SOFT x SAVAGE
By Laura Patricia Martin
Ep. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women
Ever felt like you’re sprinting full-speed towards your goals, building your empire, but losing touch with the feminine softness that makes you magnetic? In this episode, I dive deep into how to balance your feminine energy and ambition as a high-achieving woman.
You’ll discover:
How to regulate your nervous system so you don’t just survive your savage season—you thrive in it.
My daily practices for staying feminine and soft while running a business and leading powerfully.
Why integrating softness isn’t about slowing down—it’s about amplifying your presence and potency.
This conversation is for the woman who wants to lead like a savage while staying rooted in her feminine essence—the one who knows that power and softness aren’t mutually exclusive.
Ready to create your SoftSavage balance?
Hit play and let’s create the most aligned version of you.
Connect with Laura:
Instagram: @itslaurapatriciamartin
YouTube: @softxsavage
Support the Show:
Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders build 6-figure businesses with sales systems that feel like them.
Links & Resources:
DM me “SOFTSAVAGE” on Instagram to Apply to the SoftxSavage Collective.
Apply for my 1:1 coaching for high-achieving women who want to lead with more ease and magnetism.
Ep 164: Stop Feeling Icky About Sales: How to Build Systems That Feel Like You
Most high-achieving women don’t struggle with sales because they lack strategy.
They struggle because their sales systems don’t match their power—or their lifestyle.
In this episode, Laura unpacks how to build sales systems that don’t just support your business—they feel like a natural extension of you. Systems that amplify your feminine energy, your leadership, and your next-level vision—so you’re not just selling, you’re leading with conviction.
If you’re a multi-6-figure coach, course creator, or visionary woman scaling to 7 figures while balancing motherhood, personal evolution, and the life you’ve built—it’s time to create sales systems that feel like a second skin.
Inside, you’ll learn:
- Why most sales systems feel clunky and disconnected for high-achieving women
- The four reasons your offers aren’t scaling (and how to fix them)
- How to build systems that don’t just work—they work because they feel like you
- Why selling from your truth is the secret to building a 7-figure legacy
If you’re scaling your coaching business, growing your online authority, or ready to lead like the CEO you are—this episode will shift how you see sales forever.
Resources & Links:
Join SoftSavage Sales — My signature program to build sales systems that sell because they’re built around you
DM “SAVAGE” on Instagram — For direct access to details and bonuses
Laura’s Amazon Favorites — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership
Connect with Laura:
Instagram: @itslaurapatriciamartin
YouTube: @softxsavage
Support the Show:
Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders build 6-figure businesses with sales systems that feel like them.
Ep. 163: The Part of You That’s Resisting Is the Part That’s About to Die
In this soul-shaking, permission-giving episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) breaks down the truth about resistance—the kind that doesn’t scream “fear,” but quietly holds powerful women back from their next level.
Broadcasting from the deep end of identity shifts and sacred recalibration, Laura peels back the layers on what resistance actually means when you’re scaling a legacy—not just chasing success. If you’ve ever felt stuck, swirling, or like you’re one decision away from breaking through (but keep hesitating)… this one’s going to hit different.
Because the part of you that’s resisting?
It’s the part that’s about to die—and your next level is waiting for you to let her go.
You’ll hear about:
- Why resistance isn’t a red light—it’s a rite of passage
- The 5 most common (but sneaky) forms of resistance high-level women face
- How to discern between intuition and avoidance
- Why your nervous system clings to your old identity (and how to rewire it)
- A Soft x Savage framework for moving through resistance without bypassing
- The identity upgrade required to step into true feminine leadership
- How to lead with conviction even when the edge feels terrifying
- The one belief keeping you undercharging, hesitating, or playing small
Whether you’re at a pivot, an up-level, or the beginning of something huge—this episode will activate your next era.
A Personal Ask from Laura:
If you’re in a resistance season… you’re not alone. I see you. I’m in it too. Let this episode be a mirror, a guide, and a nudge forward. And if you’re ready to walk through the fire with support, come say hey in the DMs.
Resources & Links:
Join the 100K in 100 Days Broadcast Channel — Daily mindset, marketing, and movement to scale without the burnout
Free Bolder Branding Bootcamp — Build a brand that magnetizes clients (and cash) on autopilot
Laura’s Favorite’s Amazon Links
Connect with Laura:
Instagram: @itslaurapatriciamartin
YouTube: @softxsavage
Support the Show:
Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more women build Soft x Savage empires rooted in identity, impact, and income.
Ep 162: This Is What Saved My Business When I Ended Up in the Hospital at 26 Weeks Pregnant on Bedrest
In this deeply vulnerable and activating episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) shares a behind-the-scenes look into what it truly means to be in your "Soft x Savage" era—especially when life throws curveballs.
Broadcasting straight from a hospital room while navigating a high-risk pregnancy, Laura gives us full access to the raw, unfiltered truth about building a sustainable business that holds you—no matter what. This isn’t just a training, it’s a reminder that savage isn't about hustle. It's about support, systems, safety, and surrender.
You’ll hear about:
- Life updates from the hospital and redefining what being “savage” actually looks like
- Why softness is the real safety net in life and business
- How to prepare your business to support your dream lifestyle—even during crisis
- The *100K in 100 Days* Broadcast Channel and how it’s designed to help you build a freedom-first business
- Why brand essence, structure, and offer stacking are the real MVPs
- The power of feminine leadership and allowing life to unfold without fear
- What happens when you stop relying on hustle and start trusting your systems
- A call to rise: claim your leadership, step into your CEO identity, and build for the life you actually want
Whether you're navigating a personal storm, planning for a big shift (like motherhood), or craving deeper alignment with your brand and offers, this episode will move you.
