Whole Hearted Leadership with Lantz Howard
By Lantz Howard
Lantz has coaching conversations with leaders like John Delony, John Eldredge, Garrett Unclebach, Jordan Raynor, Brent Beshore, Jon Tyson, William Vanderblomen, Shawn Tolleson, Ben Dozier, Ryan Michler, Morgan Snyder, and Josh Straub.
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125 | Why You Need a Strategic Thinking Partner | Founder and CEO of Building Champions Daniel Harkavy
Daniel Harkavy is the Founder and CEO of Building Champions and SetPath. Building Champions is an executive coaching and leadership development firm focused on helping leaders achieve success in business and life. SetPath is a community benefit nonprofit that helps young adults discover their true potential through life planning and mentoring.
What I learned from my conversation with Daniel:
- When they see you as husband or wife, do they see the Divininess of God? Treating your bride to be more radiant because she has felt the reality of Christ in you.
- Planning your life with the mindset of a steward based on your unique role will help you be less anxious.
- When hiring a coach, you need to find one who listens well, who has the gift of exhortation, who has a toolkit, self-leadership, and why your coach does not need to know your industry to serve you.
- Surround yourself with many smart people who bring ou the best in you and those around you. You need a thinking partner who is not biased in your organization.
- The more time in the coach's chair the more valuable you become to businesses and organizations because you begin to have a front seat into the nuances of various industries.
- The pursuit of becoming a man, a leader, a husband is the journey of becoming more like Christ.
- It is good to ask for help. It is good to acknowledge that you have fears and insecurities.
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124 | Hospitality is the Salt and How to Create a Unique Brand Today | Founder of Beloved Hospitality Nathan Woods
Nathan Woods is the Founder of Beloved Hospitality, who helps businesses build trust, loyalty, and meaningful growth through leadership development, customer journey innovation, and a culture of hospitality. Nathan is an Unreasonable Hospitality Certified Consultant.
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What I learned during my conversation with Nathan.
- Hospitality is the simple act of thinking about and preparing for others before their arrival.
- Create an onboarding experience for new clients that closes the gap of potential buyer's remorse.
- Stop sending branded apparel. Get to know those you serve and send bespoke items that represent their unique identity.
- The local church needs to get creative again by being first-class in this space because business leaders are currently front-runners.
- Think of creative ways to serve a family if the husband is away on a leadership adventure.
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123 | Transforming Your Life When Will Power Isn't Enough | Author John Ortberg
John Ortberg, a well-known author and pastor, joined Lantz Howard on the Whole Hearted Leadership podcast to discuss personal growth, spiritual journeys, and the importance of meaningful relationships. They explored topics such as mentorship, character formation, and the significance of the 12-step program in personal transformation and spiritual growth. The conversation also touched on the value of authenticity, vulnerability, and embracing life's challenges as opportunities for growth and deeper connection with God.
Check out John's latest book:
Steps: A Guide to Transforming Your Life When Will Power Isn't Enough
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122 | Making Sense of Your Leadership Story | Author and Therapist Adam Young
Lantz Howard and Adam Young, counselor and author of Making Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything, dive into the power of personal reflection, storytelling, and play in leadership, marriage, and life. Adam shares how understanding our past, especially through the lens of neuroscience, frees us to lead with creativity and emotional intelligence. They discuss the importance of self-kindness in leadership, the impact of childhood experiences on leadership style, and the healing power of forgiveness.
Key insights include:
Neuroscience and Leadership: How early experiences shape leadership potential.
Kindness in Healing: The importance of self-compassion in leadership growth.
Storytelling: Understanding your family of origin to clarify your leadership calling.
The Role of Play: How play fosters connection and emotional resilience.
Forgiveness and Wounds: Acknowledging past hurts for deeper healing.
This episode encourages leaders to reflect, embrace their story, and lead more wholeheartedly.
Adam Young https://adamyoungcounseling.com/
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121 | Everything is Never Enough: Surprising Path to Resilient Happiness | Author Bobby Jamieson
Lantz Howard and Bobby Jamieson author of Everything is Never Enough: Surprising Path to Resilent Happiness, explore how leaders can cultivate a healthier work-life balance and deeper relationships by embracing receptivity and contentment. Bobby shares practical habits like intentional date nights and reflects on how the Book of Ecclesiastes has shaped his view of leadership—not as striving, but as receiving life as a gift. This conversation is a reminder to lead with presence, patience, and gratitude.
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120 | Integrated Faith as an Entrepreneur and True Identity | Founder Andrew Clark of the Jeremiah Fund
Andrew Clark shares insights on faith, marriage, and business, highlighting the importance of integrating Christian values into entrepreneurship. He reflects on 21 years of an intentional marriage, the origin of the Lion’s Den investor network, and his journey from ministry to marketplace. Andrew discusses his investment philosophy through the Jeremiah Fund and the value of walking with founders in both business and spiritual growth. At the heart of the conversation is a call to find identity in Christ, live with purpose, and lead with a faith that goes beyond worldly success.
