Your Loving Kick in the Pants

In this episode, I dive into imposter syndrome, and why I no longer believe in it. Inspired by a viral clip of Olympic rugby player Ilona Maher, I share how building confidence through honesty and growth makes the idea of being a fraud feel irrelevant. I also reflect on a personal story involving my dad and learning the difference between humility and self-belief.

I break down what imposter syndrome is, why it sticks around, and how to overcome it by shifting your mindset, embracing evidence of your progress, and staying honest about your efforts. If you’re growing, you’re not an imposter, you’re evolving. This episode is your nudge to own your worth.

Key Topics Covered:

• I talked about why I don’t believe in imposter syndrome anymore.

• I shared a video of Ilona Maher, an athlete who said she never felt like a fraud.

• I told a personal story about a fight with my dad and how it helped me understand confidence and humility.

• I explained what imposter syndrome means and how it shows up for people.

• I broke the definition into four parts: mindset, persistent doubt, honesty, and success evidence.

• I gave tips on how to change your mindset to stop feeling like a fraud.

• I talked about how practicing your skills helps build confidence.

• I reminded listeners that being honest about your progress protects you from feeling like a fake.

• I talked about accepting good feedback and recognizing your own success.

• I encouraged listeners to choose just one area to work on and keep going step-by-step.

I’m so excited to share that Becoming Bossminded is officially out on Amazon, and it even hit bestseller status! This book is for anyone who wants to build a business that works with their life, not against it. It’s full of real stories, practical tools, and lessons I’ve learned the hard way to help you avoid common mistakes and feel less alone on your journey.

Writing this reminded me why I started: to create something real and helpful. I talk about “interest media” vs. just social media, my personal framework for success, and how building your own version of success is possible, and worth it. Thank you to everyone who supported, shared, or believed in this project.

Key Topics Covered:

• We launched Becoming Bossminded and hit #1 bestseller on Amazon.

• The book helps people build a business that supports their life, not controls it.

• I shared stories about unexpected support from friends and community members.

• Becoming Bossminded is based on a personal framework for making smart decisions.

• I reflected on how I never saw myself as an author, but writing books has helped me reach people.

• I explained the difference between social media and what I now call “interest media.”

• I plan to show up more online, especially with video content and Facebook reels.

• The five-part framework includes: desire more, define the cost, find the edge, define success, and take your seat!

• I want to create content that actually helps people, not just fills up their feed.

• Building a business is hard, but when we connect through honest stories and shared purpose, it gets easier.

In this episode, I shared some exciting news, my new book Becoming Boss Minded is releasing on May 22nd, and I need your help to reach bestseller status! Even though I'm losing my voice, I had to jump on to tell you about all the bonuses you can get if you buy the book during the special release window. The book is all about helping you take control of your life and business using the Boss Minded framework, which I created from my own experience building a business and learning from my mistakes.

I also went over the awesome rewards you’ll get depending on how many books you buy, from a special worksheet, to audio and ebook versions, to private coaching calls and access to my business training vault. These bonuses are my way of thanking you for your support and giving you tools to grow. This book means a lot to me, and I truly believe it can help people who want more out of life and their business. So please mark your calendar for May 22nd, and let’s make this launch a big success!

Key Topics Covered:

• The release date of Becoming Boss Minded (May 22nd)

• What "boss minded" means: taking control of your life and goals

• How the book helps you evaluate actions and make better choices

• Bonuses available if you buy during the launch hour

• Breakdown of rewards based on how many books you purchase

• Introduction to the limited edition Boss Minded worksheet

• Access to audio and ebook versions for bulk buyers

• Free entry to the Community to Cash Challenge with bigger bundles

• VIP coaching and business training access for high-tier bundles

• The goal to reach bestseller status and spread this powerful message

  
  

In this episode of Your Loving Kick In the Pants, I shared two stories, one about a woman who gave up on her business, and another who was pitching the wrong way. Both reminded me how easy it is to lose focus in business. That’s why I created the Becoming Boss Minded framework, to help women move forward with clarity and purpose.

I walked through five steps: desire more, define the cost, find your edge, create your version of success, and take your seat. I shared real examples and announced my new book Becoming Boss Minded, coming May 22nd. If you’re ready to grow your business without losing what matters most, this one’s for you.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why I see so many women start a business and then give up

• A real story of someone who gave up, and how I responded

• Why pivoting your business can work (if done the right way)

• How the Boss Minded Framework compares to my Accountability Code

• Step 1: Desire More – I asked, “What do I really want?”

• Step 2: Define the Cost – I looked at what it takes vs. what it costs to stay stuck

• Step 3: Find the Edge – I shared how I stretch past my comfort zone

• Step 4: Create My Version of Success – I talked about how I define wins on my terms

• Step 5: Take My Seat – I claimed my space and invited others to do the same

• I announced the release of my new book Becoming Boss Minded and how to get early access

In this episode, I share my excitement about recording the audiobook for Becoming Boss Minded and the journey it took to get there. I reflect on the mistakes and lessons I’ve learned in business, from managing a team to learning how to pay myself properly. I talk about the power of being direct, both in my coaching style and in how I’ve helped others grow. I also open up about personal struggles, like dealing with COVID and family issues, while finishing my first book, and how staying committed helped me push through tough times.

I then introduce the Boss Minded Framework, a five-step process to help people take smart, aligned action in business. The steps include desiring more, defining the cost, finding your edge, creating your version of success, and finally, taking your seat. I explain how each step plays a role in building a strong foundation and mindset for entrepreneurship. I also tease some upcoming events and the May 22 release of the book, encouraging listeners to join the waitlist for special launch-day perks.

 Key Topics Covered:

• I'm recording the audiobook version of Becoming Boss Minded

• Mistakes and lessons I’ve learned in business over the years

• Why being direct is important in coaching and personal growth

• How I supported clients with different coaching styles (tough love vs. encouragement)

• The struggles I faced while finishing my first book (COVID, family stress)

• Importance of staying committed even when life gets messy

• Introduction to the five-step Boss Minded Framework

• Real stories about bad business decisions and learning the hard way

• Why defining what success means to you is key

• Details about the upcoming book launch and how to join the waitlist

In this episode, I talked about the sixth step of the Accountability Code—feedback, which is all about using past experiences to make better choices moving forward. I shared a personal story from my upcoming book Becoming Boss Minded called The Art of Saying No, where I learned the hard way that helping too much can lead to burnout. I explained how saying yes too often, even with good intentions, can hurt your mental health and relationships. This story helped me see how important it is to set boundaries and focus on what really matters.

