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Monogamish

By Monogamish Pod
Welcome to our podcast!
Here, we talk about ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and polyamory (polyam) through a Black Caribbean lens.
We use our own experiences, those of our guests and pop culture news items to discuss any and everything related to non-monogamy.
We are NOT experts and NOT trained in therapy, etc but we will post links to essays, articles and other points of information that may be smarter than we are.
Our detailed show notes are on our website.
Hope you enjoy.
xoxo


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Episode 02-12: The Real Mr. Grey
This week, we talk about the movie Secretary starring Maggie Gyllenhaal, James Spader and other people. BOY do we have some thoughts? Haven't seen the movie? Just need a refresher or are an avid re-watcher? This episode is for you! Check out the movie trailer HERE. Poly Dallas Millennium 2020 is happening November 6-8, 2020 and Jhen is hosting the Friday night opening ceremony along with Pages Matam aka Sir Wolfgang. Do you wanna be a part of this amazing 3 day event? Sign up TODAY using THIS LINK. This week's episode is brought to you by Altplayground and we happen to have a tour bus that's going to take Front Porch Swingers ON THE ROAD!. Sign up today at Altplayground.net and follow their socials to find out more information about this amazing endeavour. We host this podcast using Anchor and post the 3 most recent episodes on Soundcloud. You can find us everywhere you get your pods so please look us up and Rate, Review & Subscribe/Follow to keep us in the toppa top. If you want to support this podcast and get free shit along the way, you should definitely go to our Patreon and get bonus content. Otherwise, you can throw some money at us via Anchor Support or be buying the amazing merch from the Merch Shop. It's cuffin season so get those sweatshirts and hoodies ASAP! Not able to spend any money? We totally understand. Tell a friend about us! RT/Share/Like --- all of that goes way further than you think.. You should also be following us on Twitter and Instagram because we really try to engage with everyone there. Sham rules Twitter right now and Jhen is all about the Instagram due to her Canva obsession.  You can also check out our friends at YuhTooBright and use code "Monogamish" for 10% off your order! Check them out today because the clothes are legit!
1:15:17
October 21, 2020
Episode 02-11: PolyKink Level 2
On this week's episode we talk to Zach & Intimacy about kink! Zach AND Intimacy have both been guests of ours before and so we were HYPE to have this conversation. You can find Zach on Instagram, Twitter, the ABM Podcast, Episode 01-28, Episode 02-08, FetLife name: Invictuz, ConsentWarrior.com Intimacy can be found on Instagram, Twitter, Episode 02-05, (They really are EVERYWHERE as PolyFreeLove), FetLife name: TexasLadyOfLove This week's episode is brought to you by Altplayground. Sign up today at Altplayground.net and click with us. We host this podcast using Anchor and post the 3 most recent episodes on Soundcloud. You can find us everywhere you get your pods so please look us up and Rate, Review & Subscribe/Follow to make us feel good. If you want to support this podcast in a big way, you should definitely go to our Patreon and get bonus content, throw some money at us via Anchor Support or by buying the amazing merch from the Merch Shop. Not able to spend any money? We totally understand. Tell a friend about us! RT/Share/Like --- all of that goes a long way. You should also be following us on Twitter and Instagram because we really try to engage with everyone there. Poly Dallas Millennium 2020 is happening November 6-8, 2020 and Jhen is hosting the Friday night opening ceremony along with Pages Matam aka Sir Wolfgang. Do you wanna be a part of this amazing 3 day event? Sign up TODAY using THIS LINK. You can also check out our friends at YuhTooBright and use code "Monogamish" for 10% off your order! Check them out today! See you next week when we tackle Kink/BDSM in movies/tv shows. Xoxo
1:46:09
October 14, 2020
Episode 02-10: Let's Get Kinky!
Did you ever want to know about kink? What a coincidence! We do too! On this first Wednesday of Kinktober, we searched around the internet for definitions of Kink and explanations of different kinds of Kinks. While recording this episode, we realised that we didn't REALLY know what kink was. Of course we've all watched movies and seen clips with kinky things happening BUT did we really know what kink was? Absolutely not. Lucky for us, next week we'll have actual experts to talk to. Until then...well you decide how we did. And now...a message from Jhen directly: Poly Dallas Millennium 2020 is happening November 6-8, 2020 and I am hosting the Friday night opening ceremony along with Pages Matam aka Sir Wolfgang. Do you wanna be a part of this amazing 3 day event AND get a ticket for $50? Sign up TODAY using THIS LINK. The Special $50 sale ends October 7, 2020 (literally the day this episode drops) soooo get at it. This week's episode is of course, sponsored by Altplayground. Sign up today at Altplayground.net and join our community. We host this podcast using Anchor and post the 3 most recent episodes on Soundcloud. You can find us everywhere you get your pods so don't be afraid to look us up and Rate, Review & Subscribe/Follow to make us feel good. If you want to support this podcast in a big way, you can find us on Patreon and get bonus content, throw some money at us via Anchor Support or by buying our lovely merch from the Merch Shop. Not able to spend your dollars? We get it. It's Da Rona! Tell a friend about us! RT/Share/Like --- all of that goes a long way. You should also be following us on Twitter and Instagram because...well, just because.