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119 | Restoring Marriages and Small Communities | Founder John Marsh with Marsh Collective
In this powerful episode of the Wholehearted Leadership podcast, host Lantz Howard sits down with John Marsh, co-founder of Marsh Collective and a seasoned real estate investor whose work has stewarded over $2 billion in assets. But behind the business success is a remarkable story of personal transformation, resilience, and redemption.
John opens up about his journey from rebellion and addiction to reconciliation and renewal—both in his marriage and his mission. He shares how a spiritual encounter in the midst of adversity led to a profound shift in his life, eventually reconciling with his wife, Ashley. Their story has since helped over 200 couples find hope and healing in their own relationships.
Throughout the conversation, John and Lantz explore:
The role of faith and intentionality in overcoming hardship
The power of love and vulnerability in building strong marriages
Why understanding your and your spouse’s communication styles (thinker vs. feeler, present vs. future) matters
How creating emotional safety helps couples dream and reconnect
John’s vision for transforming small towns by generating social, spiritual, and economic capital through real estate and mentorship
Whether you're seeking renewal in your marriage, leadership in your community, or hope for your own redemption story, this episode is a heart-opening invitation to lead and live with intention.
Connect with John Marsh: marshcollective.com
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118 | Understanding the Enneagram Through the Lens of the Gospel| Founders of Your Enneagram Coach Jeff and Beth McCord
In this thought-provoking episode, Jeff and Beth McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, join Lantz Howard to explore the Enneagram as a tool for spiritual growth and self-awareness through the lens of the gospel. Beth unpacks the relevance of the Enneagram for both gospel-believing individuals and seekers, clarifying that it’s not a replacement for our identity in Christ, but rather a pathway to better understand our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
Throughout the conversation, the McCords emphasize that embracing your Enneagram type is not about labeling, but about recognizing how God uniquely designed you. They point to the importance of spiritual formation, freedom, and transformation through Christ, urging listeners to look beyond the type and toward the healing and wholeness found in Jesus.
Find Beth and Jeff McCord over at www.yourenneagramcoach.com
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117 | Building a Generous Water Bottle Company | Co-Founder of Simple Modern Mike Beckham
In this episode of Whole Hearted Leadership, Lantz Howard sits down with Mike Beckham, co-founder and CEO of Simple Modern to discuss the power of generosity in leadership and business. Mike shares his journey of building a purpose-driven company, how intentional relationships impact leadership, and the surprising connection between personal values and business success. Tune in to hear insights on leading with heart, balancing family and leadership, and why small, consistent actions create lasting impact.
"We exist to give generously. Since starting in 2016, we have given away over $10M to more than 1,000 non-profits. As a leading drinkware and consumer goods company, Simple Modern gives at least 10% of annual profits to communities around the world, equaling millions in donations since the company’s founding in 2015."
Key Topics:
- The role of generosity in leadership
- Lessons from building a purpose-driven company
- The intersection of business and personal values
- Leadership through intentional relationships
- How to balance family and professional success
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116 | Lessons from Building a North Texas Coffee Business | Founder Brian Masters of Hope Coffee
I had the privilege of having a conversation with Brian Masters Founder of Hope Coffee and his story about starting a coffee business with a $7500 loan. In our conversation, you will learn how to expand your business, lead with generosity, and what makes a great barista. If you are around North Texas be sure to drop into one of their locations or if you want a good Spotify playlist while you drink your coffee check out their website below.
https://hopecoffee.com/
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115 | Building a Passionate Marriage, the Role of Storywork and Coaching for Small Business Owners | CEO and President Jonathan Duarte
In this episode, Lantz Howard welcomes Jonathan Duarte, CEO and President of a family-run business. The conversation dives into practical and heartfelt leadership principles, covering:
How to fire someone with integrity and compassion: Strategies for handling tough conversations while maintaining dignity and trust.
Building a dynamic, passionate marriage: Balancing leadership at home and in business, and how deep relationships fuel success.
Integrating Jesus and money in business: Shaping financial decisions through faith-driven leadership and stewardship.
Jonathan’s leadership journey: Lessons learned in running a family business, navigating challenges, and growing with purpose.
Join us for an insightful conversation that blends wisdom, faith, and practical leadership guidance for wholehearted living.
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114 | Next Level Sexual and Spiritual Intimacy | One Extraordinary Marriage Founders Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo
Lantz Howard and Tony and Alisa have a deep conversation about how to grow the depth of your marriage through spiritual and sexual intimacy. If you are wanting to take your marriage to the next level and undercover roadblocks to deeper passion and more peace join the conversation. If you find the conversation meaningful share with a friend and your spouse.
