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Lady to Lady

By Lady to Lady

Comedians Barbara Gray, Brandie Posey, and Tess Barker host this hilarious and raw weekly show in which they invite a fourth notable guest to play sleepover games, answer advice, and delve into ridiculous tangents.
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"It's Never Too Late to Dump Him" ft. Rhea Butcher

Lady to LadyMar 04, 2020

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01:10:52
"Vacation Vibes" ft. Chelsey Weber-Smith
Aug 26, 202054:43
"Skate Gang" ft. Sasheer Zamata
Aug 19, 202058:31
"The Pink Circle" ft. Michelle Biloon
Aug 12, 202001:03:51
"It's Always Hump Day Somewhere" ft. Gillian McGhee

"It's Always Hump Day Somewhere" ft. Gillian McGhee

Gillian McGhee (@hiho_gillian) joins the ladies this week to talk about the struggle to be creative right now, being mindful, and her love of Hilary Duff. The ladies also discuss their childhood crushes, Brandie gets contacted by a former bully, and they compare NYSNC and Backstreet Boys band members. They read out a few lady problem follow-ups, including some “tea” on Yogi Tea’s horrible inspirational quotes.

Send us your lady problems! Email us your questions at
ladytoladycomedy@gmail.com and we’ll answer them on the show.

The Ladies are doing a live show! Join the ladies August 16th at 6PM PT on Zoom for a show full of comedy, special guests, and more. Get tickets over NowhereComedyClub.com.

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Aug 05, 202001:23:44
"Zombies, Robots, and Drugs" ft. Francesca Fiorentini
Jul 29, 202001:10:59
"Zoom Cults" ft. Danielle Perez
Jul 22, 202001:20:56
"Darth Marmalade" ft. Eddie Pepitone

"Darth Marmalade" ft. Eddie Pepitone

Eddie Pepitone (EddiePepitone.com) joins the ladies to talk about the comedy business, what building he would marry, and his new comedy special. They also discuss ant infestations, weird landlord issues, and which books they would fuck. They answer a lady problem from a listener who’s debating telling a stranger that their partner is cheating on them.

We need your lady problems! Email us at
LadytoLadyComedy@gmail.com and we’ll do our best to solve your pandemic woes.

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Jul 15, 202001:05:19
"Pasties Only" ft. Our Anxiety!

"Pasties Only" ft. Our Anxiety!

This week it's just Barbara, Brandie, and Tess (and their anxiety over the pandemic). The ladies learn about the different waves of Ska, answer job interview questions, and share stories of getting kicked out of casinos in Vegas for not wearing enough clothes. They answer a lady problem from a listener who's torn between moving to Colorado or moving with their boyfriend to California.
Jul 08, 202057:18
"Karen Anonymous Meetings" ft. Deb DiGiovanni
Jul 01, 202001:08:13
"Space Conspiracies" ft. Henry Zebrowski
Jun 24, 202001:05:17
"Anti-Science" ft. Katrina Davis

"Anti-Science" ft. Katrina Davis

Katrina Davis (@KatrinaSivad) joins the ladies this week to talk about creating art right now, ways to hold yourself accountable, and laughing in the face of negativity. The ladies also cover crazies on Nextdoor, deprogramming their thoughts about the police, and the importance of self care. They answer a lady problem from a listener who is a monologist dating a polyamorous person and struggling with their open relationship.

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Patreon.com/LadytoLady to support the show and get access to our weekly Top Secret Session, which is ~too hot~ for the regular feed.

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Jun 17, 202001:19:59
"Rave Grandma" ft. Andy Iwancio
Jun 10, 202001:07:18
Black Lives Matter
Jun 03, 202001:02:52
"Crow Drama" ft. Amber Nelson
May 27, 202001:02:14
"TikTok Famous" ft. Sarah Cooper
May 20, 202057:35
"My Little Trash Cave" ft. Beebs
May 13, 202001:11:02
"Beverly Hills Adjacent" ft. Cristela Alonzo

"Beverly Hills Adjacent" ft. Cristela Alonzo

Cristela Alonzo (@Cristela9) joins the ladies to talk about cosplaying, reality shows, and Hot Cheetos. The ladies also cover quarantine coincidences, Peloton conspiracy theories, and being offered pork chops by Henry Winkler.

