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Man In The Mirror

Man In The Mirror

By Kingdom Mayeza

Welcome to the Man In The Mirror podcast, a space where we reflect together on our different journey’s in life. I know you have read many books, listened to audio programs, attending conferences and seminars, participated in workshops; but sometimes this is just information which is difficult to convert into usable knowledge. Hence we go back deciphering the life lessons and practical advise from stick situations and material we’ve all been through; translating it into golden nuggets of wisdom.

Life cannot be all about action, we have to stop and think about how certain activities make us fe
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Challenges of Being a Black Female in Corporate
Challenges of Being a Black Female in Corporate
Introducing our first episode Man in the Mirror in the new format interviewing Ntswaki Gouwe, MBA.  This episode will be discussing the challenges of being a black South African female in corporate.
33:54
February 16, 2021
54: Are You Coping?
54: Are You Coping?
Never in the history of the world has man been this connected and disconnected at the same time
18:41
July 30, 2019
53: What Could You Do?
53: What Could You Do?
All you know until now is based on conventional wisdom. It's time to go against all you know.
16:59
July 16, 2019
52: What Were You Taught?
52: What Were You Taught?
The only way you can move to the next level, is to unlearned what you already know, and learn what you need for that new level. But what did you know that brought you this far?
19:35
July 09, 2019
51: What Are You Afraid Of?
51: What Are You Afraid Of?
I use to have fear of rejection and worry about losing the people I love the most. What are you afraid of? Is an opportunity for you to look at what is holding you back from living to the max...
17:52
June 25, 2019
50: Are You Happy?
50: Are You Happy?
We have been conditioned to postpone our happiness, and now it's time to prioritize it.
09:40
June 18, 2019
49: What's Holding You?
49: What's Holding You?
The development of reason, single your focus and overcome your fears, you'll be on your way to reach your potential.
20:37
June 04, 2019
48: Take Back Your Power
48: Take Back Your Power
Who have you given your power to? What words are you using to describe your situation? What to do next? In this episode we explore these questions
20:12
May 28, 2019
47: Oh "Poor Me"
47: Oh "Poor Me"
When the odds are against you, do you feel self-pity or self-esteem? I use to wallow is self-pity until I learned the three steps I share in this episode.
22:44
May 21, 2019
46: What Paradigm (s) Control You?
46: What Paradigm (s) Control You?
You and I are controlled by something called a paradigm. Therefore 95% of our actions are really not ours until we decide consciously to fill our mind with new information. The paradigm that got you to where you are now will not take you to the next level. I see leaders and entrepreneurs wanting to move to the next level, but held back by their paradigms all the time. In this episode I share three strategies to reprogram your subconscious mind. 
22:37
May 14, 2019
Episode 45: Mamma Made It
Episode 45: Mamma Made It
I am of the view that we appreciate our mother's but don't really understand the impact they have in our lives
21:41
May 07, 2019
Episode 44: Challenge of Choice
Episode 44: Challenge of Choice
Everyday millions of choices have to be made. And they create the path of life you walk on. How can you sharpen your choice making capability? Find three steps to do this in today's episode.
19:28
April 30, 2019
Episode 43: How Well Do You Know Yourself Part 2
Episode 43: How Well Do You Know Yourself Part 2
The world loves a winner, and to be one you have to know yourself.
17:12
April 23, 2019
Episode 42: How Well Do You Know Yourself?
Episode 42: How Well Do You Know Yourself?
You will not reach your full potential if you do not know yourself. This episode digs into the four elements of self-awareness and how you can enhance these to be the person you are meant to be.
27:53
April 16, 2019
Episode 41: Who's In Your Corner?
Episode 41: Who's In Your Corner?
I've always wondered, what makes successful people that way. After two decades of searching, I've found the answer. There are ingredients to the recipe and today I talk about one of the constituents. Tune in!
19:43
April 09, 2019
Episode 40: What Have You Denied?
Episode 40: What Have You Denied?
You may have been denied, love, an opportunity, a business deal, a new job. But what you were denied prepared you to take advantage of the current opportunities you have.
17:04
April 02, 2019
Episode 39: What Is My Biggest Problem?
Episode 39: What Is My Biggest Problem?
The problems you currently face, hold the opportunities you are looking for.
08:22
March 26, 2019
Episode 39: The Blame Game
Episode 39: The Blame Game
I've been asked to say something more on blame from last week's podcast. Tune in and indulge.