OneExtraordianry Marriage
https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/
https://www.instagram.com/oneextraordinarymarriage/
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113 | Spend Life Wisely | President and CEO of First United Bank Greg Massey
Lantz Howard and Greg Massey have a deep conversation about the role of faith, the Holy Spirit, fostering healing organizations, legacy, executive transitions, realigning your heart to a bigger vision, wealth mindset, and a fun question about the role of digital currency.
Greg Massey is the President and CEO of First United Bank. First United has over 80 community banks in Texas and Oklahoma.
First United Bank
https://www.firstunitedbank.com/
Greg on LinkedIn
https://www.linkedin.com/in/greg-massey
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112 | Reclaim Organizational Wellness and Reduce Screen Time | Co-Founder Joey Odom
Lantz Howard and Joey Odom have a strategic conversation with practical insights about the role of the phone in the workplace and what you can do to reclaim your most meaningful relationships for greater impact.
Joey is the Co-Founder of Aro. You can listen to our conversation to get insight into their upcoming rebrand, what they are learning about thinking beyond an exit, and their desire to make a generational impact how in organizations and churches.
Aro
https://www.goaro.com/
Joey Odaom on LinkedIn
https://www.linkedin.com/in/joeyodom
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111 | The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationships | Author Ron and Nan Deal
Lantz Howard, Ron, and Nan Deal discussed the importance of intentional quality time in relationships and the significance of initiating special moments. They also explored the concept of the Pain and Peace Cycle, its impact on relationships, and the importance of maturity, love, trustworthiness, and humility in personal and leadership development. The conversation concluded with a discussion on the importance of practicing communication skills and the 4 steps of the Pain and Peace cycle in improving relationships.
The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationships by Understanding and Managing Yourself
Backed by neuroscience and biblical principles, this book delivers a therapeutic model for couples who want to stop the painful patterns in troubled relationships as well as healthy marriages, so that they can build a stronger connection.
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110 | Discover Your Leadership Attachment Style, Ideas on Raising Girls, Intentionally Pursuing Your Spouse, and The Role of Forgiveness in Your Organization | Leadership Expert Dr. Henry Cloud
Lantz Howard and Dr. Henry Cloud, a psychologist and author, shared insights on relationships, leadership, and personal growth. They discussed the importance of intentionality in relationships, self-awareness in leadership, and the integration of psychology and theology in personal development. Throughout the conversation, Dr. Cloud emphasized the value of perseverance, forgiveness, and understanding attachment styles, while also sharing personal experiences and future plans for his work.
Dr. Henry Cloud is a clinical psychologist, pastor to pastors, and New York Times bestselling author. His 46 books, including the iconic Boundaries, have sold over 20 million copies worldwide. Throughout his storied career as a clinician, he started treatment centers, created breakthrough new models rooted in research, and has been a leading voice on issues of mental health and leadership on a global scale.
https://www.drcloud.com/
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109 | Simple and Proven Ways to Invest In Your Marriage During the Good Seasons | Founder of Stronger Marriage Trey Morgan
Trey and Lea Morgan have been married for over 30 years and have hosted over 150 Stronger Marriage Workshops around the country. Join the conversation for simple ways to take your marriage from good to great. Find a local workshop near you on their site below and follow IG for daily encouragement in your marriage.
https://www.instagram.com/stronger_marriages/.
https://strongermarriageworkshops.com/
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108 | The Responsible Use of AI in Business, Your Faith is Not Separate from Work, Creating a Family Adventure | Co-Founder of Snap Bar Sam Eitzen
Lantz and Sam shared personal experiences, including Sam's upbringing as a missionary kid in Morocco and his experiences as a third culture kid. They also discussed the integration of their faith into their business lives, with Sam emphasizing the importance of loving and serving people in both contexts. Lastly, they discussed the evolution of their company, Snap Bar, and the use of AI tools in their work and personal lives, with a focus on responsible use.
Snapbar creates highly engaging AI-powered photo & video experiences. Increase your event engagement and brand awareness with shareable, user-generated content that gets people talking!
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107 | What are Emotions and Why I Should Care, A Theology of Feelings, Becoming Attuned, Come Home to Your Core Identity | Clinical Director and Author Phil Herndon
Lantz and Phil discussed the importance of establishing a rhythm and cadence in leadership, maintaining passion and intentionality in a long-term relationship, and recognizing and expressing emotions. They also explored the concept of attunement, the role of emotions in human relationships, and the significance of emotional vulnerability and integration in leadership. Lastly, Phil shared his personal journey towards devoting his life to his work, the importance of understanding one's core identity, and his plans to establish a Leadership Center or Institute to help younger leaders maintain emotional and spiritual health.
What is Emotion and Why Should I Care Article
https://www.tinmanministries.org/
"Emotions Unveiled: A Biblical Look at the Theology of Feelings"
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106 | Suffering as a Catalyst for Maturity, How the 12 Steps is For Everyone, Why the Fix is a Community of Wounded Healers | Author and Enneagram Expert Ian Cron
Author of the best selling Enneagram book The Road Back to You, best-selling Ian Cron is on the podcast today sharing about how everyone needs a 12-step community to belong.