1:15:26
October 7, 2020
Episode 02-09: Public, Private and PDM
On this week's episode, we talk a bit about pop culture news & things from our previous episodes about consent and what's to come for the rest of the year. We also play audio from an interview that Jhen did with the co-organizers of Poly Dallas Millennium 2020. Detailed show notes for this episode is on our website. Jhen interviewed Ruby Johnson, CEO & Founder of Poly Dallas Millennium and Charita Marie, co-organizer of Poly Dallas Millennium 2020. They talk about the history of PDM, what previous stagings have been like and what will be happening this year. The audio is in the episode directly but if you want to see their beautiful faces, you can watch on our YouTube Channel HERE. September 30th is the LAST DAY to get the discounted tickets for PDM's 2020 staging. Want to get those tickets on the cheap? Buy your ticket TODAY at bit.ly/open2love Jhen also has a new podcast venture called The Blachelorettes which she hosts with her other pod partner Lex. You can find them everywhere you get your pods but start on Twitter, Instagram and Anchor. Special shout out to Altplayground for sponsoring this episode! Sign up at altplayground.net today to join our community and connect with more podcasters and lifestyle people. Our friends at Yuh Too Bright! are offering Monogamish Pod listeners 10% off their order. Wanna take advantage of it? Go to yuhtoobright.com and use code "Monogamish" Thanks Anchor for hosting our podcast. We put the latest 3 episodes up on SoundCloud and we are always available on the socials on Twitter and Instagram. Find us on Patreon and support us for as low as $3 and get access to some exclusive content just for patrons. You can also support us financially on anchor by pressing the Support button. Our merch shop is OPEN! Hit us up on monogamishpod.com and press "Shop" or go directly to monogamishpod.threadless.com and get you some thangs That's all she wrote. Xoxo
53:54
September 30, 2020
Episode 02-08: Let's Get Consent!
This week, because September is Consent Month, we bring back Zach Budd who is a friend of the podcast & a consent educator! Zach was previously on Episode 01-28: PolyKink 101 - Z Marks The Spot. He's been a consent educator for 4 years You can find Zach on Twitter, Instagram, His Website or The A.B.M. Podcast Detailed shownotes for this episode is on our website Follow us on the socials to keep in touch with us! Check us out on Twitter and Instagram & see what vaguely cool thing we're doing or saying. Support us on Patreon and get tons of bonus content including special episodes, bloopers, merch & more. If you wanna just give us moolah for being awesome, you can hit us up on Anchor. Jhen has even been making some tweaks to the website so you may have noticed some new pages on our website including our Merch Shop & our Guest Appearances pages. We're trynna get the Youtube up & running so follow us there in advance so you will be the first to know when we start doing video. Check out the 3 most recent episodes on SoundCloud (which Sham updates) & leave a lovely review and rate us on Apple Podcasts if you please. All our episodes can be found on Anchor.fm though since we host there. If you can't get enough Jhen, you can find her at her other podcast - The Blachelorettes - which is a reality dating show podcast she has started with her friend Lex. You can find them on Twitter and Instagram as well so don't forget to follow there Check out our friends at Yuh Too Bright! and save some schmoney using code "Monogamish" to get 10% off your order Special thanks to Altplayground for sponsoring us. You can find us, and all the other users from the sexy sites they have managed to aquire at altplayground.net Don't forget Poly Dallas Millennium is happening Nov 6-8, 2020. They still have discounted tickets on sale but that ends on Sept 30, 2020. If you wanna get those $50 tickets for the 3 days, sign up now at bit.ly/open2love.
1:43:45
September 23, 2020
Episode 02-07: Consent & The Digital Get Down
This week, we talk to Cherí Calico Roman and Pages Matam about consent, how to keep virtual sex spicy and more. We also use the intro to talk a bit about America's Dick and Bella Thorne breaking OnlyFans. As always, you can reach us on Twitter and Instagram where we post things. We would love for you to support us on Patreon to get tons of bonus content or Anchor just to show some love.   Check out detailed show notes for this episode HERE Big up to Anchor.fm for allowing us to host the podcast there and distributing it for us where it needs to go.   Special thanks to Altplayground for sponsoring us. Check out the Big Wall feature, their podcast corner and our community at altplayground.net  We upload the latest episodes on SoundCloud so you can always see the 3 most recent episodes there.  Thank you everybody who listens to us and shares us with their friends.  We are available wherever people get their podcasts but if you use Apple Podcasts, please make sure to rate, review & subscribe to us there so we look awesome in the rankings.   You can reach Cheri on Instagram & Facebook and Pages can be found on Twitter and Instagram and his website. Sign up for the PCDA Virtual Consent Summit for free HERE. You can still sign up for Poly Dallas Millennium! Register today to lock in a special discounted rate and tell a friend so they can join you there. Yuh Too Bright! (YTB!) is a clothing line that our friends are putting out and launch day is September 19, 2020! Check em out and tell them we sent you with code Monogamish for 10% off your order on their website. You can follow them on Instagram to get more info too.
