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Today I'm just sharing what really blessed my heart over the Christmas holiday. Hope that every father or grandfather uses their time wisely when spending time with their children of all ages. For me, I dream of seeing all of our children and grandchildren at one table during a family meal. This past week, God showed me a glimpse of that very seed coming to fruition. 

Just as God told Abram(Abraham) that he will be a father of many nations, my wisdom and experience will also help to build nations within our family tree.

Have a blessed day everyone!

Had the opportunity to share my IH journey with a few men on tonight's bible study. Fellas, don't discount your experience to just be your story alone.  Other men need to to know what you experience as a path for what they will. In that, it may relieve anxiety that may be present. 

Time to open up.

Faith is a beautiful way of life. Being so focused on the things of God is always a great place to be. However, often times we are so focused that we tend to forget how we are actually functioning. Have you taken time to stop and focus on where faith plays its role in everything.

Romans 10:17 "Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God.
2 Corinthians 5:7 "For we walk by faith and not by sight."

Just a quick insight to my first vote on November 4, 2022 as a United States Citizen!
Definitely can't wait to vote again.

Prov 18:16
"A man's gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men."

We wonder about our gift making room for us. But keep in mind, the room is only as big as how much you have developed the gift. Wreck the silo of what is in your hand. Meaning, focus on the one, specific talent/gift that has your attention.

You can do this. Wreck it!

Recently I came across a short clip of professor Jordan Peterson being interviewed for a Dutch documentary. Within the interview a statement was made that men that follow him feel Mr. Petersen says that "it's okay to be a man". His reply, "it's not okay, it's necessary." That is where I begin today's short conversation.

The importance of how we begin conversations, determines the trajectory and the possibility of success. Any conversation about men that begin with "toxic" automatically leads to the negativity of men. However, if we change the narrative to begin with the "state of men", there is more of a likely-hood males will have a better outlook for their lives and those attached to them.

Jordan Peterson interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KEz32OTifL4
Scripture: I Corinthians 16:13 "Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love."

The Place of Now & the Place of Tomorrow. Are you frustrated with the transition of moving into what you have been called to be?
Today I discuss my recent frustration over the last week, which showed me that I wasn't Operating in my Freedom. Not being free means
that we are bond or tied down.

Don't discount yourself or where you are now. Use it as a launch to what awaits. 

Philippians 4:13 "I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."

Guys, just an encouraging word to recognize the time in front of you. As every day is busy in routine of getting up, getting ready for work, going to work (on time) and dealing with the hustle of day, time is very important.

And sometimes we just need to slow down and see time for what it is, an opportunity to poor into those closest to you.

On this episode I share how my day began in the Robins household.

Last week I realized that for over seven years I've been hiding in a cave. From my divorce in 2014 to 2022, I've been hiding from the enemy, yet dwelling with God. I found a pillow to lay my head down for rest but had gotten too comfortable. This became relevant as I read the story of Elijah (1 Kings 18).

Are you still hiding in a cave from the past and present?

Listen in to find out how to escape your cave! Get out and move!

Welcome to 2022!

Jonah 1:10-16

We go deeper into the character of Jonah at a time where he is needed most. Many times we realize our lives would be better staying in our silos. Not having to deal with anyone or the world. However, when God has spoken his will over us, it's time to move.

Unknowingly, Jonah is the key to the salvation of the ships mariners headed to Tarsus. Because of their urgency of life they cry out to the Lord after their 'gods' could not provide safety. Without thinking, actions of the 'called church', us, you, me can indirectly lead someone to Jesus. 

We have been asked to be a light that cannot be hid. So let our light shine for those that need direction.

Being uncomfortable is necessary.

This past weekend has been a great highlight over my 48 years. Over a two year period of being engaged in discipleship with other men, I am now Commissioned to Minister to Men.

Listen in as I talk about my experience.

Guys, how many times have you seen yourself running from a certain responsibility? From a young age there was always something we were very reluctant to do. For instance, taking out the trash, washing dishes, taking care of the yard and HOMEWORK!