I introduced a step-by-step method called the Six Ps to help you feel more confident when saying no. These steps help you protect your time, energy, and peace of mind so you can grow without overwhelming yourself. I also reminded listeners that feedback doesn’t always come right away, it often shows up after the fact, and that’s okay. What matters is learning from it and doing better next time. I hope my story inspires you to reflect on your own past experiences and use them to build a healthier, more balanced future.

Key Topics Covered:

• What feedback really means and why it’s important

• A personal story about feeling overwhelmed while trying to help family

• How burnout can sneak up when you say yes too often

• The danger of letting others' expectations define you

• How a tough moment became a turning point for change

• Why clear boundaries are necessary for growth and peace

• The impact of miscommunication and emotional stress

• Introducing the Six Ps method to confidently say no

• How faith and prayer support better decision-making

• Encouragement to reflect, learn, and grow from past feedback

In this episode, I talked about the fifth step of the accountability code, commitment—and how it’s different from just taking action or implementing ideas. Implementing is when you practice or try something, like brainstorming or writing, but commitment is when you actually finish the task and can prove it’s done. I shared how one of my clients struggled with staying consistent on social media after a group challenge ended, and we realized that making a plan isn’t enough, you have to commit to following through.

I also gave some personal examples from my journey, like my commitment to finishing my book Becoming Boss Minded. I talked about setting solid goals, breaking them into smaller checkpoints, and using tools like Trello to track progress. One big tip I shared is to tell others about your commitments, it helps with accountability. In the end, commitment is what turns our dreams into real things we can see, share, and be proud of.

Key Topics Covered:

• The difference between implementing and commitment

• Why taking action isn’t always the same as finishing something

• A client’s struggle with consistent social media posting

• How group support impacts follow-through

• The power of sharing commitments with others

• Using tools like Trello to track and organize goals

• Real-life example: writing and publishing a book

• How commitments build confidence over time

• Importance of setting small, realistic commitment items

• The role of accurate, clear goals in accountability

In this episode, I talked about implementing, the fourth step of the Accountability Code. It comes after reflection, humility, and planning. Implementing means taking action on what matters to you, even if it's not perfect. Many people make plans but never follow through, so I reminded everyone to just start, even if it’s messy.

I also shared a personal story about learning to share responsibilities at home. I couldn’t do it all myself, so my family and I divided up the tasks. It wasn’t easy, but it made a big difference. The real takeaway? Just try. Progress matters more than perfection.

Key Topics Covered:

• What implementing means in the Accountability Code

• Why people often don’t follow through on their plans

• How taking small steps can help you start

• The difference between thinking about something and actually doing it

• When to slow down if you’re doing too much too fast

• How to align your plans with what you really want

• A personal story about dividing chores and tasks at home

• How to talk with your family about shared responsibilities

• Why letting go of control can help you grow

• The idea that implementing is an ongoing process, not a one-time thing

In this episode, I talked about planning as the third step in the Accountability Code, right after reflection and humility. Planning isn’t just writing stuff down, it’s about creating a meaningful roadmap that actually helps you succeed. I shared how putting “tennis friends” on my vision board led to real friendships just by showing up and being open.

I also broke down different types of planning, yearly, quarterly, monthly, weekly, and daily, and how each one helps in life and business. I use Trello to keep my 90-day goals organized and plan out content. For daily planning, I use my own method based on the Accountability Code, and I’m turning it into a book soon! Overall, planning gives you the clarity and confidence to follow through on what matters most.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why planning is the third step in the Accountability Code

• How planning without reflection and humility can lead to failure

• The different ways to make a plan (yearly, quarterly, monthly, weekly, daily)

• Using vision boards to clarify your big goals

• A personal story about making tennis friends through intentional planning

• Why quarterly planning helps in business, especially with taxes and events

• How I use Trello to stay organized with events and marketing

• Monthly planning for email and social media content

• Daily planning using my personal system (brain dump, prayer, prioritizing tasks)

• Turning my daily planning system into a book to help others stay on track

In this podcast, Elora Hill reflects on her journey with humility, sharing how negative past experiences at a toxic workplace made her initially resistant to feedback. The Accountability Accelerator program helped her shift her mindset, viewing humility as honest self-awareness rather than weakness. Now, as a mom, Elora focuses on what she can do within her limited time, reducing stress and working with more intention. This transformation has renewed her excitement for her business, knowing she can make a meaningful impact.

Elora also discusses her business, Fireside Journals, which blends scripture study, journaling, and creativity to help people connect with their faith. Embracing her doubts as opportunities for growth, she has found deeper meaning and now helps others do the same. Her journey shows that humility isn’t about staying stuck, but accepting where you are while striving for improvement, both in business and life. Through this process, Elora has gained clarity and a renewed sense of purpose that benefits both herself and her family.

Key Topics Covered:

• Elora's past struggles with humility and accepting feedback.

• Overcoming the pain of past job experiences that made humility challenging.

• The shift in perspective on humility: viewing it as accepting one's current limitations without shame.

• Balancing family life and business, especially when limited on time.

• How humility helps in setting realistic goals and expectations.

• The role of humility in Elora’s transformation and business growth.

• The impact of accountability programs like the Accelerator on personal growth.

• The concept of doing business with intention and focus, not out of obligation.

• Elora’s Fireside Journals, which combine scripture study with journaling and creative reflection.

• The importance of embracing doubts and how they can strengthen faith.

In this episode, I talk about the role of reflection in the accountability code, sharing a personal story from my book, Doubt Yourself No More. I reflect on trying out for cheerleading in high school, initially to prove a point, but later realizing how reflection evolves when you take action. I explain that reflection is about thinking through your goals, values, and challenges, and as you act on them, your reflection changes, helping you grow and build confidence. This process helps you become more accountable and stay focused on your goals.