Please send us your lady problems! Need advice about literally anything? Email us at
ladytoladycomedy@gmail.com and we’ll answer your lady problem on the show.

Brandie’s hilarious comedy show Picture This! is going digital on Saturday afternoons! Only 100 tickets are available for each show, so reserve yours, Venmo $10 to Naked Comedy and mention Picture This and your email address. You’ll get a Zoom Link on Friday evening. Hope to see you there!
May 06, 202001:05:34
"What Would Tom Hanks Do?" ft. Jimmy Pardo
Apr 29, 202001:06:49
"King Wood" ft. Aisha Tyler
Apr 22, 202001:05:44
"Hot Guy Energy" ft. Maria Bamford
Apr 15, 202001:04:21
"Flipping Bidets" ft. Maggie Maye
Apr 08, 202054:50
"Taco Bell Troll" ft. Georgea Brooks
Apr 01, 202001:08:07
"A Perfect Turd" ft. Anna Valenzuela

"A Perfect Turd" ft. Anna Valenzuela

This week, Anna Valenzuela (@AnnaVisFun) subs in for Tess and the ladies discuss spending another week in quarantine. They talk about how weird it is to not be able to hug your friends in the wild, being single during quarantine, and Anna shares a story about finding a turd in a suitcase (not recently). They answer a lady problem from a listener who’s struggling with a breakup with someone they really liked but have incompatible life goals.

Thank you to all of our new Patreon members! If you’d like to support the show during these crazy times, join us over at
Patreon.com/LadytoLady to enjoy ad-free episodes, bonus content, and more!

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Mar 25, 202001:08:46
Bonus Episode - Inside the Ladies' Studio

Bonus Episode - Inside the Ladies' Studio

We know a lot of you are stuck are home right now, maybe working on a puzzle or staring into the void, so the ladies wanted to give you a little something extra for your earbuds. This is the March bonus episode we recorded for Patreon. We thought we'd drop it in the main feed to give you a taste of what we're doing over there! If you're interested in more, come over to our patreon and see all the sweet bonus content we're dishing out. Thanks so much for listening and we'll see you on our regularly scheduled Wednesday!
Mar 23, 202055:39
Ladies in Quarantine!
Mar 18, 202001:07:06
Live From Boise!
Mar 11, 202058:02
"It's Never Too Late to Dump Him" ft. Rhea Butcher

"It's Never Too Late to Dump Him" ft. Rhea Butcher

Rhea Butcher (@RheaButcher) joins the ladies this week to talk about being a hoarder, their MySpace days, and their baseball podcast Three Swings. The ladies also talk about weird flight habits, the Thong song's 20th anniversary, and that gross hot dog waffle thing circulating on Twitter. They answer two ladies problems: one from a listener whose terminally ill family member wants to leave her husband, and one from a listener who doesn't know how to support her lost boyfriend. Support the podcast over at Patreon.com/LadytoLady and get access to Barbara's super sweet travel hacks on this week's Top Secret Session! Lady to Lady is headed to Boise, Idaho March 7 & 8! Head over to https://ladytoladycomedy.com/see-us-on-tour/ to learn more and get your tickets! Get high-quality meats delivered to your doorstep with Butcher Box! Get 2 pounds of ground beef FREE in every box for the length of your subscription and $20 off of your first box when you go to ButcherBox.com/L2L or use code “L2L” at checkout.
Mar 04, 202001:10:52
"Gourmet Slime" ft. Eman El-Husseini

"Gourmet Slime" ft. Eman El-Husseini

Eman El-Husseini (@Emanifique) joins the ladies to talk about her fear of the ocean, having a joint comedy cartoon Instagram account with her wife, and why cake is better than donuts. The ladies also cover meeting Lin Manuel Miranda (!!!), crazy Oscar gift bags, and the best ways to distract your significant other to get out of a fight. They answer a lady problem from a married listener who is experiencing relationship burnout and is fantasizing about being single again. Lady to Lady is headed to Boise, Idaho March 7 & 8! Head over to https://ladytoladycomedy.com/see-us-on-tour/ to learn more and get your tickets! Head on over to Patreon.com/LadytoLady to listen to our February Bonus episode AND our steamy weekly Top Secret Session. It’s ~too hot~ for the regular feed. Fill in the vitamin gaps in your diet with Ritual vitamins. Get 10% off during the first 3 months of using Ritual by going to Ritual.com/LADY. Stay hydrated while drinking less liquids with Liquid IV! Get 25% off your order by going to LiquidIV.com and using code LADY at checkout. Get your perfect-fitting bra today! Go to ThirdLove.com/LADY for 15% off of your first bra.
Feb 26, 202001:12:15
"Business Fuckboy" ft. Tiff Stevenson

