Mindful Conversations with Shamash & Calvin

Mindful Conversations with Shamash & Calvin

By Shamash Alidina & Calvin Niles

Mindful Conversations is a series of conversations hosted by international bestselling author and mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and fellow bestselling author and storytelling expert, Calvin Niles. Together with some of their wisest friends and colleagues, they mindfully explore old and contemporary subjects to help their listeners lead richer and more meaningful lives.

Series 1 - Mindfulness, ACT and the Hero's Journey
Series 2 - Mindfulness, Wisdom, Compassion and AI
Series 3 - Emergence with Special Guest Moensch Micha (Brother Freedom)
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S2 E10 - Will We Become Homo Silicon Chipus?! Cautious Optimism about the Future - Shamash and Calvin

Mindful Conversations with Shamash & CalvinNov 09, 2023
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S3 E7: Trusting the Heart’s Wisdom – A Former Plum Village Monk’s Rebirth into Everyday Life

S3 E7: Trusting the Heart’s Wisdom – A Former Plum Village Monk’s Rebirth into Everyday Life

In the final episode of Mindful Conversations Season 3, hosts Shamash and Calvin are once again joined by special guest co-host Moensch Micha — formerly known as Brother Freedom, a Plum Village monk for 14 years. Together, they reflect on a season rich with spontaneous, soulful dialogues exploring themes of mastery, mindfulness, and emergence.

Micha shares his powerful transition from monastic life to modern-day mystic, guided by dreams, an inner call, and the passing of his beloved teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh. He opens up about letting go—not just of robes, but of rigid spiritual ideals—in order to meet people more openly, whether in silence or on the dance floor!

This conversation touches on:

  • Listening to the quiet wisdom of the heart

  • The shift from “enlightenment” to “enlivenment”

  • Breaking free of ancestral patterns

  • The dance between masculine and feminine energy

  • And the courage it takes to live an authentic life outside of the expected path

Calvin and Shamash also reflect on their own recent transformations—each sparked by bold choices, unexpected changes, and deeper trust in life’s unfolding.

The episode closes with an open invitation to help co-create the spirit and direction of Season 4.


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May 21, 202555:24
S3 E6: The Courage to Be and Act with Dima Golyk

S3 E6: The Courage to Be and Act with Dima Golyk

In this episode of Mindful Conversations, Calvin and Micha welcome musician and tech professional Dima Golyk, who shares how he rediscovered his passion for music after an early discouragement. Inspired by a life-changing retreat, Dima committed to writing and performing heartfelt songs, blending spiritual insights from meditation and mindfulness practices. He also reflects on balancing a tech career with his artistic calling, noting that modern society increasingly values authentic expression over mere stability. Dima’s music took on deeper meaning when the war in Ukraine escalated, prompting him to release songs that rallied support and hope. Throughout, he emphasizes that it’s never too late to follow one’s inner voice, reminding listeners to have “the courage to be and act.”


Apr 16, 202549:58
S3 E5: Embracing the New Era of Transformation with Simone Overath

S3 E5: Embracing the New Era of Transformation with Simone Overath

In this enlightening conversation, we’re joined by Simone Overath, a spiritual guide and intuitive writer whose bestselling card decks, Transformation Code, channel symbols for the new era. Simone shares her journey into higher consciousness—beginning with intuitive writing and vivid visual downloads—and how she now receives and interprets powerful symbols that help people shift their personal energy and reconnect with their core frequency.

We discuss the role of dreams in revealing deeper truths, the importance of trusting gut feelings, and why learning to relax our overactive minds is key to spiritual growth. Whether through journaling, breathwork, or simply noticing meaningful signs in daily life, Simone illustrates how each of us can engage our innate intuition. Join us for a warm, inspiring exploration of transformation, synchronicity, and the subtle frequencies guiding us toward our authentic selves.

