narrative that the Black Woman is the least supported and I wanted to navigate that. My friends Starr and Ricky join me to discuss our personal experience with the support Black Women receive or lack there of specifically from Black Men. I urge my listeners to join the conversation too, message me I want to hear from you.


Host: Coy Vanel

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coy.vanel


Guest: Starr Skinner and Ricky B.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starrpitar

https://www.instagram.com/ricksurreal


Podcast link: https://linktr.ee/coyvanel

Mar 10, 202130:54
Vegan Diet or nah?

Vegan Diet or nah?

Many people have different reasons for changing their diet, but why go vegan? There are health benefits and environmental factors that draw alot of people to this diet. People continue to raise awareness and popularize the Vegan Diet, but is it the right diet for you? Listen as I discuss the benefits with Porctia, as well as why she made the switch and is sticking with it.


Host: Coy Vanel 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coy.vanel 

Guest: Porctia Symone

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/porctiasapron


Podcast link: https://linktr.ee/coyvanel


Mar 03, 202126:12
A Different Conversation

A Different Conversation

From the first day I met my friend Deshon, I got a sense of exactly who she is and that goes beyond being a trans woman. I never asked about her transition until now and we had a great conversation as it relates to overall change, maturity and growth that we all experience in life. Enjoy!

Host: Coy Vanel 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coy.vanel 

Guest:  Deshon Gray

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deshongray

https://www.instagram.com/plopplife

Feb 24, 202137:42
Pandemic Pros and Cons

Pandemic Pros and Cons

Are there things you miss doing pre pandemic? Maybe you've adapted to the new way of doing certain things, well this episode we are talking about the things we miss and don't miss.  

Host: Coy Vanel 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coy.vanel  

Guest: Ta-Lia Davis

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaliaelyse  


Podcast link: https://linktr.ee/coyvanel

Feb 17, 202122:04
Black History is Everyday

Black History is Everyday

It's February and we are celebrating Black History. Many of us celebrate it year round because well it's more than 28 days! 

Listen to my friend Karl discuss prominent black figures that have shaped our history, there's so many that we can't keep limiting the discussion in our schools. Parents, aunties, uncles and grandparents continue to teach the kids everyday about the culture.

Host: Coy Vanel 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coy.vanel 

Guest: Karl Anthony

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamno5

Podcast link: https://linktr.ee/coyvanel

Feb 10, 202120:42
Positive Vibes Only
Feb 03, 202136:17
Triumphant and Tenacious

Triumphant and Tenacious

Starr Skinner was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in her 20s, but didn't allow that to define her life. Now she is in her 30s and living her best life! Starr shares her initial symptoms and health issues you shouldn't ignore. She is a true champion of being stronger than your circumstance and an inspiration.

Host: Coy Vanel
Guest: Starr Skinner
Dec 02, 202022:12
Denouncing White Privilege

Denouncing White Privilege

Caroline has taken a stand against injustice and stands up for what's right, equality. Tune in as we discuss white privilege.

Host: Coy Vanel

Guest: Caroline Alabi 

Nov 25, 202014:27
Human Trafficking Awareness

Human Trafficking Awareness

Human Trafficking continues to be a worldwide crime and the lack of awareness that our youth has is troubling. Yummy Bingham and I discuss the importance of talking to your kids about the dangers of Human Trafficking.

Host: Coy Vanel

Guest: Yummy Bingham

Nov 18, 202036:59
Healthy Friendships

Healthy Friendships

Healthy friendships are extremely important. My guest share a non-toxic friendship and discuss how they effectively communicate, maintaining their 20+ year friendship.  

Host: Coy Vanel  

Guest:  Ta-Lia Davis, Terrilyn Lee, Tyrene Petersen 

Nov 11, 202025:20
Marriage and Motherhood

Marriage and Motherhood

Evolving and transitioning into the role of a wife and mother is rewarding yet challenging. Hear all about it with my friend Jazmine Ceppaglia, a mom, wife, teacher, momager etc.

Nov 04, 202019:05
Lobbying for Change

Lobbying for Change

Mary Hernandez is a certified interpreter, a mom, wife and just a beautiful soul overall. She recently lobbied for changes to be made to a bill that was jeopordizing her livelihood and those in her field. Check out our discussion and get inspired to be the change you want to see! "THE FORCE IS FEMALE"

Oct 28, 202020:44
Tiktok and Traveling 2020

Tiktok and Traveling 2020

My friend Peet Montzingo has been finding creative ways to keep busy during the pandemic which led to his 2.9 million followers on Tiktok! Besides blowing up on Tiktok he is part of a band called 5West, so we also discuss what work has been like since the impact of COVID.

Oct 21, 202021:18
Pandemic Pregnancy

Pandemic Pregnancy

My friend Terri Carr is expecting her second child and I'm sure a lot of expecting parents out there can all say they never expected to be giving birth during a pandemic. Tune in to hear about it all, a pandemic pregnancy.
Oct 14, 202014:31
A Single Father’s Perspective on Parenting

A Single Father’s Perspective on Parenting

My good friend Justin Jones discusses his parenting and coparenting journey with me. As a single father he shares lessons that he has learned and things that he wishes he knew sooner.
Oct 07, 202014:00
Radicalizing for Change

Radicalizing for Change

My sister, Tennille Blake and I share our experience about situations that caused us to radicalize for change. We use our voices to spread awareness about racial injustice, women’s rights, and systemic oppression. We stay informed in order to stay empowered.
Sep 30, 202015:10
Which generation do you rep?

Which generation do you rep?

I discuss generational differences with some friends, Monique Distin and Patrick Guerrier. After finding out that one of them doesn't like the stigma believed to be associated with millennials, we talk about why that could be. As well as list off some qualities we admire in certain generations.

Sep 23, 202013:47
Are the kids alright during the pandemic?

Are the kids alright during the pandemic?

Three year old London Vanel joins me to chat about her favorite things to do while keeping safe at home during the spread of COVID. Daily routines have changed for many people and so have family outings. Here in California many businesses are still closed and kids are staying in more. Find out how London adjusted and how she’s feeling about it all.

Sep 16, 202013:25
What is this? Who is Coy?

What is this? Who is Coy?

Keeping it Coy is all about friendly relatable conversations regarding society and culture hosted by an ambitious mom, wife, pilates teacher, aspiring actress and now podcast host. These are relatable stories and this season we discuss COVID, generational differences, coparenting and more.
Sep 11, 202000:60