New Marriage Material
By Meagan Lewis
After the vows there are lots of tips and mindsets you can use to be intentional about making this a forever type of thing!
Let's go newlyweds and freshlyweds. Because we are learning and becoming NEW MARRIAGE MATERIAL!
New Marriage MaterialMay 11, 2021
Myths Newlyweds Believe
We AAALLLLLLL have some "facts" we believe about marriage. How a husband should be, how a wife should be.. so whats your myth you hold true? It might become true, but will it serve YOUR marriage?
Time Stamp:
Roles over seasons [1:35]
We will value the same things [3:55]
You will always feel comfortable in your marriage [7:08]
They will stay the same/You can chsmge them/Making them like you us BEST for them [8:54]
Marriage will be hard no matter what we do/We will feel honeymoon feelings th entire time [12:32]
You have to do marriage like Mom/Dad, Aunt/Uncle, Pop/Gran, & Disney Channel [13:43]
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Wanna GET MARITAL RESULTS with a NEWLYWED STRATEGIST?🤵🏾♂️👰🏾♀️ (pricing in IG bio LINK:) Spouse Session: https://calendly.com/newmarriagematerial/spousesession?month=2022-01 🙌🏾DM me on INSTAGRAM if you want the HUSBAND & WIFE Session. (I’ll send you the link) 🙌🏾
INSTAGRAM ⬇️DM me your newlywed concerns, get the marriage you deserve! https://www.instagram.com/newmarriagematerial/
POSTPONED until MAY/JUNE 2022 Wanna Talk LIVE? IG LIVE Thursdays @ 7:30 pm CST
For those who are CURIOUS about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you! 💍Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey! 💍Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over. 💍Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo.
Postpartum Lessons
I gave birth 12 days ago and in that short time I have learned some marital lesons, y'all.
Time Stamp
Diary Moments [:50]
Postpartum Realities [5:05]
3 Marital Lessons [13:52]
Game Idea [21:01]
Marital Calender Ditigal Product [24:14]
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Wanna GET MARITAL RESULTS with a NEWLYWED STRATEGIST?🤵🏾♂️👰🏾♀️ (pricing in IG bio LINK:) Spouse Session: https://calendly.com/newmarriagematerial/spousesession?month=2022-01 🙌🏾DM me on INSTAGRAM if you want the HUSBAND & WIFE Session. (I’ll send you the link) 🙌🏾
INSTAGRAM ⬇️DM me your newlywed concerns, get the marriage you deserve! https://www.instagram.com/newmarriagematerial/
POSTPONED until MAY/JUNE 2022 Wanna Talk LIVE? IG LIVE Thursdays @ 7:30 pm CST
For those who are CURIOUS about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you! 💍Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey! 💍Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over. 💍Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo.
Do YOU want undisturbed PEACE in your MARRIAGE?
Words and Phrases are CRUCIAL in Marriage
My Spouse Is An Idol?
BONUS EPISODE: Weeell, who would've thought that could be a thing! Spouse an IDOL?
For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you!
Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey!
Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over.
Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo.
Meet Me there/DM me: @newmarriagematerial IG LIVE Saturday 5.15.21 @ 8:00 pm
Upcoming Event: Newlywed Zoom Call: July 12, 2021 (registration link coming next week Tuesday 5/25/21)
“Let the Lord Chisel You” Guest HOOEY Interview
I Discovered New Info About My Spouse
Managing Triggers Saves Lives
Intimacy Does Wonders
Guidelines to creating a MARITAL VISION
Resouces mentioned:
Black, Christian, Married Podcast: www.spreaker.com/show/2735010/episodes/feed
MBA(Mission, Budget, Agenda) for your marriage: www.spreaker.com/show/2735010/episodes/feed
Mattie James (Blogger Influncer): www.instagram.com/themattiejames/
Wait, when I INVITE GOD, what happens?!
Just because we got married in a church or God was involved in our cermony does not mean we are good to go. God has to be there in our daily lives. When we invite Him into our hearts and marriage we experience TRUE benefits. The things that use to shake us up, DON'T anymore. The things we use to bud heads about can be put in their proper place. Come on now, I know you want peace in your marriage, INVITE GOD. He can do that for you.
This episode has scripture sand perspective shifts that get you ready to invite the Lord and ways to maintain your marriage in His presence.
For those who are curious about the differences of a NEWLYWED & FRESHLYWED? I got you!