Apr 02, 202554:15
S3 E4: The Healing Power of Your Voice

S3 E4: The Healing Power of Your Voice

In this episode of Mindful Conversations, hosts Calvin, Michael welcome special guest Simone Niles, an expert in voice healing and transformation. The discussion explores the profound impact of the voice on self-expression, healing, and emotional well-being.

Simone shares her personal journey of discovering the therapeutic nature of singing, emphasizing how voice work can serve as a powerful tool for transformation. She explains how sound, especially through singing and humming, creates resonance that aligns the body and mind, and discusses the significance of dissonance in clearing stuck energy.

The conversation also delves into cultural traditions of sound healing, such as a Namibian practice where a person’s "life song" is sung to remind them of their true self. The hosts reflect on the deep connection between sound and collective harmony, as well as the importance of authentic vocal expression. A thought-provoking discussion emerges around AI-generated voices and whether artificial intelligence can replicate the "soul" of human vocal expression. The guests debate the evolution of AI and its potential role in creativity and communication, with a consensus that while AI can mimic sound, it lacks the emotional depth of human presence.

The episode concludes with reflections on how sound shapes our reality, the innate power of the human voice, and the role of conscious evolution in integrating new technology while preserving human connection. The conversation is brought to a close with a collective humming exercise, reinforcing the transformative nature of vocal resonance and its ability to bring people into alignment.


Mar 19, 202501:02:45
S3 E3: Mindful Contagion and the Power of Zero
Mar 04, 202552:39
S3 E2: Going Deeper into Emergence

S3 E2: Going Deeper into Emergence

Podcast Summary: Episode 2 - Going Deeper into Emergence

In this episode, the hosts explore the concept of "emergence," discussing its meaning, philosophical roots, and manifestations in life and nature. They begin with a lighthearted introduction, welcoming guest co-host Brother Freedom, who shares his surprise at being invited for an entire season.

Key themes include:

  1. Definition and Etymology: Emergence, derived from the Latin emergere, means "to bring to light" or "to rise out." It is linked to the idea of order arising from chaos, exemplified by flocks of birds and neurons in the brain.

  2. Chaos and Insight: The hosts reflect on how insights often arise unexpectedly from chaotic or unstructured interactions, akin to natural patterns forming without central control.

  3. Light and Darkness: A discussion of the interconnectedness of light and darkness, framed by philosophical and spiritual perspectives like yin-yang and Buddhist teachings. They consider light emerging from darkness and how both coexist.

  4. Creativity and Awareness: Creativity is likened to wind filling sails—conditions must be right for insights to manifest. This parallels Buddhist ideas of consciousness and awareness, where latent seeds of thought emerge when nurtured.

  5. Purpose and Meaninglessness: They address feelings of purposelessness, proposing that rather than striving for goals, one should trust the flow of life and embrace presence. Purpose, they suggest, can emerge naturally when one lets go of pressure.

The episode concludes with reflections on interconnectedness, the beauty of being present, and the joy of unscripted, emergent conversations.


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Feb 18, 202555:44
S3 E1: Let's Explore Emergence in this Series
Feb 04, 202520:18
S2 E10 - Will We Become Homo Silicon Chipus?! Cautious Optimism about the Future - Shamash and Calvin

S2 E10 - Will We Become Homo Silicon Chipus?! Cautious Optimism about the Future - Shamash and Calvin

Nov 09, 202344:01
S2 E9: The Neuroscience of Manifestation and Real Secret to Happiness

S2 E9: The Neuroscience of Manifestation and Real Secret to Happiness

In this special episode of Mindful Conversations, we delve into the fascinating neuroscience of manifestation, the true secret to happiness, and the power of the human mind.

Hosts Shamash and Calvin, along with their guests Dr. James Doty and Alex Nunn, introduce themselves and discuss their interests in topics like AI, happiness, and compassion. They emphasize the importance of compassion in creating a more caring society.

Dr. Doty is an eminent neuroscientist and New York Times bestselling author. Alex Nunn is Head of Movement Building at charity Action for Happiness.