A Personal Ask from Laura:
Please keep our family in your prayers as we navigate this season. We're believing for health, strength, and softness. Thank you for being part of this village.
Resources & Links:
[Join the 100K in 100 Days Broadcast Channel]— Daily strategy, mindset shifts, and leadership moves to hit $100K faster
[Free Bolder Branding Bootcamp] — Learn how to create a brand that attracts clients on autopilot
Laura’s Favorite’s Amazon Links
Connect with Laura:
Instagram: [@itslaurapatriciamartin]
YouTube: [@softxsavage]
Support the Show:
Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures—with brands that actually lead the market.
Ep. 161: The Brutal Truth About Why You’re Stuck (And 4 Ways to Get Your Savage Momentum Back)
Most online coaches don’t lose momentum because they’re lazy.
They lose it because they abandon the habits that built their first wins.
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamatrin) exposes the real reasons feminine leaders get stuck—and how to rebuild unstoppable momentum that fuels your 6-figure brand, your marketing, and your leadership.
If you're scaling your coaching business, growing your authority online, or building a brand that leads with power and purpose, this episode gives you the mindset and structure shifts you need to move fast—and lead bigger.
This is how real feminine CEOs activate next-level success—and why the ones who ignore it stay stuck in cycles of burnout and plateau.
Inside, you'll learn:
- Why mastering your personal energy is a 6-figure marketing move
- How “talking about being stuck” is killing your brand’s momentum
- Why daily body movement is your secret weapon for scaling online
- How simple structure shifts will set your brand and income on fire
If you're building a personal brand, scaling an online coaching business, or ready to embody true feminine leadership—this episode will flip the switch.Resources & Links:
Join the 100K in 100 Days Broadcast Channel — Daily strategy, mindset shifts, and leadership moves to hit $100K faster
Free Bolder Branding Bootcamp — Learn how to create a brand that attracts clients on autopilot
Laura’s Favorite’s Amazon LinksConnect with Laura:
Instagram: @itslaurapatriciamartin
YouTube: @softxsavage
Support the Show:Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures—with brands that actually lead the market.
Ep. 160: 0 to Married (and Pregnant) in Under a Year: The Unfiltered Tea You Didn’t Know You Needed With My Hubby Eduardo Gomez Del Casal
What happens when you trust your healing, lead with your heart, and stop following timelines that were never meant for you?
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with her husband, Eduardo Gomez Del Casal (@edygomezdelcasal), to spill everything — the real, behind-the-scenes story of how they went from strangers to married, pregnant, and scaling multi-6 figure businesses together, all in under a year.
They’re pulling back the curtain on:
→ How deep healing prepared them for a relationship of this caliber
→ The truth about building a power couple dynamic while scaling online coaching businesses
→ Why love, leadership, and legacy get to grow at the same time
→ The real tea on timelines, trust, and building an empire together
This episode isn’t just about love — it’s about what happens when two entrepreneurs commit to building a family and building wealth without sacrificing either.
If you're scaling an online coaching business, craving deeper love, or ready to break the rules and create it all... this conversation will expand your vision in ways you didn’t even know you needed.
🎧 Tune in for the real story behind Laura and Eduardo’s whirlwind year — and why moving fast with the right person changes everything.
3 Things You Can Do Today to Manifest Your Dream Life (Without Waiting on Perfect Conditions)
Manifestation isn’t magic—it’s movement.
If you’re a feminine entrepreneur or online coach scaling to a 6-figure business, this episode breaks down exactly how to align your actions with the identity of the woman who already has what you want.
In this conversation, Laura shares the three high-impact shifts she made to manifest a life filled with aligned clients, consistent cash months, and deep personal peace—while building a brand that scales with her, not against her.
These are the same moves she teaches inside her business mastermind for coaches scaling their personal brands and building long-term wealth online. No fluff. Just strategic, soul-led momentum.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why most coaches block their manifestations by staying in indecision
How to shift your energy to match a 6-figure business owner
What to eliminate today to create space for more income and aligned opportunities
How structure, brand clarity, and CEO embodiment speed up manifestation
This episode is for high-achieving women who are scaling their coaching business, elevating their personal brand, and ready to build their dream life through strategy and identity.
Join the 100K in 100 Days Broadcast Channel — Daily voice notes + mentorship for coaches scaling to 6-figures
Free Bolder Branding Bootcamp — Learn how to build a magnetic brand that sells on autopilot
Laura’s Favorite’s Amazon Links — Tools + resources for feminine leaders in business & life
Instagram: @itslaurapatriciamartin
YouTube: @softxsavage
Support the Show:
Love this episode? Subscribe, rate, and leave a review to help more online coaches and feminine entrepreneurs build 6-figure businesses that support their lifestyle, mission, and magnetism.
Ep. 158: The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO
Most women wait until life forces them to slow down.
Laura built a business that could support her before she ever needed the support.
In this episode, she pulls back the curtain on the exact structure she implemented before pregnancy—the systems, offers, and identity shifts that allowed her to scale to multi-6 figures without scaling her time.
This episode is for the woman who’s already created success, but knows it’s time to scale smarter—not harder.
Tune in to discover:
- Why your offers might be too dependent on your time
- The shift from solopreneur to supported CEO
- How to design a product suite that scales while you rest
- What Laura changed to create a business that mirrors the life she’s building offline
If you’ve built the income but not the infrastructure to hold it, this one’s a must-listen.
