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New Marriage Material

New Marriage Material

By Meagan Lewis

Are you ready for the fantasy or reality? You got the dress, check! You got the suit, check! But do you have TOOLS for the marriage? You got married to stay married, I'm assuming.

After the vows there are lots of tips and mindsets you can use to be intentional about making this a forever type of thing!

Let's go newlyweds and freshlyweds. Because we are learning and becoming NEW MARRIAGE MATERIAL!

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Myths Newlyweds Believe

New Marriage MaterialMay 27, 2022

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Myths Newlyweds Believe

Myths Newlyweds Believe

We AAALLLLLLL have some "facts" we believe about marriage. How a husband should be, how a wife should be.. so whats your myth you hold true? It might become true, but will it serve YOUR marriage?


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Roles over seasons [1:35]

We will value the same things [3:55]

You will always feel comfortable in your marriage [7:08]

They will stay the same/You can chsmge them/Making them like you us BEST for them [8:54]

Marriage will be hard no matter what we do/We will feel honeymoon feelings th entire time [12:32]

You have to do marriage like Mom/Dad, Aunt/Uncle, Pop/Gran, & Disney Channel [13:43]

Etsy Shop Link, get your Marital Calender: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1156997973/newlywed-gift-undated-calendar-undated?click_key=0ea1886d3c10ddb2e23d71782ecca29a83649065%3A1156997973&click_sum=9b964753&ref=shop_home_active_1

Wanna GET MARITAL RESULTS with a NEWLYWED STRATEGIST?🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏾‍♀️ (pricing in IG bio LINK:) Spouse Session: https://calendly.com/newmarriagematerial/spousesession?month=2022-01 🙌🏾DM me on INSTAGRAM if you want the HUSBAND & WIFE Session. (I’ll send you the link) 🙌🏾

INSTAGRAM ⬇️DM me your newlywed concerns, get the marriage you deserve! https://www.instagram.com/newmarriagematerial/

POSTPONED until MAY/JUNE 2022 Wanna Talk LIVE? IG LIVE Thursdays @ 7:30 pm CST

For those who are CURIOUS about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you!  💍Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey!  💍Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over.  💍Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo.


May 27, 202221:43
Postpartum Lessons

Postpartum Lessons

I gave birth 12 days ago and in that short time I have learned some marital lesons, y'all. 

Time Stamp

Diary Moments [:50]

Postpartum Realities [5:05]

3 Marital Lessons [13:52]

Game Idea [21:01]

Marital Calender Ditigal Product [24:14]

Etsy Shop Link, get your Marital Calender: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1156997973/newlywed-gift-undated-calendar-undated?click_key=0ea1886d3c10ddb2e23d71782ecca29a83649065%3A1156997973&click_sum=9b964753&ref=shop_home_active_1

Wanna GET MARITAL RESULTS with a NEWLYWED STRATEGIST?🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏾‍♀️ (pricing in IG bio LINK:) Spouse Session: https://calendly.com/newmarriagematerial/spousesession?month=2022-01 🙌🏾DM me on INSTAGRAM if you want the HUSBAND & WIFE Session. (I’ll send you the link) 🙌🏾 

INSTAGRAM ⬇️DM me your newlywed concerns, get the marriage you deserve! https://www.instagram.com/newmarriagematerial/ 

POSTPONED until MAY/JUNE 2022 Wanna Talk LIVE? IG LIVE Thursdays @ 7:30 pm CST 

For those who are CURIOUS about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you!  💍Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey!  💍Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over.  💍Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo.

Mar 31, 202227:46
Do YOU want undisturbed PEACE in your MARRIAGE?

Do YOU want undisturbed PEACE in your MARRIAGE?

We got married for da PEACE marriage can bring, right? So let’s prepare for those factors that can DISTURB our marital peace. 💭This episode discuss the foundational pieces that can CREATE PEACE in your marriage. Wanna GET MARITAL RESULTS with a NEWLYWED STRATEGIST?🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏾‍♀️ (pricing in IG bio LINK:) Spouse Session: https://calendly.com/newmarriagematerial/spousesession?month=2022-01 🙌🏾DM me on INSTAGRAM if you want the HUSBAND & WIFE Session. (I’ll send you the link) 🙌🏾 INSTAGRAM ⬇️DM me your newlywed concerns, get the marriage you deserve! https://www.instagram.com/newmarriagematerial/ Wanna Talk LIVE? IG LIVE Thursdays @ 7:30 pm CST For those who are CURIOUS about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you!  💍Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey!  💍Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over.  💍Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo. 
Jan 13, 202227:09
Words and Phrases are CRUCIAL in Marriage

Words and Phrases are CRUCIAL in Marriage

Aaannnd she’s back for another episode. We are talking about how the DEFINITION of WORDS matter! And I dropped some tools on how to ensure we truly understand what our words mean. Because we’re trying to have CLEARER CONVERSATIONS for CLEARER SOLUTIONS. For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you!  Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey!  Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over.  Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo.  Meet Me there/DM me: @newmarriagematerial IG LIVE Saturday’s @ 8:00 pm
Jul 06, 202114:33
My Spouse Is An Idol?