Dr. Doty distinguishes between empathy and compassion, underlining that compassion involves both a desire to alleviate the suffering of others and an action component. Alex Nunn shares his personal journey and how compassion has become a central theme in his life.

The conversation delves into the potential impact of AI on society, contemplating whether AI can help promote compassion or have negative consequences, including manipulative uses. They touch on the role of AI in mental health support and the importance of deep relationships and compassion in people's lives.

The discussion also explores the role of technology, AI, and machine learning in promoting well-being and compassion, as well as the potential for both positive and negative impacts. They mention the power of AI to promote positive stories and cooperation but express concern about how profit motives can influence its use.

Finally, they discuss how self-compassion and well-being practices can open the door to other positive attributes and experiences like community, creativity, and curiosity.

Warning: Explicit content (swearing)







Oct 18, 202352:23
S2, E8 - AI and its Impact on Humanity with Trevor Murphy

S2, E8 - AI and its Impact on Humanity with Trevor Murphy

Trevor Murphy has run several animation companies, hiring dozens of staff. In the last decade, he's focused his attention on spirituality and service. He's illustrated several books.


In this episode, Trevor shares his feelings on AI and its impact on humanity. He discusses the fear surrounding AI and how it is often portrayed in a negative light. Trevor believes that AI can have positive aspects and shares examples of how AI has transformed people's lives, such as assisting individuals with dyslexia in communication and enhancing their writing skills.

Trevor acknowledges that AI's development is accelerating at an exponential rate, and while he sees the benefits it can bring, he emphasizes the importance of treating AI with respect and being cautious about its rapid advancement. Trevor also explores the relationship between AI and creativity, expressing his belief that AI can be a tool to support creative endeavors but should not replace the physical and healing process of human creativity.

The conversation also touches on the significance of the journey and process in various aspects of life, including running, spirituality, and the creative process. Trevor emphasises that while goals can provide motivation, the journey itself is often more important than reaching the destination. AI, in his view, can aid in the journey and provide confidence but should not overshadow the value of the process.


Trevor's Books:

Amuseum of Happiness

Nami and Kai - Written with Calvin

Wit and Wisdom - Written with Shamash

The Joy of Affection - Written with Augusto D. Mello


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Sep 21, 202338:27
S2, E8 AI's Impact on Humanity: Mindful Conversations

S2, E8 AI's Impact on Humanity: Mindful Conversations

Join us for a captivating exploration of AI's influence on the human experience in "Mindful Conversations Episode 8" Host Calvin Niles, mindfulness expert Shamash Alidina, and special guest Trevor Murphy engage in a thought-provoking dialogue.
Discover the transformative power of AI in healthcare, entertainment, and beyond, along with the ethical considerations in Part 1. Part 2 explores the benefits and challenges of AI for well-being and productivity.
Sep 21, 202338:27
S2, E7 Design Thinking for Mindful AI

S2, E7 Design Thinking for Mindful AI

In this episode, we talk to Lucy Kimbell, Professor of Contemporary Design Practices at Central Saint Martins, about the intersection of design thinking and artificial intelligence (AI). We discuss how design thinking can be used to create more mindful and compassionate AI systems, and how AI can be used to support design thinking processes.

Lucy shares her insights on the potential benefits and risks of AI, and how we can ensure that AI is used for good. She also talks about the importance of human-centered design in the development of AI systems.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone who is interested in the future of AI and how it can be used to create a better world.

Sep 07, 202334:11
S2 E6 - Shamash and Calvin Explore 7 Things We Do Know About AI

S2 E6 - Shamash and Calvin Explore 7 Things We Do Know About AI

In this podcast episode of "Mindful Conversations," hosts Calvin and Shamash discuss their reflections on AI, mindfulness, compassion, wisdom, and their impact on society. They highlight seven insights they have gathered from their interviews:

Positive AI Applications: They have found that people with good intentions are creating projects using AI to improve various aspects of society, such as health, climate, equality, and bias reduction.

AI Development Timeline: AI has been developing for decades, but recent user-friendly technologies have brought its potential to the forefront.