Resources & Links:
Free Bolder Branding Bootcamp
100K in 100 Days Broadcast Channel
Laura’s Favorite’s Amazon Links
Connect with Laura:
Instagram: @itslaurapatriciamartin
YouTube: @softxsavage
Support the Show:
If you loved this episode, subscribe, rate, and review the show to help more high-achieving women scale with soul.
Ep. 157: 3 Years Ago I Hit Record... Now I Make Money In My Sleep (Here’s What It Took)
From a single microphone to a thriving empire— Laura's (@itslaurapatriciamartin) journey over the past three years is nothing short of transformative. In this milestone episode, she takes you behind the scenes, sharing the raw, unfiltered truth about building a six-figure brand while navigating motherhood and the ever-evolving landscape of online coaching.
Tune in to discover:
- The pivotal moments that shaped her entrepreneurial path
- Strategies for balancing business growth with personal life
- Insights into scaling an online coaching business beyond six figures
Whether you're an aspiring coach, a seasoned entrepreneur, or someone seeking inspiration to chase your dreams, this episode offers a candid look at what it truly takes to build an empire from the ground up.
Resources & Links:
Connect with Laura:
- Instagram: @itslaurapatriciamartin
- Youtube: @softxsavage
Support the Show: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and review on Apple Podcasts. Your support helps us reach more listeners and continue delivering valuable content.
Ep. 156: You’re Doing Everything Right… So Why Aren’t You at $100K Yet?
You’ve built the brand.
You’ve launched the offers.
You’ve done the inner work and invested in the strategy…
So why does six figures still feel just out of reach?
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) breaks down the real reason high-level online coaches and service providers stay stuck at the edge of $100K—even when they’re “doing everything right.”
She dives into the branding blind spots, marketing mistakes, and energetic misalignments that are slowing your momentum and keeping your content from converting. If you’ve been playing the long game but you're ready for six-figure speed, this is your mirror moment.
Laura also pulls back the curtain on her 100K in 100 Days container—designed for coaches, creators, and thought leaders who are ready to shift from consistent effort to consistent income.
This isn’t about more hustle.
It’s about mastery, momentum, and messaging that moves money.
Click here to Join 100k in 100 Days and scale into your six-figure era—on your terms.
🎧 Press play now & step into your next level.
💬 Loved this episode? Share it on IG and tag me [@itslaurapatriciamartin]—let’s spread the SOFTxSAVAGE movement
Ep. 155: The Feminine Edge—Commanding Influence Without Losing Your Softness
In this episode of SOFTxSAVAGE, we’re diving deep into a game-changing topic: how to command influence in your personal brand, business, and relationships—without losing your feminine edge.
If you’ve ever felt like you have to choose between being taken seriously and being desirable… between leading powerfully and being pursued effortlessly… between building an empire and calling in deep love—this episode is for you.
💎 What You’ll Learn:
✔️ The secret to balancing power & presence so you attract high-caliber opportunities in love & business
✔️ How to build a magnetic personal brand that commands attention without chasing
✔️ The biggest mistake high-achieving women make that repels both high-value men & high-ticket clients (and how to fix it)
✔️ Why softness isn’t weakness—it’s your most powerful sales & attraction strategy
✔️ The feminine energy shift that makes closing deals, attracting love, and scaling with ease feel effortless
🔥 Whether you're a CEO, entrepreneur, or a powerhouse woman ready to amplify your brand, expand your influence, and attract the life & love you actually desire, this episode will activate something deep inside you.
🎧 Press play now & step into your next level.
💬 Loved this episode? Share it on IG and tag me [@itslaurapatriciamartin]—let’s spread the SOFTxSAVAGE movement
Ep. 154: God as Your Guide in Business & Building a Million-Dollar Movement with Bridget James Ling
In this powerhouse episode of SOFTxSAVAGE, Laura sits down with Bridget James Ling, the founder of Freedom Queen, to dive deep into what it really takes to scale a business, build a community that sells your programs for you, and create a movement so magnetic that people become obsessed with your work.
They explore:
✨ How God as your guide changes the way you run your business, make decisions, and lead with conviction.
✨ The secret to scaling without burnout—why so many entrepreneurs stay stuck and how to break free.
✨ Community over audience—how to build a loyal movement that not only buys but sells your offers and events.
✨ Marriage as an entrepreneur—navigating business while building a legacy.
Bridget has built a million-dollar movement with Freedom Queen, empowering women to step into leadership, scale unapologetically, and leave a lasting impact. Whether you're an entrepreneur scaling to your next level, a coach craving more alignment in your business, or a leader ready to build something bigger than yourself—this episode is for you.
🔗 Listen now and tag us on Instagram (@bridgetjamesling & @itslaurapatriciamartin) with your biggest takeaway! #SOFTxSAVAGE #FreedomQueen #MillionDollarMovement
In this powerhouse episode of SOFTxSAVAGE, Laura sits down with Bridget James Ling, the founder of Freedom Queen, to dive deep into what it really takes to scale a business, build a community that sells your programs for you, and create a movement so magnetic that people become obsessed with your work.
They explore:
✨ How God as your guide changes the way you run your business, make decisions, and lead with conviction.
✨ The secret to scaling without burnout—why so many entrepreneurs stay stuck and how to break free.
✨ Community over audience—how to build a loyal movement that not only buys but sells your offers and events.
✨ Marriage as an entrepreneur—navigating business while building a legacy.
Bridget has built a million-dollar movement with Freedom Queen, empowering women to step into leadership, scale unapologetically, and leave a lasting impact. Whether you're an entrepreneur scaling to your next level, a coach craving more alignment in your business, or a leader ready to build something bigger than yourself—this episode is for you.