I emphasize that true growth comes from taking action and not giving up, even when things get tough. I encourage you to pay attention to what’s taking up your mental energy and use it as a sign to take action. The episode ends with me promoting my free audiobook and workbook on the accountability code, inviting you to dive deeper into applying these principles in your own life.

Key Topics Covered:

• Reflection as part of the accountability code.

• Personal story of trying out for cheerleading.

• The evolution of reflection through action.

• The difference between thinking about goals and acting on them.

• Reflection helps build confidence.

• Importance of commitment and not quitting.

• Mental energy as an indicator to take action.

• The role of reflection in overcoming self-doubt.

• The value of accountability in personal and professional life.

• Promotion of the free audiobook and workbook on accountability.

In this episode, I share how to set a clear eight-week goal using the Accountability Code, a framework designed to help you take action. Many people struggle with defining their focus, so I walk through six key steps: reflection (identifying your goal), humility (recognizing what’s holding you back), planning (creating a roadmap), implementing (taking action), commitment (declaring your goal), and feedback (evaluating progress). The Accountability Accelerator provides structure and support to help participants stay on track, but even if you're not in the program, you can still apply these steps to make real progress.

The key to success is taking action and staying accountable. Whether you want to launch a business, write a book, or improve your relationships, the process remains the same. If you don’t commit, you risk staying stuck in the cycle of "what ifs." Over the next eight weeks, I’ll be sharing success stories from my clients to show what’s possible when you follow through. So, set your commitment declaration, stay consistent, and watch how much progress you can make!

Key Topics Covered:

• What the Accountability Accelerator is and why it’s important

• How to define a clear eight-week goal

• Why it’s normal to feel uncertain about your big goal

• The six steps of the Accountability Code (Reflection, Humility, Planning, Implementing, Commitment, Feedback)

• The importance of a commitment declaration

• How weekly feedback sessions help keep you on track

• Real-life examples of clients’ goals (selling a retreat, publishing a book)

• How accountability leads to massive progress

• The difference between taking action vs. staying stagnant

• Encouragement to set a big goal and commit, even if you're not in the program

In this episode, I talked about accountability and why traditional plans don’t always work. I shared personal experiences, like writing my book and learning to adjust plans to fit my own needs. I also highlighted stories from my clients, like Kim, who successfully hosted events by adapting the accountability code, and Susan, who realized she needed to trust herself more to improve her business. The key takeaway is that being accountable isn’t about following a rigid plan, it’s about adjusting and taking action in a way that works for you.

I also discussed why waiting for the "perfect time" to take action is dangerous. Many people, like my client Ashley, hold back due to fear, but delaying only makes it harder. Ashley was hesitant to quit her job, but when she finally took the leap, she tripled her income in three weeks. The right support system makes accountability easier, and I encourage everyone to start taking action now. When you listen to your own instincts and commit to progress, you can create real change in your life.

Key Topics Covered:

• Importance of accountability in personal growth

• Why traditional planning doesn’t always work

• Adapting plans to fit your own needs

• Story of Kim and her success with event planning

• Story of Susan and her shift from affiliate sales to coaching

• The role of self-trust in accountability

• Why waiting for the "perfect time" is harmful

• Ashley’s journey from fear to tripling her income

• The power of a supportive community in taking action

• How small daily actions lead to big changes

  
  

Hey guys! This is a bonus episode because I forgot to plan for my free webinar on March 11th at noon Eastern Time, and I don’t want you to miss it! It’s all about accountability—why it’s the key to success and how to make it work for you. I share a client story about how small tweaks in her approach made a huge difference and explain why traditional goal-setting often fails. The truth is, accountability isn’t just about willpower—it’s about having the right plan, support, and mindset to follow through.

I also talk about trusting yourself, balancing discipline and flexibility, and creating a system that helps you succeed. Plus, if you attend the webinar live, you’ll get a free accountability tracking gift! If you’re ready to take things further, my Accountability Accelerator starts March 17th, with amazing bonuses. So, sign up, show up, and let’s make your goals happen together!

Key Topics Covered:

• Why this is a bonus episode

• Details about the free webinar on March 11th

• Why accountability matters more than motivation

• A client’s success story using accountability

• Why traditional planning doesn’t always work

• The importance of trusting yourself

• Finding the right system for your goals

• The free gift for webinar attendees

• Details about the Accountability Accelerator starting March 17th

• Encouragement to take action and sign up!

Link to the webinar:

In this episode, I talk about the downside of "waking up too much"—overthinking, overanalyzing, and consuming too much information without taking action. Just like showing up too much can be unbalanced, constantly planning and reflecting without implementing can keep us stuck. I share examples of how this happens and explain that real growth comes when we take action, even if it’s imperfect.

I also emphasize the importance of setting boundaries on information intake and recognizing when it's time to shift from thinking to doing. Using personal stories and listener experiences, I show how honesty helps break free from analysis paralysis. The key takeaway is that finding balance between waking up and showing up leads to progress and peace. I invite listeners to join my Accountability Accelerator to start taking action on their goals.

Key Topics Covered:

• The problem with overthinking and overanalyzing

• How too much reflection can stop progress

• The balance between waking up (planning) and showing up (doing)

• The dangers of consuming too much information

• Why self-doubt makes us feel "not ready"

• Setting boundaries on what information we take in

• A listener’s realization about wasting time on TV

• How honesty helps break analysis paralysis

• My personal struggle with procrastination

• An invitation to take action with the Accountability Accelerator

In this episode of Your Loving Kick in the Pants, I dive into the difference between waking up and showing up. Lately, I’ve been networking and seeing firsthand how people take action when they truly understand accountability. But I’ve also noticed that many people overdo one side—either constantly staying busy and overwhelmed or spending too much time thinking without acting. If you’re exhausted and struggling to keep up, you might be showing up too much and neglecting reflection. True balance comes from recognizing what tasks actually belong to you and what you can let go of.

I share a personal story about letting go of control, using my household’s dishes as an example. By asking my husband to take over, I realized how difficult it is to step back, but also how necessary it is. I break down the importance of delegating, setting up systems, and giving yourself permission to rest. If you’re stuck in a cycle of doing too much, start by identifying what only you can do, find what can be delegated, and allow yourself to step back without guilt. Realigning isn’t failing—it’s making sure you don’t burn out before you get where you want to be.