Exponential Growth and Limitations: While there's rapid technological growth, there are also physical limitations to consider, and AI's exponential growth isn't guaranteed.

AI's Broad Applications: AI has potential benefits in various domains, even ones like spirituality and personal development.

Fear and Excitement: There's a mixture of fear and excitement about AI's potential, often driven by underlying cares for things like family, humanity, and job security.

Mindful Approach: The hosts advocate for a mindful approach to AI, neither ignoring nor blindly embracing it, but rather consciously observing its effects on various aspects of life.

Understanding AI's Current State: They emphasize that AI models like GPT-3 aren't as intelligent as they seem; they predict based on patterns in existing data and aren't aware of their content.

Throughout the conversation, they engage in an exploration of these insights and discuss the importance of maintaining balance, reflection, and active engagement when dealing with AI's potential impact on society and individuals.


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Aug 24, 202323:36
S2 E5 - Crafting Compassionate Conversations: AI's Role in Mindful Inner Dialogue - Cynthia L. Phelps, PhD

S2 E5 - Crafting Compassionate Conversations: AI's Role in Mindful Inner Dialogue - Cynthia L. Phelps, PhD

Join hosts Shamash and Calvin on "Mindful Conversations" as they delve deep into a captivating discussion with the tech-savvy and fascinating Cynthia Phelps, PhD who holds a degree in neuroscience.

This episode offers listeners a chance to understand the power of AI in nurturing our emotional well-being and inner dialogue.

Key Highlights:

  • Cynthia's Personal Journey: An inspiring recount of how battling autoimmune diseases paved the way to prioritise mindfulness and compassion in daily life.

  • The Physicality of Emotions: Delving into the essence of being present, Cynthia emphasizes how our emotions manifest physically and why it's essential to be attuned to them.

  • Collaboration with Center for Mindful Self Compassion: A glimpse into Cynthia's partnership that resulted in a beneficial mobile app aiming to bolster self-compassion practices.

  • Introduction to Inner Ally: Discover the innovative venture that aims to merge AI and emotional intelligence. The app, in its infancy, is designed to guide users in crafting compassionate responses to their challenging thoughts.

    • Emotional Needs Quiz: An insight into the unique feature that helps identify one's core emotional needs, which can act as a starting point in the app.
    • Tailoring Affirmations: Cynthia's approach ensures users resonate genuinely with affirmations.


For all those interested in the intersection of technology, mindfulness, and emotional well-being, this is a must-listen. Don't forget to subscribe, share your reviews, and pass on this episode to fellow enthusiasts!

Aug 10, 202344:10
S2 E4: Empowering a Mindful Future: Yip Ta on AI, Web3, and Women's Empowerment

S2 E4: Empowering a Mindful Future: Yip Ta on AI, Web3, and Women's Empowerment

In this fascinating episode, Yip Ta, a passionate advocate for technology, particularly AI and Web3, shares her vision for a better future. Join us as Yip explains and explores the potential of AI to tackle complex global issues and promote women's empowerment and wellbeing.

Yip emphasizes the power of AI as a tool to support human reasoning and create equitable access to knowledge and opportunities. Discover how her projects aim to bridge the gender gap in technology and encourage more women to participate in blockchain and AI ventures. Education, financial literacy, and networking opportunities are key factors in fostering female-led projects and closing the technological divide.

Delve into the inspiration behind Jedi Labs, drawing from Star Wars' teachings. Jedi Labs' mission is to train individuals in AI, quantum, and other technologies for positive purposes, advocating collaboration over competition and making peace more profitable than war.

While AI presents incredible opportunities, Yip cautions against over-reliance, loss of critical thinking, and addiction to instant rewards. Gain insights into the importance of maintaining mindfulness and being present in an increasingly AI-driven world.

In the context of education, Yip sees AI as a transformative tool for improving critical thinking skills and writing abilities. Personalized feedback empowers students to become better writers and learners. Embrace AI as an opportunity rather than a threat, and learn how it can enhance educational experiences.