12:51
March 19, 2019
Episode 38 Own Up!
Episode 38 Own Up!
What do you do when the project fails? What do you do when your relationship hits turbulence?
10:37
March 12, 2019
Episode 37 Man To Man
Episode 37 Man To Man
Man have been socialized to believe that they have control over their partners. We see woman and child abuse at home. Women face it in the business world. But there are still man of integrity and high standards. As man what are doing to help our brothers, colleagues and friends?
15:03
March 05, 2019
Episode 36: Why Is This Happening?
Episode 36: Why Is This Happening?
I've always been fascinated by human behaviour and as I dig deep into research and observation, I am finding gems into why we do what we do. Why do colleagues have conflicts? Why do directors have unresolved disputes? Why do marriages end in divorce? Could it be something that can be stopped or changed? Let's reflect...
11:47
February 26, 2019
Episode 35 Parenting Style Becomes Leadership Style
Episode 35 Parenting Style Becomes Leadership Style
Whatever style our parents used in our upbringing, goes with us in life, work, and marriage. To have a better understanding of your life and why you do what you do. Take a look at your parent's style.
07:31
February 19, 2019
Episode 34 Motivated By Movement
Episode 34 Motivated By Movement
Are you competitive, energetic and charming? Red people are action people. Let's build
06:04
February 12, 2019
Episode 33 Are You Blue
Episode 33 Are You Blue
Blue people account for 15% of the population and all they really want is HARMONY. Are you one of them?
05:24
January 29, 2019
Episode 32 Where Are My Diamonds?
Episode 32 Where Are My Diamonds?
You stand right in the middle of your own acre of diamonds, can you see them?
03:39
January 15, 2019
Episode 31 What's My Attitude?
Episode 31 What's My Attitude?
One ingredient that the greats use is attitude. I have a personal connection with this ingredient because I was on the negative end while growing up and I learned the hard way. So in 2019, take a look at your attitude.
06:03
January 08, 2019
Episode 30 Am I Living or Surviving
Episode 30 Am I Living or Surviving
Almost the whole population is living in s vicious circle, save for a few. As we wrap up the year it's critical to take this question into stock, am I living?
02:01
December 04, 2018
Episode 29 What Am I Becoming Here?
Episode 29 What Am I Becoming Here?
Always take a look.
03:11
November 13, 2018
Episode 28 What Am I Feeding My Mind?
Episode 28 What Am I Feeding My Mind?
You and I are products of our thoughts.
03:01
November 06, 2018
Episode 27 How far have I stretched myself?
Episode 27 How far have I stretched myself?
The master teacher gave an important lesson of doing more than we are rewarded for, check yourself against this principle.
02:48
October 30, 2018
Episode 26 Where Is My Creativity
Episode 26 Where Is My Creativity
No one is more creative than another. We are all made in God's image, therefore we are creative
02:40
October 23, 2018
Episode 25 What IDEA?
Episode 25 What IDEA?
All we see that is man made was once an idea. So what idea are you working on?
02:59
October 09, 2018
Episode 24 What Does Your Space Say?
Episode 24 What Does Your Space Say?
We are constantly in one space or another and we never really observe what it says about us. Let's reflect on this.
02:36
October 02, 2018
Episode 23 Have You DECIDED To Be Happ?
Episode 23 Have You DECIDED To Be Happ?
Happiness is your birth right, so let's go within and bring it to the world
02:32
September 25, 2018
Episode 22 What Vision Do You Have For Your Life?
Episode 22 What Vision Do You Have For Your Life?
Are you using your visualization power to the full or squandering it?
01:59
September 18, 2018
Episode 21 What Am I Thinking?
Episode 21 What Am I Thinking?
Sometimes we drift into negative mode without being aware, it is important to have a from time to time. So ask the question.
02:44
September 11, 2018
Episode 20 How Do You Deal With Change?
Episode 20 How Do You Deal With Change?
They say change is the only constant but most of us find it difficult to change when necessary. So take a moment to explore your attitude towards change.
02:36
August 28, 2018
Episode 19 Do You Trust The Process?
Episode 19 Do You Trust The Process?
We all know that we want to do better and we have an idea of what we want. But we neglect the process and try to do things with our own might. So this is a reminder that there is a process and we have to trust it.
