But Why Not?
By Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
But Why Not?Aug 05, 2022
Interview with Ben Kelly!
Episode 036!
Meet my friend Ben Kelly!
Ben is a an energy analyst in the city of London who was diagnosed with adhd at age 5. He was medicated 5 to 16 but at 16 decided to stop his medication. He says " At 16 l I decided to come off them because, I believed it was something you grew out of, the realization at the age of 26 that I've had some many issues in that 10 year period that were all relating to adhd and making the decision to go back on medications at 26 and two years down the line thriving."
Ben created his Titok account @theadultadhder to help create content and education around ADHD.
How to contact Ben:
Tiktok: @theadultadhder
Instagram: Theadultadhder
How to contact Mary-Elizabeth:
Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth
Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
A tribute and a thank you to Jessie Lee Ward.
Interview with Salvatore Steffano
Episode 035!
Meet Salvatore Steffano, a dynamic 36-year-old American entrepreneur with an impressive 15-year journey in the business world. Throughout his career, Salvatore has been a driving force behind the success of hundreds of entrepreneurs, helping them scale their businesses to new heights. With a track record of building and selling several six and seven-figure ventures, Salvatore's expertise is unquestionably top-notch. Salvatore wears many hats, and one of them is hosting "The Fiery Forge" podcast, where he fearlessly uncovers the uncut side of entrepreneurship. Beyond business, Salvatore is a health enthusiast, finding joy in activities like swimming, lifting weights, and exploring new destinations as a digital nomad. Currently, he and his wife, Kittie, are soaking in the beach life in the picturesque Thailand.
Hear Salvatore's journey of entrepreneurship, health, and adventure as he shares inspiring stories, expert insights and the pursuit of balance.
Contact Salvatore: Facebook.com/salsteffano Instagram.com/salsteffano Linkedin.com/in/salvatoresteffano
Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth
Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten (@theonlymaryelizabeth)
Interview with Rob McVie!
Episode 034!
Before we begin, please note that there are sensitive topics surrounding mental health in this episode. If you are easily triggered by conversations surrounding mental health please listen with caution. This is an incredible episode but we want you to listen safely. If you or a loved one is struggling, please reach out and seek help.
Today we are talking to my friend Rob McVie! He is a 43 year old entrepreneur, who served 24 years in the fitness industry before moving on to help Health & Fitness Experts how to become a business athlete online He formed Boss Coaches company in 2019 which has now helped clients in 20 different countries escape the 1-1, in person hamster wheel. He has been voted worlds best dad by his son who is 10 and his daughter who is 2. He has been married to his wife Lou for 13 years. Rob talks about how for years he hid who he was and my short comings. He suffered his entire life with undiagnosed ADHD and Tourette's Syndrome. It held him back for years until he realized that they were his super powers. As soon as he knew how to use them, they made him ridiculously unique and attractive to my dream audience.
Make sure to share a screenshot of this in your stories, tag both Rob and myself and share your biggest take away moments with us. Be sure to share this with a friend and leave a 5 star review so we can continue to bring inspiring and motivation "but why not" stories to you! How to contact Rob: FB - https://www.facebook.com/RobertMcVie.BusinessCoach/ IG - https://www.instagram.com/robertmcvie/ Email: info@bosscoaches.co.uk
How to contact Mary-Elizabeth:
Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth
Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten (@theonlymaryelizabeth)
Meet my Friend Vid Vraničar!
Episode 033! Before we begin, please note that there are sensitive topics surrounding mental health in this episode. If you are easily triggered by conversations surrounding mental health please listen with caution. This is an incredible episode but we want you to listen safely. If you or a loved one is struggling, please reach out and seek help.
Today we're talking to my friend Vid! He's 31 and was born and raised in Slovenia! He has been a chef for 16 years and currently works at a Michelin star restaurant as a chef in Slovenia. He is also the host of the Frenk Plima Podcast. As the 3rd child of the family he considers himself the black sheep. But as most of us know, the black sheep becomes the GOAT! (Greatest of all time). In this episode Vid talks about his career as a chef. He walks us through the journey of how the cooking world can be an extremely toxic environment and he wanted to desperately find a way to 10x his life.
After saying no many times, he decided to say but why not and start with a service based company called Lyconet. While working in a 5 star Michelin restaurant in Slovenia he shares how he is building his business to one day be able to leave the kitchen and travel the world and enjoy life on his own terms.
Please take a screenshot of this episode, share it to you stories & tag both Vid along with myself. Share you biggest take away moment from this episode so we can celebrate you in our stories!
Follow/Contact Vid:
Facebook: Vid Vraničar Instagram& Tiktok: @vidvranicar @frenkplima
Follow/Contact Mary-Elizabeth:
Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth
Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten (@theonlymaryelizabeth)
Business Number: 1(315) 953-0074
Interview with Jess Heyland!
Episode 032!! Today we're talking to my good friend Jess Heyland! In this episode we discuss Jess's journey within the Network Marketing world she has learned about how her female cycle is must more than just "that time of the month." As females, most of us are embarrassed, feel shameful or even guilty for talking about this topic. Today we are breaking though that barrier and truly opening the conversation for women around the world to feel inclusive and comfortable understanding their own body.