Finally, Yip extends a warm invitation to an event Munich, where AI, Web3, quantum, and cybersecurity technologies converge to solve sustainable development goal (STG) challenges. The event promises to be a unique opportunity for participants to be part of positive change and innovation.

As we wrap up the conversation, Yip shares her wisdom on mindfulness and compassion, encouraging us to make informed decisions about AI's use. Find out how AI can be a gateway to accessing wisdom and diverse perspectives from various sources.

Join us for an enlightening discussion on the intersection of mindfulness and AI, as we explore the endless possibilities AI holds for shaping a brighter and more inclusive future.


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Jul 27, 202332:35
S2 E3 - Reflections on our Interview with Technologist and Meditator Kenley's Episode

S2 E3 - Reflections on our Interview with Technologist and Meditator Kenley's Episode

In this next episode, we have an engaging conversation about the insights of our last guest, Kenley, a technology and mindfulness enthusiast who takes us on a deep dive into the fascinating world of AI and its intriguing potential connection to mindfulness, compassion and consciousness.

We kick-start our conversation by discussing the principles of the 7 C's (Concentration, Clarity, Courage, Curiosity, Compassion, Connectedness, and Creativity) and how these can influence our interaction with AI. Our discussion then moves onto the importance of the ethical use of AI, with emphasis on how we need to consciously guide AI's development to make it a constructive force in society.

One major revelation from our discussion with Kenley is how mindful we need to be in our interaction with AI, treating it as we would a child, and instilling it with kindness, respect, and the right values. Kenley emphasizes that as AI evolves and matures, it will reflect the values we impart to it today.

We also consider how AI can aid personal development, particularly in discovering our core values. By prompting AI to guide our actions and decisions, aligning them with our values, we could shape our lives more consciously and meaningfully. This idea of 'Mindful Prompt Engineering' or 'Values-based Prompting' is seen as a promising tool in fostering personal and societal growth.

Kenley also helped us explore the biases inherent in AI systems, drawing attention to the fact that these biases reflect the content already present on the internet. We explore the potential for AI to be trained to reduce these biases, and perhaps even nudge us towards becoming less biased ourselves.

We conclude our conversation by considering the beneficial aspects of technology and AI for those who find comfort in it, emphasizing the importance of understanding and accepting diverse values and preferences in our society.

In this episode, we challenge our fears, question our values, and consider the exciting potential that mindful interaction with AI offers. From deepening our understanding of ourselves to shaping a more inclusive and compassionate society, the possibilities are truly intriguing.

So, join us on this mindful journey into the world of AI, where technology meets compassion and creativity, unlocking a flourishing future for all.

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Jul 13, 202329:17
S2, E2 - Dharma Teacher and Technologist Kenley Neufeld on AI, Mindfulness and Samadhi - Recorded at Deer Park Monastery, California

S2, E2 - Dharma Teacher and Technologist Kenley Neufeld on AI, Mindfulness and Samadhi - Recorded at Deer Park Monastery, California


Jun 01, 202345:41
S2E1: Introducing Our New Series: A Hero's Journey Through the AI Revolution

S2E1: Introducing Our New Series: A Hero's Journey Through the AI Revolution

The AI revolution beckons a new era for humankind. It is more important than ever to approach this new frontier with mindfulness and compassion. In season 2 of Mindful Conversations, we'll put society on the hero's journey of transformation, and explore the opportunities and challenges presented by the rise of artificial intelligence.


Each episode will feature Shamash Alidina and Calvin Niles in mindful conversation with leaders, innovators and changemakers who are shaping the story of the AI revolution and experts seeking a more compassionate world. By combining their insights with the timeless elements of what makes us human, we'll gain a deeper understanding of AI and the role we can play in shaping the next chapter of the human story to create a more meaningful future.