02:40
August 21, 2018
Episode 18 What's Season Is It?
Episode 18 What's Season Is It?
Just like our planet goes through different seasons, so do our lives. Sadly we usually like one season and have difficulty with the other three, and it's the same with our lives, we love it when its good. And there are those amongst us who like difficult times only. So let's take a closer look.
02:38
August 14, 2018
Episode 17 What Mental diet am I on?
Episode 17 What Mental diet am I on?
Our mind needs nourishing food just like our body. So check the food you feed the mind with because it will determine the results you get
03:11
August 07, 2018
Episode 16 Am I On Autopilot?
Episode 16 Am I On Autopilot?
Habits are like mathematical formulae that we depend on so we don't have to figure out a sum. Hence we have timetables memorized and in the same sense our habits are memorized. Dive in and check if you aren't on autopilot.
03:53
July 31, 2018
Episode 15 What Would They See?
Episode 15 What Would They See?
Do you remember a time when you were walking in your neighbourhood and saw a home with a well nurtured garden, what came to mind? And do you recall seeing a home with a neglected garden, what came to mine then? Our minds are like a garden they need nurturing. Tune in and let's reflect...
02:55
July 24, 2018
Episode 14 What Kind of Person
Episode 14 What Kind of Person
Whether we are still building our dreams or have accomplished them its important to take a look at the kind of person we are more than what we have achieved. Especially if we are successful. Tune in and lets reflect.
03:27
July 17, 2018
Episode 13 How Did I Get Over It?
Episode 13 How Did I Get Over It?
We all have times when we feel like we'll never make it. But we actually do make it. It's important to look to how we made it, to find our 'how to mechanism'. Lets ponder together as we move to the second half of the year we want to know what works for us.
03:01
July 10, 2018
Episode 12 If I Sold My Life Today...
Episode 12 If I Sold My Life Today...
How am I living my life is a question that comes across as simple, but we never really can provide the answer to it. And today we raise it in a new perspective so you can step aside and evaluate as a third party and provide the answer. It's time to reflect!
04:04
July 03, 2018
Episode 11 What if I must pay for your mistake?
Episode 11 What if I must pay for your mistake?
We sometimes find ourselves in a compromised position when we have to pay for a mistake we did not make. That is our focus today!!!
02:41
June 26, 2018
How Do I Handle Character Pressure?
How Do I Handle Character Pressure?
Character is who we are, and we are evaluated (not judged) by it. Am I a person of character who stands up for it, or am I a willy nilly and bend to please others at the expense of character? In a moment of pressure when I am put in a corner and can compromise a promise made in confidence the question is, 'what would a wise man/woman do?'
04:33
June 19, 2018
Character Counts
Character Counts
Companies are destroying their reputations because some of their leaders compromised their character. Companies are running out of money because some of their leaders compromised their values. It is always important to take a look at our character.
04:14
June 12, 2018
What Is Your Work Philosophy
What Is Your Work Philosophy
We lives in a society that values entertainment more than enrichment. Due to difficulty of living many have succumbed to a comfort zone. To impact society how do we help them if we are already successful? And if we are stuck how do we rise?
06:21
June 05, 2018
How Do You Handle Losing
How Do You Handle Losing
At one point or another in our lives we lose something or some. How we handle it says a lot about us and that is how others read us. Let us reflect on this as we all face these trials in our lives
06:35
May 29, 2018
What Do I SEE
What Do I SEE
Perspective is one of the higher mental faculties. Sadly for many of it is not trained. In this episode we reflect on what impacts our perspective. Do I see obstacles or opportunities.
06:13
May 22, 2018
How Can I Serve
How Can I Serve
We are all here to serve, but we quickly forget that because of difficulty or being focused on what is happening around us. It is always valuable to take a look at our service, to our families, work, business, and global community. Am I doing the best I can?
07:48
May 15, 2018
What Can You Do
What Can You Do
We live in trying times that demand that we prove what we can do. It is no longer about how qualified we are. Let's ponder on this...
15:05
May 08, 2018
What You Believe
What You Believe
Our lives are shaped by what we believe. When was the last time you took a look at what you believe? This is necessary irrespective of your achievements or lack of them. Join me in pondering over this all important reflection
07:54
May 01, 2018
From Inanda FM
From Inanda FM
This episode is from my radio sessions on Inanda FM
08:54
April 26, 2018