🔗 Listen now and tag us on Instagram (@bridgetjamesling & @itslaurapatriciamartin) with your biggest takeaway!
#SOFTxSAVAGE #FreedomQueen #MillionDollarMovement
Ep. 153: How I’m Scaling My Business for Motherhood & Still Hitting $1M
Stepping into motherhood while running a high-impact business? Let’s talk about it. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on exactly how I’m scaling my brand, automating revenue, and preparing for life as a mom—all while keeping my business on track for seven figures.
If you’re an entrepreneur who’s been wondering how to balance business growth with personal evolution, this is your roadmap. I’ll break down:
🔥 The systems and strategies I’m putting in place to run a million-dollar business without being in it 24/7
🔥 The branding shifts I’m making to align with this new season
🔥 How I’m delegating, automating, and simplifying to create more freedom
🔥 The mindset shifts that took me from hustling for growth to scaling with ease
If you’re a high-achieving woman ready to build a brand that supports both your financial goals and family life, this episode is for you.
📩 DM me “SCALE” on Instagram (@itslaurapatriciamartin) if you want my exact framework for building a business that thrives—without you doing it all.
🎧 Tune in now and get the blueprint for stepping into your CEO era and motherhood with power.
Ep. 152: #UNPLUGGED: I'm PREGNANT!! And Stef is now the COO of Deep River Jewelry... Spilling the Tea on the BTS
Imagine navigating the transformative journey of pregnancy while reinventing your professional identity—what if surrender could be the ultimate power move?
In this dynamic episode of Soft x Savage ft #UNPLUGGED with Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman), we dive deep into:
- Identity Shifts: Explore how my pregnancy journey reshaped my sense of self and redefined motherhood.
- Bold Business Moves: Discover Stef’s inspiring transition as she merges into her man’s business as COO, challenging traditional roles and crafting a new brand narrative.
- The Art of Surrender: Learn how embracing vulnerability and letting go of old identities can spark a powerful transformation in both personal and professional realms.
Key Takeaways:
- Real-life insights on balancing personal evolution with career ambitions.
- Strategies to align your brand with your evolving identity and motherhood journey.
- Actionable tips for turning moments of surrender into opportunities for growth.
Tune in for the tea on how it actually feels to surrender your identity to God's plan over your own.
Ready to take it a step further? DM Laura on IG to hear about our latest offers.
Ep. 150: Why Your Content Isn’t Pulling in the Clients You Actually Want
MAGNETIC MESSAGING MASTERMIND IS OPEN
Let’s get real for a second. You’re pouring hours into creating content, hosting masterclasses, and hustling to make your business pop—but the level of clients youreally want? They’re nowhere to be found. So, what’s the problem?
It’s yourmessaging. Yep, that’s the tea. In this episode, I’m breaking down why being generic is killing your vibe and repelling the high-caliber clients you’re dreaming of working with.
Here’s what we’re diving into:
- Why your content feels like it’s falling flat, even though you’re doing *all the things*.
- The sneaky trap of sounding like everyone else in your industry.
- How to shift from generic messaging to standing out like the powerhouse you are.
- Tangible tips to elevate your brand voice so you attract the right clients effortlessly.
If you’re done playing small and ready to step into your next-level energy, this episode is going to hit *hard*. It’s time to leave the bland, safe content behind and start commanding the room.
🎧 Hit play, and let’s shake things up. Your dream clients are waiting.
**Don’t forget to:**
⭐ Leave a review if this episode resonated with you!
🎙️ Subscribe to Soft x Savage so you never miss our candid chats.
💬 DM us your biggest lesson or intention for 2025—we’d love to hear from you!
👉 Follow us on Instagram@laurapatriciamartin
🔥 DM me to learn more about Magnetic Messaging Mastermind kicking off mid February
Ep. 151: I Got in the Room With Tony Robbins—This Was His Biggest Advice
The biggest names in leadership, sales, and influence all have one thing in common—they know how to command a room before they even speak. When I got the chance to sit in the room with Tony Robbins, he shared the #1 key to success in today’s world—and it’s something that AI will never be able to replace.
💡 Your personal brand isn’t just your aesthetics—it’s the energy you bring into a space, the authority you exude, and the way people experience you. In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly what this means, why it’s the most valuable asset you own, and how to build a brand so magnetic that opportunities, wealth, and power become inevitable.
🔥 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ Why branding is the new currency in the age of AI
✔️ The difference between a surface-level brand and one that makes you irreplaceable
✔️ 5 Ways to create an online presence that commands authority and attracts high-caliber opportunities
✔️ The feminine leadership shift that makes your presence unforgettable
If you’re ready to build a powerful brand that sets you apart in business, leadership, and life—this episode is your blueprint. 🚀
📲 Message me on Instagram (@itslaurapatriciamartin) with your biggest takeaway!
🔗 Ready for the next step? Magnetic Messaging Mastermind or Bolder Branding Academy
Ep. 149: Creating a Luxury Brand Before You "Have It All"
MAGNETIC MESSAGING MASTERMIND IS OPEN! DM FOR THE INVITE
If you’re waiting for the perfect circumstances—more money, the right location, the designer wardrobe—to start showing up as that woman, this episode is your wake-up call. Luxury isn’t a price tag—it’s an energy. It’s how you carry yourself, how you see yourself, and ultimately, how the world sees you.
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) is pulling back the curtain on how she built a high-value brand while starting from less than zero. She’s sharing the exact mindset shifts and tangible steps she took when she had no money, no fancy backdrop, and no endless wardrobe—just an unshakable decision to embody the next-level version of her before she existed.