My Spouse Is An Idol?

BONUS EPISODE: Weeell, who would've thought that could be a thing! Spouse an IDOL?


For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you! 

Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey! 

Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over. 

Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo. 

Meet Me there/DM me: @newmarriagematerial IG LIVE Saturday 5.15.21 @ 8:00 pm


Upcoming Event: Newlywed Zoom Call: July 12, 2021 (registration link coming next week Tuesday 5/25/21)

May 13, 202122:50
“Let the Lord Chisel You” Guest HOOEY Interview

“Let the Lord Chisel You” Guest HOOEY Interview

Three episodes being released this week: Newlywed Fame, Is Your Spouse an Idol, Guest Interview. For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you! Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey! Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over. Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo. @newmarriagematerial IG LIVE Saturday 5.15.21 @ 8:00 pm
May 11, 202136:23
I Discovered New Info About My Spouse

I Discovered New Info About My Spouse

DIFF-FFFEERENCES baybeee from how we cook eggs TO how different we show up when it comes to sex, communication, or conflict! Year 1: let the discovery begin! For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you!  Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey!  Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over.  Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo.  @newmarriagematerial IG LIVE Sunday 5.2.21 @ 8:00 pm  Newlywed Zoom Call: May 1, 2021 7pm CST: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/newlywed-stories-zoom-call-tickets-149446778337  Everything Is We podcast: https://anchor.fm/everythingiswe https://www.instagram.com/everythingiswe/
Apr 28, 202117:43
Managing Triggers Saves Lives

Managing Triggers Saves Lives

For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you! Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey! Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over. Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo. @newmarriagematerial IG LIVE Saturday 4.24.21 @ 8:00 pm Newlywed Zoom Call: May 1, 2021 7pm CST: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/newlywed-stories-zoom-call-tickets-149446778337 Marriage Coaches: Keyon & Taccara Martians— IG @askthemartians (therapist) LaShaude & Dorriana James— IG @marriage_podcast Seth & Melanie Studley— IG @anatomyofmarriage (Seth is a LMFT & Melanie is a coach) Lakia “LB” Brandenburg— IG @thewifecoach
Apr 21, 202125:26
Intimacy Does Wonders

Intimacy Does Wonders

*AL GREEN* “Iiiiiii.. I’m so IN love with you…” We talking ‘bout INTIMACY, you know the mushy stuff! And HOW to get there! There’s four categories of intimacy/closeness. 15 minutes full of strategies and perspectives on how to get intimate with your new MR/MRS!!! For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you! Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey! Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over. Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo. IG LIVE Saturday 4.17.21 @ 8:00 pm Resources: Therapist Alyssa Mancao, LCSW IG Intimacy post:  https://www.instagram.com/p/B3dzZpGnV-5/?igshid=10fyomjc42btr Newlywed Zoom Call CORRECTION: May 1, 2021 7:00 pm: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/newlywed-stories-zoom-call-tickets-149446778337 New Marriage Material Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/newmarriagematerial/ Newlyweds/Freshlyweds DM me!
Apr 13, 202115:11
Guidelines to creating a MARITAL VISION
Apr 09, 202115:04
Wait, when I INVITE GOD, what happens?!

Wait, when I INVITE GOD, what happens?!

Just because we got married in a church or God was involved in our cermony does not mean we are good to go. God has to be there in our daily lives. When we invite Him into our hearts and marriage we experience TRUE benefits. The things that use to shake us up, DON'T anymore. The things we use to bud heads about can be put in their proper place. Come on now, I know you want peace in your marriage, INVITE GOD. He can do that for you. 

This episode has scripture sand perspective shifts that get you ready to invite the Lord and ways to maintain your marriage in His presence.  


For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you!

Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey!

Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over.

Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo. 


Bible Study: Marriage in an UNSURE TIME. Link BELOW:


Check my IG to catch the strategy coming on my feed next! 

Strategy: "God's Eye View"

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/newmarriagematerial/


If you are a newlywed. I'd love to speak to you and aid you in this journey!

Email me: newmarriagematerial@gmail.com

Feb 03, 202120:07
The PLANS that got away GUEST Brody & Nicky Schmaderer
Jan 23, 202139:36
Are you committed to the vision? Guest Episode with Deon & Kyra Knox

Are you committed to the vision? Guest Episode with Deon & Kyra Knox

This conversation was with couple Deon and Kyra Knox that are committed to the shared goal in their marriage. They discussed their newlywed hiccups and what works for them now. If you wanna hear a couple's perspective that's killing the GOAL game, and how they manage oneness in their marriage, PRESS PLAY, listen, and take notes.
Jan 19, 202133:19
Marriage isn't all about MONEY, but it is a little bit.

