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But Why Not?

But Why Not?

By Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

The life of a stubborn Italian girl with an autoimmune disease, a bone deformity and ADHD who has found a way to get through each day with humor, tears and lots of bathroom breaks, while always asking the question “but why not?"
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But Why Not?Aug 05, 2022

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Interview with Ben Kelly!

Interview with Ben Kelly!

Episode 036!

Meet my friend Ben Kelly!

Ben is a an energy analyst in the city of London who was diagnosed with adhd at age 5. He was medicated 5 to 16 but at 16 decided to stop his medication. He says " At 16 l I decided to come off them because, I believed it was something you grew out of, the realization at the age of 26 that I've had some many issues in that 10 year period that were all relating to adhd and making the decision to go back on medications at 26 and two years down the line thriving."


Ben created his Titok account @theadultadhder to help create content and education around ADHD.


How to contact Ben:

Tiktok: @theadultadhder

Instagram: Theadultadhder


How to contact Mary-Elizabeth:

Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth

Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

Nov 13, 202337:25
 A tribute and a thank you to Jessie Lee Ward.

A tribute and a thank you to Jessie Lee Ward.

036: Frazer inspired me by his podcast episode in remembrance of JL. Heaven gained an Angel on September 16th 2023. We love you and we miss you. Thank you for everything
Sep 18, 202315:32
Interview with Salvatore Steffano

Interview with Salvatore Steffano

Episode 035!

Meet Salvatore Steffano, a dynamic 36-year-old American entrepreneur with an impressive 15-year journey in the business world. Throughout his career, Salvatore has been a driving force behind the success of hundreds of entrepreneurs, helping them scale their businesses to new heights. With a track record of building and selling several six and seven-figure ventures, Salvatore's expertise is unquestionably top-notch. Salvatore wears many hats, and one of them is hosting "The Fiery Forge" podcast, where he fearlessly uncovers the uncut side of entrepreneurship. Beyond business, Salvatore is a health enthusiast, finding joy in activities like swimming, lifting weights, and exploring new destinations as a digital nomad. Currently, he and his wife, Kittie, are soaking in the beach life in the picturesque Thailand.

Hear Salvatore's journey of entrepreneurship, health, and adventure as he shares inspiring stories, expert insights and the pursuit of balance.


Contact Salvatore: Facebook.com/salsteffano Instagram.com/salsteffano Linkedin.com/in/salvatoresteffano


Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth

Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten (@theonlymaryelizabeth)

Aug 26, 202301:02:04
Interview with Rob McVie!

Interview with Rob McVie!

Episode 034!

Before we begin, please note that there are sensitive topics surrounding mental health in this episode. If you are easily triggered by conversations surrounding mental health please listen with caution. This is an incredible episode but we want you to listen safely. If you or a loved one is struggling, please reach out and seek help.

Today we are talking to my friend Rob McVie! He is a 43 year old entrepreneur, who served 24 years in the fitness industry before moving on to help Health & Fitness Experts how to become a business athlete online He formed Boss Coaches company in 2019 which has now helped clients in 20 different countries escape the 1-1, in person hamster wheel. He has been voted worlds best dad by his son who is 10 and his daughter who is 2. He has been married to his wife Lou for 13 years. Rob talks about how for years he hid who he was and my short comings. He suffered his entire life with undiagnosed ADHD and Tourette's Syndrome. It held him back for years until he realized that they were his super powers. As soon as he knew how to use them, they made him ridiculously unique and attractive to my dream audience.


Make sure to share a screenshot of this in your stories, tag both Rob and myself and share your biggest take away moments with us. Be sure to share this with a friend and leave a 5 star review so we can continue to bring inspiring and motivation "but why not" stories to you! How to contact Rob: FB - https://www.facebook.com/RobertMcVie.BusinessCoach/ IG - https://www.instagram.com/robertmcvie/ Email: info@bosscoaches.co.uk


How to contact Mary-Elizabeth:

Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth

Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten (@theonlymaryelizabeth)

Aug 18, 202301:29:55
Meet my Friend Vid Vraničar!

Meet my Friend Vid Vraničar!

Episode 033! Before we begin, please note that there are sensitive topics surrounding mental health in this episode. If you are easily triggered by conversations surrounding mental health please listen with caution. This is an incredible episode but we want you to listen safely. If you or a loved one is struggling, please reach out and seek help.