Key Topics Covered:

• The difference between waking up and showing up

• Recognizing burnout and imbalance

• How networking reinforced the power of accountability

• The importance of reflection, humility, and planning

• Letting go of control and delegating tasks

• Personal story about household chores and mental load

• Understanding the difference between responsibility and control

• How to set up accountability systems

• Giving yourself permission to rest

• Practical steps to stop overcommitting and find balance

In this episode, I talk about the importance of honesty in the accountability code. Without honesty, real change and growth aren’t possible. I share personal stories about how dishonesty can show up in small ways, like making excuses or setting unrealistic goals. Being truthful with yourself brings clarity, peace, and happiness.

I break down key steps, including self-reflection, dropping the ego, setting realistic goals, taking action, and owning commitments. I also stress the importance of feedback and recognizing excuses. Ultimately, honesty helps you stay accountable and create the life you truly want.

Key Topics Covered:

• Honesty as the foundation of accountability

• How dishonesty appears in actions, not just words

• The power of self-reflection

• Letting go of ego for growth

• Setting realistic goals

• Taking action instead of just planning

• Following through on commitments

• Using feedback for improvement

• Recognizing and overcoming excuses

• How honesty leads to happiness

In this episode, I talk about the mix of nervousness and excitement that comes with growth, especially in business. As I prepare for a big speaking event, I reflect on how these feelings are a sign of change and progress. I encourage my listeners to embrace them rather than avoid them. Through my Accountability Accelerator, I help people push past fear by setting goals and having someone hold them accountable, which can be both scary and motivating.

I also share three steps to turn nervous excitement into action: reflect on past experiences, set a “5:55 alarm” as a reminder to take action, and find accountability to stay on track. I remind listeners that if they’re feeling nervous and excited, they’re exactly where they need to be. Growth happens outside our comfort zones, and I’m here to support them in that journey.

Key Topics Covered:

• Preparing for a big speaking event

• The link between nervousness and excitement

• How fear signals business growth

• The importance of accountability

• The “5:55” method for taking action

• Using reminders to push past fear

• The power of community

• Embracing discomfort for success

• The Accountability Accelerator program

• Sharing growth on social media

I just got back from an amazing retreat where a group of women came together to support each other, grow their businesses, and build real friendships. We planned content, shared our journeys, and celebrated big wins. Many talked about how this community has helped them gain confidence, find success, and connect with like-minded people.

This retreat wasn’t just about business—it was about encouragement, breakthroughs, and having fun. Women from different industries shared how mentorship and accountability changed their lives. If you've never been to a retreat, you need to come. It’s like an adult sleep away camp, but with business transformations!

Key Topics Covered:

• The experience of attending a business retreat

• How community and accountability help business growth

• Success stories from women who transformed their businesses

• The power of networking and building business besties

• Overcoming self-doubt and stepping into confidence

• The impact of coaching and mentorship

• Different industries represented at the retreat

• The fun and personal connections made at the event

• The importance of investing in personal and business development

• Future retreats and networking opportunities

In this episode, I talk about the Community to Cash Challenge, a five-day program I created to help people grow their engagement and make money, even in other people's communities. You don’t need your own audience to succeed. I’ve personally made six figures using free social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, and the challenge teaches simple marketing principles to help you do the same. For just $27, you’ll get lifetime access to tools like a KPI tracker, an engagement guide, and social media templates to make posting and connecting easier.

The challenge includes five steps: joining a community, connecting with others, clearly communicating your goals, asking for engagement, and making a low-cost offer. I’ve also added bonuses for completing the challenge, like a headline generator, social media shoutouts, and strategy calls to keep you motivated and growing. If you finish in five days, you can unlock extra rewards like free advertising and a $500 coupon for my advanced program. This challenge is all about taking action, learning what works, and building relationships that help your business grow.

Key Topics Covered:

• Overview of the Community to Cash Challenge.

• How to make money in other people’s communities.

• Simple marketing principles for any platform or group.

• Tools included in the challenge: KPI tracker, engagement guide, and templates.

• The five challenge steps: community, connection, communication, engagement, and cash.

• Bonuses for completing the challenge: headline generator and strategy calls.

• Extra fast-action bonuses for completing in five days.

• Importance of engaging with others, not just posting.

• How to build relationships and grow a business using free social media.

• Real-life success stories from people in the Boss Minded community.

In this episode, I share how I wrote 30,000 words in just seven days during the Marketers Cruise by breaking my big goal into smaller, daily steps. My daughter joins me to talk about her tips for making money, like finding a good job or starting your own company, and how celebrating small wins can keep you motivated.

We also chat about my writing process, staying focused, and finding “gold nuggets” in my book, Becoming Boss Minded. I wrap up with advice on taking action and making follow-through simple and peaceful, along with updates on my book’s progress.

Key Topics Covered:

Writing 30,000 words in seven days.

Breaking goals into smaller steps.

Celebrating small wins along the way.

My daughter’s tips for making money.

Writing with focus and flow.

What “gold nuggets” mean in my book.

Sneak peek of Becoming Boss Minded.

Encouraging simple and peaceful follow-through.

Updates on my book’s progress.

Lessons from the Marketers Cruise.

In this episode, I share how being on a cruise ship has given me the space to focus on writing my book, Becoming Boss Minded. Surrounded by other marketers, I’ve been reminded how easy it is to feel pressured to do everything people suggest for success. Instead, I reflect on a lesson from my mentor called "hand in the sand," which is about focusing on a few key priorities and letting go of the rest.

I discuss how taking on too many goals, especially ones that don’t align with your values, leads to burnout and failure. By narrowing your focus and saying no to distractions, you can be more productive and at peace. I’ve embraced this mindset to avoid FOMO and stay on track, and I encourage listeners to do the same by prioritizing what truly matters to them.

Topics Covered in this episode:

• Writing a book while on a distraction-free cruise.
• The pressure to follow others' advice for success.
• "Hand in the sand" mindset for focusing on priorities.
• The dangers of taking on too many goals.
• How saying no helps avoid burnout.
• Overcoming FOMO and staying focused.
• The mental and emotional benefits of narrowing your focus.
• Encouragement to prioritize what aligns with your values.