Lantz and Ian discussed personal growth, the role of suffering, and the concept of powerlessness about addiction and faith. They also explored the potential of the 12-step program as a tool for personal transformation and its application in different personality types. Lastly, they touched on the importance of self-awareness, intentional practices, and seeking help and support for addiction.
Find out more about The Fix: How the Twelve Steps Offer Surprising Path of Transformation for the Well-Adjusted, the Down-and-OU, and Everyone in Between.
https://ianmorgancron.com/thefix
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105 | Curating Leadership Ecosystems, Overcoming a Toxic Season, Knowing Your Assignment, and Leadership Disciplines | Strategic Advisor and Author Brad Lomenick
Listen to today's conversation with Brad Lomenick to learn how he has leveraged his influence to build micro gatherings of high-capacity leaders. Lantz and Brad discussed their approaches to leadership and communication, with Brad emphasizing the importance of understanding one's sense of purpose and direction in life. They also discussed Brad's journey from a toxic to a healthy emotional state in his role, the importance of leading up in an organization, and the art of curating leadership conversations. The conversation concluded with a discussion on the importance of discipline in leadership and the need to address the issue of isolation and loneliness among leaders.
https://www.bradlomenick.com/
https://www.h3leadership.com/
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104 | Marriage by the Decade: Love Sex and Intimacy in the Second Half and How to Grow through the Marathon of Marriage | Founder of Awesome Marriage with Counselor and Author Dr. Kim Kimberling
Lantz and Dr. Kim discussed their experiences and strategies for maintaining a strong marriage, emphasizing the importance of communication, fighting fair, and choosing battles wisely. They also shared their experiences of getting married young, having children, and the challenges of maintaining a healthy marriage amidst the pressures of modern family life. The conversation ended with a discussion on the importance of sexual intimacy in marriage, the need for emotional, intellectual, and sexual intimacy, and the importance of maintaining a strong marriage through the decades.
Love Sex and Intimacy in the Second Half
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103 | Living a Legacy Life, Generational Wealth, Wisdom for Founders or Business Owners Exiting | Legacy Coach and Author Bill High
Lantz and Bill discussed their personal lives, professional experiences, and how he has used the Culture Index to strengthen his marriage. They also explored the challenges faced by families with a long-term legacy mindset, the influence of thought leaders on their thoughts about legacy and generosity, and the importance of building a business to sustain and not just to sell. Lastly, Bill shared his personal experiences, reflections on life, and encouraged others to reflect on their own life themes and consider how their values can contribute to the greater good.
Bill is the author or co-author of 12+ books, notable ones with David Green, the Founder and CEO of Hobby Lobby.
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102 | The Complete Leader, Overcoming Perfection, Walking in Your Assignment, and Flourishing in Your Natural Competence as Leader | CEO Coach and Author Stephen Graves
Lantz and Steve discussed their personal lives, leadership experiences, and the challenges of managing family relationships, particularly as parents age. They also explored Steve's approach to managing his time and resources effectively, his criteria for deciding when to invite someone into a coaching relationship, and his approach to giving back and self-publishing. The conversation concluded with discussions on the importance of personal growth and development, maintaining connections and friendships, and reframing the idea of aging and retirement.
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101 | Growing a National Faith Based Bank and Building Leadership Resiliency | Founder of Regent Bank Sean Kouplen
Lantz and Sean Kouplen, the Founder and CEO of Regent Bank, shared personal experiences and discussed their professional journeys, with a focus on Regent Bank's growth and the faith at work movement. They also discussed the importance of calculated risk, maintaining a financial safety net, and self-care practices for maintaining high levels of energy and productivity. The conversation ended with discussions on with Sean's visions and aspirations for a national faith-based bank and the upcoming launch of the 94 X membership alongside Nick Vujicic.
Connect with Sean Kouplen:
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Building a Redemptive Community Through Coffee | Thrive Farmers CEO and Founder Michael Jones
Lantz joins the CEO and Founder of Thrive Farmers Michael Jones for a fast-moving conversation about his marriage, redemption story, a story about what a thriving farmer is, and why keeping real success in perspective matters. Thrive Farmers distributes coffee and tea for international brands including Chick-fil-A and Delta Airlines. Thrive Farmers has been recognized as #19 on Inc 500 list.
https://thrivefarmers.com/
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The Gift of Deep Listening, My First Coach, Spotting Emotional Landmines, Reinventing Yourself | Coach and Mentor Jon Mullican
Lantz and Jon discussed their personal and professional lives, including their experiences in ministry roles, career transitions, and the importance of relationships in understanding oneself. They also explored the significance of patience, longevity, and faith in relationships, as well as the importance of deep listening and presence in tense environments. Lastly, they discussed the use of the Enneagram in coaching and personal development, emphasizing the need for self-improvement, understanding others, and active listening.