Today we're talking to my friend Vid! He's 31 and was born and raised in Slovenia! He has been a chef for 16 years and currently works at a Michelin star restaurant as a chef in Slovenia. He is also the host of the Frenk Plima Podcast. As the 3rd child of the family he considers himself the black sheep. But as most of us know, the black sheep becomes the GOAT! (Greatest of all time). In this episode Vid talks about his career as a chef. He walks us through the journey of how the cooking world can be an extremely toxic environment and he wanted to desperately find a way to 10x his life.


After saying no many times, he decided to say but why not and start with a service based company called Lyconet. While working in a 5 star Michelin restaurant in Slovenia he shares how he is building his business to one day be able to leave the kitchen and travel the world and enjoy life on his own terms.


Please take a screenshot of this episode, share it to you stories & tag both Vid along with myself. Share you biggest take away moment from this episode so we can celebrate you in our stories!


Follow/Contact Vid:

Facebook: Vid Vraničar Instagram& Tiktok: @vidvranicar @frenkplima


Follow/Contact Mary-Elizabeth:

Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth

Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten (@theonlymaryelizabeth)

Business Number: 1(315) 953-0074

Aug 11, 202341:05
Interview with Jess Heyland!

Interview with Jess Heyland!

Episode 032!! Today we're talking to my good friend Jess Heyland! In this episode we discuss Jess's journey within the Network Marketing world she has learned about how her female cycle is must more than just "that time of the month." As females, most of us are embarrassed, feel shameful or even guilty for talking about this topic. Today we are breaking though that barrier and truly opening the conversation for women around the world to feel inclusive and comfortable understanding their own body.


Jess has been using Natural Cycles to track her body and cycle to help her understand more about how she feels, the most productive times of her month and also when to know that she needs to step back and give herself a bit extra self care. Below is a link to Natural Cycles for you to test it out yourself!


Natural Cycles has been featured in Bloomberg, Wired, Bustle and Engadget!

Natural Cycles is the only FDA approved cleared birth control app!!


Try Natural Cycles for yourself with 20% off: https://www.naturalcycles.com/refer-a-friend?name=SmVzcw==&code=referralid20&referral=ozazrc3wtfkege6b


Make sure you take a screenshot of this episode and tag both Jess and I in your stories so we can celebrate you!! Please also let us know what part of this episode was your favorite!


How to contact Jess Heyland:

Facebook: Jessica Heyland Instagram: @jessheyland

Tiktok: @jessheyland

Youtube: @jessheyland

Email: tropicwithjessica19@gmail.com


How to contact Mary-Elizabeth:

Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

Instagram: @theonlymaryelizabeth

Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth

Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten (@theonlymaryelizabeth)

Business Number: 1 (315) 953-0074

Email: info.thatadhdgirl@gmail.com

Aug 04, 202358:55
Interview With my friend Alexander Pfeffer!

Interview With my friend Alexander Pfeffer!

Episode 031! In this episode I'm chatting with my friend Alex Pfeffer!

Alexander Pfeffer is an entrepreneur, speaker and business coach from Austria. He has helped hundreds of people to create an income on their smartphone whilst using social media. Growing up with his mother and his brother, he worked as cook in a 5* hotel where he was immersed with luxury on a daily basis: Therefore, he quickly realized back then that he was on the wrong side of life because he would much rather have been one of the guests. It was the fear of the average life that became the driving force for Alex, who now travels all around the world to share his message and create a global impact. Alex has spoken on stages all around Europe and has magnetized thousands of entrepreneurs with his powerful message. He has been featured in the top business magazines which include Netcoo, Direct Sales Magazine, and many more. Through his expertise, he has assisted numerous organizations in achieving substantial growth in profit, productivity, and performance while upholding the principles of fulfillment, vitality, and integrity.

We talk about his "but why not' moment when he bought a ticket to the Dominican Republic during the pandemic and stayed for 7 months!


Make sure you take a screenshot of this episode, put it in your stories on social media and tag both Alex and myself so we can celebrate you! (@_alexpfeffer / @theonlymaryelizabeth)


How to contact Alex: https://www.instagram.com/_alexpfeffer/ https://www.youtube.com/@_alexpfeffer/aboutpfefferuniversity.com http://thegameplan.club

Email: alexander.pfeffer59@gmail.com How to contact Mary-Elizabeth:

Facebook: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

Instagram & Tiktok: @theonlymaryelizabeth

Youtube: Mary-Elizabeth Wratten

Business Number: 1(315) 953-0074

Jul 28, 202342:07
Interview with Lynsey Gollehon!
Jul 21, 202342:22
Poor is a choice...and here's why.