In this episode, I talk about the challenges of 2024 and how I’m looking forward to 2025 with hope. I share how even bad experiences can teach us something. I tell a story from my Facebook group about someone who spent a lot of money on coaching but didn’t see any progress. I also talk about my own financial loss from a bad investment. Instead of feeling sorry for myself, I chose to learn from it. I want to remind you that setbacks can help us grow, and I encourage you to start 2025 with a positive, growth-focused mindset.

Key Topics Covered:

1. I’m excited for 2025 and see it as a new beginning.

2. Bad experiences can still teach us something valuable.

3. I share a story about someone who spent money on coaching but didn’t succeed.

4. I talk about my own loss from a bad investment.

5. It’s important to learn from tough situations.

6. A growth mindset helps us move forward.

7. Don’t stay stuck in feeling like a victim.

8. Setbacks can teach us lessons and help us grow.

9. Let’s make 2025 a great year.

10. Start this year with hope and determination.

In this episode, I chatted with Becky, "The Cycle Breaker," about breaking toxic family patterns and finding freedom through healing. Becky shared relatable stories from her upbringing and how she overcame limiting beliefs to step into her authentic self.

We discussed the challenges of setting boundaries, like going "no contact," and why doing the emotional work first is so important. Becky also shared tools like her "no contact checklist" to help others take thoughtful action toward a healthier, happier life.

Key Topics Covered:

• Growing up in a toxic family dynamic.

• Overcoming limiting beliefs and self-doubt.

• Setting healthy boundaries with family.

• The importance of therapy and coaching.

• Breaking generational cycles for our kids.

• Using Becky’s "no contact checklist" as a guide.

• Embracing your authentic self.

• Finding joy and peace through healing.

• Supporting others through your journey.

• Why bold action leads to true freedom.

In this episode, I encourage listeners to recognize their potential and pursue big goals, just like anyone else who has succeeded. I share how rewarding it is to see my branding come to life through my clients, whether on websites or social media, and how fulfilling it is to see my work help them grow. Once a brand is handed off, it becomes theirs to build on.

I also talk about the pride I feel in my clients' success and joke about taking credit for it. I encourage fellow designer Lindsay to give herself more credit for her work, and express my excitement about continuing to help women in business grow and thrive.

• Recognizing your potential to achieve big goals

• The satisfaction of seeing branding in action

• Branding’s impact on websites and social media

• Handing off branding ownership to clients

• Taking pride in clients' success

• Encouraging self-recognition for design work

• Helping women grow in business

• The joy of seeing others succeed

• The role of branding in business growth

• Giving credit to yourself for your work

In this episode, I discuss the importance of authentic connection in business and why certain aspects of relationship-building can't be outsourced. I share my viral post, "Hiring someone to nurture your audience is like hiring someone to make out with your husband," which sparked a lively debate. The message: true connection requires personal involvement, especially for small business owners. I explain why understanding your audience and doing the groundwork yourself is crucial before outsourcing.

We also explore the balance between outsourcing and authenticity. While tasks like podcast production can be delegated, staying connected with your audience through your voice and story is essential. I share insights and advice from the post’s comments, reminding you that connection starts with you. Nurturing your audience is key to sustainable growth and success.

  Topics covered in this episode:

• The importance of attracting the right clients for your business.

• The viral analogy: "Hiring someone to nurture your audience is like hiring someone to make out with your husband."

• Why personal involvement is key for authentic audience connection.

• The role of nurturing in building relationships and driving conversions.

• When and what aspects of your business to outsource.

• Insights and opinions from comments on the viral post.

• The difference between delegating tasks and outsourcing connection.

• Examples of how successful individuals maintain personal authenticity in their brands.

• Steps to determine if you’re ready to outsource parts of your business.

• Practical advice on balancing growth, outsourcing, and genuine audience engagement.

In this episode, I talk with Rebekah Rose Miller, a mom of four, about her incredible transformation through the Accountability Code. Rebekah shares how reflection, planning, and commitment helped her go from feeling stuck to becoming intentional and confident in her goals. She talks about balancing homeschooling, network marketing, and personal growth, all while creating systems that brought more peace to her family and focus to her business.

We dive into the challenges of overcoming fears, staying consistent, and aligning with the right mentors. Rebekah shares how personal growth not only improved her life but also made her a better mom and leader. She ends by discussing her passion for health and wellness, emphasizing the importance of taking action to create the life you want.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Rebekah’s introduction to the Accountability Code.

• How reflection helped her identify needed changes.

• Creating systems for family and business balance.

• Overcoming fears and resistance.

• The impact of personal growth on family dynamics.

• Aligning with mentors for guidance and success.

• Staying consistent with small, meaningful actions.

• Finding confidence through accountability.

• The link between personal and business growth.

• Rebekah’s work with health and wellness peptides.

In this episode, I chat with my amazing mother-in-law, Farzaneh Barker, about her life experiences and the values she’s passed on to me. She shares how she first saw me as a "sunshine" and talks about her education in Iran, India, and the U.S.

Farzaneh encouraged me to pursue a degree for its life validation, even though I was initially hesitant. She also talks about the joy of seeing her children succeed and how that brings her fulfillment.

We also discuss her views on money, accountability, and parenting. Farzaneh emphasizes being true to yourself, learning from others, and facing life’s challenges with patience and accountability.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Farzana’s first impression of me.

• Her diverse educational background.

• The importance of education and my college journey.

• Support and validation in success.

• Farzana’s approach to money and helping her children.

• Differences in how Aubrey and I were raised.

• The role of accountability.

• Farzana’s parenting and emotional support.

• Being true to yourself.

• Handling life’s challenges with patience.

In this episode, I talked with Vanessa Wild, a digital marketer and copywriter, about her journey in the Accountability Accelerator program. She shared how the program helped her focus on her own marketing and get past resistance by breaking down big goals into manageable steps. Vanessa also discussed how she embraced boldness in her messaging and learned to trust her instincts when receiving feedback.

We covered topics like the importance of reflection and planning, creating effective sales copy, and how to stay committed to your goals even when life gets tough. Vanessa’s story shows how breaking goals into smaller pieces, trusting yourself, and using feedback can lead to better results in both marketing and business.