To learn more about Jon Mullican you can visit his website Mullican Leadership Group https://www.mullicanlead.com/
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Unveil Your Emotions with Your Wife, Living with Healthy Shame, Rediscover Your Heart | Founder Jeff Schulte of Tin Man Ministries
Lantz and Jeff discussed emotional struggles, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and honesty in personal and professional relationships. The value of this conversation is deep as Jeff models what it sounds like to communicate with his wife with his true emotions. They also explored the concept of shame versus healthy shame and its role in human behavior. The conversation concluded with Jeff emphasizing the importance of emotional awareness, secure attachment, and being present with one's feelings, and introducing his organization, Tin Man Ministries, which provides resources for coming home to yourself with God by restoring your heart.
Sign up for Tin Man updates to be informed about the forthcoming book on the eight core emotions in Unveil Your Emotions.
https://www.tinmanministries.org/
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Overcome Marital Boredom, Restore Trust After Betrayal, and The Price of High Performance in Marriage | Author and LMFT Geoff Steuer
Lantz and Geoff discussed the importance of maintaining trust and connection in relationships, and addressing challenges such as anxiety, betrayal, and infidelity. They emphasized the need for personal boundaries, moral integrity, and open communication, as well as the importance of secure attachment and humility in relationships. The conversation also touched on the dynamics of power imbalances, the process of repair after betrayal, and the timeline for recovery in such situations.
Geoff Steurer is an LMFT and author and you can find his work at www.geoffsteurer.com as well as his podcast with his wife from Crisis to Connection Podcast.
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The Mirage of Leadership, Making Wise Decisions, and Secure Identity | Founder Alex Judd of Path for Growth
Join Lantz Howard and Alex Judd to have a deep dive conversation on the realties of startups, the tension of being a high performer, and how to have a secure attachment to your true identity.
Alex Judd is the Founder of Path for Growth
We exist to help impact-driven leaders step into who they were created to be so that others benefit and God is glorified.
https://www.pathforgrowth.com/
Decision Making and The Will of God Podcast with Alex
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Exploring the Shape of Joy and How Navigating The Hero Game Can Provide Rest for Your Restless Heart | Author and Professor Dr. Richard Beck
Lantz Howard and Dr. Richard Beck, author of The Shape of Joy dive deep into the psychology and theology of joy, exploring how faith intersects with happiness in profound and unexpected ways. Dr. Beck shares insights on joy as a discipline and its power to transform our lives and communities.
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Beyond the Passive Man, Growing Up in Marriage, Creating Intentional Mentors, and Wisdom in Leading Well in an Anxious Culture | Mentor Jim Martin
Lantz Howard and Jim Martin discussed the concept of growing up and maturity in the context of a long-lasting marriage, with Jim sharing his personal journey of self-discovery and differentiation. They also emphasized the importance of intentionality, relationships, and asking questions in growing in wisdom and leadership. The conversation concluded with a discussion on the significance of mentoring and seeking guidance from others, with Jim encouraging people to put their hope in God during challenging times.
Connect with Jim on his Encouragement Note
https://jimmartin.substack.com/
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The Pressure for Men to Perform and Skills Needed to Build New Ways of Relating Beyond Influence and Affluence | President of Plumline Dr. Jake Smith
Lantz Howard and Dr. Jake Smith, the president of Plumline, shared personal stories and discussed the importance of leadership, personal growth, and emotional awareness in everyday life. They also discussed the challenges faced by leaders with influence and affluence, particularly in the context of their Christian faith, and the need for spiritual formation beyond just learning and doing. Jake emphasized the importance of self-awareness, understanding one's emotions, and taking responsibility for one's own well-being in personal and professional relationships.
Find out more about Jake and Plumine at https://goplumline.com/
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Anti-Burnout: Stop Going Fast if You Don't Know Where You Are Going | Author and Coach Alan Briggs
Lantz Howard and Alan Briggs discussed their personal experiences and perspectives on leadership, marriage, and self-care, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing personal time. They also discussed the benefits of walks in fostering emotional and mental connection, and the importance of structuring one's life to achieve personal goals and avoid burnout. The conversation concluded with discussions on discerning one's unique calling, the inspiration behind Alan's book on anti-burnout, and the concept of Sabbatical as a period of reflection and rejuvenation.
Why is a vision important to helping us overcome our leadership anxiety?
"If you don't know where you are going, you go faster." Alan Briggs
https://www.stayforth.com/
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Healing What’s Within: Coming Home to Yourself and to God When You’re Weary, Wounded, and Wandering | Author and Therapist Chuck DeGroat
Lantz Howard and Chuck DeGroat discussed the importance of curiosity and self-reflection in personal growth and development. Chuck emphasized that curiosity may arise at different stages of life, such as when transitioning from one's twenties to thirties or forties, and that it's essential to confront larger questions about meaning, purpose, and mortality. He also highlighted the significance of having courageous conversations with others, even if they may not be ready for them immediately. Chuck shared his personal journey of growth and surrender, expressing his desire to become more spacious, present, and connected. He encouraged others to embrace this journey and to seek guidance from those who have already experienced it.
Grab a copy of Chuck's latest book for you or a friend.
https://www.chuckdegroat.net/books
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Practicing Soul Care and Growing to be Aware of the Presence of Jesus | Guided by Michael Mitchell
Lantz and Michael Mitchell discussed their personal journeys of spiritual growth and self-discovery. Michael shared his experience of waking up to the Holy Spirit's presence and his own desires, which he described as a central theme in Jesus's message. The conversation was framed around the idea of nurturing the heart and paying attention to one's own experiences, inviting Jesus into them.
https://simplesoulcare.myflodesk.com/saturday
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Ignite Your Soul: How Exhaustion Can Pave a Way To Flourishing | Author Mindy Caliguire unpacks the true nature of the soul and creates a path forward centered on the Gospel.
Lantz and Mindy Caliguire discussed the importance of soul care and self-reflection in leadership, with Mindy sharing her journey of realizing the need for soul care and its central role in her work. We discussed the challenges faced by individuals in both the ministry and corporate worlds, with Mindy highlighting the unique pressures of vocational ministry. The conversation also touched on the importance of spiritual formation, the context and meaning of Jesus's words in Matthew 16:26, and the need for leaders to prioritize their soul's well-being.
https://www.soulcare.com/ignite-your-soul
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Raising Resilient Daughters, Emotional Safety, and Becoming a Kingdom Presence | Author and Pastor Jon Tyson
Join Lantz Howard and Jon Tyson for a deep, rich, and meaningful conversation about what it means to raise resilient daughters who know the love of Christ and have a solid identity as a daughter of God. Jon shares why he created Resilient Daughters and insights about what you can do right now to cultivate emotional safety and a Kingdom presence in your home and the heart of your daughter.
From Raising Resilient Daughters...
"Your daughters need you...When you have a daughter, something different happens in your heart. A new kind of resolve rises that you didn’t know was possible. A resolve to love her, protect her, prepare her to thrive in the world. But that resolve is getting harder to live out in the craziness of our modern world. There is a serious challenge in our current cultural moment." Jon Tyson
https://www.formingmen.com/daughters
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Check out Jon's latest book with Jefferson Bethke Fighting Shadows: Overcoming the Seven Lies that Keep Men from Becoming Fully Alive
https://www.formingmen.com/fighting-shadows
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Building Emotional Intimacy is a Pathway to Winning at Home and How Being an Integrated Leader will Build Your Legacy | Author and Coach Randy Gravitt
Lantz and Randy discussed the importance of fatherhood, emotional intimacy, and a holistic approach to leadership in today's podcast.
They emphasized the need for intentionality, communication, and selflessness in building strong relationships, both in personal and professional contexts.
Lastly, they discussed strategies for overcoming feelings of being stuck and the importance of having a robust bench of trusted advisors in leadership.
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If you win at work, but lose at home, you still lose.
When you think of success, what comes to mind? Career, public achievements, diplomas, degrees, bank account balance? We work hard to find a job, gain promotions, and develop skills to become a peak performer. If you’re like most people, we’re continually striving to win at work.
Winning Begins At Home, the new book from Randy Gravitt, explores what it takes to win where it matters most—at home. Part story, part assessment and workbook, this book will lead you through exercises, writing prompts, and action steps that will help you create a blueprint for the family you want. Just as you've crafted a plan for professional growth, it's time to prioritize winning at home.
https://leadeveryday.com/winning/
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I coach, train, and write for leaders like you to get their life back, create a passionate marriage, and work with purpose.
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Your Offended Because of Your Insecurity | A Sharp Compassion | Author Chase Replogle
Chase Replogle, a pastor and author of A Sharp Compassion, believes all this offense is making it harder to hear the truth. It even prevents us from hearing Jesus’s good, but sometimes hard, words. A Sharp Compassion offers readers a closer look at Jesus’ most challenging words. Through a careful study of the conversations in which Jesus offended, you will discover a savior willing to risk offending you to save you from your deepest insecurities.
https://asharpcompassion.com/
Chase has been the pastor of Bent Oak Church in Springfield, Missouri for almost ten years. He is the host of Pastor Writer podcast (www.pastorwriter.com). He holds a degree in Biblical Studies from The Assemblies of God Theological Seminary and a D.Min. in The Sacred Art of Writing from Western Theological Seminary. His work has been featured on Good Morning America, Christianity Today, and the Gospel Coalition A native of the Ozark woods, he enjoys being outdoors with his wife and two kids.
