Momming @ Home | Empowering Black SAHMs and Wives To Have Thriving Relationships

By Destiny Aja

Empowering Black SAHMs to develop a deeper real connection with God. It's time to discover our purpose and gain understanding of our role as a faith-led, biblical wife and mother. It's time to break generational curses and poverty mindsets through faith, fasting and community.

Sis! Do you feel like your marriage/relationship is falling apart? Do you feel stressed in your motherhood? Is your house constantly a hot mess? Are you exhausted? Aren't you ready for change yet? Walk with me on this journey, using faith as the foundation to restoration in your marriage, motherhood, mindset and more!

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What Does It Mean To Deschool? | The Key To Virtual Learning Success!

Momming @ Home | Empowering Black SAHMs and Wives To Have Thriving RelationshipsAug 20, 2020

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31:11

How To Keep Going In Business When Life Knocks You Down with Coach Nneoma

Biblical Business Series- Maintaining a positive mindset !

All so much fun and laughter chatting with Destiny @destinyajaw on partnering with God in business and life.

Three takeaways for me:
a. Our relationship with God should not be transactional
b. Affirm/manifest what you want until you see it happen and if it is not God’s will you can always change it.
c. Be still

➡️What did you take away from this conversation?

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Mar 27, 202150:38

How To Really Pray And Seek God In The Middle of a Pandemic | Part 1

This week on the podcast I’m talking to my OG’s. To those of you that have been following me since my network marketing days. And then those that walked with me through that whole home daycare business fiasco. Then there was a brief period of bitter baby mama drama that I went through. And then there were all of those who found me when I started this show. When I opened up about how hard and dark motherhood was for me after my miscarriage.

So there’s definitely been a huge change and transformation up until now, where all I’m talking about is God and prayer and Mommi 2.0 and affirmations and MommiNation and now I’m a whole real-life Mommi Coach with real mommies that struggle daily just like I do. And I’m helping them do the work. I’m walking them through their trials.

And it all started with prayer. It all shifted with prayer. My life changed with prayer. So this week’s episode is all about prayer.

But just cuz I pray doesn’t mean I’m perfect, or that my life is perfect. Through it all I’m still the same old Destiny.

So I’m sharing with you how to pray and still be YOU.

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Mar 18, 202113:40

Is My Marriage/Relationship Really Over???? | #WhatitTakesWednesday

I just made a MOM CEO boss decision! What It Takes Wednesday will now be my weekly podcast episode!!!! I'm switching it up to make things work and fit into this new #timeblocking system that I'm using. Girl this is about to be so fun!!!

I'm taking it back to the basics, where it all started. What are we going to do with these men hunni????? Quarantine life has put a damper on sooooo many marriages and relationships.

Is it really over?

Girl you are not the only mommi thinking this! In this episode I'm giving you the tools and techniques that I have used and that work like a charm when you need to know Is My Marriage/Relationship Over?

This is another #latenightedition but once I get my business systems in place, these episodes will be released in the mornings!

I would love to hear what your opinion is on how to know when it's really time to move on. Leave a comment!

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Mar 11, 202125:10

OVERWHELMED By My Blessings! An Intimate Conversation with Robin Meadows

When the Mommi 2.0 Challenge was over this past November, most of us didn’t want it to end. So another small group of us decided that we would continue to deepen our relationship with God, while praying over our children.

We started a 12 week devotional in the @youversion Bible app called Overwhelmed By My Blessings. This plan gave us so much new insight into our roles as a Mommi. We gained new perspectives and learned more truths about God’s word. SWIPE to see their reviews.

This devotional is so good I did it twice!!! And now we have the chance to sit down with the author!! @manymeadows

Y’all this woman homeschooled 7 children and lived to tell about it! After all of that she somehow mustered up the energy to inspire and encourage other women on this assignment. We’re so excited for this opportunity.

Don’t miss #WhatitTakesWednesday tonight at 6pm on Zoom!

Feb 04, 202158:33

Happy 2021! Gratitude Affirmations Every Mom Should Say DAILY This Year

Hey girl hey! Happy 2021! I am finally coming up for air hunni. Ya girl has been WORKING. I'm so in awe of God right now and the way that He is orchestrating my life. So my word for this year is: GRATITUDE.

In this episode I'm giving you a sneak peek into the Fit Mommi Challenge that we're doing over on MommiNation.com. I am of course helping out with the mental and spiritual aspects of "getting fit". We getting our minds right this year girl!

Check out these affirmations that I recorded giving thanks. In the middle of the day, in the middle of your toddler's fourth temper tantrum, girl when you feel like cyring...whip these out, listen and take a deep breath.

Let me know if you would like to hear more affirmations like these, with the relaxing music in the background. I have literally changed my whole entire life by using these and a whole bunch of others.

Be sure to share these with your mommi friends. You never know who needs to hear it.

Download my FREE mixtape here. That's right! I said mixtape! LOL The Manifesting 2.0 Mixtape. Girl it's going to change your life! Get it today!

We have so much power in the words that we think, speak and write. This year I am determined to manifest my destiny. Surprise me God. Blow my mind!

I'll have to catch you up on all the things I have in store for you this year, all of the blessings that I'm so thankful for, but I gotta go cuz the boys are hungry! LOL

Book a session with me and let’s find the miracles in all that mess girl! https://calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

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Jan 15, 202116:12

THE Best Affirmations for Black Boys by The Super Wilsons!

Listen! I know I missed last week, but let’s just blame it on 2020.

I’m popping in really quickly with the boys (and Harmony 🥰) to spread some encouragement to the little people in our lives.

When I start our days off with the boys reciting their affirmations, things go a lot smoother.

Leave a comment and let me know which one is your favorite.

I’m booking Mommi Sessions all throughout MommiNation’s 12 Days of Christmas for only $30!

Let’s chat today! calendly.com/mommy2point0/12days

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Dec 19, 202002:13

Is It Really Time To Step Away From INSTAGRAM??? (Part 2)

This interview is long overdue. I had a very real and down to earth conversation with my IG BFF and foodie, Ronalyn Alson. My girl opened up about #WhatItTakes to make your business STRONGER in the middle of a pandemic. We're also giving you some cold, hard facts about the Instagram Algorithm, why it's time to move on, and what you can replace IG with to scale your business.

Part 1 was recorded exactly 4 months ago today on August 5, 2020. Go back and listen to my #TestimonyTuesday Does God Own Your Business episode here. Then come back and witness the transformation for yourself!

There's still time to register for the Mommi 2.0 Challenge here: https://mommination.com/mommi-2-0-challenge/

Book a session with me and let’s find the miracles in all that mess girl! https://calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

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Dec 05, 202030:17

Tackling The Holidays: Covid-19 Edition

This week on Momming @ Home, we take a look at some ways to tackle the holidays this season. Almost everything looks different this year, so these tips will help us make it the same for the children, no matter what our circumstances look like. Sisters and co-authors, Mia & Sante are both married with children. They've worked inside and outside the home throughout motherhood. Balancing the needs of their home. They've experienced doubt, grief anxiety, trauma and pain - but their blessings outweigh the issues. They are praying Mommi's. Tackling situations knowing the outcome- it's fixed. You can read their blog and all about them at www.LeaveItToMama.com. Follow them www.instragram.com/leaveittomama

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Nov 29, 202031:36

5 Ways To End 2020 STRONGER Than You Started It

I know that we are all counting down the days until the year 2020 is finally in our rearview mirrors. With just a little over a month left to go, the holidays fastly approaching, and the possibility of another nationwide shutdown, better days seem far far away for some.

But I'm here to tell you that those wonderful days, that new life, and all of the miracles are happening right now!

I'm dedicating this episode to all of the amazing, wonderful, beautiful and talented mommi's that recently took the Mommi 2.0 Challenge!

Girl just stop right now and THANK GOD!

Thank God for this new life, this new awakening, this new journey!

I know it may look like things are falling apart right now, but girl God's got you! God's got US!

You will be able to implement these 5 tools today, to lift your spirits and get us all into the holiday spirit this year. No matter what your 2020 has looked like, you can end it stronger and be open and ready for all that is coming in 2021.

And guess what else?

SEASON 2 IS HERE!!!!!! Yes girl finally! This is the premiere episode for Season 2 of Momming @ Home! Listen to it right now! I've got a new intro and outro, new music, I'm so excited!!!

Make sure you are subscribed, because you don't want to miss what I have in store for you!

There's still time to register for the Mommi 2.0 Challenge here: https://mommination.com/mommi-2-0-challenge/

Book a session with me and let’s find the miracles in all that mess girl! https://calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

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If God leads you to sow:

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Nov 21, 202021:56

Day 17 of The Mommi 2.0 Challenge | Homework Assignment #4 | FREE MINI MOMMI SESSIONS!

I went LIVE in our Mommi 2.0 private FB group to assign the homework for this weekend. Yes, you read that right. We're doing homework! Listen til the end to here all about these FREE MINI MOMMI SESSIONS!

There's still time to register for the Mommi 2.0 Challenge here: https://mommination.com/mommi-2-0-challenge/

Book a session with me and let’s find the miracles in all that mess girl! https://calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

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Oct 18, 202006:05

Take This Journey To 2.0 With Me And The Whole MommiNation Community!

Girl. Are you ready for 2.0 status? Now is literally the perfect time! Start your journey today!

There's still time to register for the Mommi 2.0 Challenge here: https://mommination.com/mommi-2-0-challenge/

Book a session with me and let’s find the miracles in all that mess girl! https://calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

Let’s connect on IG: www.instagram.com/destinyajaw send me an audio message!

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Oct 02, 202002:12

It's The First #MombassadorTakeover!!!!!! Day 1 of the Mommi 2.0 Challenge with Mykal Steen and Yolande Kelly

Two of MommiNation's original Mombassadors come together to share their experience from the first day of the challenge. Mykal Steen and Yolande Kelly get real open and honest about what it takes to be a maintain your peace as a Woman, Wife and Mommi.

It's not too late to register for the challenge. We are expecting miracles! Sign up here and tell a mommi friend to take it with you!

https://mommination.com/mommi-2-0-challenge/

Book a session with me and let’s find the miracles in all that mess girl! https://calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

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Oct 02, 202045:47

The Mommi 2.0 Launch Party with Tara Wallace From Love & Hip Hop!

The official #MombassadorTakeover kicked off with the launch party for the Mommi 2.0 Challenge! The founder of MommiNation herself, Sanya Richards-Ross sat down for a very transparent and intimate discussion with Tara Wallace. The star of Love & Hip Hop New York opened up about her struggles of mommihood and how she came out as the 2.0 version of herself!

Book a session with me and let’s find the miracles in all that mess girl! https://calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

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Oct 02, 202044:51

Can't Figure Out How To GROW YOUR HAIR FAST? I've Got The Secret!

I know that the Mommi 2.0 Challenge has already begun and all, but can we just take a quick minute for #TheHair 👀⠀
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Y’all! My hair FELL OUT OUT! I was a complete wreck!!!!! I cried. I yelled. I screamed. I flipped TF out! ⠀
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And then I prayed. I affirmed. I researched. I turned to experts for help. I tried products that didn’t work. I found different styles for short hair. I studied the ladies on YouTube. I admired other women with long hair. I complimented them when they didn’t even know it. I gave thanks. Every week I washed my hair (ok maybe I skipped a couple weeks here and there). Mayonnaise. Eggs. Rice. I put weird and strange products on my hair. I accepted it. I trusted the process. I stayed hopeful. I envisioned myself with long hair. I got focused. I got intentional. And I did the work. ⠀
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“My hair is growing long and healthy.”⠀
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“My hair is longer and stronger than its ever been!”⠀
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This is from February 2019. I went LIVE last night for #TestimonyTuesday and I talked about the top 3 things that worked the best. Listen for all the deets!⠀
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If you are ready to truly TRANSFORM your life, register for the Mommi 2.0 Challenge right now! Click here: https://mommination.com/mommi-2-0-challenge/

Read the blog that I wrote earlier this year, 10 Ways To Grow Your Hair Back Fast After PostPartum Shedding over on Mommination right here: https://mommination.com/10-ways-to-grow-your-hair-back-fast-after-postpartum-shedding/

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Oct 02, 202011:39

#WiTW LIVE | MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT!

Last night I had the opportunity to sit down with the founders of MommiNation and go into detail about exactly why this is the challenge you didn’t know you needed!

@SanyaRichardsRoss and @MrsMykal go in-depth on why they personally chose to team up with me for....

THE MOMMI 2.0 CHALLENGE!!!!

I have been holding on to this news for so long! I couldn’t wait to share all the deets with y’all!

God has been moving. His grace has provided me this chance of a lifetime! 🖤

These ladies have been so instrumental to me, in such a short amount of time!

This challenge is going to CHANGE OUR LIVES!!

Get the Mommi 2.0 early bird special right here:
mommination.com/course-tag/mommi-2-0-challenge/

Join the Mommi 2.0 Safe Space on FB: www.facebook.com/groups/2719614861614393/?ref=share

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@mommination
@sanyarichardsross
@mrsmykal
@destinyajaw

Sep 17, 202022:18

Sign Up For The Very First M2 Workshop: How To Transform From Mama to Teacher OVERNIGHT!

Whew y’all!!! WE MADE IT! Virtual Learning started today. 👀 #thestruggle was real! The day started off shaky, but I am so thankful to God tonight. I give him all the glory! I now have a 2nd grader, and my youngest son is in pre-K. I feel so bad because he finally gets to go to “big kid school” and he’s not going anywhere. I’ve been trying to get us all as prepared as possible. I’ve created a new schedule for us, I’m meal planning, and we’ve got a dinner menu that the whole family approves of and helps create! I made a learning space for the boys with special name tags. I’ve got us all organized and set up! This weekend, I spent some extra time simply enjoying my family. I know 2020 has been crazy, but we will never get this time back. This moment is still precious. It’s still a blessing. I took that necessary time to reboot and refocus. I am refreshed and ready for my very first M2 Workshop: How To Transform from Mommy to Teacher OVERNIGHT next week, ‪Monday-Friday‬ (‪Aug 31-Sept 4, 2020‬) ‪at 1pm PST‬/3pm CST/4pm EST. Destiny, have you signed up for the workshop? I know you are feeling stressed, overwhelmed and unprepared. On top of striving for Mommy 2.0 status, you’re still trying to keep the romance going, your kids won't stop fighting, this isn't what you imagined your life looking like when you got married and had children, and now you have become a TEACHER overnight. Girl...I feel your pain! I know you're hearing it from all angles, you're nervous, uncertain, and just kinda wingin' it. I'm here to support you in finding the miracles in the mess! I literally witnessed a miracle today in my life. It was beyond my wildest dreams. So I get it. I've been there. And you are not alone. I have helped hundreds of women going through the exact same thing. And with the stress of virtual learning pushing marriages and new Quarantined Moms to their breaking point, I've decided to open up my schedule for a workshop to encourage women feeling exactly how you are. I'm going to help you to: * Develop a morning routine that will set you up for a great day, EVERY day! * Implement quick hacks you can use throughout the day to instantly change your mood and the atmosphere in your home. * Listen for God and get a clear vision of His will for your life By the end of the week you will: * Know how to respond, instead of always reacting * Have a better understanding of what it means to co-parent with God using prayer and affirmations * Have more energy and a better attitude * Understand exactly what it takes to transform your life * Really grasp what it looks like to check yourself first, and realize why it's so important * Gain the knowledge and self-discipline to fast and pray with conviction Girl hit me up we are ‪starting next Monday‬! Seats are limited! SIGN UP HERE! My clients are experiencing MAJOR breakthroughs! I don’t want you to miss out! I only have a few spots available and I have no idea when I am teaching this workshop again. Here is the link to sign up: SIGN UP HERE *** I absolutely love empowering women, mothers and wives to build and nurture healthy, happy relationships. Let's be IG BFF's! @destinyajaw Be sure to join us in our Momming @ Home Safe Space. This group was created specifically to encourage and support you on this journey. It’s a safe, no judgment zone where you can share your thoughts and feelings on all things stay at home mom! Just women coming together to help each other grow for the sake of their families. Get caught up on the first season of my podcast, Momming @ Home! Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify And if you have any questions, simply hit reply! I love chatting with you and hearing your feedback. With Light & Life, Destiny Aja P.S. If you need a little extra help finding the miracles in that mess, girl let's chat! Let's start your Journey To 2.0 today! CLICK HERE!

Aug 26, 202002:46

What Does It Mean To Deschool? | The Key To Virtual Learning Success!

I know this school year has a lot of us nervous, anxious and confused. Now more than ever is the time to join forces and support each other. I’m so thankful that @feminiesuccess came on the podcast to give us some encouragement. She dropped all kinda nuggets! Yahya Smith is a mama, manager, & maven making moves! (That’s a lot of m’s! lol!) She’s mastering the art of a Well Lived, Well Loved, & Well Paid life and taking other women with her. As a speaker, coach, and consultant Yahya is sharing the message that women can have and manage amazing lives with the right tools & tribe! Contact Yahya Smith at @femininesuccess on Instagram.

Aug 20, 202031:11

The BEST Way To Bond With Your ‘Students’ During the 2020 Pandemic School Year

This week I had the opportunity to sit down with YouTube sensation, Jerusha Willenborg. Her video of a secret handshake that she shared with each one of her elementary school students went viral, and families all across the world were deeply touched. I was able to have an in-depth conversation with her about some fun and exciting ways for parents to connect with their students this year.

With so much uncertainly surrounding this upcoming school year, MommiNation is encouraging mommi’s to nurture and strengthen your bonds with your children during this time. We all need each other.

We hope you all will grab your kids and join us for the #MommiShakeChallenge 🖤🖤🖤

You and your child can team up and create your own secret handshake!

Rules to enter:
Record your handshake and post it to your timeline and/or stories with the hashtag #MommiShakeChallenge (Mommi’s of multiples can have a secret shake for each kid for an extra entry!)

We want our Daddi’s in on this too! Hashtag #DaddiShakeChallenge

Each handshake must have 5 different taps/moves

Contest length: 8/17/2020-8/22/2020

Winner will be announced 8/23/2020
Sunday 7:00pm est

The Mombassadors will pick the best handshake based on the following criteria:
5 taps/moves
Originality
Creativity
Formation (not messing up)

Good luck!

Check out Jerusha’s YouTube video:

youtu.be/En0cAEMpBdI

Book a session with me and let’s find the miracles in all that mess girl!

calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

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Aug 16, 202033:06

Testimony Tuesday: Late Night Edition | Does God Own Your Business?

Last night I went LIVE in the Momming @ Home Safe Space for a late night edition of #TestimonyTuesday. Listen in as I chat with my girls about a recent struggle I faced in my business completing this Mommy 2.0 Challenge.

The devotional I mention is called God Owns My Business:
www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/17623

If I’m being completely honest, I recently began to lose excitement for my business and almost lost the momentum and interest in this whole thing all together. The enemy was attacking my mind hard. But God used one of my IG BFFs to speak to me yesterday. @Ron allowed me to see God’s work in my business. After fears of failure had taken over my mind for a few days, I was finally able to see all of my prayers answered.

Get an up close and personal glance at me finding the miracles in MY mess. I’m breaking down how I DID THE WORK.

Here’s what I learned:
✨ A morning routine is now a non-negotiable.
✨ Gratitude. I had to go back and pull up some old lists from the Give Thanks section of my Mommy 2.0 Guide.
✨ Ask for help. I had to reach out to my mentors and coaches and LISTEN to their advice.
✨ I had to Journal my thoughts and feelings and leave them there on the paper.

And a couple other steps you don’t want to skip!

Oh and I’ve got a H U G E announcement in there that you are going to want to hear. Grab your coffee, tea, wine, herbs/edibles, whatever is your pleasure, and get into this episode!

Follow me on IG:

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Join the FREE Mommy 2.0 Challenge:

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Book a session with me and let’s find those miracles in that mess girl!

calendly.com/mommy2point0/minichat

Join us in the Momming @ Home Safe Space. Getting around these like-minded women has literally changed. my. life.

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Aug 05, 202029:03