Topics covered in this episode:

• The value of reflection in achieving goals.

• The Accountability Accelerator program’s impact on Vanessa.

• Balancing client work with personal marketing.

• How to handle feedback and improve.

• Overcoming resistance to take action.

• The importance of planning before executing.

• Why sales copy needs to be specific, not watered down.

• Starting small to build boldness.

• Using data to improve marketing strategies.

In this episode, I discuss raising your prices with confidence. Many hesitate to increase prices due to doubt or justification worries. I share insights from my boss-minded group: you don’t need to explain your prices, confidence is key. Regular price increases and client feedback can help build assurance. I share my journey of raising my program price from $750 to $3,000, driven by results and feedback.

Other tips include not apologizing for price changes, avoiding seasonal timing pitfalls, and aligning prices with your worth. While marketing price increases can attract clients, do so authentically to avoid seeming desperate. Even a 4% increase is reasonable due to inflation. Trust your value and align prices with your work quality.

Topics covered in this episode: 

• Confidence in pricing

• Justifying prices without explanations

• Using feedback for improvement

• Planning regular price increases

• Personal story of raising program prices

• Seasonal timing considerations

• Marketing strategies for price changes

• Aligning with your worth

• Avoiding apologies

• Justifying price increases due to inflation

In this episode of Your Loving Kick in the Pants, I celebrate reaching my 101st episode and reflect on the power of consistency. I talk about how many podcasters quit early and why I’m committed to continuing. I also discuss the importance of finding your unique voice in business and sticking to messaging that aligns with your values. Plus, I share how the Nurture to Convert certification helped me refine my coaching and messaging for my clients.

I emphasize the importance of how we present ourselves and how negative self-talk can hurt our image and business. I encourage listeners to be mindful of their words, stay accountable, and keep showing up with grace as they work toward their goals.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Reaching my 101st podcast episode and staying consistent.

• Why many podcasters quit after 15 episodes.

• The importance of listener reviews.

• Embracing my unique role as an accountability coach.

• Aligning business with your values.

• Refining your messaging to attract the right people.

• My Nurture to Convert certification and its impact on my coaching.

• How negative self-talk can harm your business.

• The power of accountability and feedback.

• Staying committed to personal growth and showing up.

In this 100th episode of my podcast, I celebrate over two years of consistent work and reflect on the recent completion of my accountability accelerator program, cohort number six. I express gratitude for my team and clients, sharing insights from our final call, where we discussed both the challenges faced and the significant progress made. My clients demonstrated resilience, achieving personal and professional wins despite difficult circumstances.

I highlight the transformative experiences of my clients, who learned to trust their intuition and stay organized. Their successes reinforced the value of accountability in reaching goals, and many expressed excitement for their future. I feel grateful for the positive impact we've created together and the support of our community.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Completion of the accountability accelerator program.

• Importance of consistency in podcasting.

• Client challenges faced during the program.

• Insights on personal habits and decision-making.

• Success stories from clients in their businesses.

• Role of accountability in personal growth.

• Emotional moments during the final call.

• Future goals of clients post-program.

• Gratitude for community support.

In this episode, I announce major changes in my business, specifically the rebranding of my group from Lady Bosses to Boss Minded. After nearly four years of building this community, I realized the name posed trademark issues and didn't fully reflect the empowered mindset of the women involved. This new name protects my brand and emphasizes taking control of one's business and life.

Being "boss minded" is about making bold choices and fostering a supportive community where women can learn and overcome challenges together. I express my excitement for future retreats and events, and I’m grateful for the support I’ve received. Together, we can navigate the tough side of business while uplifting one another.

• Announcement of business changes.

• Background on Lady Bosses.

• Trademark issues faced.

• Community dynamics and challenges.

• Introduction of the name Boss Minded.

• Definition of "boss minded."

• Plans for future events and retreats.

• Reflections on business challenges.

• Importance of community support.

• Gratitude for listeners' support.

In this episode, I discussed my pride in attending a client’s ribbon-cutting event for her new boutique. I also reflected on recent challenges, including a virus, a friend's funeral in Utah, and the devastation from Hurricane Helene. Despite these hardships, I’m grateful that my family and home were safe, and I contemplated survivor's guilt and the lack of control we have over life’s events.

I emphasized the importance of helping others when we’re in a better position to do so. Observing the contrast between people seeking assistance and my client’s celebration reminded me that while hard work is vital, it’s not always enough in the face of uncontrollable circumstances. It's essential to appreciate our blessings and be ready to support those in need.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Attending a client’s ribbon-cutting ceremony.

• Overcoming a virus and attending a funeral in Utah.

• The devastation caused by Hurricane Helene.

• Reflections on survivor’s guilt.

• The role of God in our successes.

• Understanding that some things are out of our control.

• The importance of financial preparedness to help others.

• The contrast between people seeking assistance and others succeeding.

• The significance of counting blessings during difficult times.

• Encouraging people to offer support to those in need.

In this episode, I’m excited to share the launch of my newly renamed "Accountability Accelerator" program, created to give my clients a gentle push. I'm working with 15 women from different business backgrounds who all want support and accountability. I also talk about my copywriter Vanessa and branding expert Lindsey, who are helping me update my website. Their positive feedback shows me that I can offer helpful advice based on my own experiences.

I also talk about how important it is to trust yourself when it comes to accountability. I share a personal story about how I try to create a caring space for both my kids and clients, encouraging them to be themselves. As I wrap up, I invite everyone to focus on personal growth, trust themselves, and have fun along the way.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Introduction of the "Accountability Accelerator" program.

• Working with a diverse group of women in business.

• Collaboration with a copywriter to improve website content.

• Revamping branding with the help of a branding expert.

• Importance of providing targeted support to clients.

• Personal reflections on trust and accountability.

• The role of motherly love in personal growth.

• Encouraging clients to adopt their own accountability codes.

• The balance of tough love and support in coaching.

• Inviting listeners to trust themselves and embrace their true identity.

In this episode, I discussed the importance of building friendships in business. Having friends keeps you motivated and supports you during tough times. While extroverts may find it easier to make friends, maintaining those connections takes effort.