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You’re multifaceted, and the support you receive should reflect your needs.
True flourishing happens when every area of your life—performance, relationships, well-being, and leadership—has the right growth ecosystem.
I’m Lantz Howard, your trusted advisor, executive coach, marriage therapist, and spiritual guide.
When I’m not coaching CEOs, business owners, entrepreneurs, and senior pastors, you’ll find me preparing for Spartan obstacle races, raising my four daughters, or traveling the world with my wife.
Let’s start the journey together.
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Learning to Be Human Halfway Through Life | Author Chris Field
Warning authentic conversation follows. Be prepared to talk to your kids about sex if they are listening.
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Meaning Making is for those who have laughed and cried and loved and lost and are now staring down the decades that remain, wondering how to ensure they don’t miss out on the exquisite chaos of the here and now.
No one is broken, everyone is worthy of being known, and we’re all a collection of complex, beautiful messes. These are the core truths that drive this gritty and authentic book forward. It’s about becoming fully human, one moment at a time—no matter what age you are.
This is not memoir or self-help. Chris acknowledges he doesn’t have all the answers (or many at all). He doesn’t offer five-step action plans, earth-shattering advice, or a promise to change your life.
Instead, he shares seemingly ordinary anecdotes, mundane moments that become formative life lessons—but only if we choose to make meaning from them. Vulnerable, heartfelt, and relatable, Meaning Making is about Chris’s commitment to embracing the second half of life—and inviting you to do the same.
Chris Field is an award-winning author and two-time TEDx speaker. He is the founder of Mercy Project, an innovative nonprofit that combats child trafficking in Ghana’s fishing industry. Mercy Project has rescued, rehabilitated, and reintegrated nearly three hundred formerly enslaved children back into their families.
Chris has broken multiple Guinness world records, run dozens of marathons, and taught hundreds of business students at Texas A&M University. His previous books include Disrupting for Good and A Billion Hours of Good. He lives in College Station, Texas, with his wife, Stacey, and their four children.
While all of this sounds really important and impressive (which he understands is the point of this section), he’s also just a regular guy who loses his temper, forgets his wallet, messes up a lot, and has a whole host of shortcomings equally as unimpressive as the two paragraphs above. In other words, he’s a beggar on a journey for bread, just like everyone else in the world.
MercyProject.net
https://meetchrisfield.com/
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You’re multifaceted, and the support you receive should reflect your needs.
True flourishing happens when every area of your life—performance, relationships, well-being, and leadership—has the right growth ecosystem.
I’m Lantz Howard, your trusted advisor, executive coach, marriage therapist, and spiritual guide.
When I’m not coaching CEOs, business owners, entrepreneurs, and senior pastors, you’ll find me preparing for Spartan obstacle races, raising my four daughters, or traveling the world with my wife.
Let’s start the journey together.
www.lantzhoward.com
Are You Committing Leadership Malpractice? | Practicing Change Leadership Series with Author Tod Bolsinger
Lantz and Tod Bolsinger discussed the role of leadership in facilitating transformation, with a focus on personal growth, adaptive leadership, and the importance of transformation. They also explored the differences and similarities between the marketplace and ministry worlds, the concept of sabotage in leadership, the importance of mentorship in personal and professional growth, and how if you don't have a mentor you are committing leadership malpractice. Additionally, they delved into the classic book by Edwin Friedman and Lantz's number one most recommended leadership book "Failure of Nerve" and its insights on family systems theory and adaptive leadership, and how these concepts can be applied in your leadership.
Tod Bolsinger https://www.aesloanleadership.com
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Building a Culture that Endures a Crisis and Makes a Strong Comeback | Former Blue Bell CEO and Author Ricky Dickson
Ricky Dixonson, former CEO of Bluebell Ice Cream, shared his leadership journey, emphasizing the importance of empathy, intentionality, and faith in navigating through challenges and building a supportive team. He also discussed his personal experiences with crisis, the significance of staying true to the company's culture, and the role ice cream plays in people's lives. Lastly, he shared updates on Bluebell's current status and future plans, and the release of his book, "One Scoop at a Time."
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How to Love the Life You Already Have | Author Luke Norsworthy
Lantz and Luke had a comprehensive discussion on various aspects of personal growth, leadership, and spirituality. They emphasized the importance of healthy relationships, physical fitness, and integrating mind, body, and spirit. Additionally, they explored the challenges and opportunities of midlife, the significance of embracing life's grief, and the need for authenticity and vulnerability in leadership roles.
Check out Luke's latest book on Amazon.
