Mind Kink - Really Good Sex and Erotic Hypnosis
By The Wordsmith
[090] Who Decides Is What Determines Dominance or Submission and It's Implications For Ds Relationships
The person in control of a scene or relationship is the single person who decides. There is only one Captain of a relationship, and many have emailed me regarding their frustrations with their partner claiming the benefits of being in a Ds relationship while not actually transferring real authority, and I discuss this as well, and mitigations.
Tags: Ds, Relationship Design
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[089] Mini-Scenes And Their Use In Increasing Trance Responsiveness In A Subject
Prefacing your formal scene with a simple fractal representation of the scene produces extremely deep responsiveness in your subject during the second scene, and accelerates the process of conditioning and responsiveness.
Tags: Scene, Conditioning, Hypnokink
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[087] The Single Tool Scene And A Pathway for Mastering Hypnokink Skills
Restricting yourself to using a single tool or rope tie for the entirety of a scene is a effective way to build a deep familiarity with all of the possible uses of a tool. I discuss this idea in both hypnokink and other examples and also the idea of standards of progression for hypnokink skills.
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[086] Dismissing vs Reinforcing - the two distinct versions of aftercare
Aftercare can be used to reduce the effect of a scene, or intentionally to escalate it and increase the intensity. I explain the difference, when and how exactly to go about this.
Tags: Aftercare
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[085] A Brief Introduction To Using Role Playing Systems For Ds Character Design
I discuss the use of three Role Playing Game (RPG) character creation systems and how they map onto Ds roleplay - specifically Dungeons and Dragons, The Elder Scrolls and Fallout's S.P.E.C.I.A.L System.
Tags: Ds, Role Playing Game, RPG
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[084] Using Uncensored AI LLM's to Create Ideas for Ds, Characters and Scenes
Large Language Models (LLM's) can provide an excellent starting point for roleplaying, scene creation and immersive experiences with your partner. I'll explain in a very simple way how to install and access uncensored LLM's and provide several example prompt structures and ideas to create your scenes and maximise intensity.
Tags: Ds, AI, LLM, Large Language Model
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[083] Major Improvements To Negotiation By Use Of Whitelisting
Traditional Kink Negotiations are impractical, give a false sense of safety, encourage evasive behaviour and tell you very little if nothing about shared, common desires. I will present a radically more effective approach to simplify kink scene and relationship negotiation, facilitate massive connection and the creation of shared meaning, and make negotiations actually fun and enjoyable for a change.
Tags: Ds, Tool, Negotiation, Hypnokink
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[082] The Menu - A Tool For Easier Play And Intense Connections
Get more of the play you want, with the people that are worthy of you. I present The Menu, a simple tool for connecting and explaining your interests, effectively and effortlessly synchronising your desires and leading into fun and intense connection, while providing a clearer structure to both Doms and Subs.
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[081] The Iron Law of Relationships Part 1 and Part 2
"If you can't be happy without them, you can never be fully happy with them" and "If they can't be happy without you, then they will never be fully happy with you". I provide clear advice to inform the healthy selection of a worthy partner and to avoid common pitfalls in Ds partner selection, as well as highlighting risk factors for dependancy and present effective mitigations.
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[080] A Minor Rant about Common Problems
More of a major rant, really. This one was an audio message to a personal friend, which starts off fast and doesn't slow down.It's part of my (larger, more thorough) criticisms of the mainstream hypnokink "community" (it's in quotes because it doesn't really exist, I'll explain why in the episode) and I present some of the simple solutions to these deep, structural failings.
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[079] Introduction to Improving Subject Responsiveness
There is some content on this vitally important topic, but not nearly enough. This is a part of a conversation where I discuss a piece of a system I've been developing to massively improve the responsiveness of Submissives. Theres some good concepts here but it isn't a complete system, keep an eye out for that on this podcast in the future.
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[078] Beginning to Introduce a System for Submissives to Improve Dating
I have a lot of female friends, and they often struggle to find high quality male partners so over the last few months I've been testing a system to fix that. Basically, it's "how to date, for submissives". This audio is a small part of it, the complete system will be released as a series of episodes later, but enjoy this for now.