We begin our journey of exploring what it means to be human and we call the '7 C's', which currently are:


Compassion

Creativity

Community

Connection

Curiosity

Consciousness

Collaboration


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Calvin: CalvinNiles.com

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Podcast: MindfulConvo.com

Email us: connect@mindfulconvo.com

May 25, 202323:32
Introducing the Certified Mindful Storytelling Course

Introducing the Certified Mindful Storytelling Course

Join Shamash and Calvin for a Mindful Storytelling workshop, on March 9th 2022, to discover how to use the Hero's Journey to enable transformation.

Feb 14, 202202:00
Episode 12: Return with the Elixir: living your purpose

Episode 12: Return with the Elixir: living your purpose

In the final episode of this series, Shamash and Calvin return with the elixir, and complete their Hero's Journey into mindfulness, through storytelling.

Join Shamash and Calvin for a Mindful Storytelling Workshop, on October 4th.

This remote workshop is for coaches and therapists, to explore the Hero’s Journey using insights from mindfulness, acceptance and values-based action.

In this episode:

  • Kush Kanodia counsels against following gurus, and suggests we be our own guru.
  • Mari Williams shares how she works with parents, teachers, and leaders to step into a larger role and support others.
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif looks at helping someone actively vs passively, and how self-fulfilment allows us to be more helpful to others.
  • Dr Vikki Barnes describes the ways in which her teaching has informed others to spread the message and power of positive psychology.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Sep 15, 202121:55
Episode 11: Resurrection to Discover Your Power: Post-traumatic growth and the transcendent self

Episode 11: Resurrection to Discover Your Power: Post-traumatic growth and the transcendent self

With the end of this series almost in sight, Shamash and Calvin enter the resurrection phase of the Hero's Journey, examining the transcendent self and exploring the growth that can come after a traumatic experience.

  • Dr Vikki Barnes opens by setting out the positive psychology idea of post-traumatic growth, rejecting the notion of "negative emotions".
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif uses rainbows as a lens through which we can explore the fleeting nature of post-traumatic growth.
  • Mari Williams shares the story of someone working on a children's cancer ward, who experienced how parents deal with what is likely their darkest experience.
  • Kush Kanodia describes the process of coming back together after a life-shattering experience, using the Japanese concept of kintsugi ("golden joinery").
  • Dr Steven Hayes points to the mind as a modern notional concept, and explores the way we can sometimes run away from positive emotions as well as negative ones.

Jill Bolte-Taylor's TED talk

In the final episode of this series, Shamash and Calvin will return with the elixir, and wrap up their learnings from the past eleven weeks.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Sep 08, 202134:57
Episode 10: The Road Back: Finding grit

Episode 10: The Road Back: Finding grit

This week, Shamash and Calvin begin the journey back home. As ever, they have help along their Hero's Journey through mindfulness and acceptance. In this episode:

  • Dr Vikki Barnes offers some advice for anyone having difficulty finding their grit.
  • Kush Kanodia approaches the search for grit from the scientific perspective, and explores how grit interplays with long-term systems change.
  • Mari Williams counsels us to find the mini version of ourselves that we can identify with, as the carrier of our inner determination.
  • Dr Wendy Molefi brings up the idea of equanimity: meeting our thoughts and emotions without getting caught up in them.
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif uses the analogy of a swimmer to illustrate what we can do when caught unawares.
  • Dr Steven Hayes chats with Shamash about competence, and opens up about the challenges he faced writing the book on Acceptance and Commitment Training.

Next week, we explore post-traumatic growth and reveal the transcendent self.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Sep 01, 202132:57
Episode 9: Wake-up Moments: the solution could be the problem

Episode 9: Wake-up Moments: the solution could be the problem

This week, Shamash and Calvin explore the eighth chapter of the Hero's Journey into mindfulness and acceptance: the Ordeal. Along with acceptance, what can commitment allow us to achieve, and how can we spot when commitment turns to stubbornness?

