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Live Listen Learn And Grow

By LiveListenLearnAndGrow

This podcast will discuss, answer questions, plus give insightfulness in correlation to Biblical Truth for God’s Design for Relationships, Marriage, Home, Family, Mental Health, and Much More. So tune in to Live, Listen, Learn, And Grow.
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10 Tips To Help You Endure And Overcome Depression

Live Listen Learn And GrowJun 02, 2024

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10 Tips To Help You Endure And Overcome Depression

10 Tips To Help You Endure And Overcome Depression

Thank You for Tuning Into My Podcast At Live Listen Learn And Grow

I will be sharing 10 Tips to help you endure and overcome depression that you could be experiencing now or in the near future.

Tips 1-10

Tips Number 1
Exercise, take a walk, or a bike ride. Also consider a gym membership

Tips Number 2
Conquer your worries and fears with comfort, joy, and the peace of God.

Tips Number 3
Live for today and let tomorrow worry about itself.

Tip Number 4
Overcome you bad thoughts with good ones and pray!

Tip Number 5
Be constructive but not over critical of yourself.

Tip Number 6
Make peace with your guilt and forgive yourself, plus forgive others.

Tip Number 7
Don’t became a prisoners of past failures, mistakes, and unwise choices

Tip Number 8
Don’t manipulate and gaslight yourself

Tip 9
Don’t embrace nor feed into negativity.

My final and last tip for today, Tip Number 10

Stay away from and don’t feed into people that influence or entice you to your depression. Lastly but most importantly lean God, the Father Son and Holy Spirit to help you become an overcomer to your depression so that your depression won’t be able to overcome you.

This Will conclude My podcast for today and remember don’t forget to rate and follow my podcast to show your support.

And also remember to live listen learn and grow

Take care and God bless

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Jun 02, 202403:01
How Tik Tok Can Ruin Your Marriage Or Potential One?

How Tik Tok Can Ruin Your Marriage Or Potential One?

Here Are Ten Tips How Tik Tok Could Ruin Your Current Marriage Or Future One

1. It could sway and cause you to become toxic, selfish, misguided and misinformed.
2. It could lure you into becoming a casualty of the blind leading the blind in reference to marital relationship advice.
3. It could give you the illusion, fantasy, and unrealistic expectations of what a marriage should be like.
4. It could embellish you to become a narcissist and gaslighter.
5. It could cause you to develop the me, myself, and I syndrome.
6. It could cause you to have a self-entitled mindset.
7. It could brainwash you into having no concept of what selflessness is and how to be selfless toward your current or future spouse.
8. It could cause you to ignore, disregard, and label good and sound advice as being archaic, barbaric, and outdated.
9. It could groom and manipulate you into adhering to advice that won’t work in a long term relationship even if you currently think it is or would be beneficial for a short period of time because beauty and a banging body won’t last forever.
10. It could deceive you into having no desire to learn, follow, and adhere to God’s criteria for marriage, home, and family.
#toxicity #tiktok #maritaladvice #marriage #maritalrelationship #husbandandwife #socialmediaplatforms
Jun 01, 202403:39
Why Transparency Of Body Count Is Important For Both Men And Women?

Why Transparency Of Body Count Is Important For Both Men And Women?

Why Transparency Of Body Count Is Important For Both Men And Women?

It shows that you are being transparent, open, and honest with each other.

It allows both the potential husband or wife to address concerns they may have due to their potential spouse body count and how it could affect their marriage in the long run if potential underlying issues are not dealt with, treated, counseled, or resolved.

Not to mention, due to the potential impact that it could have on a marriage if there is unresolved body count issues.

I mentioned many of these potential issues in another podcast episode and you can
listen to that episode as well, it is called, Can A High Body Count Potentially Affect A Marriage?

Depending on the individuals, body count can potentially affect men and women in an equal, different, or similar manner.

Nonetheless whether equal, different, or similar, it could pose a dire effect on the marriage.

Equal: They both can be struggling with body count in the same manner, for example comparison and performances of past lovers.

Different: Men tend to be more physical and women more emotional which could cause a difference in how they both engage and view past body counts.

Similar: Regardless of males and females differences there can still be some similarities in how body count is handled, embraced, and dealt with if their are identical or very familiar, unresolved, and underlying issues.