Business friendships create a positive environment, as I’ve seen at my retreats. I shared three tips for nurturing these relationships: follow up with past connections, invite others to join experiences, and offer support, even in small ways. Ultimately, having a few close friends who share your values enriches your business journey.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• The importance of friendships in business.
• How friendships fill your emotional "love tank."
• Extroverts versus introverts in making and keeping friends.
• Sharing personal experiences of friendships formed at retreats.
• The value of following up with past connections.
• Inviting others to join in your business experiences.
• Supporting friends by giving encouragement and showing care.
• The importance of shared values in building lasting friendships.
• Nurturing relationships for personal and business growth.
• How to maintain a few strong, supportive friendships instead of needing a large group.

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In this episode, I discuss inner peace and accountability. I share a story from my book about the importance of feedback and recognizing when we're off course, using my car's alignment as a metaphor. Just like adaptive cruise control keeps my car on track, we need checks to stay aligned in life.

I also talk about identifying negative cycles and how accountability, both to ourselves and others, helps break them and create lasting peace.

The takeaway: you deserve happiness and the ability to steer your life in the right direction.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Connection between inner peace and accountability.
• Using feedback to recognize when we’re off track.
• Story of my car's alignment issues as a metaphor.
• Importance of external and internal checks in life.
• Recognizing and breaking negative cycles.
• Handling business challenges and emotional ups and downs.
• The role of adaptive cruise control in staying aligned.
• Learning to adjust instead of accepting the “off” feeling as normal.
• The impact of self-awareness and accountability on peace.
• Knowing you deserve happiness and inner balance.

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In this episode, I talk about setting boundaries with my mother-in-law, who often asks for help. I realized that by always saying "yes," I created a pattern where people relied on me too much. Accountability means recognizing these habits and making changes by setting limits to prioritize my well-being.

I encourage you to reflect on your own life and relationships. If you're feeling overwhelmed or disrespected, personal accountability can help you shift those dynamics. By changing your habits, you can change how others treat you. I'm here to support you with my accountability code if you're unsure where to start.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Setting boundaries

• Accountability in relationships

• Overcoming the habit of always saying "yes"

• Changing personal patterns

• Recognizing unhealthy dynamics

• Prioritizing well-being

• Small steps toward change

• Shifting habits and beliefs

• Impact of personal responsibility on happiness

• Support through the accountability code

I’m excited to kick off my new fall program, helping 15 business owners take real action with the Accountability Code. This framework makes follow-through easy and stress-free, leading to better organization and communication.

I’m grateful for the trust these women have placed in me and thrilled to see their progress. With recent speaking engagements lined up, I’m reminded of how powerful this work is. If you’re ready to take action, join the waitlist for the next round—I can’t wait to see what’s possible for you.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Kicking off my new fall accountability program.
• Helping business owners take action.
• The power of the Accountability Code framework.
• Reducing stress with better organization and automation.
• My excitement for my clients’ progress.
• Gratefulness for the trust placed in me.
• Booking recent speaking engagements.
• Encouraging others to take action on their goals.
• Offering a waitlist for future programs.
• The impact of personal accountability.

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In this podcast episode, I share my excitement about my upcoming eight-week program and emphasize the importance of accountability in personal development. I discuss how my coaching approach has evolved after hiring a coach to refine my messaging. I reflect on two types of clients I encounter: those who struggle to follow through and those who are productive but may lack direction. I believe both types need accountability to achieve their goals.

I explore the idea of being a self-starter and highlight the qualities my clients often possess. I encourage listeners to consider their motivations for seeking accountability, whether to overcome resistance or to boost their enthusiasm for personal growth. By sharing my experiences and insights, I stress the value of support in reaching goals while promoting my upcoming program.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Excited for an eight-week program with a dedicated group.
• Improved messaging and client service with a new coach.
• Importance of clients being proactive and excited.
• Helps with both follow-through issues and over-productivity.
• My own productivity changes after moving.
• Insights into how clients view their own traits and accountability.
• Difference between true accountability and obedience.
• Plans for guest interviews and reaching the 100th episode.

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In this episode, I talk about my upcoming fall accountability program, where I help people create a personal accountability code to reach their goals. I share a success story of a client who expanded her business nationwide using this code. Once you learn it, you can use it for life in any area.

What makes my program unique is that it’s tailored to each person, unlike others that use a one-size-fits-all approach. I’m constantly improving the program with new insights. If you need clarity, support, and a push to reach your goals, this program could be for you. I'm excited to see how it can also benefit your family.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Fall accountability program overview.
• Creating a personal accountability code.
• Success story of a nationwide business.
• Lifelong use of the accountability code.
• Customizing goals to fit individuals.
• Program updates based on feedback.
• Building confidence through success.
• Personal alignment and goal achievement.
• Invitation to join the program.
• Positive impact on families.

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In this episode, I share my experiences with starting my business and the importance of email marketing. After reflecting on some past recording challenges, I talk about how I created a Facebook group for women in business and how I'm hosting a meeting to explore email marketing strategies together. It’s essential to have clear business goals, build an email list, and craft engaging content to connect with my audience effectively.

I provide valuable tips on segmenting email lists for better targeting and automating campaigns to nurture client relationships. Overall, I hope this episode serves as a helpful guide for fellow entrepreneurs looking to enhance their email marketing and build supportive communities around their businesses.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Starting my business and learning from failures.
• Creating a Facebook group for women in business.
• Hosting a meeting focused on email marketing.
• The importance of defining business goals.
• Tips for building an email list.
• Choosing the right email marketing platform.
• Segmenting the audience for better targeting.
• Crafting engaging and personalized emails.
• Automating campaigns and nurturing the email list.

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In this episode, I discuss the concept of resistance and its impact on productivity and personal growth. Despite not feeling up to recording today, I felt it was important to address this common challenge.

Resistance affects us all and can hinder our progress, but it also offers opportunities for growth. I share my own struggles with balancing responsibilities as a parent and business owner, especially with my kids on a year-round school schedule. I explain my Accountability Code, which includes six steps: reflection, humility, planning, implementing, commitment, and feedback.