What were the results?

Jonah 1:1-3 helps us to identify that in our own calling, we too, tend to run from God.

Listen in as we begin to unfold his story of the next few weeks.

When a parent asks a child what's wrong and their reply is "I don't know", they are speaking honestly that they don't know. When it comes to manhood its the same, to a degree because we have been in the world long enough to know most of our emotions. And then on the other hand, we are that same little boy trying to discover his feelings in life.

Vulnerability forces us to say "I don't know" which we can't afford to not know the answer. Its about understanding our emotions and having the courage to express them.

Vulnerability: vul·ner·a·bil·i·ty

noun

noun: vulnerability; plural noun: vulnerabilities

1. the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.

Coming off a great event at Kingdom Ekklesia Church with Pastor Jason Johnson, Apotles Dettrick and Azeez this past weekend. So much word that we took in that allowed us all to be transparent, with the hope of helping men grow. One word that stuck with me is one that should go into the vocabulary for men. That word is 'vulnerable', coupled with trauma.

This episode was created specifically to help address how men do not allow themselves to be open, but rather stay closed in various areas of our life. What filters do we have in place that strengthens us? What filters do we have in place that keeps out all the bad stuff?

Let's find those answers together.

How many times do we compare ourselves to other people? Today's world of engagement through social media gives room for anyone to compare based off the life of others.

Comparison makes us compromise who we are in order to be someone else. 

As Les Brown says, "the greatness in you".

How many times have you compared to yourself to others? Too many times right? Well let today be the day it stops.
For a long time I looked at and up to others, not believing that I have ability within myself to accomplish great things.

Guys, believe in yourself! God gave you special gifts and abilities to operate in your Circle of Influence. That COI is what
makes you, you.

Today I talk about building an umbrella of what your healthy and toxic masculinity looks like. Instead of lending a slant towards one side of the topic, let's try to balance it out by introducing a healthy viewpoint.

Help me out guys, what are some of the things that you feel are healthy and toxic in today's world of masculinity? Are we becoming better at reducing the negative consequences, or making it worse? 

What are some of the areas that have aided us in becoming healthy or toxic? How can we combat the negative stereotypes? Proverbs 18:21 says, "death and life are in the power of the tongue." That's are start. Speaking words of affirmations that go against the true ideals of what manhood should be.

Defined: An upbringing that positions a young man/man to live and act in a way to promote manhood, but actually emasculates it. Yup, hits you right in the gut. Such a hot topic not just for today, but every day. Guys, how can we begin to change the culture of toxicity the world sees? For me, it always starts and ends with Jesus.

Imagine going as fast as you want, where ever you want, doing what ever you want. Then coming across a speed limit sign that says you need to slow down and change direction because danger is up ahead. However we ignore the warning signs and crash. The presence of that sign is awareness of our behavior. It's up to us to not only see the dangers of our actions and character, but also to know how that reflects on those young men, girls and women that watch us.

Hey guys, welcome to another year, two weeks removed. Today is January 11, 2021 and I'm joyous to know you are here with me as well. Our show today touches on issues of 2020 along with a quick overview of our guests.

Look forward to speaking to you once again and soon!

I never knew how much life (my life) is traversed in lanes. Listen in as I discuss how we navigate lanes to success.

Alright gentlemen. Great time connecting with Nakia Douglas, Exec. Director of Trio & Pre-Collegiate Programs at UNT Dallas. With education being such a vital part of how we are navigating through 2020, Mr. Douglas speaks to us today on various topics centered on it as a foundation. As an educator he's influenced young women and men to become the best possible version of themselves. Along the way his own journey has been inspired by his mothers sacrifice and leaders that have given wisdom throughout his personal growth.

Quote: “When you passion and purpose are aligned, you have found your true calling.”

Current Read:
Uncommon by Tony Dungy
The Grave Robber by Mark Batterson
The Servant Leader by Ken Blanchard and Phil Hodges

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