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[077] Some Thoughts on Relationship Conflicts - Contracts - Accountability - Punishment
This one is a weird one and I'm not entirely certain it's the most useful form it could be in. Take all of this one, as with all my work, with critical thinking. It's essentially a stream-of-conciousness conversation I had with a friend who is going through some things at the moment.
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[076] Some Simple Observations on Training Submissives
I address some of the common problems that occur that can cause a breakdown of communications between a Submissive and her Dominant, and provide simple solutions. This is not a comprehensive analysis of this topic, I am working on that.
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[075] Erotic Behavioural Design - An Overview
The episodes content has been updated in the episode 073 Basics of Brainwashing Class. HOWEVER this episode is different in two major ways - its application is broader, covering material on concious habit design that has been removed from the class. It also has a LOT of content on the last two thirds of me talking about problems I've overcome and mistakes in my relationships that I've made. Deeply candid and personal.
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[074] Building an Effective Personal Portable Training Kit
I describe a super fun and effective portable training kit, with all the useful tools you might need to create maximal intensity in your training results. I've wanted to make this one for a while and recording it was a lot of fun.
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[073] CLASS - Basics of Brainwashing
Essentially an update of my earlier class How to Train your Submissive, with an increased emphasis and description on how to create recordings for use in teaching your partner.
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[072] Inspiration 2 - Bioshock and Using it as a Tool
CONTAINS SPOILERS for the video game Bioshock (the original). We discuss the usage and implementation of extreme control and a fun way to incorporate a new trigger into your sex life.
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[071] Inspiration 1 - A Certain Magical Universe and its Use In Having Amazing Sex
Understanding your partners kinks can result in some magical experiences. I discuss exactly how to use a certain magical universe to create triggers around complete obedience, pleasure and bliss for the purpose of having better and more amazing sex with erotic hypnosis and conditioning.
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[070] Asexuality - Understanding the Formation and Presenting Effective Solutions
Asexuality is essentially a kind of depression that affects the sex drives and morivation of an individual and causes immense harm to Women (and Men). In this episode I will discuss how it is formed and simple, clear and effective strategies to resolve it and begin to enjoy the kind of sexual adventures that you deserve to have. Because you do :-)
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[069] Major Structural Improvements to Rope Education
Rope education is fundamentally flawed and this has hurt hundreds of thousands of people by convincing them that every one of the joys that you can so easily experience with rope - freedom, joy, connection, passion, intensity, power, control, etc - is just ... not for them. Denied competant education in rope due to misstructured classes, these people are denied the joy of rope. Lets stop fucking about and fix this already. I discuss the problem, and then propose a comprehensive solution for educators to contemplate.
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[068] HannahTheScribe - Endorsing High Quality Educators
I discuss and recommend the work of an exceptional educator - HannahTheScribe and why you should buy her stuff.
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[067] Threesomes - Suggestions for Creating Intense and Satisfying Experiences
Threesomes - Play a variation of the Three Minute Game and if you are a couple and it's your first several times, hire a professional to ensure things move smoothly in the right direction. I also discuss sexual health and planning lgistics as well as how to broaden your horizons. Find more content at thewordsmithspeaks.com
[066] Identity Versus Behaviour - Import Notes for Restructuring Both
If you are having issues training a behaviour, it may be caused by an identity issue. I discuss when and how this occurs, and what can be done in these situations to resolve the issue and allow you both to move forward and enjoy a deeper relationship and a more connective one. Find more content on the website thewordsmithspeaks.com
[065] Honorifics and Terms of Address - Major Structural Improvements
Honorifics and Terms of Address are beautiful and emotionally charged ways of showing your affection for someone, the nature of your relationship, or your desires. I present several significant and major structural improvements to their creation and usage with the intention of maximising the intensity of your relationship and interaction. Find more content at the website, thewordsmithspeaks.com
[064] The Four Stages Model and its use in training a Slavegirl
A massively superior overview of the training process, which can also easily be used to asses current proficiancy and measure progress, with an emphasis on simplicity of application, teaching and action. A large improvement to the "Unconcious Competance" model. Find more content like this at the website thewordsmithspeaks.com
[063] Clitoral Orgasms - You Deserve Something Deeper
Clitoral Orgasms are are a good place to start, but there is more to explore. I discuss how how your biologically female orgasms are more varied, more intense and more meaningful and why you ABSOLUTELY should not settle for just clitoral orgasms from your body.