Poor is a choice...and here's why.

Episode 029! In today's podcast I'm sharing a conversation that was sparked by a quote I posted on Facebook. The quote was "Remember, the loudest boo’s tend to come from the cheapest seats."

A comment was made about "poor people" and it sparked this inner dialog within my head. Poor is a choice. No, life isn't always sunshine and rainbows, but if we start by learning how to control the thoughts within our hear, the excuses we make for ourselves, then we will be able to not only achieve financial stability, but maybe even great financial success.


Within this episode I share over 10 ways you can generate an extra income, some without even leaving the couch. There are always opposing forces as we move to achieve something better for ourselves and the ones we love, but how you decide to respond will determine your success or failure.


I would love to hear your thoughts and feedback on this episode. Make sure you take a photo of the episode, tag me in your stories on Instagram (@theonlymaryelizabeth) or Facebook (Mary-Elizabeth Wratten) so I can celebrate you!

Jul 14, 202329:08
Interview with Kinsey Ray!

Interview with Kinsey Ray!

Episode 028! In today's podcast episode I had the pleasure of chatting with Kinsey Ray! She shares her story about how at 15 years old she struggled with mental health and self harm. Within the same week she was offered to join the modeling industry. She shares how she went though the process of having to share her struggles with her parents, still was able to become successful and how she overcame the story in her head that was telling her she wasn't worthy.
About Kinsey Ray: She is a branding and marketing expert, founder of the Mermaid Gang; a community of women focused on helping others grow their best hair. As the current Mrs. Utah International title holder, she has made it her mission to provide awareness to the current issue of self-harm and most importantly, solutions to create positive emotional coping skills. Kinsey also through her Happier Days podcast and ebook helps people take charge of their mental health and create more confidence in every day life. With an inspiring focus on relentless pursuit for personal growth, Kinsey invites all individuals that are looking for help with overcoming life's challenges to join her passionate journey so they too can become their best version of themselves. Her commitment is making sure everyone learns how unearth their inner power no matter what situation or circumstance might come their way!


Connect with Kinsey on Instagram @kinseyray.w or via email: Info@kinseyray.com. Link to Kinsey Ray's e-book "Happier Days, The Class I Wish Was Taught In School." https://www.kinseyray.com/product/ebook/


Be sure to take a screenshot while you're listening to this episode and tag both Kinsey and myself (@theonlymaryelizabeth) on Instagram and let us know your favorite part!

Jul 07, 202343:28
Boundaries 101: From Blah to Bliss - Your Superpower for Self-Care and Healthy Relationships

Boundaries 101: From Blah to Bliss - Your Superpower for Self-Care and Healthy Relationships

Episode 027! If you're a recovering people pleaser like me, this is a must listen. Growing up we didn't learn about boundaries, what they were or that you simply were allowed to walk away from something or someone that no longer served your life in a positive way. In this episode I dive into how to start establishing boundries in your life, how to give yourself grace in the process and my secret weapon to halt all anxiety I didn't even realize I had the ability to do. Come along on this journey with me! Make sure you follow me on Instagram @theonlymaryelizabeth, take a screenshot of the episode and tag me in your stories!

Jun 30, 202310:01
Interview with Stef Willis

Interview with Stef Willis

Episode 026! I had the pleasure of sitting down and talking to Stef Willis! In this amazing interview Stef walks us through her previous life in the healthcare field and how she finally retired out of cooperate America in 2021. She is a talented entrepreneur and has been in the industry for over 8 years! Stef is on a mission to help female entrepreneurs leverage their social media to generate legacy income without burnout. She is also a certified transformative and business life coach! While some think they don't know enough people to have a business, Stef explains that it is simply not an obstacle as she comes from a town of only 3,500 people. Make sure you head over to Instagram and follow Stef @stefskye! take a screenshot while you're listening to this episode and tag myself on Instagram (@theonlymaryelizabeth) so I can celebrate you and share your post!