1:35:53
September 16, 2020
Episode 02-06: Conversations
On this week's episode, we keep things sorta light and just talk about some articles and things. We discuss previous episodes and events that have already happened and offer some teasers for what's coming soon for us on the podcast as well as out there in the online conference space. You can find the detailed show notes for this episode here. BTW We are still looking for people to be featured on the podcast! Right now we are looking for Triads and Swingers If you are interested, link up with on Twitter, Instagram or via Email. Big up everybody who listens to us and shares us with their friends. We are available wherever people get their podcasts but if you use Apple Podcasts, please make sure to rate, review & subscribe to us there so we look awesome in the rankings. We have the 3 most recent episodes up on SoundCloud as well so you can look out for us there. We would love for you to support us on Patreon to get tons of bonus content or Anchor just to show some love. As always, thanks to Anchor.fm for hosting and to Altplayground for sponsoring our podcast! You can check out our community and be one of us by signing up on altplayground.net
1:04:33
September 9, 2020
Episode 02-05: Asexuality and Polyamory
This week we have yet another interview in which we hear from Intimacy about their journey in polyamory, being Two-Spirit and about their asexuality. CW: We do discuss sexual assault in this episode and we will put the time stamps below for that when it appears in the episode. The conversation appears 34mins to 37mins in on platforms without the Anchor ad and at 35:32 to 38:05 on platforms with the Anchor ad. Want to know where to find Intimacy? You can reach out to them on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook. They can also be found on Snapchat and Tiktok as polyfreelove. You can find our detailed show notes for this episode here. Thanks to everyone who listens to us and shares us with their friends. We are available wherever people get their podcasts but if you use Apple Podcasts, please make sure to rate, review & subscribe to us there so we look cool in the rankings. We do put our most recent episodes on SoundCloud as well so you can look out for that. As always, thanks to Anchor.fm for hosting and to Altplayground for sponsoring our podcast! You can check out our community and be one of us by signing up on altplayground.net We would also absolutely love for you to support us on Patreon to get tons of bonus content or Anchor just to show some love. We are still looking for people to be featured on the podcast! We have posted on our social medias about our search so we're shouting it out in the episode too! We're looking for Triads and Swingers right now. If you are interested, link up with on Twitter, Instagram or via Email. We would love for you to support us on Patreon to get tons of bonus content or Anchor just to show some love.
1:15:30
September 2, 2020
Episode 02-04: Aromantic and Polyamorous
In this week's episode, we talk to Monogamish Pod superfan Vanilla Rose about being polyamorous and aromantic. This was an amazing interview and we could just listen to Vee talk forever. We know you'll love her. Wanna know where to find Vanilla Rose? Hit her up on Facebook Messenger (no friend requests!) and Twitter Ratings to Anchor for allowing us to host there. Check out the detailed show notes that Jhen wrote on our website. The episode is also embedded in the page so you can listen to the audio and read the show notes at the same time. Follow us on Twitter and Instagram to see all the stuff we post and to be a part of the conversation. Support us on Patreon where we post bonus content and behind the scenes things for you to enjoy, including bonus episodes where we get more personal. Special thanks to our sponsor Altplayground. Sign up for Altplayground.net today and join our community where you can see content exclusively for Altplayground members and also take advantage of the videochatting feature so you can have your own digital get down. 
1:31:27
August 26, 2020
Episode 02-03: Labrish (The Catchup pt.2)
Labrish: to gossip or chit-chat. While we aren't gossiping, we are having a chat about what's going on in the world of non-monogamy through some articles and tweets the past couple of weeks and sharing our thoughts. As always, big up to Anchor for allowing us to host there. Check out the detailed show notes on our website. You can also listen to the episode on the same page as the show notes so that's awesome. Follow us on Twitter and Instagram to see all the stuff we post and to be a part of the conversation. Support us on Patreon where we post bonus content and behind the scenes things for you to enjoy, including details you won't hear anywhere else. Special thanks to our sponsor Altplayground. Sign up for Altplayground.net today and join our community where you can see content exclusively for Altplayground members and take advantage of easy listening using the podcast corner.