  • Social entrepreneur Kush Kanodia opens the episode with a story of commitment that led to a life-changing opportunity
  • Therapist Mari Williams shares her approach to helping people deal with those moments in life where we need the reassurance that we're going to be OK
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif discusses strength in vulnerability, reducing the clutter in clients' minds, and encouraging flexibility
  • ACT originator Dr Steven Hayes plays out a conversation about self-inflicted pain, and is candid about the difficulties he's faced with his own physical pain and the unhealthy thoughts that arose as a result.

Next week, we seize our reward and begin the journey back home.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Aug 26, 202121:54
Episode 8: Approaching the Inmost Cave: the dark night of the soul

Episode 8: Approaching the Inmost Cave: the dark night of the soul

This week, Shamash and Calvin venture into the inmost cave and do battle with hopelessness in the long dark night of the soul.

Luckily as ever, they have help in their Hero's Journey through mindfulness. In this episode:

  • Therapist Mari Williams shares how she counselled herself through a difficult time in her life, by remembering that healing takes time.
  • We hear from social entrepreneur Kush Kanodia who recounts his own painful experience, and how being thrown into chaos helped him discover his purpose.
  • Dr Wendy Molefi talks philosophically about the passage of pain, but also uses the Buddhist idea of the second arrow to describe sitting with that pain.
  • Dr Steven Hayes, originator of ACT, shares a story with Shamash about a meeting with a professor and the setting of an impossible task.

Next week, we explore our gifts and uncover the power of grit.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Aug 18, 202124:10
Episode 7: Tests, Allies and Enemies: The supportive nature of values

Episode 7: Tests, Allies and Enemies: The supportive nature of values

This week, our heroes Shamash and Calvin are out of their comfort zone, and have moved into a new special world where difficult challenges ensue. When examining acceptance and commitment therapy through the lens of the Hero's Journey, we see how tests and enemies align, but who are our allies? Our values.

In this episode:

  • Therapist Mari Williams describes how we live out our values, and how they filter and inform even the smallest decisions we make.
  • Social entrepreneur Kush Kanodia combines purpose and values by looking at them in terms of core and flex: those things we hold sacred vs those we can compromise on.
  • Dr Steven Hayes, originator of ACT, recounts a spiritual experience that informed his work, and discusses the ways we judge our own feelings and how that judgement can lead to anxiety.
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif sets out some the questions she asks clients to help them explore the emotions behind the choices they make.

Next week, we approach the inner-most cave, and understand what can be gained from engaging in a long dark night of the soul.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Aug 11, 202126:47
Episode 6: Crossing the Threshold: committing to a choice

Episode 6: Crossing the Threshold: committing to a choice

What is choice? How do we make good choices, and how important are the choices we make? This week, Shamash and Calvin cross the threshold on their next leg of their Hero's Journey into mindfulness.

In this episode:

  • Therapist Mari Williams describes how a lack of choice, real or perceived, can make us feel trapped, but that realising we have choice – even if unfavourable – is valuable.
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif looks at the growth mindset behind choice, its relationship to decision-making, and how the first step we need to take is accepting the choices we make.
  • Dr Steven Hayes, the founder of ACT, explores the negotiations we have with ourselves in the mirror.
  • Social entrepreneur Kush Kanodia shares his personal paradox that the more he knows the more he realises he doesn't know.

On next week's episode, we'll tackle tests, allies and enemies.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Aug 05, 202117:46
Episode 5: Meeting the Mentor: Opening your mind to curiosity, learning and encouragement

Episode 5: Meeting the Mentor: Opening your mind to curiosity, learning and encouragement

Shamash and Calvin embark on the next leg of the Hero's Journey, weaving mindful storytelling with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.

This week, the Meeting with the Mentor: how our mentors can be people who've brought impact into our lives, but could equally be other sources of inspiration: books, films, even podcasts.