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The Mindset of NHL Championship Player | 17 Year Professional Hockey Player and Performance Mindset Coach Jimmy Dow
Lantz and former professional ice hockey player Jimmy Dow discussed Jim's athletic career, faith journey, and the principles he applied in his family life and leadership. They also explored the challenges and turning points in Jim's life, the importance of daily spiritual practice, and the negative impact of constant news and media consumption on people's well-being. Lastly, they discussed Jim's work as a sports mindset coach for young athletes and his future aspirations.
https://jimdowd.com/
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Wounds: How Hurt, Heartache, and Tragedy Become the Keys to Unlocking Greatness | Author Ryan James Miller
Lantz and Ryan, the author of "Wounds: How Hurt, Heartache, and Tragedy Become the Keys to Unlocking Greatness," engage in a conversation about Ryan's personal and professional life. Ryan shares how he nearly destroyed his marriage four and a half years in, but with the help of faith, has been able to maintain a strong 23-year marriage with his wife. He also discusses his approach to leadership, focusing on curiosity and learning from his wife. Additionally, Ryan talks about his professional life, as a coach for entrepreneurs and sales professionals, and his community involvement
https://ryanjamesmiller.com/
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Welcome to the Whole Hearted Leader. I am Lantz Howard.
I am here to help faith-driven entrepreneurs have a killer business, a passionate marriage, and live with purpose.
My goal is your flourishing.
One conversation could shift everything right now.
Lantz is a trained marriage therapist, professional executive business coach, and organizational health leader.
Reach out before you are ready.
www.lantzhoward.com
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Life Changes Around a Fire | From Fasting to Fired to Firewood | Cutting Edge Firewood Founder and CEO Leroy Hite
I sit down with Cutting Edge Firewood Founder and CEO to hear his story of being fired after fasting to pursue a hidden aspiration.
https://www.cuttingedgefirewood.com/
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Welcome to the Whole Hearted Leader. I am Lantz Howard.
I am here to help faith-driven entrepreneurs have a killer business, a passionate marriage, and live with purpose.
My goal is your flourishing.
One conversation could shift everything right now.
Lantz is a trained marriage therapist, professional executive business coach, and organizational health leader.
Reach out before you are ready.
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The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality | Author and Therapist Sam Jolman
Men today are starved for sexual formation. They've been failed by parents, churches, and culture alike, leading to widespread shame, confusion, and brokenness in the area of sexuality. In The Sex Talk You Never Got, therapist Sam Jolman helps men reconnect their God-given sexuality with innocence, awe, and joy, and shows readers how to celebrate--instead of struggle against--the gift of sexual desire.
In our sex-saturated world, it might seem surprising that men need more talk about sex. But the reality is that sexuality is one of the most neglected aspects of men's lives. From the woefully inadequate sex talks many young men receive from parents (little more than an anatomy lesson or a purity lecture, if anything at all) to cultural messages that unhelpfully weave both shame and permissiveness into men's understanding of their own sexuality and masculinity, too many boys and men experience sexual desire as an area of struggle, confusion, and brokenness.
https://www.samjolman.com/
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Welcome to the Whole Hearted Leader. I am Lantz Howard.
I am here to help faith-driven entrepreneurs have a killer business, a passionate marriage, and live with purpose.
My goal is your flourishing.
One conversation could shift everything right now.
Lantz is a trained marriage therapist, professional executive business coach, and organizational health leader.
Reach out before you are ready.
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Negotiation Made Simple | Author Dr. John Lowry
John Lowry is a recognized authority on negotiation through his experience as a lawyer, management consultant, entrepreneur, negotiation coach, and university administrator. His results-focused, systematic approach to negotiation has been successfully implemented by thousands of professionals across the United States.
Business and organizational leaders spend well over half of their professional time engaged in this process. It is the way they do deals, lead employees, and manage relationships. Most leaders learn to negotiate on the job through a long process of trial and error. In today’s competitive marketplace, there is no time for experimentation, nor room to make mistakes.
The good news is by mastering negotiation, the next level of success is actually closer than it appears. The actionable advice and practical guidance offered in this book give a roadmap for every type of negotiation.
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Welcome to the Whole Hearted Leader. I am Lantz Howard.
I am here to help faith-driven entrepreneurs have a killer business, a passionate marriage, and live with purpose.
My goal is your flourishing.
One conversation could shift everything right now.
Lantz is a trained marriage therapist, professional executive business coach, and organizational health leader.
Reach out before you are ready.
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Intentionally Pursue Your Wife, Identity Reformation, and Building a Business | Real Coaching Conversation
Join me in a real-time coaching conversation with one of the primary problems I hear about from married men.
How do I be present, pursue my wife, and build a business?
This coaching conversation jumps right in after I ask, "What would be meaningful for you to work on right now?"
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Welcome to the Whole Hearted Leader. I am Lantz Howard.
I am here to help faith-driven entrepreneurs have a killer business, a passionate marriage, and live with purpose.
My goal is your flourishing.
One conversation could shift everything right now.
Lantz is a trained marriage therapist, professional executive business coach, and organizational health leader.
Reach out before you are ready.
www.lantzhoward.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/lantzhoward
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