1:08:59
August 19, 2020
Episode 02-02: In The Cut (ft. Ruby Bouie Johnson)
On this week's episode, we talk about some news that came out last week and air our interview with Ruby Bouie Johnson which was recorded on July 4, 2020. We talk about her journey in polyam, being a sex therapist & also a bit about her event Poly Dallas Millennium (PDM). Big up to Anchor for allowing us to host there. Check out the detailed show notes on our website. Follow us on Twitter and Instagram to further the conversation. Support us on Patreon where we post bonus content and behind the scenes stuff for you to enjoy. Special thanks to our sponsor Altplayground. Sign up for Altplayground.net today and join our community where you can see sexy content exclusively for Altplayground members. Where can you find Ruby? Twitter Instagram Email Poly Dallas Millennium Website PDM Twitter PDM Instagram PDM Facebook Poly Dallas Millennium is set to take place on November 6-8, 2020 online! Tickets on sale August 15, 2020. Wanna cut the line and get your tickets now? HERE YOU GO
1:26:48
August 12, 2020
Episode 02-01: MonoPoly
Welcome back for Season 2! This week we're talking about Mono/Poly relationships and whether or not they can really work. We have some interview clips in with guests such as Saint Lala, Mai & Adam and Megan from the Wonder Thots with Megan Podcast. Big up to Anchor for allowing us to host there. Check out the detailed show notes on our website. Follow us on Twitter and Instagram to further the conversation. Support us on Patreon where we post tons of bonus content and behind the scenes stuff for you to enjoy. Special thanks to our sponsor Altplayground. Sign up for Altplayground.net today and join our community where you can see sexy content exclusively for Altplayground members. Where can you find our guests? Saint Lala: Instagram, Facebook Adam&Mai: Twitter, Instagram, The App she works for Megan: Instagram, Twitter, Spotify link for Podcast
1:04:29
August 5, 2020
Bonus: Entanglement? (Episode 01-32)
Happy Saturday! This was supposed to be a short bonus episode to tide you guys over through the last bit of our hiatus but well...it kinda got away from us lol. People have been asking us what we think about the August/Jada/Will situation and this episode is almost exclusively about that with some other random tidbits at the end.  We want to big up our sponsor AltPlayground and invite you to check them out on AltPlayground.net. As usual we big up Anchor for hosting our pod and we encourage you to check our website for all your detailed show notes. We love when you interact with us on Twitter and be all over our Instagram. Did we mention we have a Patreon? It's chock full of bonus content just for our patrons. Join us today and be anything from a Friend to a Lover. :wink wink:
51:14
July 18, 2020
Episode 30.5 (01-31): Mothering, Poly and Work ft. Kyisha
First thing's first, we're happy to announce that Alt Playground is a sponsor for the podcast! You can check out their site HERE. As always you can find us on Twitter, Instagram and subscribe to our Patreon for bonus episodes and behind the scenes content. Don't forget to rate, review & subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts and share us with your friends. Detailed show notes can be found on our brand spanking new website monogamishpod.com so don't forget to look at it! Til you do, here's a snippet of what happened. Jhen and Sham have a long conversation about the August Alsina, Jada Pinkett-Smith and Will Smith situation. Well, Jhen rambles a lot and says things. We sat down and have a conversation with Kyisha Williams who is an actress, filmmaker, public health professional, mother AND is polyamorous. *whew* You can find Kyisha on Twitter, Instagram, Patreon, her website and you can also send her some moneys on the PayPal.
1:21:00
July 4, 2020
Episode 01-30: Dirty Talk With Delilah & Hiatus
Hello Peeps! We were on DRTY Talk wit Deliah DuBois last week and so we have the recording from that conversation here for your listening pleasure if you missed us on the IG Live. THIS is the link to Delilah's YouTube where she posts the videos. You can also see the video still on IG TV on her page and the link to that is HERE We also want to tell you that we are going on a brief hiatus after this episode. *cues boos* WE KNOW! We will still be recording content and may have some super special episodes that will drop during this period but we will be back in your ear holes on August 5, 2020. Hopefully the world will be less implodey then. We wanna thank you so much for the continued support as we get our fledgling pod off the ground. Big up Anchor for hosting, our Wordpress site and to all the followers on Twitter and Instagram. We have also started a Patreon! If you are able to support us there, that would be great. We have tons of content only for patrons that will be available. Honestly, all the ways to find us for the most part are HERE so don't be afraid to reach out and holla. Don't forget to rate, review & subscribe to us everywhere it's allowed and we love 5 stars so do that.   Until next time! Xoxo
1:18:32
June 17, 2020
Episode 01-29: Monogamish Minisode
Welcome to this Monogamish Minisode! Our episode is shorter today because we are going to be on Dirty Talk with Delilah tonight! Tune into Delilah DuBois' IG to watch us talk about the pod and polyamory. We're on at 9:30pm EST/8:30pm CST (JA Time)/6:30pm PST. As always, rate review and subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts. 5 Star please. Follow us on Instagram and Twitter! We've also started a Patreon! Support us on Patreon and help us make amazing content!!!! Our show notes are always on our Wordpress site and Anchor has been hosting us since day one so big dem up to. Topics covered this week: Jhen & Sham catch up, JA happenings, Non-Monogamy on TV, J.K. Rowling being a fuckhead and BLM.
32:06
June 10, 2020
Episode 01-28: PolyKink 101 - Z Marks The Spot
We debated long and hard about releasing an episode this week but we ultimately decided that it is just as important to share our work, our lives and our joy as it is to shine a light on the systematic oppression of Black people and to fight for our lives and our freedom. We are with the protesters putting their bodies on the line to fight for us. We are with the organisers who are doing the work behind the scenes. We are with those who are unable to go out there and protest but are donating money and resources. #BlackLivesMatter On today's episode of the podcast we talked to a polyamorous dominant and consent educator about his journey in polyamory, kink and how the two intersect. Zach was a really great guest who shared some amazing information with us and we will definitely be having him back next season. You can find him on his Twitter page and also on his Facebook page. As always, we love it when you share us with your friends! Check out our Twitter and Instagram pages. Anchor hosts our podcast (but you can find us everywhere you get your pods) and the Wordpress allows us to share resources and our show notes. Rate, Review and Subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts too. Star us up!
1:20:43
June 3, 2020
Episode 01-27: Jhen & Sham's Monogamous Reunion
Whew! That was fast right? We're back again with our latest episode and it's just us two! We go through our TV catch up before we dive a bit deeper into our non-monogamous journey, where we are now and what we want for the future. We ARE going on hiatus soon for a a few weeks to get some rest and get some new great content together for you guys but we will let you know when exactly that is going to happen. As always, we want you to Rate, Review & Subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts and give our Twitter and Instagram pages some love. Anchor is the bomb for hosting out podcast AND Wordpress is dope for letting us work on these show notes and posting other great resources on there.
1:04:55
May 27, 2020
Episode 01-26: Are Black People Allowed? (ft. Black Poly Pride)
Hey Hey Hey! This week's episode comes on a special day ! There is no Black Poly Pride town hall this week BUT we got the co-founders right here for an interview! You can find them on Instagram, Twitter, Patreon, Facebook and on their Website. Cheri and Chanee are dope queer, black, polyamorous women who have created an awesome space for black polyamorous people and have welcomed Sham, myself and the Jamaican delegation in with open arms! This was a great talk. Don't forget to share this podcast with a friend. Rate, Review & Subscribe to it on Apple Podcasts and give our Twitter and Instagram pages some love. Anchor is the bomb for hosting out podcast AND Wordpress is dope for letting us work on these show notes and posting other great resources on there.
1:23:27
May 23, 2020
Episode 01-25: The Catchup
Hey Guys, Another week down. How much longer you think we gonna be stuck the fuck inside? We're willing to stay inside as long as necessary but a reasonable time frame would be quite nice. Jhen was a bit...enthusiastic this episode. Did you notice? We made sure to plug our contacts 50 million times so you wouldn't forget. The DMs are open to professional and personal sliding so hit us up on Twitter & Instagram if you like. Email us if you want to be on the podcast or just wanna ask us questions. Big up Anchor for hosting the podcast and Wordpress for allowing us to put up our detailed shownotes and other great info. Rate, Review and Subscribe to us. Tell all your friends. Until we meet again. #StayTheFuckAtHome xoxo
1:06:28
May 13, 2020
Episode 01-24: We Famous Famous (ft. Polyamorous Black Girl)
Hope you've had a great week. How are you enjoying the episodes so far? Do you love us? Hate us? Can't live without us? Hit us up on our social media ( Twitter & Instagram ) Fun Fact, this is the 5th interview that we've done since we started this podcast! Wild right? Look at us pulling all sorts of super important famous people! Forever ratings to Anchor for hosting podcast and to Wordpress for allowing us to put up our detailed show notes. This week, we had another super famous (humbly, of course) special guest: Alicia aka Polyamorous Black Girl. You can find her on her locked Twitter account, Instagram, Patreon, her Facebook page (which is about to be unpublished any day now) and her website (which is currently down but will be up when it's ready).  Also here is her PaylPal if you want to give her a one time financial contribution cause those tuition fees be expensive. Rate, Review & Subscribe! Share us with your friends! We will cross upload with SoundCloud as usual. Can't think of anything else to say so #StayTheFuckAtHome.
1:27:26
May 6, 2020
Episode 01-23: Call Me Asian (ft. polyamorouswhileasian)
Hey guys! Thanks for rocking with us throughout this quarantine times. We know everyone is going through their own shit and hope to be helping you be entertained during this time. Tell your friends about us and rate, review and subscribe to us everywhere you get your podcasts. Nuff respect to Anchor for hosting our pod and Wordpress for hosting our detailed show notes page. You can always find us on Twitter and Instagram. Well...maybe not ALWAYS but more often than not. This week we were able to interview our Instagram friend Michelle aka polyamorouswhileasian about her journey in polyam and the community in PNW. Jhen ends up taking it on a tangent (as usual) BUT it was a great conversation all around. Jhen also talks about the online Black Poly Pride Town Hall and Happy Hour she participated in on Saturday and all the dope conversations that were had there. There's another one this Saturday too so see the link to that here
1:07:05
April 29, 2020
Episode 01-22: Polycule Me Please
This is part 2 of the 2 part episode series on Love Triangles in Movies, TV Shows, Books, Comics, Cartoons and Anime that we think would have been better served by Consensual Non-Monogamy or Polyamory. The links to the articles we mention in BOTH episodes are in the detailed show notes but we do not speak directly to them. Tell your friends about us and rate, review and subscribe to us everywhere you get your podcasts. Big up Anchor for hosting our pod and Wordpress for hosting our detailed show notes page. You can always find us on Twitter and Instagram cause we are somewhat active but very responsible there. We promise we will update the SoundCloud this week again! We swear!
1:16:39
April 22, 2020
Episode 01-21: Can You Triangulate This Love?