"Business Fuckboy" ft. Tiff Stevenson

Tiff Stevenson (@TiffStevendon) joins the ladies to discuss being a stepmom, sexist marketing, and how classy Danny DeVito is. The ladies also chat about masturbation routines, the Black Eyed Peas songs, and pheromone parties. They answer a lady problem from a listener who’s former crush is now dating her friend, and her conflicted feelings about it. Lady to Lady is headed to Boise, Idaho March 7 & 8! Head over to https://ladytoladycomedy.com/see-us-on-tour/ to learn more and get your tickets! Barbara’s doing a LIVE one-woman show called “Babs Do It” at the Lyric Hyperion in Los Angeles! Get your tickets and check it out on Sunday February 23rd. Head on over to Patreon.com/LadytoLady to listen to our February Bonus episode AND our steamy weekly Top Secret Session. It’s ~too hot~ for the regular feed. Learn about your hormones with Modern Fertility. Get $20 off of your fertility test at ModernFertility.com/LADY. Rothy’s has cute and stylish everyday shoes made from recycled water bottles, so you can feel good about what you put on your feet. Head over to Rothys.com/LADY to get you new pair today.
Feb 19, 202001:16:12
"Good Pain" ft. Alexi Pappas

"Good Pain" ft. Alexi Pappas

Alexi Pappas (@AlexiPappas) joins the ladies to talk about being an olympian, good vs bad pain, and about her new movie Olympic Dreams (co-starring Nick Kroll!). The ladies also cover running marathons, the best way to deal with challenges, and when to give up. They answer a lady problem from a listener who’s having trouble finding a relationship when her job constantly relocates her to different countries. Lady to Lady is headed to Boise, Idaho March 7 & 8! Head over to https://ladytoladycomedy.com/see-us-on-tour/ to learn more and get your tickets! Barbara’s doing a LIVE one-woman show called “Babs Do It” at the Lyric Hyperion in Los Angeles! Get your tickets and check it out on Sunday February 23rd. Head on over to Patreon.com/LadytoLady to listen to our February Bonus episode AND our steamy weekly Top Secret Session. It’s ~too hot~ for the regular feed.
Feb 12, 202048:13
"Lady Tushie" ft. Kelly McInerney

"Lady Tushie" ft. Kelly McInerney

Kelly McInerney (@hollyweirdo) joins the ladies to talk about her podcast IMDWeed, her Baywatch obsession, and her connection to "YOLO." The ladies also discuss going to haunted places, Zac Efron's abs, and Jennifer Aniston's career progression. They answer a lady problem from a listener who relocated to a new city and wants to know how to meet people who aren't just her coworkers.

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Feb 05, 202001:00:14
"Chihuahua Energy" ft. Jessica Lanyadoo

"Chihuahua Energy" ft. Jessica Lanyadoo

Astrologist, psychic medium, and host of Ghost of a Podcast Jessica Lanyadoo (@JessicaLanyadoo) stops by to talk with the ladies about becoming an astrologer, learning to communicate with animals, and how San Francisco is rapidly changing. She also communicates with Tess' dog Garth and Barbara's cat Archie to tell the ladies what they REALLY think about them . . .

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Jan 29, 202001:08:58
"Horny for Acting" ft. Shantira Jackson

"Horny for Acting" ft. Shantira Jackson

Shantira Jackson (@Tira_Tira_Tira) swings by the podcast to talk about writing for the Saved By the Bell reboot, her hatred of snow, and how she explains her job to her parents. The ladies also ship Friends and The Office characters together, talk about makeup sex, and CATS the movie. They answer a lady problem from a listener who’s unsure of how to handle going on vacation with a friend that she also supervises at work.