In this episode:

  • Social entrepreneur Kush Kanodia speaks to the value of finding a mentor.
  • Dr Wendy Molefi sets out the benefits of speaking with someone close – a friend or a colleague – to help you shift a difficult problem.
  • Speaking of shifting a problem, therapist Mari Williams describes how she encourages her clients to see her work as helping to roll a heavy boulder uphill.
  • Dr Vikki Barnes shares the introduction to the world of psychology that would go on to shape her career.
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif explores at the benefits of working with someone who has walked your same journey, and can act as a guide.
  • Dr Steven Hayes, Professor of Psychology at the University of Nevada and the originator of ACT, shares his powerful realisation around accepting anxiety rather than letting panic set in.

Next week, we cross the threshold.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Jul 28, 202117:21
Episode 4: Refusal of the Call: Avoidance ain’t always a good idea

Episode 4: Refusal of the Call: Avoidance ain’t always a good idea

Shamash and Calvin embark on the next leg of the Hero's Journey, facing their first challenge: do they heed the call to adventure, or ignore it?

In this episode:

  • Dr Mehwish Sharif explains how we build our reality through our experiences, judgements, and filters.
  • Therapist Mari Williams delves into the unconscious mind, how it can protect us, and how guilt can get in the way
  • Dr Vikki Barnes describes the positive approach she takes with her clients, to help them achieve better outcomes.
  • Social entrepreneur Kush Kanodia helps us reframe challenges as puzzles to be solved.
  • Dr Wendy Molefi shows us what can happen if we don't take time to decompress, or spend time enjoying the little things.

Read the Serenity Prayer quoted by Shamash.

Make sure to join us next time, when we have a Meeting with the Mentor.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Jul 21, 202118:26
Episode 3: Call to Adventure: the opportunity of life’s challenges

Episode 3: Call to Adventure: the opportunity of life’s challenges

Shamash and Calvin accept the Call to Adventure, discussing the next leg of the Hero's Journey and how it relates to films we already know.

In this episode:

  • Therapist Mari Williams recounts her childhood call to adventure and the decisions her early family life presented her with in adulthood.
  • Social entrepreneur Kush Kanodia talks openly about his disability, and how humbling a painful struggle can be.
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif discusses uncertainty, and the challenges she faced following the birth of her son.
  • Dr Wendy Molefi reminds us that our instinctive response to flee is designed to keep us safe, but it can lead to difficulty accepting hard challenges.
  • Dr Vikki Barnes describes the human negativity bias, and how facing adversity can help build tribes founded on empathy.

Make sure to join us next time, when we talk about the Refusal of the Call.

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Jul 14, 202126:35
Episode 2: The Ordinary World: the dangers of living on autopilot

Episode 2: The Ordinary World: the dangers of living on autopilot

Shamash and Calvin embark on the first step of the Hero's Journey: the Ordinary World, taking a look at what can happen when we move through life on autopilot.

In this episode:

  • Social entrepreneur Kush Kanodia shares some wise words from Ferris Bueller, reminding us to "stop and look around once in a while".
  • Dr Wendy Molefi highlights why humans have an autopilot setting: the benefits it can bring, and the dangers it can pose.
  • Dr Vikki Barnes explains some of the ways in which autopilot can manifest itself in our bodies, which can lead to discomfort or lack of sleep.
  • Therapist Mari Williams looks at the stories we tell ourselves, and the danger in not revisiting those stories to check if they're still relevant to our real lives.
  • Dr Mehwish Sharif shares an exercise she encourages her clients to do, to help them be more mindful of their surroundings when on autopilot.

Make sure to join us next time, when we take up the Call to Adventure!

Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Jul 07, 202121:27
Episode 1: The Hero's Journey

Episode 1: The Hero's Journey

Calvin introduces Shamash to Joseph Campbell's "Monomyth", better known as the Hero's Journey, examining how it has informed storytelling from the Epic of Gilgamesh, to T*he Lord of the Rings*, to T*he Matrix*.

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Mindful Conversations is hosted by mindfulness teacher Shamash Alidina and mindful storyteller Calvin Niles.

Jun 30, 202129:54
Trailer

Trailer

Shamash and Calvin introduce the podcast. Follow Mindful Conversations now to hear the first episode when it arrives on July 1.

Jun 08, 202100:39