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode series on Love Triangles in Movies, TV Shows, Books, Comics, Cartoons and Anime that we think would have been better served by Consensual Non-Monogamy or Polyamory. The links to the articles we mention in BOTH episodes are in our detailed show notes but we do not speak directly to them. Special thanks to Kevin Patterson & Alana Phelan for helping to inspire this topic through their IG Live where they talked about their For Hire series as well as THIS tweet about fanfiction taking care of polyam better than shitty canon love triangles. As always, we love it when you convince your friends to rate, review and subscribe to us everywhere you get your podcasts. Special shout out as usual to Anchor for hosting our pod and to Wordpress for hosting our detailed show notes page. You can also find us on Twitter and Instagram.  **Jhen watches way more shit than Sham as usual**
1:13:59
April 15, 2020
Episode 01-20: Love In The Time Of Coronavirus
Hey Ishes! (Is that a thing? IDK but i'm making it a thing - Jhen) Thank you so much for sticking with us in the time of the plague! We apologise once again for not putting out an episode last week but we are back again with a vengence! As always, we love it when you interact with us on Twitter and Rate, Review & Subscribe to the pod on all the platforms. Our show notes will always pop up on our website for you to go through and we do cross upload the latest episodes onto our SoundCloud. We also have started an Instagram! We don't REALLY have many posts there yet but it's a work in progress! Follow us on there to see all the memes Jhen steals from reddit. This week's episode we're talking about how we are surviving in these quarantine times and how non-monog and polyam relationships are adapting.
1:04:57
April 8, 2020
Episode 01-19: Polyam Fam Bam (ft. PolyRoleModels)
This week we talked a bit more about non-monogamy and polyamory in families and got to interview our special guest, Kevin from PolyRoleModels! As always, we love it when you interact with us on Twitter and Rate, Review & Subscribe to the pod on all the platforms. Our show notes will always pop up here for you to go through and we do cross upload the latest episodes onto our SoundCloud. We also have started an Instagram! We don't REALLY have any posts there yet but we're going to be working on it during this quarantine period so feel free to follow us now and be amazed when we eventually put out some content on there. You can find PolyRoleModels on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and also on his website right here!
54:44
March 25, 2020
Episode 01-18: It Takes A Village...Ram?
Rate, review & subscribe on your favourite podcatcher if you haven't already. Follow us on the twitter @monogamishpod. Email us if you wanna talk business monogmaishpod@gmail.com DM us if you wanna be secretive or whatever Don't wanna commit to the actual follow? Listen to the latest releases on SoundCloud by searching "Monogamish The Podcast" This week are talking about polyam families and also the "Village Ram" and gyallis mentality that exits in Jamaica. This episode was more off the cuff with more anecdotal experiences than articles etc. Next episode we will have an interview with a special guest to talk further about polyam families and hopefully ask him some other burning questions you might want to know.
54:27
March 18, 2020
Episode 01-17: Let's Do Astro-Therapy-Sex (ft. Six)
This week, Jhen is diving in DEEP with Intimacy Doula & Resident Sexologist & Sex Astrologer for Clone-A-Willy, Six. Six is also the host of the Astrology Sucks podcast which you can find in all the places AND she READS JHEN FOR FILTH! Sham escaped. Check out the detailed show notes on our blog/website thing. Follow us on twitter @monogamishpod. Rate, Review & Subscribe to us on your favourite pod catcher. We prefer Google & Apple Podcasts but we check everything. You can find Six on twitter @blackwomencry and on her website here.
1:25:56
March 11, 2020
Episode 01-16: Kiss Me Thru Facetime
This week, we are talking LDRs and how they could work in a polyam situation. We reference some cool articles and another pod that we think really covers this issue.  As always, rate, review & subscribe to us on your favourite pod catcher. Join the conversation on twitter by @monogamishpod. Detailed show notes forever available at monogamishpod.wordpress.com
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March 4, 2020
Episode 01-15: Silver Screen Bang
This week we are talking about movies with polyam romances and the like. Check out our detailed show notes at monogamishpod.wordpress.com Please remember to Rate, Review & Subscribe to our podcast on all your favourite podcatching platforms and stuff. Follow us on twitter @monogamishpod. We only upload the latest episodes on our Soundcloud so if you need to, check it out there by searching Monogamish The Podcast.
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February 26, 2020
Episode 01-14: NRE or Me
This week we are talking about New Relationship Energy and how this can affect you and your relationships.  Detailed show notes at monogamishpod.wordpress.com. Please remember to Rate, Review & Subscribe to our podcast on all your favourite podcatching platforms and stuff. Follow us on twitter @monogamishpod. We only upload the latest episodes on our Soundcloud so if you need to, check it out there by searching Monogamish The Podcast.
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February 19, 2020
Episode 01-13: PolyHoliday
As always, get our detailed show notes at monogamishpod.wordpress.com Rate, Review & Subscribe to us everywhere you get your pods Follow us on the tweeter @monogamishpod With Valentines Day coming up, i bet you wanna know about practicing polyam over the holidays and the best gifts to give. We've got you!
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February 12, 2020
Episode 01-12: Mate & Mate Nuh Fight
This Episode we are talking about non-monogamy and polyamory in music. As always, we would appreciate it if you Rate, Review & Subscribe! Follow us on twitter @monogamishpod and follow us on the web page monogamishpod.wordpress.com for detailed show notes. We did keep saying Usher when really it was T-Pain. IDK Why. We're old, we just did. 
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February 5, 2020
Episode 01-11: Cuck Cuck Coo
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January 29, 2020
Episode 01-10: The Justice League is Ghey & Poly
Detailed show notes available on monogamishpod.wordpress.com so check that out. As always we would love for you to Rate, Review & Subscribe to us on your favourite podcast app.  Tell people how great we are on Twitter @monogamishpod Send us voice messages on Anchor using the link available This episode focuses more on comics and other fiction books and fanfiction. We make mention of a resources section with non-fiction works about Polyam and Non-Monog which will be up and coming very very soon. Disclaimer: Jhen does NOT apologise for any controversial shit she says in this episode. She said what she said. End
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January 22, 2020
Episode 01-09: Penny Dreadfuls With Throuples (ft. Katrina Jackson)
You can always see the detailed show notes on the website monogamishpod.wordpress.com    For this week's episode, Jhen was alone and recorded a lovely interview with author extraordinaire Katrina Jackson to talk about Non-Monogamy and Romance. They also discussed a bit of Katrina's upcoming work and had a bit of a laugh about wanting to be a scamming sex worker.  As always, Rate, Review & Subscribe to the pod and interract with us on Twitter. We love friends! Don't forget to also send us your voice messages using this link and we might include them in a future episode.   Kat's books about non-monogamy are contained in the following series: Welcome to Seaport, Erotic Accommodations and The Spies Who Loved Me.  Katrina Jackson is on twitter @katrinajax and on instagram @katjacksonbooks. 
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January 15, 2020
Episode 01-08: Double Trouble
As always, you get detailed shownotes on monogamishpod.com Rate, Review & Subscribe to us. Send us your voice messages. Tweet us!  The BIG topic is about Practicing polyam/non-monog as a single person Vs a part of an already existing couple and where we find people to date. HERE is that autostraddle article we was talking about Good Trouble is a great TV show  Moral of all the stories: Know your role and stay in your lane & don't be a piece of shit It's easier to use dating apps in the US to get people but of course in Jamaica, word of mouth is usually where it's at Sham only has 2 Tinder stories. Jhen has many random internet dating stories she didn't share because trust me, people LOVE to be creeps. We list the apps/sites we mentioned on the blog page If any of you dating apps want to sponsor us that’s cool too!
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January 8, 2020
Episode 01-07: One, Two, Three, Orgy
As always, get detailed show notes on monogamishpod.wordpress.com Today we're talking alllll about multiple experiences with your partner and then some. As usual: Rate, Review & Subscribe. Follow us on Twitter @monogamishpod and send us your voice messages on Anchor if you wanna be an even bigger part of the conversation using this link. We defined a whole bunch of terms on the detailed show notes Sham initiates a multiple experience using care and precision and then carefully thrusting the other woman's vagina on his wife's face (He says that's not exactly what he said on the programme but Jhen is a paraphrasing genius and she wrote this bit) Jhen initiates a multiple experience by telling them she wants to be the gunman in their hole (She didn't ACTUALLY say this but it was implied) Hedonism II is like THE most popular resort for sexy stuff in the world Caligula and Chemistry are the two sex/swingers clubs we mentioned in NYC In South Florida we mentioned Miami Velvet & The Trapeze Young Swingers Week was in Jamaica at Hedo in October 2019. Here is the twitter of the couple we found that seems to run/be heavily involved in it Mocha Fest is a black alternative lifestyle festival that's going to be in Jamaica Memorial Day Weekend 2020 Life on the Swingset hosts a sexy times getaway at the Desire Resorts - specifically the one in Mexico. Here is information about that event here
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January 1, 2020
Episode 01-06: Watch Me Do This
As always, get the detailed show notes on monogamishpod.wordpress.com Follow us on twitter: @monogamishpod to be a part of the conversation. Rate, Review & Subscribe! Sham still doesn’t watch reality TV and Jhen watches too much of it. Kamala Devi - one of the leads on Polyamory: Married & Dating also has a book! Polyamory Pearls apaprently she’s a big sex educator or something despite her shitty show List of TV shows we discuss:  Siren is the main one on TV right now and Jhen thinks it is done right. There is an Interracial throuple, the mermaids are NOT cute and Sham has never seen the show You Me Her is on Audience and Netflix and it portrays one of the worst ways to have a poly relationship in our opinion. This is a pick of both of ours! We think there are SO many red flags House of Cards is a Netflix series which we obvi don't watch anymore because Kevin Spacey is a predator Steven Universe is on Cartoon Network and is 100% a Sham pick! He talks about Gem fusion stuff Masters of Sex was on Showtime and was a scripted series detailing the work of Masters & Johnson's studies of human sexuality Big Love was the first big show Jhen remembers about non-monogamy on mainstream tv and she is TOTALLY breaking up with Sham because he has never seen it Swingtown was on CBS back in the day and was set in the 19070's but neither of us has ever seen it - Google picked this one Sense8 was on Netflix and while Jhen don't really consider it a polyam show, she loved it! The show was cancelled but obvi they need to bring it and the psychic orgies back We went down the rabbit hole on MTV's Undressed. GREAT SHOW Would you like to see more poly relationships on TV? What are your favourite poly relationships on TV?  Let us know!!!
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December 25, 2019
Episode 01-05: Is This Real?
