Lara-ism
By Lara Monica B. Magat
Lara-ismNov 28, 2020
Self-harm and Interventions
In this episode, I shared what I went through yesterday after harming myself.
Depression Can Feel Like a Blackhole
Depression and Being Kind to Yourself
My Change in Diagnosis, Recent Coping Mechanism, Not Being Optimistic is Okay and a Childhood Trauma
First episode of the year is a salad of things. I talked about 1) how officially, my diagnosis is bipolar disorder type 1 (not type 2) and the consequent medication adjustment, 2) how I've been coping, while still in a depressive episode, but now able to function enough to work half days, 3) how we don't have be optimistic all the time especially during this pandemic, the same way that we shouldn't tell people to see their trauma as a good thing because it's what made them who they are today and lastly, 4) how one of my childhood trauma is affecting my relationship and my perception of marriage. Whew! I hope you get something out of that chaos.
Alone During The Holidays
Bipolar Disorder and Manic Episodes
Fresh from a therapy session, I recorded to share an epiphany about my diagnosis (as Bipolar Type 1 Disorder). In this episode, I focused on the other pole of the spectrum, that is Mania. I shared examples of manic behavior, which include my own. This, yet again, is another reminder that not all mental health disorders are extreme. Sometimes, they may seem like simple and normal behaviors, so don't be quick to judge people.
My Personal Notes: How We Manage Our Expectations
Psychiatrists, Psychologists and Medication Side-Effects
Also, visit www.recoveryhub.ph for free Mental Health Care in the Philippines – an initiative by our Vice President, Leni Robredo.
Billet-doux: My Force of Strength
This is part of the speech I delivered for my best friend, Justine, during her wedding. Having two mental health disorders, I've been through very dark times and Justine has been my rock each time (even until now). Her strength inspires me to become stronger myself. I am honestly still alive big thanks to her.
My Personal Notes: Self-love and Self-awareness
Random Musings: Love
This is a very candid episode but I still hope you learn something from it. I talked about what love is and how my childhood trauma affected my relationships.
Anxiety Disorder: How I Got Diagnosed
In this episode, I talked about how I got diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder, what the symptoms were and how I got better.
Life w/ Mental Health Disorders: Being Heavily Medicated
After crashing from a manic episode into a depressive episode, I realized how much medication I've been taking to keep me functional at the bare minimum. In this episode, I shared all the medication that I've been taking and what each does for me. This episode is also yet another reminder to be kind. You sincerely do not know what people are going through, or in this case, how much medicated a person is just to be a functional human being.
Mental Health Disorders & Relationships
In celebration of World Mental Health Day, I'm dedicating a podcast entry to answer questions about Mental Health. In this episode, I talked about how to talk to your family, or loved ones in general, about your mental health disorder.
My Non-negotiables in a Relationship
I'm quite happy with this episode because I've been wanting to talk about relationships for a while now and today I finally did! Having healthy relationships is important to our mental health so it's also important to know the right way of navigating it. Today, I shared what non-negotiables are and why they matter. Three of my non-negotiables are the following:
1) Sophisticated in arguing
2) Willing to be vulnerable
3) Brings me closer to who I am
What are yours?
Are Your Thoughts Still Yours?
The Reality of Having Anxiety
In this episode, "inspired" by another episode of anxiety this past week, I talked about anxiety – what it means, what happens during an episode and the emotions that come along with it, which include shame, guilt and self-doubt, especially when you have a 9-5 job. I emphasized that anxiety is real and valid and that it's okay to take a break whenever you're anxious.
Accepting My Mental Health Disorders
A short episode where I talked about how I am okay now after weathering half a year of a depressive episode and how I’ve accepted that that is just the reality of being a person with mental health disorders.
Random Musings: Self-worth and Overcoming Rock Bottom
An Introduction to Lara-ism
Random Musings: Mental Health part 2
We’re All Afflicted by Mental Health Issues
I’m a Recovering Drama-holic Part 2
I’m a Recovering Drama-holic
How Binary Thinking Hinders Us from Truly Understanding People
Anyway, in this episode, I talked about different examples of binary thinking on mental health – how we expect people who are diagnosed with a mental disorder or people who are simply not okay to consistently look the part and how we tend to immediately invalidate what they’re going through when they’re not. Mental health is NOT binary. Mental disorders or feeling pain DO NOT render people incapable of doing or feeling anything else.
Billet-doux: Finally Understanding My Parents
Depression is Definitely NOT What You Think it is
I keep saying lately that I've been having one of my longest depressive episodes, so I figured why not talk about my experience and what it really feels like? I'd also like to make people understand that depression is not remotely the same as feeling sad.
Dear Friend, Please Hold on.
p.s. This is the first time I used background music. I recorded on the spot so I wasn’t exactly prepared (there was too much background noise when I was recording). Apologies in advance in case you find it distracting!
Random Musings: Mental Health
There’s no point which is the very point of this episode. (: