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Love In The Middle

Love In The Middle

By Laban and Charity Reeves

A conversation loaded with tips and advice about godly Relationships, Dating, Marriage and everything in between... from a couple that's been through it all!

Charity and Laban have been married for over 10 years and share their story and what they have learned in their journey to encourage and guide you in your journey.
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Ep. 9 - Blinded By Sex

Love In The MiddleJan 18, 2021

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Ep. 27 - The Dark Side of Marriage: Uncovering the Hidden Challenges

Ep. 27 - The Dark Side of Marriage: Uncovering the Hidden Challenges

Episode 27 - Marriages don't fail overnight... usually. They fail over time. In this episode we discuss some blindspots that exist in every marriage that can lead to a marriage slowly corroding over a few short years. Be careful not to over look these...

Nov 20, 202322:46
Ep. 26 - Finding Love WITHOUT DATING: Our Story of Boundaries & Faith (StoryTime)

Ep. 26 - Finding Love WITHOUT DATING: Our Story of Boundaries & Faith (StoryTime)

Episode 26: Have you ever thought what if God never intended you to find your spouse through dating trial and error? What if dating actually does more harm than good? God provided Laban with a new healthy way of dating that did not leave a string of broken hearts. And, Laban learned that it was actually possible to walk by faith and through it, God led him to Charity!!! God can do the same for you.

Nov 13, 202344:47
Ep. 25 - EVERY WOMAN Needs to KNOW This! (and EVERY MAN Needs to Hear...)

Ep. 25 - EVERY WOMAN Needs to KNOW This! (and EVERY MAN Needs to Hear...)

Episode 25 (Raw and Uncut!!!) - Women often wonder why men won't commit to marriage. Laban and Charity break it down and challenge men to step up...

Nov 06, 202329:17
Ep. 24 - 4 REASONS You're STILL SINGLE

Ep. 24 - 4 REASONS You're STILL SINGLE

Episode 24 (Raw and Uncut!!!) - YOU might be the reason you aren't being approached if you're single or receiving a commitment to marriage if you are dating or already in a relationship... Here are 4 things you should consider...

Oct 30, 202341:09
Ep. 23 - How to Find the ONE (and what if I marry the WRONG ONE?)

Ep. 23 - How to Find the ONE (and what if I marry the WRONG ONE?)

EPISODE 23 - Finding the Right person for you is a complicated beast when we are trying to do it ourselves. Here are our best tips for finding the one for people that are dating and hoping to be married. And for people who might feel they married the WRONG ONE, we dropped some jewels in this video for you too...

Oct 23, 202358:57
Ep. 22 - The Essential Guide to Building a Happy Relationship

Ep. 22 - The Essential Guide to Building a Happy Relationship

EPISODE 22 - Relationship advice for whether you are in a relationship or dating. Nobody wants to be in an unhappy relationship! Here's what you can do to prevent being in an unhappy relationship or to improve your marriage.

Oct 16, 202320:27
Ep. 21 - NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THIS!

Ep. 21 - NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THIS!

Episode 21 - From Dating and through marriage, Vision is of utmost importance!!! We go ALL THE WAY IN on the why and the how...

Oct 09, 202301:30:14
Ep. 20 - UNMET EXPECTATIONS in our Relationship

Ep. 20 - UNMET EXPECTATIONS in our Relationship

EPISODE 20 - This is a must watch if you are dating, preparing for marriage, or currently married. We have learned A LOT about expectations! When we first got married, we both experienced constant disappointment because of unmet expectations. Over the years, God helped us find a better way....

Oct 02, 202321:28
Ep. 19 - Our Relationship Struggles: How God Exposed Our Selfishness in Our Christian Marriage

Ep. 19 - Our Relationship Struggles: How God Exposed Our Selfishness in Our Christian Marriage

EPISODE 19 - the Love In The Middle Show featuring Christian Relationship Advice for a Dating and a Kingdom Marriage

Sep 25, 202339:28
Ep. 18 - DON'T IGNORE THIS Advice for Effective Relationship Communication

Ep. 18 - DON'T IGNORE THIS Advice for Effective Relationship Communication

EPISODE 18 - Communication: Our Greatest Weapon In Relationships... We give advice for communication in relationships from start to finish in this episode; advice that is tested and has stood the test of time for us. And this was probably one of the most fun to record.

Sep 18, 202331:03
Ep. 17 - THIS Helped Us Grow A More INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP

Ep. 17 - THIS Helped Us Grow A More INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP

EPISODE 17 - How do we keep our relationship thriving? This one adjustment changed our relationship for the better!!! It started before we got married, back when it was so much easier. After we got married, going out on dates took a back seat to everything else. Needless to say, our marriage suffered. Everyone is great at it before marriage, but without this, your relationship might not last and be healthy when you get married. Let's call it DWM... Dating While Married!

Sep 11, 202343:21
Ep. 16 - How Forgiveness Keeps Your Relationship Healthy Every Day

Ep. 16 - How Forgiveness Keeps Your Relationship Healthy Every Day

EPISODE 16 - For couples who argue alot or have resentment in your relationship, these 7 Secrets will help grow and maintain a healthy relationship or marriage, or spice up your relationship or your marriage. This is part 1 of the series "7 Secrets for a Healthy Relationship"...

Sep 04, 202346:58
Ep. 15 - Say Goodbye to Divorce: How to Save Your Marriage and Receive a Prayer for Your Broken Relationship

Ep. 15 - Say Goodbye to Divorce: How to Save Your Marriage and Receive a Prayer for Your Broken Relationship

EPISODE 15 - This is a marriage helper video for relationships on the brink of divorce. We use Kim Kardashian and Kanye West as a case study that can help your marriage. A relationship, marriage, or divorce can look broken beyond repair. And many times, one or both parties don't even want it to be fixed. As we do with all marriages, we were rooting for Kanye West and Kim Kardashian to have a successful marriage. But when your relationship struggles are regularly the topic of celebrity news, its easy to count God out of fixing that. We truly believe that God is still in the business of restoring broken relationships and turning them into healthy marriages. These are our thoughts on what you can do if your relationship is broken.

Aug 28, 202333:25
Ep. 14 - Single to Married in 12 months + Waiting Till Marriage (Our Love Story Part 4)

Ep. 14 - Single to Married in 12 months + Waiting Till Marriage (Our Love Story Part 4)

EPISODE 14 - Our Most Vulnerable and Transparent Episode YET! We give our testimony and our best Christian dating advice about our how I knew she was the one, how I knew he was the one, wedding night regrets after no sex before marriage and the hardest part of our celibacy journey, why waiting for marriage was the best plan and how it can keep getting better 12 years later, our proposal story, preparing for a blended family, meeting his baby mama, meeting her family, planning a wedding in a month, and MORE in this episode.

Aug 21, 202301:01:07
Ep. 13 - A MIRACLE How God Brought Us Back Together (Our Love Story Part 3)

Ep. 13 - A MIRACLE How God Brought Us Back Together (Our Love Story Part 3)

EPISODE 13 - In part 3 of our When God Writes Your Love Story Testimony, Charity spills all the beans on the no label, let’s just be friends, we’re off, now we’re on again, back and forth relationship with Laban. When God writes your love story, it can quickly become more complicated when you try to hijack the pen. This is part 3 in the story of how we met detailing why we broke up and how God brought us back together... If you're looking for christian dating advice about when to break up, we offer some good advice and tips in this video.

Aug 15, 202349:26
Ep. 12 - We Can't Date Because You're Not A Christian (Our Love Story Part 2)

Ep. 12 - We Can't Date Because You're Not A Christian (Our Love Story Part 2)

EPISODE 12 - Charity meets God in the Friendzone. So many AMAZING things happened for Charity spiritually while she was in the friendzone. The friendzone isn’t all that bad when you let God walk you through it… After our first date, Laban made it clear: we cant date because you're not a christian... Many people wonder is it ok to date a non Christian? Dating a Christian when you're not can be a complicated thing! Laban explains why he held his ground and was able to see God do amazing things in Charity! See what happens next and how it would eventually shape our entire marriage into a godly marriage.
Jul 27, 202349:37
Ep. 11 -How We Met (Our Love Story Part 1)

Ep. 11 -How We Met (Our Love Story Part 1)

EPISODE 11 - From how we first met to our first date...When god writes your love story, it is so much better than the story we try to write on our own. Our love story is part love at first sight, and part patience and waiting on God. Now we're working on couple goals... We share part 1 of Our Love Story testimony starting with "How we met" and including our first date on this first video episode of the Love In The Middle Show where we talk about relationships, dating, marriage and everything in between... Its Storytime!

Apr 11, 202332:06
Ep. 10 - Dealing with Baby Mama Drama

Ep. 10 - Dealing with Baby Mama Drama

We are no strangers to Baby Mama and Baby Daddy drama. However, we have discovered some healthy ways of navigating it through lots of trial and error. Whether you are dating and considering being with someone with a child and the other parent is in the picture, or you're in a marriage already and you're struggling in this area. This is the episode for you...

Jan 25, 202101:03:17
Ep. 9 - Blinded By Sex
Jan 18, 202101:02:44
Ep. 8 - High Value Man (Does it matter how much money he makes?)
Jan 11, 202101:06:39
Ep. 7 - Relationship Survival Guide (Part 2)
Jan 04, 202101:08:44
Ep. 6 - Relationship Survival Guide (Part 1)
Dec 28, 202001:00:35
Ep. 5 - Relationship Boundaries (Part 2)
Dec 21, 202001:09:50
Ep. 4 - Relationship Boundaries (Part 1)
Dec 14, 202001:16:18
Ep. 3 - Avoiding the "D" Word (divorce)
Dec 07, 202059:04
Ep. 2 - Looking for Something Real
Nov 30, 202001:04:34
Ep. 1 - How to find THE ONE
Nov 22, 202001:03:29
Introducing "Love In The Middle" - Trailer
Nov 21, 202000:36