Jess has been using Natural Cycles to track her body and cycle to help her understand more about how she feels, the most productive times of her month and also when to know that she needs to step back and give herself a bit extra self care. Below is a link to Natural Cycles for you to test it out yourself!
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Make sure you take a screenshot of this episode and tag both Jess and I in your stories so we can celebrate you!! Please also let us know what part of this episode was your favorite!
How to contact Jess Heyland:
Facebook: Jessica Heyland Instagram: @jessheyland
Tiktok: @jessheyland
Youtube: @jessheyland
Email: tropicwithjessica19@gmail.com
How to contact Mary-Elizabeth:
Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Instagram: @theonlymaryelizabeth
Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth
Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten (@theonlymaryelizabeth)
Business Number: 1 (315) 953-0074
Email: info.thatadhdgirl@gmail.com
Interview With my friend Alexander Pfeffer!
Episode 031! In this episode I'm chatting with my friend Alex Pfeffer!
Alexander Pfeffer is an entrepreneur, speaker and business coach from Austria. He has helped hundreds of people to create an income on their smartphone whilst using social media. Growing up with his mother and his brother, he worked as cook in a 5* hotel where he was immersed with luxury on a daily basis: Therefore, he quickly realized back then that he was on the wrong side of life because he would much rather have been one of the guests. It was the fear of the average life that became the driving force for Alex, who now travels all around the world to share his message and create a global impact. Alex has spoken on stages all around Europe and has magnetized thousands of entrepreneurs with his powerful message. He has been featured in the top business magazines which include Netcoo, Direct Sales Magazine, and many more. Through his expertise, he has assisted numerous organizations in achieving substantial growth in profit, productivity, and performance while upholding the principles of fulfillment, vitality, and integrity.
We talk about his "but why not' moment when he bought a ticket to the Dominican Republic during the pandemic and stayed for 7 months!
Make sure you take a screenshot of this episode, put it in your stories on social media and tag both Alex and myself so we can celebrate you! (@_alexpfeffer / @theonlymaryelizabeth)
How to contact Alex: https://www.instagram.com/_alexpfeffer/ https://www.youtube.com/@_alexpfeffer/aboutpfefferuniversity.com http://thegameplan.club
Email: alexander.pfeffer59@gmail.com How to contact Mary-Elizabeth:
Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth
Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Business Number: 1(315) 953-0074
Interview with Lynsey Gollehon!
Episode 030! In today's episode I have the honor of chatting with my friend Lynsey! She is a 30 year old mama of 3 married to her best friend & working together to build a life they love! She is a former ER nurse who specialized in trauma who was so tired of only “living” when she wasn’t clocked in & missing so many moments/milestones with her family. She took on a challenge of change over 2 years ago and it opened her eyes and mind to a freedom she never imagined possible for a small town girl like herself.
Remember to take a screenshot while you're listening to this episode, tag Lynsey and myself (@theonlymaryelizabeth) and let us know your biggest takeaway moments!
Get in contact with Lynsey:
Text (423)-818-9338
Facebook: Lynsey Gollehon
Instagram: lkgollehon
Host: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten
Instagram: @theonlymaryelizabeth
Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth Website: https://msha.ke/mewratten
Poor is a choice...and here's why.
Episode 029! In today's podcast I'm sharing a conversation that was sparked by a quote I posted on Facebook. The quote was "Remember, the loudest boo’s tend to come from the cheapest seats."
A comment was made about "poor people" and it sparked this inner dialog within my head. Poor is a choice. No, life isn't always sunshine and rainbows, but if we start by learning how to control the thoughts within our hear, the excuses we make for ourselves, then we will be able to not only achieve financial stability, but maybe even great financial success.
Within this episode I share over 10 ways you can generate an extra income, some without even leaving the couch. There are always opposing forces as we move to achieve something better for ourselves and the ones we love, but how you decide to respond will determine your success or failure.
I would love to hear your thoughts and feedback on this episode. Make sure you take a photo of the episode, tag me in your stories on Instagram (@theonlymaryelizabeth) or Facebook (Mary-Elizabeth Wratten) so I can celebrate you!
Interview with Kinsey Ray!
Episode 028! In today's podcast episode I had the pleasure of chatting with Kinsey Ray! She shares her story about how at 15 years old she struggled with mental health and self harm. Within the same week she was offered to join the modeling industry. She shares how she went though the process of having to share her struggles with her parents, still was able to become successful and how she overcame the story in her head that was telling her she wasn't worthy.
About Kinsey Ray: She is a branding and marketing expert, founder of the Mermaid Gang; a community of women focused on helping others grow their best hair. As the current Mrs. Utah International title holder, she has made it her mission to provide awareness to the current issue of self-harm and most importantly, solutions to create positive emotional coping skills. Kinsey also through her Happier Days podcast and ebook helps people take charge of their mental health and create more confidence in every day life. With an inspiring focus on relentless pursuit for personal growth, Kinsey invites all individuals that are looking for help with overcoming life's challenges to join her passionate journey so they too can become their best version of themselves. Her commitment is making sure everyone learns how unearth their inner power no matter what situation or circumstance might come their way!
