Mommy Said Daddy Said
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Mommy Said Daddy SaidOct 29, 2022
How To Deal With Unmet Expectations in Marriage
Ine-expect ni Mommy Said na dahil mahal siya ni Daddy Said, palagi siyang pasasayahin nito. Si Daddy Said naman, ine-expect niya na pagkatapos ng kasal, they will live happily ever after. Siguradong halos lahat tayo may mga expectations talaga. Paano kung hindi ito ma-meet ng asawa mo? Masama ba ang mag-expect? O may magandang effect ba ito sa relasyon? ‘Yan ang heart-to-heart conversation natin, ka-MSDS - How to deal with unmet expectations in marriage. Alamin ang mga lessons na natutunan namin tungkol sa unmet expectations. And have your own heart-to-heart conversation rin by doing the challenge. Happily ever after is real, ka-MSDS. One heart-to-heart conversation at a time. Lahat ng bagay, napag-uusapan.
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His Needs, Her Needs Part 5
Mister, nagtataka ka ba kung bakit dine-demand ni misis ang active participation mo sa parenting? Bakit ba big deal sa kanya na tintulungan mo siyang magpalit ng diaper, mag potty train, magturo ng magandang asal, mag-disiplina? Her need for family commitment ang sagot diyan.
Misis, alam mo ba kung bakit naiinis si mister kapag ramdam niya na hindi all-out ang suporta mo sa kanya? Ayaw ni mister na pinangungunahan siya. Ang gusto niya ay ang iyong admiration, approval and appreciation. His need for admiration naman ang sagot diyan.
Join us in this heart-to-heart conversation as we share with you the challenges that we encountered and the lessons that we learned. Find out how were we able to fulfill each other’s need for family commitment and admiration. May challenge kami para sa inyo sa dulo. Use this for your own heart-to-heart conversation towards happily ever after. Laging tandaan, lahat ng bagay, napag-uusapan.
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His Needs, Her Needs Part 4
Ka-MSDS, alam mo ba na ang expectations natin sa isa’t isa ay based sa ating mga needs? Tulad na lamang ng expectations ng mga babae na ang lalaki ang provider sa pamilya at ang babae naman ay ang home manager. Sabi nga, ang lalaki ang haligi, habang ang babae ang ilaw ng tahanan. These are based on our 4th emotional need – financial support for women and domestic support for men. But what if hindi enough yung finances or effort natin? Will you love each other less because your needs are not met? Find out what we did and learned during those challenging times for us. How did we find our happily ever after even when financial and domestic support are lacking. Tara, samahan ninyo kami sa ating heart-to-heart conversation.
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His Needs, Her Needs Part 3
Why is it important for wives to know everything about their husbands? Why is it important for husbands to have an attractive wife? His needs, her needs ang sagot diyan, ka-MSDS. Listen to this podcast and find out the answers to these questions. And of course, we also shared the lessons that we learned from our own experiences. Fulfilling each other’s needs is essential in our happily ever after.
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His Needs, Her Needs Part 2
Bakit nga ba importante ang his needs, her needs? This helps us understand each other more. And when we understand each other more, we know how to love each other better.
Madami kasing situations na hindi natin ma-gets ang isa’t isa. And it points us back to fulfilling each other’s needs. Ano nga ba ang need #2 ni misis at mister? Para kay misis, ito ay conversation. At recreational companionship naman para kay mister. Ano ang ibig sabihin ng mga needs na ito? At higit sa lahat, ano ang mga lessons na natutunan namin ni Daddy Said upang ma-fulfill namin ang needs na ito ng isa’t isa.
‘Yung kahit mahirap para sa amin, sinubukan naming gawin para sa isa’t-isa. Kaya naman we were able to live our happily ever after. Pakinggan ninyo and have your own heart-to-heart conversation in the end, ka-MSDS.
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His Needs, Her Needs (Part 1)
Hello, ka-MSDS! Let’s talk about his needs, her needs. Ang mga pangangailangan ng babae at lalaki sa isang relasyong mag-asawa. Bakit ba importante na mapag-usapan ang mga needs natin? This is because men and women are designed/wired differently. Kaya magkakaiba ang needs/pangangailangan natin.
In this episode, we talked about the #1 need of men and women. For men, it is sexual fulfillment. For women, it is affection. Ano-ano ba ang dalawang ito? How did we experience this in our marriage and what are the lessons that we learned? Tara, samahan ninyo kami sa isang heart-to-heart conversation. At siyempre, do the challenge at the end para kayo rin ay magkaroon ng heart-to-heart conversation. Laging tatandaan na lahat ng bagay, napag-uusapan. Happily ever after is real, one heart-to-heart conversation at a time.
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Things You Do Not Say To Your Wife After Giving Birth
The moment pa lang na pregnant na si misis, may changes at adjustments na kaagad. And more changes and adjustments will happen once baby arrives. In this episode, Mommy Said Daddy Said talks about the things that husbands should not tell their wives who just gave birth. It is better to be forewarned para hindi mo na masabi ito kay misis at masaktan pa ang damdamin niya.
If you are at this stage in your relationship, don’t forget to do the challenge ha. Have your own heart-to-heart conversation, too.
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Nagbago Ka Na
Naisip mo na ba na nagbago ang asawa o partner mo mula noong mag-BF/GF pa lang kayo? Malaki na ba ang ipinagbago niya? Paano kung yung pagbabago eh for the worse, hindi for the better? Naiisip mo rin ba na sana kung sino siya noon eh ganun pa rin siya ngayon? Kasi nga naman, kinilatis at pinili mo yan ng maigi, naglista ka pa ng non-negotiables at sinunod mo ‘yun, nag collect and collect before you select ka rin…tapos magbabago pala?
‘Yan ang heart-to-heart conversation natin ngayon. Ano ang mga pagbabago namin at paano namin hinarap ang mga ito?
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In-Laws
Bukod sa pera at sex, isa sa mga malimit na pagmulan ng away o hindi pagkakaintindihan ng mag-asawa ay ang in-laws. Magkasama man kayo o nakabukod, maaaring magkaroon ng issues with the in-laws. Andiyan ‘yung kapag hindi ikaw ang bet nila para sa anak nila, minsan may mga tactless comments. Pwede rin na ang daming komento o opinyon sa ginagawa ninyo. Ano nga ba ang dapat gawin ng mag-asawa kapag nagkakaroon in issues with the in-laws? O kaya naman, pwede bang maiwasan ang ganitong mga issues? Tara, pag-usapan natin. Gawin din ninyo ang challenge sa dulo para kayo rin ay magkaroon ng heart-to-heart conversation.
Lahat ng bagay, napag-uusapan. Happily ever after is real. One heart-to-heart conversation at a time.
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Ang Pera Ko, Pera Mo
Hindi kami nag-aaway sa pera. Totoo yan. Mula nung kinasal kami, ilang beses na kaming nawalan ng means of income, nagka-utang-utang sa credit card, nauubos ang emergency fund sa kakahintay na magbayad ang client…pero never naming pinag-awayan ang pera. Kahit ang daming Shopee at Lazada deliveries o kaya naman H&M at Uniqlo shopping bags sa bahay, never kami nagalit sa isa’t isa. Bakit? ‘Yan ang pinag-usapan namin sa bagong podcast episode. Ano ang mga lessons at experiences namin sa pag-handle ng finances namin? At higit sa lahat, may mga tanong kami sa dulo para kayo rin, magkaroon ng heart-to-heart conversation.
Happily ever after is real. One heart-to-heart conversation at a time.
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Ano Ang Ambag Mo?
Natatanong mo rin ba ito sa asawa o partner mo? “Ano ang ambag mo?” Naku, may times na ganyan ang naiisip namin noon. Sa mga panahong pagod na pagod ka tapos di tumutulong si Daddy Said sa pag-aalaga ng mga bata. O kaya naman pagod na pagod si Daddy Said, excited umuwi para kumain at makasama sila tapos walang pagkain at masungit si Mommy Said pagdating ng bahay. Talaga namang sa isip namin, ano ba ang ambag niya sa relasyon na ito? Tara, samahan ninyo kami sa isang heart-to-heart conversation tungkol sa ambagan. At sana pakinggan ninyo hanggang dulo para kayo rin, magkaroon ng heart-to-heart conversation.
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Live In Or Not?
Bakit nga ba nagli-live-in ang mga tao ngayon? Madaming dahilan actually. Andiyan yung engaged na, sa kasal din naman kami mapupunta, eh di mag live-in na kami. Mas makikilala pa namin ang isa’t isa. Mas malalaman pa namin kung compatible kami sa isa’t isa. Meron namang hindi naniniwala sa kasal, sa forever. At hindi natin sila masisisi kasi ang dami talagang naghihiwalay ngayon. Pero based sa experience namin, ano nga ba ang mas magandang set-up, mag live-in o huwag na?
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Teaching Kids Responsibility
Kailan nga ba tinuturuan ang mga bata ng responsibility? Sa school o school work lang ba sila tinuturuan nito? Start them young o wait until they are older like 10 and above? At paano tuturuan ng household chores? Kailangan ba na sumunod lang sila because I said so? Kailangan ba may reward sa bawat gagawin nila? Tara, let’s have a heart-to-heart conversation tungkol dito. At gawin ang challenge sa dulo para kayo rin, magkaroon ng heart-to-heart conversation. Laging tandaan, lahat ng bagay napag-uusapan. Happily ever after is real. One heart-to-heart conversation at a time.
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Past Is Past
Kailangang bang malaman ng isa’t isa ang past nila, no holds barred, walang secrets? O pwede ba na leave the past in the past? Hindi na kailangang malaman ang kwento ng mga ex.
Sa isang banda naman, hindi ba kasama sa pag build ng trust sa isa’t isa ang alam mo ang past? Baka mamaya magulat ka na lang sa past niya.
Paano nga ba? Tara, let’s have a heart-to-heart conversation tungkol dito. At gawin ang challenge sa dulo para kayo rin, magkaroon ng heart-to-heart conversation. Laging tandaan, lahat ng bagay napag-uusapan. Happily ever after is real. One heart-to-heart conversation at a time.
Third Party: Affair-Proof Your Relationship
Naalala ko dati, sinabi ko kay Joel na I will never tolerate third party and physical abuse. Ang sagot niya: “The feeling is mutual.” Iniisip namin na when there’s infidelity or abuse in our marriage, quits na. Hiwalayan na. Napakahirap kasi na masira ang trust ninyo sa isa’t isa, di ba? But more than having the fear na may matukso sa aming dalawang, kesa mag overthink kami sa hindi pa nangyayari, we decided to focus on how to affair-proof our relationship. Kaya ba talagang iwasan ito lalo na sa panahon ngayon? How do we strengthen our marriage for it be affair-proof?
Lessons:
1. Become each other’s best friends and safe place.
2. Know your boundaries.
3. Stay away from temptation. Do not play with fire.
4. Stop turning each other into the perfect spouse.
5. Talk a lot.
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Mahalaga Ka Ba?
Tara, let’s have a heart-to-heart conversation about self-worth. Do you like yourself? Do you love yourself? Or do you always tend to focus on your weaknesses and negative self-talk? Do you value yourself? Do you believe that you are worthy of love, affection, care, success?
Our answers to these can help define our self-worth. How do we look at our ourselves? Importante o valuable ka ba? Mahalaga ka ba?
After all these years, ano nga ba ang self-worth para sa amin? What are the lessons that we learned with regards to valuing and loving ourselves?
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Joys Of Learning
If you’re curious about homeschooling, this is the episode for you. A few years after giving birth to Zia, we were introduced to homeschooling through our mentor Bro. Bo Sanchez. We were curious and we started reading about it. We even attended a seminar which really helped us in making the decision to homeschool. Seven years into formally homeschooling our children, ano-ano nga ba ang natutunan namin?
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The More, The Merrier
More parenting tips are in this episode. Once we started building our family, every 2 or 3 years, we have a new blessing, a child. Syempre each time we find out na pregnant kami, we were ecstatic with joy. But to be honest, there were moments na inisip rin namin kung kaya ba namin. Not just the financial aspect but the responsibility of parenting. ‘Yung nurturing a person, guiding him or her into who God created him or her to become. Ang hirap kaya nun! Kaya ba natin???
Now that we have been parenting multiple kids, 3 girls to be exact, for the past 7 years, what experiences have we gone through and what lessons have we learned so far? Lessons: 1. Do not compare. 2. Do not play favorites. 3. Check the labels that you give your children. 4. Be present in your children’s lives. 5. God provides. Experience happily ever after, one heart-to-heart conversation at a time.
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Bebe Ko: Lessons as First-Time Parents
This episode is for first-time parents and spouses who are already talking about having kids. Ilang kids ang gusto natin? Paano ang spacing? Paano natin sila palalakihin? Here, we have a heart-to-heart conversation about the realities of parenting, especially first-time parents. We also mentioned important notes for singles out there. :)
Experience happily ever after, one heart-to-heart conversation at a time.
Let's Talk About Sex
Kamusta ang sex life ninyong mag-asawa ngayon? In our 15 years of marriage, may panahon na sagana, may panahon na tigang, may panahon na unahan sa pag-initiate, meron namang nare-reject. We’ve been through all of those. And now that we get to talk to other married people, we see na may struggles din sila sa sex life nila. At yun ang pagku-kwentuhan natin ngayon: Our sex life and the lessons that we have learned from it. Join us in this heart-to-heart conversation, and share it with your family and friends.
Lessons:
1. Sex allows you to grow in intimacy.
2. Sex should be a mutual decision, mutual fulfillment and mutual sacrifice.
3. Sex is a beautiful expression of love.
4. Embrace the changes or seasons in your sex life.
5. Sex is a gift from God.
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Life Lessons and Family Vacations
Lessons:
We do not and cannot control everything.
We can stand the heat.
Vacation is taking care of the kids in a different location.
Make memories every day.
Money cannot buy happiness.
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Tiwala Lang
May tiwala ba kayo sa isa’t isa? O puno ng selos ang inyong relasyon? Bakit ka nagseselos? May dahilan ba para magselos? Bakit takot kang magtiwala? Paano nga ba mag-build ng trust?
Naniniwala kami na trust is essential in relationships. May nakita ka na bang successful relationship wherein the people involved do not trust each other? Wala di ba? This only shows how crucial it is to trust each other.
Lessons
- Match your words with actions.
- Honesty is the best policy.
- Be accountable and transparent.
- Respect each other/Forgive each other.
- Open communication is the key.
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YOLO: You Only Live Once
Alam mo ba yung YOLO – You Only Live Once? Totoo naman, di ba? We only live once kaya we must make it count. We must live life to the fullest. Pero ano nga ba ang ibig sabihin ng living life to the fullest, lalo na kapag single ka? How do you live life to the fullest?
Lessons:
- Have a strong sense of who you are. Celebrate you. Love yourself.
- Take risks. Do not be afraid of failure or setbacks.
- Live in the present moment, not in the past nor in the future.
- Find your tribe. Surround yourself with the right people.
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Work, Work, Work
We spend a huge amount of our lives/day-to-day towards work di ba? Nakakaramdam ka ba ng burnout? O kaya yung sobrang routinary na, autopilot na, wala ng buhay. Ganun ba ang work, para kumita lang? Basta malaki ang sahod, ok na kahit hindi ka masaya?? Here, we had a heart-to-heart conversation all about work. How do we find joy and meaning at work?
Lessons:
1. Know your big why.
2. Work is not your entire life.
3. Choose a job you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life.
4. Don’t wait for work-life balance to happen. Make it happen.
5. You always have a choice.
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Ikaw Na Ba Si Mr./Ms. Right?
Hinahanap mo ba si Mr./Ms. Right ng buhay mo? We reminisce a time in our singlehood when we searched for love. Find out how we did it and most importantly, the lessons that we learned in our search for One True Love.
Listen until the end for the challenge. Do it and share it with us.
Lessons:
1. Have a list of non-negotiables and negotiables.
2. Get to know each other really, really well.
3. Never rush the getting to know you stage. Kilalanin at kilatising mabuti.
4. Enjoy the wait. You can find happiness in the waiting.
5. Pray to God. A lot.
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Kung Maibabalik Ko Lang
Happy Feb-Ibig, ka-MSDS! For this month, we will be talking about our single life. Paano kami noong singlehood namin? What were our priorities, perspectives, and activities? Looking back, we realized that there are certain lessons that we wish we knew as early as singlehood. It both took us a while to know the importance of these lessons. We’re sharing it with all of you in this heart-to-heart conversation in the hopes that you will also reflect and learn a thing or two. Don’t forget to do the challenge at the end!
P.S. If you are already married or in a relationship, join the conversation, too. This is a great time to look back, reflect and share.
Lessons.
1. Don’t find your worth in others. You already are worthy.
2. Become financially literate.
3. Don’t be afraid to explore and try new things (career, friendships, etc.).
4. Prepare for the future.
5. Happiness and love are decisions we make, hindi emosyon lang.
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#HeartToHeart
#PusoSaPuso
#HappilyEverAfter
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#couplegoals
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Kung Malaya Lang Ako
Kamusta ang New Year ninyo? Grabe ‘yung COVID surge pagpasok ng taon. Like us, did you become part of the statistic, tinamaan ka rin ba ni Omicron? COVID entered our home as we ushered in the new year. And during our 14-day quarantine, what lessons did we learn from this experience?
This is not all about health measures and safety protocols ha. This is all about our realizations when facing challenges in life. Yes, being sick with COVID was a challenge that we faced together – as a couple and as a family.
Lessons.
- Walang sisihan, sa halip ay magtulungan.
- Harapin mo, magpakatotoo ka.
- Ask for help. Get help. Receive help.
- Take responsibility. Take action.
- Look for the silver lining. Blessing-in-disguise ito.
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Bagong Taon ay Magbagong Buhay
Gumagawa ka pa ba ng New Year’s resolution? Mommy Agirl and Daddy Joel talked about how to plan for the year through a New Year’s resolution, dream board or one-word goal. And more importantly, we had a heart-to-heart conversation about gratitude. What is gratitude? How does it change us and our situation? Why should we be more grateful and how can we become more grateful? Isang masayang usapan na puno ng sharings, lessons at inspiration! Join our conversation and do the challenge (we have 3 challenges in this episode!) to experience your happily ever after, too.
Lessons.
WHY DO WE NEED TO BE MORE GRATEFUL
- Gratitude makes you healthy.
- Gratitude makes you generous, helpful and empathic.
- Gratitude allows you to impact the life of others.
- Gratitude makes you less attached to material things.
- Gratitude makes you happy.
HOW CAN WE BE MORE GRATEFUL
- Start and end your day with gratitude.
- Be grateful not just for the big things, be grateful even for the smallest things.
- Be grateful even in the not so good/difficult situations.
- Do volunteer work and outreach for the poor.
- Surround yourself with grateful people.
- Be grateful to yourself.
- Be grateful to God.
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Christmas In Our Hearts
It’s the time of celebrations and reunions as we look forward to the coming of Jesus Christ! Let us share with you our own experiences during Christmas season and the lessons that we have learned from Jesus, Mary and Joseph as they celebrated the first Christmas – Jesus’ birth. Have a merry Christmas, ka-MSDS!
Lessons:
- God’s Plan Is Much, Much Bigger Than Ours.
- A Door Will Always Open for Us if We Just Knock.
- Home Is Where the Heart Is.
- The Journey May Be Difficult, but It Will Be Worth It.
- Jesus is the reason for the season.
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Away Bati
MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK. ANG PAG-AASAWA AY HINDI PARANG KANING ISUSUBO NA KAPAG NAPASO EH ILULUWA MO. Such cliches, but oh so true! We had our fair share of issues. And we know that we will still face issues, challenges and struggles in the future. Here’s a look at the common issues that spouses face. We also talked about the issues that we faced in our marriage. And more importantly, we shared about the lessons that we learned. Yes, marriage takes hard work. But happily ever after is real and we are experiencing it now. Our hope is that every couple experiences their happily ever after, one heart-to-heart conversation at a time.
Lessons.
1. There’s no perfect marriage. It is normal to have issues.
2. Stop blaming each other.
3. Don’t focus on the issue, focus on the solution.
4. Forgive and learn the lesson.
5. Lahat talaga napag-uusapan.
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Hari At Reyna
Sa relasyon, kailangan may leader at may taga-sunod. Lead and submit. But how come this is not easy to do all the time? We reminisce about the time when we both had the wrong idea about leadership and submission in marriage. Daddy Said enjoyed calling the shots, utos dito, utos doon.. Siya ang leader eh! While Mommy Said had a hard time submitting because it made her feel like a slave or servant. How did we cope up at this season in our marriage? How did leadership and submission become right for both of us? Tara, let’s have a heart-to-heart conversation, ka-MSDS.
Lessons.
- Lead with love. Submit with respect.
- Love is sacrifice.
- Give and take.
- Know what real love is.
- Decide on what are most important for your marriage.
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Bahay-Bahayan
Kapag nag-asawa na, excited na sa pagbuo ng sariling pamilya. Pero ano ba ang ideal na set-up, ang pumisan o bumukod sa in-laws? In this heart-to-heart conversation, join us as we share about our experiences and lessons regarding this topic. What does it really mean to leave and cleave? Ano-ano ang mga advantages at disadvantages nito?
Lessons.
1. Redefine who your immediate family is.
2. Make your marriage a priority.
3. You become more responsible, mature individuals.
4. You become more united as a couple.
5. You get to know each other better as you are in a new chapter of your life.
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How I Made My Husband Do The Household Chores
Did you know that a lot of couples have disagreements about household chores? Joel and I were one of those couples. I found myself getting angry at him for not helping at home. And Joel will be clueless as to why I am giving him the silent treatment or bakit nagdadabog na ako.
Who should do what? Are household chores for women only? What will you do if your spouse does not do household chores? How will you make him/her help around the house?
Find out how we found the answers to these questions with another heart-to-heart conversation. And if you are going through the same thing right now, be sure to listen until the challenge. Have your own heart-to-heart conversation. :)
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Lesson #1. Pag-usapan.
Lesson #2. Ask for help.
Lesson #3. Hindi palaging 50/50.
Lesson #4. Teamwork.
Lesson #5. Doing chores as an expression of love.
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Say Yes To Me, And I'll Court You Forever
Do you still date each other? We remember a season in our marriage when we stopped dating. The kids started arriving, we had no helper, we both have full-time jobs aside from ministry work and we were just exhausted with our day-to-day. We no longer had the energy nor the time to date each other. UNTIL we suffered RELATIONSHIP DRIFT. We drifted apart, we got easily irritated with each other, we lost the connection because we made parenting our first priority.
Join us in another heart-to-heart conversation as we share with you our own experiences and the lessons that we learned. How did we start dating again with 3 kids, no helper and tons of work?
Lesson #1. Money should not be an issue. Hindi kailangang mahal/magastos para makapag-date kayo.
Lesson #2. Put each other first before the kids.
Lesson #3. Have fun together.
Lesson #4. Be intentional. Make time for regular dates.
Lesson #5. Have a conversation. Talk with each other.
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How Do I Love Thee?
Do you ever wonder why people still feel unloved even if they are in a relationship? Or ‘yung binigay mo na ang 100% pero kulang pa para sa minamahal mo?
We both felt this way. Like there were times when Joel gave me flowers, yet I would blurt out, “bakit, ano’ng meron?” or worse “naawa ka ba sa nagtitinda kaya mo ako binilhan ng flowers?” (Sorry!) Or when Joel would request for a massage, yet I would feel that he is so pabebe.
We felt the disconnect somewhere. And we asked each other, “How Do I Love Thee?” There were indeed countless ways but each had a different effect in our hearts. I feel most loved when I am given undivided attention. Joel feels my love the most when I serve him. This was the time when we learned about LOVE LANGUAGES and how important it is.
Lesson #1. Love the other person the way he or she wants to be loved.
Lesson #2. Be grateful. Stay grateful. Live grateful.
Lesson #3 Keep on getting to know each other.
Lesson #4 Love is not just a feeling nor an emotion. Love is a decision.
Lesson #5: When you know your love language, do not force the other one to do it for you. Kasi love is self-less and unconditional.
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Help! I Married the Wrong Person!!!
Did you ever think na mali ang napakasalan mo? Or did you ever feel that you wanted to change certain attitudes in your spouse? Sana ganito siya, dapat ganyan siya…
Joel and I felt this way in our marriage. One by one, our differences were coming out. And we became so focused on each other’s weaknesses or ‘yung mga bagay na ayaw namin sa isa’t-isa. And yes, we wanted to change each other so badly.
The more that we wanted to change each other, the more that we drifted apart, the more unhappy we became. Until we realized the following lessons:
1. Accept and appreciate one another.
2. Develop self-awareness.
3. Work on yourself.
4. Love is about what you give, not what you receive.
5. You can never change your spouse. You can only change yourself.
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Usapang Kasalan
Almost 15 years ago, we tied the knot with an intimate church wedding. Wala pang pandemic noon at nagulat din kami na mayroon palang intimate church wedding. Join us in our heart-to-heart conversation as we share with you our BF-GF journey, the proposal (na madaming bloopers! haha), and the hows and whys of the intimate wedding. Listen in to find out the lessons that we learned from this experience plus there’s an exciting challenge at the end!
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Communication 101
We were best of friends for 12 years, but when we got married, communication was our biggest problem. We could not understand each other, and this was causing us to feel unloved. Not to mention the personality differences that we found out after getting married. Totoo pala na hindi mo makikilala ng lubusan ang isang tao hangga’t hindi kayo magkasama sa iisang bahay. How did we learn to communicate best with each other?
In this heart-to-heart conversation, Mommy Said Daddy Said answered the following questions:
1. How were we communicating at the beginning of our marriage?
2. What were the effects of #1 in our marriage?
3. What lessons regarding communication did we learn from our experiences?
4. What are the effects of communicating better?
Bottom line: When we started communicating better, our marriage became better...and we are living happily ever after.
We also left a challenge just for you! Do this with your special someone and see how your relationship will flourish.
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Who, What and Why
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YOUR SUPERPOWER
"Jesus summoned his Twelve disciples and gave them authority over unclean spirits to drive them out and to cure every disease and every illness."
SUPERPOWER
If you can have one superpower, what will it be?
What will you do with your superpower?
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CRAB MENTALITY
Let's talk about crab mentality. Do you have this? How do you overcome this way of thinking? And how do you deal with people who have crab mentality?
Hope this episode blesses you today. :)
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FEELING SMALL
Do you sometimes feel small or 'yung tinatawag na inferiority complex? Why do we feel small? How can we stop feeling small?
Hope this heart-to-heart conversation blesses you. Kindly like and share if it does. Thank you. :)
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ANO ANG TAYA MO?
"THE HARVEST IS RICH, BUT THE LABORERS ARE FEW."
ANO ANG TAYA MO?
1. What are you willing to do to take part in the harvest?
2. How will you be ready for discipleship?
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MISSION IMPOSSIBLE
Let's have a heart-to-heart conversation about MISSION IMPOSSIBLE.
1. Have you experienced the impossible turned into possible?
2. How far can your faith take you?
Excited na ulit kaming makipag-kwentuhan sa inyo.
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EVERYDAY MIRACLES
Listen in as we have a heart-to-heart conversation about the miracles that we have experienced and are looking forward to. How can we experience our daily miracles? Is there a way to be aware of the miracles that are happening in our lives? Do miracles happen when we are experiencing a storm in our life?
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A MILLION DREAMS
Ang sarap mangarap, di ba? But with the busyness of family life, do you still have dreams for yourself? And as parents, do you have dreams for your children?
Tara ulit sa ating heart-to-heart conversation. Magkwentuhan tayo tungkol sa ating mga pangarap.
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MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL
When things go wrong, who's to blame? Do you easily find fault in others?
Pag-usapan natin sa heart-to-heart conversation. See you all again as we start another blessed week!
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BREAKING RULES
Listen to this heart-to-heart conversation about breaking the rules or disobedience. Why do we disobey? How can we stop from breaking the rules? And what are the benefits of obedience?
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Salt & Light
One of the happiest episodes of Mommy Said Daddy Said! Lots of laughter and a bit of crying as we reflected on the Gospel verse “You are the salt of the earth. But if salt loses its taste, with what can it be seasoned?"
Here, we talked about our gifts. What is your gift? How can you grow your gifts? Plus, a special advice from Mommy Agirl to all the moms out there who put their dreams on the backseat as they care and nurture their families.
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