You’ll learn:
✨ Why the “be, do, have” mindset is keeping you stuck
✨ How to craft a luxury aesthetic on a budget
✨ The power of alter egos—and why your “authentic self” might be holding you back
✨ Simple daily habits that shift your brand presence instantly
✨ How your inner messaging is directly impacting your external success
Whether you’re building your brand, leveling up your presence, or just tired of waiting to feel like that girl—this episode will show you how to close the gap and step into luxury NOW.
🔗 Press play and let’s shift your energy. Luxury starts today.
🎧 Listen now!
Ep. 148: How I Can Think of an Offer at 9 AM and Make 4 Figures by Noon
How I Can Think of an Idea at 9 AM and Sell It by 10 AM
Ever wonder how some entrepreneurs come up with an idea over coffee and have it selling before lunch? Spoiler: it’s not about working harder—it’s about building a brand so aligned, magnetic, and intentional that it does the heavy lifting for you.
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how you can collapse time in your sales process with the Brand Essence Formula—a method that blends strategy, authority, and community to make your offers irresistible.
Here’s what we’re getting into:
✨ Why your micro-messaging matters more than the big picture.
✨ How to lead with conviction so your expertise is undeniable.
✨ The role intentional branding plays in building trust (fast).
✨ Why knowing your community is the ultimate shortcut to selling with ease.
If you’re ready to trade drawn-out launches for lightning-fast results, this episode is for you. Let’s vibe, simplify, and sell with ease—because when your brand is that strong, selling becomes second nature.
🎧 Press play now to learn how to turn your ideas into income—faster than your morning coffee can cool.
🔥 DM me to learn more about Magnetic Messaging Mastermind kicking off mid February
👉 Tag me on IG when you’re listening
@itslaurapatriciamartin—I can’t wait to hear your biggest takeaway! 💖
Ep. 147: Creating an Online Brand That's In A League Of It's Own in 2025
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) gives you an exclusive sneak peek into her latest masterclass, LIBERATED, where she breaks down the creative process behind building a luxury brand that doesn’t just blend in—it commands attention in 2025.
She dives deep into how to create a brand experience that feels premium, magnetic, and impossible to ignore, using strategies that merge intentionality with creative flair. Whether you’re a coach, entrepreneur, or thought leader, this is your guide to standing out in a crowded market and positioning yourself as a category of one.
✨ In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
How to create a luxury brand experience that feels aligned and authentic The secret to standing out in 2025’s oversaturated market Why creative process is your superpower in building a brand that lasts
If you’re ready to liberate your creative energy and elevate your brand, this episode is your invitation to step into the spotlight.
🔥 Your next move? Jump into LIBERATED or Bolder Branding Academy if you're ready to go all-in on their brand glow-up in 2025. 👏
Ep. 146: Stop Handing Your Magic Over to ChatGPT (And Unlock Your True Creative Power Instead)
Ladies, are you letting AI steal your shine? In this episode, we’re diving deep into how ChatGPT (and similar tools) might actually be holding you back from stepping into your full creative power. Sure, these tools are helpful—but when you start outsourcing your magic, you’re also outsourcing the part of you that makes your business and brand magnetic.
I’ll share why leaning too hard on AI could dilute your authenticity and disconnect you from your voice. Plus, I’ll give you the exact steps to take instead, so you can stay in alignment with your unique brilliance while still using AI as a powerful assistant (not a crutch).
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Am I losing my creative edge?” or feeling like your content doesn’t quite sound like YOU, this episode is a must-listen. It’s time to reclaim your magic, own your voice, and let your creativity take the lead.
Let’s vibe, grow, and glow together in this candid chat that’s equal parts tactical and soulful. Grab your coffee (or rosé), and let’s get into it.
✨ What you’ll learn in this episode:
-Why over-relying on AI is sabotaging your creativity. The key to blending authenticity with efficiency in your business. My step-by-step framework for using ChatGPT *without* losing your edge.
🎧 Press play now to stop handing your magic over and start showing up as the iconic leader you are.
👉 Tag me on IG when you’re listening @itslaurapatriciamartin—I want to hear your biggest takeaway! 💖
Ep. 145: #UNPLUGGED: We’re Back and Doing Our Year in Review: Magic, Lessons & Bold Intentions for 2025 with Stef Elsperman
In this Unplugged episode, Laura and Stef sit down for a heart-to-heart on the rollercoaster ride that was 2024. Think of it as your backstage pass to the real, raw moments behind the scenes—the wins that made us pop champagne, the lessons that humbled us, and the messy, beautiful in-betweens that shaped this year into one for the books.
We’re talking:
✨ The surprising highs and unexpected pivots that redefined our vision.
✨ What worked, what didn’t, and the tea on the projects we’re leaving behind.
✨ The mindset shifts and habits that fueled our biggest growth moments.
✨ A sneak peek into what’s brewing for 2025—and why we’re calling it our breakout year.
This episode is packed with stories that will inspire you to reflect on your own year and step into the next chapter with fresh energy and clarity. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the real talk, or the behind-the-scenes magic, we promise you’ll leave feeling empowered and ready to crush your 2025 goals.
Grab your headphones and join us for the ultimate year-end recap—we’re spilling it all. 🎙️
Don’t forget to:
⭐ Leave a review if this episode resonated with you!
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Ep. 144: Reigniting Your Spark: How to Break Out of a Rut and Step Into Your Power
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Feeling stuck in a rut? You’re not alone—but staying there isn’t an option. In this episode, Laura dives into what it means to lose your spark and how to reignite it with intention. Whether you’re battling burnout, feeling uninspired, or questioning your next move, this episode will help you reconnect with your vision, shake up your routine, and realign your energy. Laura shares her personal strategies for breaking free from monotony, rediscovering joy, and stepping back into your power.
This is your sign to stop settling for “meh” and start creating momentum. Tune in, take notes, and let’s spark the shift you’ve been craving!
What You’ll Learn:
- Why you’re stuck and how to spot the signs of misalignment.
- Practical steps to shake up your routine and rediscover excitement.
- The importance of rest, realignment, and celebrating small wins.
- How to reconnect with your vision and take bold, aligned action.
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- Laura’s #PrehousewifeEra framework.
- Journaling prompts to get clarity on your next move.
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Ep. 143: Branding Trends to Leave Behind in 2024: Mistakes You Can’t Afford
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In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) gets real about the branding trends and mistakes holding you back from stepping into your next-level identity in 2025. From outdated perfectionism and copycat strategies to the harmful effects of surface-level messaging, Laura shares what needs to go—and what to replace it with. Learn how to refine your brand, captivate your audience, and confidently take your business into the new year.
We chat:
- Why perfectionism is hurting your brand more than helping.
- The dangers of mimicking others instead of owning your unique voice.
- How to show up authentically without sacrificing professionalism.
- The #1 mindset shift to level up your visibility and impact in 2025.
- Strategies to simplify your branding while driving higher conversions.
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Ep. 142: Why You’re Blocking Your Wealth (and How to Fix It) with Hayley Lloyd
In this episode, Laura (@Itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with 7 Figure Business + Authority Mentor Hayley Lloyd (@hayleyjunelloyd) to explore the powerful dynamics of inner authority versus outer authority and how they impact your ability to attract success.
Together, they dive into the hidden manifestation blocks that keep high-achieving women stuck, revealing why so many unintentionally repel the wealth and opportunities they desire.
Tune in to learn how to reclaim your personal power, align with your highest potential, and unlock the financial abundance you’ve been chasing—all by mastering your inner authority.
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Ep. 141: How to Overcome Impostor Syndrome When You're in Rooms with People More Successful Than You
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into overcoming impostor syndrome when you find yourself in rooms with people more successful than you. She shares powerful mindset shifts that help you ditch the pressure to prove yourself, lean into curiosity, and own your unique value.
You’ll learn how to reframe self-doubt as a sign of growth, use confidence-boosting techniques, and show up with magnetic energy that commands respect.
Laura’s real-life stories and actionable insights will leave you feeling empowered to step into your next-level self and claim your place at any table.
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Ep. 140: The Identity Shift To Being “That Girl” in 2025
This episode isn’t about generic resolutions or fluff—Laura’s (@itslaurapatriciamartin) breaking down the real mindset shift that separates women who dabble from those who dominate.
If you’re tired of spinning your wheels and ready to step into the version of yourself that commands the room, scales with ease, and lives fully aligned, this is your episode. Laura shares the unapologetic truth about what it takes to leave your old identity behind and claim your next-level power as we head into 2025.
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Ep. 139: Attracting Buyers Who Don’t Need a Discount: Premium Strategies for Black Friday and Beyond
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into how to attract premium buyers during the Black Friday frenzy—without slashing your prices or compromising your brand’s value.
You’ll learn the key mindset and messaging shifts that set your business apart, allowing you to connect with high-ticket clients who prioritize quality over discounts.
From creating magnetic offers to positioning yourself as the go-to expert, this episode will show you how to elevate your brand and make sales that feel aligned, even in a season focused on bargains. Ready to refine your strategy for 2024 and beyond? Let’s get started!
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Ep. 138: From 10th Grade Drop Out to 7 Figures: The Power of Choice Points with Ryann Halo
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Ryann Halo (@Ryann_Halo) dive into the power of pivotal “choice points” in shaping our journeys. Ryann shares how, with only a 10th-grade education, she faced a critical decision: let her circumstances define her or rise above them to create something impactful.
Together, Laura and Ryann explore how choosing to overcome adversity and channel resilience into service can lay the foundation for success in both love and business. This conversation is a powerful reminder that our toughest moments can become the catalyst for building something extraordinary when approached with purpose and a heart to serve.
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Ep. 137: Grief, Growth, and Grace: What I’ve Learned Since Losing My Mother to Addiction
In this powerful episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) opens up about the journey she’s walked in the ten years since losing her mother to addiction, sharing ten life-changing lessons that explore healing, forgiveness, and self-compassion. She reflects on how this loss has transformed her perspective on trauma and fueled her mission to empower high-achieving women to embrace their whole selves, even through pain.
Each lesson reveals growth and strength, reminding listeners that even the deepest losses can shape us into resilient leaders. Tune in for a raw, inspiring conversation on moving from heartbreak to healing, embracing resilience, and honoring our truest selves.
Ep. 136: 5 Key Areas I Focused On To Make $170k in 10 Months
In this episode, we’re diving into the three transformative pillars that helped me achieve $170k in just ten months—and how you can set yourself up to do the same in 2025.
First, we’ll explore the power of intentionality in community and self-development, emphasizing how focusing on one area can amplify your impact. Then, we’ll discuss building a personal brand that’s magnetic, powerful, and authentic to attract high-value clients.
Next, we’ll walk through high-impact systems and automation to help you scale without burning out, freeing up time for life outside of work. Finally, we’ll uncover the mindset and energy alignment practices that keep you grounded, motivated, and open to receiving abundance.
Tune in for actionable steps to elevate your business, achieve balance, and start your best year yet!
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Ep. 135: How to Show Up When You’re Going Through A Hard Time
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into how to show up even when you're having a tough time, emphasizing the importance of leaning on support systems when your brain isn't giving you an accurate picture. She highlights the power of setting non-negotiables, doing just what's necessary, and nothing more.