Newlywed: Married within the first year. Just HOPPED into the cooking grease, honey!
Freshlywed: Married within 3 years. We been cooking in the grease for some minutes, so I think its time to turn us over.
Fiance: Havent signed that marriage license yet, but we have let it been know we are engaged. The grease heating up on the stove, boo.
Bible Study: Marriage in an UNSURE TIME. Link BELOW:
Check my IG to catch the strategy coming on my feed next!
Strategy: "God's Eye View"
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/newmarriagematerial/
If you are a newlywed. I'd love to speak to you and aid you in this journey!
Email me: newmarriagematerial@gmail.com
The PLANS that got away GUEST Brody & Nicky Schmaderer
They both work on the blog Vida Noel, so check out the fire content and photos.
Vida Noel Blog: www.vidanoel.com
Nicky's Instagram: instagram.com/nickyschmaderer_fit?igshid=n8bysz7c1ei5
Brody's Instagram: instagram.com/bschmaderer_vnm?igshid=6i98mm94xnyw
Are you committed to the vision? Guest Episode with Deon & Kyra Knox
Marriage isn't all about MONEY, but it is a little bit.
In this podcast Meagan Lewis @newmarriagematerial and Shyra and Marques Murrey of @blackmarrieddebtfree discuss past the money coversation. We spoke deeper about their marriage and how it relates to money. With over a decade of marriage, they express some gems they gathered while being a married couple. How they hit what they call "ROCK BOTTOM" in finances and how they CLIMED UP and OUT.
Shyra: "When it comes to money, we both contributed."
They have a Get Out of Debt + Start Building Wealth Master Class- https://gumroad.com/l/boSqC
Leave a REVIEW about what you NEED and WANT from this marriage resource. I'm here to SERVE YOU!
Podcast EVERY Tuesday.
@newmarriagematerial on INSTAGRAM
@blackmarrieddebtfree on INSTAGRAM
Do you know how to set BOUNDARIES with your spouse?
When I got married I got this feeling of THIS is the moment to set a boundary Meagan, but I didn't know how!! This podcast can teach you when to look out for these moments. Also ways to approach setting boundaries in your marriage.
Let's set that tone and get the relatitionship you BOTH deserve!!!
The FIGHT! Peep game to surprise your spouse for the NEXT throw down!
Is being SELFLESS a benefit?
Hope and Kadero of @everydaywithhk joined me in this episode: talking about marriage can be fun, but it being fun doesn't exclude you from being selfless. We discuss how they met, their run-in with the KKK, newlyweds with one income, and how they identify their purpose as a couple.
We need more than a sprinkle of good times in marriage, but as spouses we commit to more than the good times. We are committed EVERYDAY. The EVERY DAY of marriage requires SELF-LESS-NESS. Selflessness in decisions, arguments, and even outside the home.
DOWNLOAD this episode to ensure YOU hear Hope & Kadero's marriage gems, so you can peep some game to shock your spouse!
See you EVERY TUESDAY on your favorite podcast app!
And throughout the week on INSTAGRAM: newmarriagematerial
Follow Hope & Kadero Waston on INSTAGRAM: everydaywithhk and their podcast!
REAL Moments in Marriage with Podcasters JT & NeNe of the Pillow Talking Podcast
The not so "cute side" of marriage, but the REAL REAL moments. Moments that couples can laugh at or give the side eye after the story has become history. It's your choice how you decide to view the real moments that WILL happen in your marriage! This couple gave some honest and funny incidents that occurred as a couple! Have a listen, laugh, relate, adjust, and accept that the REAL moments in your marriage will make it rounds. You decide how to view them when they come. Are you ready?
JT and NENE Instagram: https://instagram.com/jtandnene?igshid=au78xnzq7hrj
Pillow Talking Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pillow-talking/id1474963721
Love Languages are DIRECTIONS to your HEART| STEPS to get LOVED BEST your way!
Setting the STANDARD after “I Do”
Are You Prepared for the Fantasy or Reality?
Introducing New Marriage Material
After you take off the wedding clothes, after the honeymoon, the happily ever after doesn't happen on accident. Is it always happy? No. Its choices and mindsets you make everyday to create the marriage you deserve. We talk about the reality of this transition we call Newlywed (Year 1) and Freshlywed (Year 2-3). So, welcome to the introduction. See you every Tuesday! Just after the weekend and enough time in the week to implement the tools given! Let's set the tone EARLY in your marriage!