Jun 23, 202329:27
Weeding Your Garden

Weeding Your Garden

Episode 025! In this episode I share a really powerful tool about how to assess the people in your life. This episode was inspired by a Facebook post I saw today. Growing up as a female, we were constantly told to be people pleasers, to make everyone else happy and to not show the stress and anxiety we felt. But what about those in our life who case that stress and anxiety? People come into our lives for a season, a reason or a lifetime. Learn how to tell the difference in this episode! Make sure you leave a 5 star rating and tag me on Instagram “@theonlymaryelizabeth” with a screenshot of the episode so I can share you in my stories!
Jun 16, 202314:06
Allow me to reintroduce myself - My story so far.

Allow me to reintroduce myself - My story so far.

Episode 024: I bring to you today my story so far. Over the last 2 months we had a break in this podcast. In this episode listen to why, the struggles I’ve faced and the short recap of my story. Life throws everyone ups and downs but that’s the beautiful part of the rollercoaster ride. I am so thankful for those of you who have been here with me through the past two months. Learning of a family members cancer, having close friends and a relative pass away and learning to handle my own mindset has only been some of them. I know that you also experience similar situations and there is no reason to go it alone! For those that are new, welcome. There will be a new episode every Friday moving forward. Here’s to us, working on ourselves and striving forward.
Jun 09, 202319:50
5 Reasons ADHDers Make Amazing Entrepreneurs

5 Reasons ADHDers Make Amazing Entrepreneurs

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth explains how being an ADHDer is such a strong attribute to becoming an entrepreneur. ADHD can most defiantly be a struggle between racing thoughts, analysis paralysis, becoming easily overwhelmed and the potential chronic exhaustion. However, the ability to be incredibly creative, think outside the box, and quick problem solving skills equip give ADHD an ace in their pocket to create our own future with their own business. As you listen to this episode, think about the strengths you have even if you are not an ADHDer and how they can apply to entrepreneurship!


Make sure to subscribe to the podcast, give it a 5 star review and follow Mary-Elizabeth on Facebook, Instagram and Tiktok. (@theonlymaryelizabeth)


Take a screenshot of the episode, upload it to your IG stories and tag her so she can celebrate you in her stories!

Apr 06, 202320:05
How To Handle The Adderall Shortage

How To Handle The Adderall Shortage

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth address the fear and concerns that many ADHDers are going through in regards to the recent news that Adderall is becoming unavailable. She has been prescribed Adderall for over a year but explains that it is only one tool in her toolbox. While medication used correctly and as directed can be an incredible resource, she provides other tools that can be helpful as well in the event the medication shortage affects you or someone you love. 

Please make sure you're following on Mary-Elizabeth on Facebook (Mary-Elizabeth Wratten) and on Instagram and Tiktok @theonlymaryelizabeth for more information on this topic. Make sure to take a screen shot of the episode and tag her on Facebook or Instagram so we can continue to bring awareness to all ADHDers and make sure no one feels alone. 

Mar 10, 202319:01
Private interview With Casey Reed-Barbarito

Private interview With Casey Reed-Barbarito

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth has a private interview with her close friend and first upline in the direct sales space. Casey has been in the direct sales space for 7 years and is on a mission to encourage women to reclaim their identity, embrace and love who they are. She has created an incredible Facebook community called "0verworked, 0verwhelmed, 0ver it! It stats with you." Please go check it out and become part of her fantastic community. The episode shares Mary-Elizabeth's journey into NWM, how she maintains hope through the days when her health doesn't want to cooperate and how she built an incredible relationship with her step sons Mom. She gives advice on how to get through your day when you feel like doing nothing. 

You can find Casey on Facebook: Casey Reed-Barbarito, Instagram: @kzjbarchef and Tiktok: 2kzjbarchef.

Make sure you screenshot this episode, put it in your stories on IG or Facebook and tag Mary-Elizabeth so she can celebrate you in hers!

As Casey always says "Make it a great day!"

Feb 28, 202330:21
The last 18 days

The last 18 days

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth talks about how she went though 11 days of a clinical depressive episode and how she was able manage it. She shares how how she now organizes her day for success including a strategy she learned from Andy Frisella's work. At the end she tells a powerful story about a sign that she was given to remember that a special friend was there for her. 

Please remember to snag a screen shot of the podcast episode you're listening to and tag her on Instagram @theonlymaryelizabeth so she can share and celebrate you in her stories! 