Laura also reminds listeners to compartmentalize and focus on their "why" during challenging times, practicing patience and grace since your prefrontal cortex may not be fully engaged. Lastly, she touches on the value of funnels in maintaining momentum and automating processes, even when personal energy is low.
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Ep. 134: Unplugged: Life Updates // Navigating Identity Shifts, Leaving the Coaching Bubble, Stef's Engagement, & I'm Moving to CT?!
In this Unplugged episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) dive into some big life updates, including navigating major identity shifts as they both step outside of the traditional coaching bubble and into new phases of life.
They reflect on how leaving the familiar world of coaching has reshaped their sense of self and purpose, with Stef sharing exciting details about her engagement and how this has impacted her personal journey.
Meanwhile, Laura is toying with the idea of moving to a smaller town… and they explore how these transitions have prompted them to redefine what success and fulfillment look like in this next chapter.
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Ep. 133: How to Become a Showstopper in Business And Build a Scalable Brand That Thrives Offline With Kara Fillion
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Kara (@karafillion , the powerhouse behind the global Showstoppers movement, to explore the mindset and strategies behind building a profitable, scalable brand that allows women to live life on their terms. Kara shares her journey to generating over $1 million in revenue while traveling to 28 countries and empowering thousands of women to create iconic businesses.
Together, they dive into how to balance scaling a brand with living fully offline, embracing freedom through systems, and unlocking the inner showstopper that every woman holds within. This conversation is packed with insights on how to build a business that thrives without sacrificing the lifestyle you truly desire.
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Ep. 132: The Secrets Behind Crushing Business and Love in the Same Year
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) shares powerful secrets that have transformed both her business and personal life in the past year. From mastering clear messaging, automation, and organic marketing to scaling a multi six-figure brand, she reveals key business strategies that helped her stand out and thrive.
On the personal side, Laura opens up about how balancing masculine drive with feminine energy, setting boundaries, and trusting divine timing led her to finding love while building her empire. Whether you're looking to scale your business or attract a fulfilling relationship, these game-changing insights will help you achieve both without compromise.
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Ep. 131: The #1 Branding Mistake Keeping You Small (And How to Fix It)
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the #1 branding mistake that’s keeping you small—trying to appeal to everyone, which leads to confusing and diluted messaging. She shares her personal journey of overcoming this mistake and how shifting to clear, consistent positioning transformed her brand and business.
You’ll also hear a real-life case study of a client who broke free from this trap and scaled her business by narrowing her focus. Laura wraps up with actionable tips on how to fix this mistake, attract the right clients, and start scaling. Plus, she introduces you to the Bolder Branding Academy, where she helps women elevate their brand to the next level.
Ep. 130: Rebuilding Your Marriage and Inspiring His Leadership With Julie Tran
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Julie Tran (@leadwithjulietran) to dive deep into the art of inspiring him to rise into his masculinity and become the leader your marriage needs. Julie shares her personal journey of choosing to stay in her marriage instead of opting for divorce, revealing how she found power in repairing the relationship and rebuilding it from the ground up.
Together, they discuss the profound impact a woman can have when she steps into her feminine strength, fostering the change that reignites passion, restores trust, and transforms the very foundation of the marriage.
This episode is a must-listen for any woman ready to inspire her partner to lead while reigniting the power of her own feminine influence.
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Ep. 129: Unlocking Authenticity: The Key to Attracting High-Ticket Clients AND Love
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives deep into how showing up authentically online can transform not only your business but also your relationships. You’ll learn the power of vulnerability, the importance of aligning your brand with your true self, and three practical steps to start embracing authenticity today.
By dropping the masks and sharing your real story, you’ll naturally attract the high-value clients and love you desire—without sacrificing who you are. Tune in as Laura reveals how authenticity is your secret weapon for success in every area of life.
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Ep. 128: Separation Season: Stop Hiding and Chase Your Dreams
IIn this episode of Unleash Your Potential: Stop Hiding and Chase Your Dreams, host Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives deep into why so many high-achievers hold back from their true desires, often staying hidden from their full potential. Laura unpacks the common fears that keep us stuck, the costs of playing small, and how bold, imperfect action can unlock life-changing opportunities.
Through personal stories and actionable steps, she delivers a powerful call to action, inspiring listeners to stop hiding and finally pursue the dreams they’ve been holding back.
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Ep. 127: The Feminine-Masculine Balance in High-Value Relationships: How to Maintain Success in Business While Thriving in Love
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives deep into the delicate dance between feminine and masculine energies, exploring how high-achieving women can successfully balance these forces to thrive in both business and love.
She breaks down the significance of each energy, how imbalances can affect both professional success and romantic fulfillment, and provides actionable strategies for maintaining harmony in your relationships and career.
Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection with your partner or bring more creativity and intuition into your business, this episode offers essential insights and practical tips to help you lead with grace and power in every aspect of your life.
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Ep. 126: #Unplugged: Releasing Control, Ego Deaths, and Surrendering to the Unknown in Business & Relationships With Stef Elsperman
In this episode of #UNPLUGGED, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) dive deep into the challenges of releasing control in love and leadership, particularly for high-performing women. They explore the fear of love slipping away and how this manifests in relationships, business, and personal growth.
With candid insights, they discuss the importance of surrender, vulnerability, and holding space for both themselves and their partners. Laura opens up about the ego death she faces while supporting her boyfriend's brand, sharing the struggles of balancing her independence with her role in his business. Stef contributes her own experiences, highlighting the need for boundaries, structure, and self-care, especially as projectors.