This week is all about Non-Monogamous relationships on reality tv. Jhen has lots of interesting ideas about this and Sham just kinda rolls along with it. Always remember to Like, Rate, Review, Subscribe & Share it with all your friends! Detailed Show Notes are on our site. Tell Jhen if you think she is crazy or not on twitter @monogamishpod Can reality dating shows be considered some kind of polyam/non-monog relationship? Jhen thinks so! The BEST Bachelor show is Bachelor in Paradise Flavor of Love is the best dating show ever because it gave us Tiffany Pollard aka New York. Teacha’s Pet is the second best dating show. The girls on that shit were wild and random. Teacha's Pet: Conjugal edition would be hilarious Link to Episode 1 of Teacha's Pet:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hp8ACQOavNM A Shot of Love with Tila Tequila came out in 2008 and she was like this Myspace/Playboy model who claimed to be bi but then it turned out to be fake Polyamory: Married & Dating came out in 2012 on Showtime but there were SO MANY SHITTY polyam relationships. Can’t even go into them all. Seeking Sister Wife & Sister Wives both come on TLC Real Sex on HBO was more of a documentary TV series and it was fucking great. we learned a LOT about a lot of things on that late night tv. Skinimax and all. Are You The One is Sham's recommendation. Most recent season was LGBTQ+ so worth a watch TV Shows like Real Sex and even Polyamory etc helped put “alternative” relationships on display which helps normalize our stuff to society and despite how shitty we personally find the relationships and portrayals, it still serves a purpose. Our own reality dating show "The Unicorn" would obviously be better than anything on tv. Trademark. Hashtag. Etc. 2022 is our year! P.S. Schrummafrumma is a word! Thanks! xoxo
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December 18, 2019
Episode 01-04: Rules? Who Needs Stinking Rules!? (We Do)
Detailed show notes on our website. Join the conversation on twitter @monogamishpod. Jhen is a little nuts with the intro, we know. First episode with an anchor ad properly placed We talked about Cheating and Jealousy last week & touched on relationship rules. This week we dive in! Konshens and Justin Timberlake BOTH took to IG on 12/05/19 (I KNOW so inconsiderate of them to drop this bullshit after episode 3 came out!!!!) to apologise to their respective partners. Konshens talked about all the ways he did his wife dirty & how he lost her. JT apologised for doing...nothing?  Making lasagna for someone who isn't a spouse or family member is cheating. Dems the rules dammit! Relationship rules don't just have to be sexual and won't just apply to monog & non-monog relationships. They also apply to friendships, etc. Links about asexuality are available on the show notes page Rules should be more or less equal and shouldn't favour one partner over the other too much We mentioned a lot of rules & you can find them on the website and let us know if you rate them the same way we did on the pod. Advice? TALK TALK TALK and don't be afraid to rework it if it isn't doing it for you anymore Yes, Jhen has a song for almost every scenario. Here's the comic Sham mentioned!  http://girlswithslingshots.com/comic/gws-1921
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December 11, 2019
Episode 01-03: Cheating, Jealousy & Unne
As always, you can find our detailed shownotes on our website. Please also ensure you subscribe to us on all the platforms that we are available! We're still working on distribution so we KNOW we aren't officially everywhere yet but we hope to be soon. We defined Cheating, Infidelity, Jealousy & the fake word Compersion Yes, you can cheat on someone even if you are non-monog. Once you violate the rules of the relationship, that is cheating. Eg: your partner says no kissing other people when they are not there and you do it. Relationship rules apply to both monog and non-monog relationships. Each couple decides what those rules are with some skewing more “normal” and “standard” while others break down certain behaviours etc that they are not comfortable with We share details about our personal experiences with cheating (Jhen), Jealousy (both of us) and Compersion Our advice might not work for you but the most important thing to do is COMMUNICATE and do some serious self-reflection. Is this something that you can live with? Mentioning Fluid Bonding in this episode was NOT intentional but we'll also be talking about it next time when we get into relationship rules. Did we mention we have a twitter? Follow us @monogamishpod to see us tweet random things.
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December 4, 2019
Episode 01-02: Celebs, Normies & Jhen's Ever Expanding Dream Throuple List
On today's episode, we talk about the confirmed list of celebrities who are involved in Non-Monogamy and have a bit of a discussion about celeb non-monogamy vs and the non-monogamy of us average folk. I am absolutely allowed to have multiple dream throuples no matter what Sham says 😝 - Jhen The Kardashians are basic TV that neither of us watch so whatever Tristain Thompson's family is Jamaican so you KNOW he got cheating down to a science. People hold celebs up on a pedestal so it's interesting to watch how others accept what they do Vs what's "acceptable" in everyday life. Who has a village ram in their family? Was it your daddy/granddaddy/uncle out there fucking all the bitches in the community making babies? Money does NOT determine whether or not you are "allowed" or can be non-monog Matey = side woman of your man Jim Screechie = side man of your woman Ludacris used to make BOPS and Area Codes is one such one: https://youtu.be/sTUU4JqFykM *** Links to the articles and videos mentioned are in the detailed show notes at https://monogamishpod.wordpress.com/?p=30 ***
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November 27, 2019
Episode 01-01 : Who The Hell Are We
Intros the podcast and to us. Check out our website for show notes and more.
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November 20, 2019
Monagamish Preview
A preview/introduction to the Monogamish podcast, giving you a quick rundown of what it's about.
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November 13, 2019