Also, sexual escapades of the past by either the husband or wife could eventually lead to boredom or numbness in a marriage partner when engaging sexually with their current spouse as the marriage lingers on.

Comparison and contrast to past sexual partners either by husband or wife could cause a hindrance or disdain for sexual engagement with the current spouse.

As well, sex before and in the beginning phases of the marriage can be exciting, adventurous, and consistent, but after awhile it can become dormant, stagnant, and even depraved once the honeymoon phase is over.

Therefore, knowing the body count of a potential or future spouse is imperative so that you can understand their mindset toward how they will engage or not engage you sexually once the dating or honeymoon phase is over.

Some other things to consider in correlation to marrying someone with a high body count:

Is sex being used to bait the potential spouse into long term relationships for financial security and reliability without genuine love, respect, and appreciation for other spouse?

Is sex being used to claim the potential spouse as yours and then sex will no longer be desired or required because of the potential past affect unresolved body count?

Is sex be used for offspring purposes only and after the children come, sex will no longer be desired and also neglected because of past body counts?

Is sex being used to masquerade the body count of past lovers that will eventually be a proxy for the other spouse to be or live up to the expectations of what he or she had in the past?

If you ignore body count of a potential or future spouse, it could definitely be a big mistake that you will regret in the long run?

Whether you agree or not about, “Why Transparency Of Body Count Is Important For Both Men And Women?”

This is not about judging or guilt shaming anyone’s past body count, it is about knowing each potential spouse mindset to make sure they are on the same page and also take ownership and get the necessary Godly help, counseling, healing, and so forth with accountability to help them have a healthy sexual relationship with their future or potential spouse like God intended for marriage home and family.

#bodycount #sexandmarriage #sexbeforemarriage #maritaladvice
May 31, 202407:06
Signs That A Marital Relationship Is Potentially Over

Signs That A Marital Relationship Is Potentially Over

If there is no immediate intervention, these are some potential signs a marital relationship is over

1. One or both in the relationship has completely checked out.
2. One or both in the relationship has no desire to communicate or talk anymore
3. One or both in the relationship has no desire, affection, or passion toward each other anymore.
4. One or both in the relationship could care less of each other’s presence or not.
5. One or both in the relationship have no interest to be sexually intimate.
6. One or both in the relationship has no concern about each other’s concerns.
7. One or both in the relationship don’t even care if they are engaging in adulterous or inappropriate activities online or outside the home.
8. One or both in the relationship is already creeping or planning to replace the other.
9. One or both in the relationship is already looking for a divorce lawyer to get half or more of the money, assets, and so forth.
10. One or both in the relationship has a disdainful, spiteful, and agonizing feeling for each other kinda like in the movie, the War of the Roses but pray fully it won’t go that far.

If you are the only one in the marriage witnessing any of these signs by your spouse, you have to decide what your plans are and not be in denial if the other party is feeling this way and have no desire for trying to save the marriage.

Now, if the both of you are feeling this way and refuse to try to reconcile and save your marriage, why stay in it if you both aren’t willing to to save your marriage and win it? Years of ongoing misery, hostility, drama, toxicity and so forth will suck the life out of the both of you.

As well another option could be is to separate, re-evaluate, maybe time away from each other could change the outcome if both parties come to their senses.

Now, like I previously stated, if you are the only one wanting to save the marriage, remember you won’t be able to persuade the other person to stay in the marriage if their heart has already harden beyond the point of no return like I previously stated.

#maritaladvice #lovemarriagenotdivorce
#maritalproblems
#waroftheroses
#livelistenlearnandgrow
May 29, 202404:18
10 Reasons How Being Selfish Can Negatively Affect Your Marriage

10 Reasons How Being Selfish Can Negatively Affect Your Marriage

10 Reasons How Being Selfish Can Negatively Affect Your Marriage

First and foremost, I will give the meaning of selfish: (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure.

Now, I will give the meaning of selflessness: concern more with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own.


Now, I will give you 10 rreasons how being selfish can negatively affect a marital relationship

1. Being selfish instead of selfless to trust your spouse based on your own insecurities and doubts could definitely damage or even ruin the marital relationship.
2. Being selfish instead of selfless can damage communication empathy, transparency, patience, and respect toward one another.
3. Be selfish instead selfless will hinder one or both in the marriage to listen attentively reasonably, logically, honestly, with genuine concerns.
4. Also being selfish instead of selfless will cause frustration and possibly hinder or disrupt one or both in the marriage feelings, concerns, vulnerabilities. Therefore don’t selfishly tare down a spouse or each other because it will most likely lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and psychological, plus mental, and emotional distress.
5. As well, being selfish instead selfless can hinder and deter a couple from bonding, growing, and having a deep connection in their marital relationship.
6. Being selfish instead selfless can also create toxicity, depravity, rejection, and regret in the marriage
7. Being selfish instead selfless in a marriage can cause the me, myself, and I syndrome plus narcissism and gaslighting.
8. Being selfish instead of selfless in a marriage can put more pressure on one of the spouses or both if there is a lack of transparency, accountability, unity on how responsibilities are handled in all aspects of the marriage.
9. Being selfish or self centered in a marriage instead selfless will affect how conflict and disputes can be resolved and marital needs met with contentment and without unrealistic expectations.
10. Being selfish in a marriage instead selfless can affect how you appreciate, value, honor, and respect each other.

In closing, so it is your responsibility as a husband or wife to examine past experiences, upbringing, your motives, intentions, mindset, indoctrination, influence, or anything else that could be swaying you into being selfish instead of selfless toward your spouse.

Remember, it is about you honoring your vows toward your spouse and your spouse doing the same toward toward you. Likewise, it will reciprocate you both into fulfilling each other needs because you are making it about each other and not about self.

Therefore, the husband will take care of his wife needs and the wife’s will take care of her husband’s need within the confines of their marital vows unto each other.
May 29, 202405:45
Advice To A Married Couple

Advice To A Married Couple

This podcast message will share advice give to a married couple by a podcaster at Live Listen Learn And Grow #marriedcouples #maritaladvice #godlycouples
May 25, 202404:43
This Is Some Advice To Help Married Couples

This Is Some Advice To Help Married Couples

This is a podcast message to give married couples some practical and Godly advice to protect their marriage.
There is a typo error in the introduction title of the podcast video, it should read: This Is Some Advice To Help Married Couples
#marriage #maritaladvice #lovemarriageanddivorce
May 22, 202400:55
Part Three Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage?

Part Three Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage?

This Is Part Three Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage with closed captioning and background music.
#husbandandwife #godlymarriage #lovemarrigenotdivorce
May 20, 202401:37
Part Two Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage?

Part Two Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage?

This Is Part Two Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage with closed captioning and background music.
#maritaladvice #husbandandwife #godlymarriage #lovemarriagenodivorce
May 20, 202400:41
Part One Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage

Part One Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage

This is Part One Of How To Have A Good And Godly Marriage with closed captioning and background music.

#maritaladvice #husbandandwife #godlymarriage #lovemarriagenodivorce


May 20, 202400:59
Can A Woman Cheat On Her Husband And Still Love Him (video and closed captioning version)?

Can A Woman Cheat On Her Husband And Still Love Him (video and closed captioning version)?

This podcast message will share advice that was given to a married woman that cheated on her husbands but claimed that she still loved him.
#marriage #cheaters #manipulators #liars #infidelity
May 20, 202401:01
Advice To A Married Couple (with video and closed captioning)

Advice To A Married Couple (with video and closed captioning)

This podcast episode will share advice that a podcaster gave to a struggling married couple.
#maritaladvice #husbandandwife #marriedcouple #godlymarriage
May 20, 202403:54
How To Avoid Broken Relationships And Find True Love?

How To Avoid Broken Relationships And Find True Love?

I believe there is no such thing as the gift of loneliness, but I do believe there can be peace in loneliness until we find our true destined love unto the realm of Godly matrimony instead of allowing ourselves to end up in one broken relationship unto another one, this can also apply to broken marriages as well.

I believe there is a longing hunger in all of us to be loved and to give love but we have to get know the reality of ourselves first and foremost before pursuing it.

Our childhood, how we engage others, our mindsets, views on life, our belief system, morals, values, our limits, expectations, and so forth will be underlying factors that will either cause us to find ourselves back on the hamster wheel of disappointment.

Or we can become embellished like the loving couple portrayed in the Song of Solomon with matrimony, endurance, dependability, communication, loyalty, empathy, and so forth like God originally intended for every man and woman before the fall of Adam and Eve.

Moreover, some people hide behind the shadows of loneliness or being alone not because they are truly comfortable or accepting of it, many do it because of brokenness and disappointment of being hurt in a past relationships or relationships.

My advice to them, make peace with your hurt, forgive the other person, or persons so that you can truly be set free to love again.

Nonetheless, set your expectations realistically and appropriately unto the Godly elements of love and make sure you are both on the same page.

I love what 1 Corinthians 13:4–8 says about Love but it has to be with a person that is mutual to wanting that same kind of love. I believe this kind of love is possible in godly marital relationship if applied.

1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (ESV)
1. **Love is patient and kind**;
2. Love does not envy or boast;
3. it is not arrogant or rude.
4. It does not insist on its own way;
5. it is not irritable or resentful;
6. it does not rejoice at wrongdoing,
7. but rejoices with the truth.
May 14, 202404:51
How To Avoid Becoming Toxic?

How To Avoid Becoming Toxic?

1. Take ownership of your mindset, behavior, and attitude when it doesn’t line up with appropriate engagement and interaction with other.
2. Think about how you want to be treated and respected by others to motivate you to not behave in a non toxic manner.
3. Get honest, constructive, and impartial feedback from others that know you personally.
4. Don’t take offense or get upset with others that hold you respectfully accountable if they see you drifting into a bout of toxicity.
5. Stay away alcohol, drugs, and other harmful substances that could influence or sway you or your mind into becoming toxic or display toxicity.
6. Learn your triggers, plus learn and utilize coping skills that can keep you from becoming toxic or hostile to yourself, loved ones, family members, and others.
7. Make sure to find conventional activities, hobbies, and so forth to help you avoid toxicity
8. Try to maintain a healthy diet, exercise, and find time to pray, reflect, and meditate on your choices, decisions, and behaviors that could enhance toxicity.
9. Make sure to take ownership and avoid deflecting, ignoring, or denying that there is always room for improvement in your relationships and interactions with other and how you take care of yourself.
10. Lastly but most importantly, if you are a believer in God, prayer unto the Father, imitate the Son, and be led by The Holy Spirit to help you avoid be toxic or embracing toxicity.

This will conclude my post today on How To Avoid Becoming Toxic?

And Remember To Live Listen Learn And Grow

God bless and take care everyone

#toxicity #howtoavoidbecomingtoxic
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May 12, 202403:33
10 Tips On How To Deal With A Toxic Coworker

10 Tips On How To Deal With A Toxic Coworker

10 Tips On How To Deal With A Toxic Coworkers

1. Don’t fight fire with fire and maintain your professionalism.
2. Set appropriate, clear, and concise boundaries with the toxic coworker.
3. Don’t engage nor feed into the negativity of the toxic coworker.
4. Do not gossip or try to slander the toxic co worker you are having problems with, stick with the facts if you have to go to Supervisor.
5. Avoid trying to get other coworkers to support you or take your side when dealing with a toxic co worker, just maintain your work ethic and professionalism like I previously stated..
6. Keep your focus on your job and complete your tasks effectively, efficiently, and productively.
7. Think before you react not react before you think when dealing with a toxic coworker.
8. Also, confide in a trustworthy loved one, spouse, or friend that will be a support system and advocate for your situation without creating additional problems, turmoil, nor drama to the already toxic situation.
9. Also, remember you are responsible for your choices, decisions, and how you conduct yourself when dealing with toxic coworker.
10. f there is harassment, defamation, and threats to your safety and well being by the toxic coworker, go to your supervisor and appropriate chain of command.

This will conclude my podcast for today on 10 Tips How To Deal With A Toxic Coworkers

God bless and remember to LIVE, LISTEN, LEARN, AND GROW #toxicity #toxic-coworkers #hostileworkenvironment #avoidingtoxicity
May 10, 202403:57
Can A Woman Cheat On Her Husband And Still Love Him?

Can A Woman Cheat On Her Husband And Still Love Him?

Can A Woman Cheat On Her Husband And Still Love Him?

A woman on a social media platform asked me this question “Why Did I Cheat On My Husband When I Still Love Him Genuinely And Sincerely?

I responded by telling her that the question you should be asking yourself, if you love your husband so genuinely and sincerely, why would you cheat on him in the first place?

If you genuinely love your husband, it should be demonstrated by your actions of loyalty, commitment, faithfulness, and devotion.

You really need to self-examine and be honest with yourself on why you chose to betray your husband that you claim to love so deeply.

Also, is your love for him defined by your self-entitled standards or by your wedding vows unto God, just something to think about?

Lastly, what you are feeding into your heart, soul, mind, and spirit could also be contributing factors why you cheated on your husband.

Not to mention, the sway of the modern culture. I will be praying for you and your husband.
Apr 29, 202402:54
How To Achieve True Happiness In Your Relationship?

How To Achieve True Happiness In Your Relationship?

HOW TO ACHIEVE TRUE HAPPINESS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP (List 1-10)?

1. Stay true, committed, and devoted eachother.
2. Keep close to eachother.
3. Achieve, love, support, and grow together.
4. Build up eachother instead of tearing eachother down.
5. Don’t take each other for granted.
6. Avoid Drama, Toxicity, and so forth.
7. Avoid outside negative influences.
8. Seek positive, healthy, and Godly counsel.
9. Spend quality times together.
10. Be willing to an open and not closed book to each other.

Before concluding my podcast I just want to make it perfectly clear that I believe in God design for marriage home and family but both individuals must have a biblical and traditional mindset in order to have a Godly, good, blessed marriage.

#healthyrelationships #marriageadvice #relationshipadvice
#happyrealtionships
#contentment
#takenaccountability
Apr 28, 202403:03
How Headship Can Be Misused By Husbands And Wives?

How Headship Can Be Misused By Husbands And Wives?

God has definitely commanded the husband to be the head of his household because it is proclaimed throughout Scripture, but that doesn’t mean that he is to misuse, violate, or utilize his headship in a manner that contradicts what God has commanded him to do as a husband.

In addition, a wife shouldn’t use a man’s headship as an excuse to demoralize, disrespect, nor behave in manner that violates her role as help-meet, even if she feels he isn’t living up to his Godly role as the head of his home because that wouldn’t be Biblical.

Likewise, a husband should be patient with his wife as well in correlation to her help meet role

Taking ownership and accountability for both the husband and wife is vital for a healthy marital relationship.

Furthermore, if they both exhibit the fruit of the Spirit toward each other, 1 Corinthians 13:3-7, and their Godly designated role, plus putting the whole armor of God on.

They will have a Godly marriage that will stand the test of time through tests trials, tribulations, challenges and so forth with genuine agape love for each other. #headship #helpmeet #adamandeve #husbandandwife #maritaladvice
Apr 26, 202403:25
What Qualities Should A Woman Be Looking For In A Future Husband?

What Qualities Should A Woman Be Looking For In A Future Husband?

What Qualities Should A Woman Be Looking For In A Future Husband?

1. He will be caring, emphatic, compassionate, sacrificial, patient, kind, and affectionate.

2. He will be a protector, hard worker, considerate, appreciative, content, and humble.

3. He will want to spend quality and quantity time with his future wife.

4. He will encourage, build up, edify, and be a support system for his future wife.

5. He will respect her opinions, insightfulness, wisdom, and input just as long as it doesn’t breach God’s Word.

6. He will put his future wife and children first.

7. He will be her protector, masculine best friend, and lover.

8. He will never compromise or negotiate God’s design for marriage, home, and family.

9. He should encourage, build up, and esteem his future wife.

10. He won’t be perfect (because no one is) but he will humbly and repentantly allow God’s Word and Counsel to correct him when he is wrong plus take ownership.

11. He won’t devalue, degrade, nor belittle her.

12. He will be faithful, loyal, committed, and devoted.

13. He will genuinely love her and he won’t use his headship as dictatorship.

14. He will value, love, and treat his wife with dignity, comfort, and respect.

15. He will be willing to selflessly sacrifice for her and lay down his life for her if necessary.

16. He will have the mindset of not allowing the culture, Hollywood, Social Media, Beta men, Untraditional women, or anything else destroy her marriage, home, and family.

17. He will have the mindset to not allow toxic family members, relatives, nor so called friend break up her marriage.

18. Also, pay very close attention to a man you might consider marriage material and make sure he has all or a majority or these attributes and the willingness to work on obtaining them all through Godly counsel, personal accountability, letting go and healing from past baggage, and most importantly allowing the word of God and Christ to direct his steps in the process.
19. He should also avoid being full of pride, ego, and narcissism.
20. He should be willing to love you with God’s Love with selflessness.

This will conclude my podcast for today.

Remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow

God bless and take care everyone

#husbandsandwives #husbandsandwives #manandwoman
#maritaladvice
#lovemarriagenotdivorce
#livelistenlearnandgrow
Apr 26, 202406:18
10 Potential Warning Signs of Suicidal Ideation
Apr 24, 202404:24
 9 Tips And Advice For Men Seeking A Potential And Future Wife

9 Tips And Advice For Men Seeking A Potential And Future Wife

Thank you for tuning in, today I am going to share a podcast message with you called Tips And Advice For Men Seeking A Potential And Future Wife

TIP NUMBER ONE: FIRST AND FOREMOST EXAMINE YOURSELF

First of all you must examine yourself and any unresolved issues in your past. Examples: sexual abuse, toxic parent or parents, dysfunctional upbringing, toxic breakups, soul ties, un-forgiveness, etc.

If you have any of the examples I mentioned and they are unresolved. You need to get Godly help, support, counseling, therapy. Plus you can join or get help from a well Bible believing balanced community Church, and so forth.

TIP NUMBER TWO: DO NOT SET UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS

Do not set unrealistic expectations on what your imagination of what a good woman should be or consist of.

As well, it shouldn’t be based on pride, ego, past relationships, body counts, Hollywood, modern culture, etc that is anti- God, nuclear family, and so forth.

TIP NUMBER THREE: DO NOT VIEW A FUTURE AS PROPERTY

Also, don’t view your future or potential wife as being property but see her as being your oneness, help meet, bone of your bone, and flesh of your flesh that you will love, lead, cherish, honor, respect, etc.

TIP NUMBER FOUR: NO WOMAN IS PERFECT BUT SHE SHOULD TAKE OWNERSHIP

A good woman won’t be perfect and neither are you but she should be willing to take ownership when she wrong and so should you.

TIP NUMBER FIVE FIND A GOOD WIFE WITH GODLY STANDARDS

A good woman should be based on Godly standards not yours and you must also have a mindset of being a Good and Godly man that will compliment the good woman that you are looking for.

TIP NUMBER SIX ATTITUDE AND MINDSET

Her attitude and mindset should consist of gentleness, meekness, patience, understanding, respect, and not toxicity, negativity, spitefulness, and carnal drama.

TIP NUMBER SEVEN SHE SHOULD BE WILLING TO WORK WITH YOU AND LET YOU LEAD HER

She should be willing to work with you and not defy God’s design for marriage, home, and family. In addition she will not try to sabotage your headship with manipulative and ungodly tactics.

TIP NUMBER EIGHT MAKE SURE SHE HAS A SELFLESS MINDSET INSTEAD OF A SELFISH ONE

The biggest mistakes that some men and women make are, they make it all about themselves with the inability or refusal to process or understand, it is about being selfless toward each other not selfish.

TIP NINE AND MY FINAL TIP: Moreover, the woman you are pursuing for a future or potential wife should not be swayed or contaminated with self-entitlement, the modern culture, lack of Godly contentment, and rejection for God’s way and design for marriage, home, and family.

This will conclude my podcast for today and remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow

#godlymarriages #lovelanguageorgodlanguage
#maritaladvice
#findingagodlywife
#husbandsandwives
#marriage

Apr 24, 202404:58
Are You Getting Cheated On By A Player Cheater Manipulator 
And Liar?

Are You Getting Cheated On By A Player Cheater Manipulator And Liar?

This podcast is based on a conversation that I had with a young lady on a social media platform. This young lady asked me to give her my opinion on her current situation with a man she was dealing with after finding out that he was Player, Cheater, Manipulator, and Liar.

I responded by saying Players, Cheaters, Manipulators, and Liars will utilize the very standards you set for the relationship in order to take advantage of you.

What if you set the standard of just dating him for 3 to 6 months and get to know more about him?

What if you set the standard to remain celibate and tell him, no sex until you put a ring on my finger and marry me?

See players or men that want the best of two worlds will run game on you.

Because you don’t set the necessary standards for the relationship that will prevent him from doing it.

I am not excusing what he did, but you young ladies need to stop following the culture and go old 🏫.

If you do, you will avoid a lot ❤️ break, being taken advantage of, and wounded emotionally.

No sex, 💍, and making marriage your standard will expose the guys that are not serious about you and give you the potential to find the ones who are.

As well, your relationship with him was built on lies. Why trust and still want to be with someone who is willing to lie, cheat, and deceive you while already being married to a wife with kids.

Furthermore, he ghosted you because he knows he can no longer have his cake and eat it too after his wife found out about the affair.

It is going to hurt, but you need to value your self-worth and not hold your heart, soul, body, mind, and spirit in bondage to someone who was only taking you for a ride.

Not to mention, he was fulfilling his narcissistic ego to be cheating on his wife and playing with your fragile heart, feelings, and emotions.

So set godly standards for yourself and stop choosing men based on outward appearance, swag, material, and monetary appeal.

The type of man that you should be looking for is one who is traditional, godly, respectful, responsible, faithful, employed, hardworking, dependable, reliable, transparent, empathetic, caring, trustworthy, and so forth.

So in closing I am praying the young lady took heed to my advice to stop choosing Players Cheaters Manipulators
And Liars.

Because there are some good men out there even though they might not have that bad boy, suspenseful, and stud muffin appeal that so many women fall prey to instead of 👀ing for the inner qualities of a man that will represent their character and true, genuine, and heartfelt intentions.

This will conclude my podcast for today and remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow.

God bless and take care everyone.

#cheaters #liars #affairs #manipulators #setgodlystandards #putaringonit #takingownership
Apr 23, 202406:11
A Young Lady Gets Body Shamed By Her Boyfriend And Ask Me What Should She Do?

A Young Lady Gets Body Shamed By Her Boyfriend And Ask Me What Should She Do?

Today, I will be sharing a podcast message called, “A Young Lady Gets Body Shamed By Her Boyfriend And Ask Me What Should She Do?”

On a social media platform, a young lady asked me, What should she do about her boyfriend body shaming her?

She also stated to me that her boyfriend is telling her that her face is okay, but her body is fat and ugly; therefore, he doesn’t like it?

She said that she had gained 10lbs during our 4 years, so now every time he wants to be intimate, I she never feel good enough, nor when he compliments me she doesn’t take it too heart.

I responded, he is a jerk and you need to value your self-worth.
Also, wait on God to bless you
with a man that is going to love
you selflessly without degrading, disrespecting, nor demoralizing you.

Plus, a decent, honest, and sincere man will put a ring on your finger and marry you.

One last thing, the expectation you set for yourself will contribute to the underlying factors how someone else treats you, especially a liar, cheater, manipulator, or guy that will only use you and not genuinely love you.

This can also be vice versa because some decent men allow themselves to be mistreated as well.

I will also share before concluding my podcast the biblical passage of

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (NIV) because it sets the Godly and Biblical standards on how a woman or man deserves to be treated or treat each other in a marital relationship or potential marital relationship.

Verse 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

Verse 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Verse 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

Verse 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

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Apr 23, 202405:26
How Facebook And Others Social Media Platforms Could Have A Negative Affect On Your Marriage?

How Facebook And Others Social Media Platforms Could Have A Negative Affect On Your Marriage?

Thank you for tuning into my podcast at Live Listen Learn And Grow

I will be sharing with you today on how Facebook And Other Social Media Platforms Could Have A Negative Affect On Your Marriage

I will be sharing some possible reasons, “How Facebook And Others Social Media Platforms Could Have A Negative Affect On Your Marriage?”

Reason Number 1: It could possibly rekindle old flings of your past that could interfere with your present marriage.

Reason Number 2: You begin coveting the facade of other people relationships and marriages instead focusing on your own.

Reason Number 3: Your social media can begin to take over personal responsibilities for marriage, home, and family

Reason Number 4: You may end up getting involved with online emotional affairs with lack of self control to avoid temptations

Reason Number 5: You may become less interested in your husband or wife

Reason Number 6: You begin doing thing to compromise your integrity, respect, modesty, and so forth.

Reason Number 7: You could become an addict for attention and ego.

Reason Number 8: You could become an addict to get “likes” in competition with others

Reason Number 9: You could become more of an obsessed busybody, gossipers, and slanderer.

Reason Number 10: You can end up causing a lot of toxicity among yourself and other loved ones, relatives, family member, and in-laws.

Reason Number 11: You could became a facade of yourself and pretending to be something you are not.

Reason Number 12: And my final reason: Your identity could become Facebook and Facebook could become your identity.
Apr 23, 202403:24