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Ep. 125: How Support Your Nervous System During A Transition Season
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the essential strategies for supporting your nervous system during life's inevitable transition seasons. Whether you're navigating a career change, a relationship shift, or a personal transformation, we’ll explore practical tools rooted in somatic therapy and neuroscience to help you stay grounded and resilient.
Learn how to recognize and respond to the stress signals your body sends, cultivate self-compassion, and create a nurturing environment that empowers you to thrive even amidst uncertainty.
Tune in to equip yourself with the knowledge and practices to navigate transitions with grace and confidence.
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Ep. 124: The KEY to Your Money Expansion With Lauren Plante
In this captivating episode, Laura(@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Money Empowerment Queen Lauren Plante (@lauplante) to unlock the secrets to expanding your wealth and achieving financial freedom.
Together, they dive into practical strategies and mindset shifts that high-achieving women can implement to elevate their financial game. With a blend of insightful advice, personal anecdotes, and actionable tips, Laura and Lauren reveal how to break through financial barriers, attract abundance, and step into a more prosperous and empowered version of yourself.
Tune in to discover the key to your money expansion and transform your financial future!
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Ep. 123: Part Three: The Mistakes You’re Making With Your Personal Brand
In this eye-opening episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) delves into the six common mistakes that many high-achieving women make when building their personal brands.
From inconsistent messaging and neglecting authentic storytelling to underestimating the power of visual identity, these pitfalls can hinder your brand's effectiveness and impact. Laura gives you the roadmap to navigate these challenges, ensuring your personal brand resonates deeply, commands attention, and attracts high-value opportunities.
Tune in to transform your personal brand and step into your most powerful self.
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Ep. 122: Part Two: Using the BOLD METHOD to Elevate Your Personal Brand
Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the transformative power of the BOLD METHOD to elevate your personal brand.
Building on the insights from Part 1, she shares actionable strategies to help you identify and showcase your unique strengths, refine your brand's voice, and enhance your online presence.
Whether you're an entrepreneur, coach, or creative professional, Laura's expertise will guide you in cultivating a magnetic persona that resonates with your audience and commands attention.
This episode is packed with valuable tips to help you stand out and make a lasting impact in your industry.
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Ep. 121: Part One: Uncover The Energetic Shift Needed to Position Yourself as an Industry Leader
In this episode, Laura (@laurapatriciamartin) unpacks the transformative power of aligning your personal energy with your professional aspirations, highlighting how embodying confidence, clarity, and authenticity can magnetize high-caliber opportunities and networks.
Laura shares actionable insights on recalibrating your mindset and presence to resonate deeply with your target audience, ultimately positioning yourself as a compelling, influential leader in your industry.
Tune in to discover how these energetic shifts can revolutionize not just your brand, but your entire professional trajectory.
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Ep. 120: #UNPLUGGED: When To Rest Vs. 'Power Through' As An Entrepreneur With Stef
Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) and Stef (@stefanieelsperman) delve into the psychological triggers behind self-sabotage and offer actionable strategies to overcome these barriers.
Through captivating stories and expert insights, Laura and Stef guide high-achieving women on a journey to transform their mindsets, boost their confidence, and align their actions with their ambitious goals.
Tune in to discover how to break free from self-defeating patterns and step into your full potential as a powerful, unstoppable entrepreneur.
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Ep. 119: Be The CEO of Your Body With Emily Bostin
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Emily Bostin (@endocrinenutritionist), an esteemed endocrine specialist, to explore the transformative concept of becoming the CEO of your body.
Emily delves into the critical importance of understanding and optimizing our endocrine health to function at peak capacity, both personally and professionally.
From strategic nutrition and hormonal balance to the science of stress management, Emily provides actionable insights and practical tips to help you take charge of your well-being.
Discover how mastering your physical and mental health can unlock unprecedented levels of productivity, energy, and success in all areas of your life.
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Ep. 118: High-Performance Habits for a Summer Glow Up
In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) dives into the essential habits that can 10x your summer, transforming it from a season of self-destruction to one of speeding up… without you even needing to really do much else other than be more intentional with how you’re using your time.
Laura shares practical tips and strategies to harness the summer energy, ensuring you glow up both personally and professionally.
Whether you're looking to elevate your business, enhance your productivity, or simply stay motivated, this episode will provide you with the blueprint to make this summer your most transformative yet.
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Ep. 117: THROUGH THE MALE LENS: What Men Really Look For When Committing with Michael Perez
In this riveting episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Michael Perez (@Michaelperez) to uncover the often-misunderstood intricacies of male commitment. Delving into what men truly seek when they decide to commit.
Michael and Laura explore the psychological, emotional, and practical aspects that influence a high-value man's decision to take the plunge. From the importance of emotional safety and shared values to the role of physical attraction and life goals, this conversation is packed with insights that will transform your understanding of male commitment.
Tune in to discover how to align your relationship approach with what high-value men genuinely desire, paving the way for deeper, more fulfilling connections.
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Ep. 116: The 2 Things I Did This Year That Completely Shifted My Dating Life & My Bank Account
In this captivating episode of Healing to Happy, Laura (@ItsLauraPatriciaMartin) shares the two transformative actions that revolutionized her dating life and skyrocketed her bank account.
With her signature blend of Soft x Savage, she dives deep into the strategies that not only magnetized a high-value man but also significantly increased her financial success.
Through personal anecdotes and actionable insights, Laura guides high-achieving women to replicate these powerful shifts in their own lives, demonstrating how embracing these changes can lead to profound personal and professional growth.
Tune in for a dynamic conversation that promises to inspire and empower you to take control of your love life and finances.
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