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Jan 22, 202001:14:57
"Sizzler Night Club" ft. Erin Lampart
Jan 15, 202001:03:03
"Chorus of Cackles" ft. Angela Lovell and Renee Watt

"Chorus of Cackles" ft. Angela Lovell and Renee Watt

This week, psychic witches Angela Lovell (@lovellable) and Renee Watt (@RainbowGlitterStar) drop by to talk about witch jars, marking your territory, and collecting skulls. The ladies also discuss empaths, the movie Cats, and, tbh, just a lot about urinating. Angela and Renee also give their predictions for the year ahead.

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Jan 08, 202001:17:48
"Hindsight is 2020" ft. Anna Valenzuela
Jan 01, 202001:09:20
"Ebenezer Screwed" with Just the Ladies
Dec 25, 201901:02:53
"Starfish Dick" ft. Nina Tarr

"Starfish Dick" ft. Nina Tarr

Nina Tarr (@PizzaParty69) joins the ladies to dish on the illuminati, what it’s like to be in a pyramid scheme, and her favorite hacks for not getting sick. The ladies also discuss IV drips for hangovers, wanting to fuck Crispin Glover, and the joys of going bra-less.

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Dec 18, 201901:24:02
"Barbara's Horny Poems" ft. Aisha Faroud
Dec 11, 201901:14:00
"Theater Kid Energy" ft. Maddie Connors
Dec 04, 201901:14:14
"Wine Mom Naughty" ft. Robby Hoffman

"Wine Mom Naughty" ft. Robby Hoffman

Robby Hoffman (@RobbyHoffman) joins the ladies to discuss her upcoming show, threesomes, and growing up orthodox jewish. They also chat about Tess' recent viral tweet, astrology, and what Muppets match their personalities. They answer a lady problem from a listener who's afraid she's being an asshole at work.

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Nov 27, 201901:09:16
"Controversial Crush" ft. Mary Houlihan

"Controversial Crush" ft. Mary Houlihan

Mary Houlihan (@MaryHoulie) swings by to talk with the ladies about her one woman show "Me and Jack," her first celeb crush, and her aversion to E.T. The ladies also talk about the Ernest movie series, Delia*s catalogues, and how to throw the best party. They answer a lady problem from a listener who's afraid she's turning into a "crazy cat lady."

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Nov 20, 201901:06:28
"Clam Cave" ft. DeAnne Smith
Nov 13, 201901:05:30
"Blood Scams" ft. Laci Mosley
Nov 06, 201901:10:27
"Airport Pub Crawl" ft. Katie Bowman
Oct 30, 201901:15:12
"Toilet Interview" ft. Liz Glazer

"Toilet Interview" ft. Liz Glazer

EPISODE SUMMARY
Liz Glazer (@LizGlazer) stops by to chat about transcendental meditation, her love of Riverdale, and taking imaginary interviews on the toilet. The ladies also discuss celebrity home tours and cults. They answer a lady problem from a listener who’s tired of cumming too fast while masturbating.

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Oct 23, 201901:14:05
"Poppers with Dracula" ft. Nick Wiger

"Poppers with Dracula" ft. Nick Wiger

Nick Wiger (@NickWiger) from Doughboys joins the ladies this week to talk about ordering pasta at Portillos, 2000s trends, and his adventure to an anti-Halloween party one year. They also discuss VSCO girls, poppers, and which monster would be the best to party with. They answer a lady problem from a listener with a clingy friend who's starting to become suffocating.

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Oct 16, 201901:14:56
"Unprotected Sax" ft. Ali Spagnola
Oct 09, 201952:07
"Poops I Did it Again" ft. Lisa Curry
Oct 02, 201901:11:10
"My Lil' Hoarder" ft. Christine Medrano

"My Lil' Hoarder" ft. Christine Medrano

Christine Medrano (@ChrissyMeds) stops by to chat about her WIkiFeet ratings, IMDB message boards, and getting escorted out of a Vegas casino. The ladies also talk about high school hazing, ass cracks, and the dreaded low rise jeans. They answer a lady problem from a listener who wants to go braless and not feel self-conscious about it.

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Sep 25, 201901:10:41