Jan 18, 202322:14
Throw out the pants

Throw out the pants

Episode 019! Let’s discuss why it’s important to let go of the things holding you down in life. I’m going to tell you the story about leaving a leadership team and how that’s helped me level up in life. Inspiration for this episode came from The Mel Robbins Podcast. Knowing when it’s time to let go is key to being able to excel in your life. So go to your closet, your drawer, your hamper and take that pair of pants, that pair of underwear or sexy outfit that didn’t quite fit right and throw it out. Let it be a step towards throwing the things out in your life that are no longer serving you. I believe in you
Dec 14, 202214:44
The key in life is to say yes

The key in life is to say yes

Episode 18! In this episode Mary-Elizabeth shares a story about how showing up when you least feel like it is so powerful. Take a screenshot while you’re listening, post it on your stories and tag me @theonlymaryelizabeth! I always respond to my tags! Can’t wait to hear your biggest take away!
Dec 03, 202213:27
Meet my friend Beth!

Meet my friend Beth!

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth chats with her friend Beth Schmitz about how she started and why she stayed in Network Marketing. She met Beth through Frazer Brookes Inner Circle where he teaches to turn strangers into friends, friends into family. Head over to @bethfschmitz and follow along to see Beth and her adorable pup in action!
Nov 26, 202217:50
Being the example

Being the example

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth explains what happened today, what it taught her and how it can apply to your life as well.
Nov 18, 202218:19
Your self worth determines your success

Your self worth determines your success

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth talks about how your self worth is tied to your success in life. Follow along on Facebook at Mary-Elizabeth Wratten and on Instgram/Tiktok @theonlymaryelizabeth. Subscribe & drop a 5 star review so that I know what content to bring to all of you. I appreciate you! 

Nov 11, 202221:40
Why we don't give up

Why we don't give up

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth shares why not giving up is so important. She shares a personal story with you after listening to Success Summit 4 with Frazer Brookes. 

Nov 06, 202230:39
Understand your body

Understand your body

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth talks about why she didn't release and episode last week and why knowing your body is so important. 

Oct 28, 202211:37
The Growth Gap

The Growth Gap

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth reads an excerpt from Frazer Brookes new book Loser to Legend called “The Growth Gap.” She talks about why this is such a fundamental part of life whether you’re in business or not. During her live session she’s met with a “hater.” Listen to how she responds.
Oct 14, 202219:48
The 3 C’s of Business and Life

The 3 C’s of Business and Life

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth is interviewed by her amazing friend Olivia Igwe about her journey into Network Marketing. Mary-Elizabeth’s shares what the biggest lesson is that she’s learned so far. Be sure to head over to Facebook, Instagram and Tiktok and follow Olivia!
Oct 07, 202232:58
Do it messy

Do it messy

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth talks about how her fear of trusting others holds her back in building relationships.
Sep 30, 202209:37
Choose your hard

Choose your hard

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth shares a life lesson from her Dad.
Sep 23, 202220:04
What is your gift?

What is your gift?

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth talks about the elephant in the room, excuses only exist in your mind.
Sep 16, 202224:14
Holly’s story behind the question But Why Not.
Sep 09, 202219:09
How a sunflower seed taught me a lesson

How a sunflower seed taught me a lesson

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth shared how one sunflower seed helped change her perspective on life.
Sep 02, 202225:52
Stop settling, start living.

Stop settling, start living.

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth shares why settling is the worst and how by refusing to believe that something “wasn’t possible” she helped save a persons life.
Aug 26, 202222:26
Now Check Yourself

Now Check Yourself

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth explores the reasons it’s important to respond to difficult situations with grace and respect.
Aug 19, 202217:57
Check your Circle

Check your Circle

In this episode Mary-Elizabeth explains how important it is to evaluate the people and places in your life.
Aug 13, 202222:16
What in the heck is a limiting belief?

What in the heck is a limiting belief?

Limiting belief what? In this episode Mary-Elizabeth shares with you her understanding of what a limiting belief is, what her 5 major limiting beliefs are, and a few life changing tips that she hopes will help you break the ceiling on your own limiting beliefs.
Aug 07, 202239:52
Allow Me to Introduce Myself - Into & My Story

Allow Me to Introduce Myself - Into & My Story

In this first episode, Mary-Elizabeth shares her story about how she ended up understanding that not fitting into the society standards expected of her was the biggest blessing…and she shares how she’s going to help you do the same.
Aug 05, 202230:39
August 5, 2022

August 5, 2022

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