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I believe there is no such thing as the gift of loneliness, but I do believe there can be peace in loneliness until we find our true destined love unto the realm of Godly matrimony instead of allowing ourselves to end up in one broken relationship unto another one, this can also apply to broken marriages as well.

I believe there is a longing hunger in all of us to be loved and to give love but we have to get know the reality of ourselves first and foremost before pursuing it.

Our childhood, how we engage others, our mindsets, views on life, our belief system, morals, values, our limits, expectations, and so forth will be underlying factors that will either cause us to find ourselves back on the hamster wheel of disappointment.

Or we can become embellished like the loving couple portrayed in the Song of Solomon with matrimony, endurance, dependability, communication, loyalty, empathy, and so forth like God originally intended for every man and woman before the fall of Adam and Eve.

Moreover, some people hide behind the shadows of loneliness or being alone not because they are truly comfortable or accepting of it, many do it because of brokenness and disappointment of being hurt in a past relationships or relationships.

My advice to them, make peace with your hurt, forgive the other person, or persons so that you can truly be set free to love again.

Nonetheless, set your expectations realistically and appropriately unto the Godly elements of love and make sure you are both on the same page.

I love what 1 Corinthians 13:4–8 says about Love but it has to be with a person that is mutual to wanting that same kind of love. I believe this kind of love is possible in godly marital relationship if applied.

1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (ESV)
1. **Love is patient and kind**;
2. Love does not envy or boast;
3. it is not arrogant or rude.
4. It does not insist on its own way;
5. it is not irritable or resentful;
6. it does not rejoice at wrongdoing,
7. but rejoices with the truth.

Should Husband and Wives Deprive One Another Of Sexual Intercourse?

First let’s look up the term deprive, it means to deny (a person or place) the possession or use of something.

Without a doubt, from a Biblical perspective, the Bible commands husband and wives not to deprive each other from sexual intercourse

Therefore, there should be no accusations of bigotry, inequality, misogyny, male chauvinism, or anything else that contends against as being archaic and unfair.

Because it is clear in God’s Word when it says both husbands and wives.

Let’s read 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 (NLT)

Verse 3 The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs.

Verse 4 The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.

The Scripture is also clear on when a couple should consent together to not have sexual relations Let’s read 1 Corinthians 7:5 (NLT)

Verse 5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer.

Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

Why Spouses Shouldn’t Deprive each other of sexual intercourse

1. Due to the desire of husband or wife wanting to have sex their spouse
2. Potential infidelity and tempted to do so if either spouse is being rejected sexually by their husband or wife
3. To avoid sexual immorality.
4. It is commanded by God for both the husband and wife to selflessly fulfill each other’s sexual needs in reference to sexual intercourse.
5. Both the husband and wife should willingly want to take care of each other sexually because it solidifies their body becoming one that goes hand and hand with them loving each other devotely in heart soul mind and spirit (Genesis 2:24).

See couple won’t always be mutual to have sex at the same time, therefore, they can chose to selflessly and consensually allow their husband or wife to have sex with them to not deprive them.

Sadly radicalized feminism, ungodly radio, entertainment, etc have deceived and deterred many married individuals into believing that sex must be earned, negotiated, and even refuted with consent and de pri vation.

Sadly ungodly attitude of some spouses male or female will cause a husband or wife to disregard God’s Word and selfishly reject either their husband or wife when they are asking for sex if it doesn’t apply to their uncooperative mood, expectations, and criteria.

Therefore a married couple has the choice and decision to choose their way or God’s way when it comes to not depriving their spouse or not.

One last thing, there could be genuine situations where a spouse male or female may not be able to genuinely have sex with a their spouse because of emotionally physically, mentally, and psychologically issues, problems, etc.

Therefore in those situation, the spouse wanting sex should be selfless, understanding, supportive, and not guilt shame the spouse that is unable to engage sexually because of some of the underlying factors that I previously mentioned.

Nonetheless, if sexual deprivation is an ongoing problems due to legitimate underlying factor, Godly help, counseling, support should be considered to help that spouse to overcome their challenges of depriving their spouse. Also, the deprived spouse being there without judging, condemning, nor guilt shaming him or her.

God bless and take care, everyone.

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I will be sharing 10 Tips to help you endure and overcome depression that you could be experiencing now or in the near future.

Tips 1-10

Tips Number 1
Exercise, take a walk, or a bike ride. Also consider a gym membership

Tips Number 2
Conquer your worries and fears with comfort, joy, and the peace of God.

Tips Number 3
Live for today and let tomorrow worry about itself.

Tip Number 4
Overcome you bad thoughts with good ones and pray!

Tip Number 5
Be constructive but not over critical of yourself.

Tip Number 6
Make peace with your guilt and forgive yourself, plus forgive others.

Tip Number 7
Don’t became a prisoners of past failures, mistakes, and unwise choices

Tip Number 8
Don’t manipulate and gaslight yourself

Tip 9
Don’t embrace nor feed into negativity.

My final and last tip for today, Tip Number 10

Stay away from and don’t feed into people that influence or entice you to your depression. Lastly but most importantly lean God, the Father Son and Holy Spirit to help you become an overcomer to your depression so that your depression won’t be able to overcome you.

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Take care and God bless

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I am sharing this podcast with you today to advocate that no one deserves to be betrayed, lied to, and cheated on by a spouse or potential spouse.

So I will proceed with 15 POSSIBLE SIGNS THAT A SPOUSE OR POTENTIAL SPOUSE COULD BE CHEATING

1. You begin catching them in lies.
2. They avoid you as much as possible.
3. They accuse you of cheating.
4. They become very different in their behavior and attitude .
5. They will gaslight and accuse you of cheating to deter you from what they are actually doing.
6. A lack of interest in courting, intimacy, sex, and so forth.
7. They refuse and no longer engage you as a friend, lover, spouse, and so forth
8. They are in their own illusive world with the anticipation of being with their other lover or lovers.
9. Possible change in their inner circle or the sway of their inner circle to venture outside their marriage.
10. They no longer embellish you or their relationship with you.
11. Increased interest in appearance, more time spent away from home.
12. Changes in how they communicate to you.
13. They are very secretive with their phone.
14. No quality nor quantity time is desired.
15. They only treat you as an estranged business partner or room-mate.

If your spouse or potential spouse is exhibiting any of these possible warning signs, sit down with them, be transparent about what you are noticing and concerned about.

Plus, give eye to eye contact, pay close attention to their body language, and how they respond back to you.

As well, I say possible because there could be other underlying factors why your spouse or potential is behaving the way he or she is; therefore, you should try to find out why the possible changes are occurring because those changes are still having a dire affect on your relationship.

This will conclude my podcast for today and remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow. #cheaters #liars #manipulators #gaslighter #affair #adultery

Can A Woman Cheat On Her Husband And Still Love Him?

A woman on a social media platform asked me this question “Why Did I Cheat On My Husband When I Still Love Him Genuinely And Sincerely?

I responded by telling her that the question you should be asking yourself, if you love your husband so genuinely and sincerely, why would you cheat on him in the first place?

If you genuinely love your husband, it should be demonstrated by your actions of loyalty, commitment, faithfulness, and devotion.

You really need to self-examine and be honest with yourself on why you chose to betray your husband that you claim to love so deeply.

Also, is your love for him defined by your self-entitled standards or by your wedding vows unto God, just something to think about?

Lastly, what you are feeding into your heart, soul, mind, and spirit could also be contributing factors why you cheated on your husband.

Not to mention, the sway of the modern culture. I will be praying for you and your husband.

Are There Potential Negative Effects Of High Body Count?

I received a lot backlash from a recent article I posted on a social media platform and also my podcast concerning how body count could “potentially” affect a marital relationship.

My examples on how it could affect men and women differently was also not well received.

I was called a Misogynist among many others things.

So maybe there was definitely a misunderstanding on how I was trying to convey my point of view.

So I will take ownership and
share with you today the “potential” effects that I believe a high body count could have on some “not all” men and women; therefore, you can decide whether you agree or disagree without hurling insults, being profane, and so forth.
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First and. Foremost,
what is the definition of body count, it has mainly two meaning, a count of bodies of killed enemy soldiers, or
the number of persons involved in a particular activity.

So here is what I believe are some of the “potential effects” of high body count

1. It could potentially lead to uncontrolled and untamed sexual promiscuity.
2. It could potentially lead to sexual addiction.
3. It could potentially lead to infidelity of some spouses not wanting to be genuinely monogamous, this can apply to both husbands and wives.
4. It could definitely lead to STDs, Unwanted Pregnancies, Motherhood, Fatherhood, Abortions, etc.
5. It could potentially lead to feelings of insecurities, shame, guilt, and mistrust from both men and women.
6. It could potentially lead to the disrupting or forming bonding connections with a future husband or wife.
7. It could potentially lead to some “not all” husbands or wives comparing past sexual experiences of high body count with their current spouse.
8. It could potentially lead to judgment and criticism from others that can harm the ability to form meaningful and healthy relationships
9. It could potentially lead to physical, emotional, psychological, and mental disturbances on how a person feel or value him or herself.
10. It could potentially lead to sexual deprivation and other sexual dysfunctions in a current martial relationships because of unresolved past issues with a high body count whether it be male or female.

Lastly, this podcast message isn’t about guilt shaming anyone, it is about encouraging anyone (male or female) with a high body count to seek help, counsel, and support if it is affecting them physically, emotionally, psychological, socially, and mentally in their martial relationship and other social interactions.

Plus, if a person is married and their past body count is having an adverse effect on their marriage, I encourage he or she to get Godly counsel, support, and help because of the dire effect it could be having on their spouse which could eventually lead to separation, divorce, and other underlying problems if not resolved.

This will conclude my podcast for today at Live, Listen, Learn, and Grow.

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I will be sharing with you today a message called, “Are You Concerned About The Needs Of Your Husband Or Wife?”

Let’s define necessity in most obvious meaning and term - the fact of being required or indispensable

The problem with so many marriages that are miserable and intolerable instead of enduring and delightful is the missing component of selflessness.

When both spouses are willing to make it about each other instead of about themselves then the marriage can be what God meant for it to be.

Wives should learn to embrace the the godly and foundational needs of their husbands and husbands should learn to embrace the godly and foundational needs of their wives.

See necessities of selflessness transcends and put to shame the selfish wanting of me, myself, and I in the relationship.

Furthermore when you neglect the necessities of each other the want is considered selfish, self-centered, and repulsive.

Necessities should consist of kindness, gentleness, respect, marital faithfulness, accountability unto each other, plus the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual without sexual deprivation and guilt shaming.

This will conclude my podcast and remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow.

God bless and take care everyone

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HOW TO ACHIEVE TRUE HAPPINESS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP (List 1-10)?

1. Stay true, committed, and devoted eachother.
2. Keep close to eachother.
3. Achieve, love, support, and grow together.
4. Build up eachother instead of tearing eachother down.
5. Don’t take each other for granted.
6. Avoid Drama, Toxicity, and so forth.
7. Avoid outside negative influences.
8. Seek positive, healthy, and Godly counsel.
9. Spend quality times together.
10. Be willing to an open and not closed book to each other.

Before concluding my podcast I just want to make it perfectly clear that I believe in God design for marriage home and family but both individuals must have a biblical and traditional mindset in order to have a Godly, good, blessed marriage.

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I will be sharing with you today, Beware Of Falling Prey To Radicalized Modernism Feminism And Ignoring Biblical Marital Traditionalism

If you are using this arguments toward your husband,
“I will let him lead me, but he isn’t demonstrating leadership.” In other words, “If he isn’t leading the way you want him to lead, you refuse to submit to his leadership.” Find that for me in the Bible.

No man is going to be perfect and nor are you. If your husband possess a lot of the Godly attributes of being a hard worker, provider, faithfulness, patience. humility, and so forth. You shouldn’t tear him down in the areas that he needs improvement. Instead pray for him, being a Christ centered Help Meet. Be for him not against him.

In addition, I know that there are some bad apples out there. Nonetheless, there are a lot decent good men out there as well. They may not be perfect, but they are hard-working, faithful, sacrificial, protective, and would lay down their lives for their wives and children or potential ones.

Nonetheless, for some women (not all) that isn’t enough. Sadly, so many women will die alone with a cat or a house full of them.

Sadly, some (not all) women want to be in control because they are in denial or refuse to accept they have a Jezebelic mindset and disdain to obey God’s words for marriage, home, and family as presented in Scripture but preferably choose their own will.

Many will even desire to be married, remarried, or abhor an emaciated man or spouse that they are currently with only for convience, control, with no optional choices.

Young ladies out there, subsequently, times waits for no one, pretty soon 25 will be 35 and 35 will be 45 and 45 will be 55 and then so on 😸 😿🐱🙀🐈🐈‍⬛ 🐈‍⬛🐈🐱🐈🐈🐈.

So examine yourselves, look to God’s Word and don’t fall prey to Radicalized Modernism Feminism by Ignoring Biblical Marital Traditionalism .

Men get yourselves in order as well, but I only mention it from a leadership perspective because I hear that a lot from some women. #feminism #husbandandwife #maritaladvice #lovemarriagenotdivorce.

God has definitely commanded the husband to be the head of his household because it is proclaimed throughout Scripture, but that doesn’t mean that he is to misuse, violate, or utilize his headship in a manner that contradicts what God has commanded him to do as a husband.

In addition, a wife shouldn’t use a man’s headship as an excuse to demoralize, disrespect, nor behave in manner that violates her role as help-meet, even if she feels he isn’t living up to his Godly role as the head of his home because that wouldn’t be Biblical.

Likewise, a husband should be patient with his wife as well in correlation to her help meet role

Taking ownership and accountability for both the husband and wife is vital for a healthy marital relationship.

Furthermore, if they both exhibit the fruit of the Spirit toward each other, 1 Corinthians 13:3-7, and their Godly designated role, plus putting the whole armor of God on.

They will have a Godly marriage that will stand the test of time through tests trials, tribulations, challenges and so forth with genuine agape love for each other. #headship #helpmeet #adamandeve #husbandandwife #maritaladvice

What Qualities Should A Man Be Looking For In A Future Wife?

1. She should possess the qualities be caring, understanding, and compassionate.

2. She should possess the qualities of being considerate, appreciative, content, humble, and cooperative.

3. She should possess the qualities of wanting to spend quality and quantity time with her future husband.

4. She should possess the qualities of encouraging, building up, and esteeming her future husband.

5. She should possess the quality of being respectful to her future husband.

6. She should possess the qualities of putting her future husband and their potential children first in accordance to God’s order for marriage, home, and family.

7. She should possess the qualities of wanting her future husband to be her protector, masculine best friend, and her faithful soulmate.

8. She will realize that her husband won’t be perfect and neither is she, and they both will look to God to be the foundation of their marriage by allowing His word to guide them.

9. She will also possess the qualities of being be proverbial and avoid trying to being contentious

10. She will also possess the quality of striving to be selfless.

11. She will have the ability to take ownership when she is wrong about a situation in the relationship

12. She also should possess the qualities of not being a gossiper or busybodies, plus work on changing when confronted about it.

13. She will possess the qualities of being an open book plus being respectful, constructive, and take Godly criticism.

14. She will possess the qualities of having the mindset of not allowing the culture, Hollywood, Social Media, Beta men, Untraditional women, or anything else destroy her marriage, home, and family.

15. She will also possess the qualities of situational discipline and structured contentment that will stabilize her emotions and complacency, in other words she won’t allow her emotions to be scattered, conflicted, or toxic when it comes to sustaining her marriage, home, and family

16. She should also possess the quality of allowing her husband to lead her without manipulating nor devaluing his leadership and imperfections.

17. She should also possess the quality of being a Godly help meet and have attributes that will compliment her husband not contend against him.

18. She should possess the quality and mindset to not allow toxic family members, relatives, nor so called friend break up her marriage

19. She will also possess the qualities of being faithful, loyal, devoted, and committed to her future husband.

20. She will possess the qualities of not using sex for manipulation, control, and depravity.

In closing, pay very close attention to a woman you might consider marriage material and make sure she has all or a majority or these attribute and the willingness to work on obtaining them all through Godly counsel, personal accountability, letting go and healing from past baggage, and most importantly allowing the word of God and Christ to direct her steps in the process.


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What Qualities Should A Woman Be Looking For In A Future Husband?

1. He will be caring, emphatic, compassionate, sacrificial, patient, kind, and affectionate.

2. He will be a protector, hard worker, considerate, appreciative, content, and humble.

3. He will want to spend quality and quantity time with his future wife.

4. He will encourage, build up, edify, and be a support system for his future wife.

5. He will respect her opinions, insightfulness, wisdom, and input just as long as it doesn’t breach God’s Word.

6. He will put his future wife and children first.

7. He will be her protector, masculine best friend, and lover.

8. He will never compromise or negotiate God’s design for marriage, home, and family.

9. He should encourage, build up, and esteem his future wife.

10. He won’t be perfect (because no one is) but he will humbly and repentantly allow God’s Word and Counsel to correct him when he is wrong plus take ownership.
11. He won’t devalue, degrade, nor belittle her.
12. He will be faithful, loyal, committed, and devoted.
13. He will genuinely love her and he won’t use his headship as dictatorship.
14. He will value, love, and treat his wife with dignity, comfort, and respect.
15. He will be willing to selflessly sacrifice for her and lay down his life for her if necessary.
16. He will have the mindset of not allowing the culture, Hollywood, Social Media, Beta men, Untraditional women, or anything else destroy her marriage, home, and family.
17. He will have the mindset to not allow toxic family members, relatives, nor so called friend break up her marriage.

18. Also, pay very close attention to a man you might consider marriage material and make sure he has all or a majority or these attributes and the willingness to work on obtaining them all through Godly counsel, personal accountability, letting go and healing from past baggage, and most importantly allowing the word of God and Christ to direct his steps in the process.
19. He should also avoid being full of pride, ego, and narcissism.
20. He should be willing to love you with God’s Love with selflessness.

This will conclude my podcast for today.

Remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow

God bless and take care everyone

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Thank you for tuning in, today I am going to share a podcast message with you called Tips And Advice For Men Seeking A Potential And Future Wife

TIP NUMBER ONE: FIRST AND FOREMOST EXAMINE YOURSELF

First of all you must examine yourself and any unresolved issues in your past. Examples: sexual abuse, toxic parent or parents, dysfunctional upbringing, toxic breakups, soul ties, un-forgiveness, etc.

If you have any of the examples I mentioned and they are unresolved. You need to get Godly help, support, counseling, therapy. Plus you can join or get help from a well Bible believing balanced community Church, and so forth.

TIP NUMBER TWO: DO NOT SET UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS

Do not set unrealistic expectations on what your imagination of what a good woman should be or consist of.

As well, it shouldn’t be based on pride, ego, past relationships, body counts, Hollywood, modern culture, etc that is anti- God, nuclear family, and so forth.

TIP NUMBER THREE: DO NOT VIEW A FUTURE AS PROPERTY

Also, don’t view your future or potential wife as being property but see her as being your oneness, help meet, bone of your bone, and flesh of your flesh that you will love, lead, cherish, honor, respect, etc.

TIP NUMBER FOUR: NO WOMAN IS PERFECT BUT SHE SHOULD TAKE OWNERSHIP

A good woman won’t be perfect and neither are you but she should be willing to take ownership when she wrong and so should you.

TIP NUMBER FIVE FIND A GOOD WIFE WITH GODLY STANDARDS

A good woman should be based on Godly standards not yours and you must also have a mindset of being a Good and Godly man that will compliment the good woman that you are looking for.

TIP NUMBER SIX ATTITUDE AND MINDSET

Her attitude and mindset should consist of gentleness, meekness, patience, understanding, respect, and not toxicity, negativity, spitefulness, and carnal drama.

TIP NUMBER SEVEN SHE SHOULD BE WILLING TO WORK WITH YOU AND LET YOU LEAD HER

She should be willing to work with you and not defy God’s design for marriage, home, and family. In addition she will not try to sabotage your headship with manipulative and ungodly tactics.

TIP NUMBER EIGHT MAKE SURE SHE HAS A SELFLESS MINDSET INSTEAD OF A SELFISH ONE

The biggest mistakes that some men and women make are, they make it all about themselves with the inability or refusal to process or understand, it is about being selfless toward each other not selfish.

TIP NINE AND MY FINAL TIP: Moreover, the woman you are pursuing for a future or potential wife should not be swayed or contaminated with self-entitlement, the modern culture, lack of Godly contentment, and rejection for God’s way and design for marriage, home, and family.

This will conclude my podcast for today and remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow

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This podcast is based on a conversation that I had with a young lady on a social media platform. This young lady asked me to give her my opinion on her current situation with a man she was dealing with after finding out that he was Player, Cheater, Manipulator, and Liar.

I responded by saying Players, Cheaters, Manipulators, and Liars will utilize the very standards you set for the relationship in order to take advantage of you.

What if you set the standard of just dating him for 3 to 6 months and get to know more about him?

What if you set the standard to remain celibate and tell him, no sex until you put a ring on my finger and marry me?

See players or men that want the best of two worlds will run game on you.

Because you don’t set the necessary standards for the relationship that will prevent him from doing it.

I am not excusing what he did, but you young ladies need to stop following the culture and go old 🏫.

If you do, you will avoid a lot ❤️ break, being taken advantage of, and wounded emotionally.

No sex, 💍, and making marriage your standard will expose the guys that are not serious about you and give you the potential to find the ones who are.

As well, your relationship with him was built on lies. Why trust and still want to be with someone who is willing to lie, cheat, and deceive you while already being married to a wife with kids.

Furthermore, he ghosted you because he knows he can no longer have his cake and eat it too after his wife found out about the affair.

It is going to hurt, but you need to value your self-worth and not hold your heart, soul, body, mind, and spirit in bondage to someone who was only taking you for a ride.

Not to mention, he was fulfilling his narcissistic ego to be cheating on his wife and playing with your fragile heart, feelings, and emotions.

So set godly standards for yourself and stop choosing men based on outward appearance, swag, material, and monetary appeal.

The type of man that you should be looking for is one who is traditional, godly, respectful, responsible, faithful, employed, hardworking, dependable, reliable, transparent, empathetic, caring, trustworthy, and so forth.

So in closing I am praying the young lady took heed to my advice to stop choosing Players Cheaters Manipulators
And Liars.

Because there are some good men out there even though they might not have that bad boy, suspenseful, and stud muffin appeal that so many women fall prey to instead of 👀ing for the inner qualities of a man that will represent their character and true, genuine, and heartfelt intentions.

This will conclude my podcast for today and remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow.

God bless and take care everyone.

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Today, I will be sharing a podcast message called, “A Young Lady Gets Body Shamed By Her Boyfriend And Ask Me What Should She Do?”

On a social media platform, a young lady asked me, What should she do about her boyfriend body shaming her?

She also stated to me that her boyfriend is telling her that her face is okay, but her body is fat and ugly; therefore, he doesn’t like it?

She said that she had gained 10lbs during our 4 years, so now every time he wants to be intimate, I she never feel good enough, nor when he compliments me she doesn’t take it too heart.

I responded, he is a jerk and you need to value your self-worth.
Also, wait on God to bless you
with a man that is going to love
you selflessly without degrading, disrespecting, nor demoralizing you.

Plus, a decent, honest, and sincere man will put a ring on your finger and marry you.

One last thing, the expectation you set for yourself will contribute to the underlying factors how someone else treats you, especially a liar, cheater, manipulator, or guy that will only use you and not genuinely love you.

This can also be vice versa because some decent men allow themselves to be mistreated as well.

I will also share before concluding my podcast the biblical passage of

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (NIV) because it sets the Godly and Biblical standards on how a woman or man deserves to be treated or treat each other in a marital relationship or potential marital relationship.

Verse 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

Verse 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Verse 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

Verse 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

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I will be sharing with you today on how Facebook And Other Social Media Platforms Could Have A Negative Affect On Your Marriage

I will be sharing some possible reasons, “How Facebook And Others Social Media Platforms Could Have A Negative Affect On Your Marriage?”

Reason Number 1: It could possibly rekindle old flings of your past that could interfere with your present marriage.

Reason Number 2: You begin coveting the facade of other people relationships and marriages instead focusing on your own.

Reason Number 3: Your social media can begin to take over personal responsibilities for marriage, home, and family

Reason Number 4: You may end up getting involved with online emotional affairs with lack of self control to avoid temptations

Reason Number 5: You may become less interested in your husband or wife

Reason Number 6: You begin doing thing to compromise your integrity, respect, modesty, and so forth.

Reason Number 7: You could become an addict for attention and ego.

Reason Number 8: You could become an addict to get “likes” in competition with others

Reason Number 9: You could become more of an obsessed busybody, gossipers, and slanderer.

Reason Number 10: You can end up causing a lot of toxicity among yourself and other loved ones, relatives, family member, and in-laws.

Reason Number 11: You could became a facade of yourself and pretending to be something you are not.

Reason Number 12: And my final reason: Your identity could become Facebook and Facebook could become your identity.