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Living In The 3rd Degree With BPD

Living In The 3rd Degree With BPD

By Krazy Papa
This podcast is based on my perspectives and experience of my 33 year marriage to my wife who is diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder.
My stories are all based on the 33 years of challenges of the relationship and raising a family. I do not have any professional experience with BPD. all my experience was gained through the challenges, turmoil and chaos. What has kept me in the relationship for so long is I’ve learned:
“To love them is to understand them.”
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4 Wheeling the situations and emotions
This episode deals with the analogy of off road 4 wheeling when it comes to our situations and emotional rollercoaster.
December 14, 2020
17 second rule
I applied the 17 second rule to my wife with borderline personality disorder to get her to realize that I do love her and to get her thoughts away from a relationship she had when we were apart hopefully you can apply this to a situation in your own life.
October 13, 2020
Is this the end or the start of a new chapter?
This episode explains that this could be the end of my marriage for the last time after being with my wife for 33 years after I found out some information and realizing my life is Merry-Go-Round and will never change being in the situation with her not wanting to change herself.
October 8, 2020
Listener submitted Email: Paranoia with BPD.
And listeners submitted a comments and questions in regards to her thinking she has paranoia along with BPD.
October 2, 2020
Do as I say, not as I do!
Do as I say not as I do deals with exactly what the title is it is okay for my wife to do things but if I do just repercussions for it so since she makes the rules that's exactly how it is do as I say not as I doI have told her before you make the rules so you can bend the rules you can change the rules because you make the rules
September 14, 2020
The silent shame and guilt.
When it comes to someone with borderline personality disorder it's hard for them to apologize because they feel shame and guilt this episode covers why it's so hard for a person with BPD to apologize about the ax they commit when they have an episode.
September 4, 2020
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but her words break my heart!
And this episode I'll be discussing how bad people with BPD can rip words out of their mouth before they think that are unnecessary and completely unforgivable can cause so much havoc that it can ruin a completely broken relationship and possibly take somebody's life.
September 2, 2020
Paranoia and the detailed delusions.
This episode deals with people with BPD that have paranoia and detailed delusions and the confusion between slight delusions that include jealousy and stories opposed to deep full-blown detailed delusions.
August 29, 2020
Sneak peek into season 2!!!
This isn't really an episode as it is a sneak peek into what I plan on putting in for content and structure for episodes going into season 2. I encourage you to listen and then send me your comments or emails into suggestions on how I can structure my episodes and content better to help you if you have BPD or if you are someone who has a loved one with BPD.
August 26, 2020
Why do I keep going back???
This episode focuses on the question that we always get from other people asking us why we keep going back to the person and situation! and at the same time people with BPD may ask their rather have why they keep coming back to them and the same situation.
August 26, 2020
Insult to injury
In this episode will be discussing matches that hurt that is inflicted on somebody by the person who has BPD but the additional hurt on top of that which brings up the term and so the injury.
August 25, 2020
A broken record when we fight!
This episode deals with my experience and I fight with my wife during a BPD episode she literally acts like a broken record and brings up the same stuff during every single argument which is completely irrelevant to the initial argument.
August 6, 2020
To tease or not to tease... That is the question.
This episode is about frustration even though I don't like I understand and try to apply rules when it comes to BPD with my wife. I'm only human and sometimes you have to apply those rules.
July 29, 2020
1 step forward and 2 steps back.
This episode is my experience with dealing with someone with borderline personality disorder applying skills tips and tricks on dealing with somebody with borderline personality disorder and sometimes it put you ahead one 1 step and then a day later you can have been put two steps back.
July 27, 2020
Is conforming and tiptoeing enabling?
This episode describes the difference between conforming and tiptoeing I believe that can for me is being proactive in tiptoeing is being in the moment.
June 16, 2020
A BP's best person
This episode has to do with a person who has borderline personality disorder that has a best person in their life which can be a boyfriend or girlfriend a husband or wife and the problems and stresses by being that this person.
June 15, 2020
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) subtypes.
This episode deals with the subtypes involved with borderline personality disorder that make the disorder that much more difficult to deal with.
June 15, 2020
One sided guilt and sorrow felt by the NON-BP.
This episode is about a NON-BP that displays the guilt and sorrow felt after an argument with somebody that has borderline personality disorder.
May 21, 2020
The black and white of BPD
This is a very special episode that I hope people with BPD and those who don't have it but live with somebody who'd BPDcan listen to this and understand a lot more that not only do we fight with the evil side and the good side but how I think they're splitting size fight against each other and actually have jealousy I can see each other considering they have two separate personalities.
May 21, 2020
One sided apologies
This episode cover the subject of how the person who is with someone who has BPD finds themselves always being the one having to apologize for getting the person with BPD upset or they are told to apologize for getting the person with BPD upset, which puts a burden on the non-BPD thing they always at faut for triggering their episodes.
May 21, 2020
Tiptoeing and Walking on eggshells around BPD.
There are a variety of triggers that can set up somebody with borderline personality disorder and sometimes those same triggers do not set them off into an episode and other times they will hence walking on eggshells around someone with somebody with borderline personality disorder.
May 21, 2020
Welcome! Let me introduce myself....
this podcast is the first episode to introduce myself and what my purpose is behind this podcast as well as my background, how I optain my information all to be as helpful and supportive to others like myself who has a lived one who suffers from borderline personality disorder otherwise known as BPD.
May 21, 2020
BPD Triggers
This episode will discuss triggers associated with borderline personality disorder sometimes they get new triggers which sometimes replace old ones and other times they just add to the old ones making the disorder that much harder to handle for those who are associated with the person that has borderline personality disorder.
March 13, 2020