Each step involves dealing with resistance in different ways, and I offer practical tips to overcome these obstacles.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Introduction and the challenge of recording the episode
• Explanation of resistance and its universal presence
• Personal struggles with resistance, especially as a parent
• The first step: Reflection and its challenges
• The second step: Humility and dealing with resistance
• The third step: Planning and overcoming resistance
• The fourth step: Implementing and handling physical and mental resistance
• The fifth step: Commitment and its difficulties
• The sixth step: Feedback and resistance to external input
• Encouragement and support for listeners dealing with resistance

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In this podcast episode, I share my recent experience with hiring a mentor to improve my productivity and accountability as an entrepreneur. I also discuss the challenge of managing multiple ideas and projects simultaneously, emphasizing the importance of setting focus milestones to ensure progress and completion.

Drawing parallels between nurturing projects and parenting, explaining how each project should reach a certain level of independence (like a child getting a driver's license) before moving on to the next.

This approach helps me and my clients stay focused and achieve our goals without getting overwhelmed by new ideas or unfinished tasks.

Topics covered in this episode:

• Challenges of managing multiple ideas and projects.

• Importance of setting focus milestones.

• Understanding the stages of project development.

• Comparison of project growth to child development stages.

• Balancing personal productivity with family responsibilities.

• Recognizing when a project is ready for less oversight.

• Dealing with distractions and new ideas during goal pursuit.

• Transitioning from play mode to productive work mode.

• Announcement of upcoming fall program for listeners interested in structured goal-setting and accountability coaching.

In this podcast episode, I talk about how I've recently slowed down and enjoyed life more deliberately. I share my experiences of vacationing in my hometown, reconnecting with family, and treating myself to spa visits and shopping. Throughout the day, I compare the energy I use for work with the energy I spend on activities that bring me joy.

I emphasize the importance of mindfulness and taking breaks to recharge. I encourage listeners to assess how they use their energy, suggesting that true relaxation involves engaging in activities that bring fulfillment, not just resting.

Finally, I advocate for intentional breaks to renew our energy and prepare for future challenges with enthusiasm.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Importance of slowing down
• Taking intentional breaks
• Personal experiences during vacation
• Self-care practices
• Balancing work and play
• Reconnecting with family
• Mindfulness and rejuvenation
• Planning for future challenges

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In this episode, I talk about self-care and taking time off, sharing my move from Utah to South Carolina almost a year ago. This move has helped my family and personal growth, pushing me to let go of unnecessary responsibilities and focus on my main goals. I stress the importance of setting clear boundaries, prioritizing tasks, and using technology to balance work and relaxation.

While visiting Utah, I blocked out two weeks on my calendar to avoid work calls, giving me more quality time with my family. I reflect on my journey of overcoming overworking and give practical tips for better time management and self-care. I encourage listeners to assess their own needs and make adjustments to improve their well-being.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Importance of self-care and scheduling time off
• Host’s move from Utah to South Carolina
• Transitioning to a new way of living
• Stepping away from unnecessary responsibilities
• Setting clear boundaries for work hours
• Prioritizing and delegating tasks
• Scheduling downtime and self-care activities
• Implementing time management techniques
• Leveraging technology and automation
• Encouragement for listeners to assess and adjust their own practices

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In this episode, I reflect on my tendency to take extreme actions, like moving across the country or downsizing my living space, to achieve my goals. Despite recognizing that such extremes may not always be healthy, I value the lessons learned and the strength gained from these experiences. The episode emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between taking significant actions and maintaining boundaries.

I also recount my childhood and adult experiences with living in large homes and the challenges of managing clutter. I talk about the relief I felt after moving into smaller spaces and how it helped me realize the importance of minimalism. The episode touches on how past experiences and upbringing influence one's approach to life and decluttering. I encourage listeners to understand their motivations and make conscious choices without resorting to extreme measures unless necessary.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Desire for a simpler life.
• Moving across the country and downsizing living spaces.
• Balancing extreme actions with setting boundaries.
• The impact of childhood experiences on managing clutter.
• Challenges of maintaining large homes.
• Relief and benefits of living in smaller spaces.
• Influence of past experiences on current actions.
• Encouragement to make conscious choices and understand personal motivations.

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In this podcast episode, I share my journey of hiring a new coach and the mixed feelings it brings. Reflecting on a stressful past coaching experience that led to burnout and therapy, I discuss the valuable lessons learned about being selective with advice and ensuring alignment with personal goals. Writing my book, "The Accountability Code," was a turning point, helping me move past negativity.

Now, I am excited about my new coach, who aligns well with my values. I stress the importance of setting clear intentions and expectations when hiring a coach and encourage listeners to seek feedback from trusted individuals. This episode highlights finding the right guidance to achieve sustainable success without sacrificing personal well-being.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Hiring a new coach and the emotions involved.
• A past coaching experience with stress and burnout.
• The role of therapy in overcoming coaching challenges.
• Lessons on being cautious with advice and ensuring alignment.
• Writing "The Accountability Code" as a turning point.
• The importance of clear intentions and expectations for coaching.
• Excitement about my new coach and shared values.
• Seeking feedback from trusted individuals.
• Balancing business success with personal well-being.
• Encouraging listeners to invest in themselves and improve accountability.

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In this episode, I interview Susan Hart, who has been in my mastermind group for six months. Susan shares her journey from running Mommy High Five, an affiliate marketing business, to creating a new venture focused on helping moms find their identity beyond motherhood. She talks about the transformation in her business and personal life through my Accountability Code and her upcoming book, "Reclaiming Me," a journal for moms.

We also discuss her personal accountability code, its influence on her planning and execution, and the impact of her Facebook group for moms. This episode highlights the importance of reflection, humility, planning, implementation, commitment, and feedback in personal growth and underscores the value of personal identity and community.

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Topics covered in this episode:

• Susan Hart's journey from running Mommy High Five to starting a new venture.
• Challenges faced with affiliate marketing and changes in online dynamics.
• The transformation through Marci's accountability code.
• Susan's creation of a Facebook group, "I'm a Mom, But," for moms to explore their identities.
• Importance of moms finding their identity beyond motherhood.
• Details about Susan's upcoming book, "Reclaiming Me."
• Susan's personal accountability code and its components.
• The impact of planning and execution in business and personal life.
• The importance of community and celebrating personal wins.
• Future plans for Susan, including potential coaching for moms.

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