Marriage isn't all about MONEY, but it is a little bit.

In this podcast Meagan Lewis @newmarriagematerial and Shyra and Marques Murrey of @blackmarrieddebtfree discuss past the money coversation. We spoke deeper about their marriage and how it relates to money. With over a decade of marriage, they express some gems they gathered while being a married couple. How they hit what they call "ROCK BOTTOM" in finances and how they CLIMED UP and OUT.

Shyra: "When it comes to money, we both contributed."

They have a Get Out of Debt + Start Building Wealth Master Class- https://gumroad.com/l/boSqC

Leave a REVIEW about what you NEED and WANT from this marriage resource. I'm here to SERVE YOU!

Podcast EVERY Tuesday. 

@newmarriagematerial on INSTAGRAM 

@blackmarrieddebtfree on INSTAGRAM

 

Nov 18, 202040:32
Do you know how to set BOUNDARIES with your spouse?

Do you know how to set BOUNDARIES with your spouse?

When I got married I got this feeling of THIS is the moment to set a boundary Meagan, but I didn't know how!! This podcast can teach you when to look out for these moments. Also ways to approach setting boundaries in your marriage. 

Let's set that tone and get the relatitionship you BOTH deserve!!!

Nov 13, 202028:34
The FIGHT! Peep game to surprise your spouse for the NEXT throw down!

The FIGHT! Peep game to surprise your spouse for the NEXT throw down!

Is fighting normal? What do we do if we have the same fight over and over again? I got your back. Press PLAY to get some tools to FIGHT with your spouse. They won’t know what HIT them!
Oct 28, 202016:39
Is being SELFLESS a benefit?

Is being SELFLESS a benefit?

Hope and Kadero of @everydaywithhk joined me in this episode: talking about marriage can be fun, but it being fun doesn't exclude you from being selfless. We discuss how they met, their run-in with the KKK, newlyweds with one income, and how they identify their purpose as a couple.

We need more than a sprinkle of good times in marriage, but as spouses we commit to more than the good times. We are committed EVERYDAY. The EVERY DAY of marriage requires SELF-LESS-NESS. Selflessness in decisions, arguments, and even outside the home.

DOWNLOAD this episode to ensure YOU hear Hope & Kadero's marriage gems, so you can peep some game to shock your spouse!

See you EVERY TUESDAY on your favorite podcast app!

And throughout the week on INSTAGRAM: newmarriagematerial

Follow Hope & Kadero Waston on INSTAGRAM: everydaywithhk and their podcast!

Oct 20, 202033:10
REAL Moments in Marriage with Podcasters JT & NeNe of the Pillow Talking Podcast

REAL Moments in Marriage with Podcasters JT & NeNe of the Pillow Talking Podcast

The not so "cute side" of marriage, but the REAL REAL moments. Moments that couples can laugh at or give the side eye after the story has become history. It's your choice how you decide to view the real moments that WILL happen in your marriage! This couple gave some honest and funny incidents that occurred as a couple! Have a listen, laugh, relate, adjust, and accept that the REAL moments in your marriage will make it rounds. You decide how to view them when they come. Are you ready?

JT and NENE Instagram: https://instagram.com/jtandnene?igshid=au78xnzq7hrj

Pillow Talking Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pillow-talking/id1474963721

Oct 15, 202043:11
Love Languages are DIRECTIONS to your HEART| STEPS to get LOVED BEST your way!
Oct 06, 202009:11
Setting the STANDARD after “I Do”

Setting the STANDARD after “I Do”

There might be expectations of what you want from your marriage, do you have a written or typed PLAN? There are categories where couples struggle if a standard is not put in place. Which category do you soar in and trip over.. again.. and again.. and again?
Sep 30, 202023:16
Are You Prepared for the Fantasy or Reality?

Are You Prepared for the Fantasy or Reality?

All spouses definitely enter marriage with some preconceived notions! Let’s do a check up on them! Is the vision you have of your marriage based in fantasy or reality? Press PLAY and put a finger down for each point that sounds like you! ☝🏽
Sep 23, 202010:31
Introducing New Marriage Material

Introducing New Marriage Material

After you take off the wedding clothes, after the honeymoon, the happily ever after doesn't happen on accident. Is it always happy? No. Its choices and mindsets you make everyday to create the marriage you deserve. We talk about the reality of this transition we call Newlywed (Year 1) and Freshlywed (Year 2-3). So, welcome to the introduction. See you every Tuesday! Just after the weekend and enough time in the week to implement the tools given! Let's set the tone EARLY in your marriage!

Aug 27, 202000:52