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[062] The Two Requirements for Orgasmic Response
Some kind of stimulation (mental, physical, emotional, etc) and some kind of surrender to someone or something - these are the two requirements for orgasm. In this episode I will cover why orgasm is simple, easy and how to can be used to train your submissive more effectively. For more content like this, see the website at thewordsmithspeaks.com
[059] CLASS - Ds Relationship Design Part 2
A multi-part series going into extreme detail on how to design a healthy, sustainable and fun Ds relationship.
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[058] CLASS - Ds Relationship Design Part 1
A multi-part series going into extreme detail on how to design a healthy, sustainable and fun Ds relationship.
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[057] CLASS - Maximum Effect Scene Construction and Execution
A recent class I taught on several new techniques for maximising the impact, effectiveness and intensity of ANY scene that you build.
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[056] Anal Sex Training Improved
Traditional Anal Training is extremely deficient in several areas that lead many submissives to giving up on this, and then missing out on all the amazing pleasure and connection it can bring. I fix this by redically overhauling anal training and presenting simple, clear and effective processes for improving it.
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[055] How To Find Hypnokink Partners And Connect With Them
A simple, practical system for connecting with potential Hypnokink Partners.
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[054] Basics Of International Scheduling And Communications
I discuss the specific tools and techniques I use to arrange international communications in my relationships.
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[053] How To Create Psychological Safety For Extremely Deep Intimate Connections
An extremely important and widely applicable episode where I discuss the exact techniques to create extremely deep and emotionally intense connections.
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[052] The 3 Minute Game + Getting To No + Training Game - Powerful Techniques For Building Connections
Part of the Rapid Connections Toolkit, a concept that I've been developing lately to help people to connect deeply and meaningfully with others.
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[051] Enthusiasm Is The Hottest Thing And It Is What You Should Be Training For
There is a critical distinction to make between training FOR a behaviour and training for WANTING that behaviour, here is why you should be doing the second thing.
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[050] Extreme Basics Of Ds Dynamic And Relationship Design - Initial Version
This is a deep and complex topic, so I help you to make sense of it. This is a really important episode which pretty much applies to everybody.
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[049] Mindblowingly Intense - The Cardboard Tube As The Best Sex Toy For Hypnotists
This is a real hidden gem, the use of the cardboard tube to create super intense ASMR tingles.
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[048] The Neccessity Of Training And Difference Between Specialised And General Training
There is a difference between general baseline training and specialised training for a particular purpose, we'll discuss this and how to do it.
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[047] Basic Communications Security - Share This
An extremely important episode, I outline a secure stack for kinksters to keep your communications private.
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[046] Creation And Timing Of Effective Brainwashing Material
I discuss a crucial and often overlooked aspect of effectively creating and using hypnotic audios.
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[044] Presenting A Radical Hypnokink Education Initiative
Hypnokink Education is fundamentally broken, I present the nature of the problem and several effective solutions.
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[043] Making and Publishing a Podcast - For Content Creators
I cover the software and processes for publishing your own podcast on Hypnokink or on any topic.
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[042] Building a Website + Resources Folder + Mailing List + Store - For Content Creators
A surprisingly thorough look at building a Static Site, or a Wordpress Site, along with how to put together all the components of what I've built and possible alternatives.
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[041] Behavioral Modification - Creating Vastly Superior Conditioned Reinforcers for Training
A massive improvement to conventional conditioned reinforcers.
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[040] The Submissive Operators Manual
A simple, printable guide to how to drive and use your submissive for mutual pleasure, as well as an explanation on how to use it but it's pretty self explanatory.
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[039] A Radical Rethinking Of Both Submissives And Slaves
How to change submissives into slaves, and slaves into submissives and the higher forms of both that evolve when this is done. A structural rethinking of fundamental concepts of service and servitude.
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