Connect with Kinsey on Instagram @kinseyray.w or via email: Info@kinseyray.com. Link to Kinsey Ray's e-book "Happier Days, The Class I Wish Was Taught In School." https://www.kinseyray.com/product/ebook/
Be sure to take a screenshot while you're listening to this episode and tag both Kinsey and myself (@theonlymaryelizabeth) on Instagram and let us know your favorite part!
Boundaries 101: From Blah to Bliss - Your Superpower for Self-Care and Healthy Relationships
Episode 027! If you're a recovering people pleaser like me, this is a must listen. Growing up we didn't learn about boundaries, what they were or that you simply were allowed to walk away from something or someone that no longer served your life in a positive way. In this episode I dive into how to start establishing boundries in your life, how to give yourself grace in the process and my secret weapon to halt all anxiety I didn't even realize I had the ability to do. Come along on this journey with me! Make sure you follow me on Instagram @theonlymaryelizabeth, take a screenshot of the episode and tag me in your stories!
Interview with Stef Willis
Episode 026! I had the pleasure of sitting down and talking to Stef Willis! In this amazing interview Stef walks us through her previous life in the healthcare field and how she finally retired out of cooperate America in 2021. She is a talented entrepreneur and has been in the industry for over 8 years! Stef is on a mission to help female entrepreneurs leverage their social media to generate legacy income without burnout. She is also a certified transformative and business life coach! While some think they don't know enough people to have a business, Stef explains that it is simply not an obstacle as she comes from a town of only 3,500 people. Make sure you head over to Instagram and follow Stef @stefskye! take a screenshot while you're listening to this episode and tag myself on Instagram (@theonlymaryelizabeth) so I can celebrate you and share your post!
Weeding Your Garden
Allow me to reintroduce myself - My story so far.
5 Reasons ADHDers Make Amazing Entrepreneurs
In this episode Mary-Elizabeth explains how being an ADHDer is such a strong attribute to becoming an entrepreneur. ADHD can most defiantly be a struggle between racing thoughts, analysis paralysis, becoming easily overwhelmed and the potential chronic exhaustion. However, the ability to be incredibly creative, think outside the box, and quick problem solving skills equip give ADHD an ace in their pocket to create our own future with their own business. As you listen to this episode, think about the strengths you have even if you are not an ADHDer and how they can apply to entrepreneurship!
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How To Handle The Adderall Shortage
In this episode Mary-Elizabeth address the fear and concerns that many ADHDers are going through in regards to the recent news that Adderall is becoming unavailable. She has been prescribed Adderall for over a year but explains that it is only one tool in her toolbox. While medication used correctly and as directed can be an incredible resource, she provides other tools that can be helpful as well in the event the medication shortage affects you or someone you love.
Please make sure you're following on Mary-Elizabeth on Facebook (Mary-Elizabeth Wratten) and on Instagram and Tiktok @theonlymaryelizabeth for more information on this topic. Make sure to take a screen shot of the episode and tag her on Facebook or Instagram so we can continue to bring awareness to all ADHDers and make sure no one feels alone.
Private interview With Casey Reed-Barbarito
In this episode Mary-Elizabeth has a private interview with her close friend and first upline in the direct sales space. Casey has been in the direct sales space for 7 years and is on a mission to encourage women to reclaim their identity, embrace and love who they are. She has created an incredible Facebook community called "0verworked, 0verwhelmed, 0ver it! It stats with you." Please go check it out and become part of her fantastic community. The episode shares Mary-Elizabeth's journey into NWM, how she maintains hope through the days when her health doesn't want to cooperate and how she built an incredible relationship with her step sons Mom. She gives advice on how to get through your day when you feel like doing nothing.
You can find Casey on Facebook: Casey Reed-Barbarito, Instagram: @kzjbarchef and Tiktok: 2kzjbarchef.
Make sure you screenshot this episode, put it in your stories on IG or Facebook and tag Mary-Elizabeth so she can celebrate you in hers!
As Casey always says "Make it a great day!"
The last 18 days
In this episode Mary-Elizabeth talks about how she went though 11 days of a clinical depressive episode and how she was able manage it. She shares how how she now organizes her day for success including a strategy she learned from Andy Frisella's work. At the end she tells a powerful story about a sign that she was given to remember that a special friend was there for her.
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Throw out the pants
The key in life is to say yes
Meet my friend Beth!
Being the example
Your self worth determines your success
In this episode Mary-Elizabeth talks about how your self worth is tied to your success in life. Follow along on Facebook at Mary-Elizabeth Wratten and on Instgram/Tiktok @theonlymaryelizabeth. Subscribe & drop a 5 star review so that I know what content to bring to all of you. I appreciate you!
Why we don't give up
In this episode Mary-Elizabeth shares why not giving up is so important. She shares a personal story with you after listening to Success Summit 4 with Frazer Brookes.
Understand your body
In this episode Mary-Elizabeth talks about why she didn't release and episode last week and why knowing your body is so important.