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The Mourning Dove

The Mourning Dove

By Allie Felker

Normalizing grief and increasing empathy as we share stories of love and loss.
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Erica’s Story | Purpose through Activism

The Mourning DoveApr 20, 2022

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Erica’s Story | Purpose through Activism

Erica’s Story | Purpose through Activism

I so enjoyed chatting with Erica McAfee founder and podcast host at Sisters in Loss. Our conversation explores the racial disparities in our healthcare system that lead to vastly disproportionate rates of stillbirth and maternal mortality. To learn more about Erica’s work and the Sister’s in Loss podcast visit them on Instagram @sistersinloss
Apr 20, 202241:57
Reid Peterson | Refuge in Grief

Reid Peterson | Refuge in Grief

We are starting off Season Three of the Mourning Dove with a conversation with App creator Reid Peterson! Reid discovered that nature and meditation helped him find comfort while grieving. These discoveries led Reid to create the App “Grief Refuge”. 

In this episode, we chat about Reid’s grief journey as well as his insights on surviving great loss. I highly encourage listeners to check out the beautiful Grief Refuge app as well as their Instagram @griefrefugeapp www.instagram.com/griefrefugeapp/ you can also visit their website www.griefrefuge.com

To share your story and engage with the podcast add us on Instagram @mourningdovepod

Apr 06, 202234:10
Highlights from Season 2

Highlights from Season 2

I have been honored to host so many beautiful and heartbreaking stories this Season. To all my guests thank you so much for sharing your heart, your loved one and your insights on grief.
Feb 02, 202253:47
Claudia’s Story | Faith and Loss

Claudia’s Story | Faith and Loss

Today I am honored to share my conversation with Claudia mother to Andrew whose precious life was only with us for 3 weeks.

Claudia’s faith and spirituality has played a big role in her grieving, and despite the tragedy of losing her son she still holds a space for hope. You can learn more about Claudia and connect with her on Instagram @claudiavilla10
Jan 24, 202201:30:27
Michelle’s Story | Identity in Grief

Michelle’s Story | Identity in Grief

I am honored to share my conversation with Michelle Vande Hey creator of Light of Love Coaching. Michelle’s grief journey began in her teenage years when she learned she would not be able to have biological children. Michelle went on to adopt two babies and learned that her second child had a brain injury at birth. James died very suddenly in infancy. 

Michelle’s grief journey led her to pursue health and coaching and she eventually became a life coach. In our conversation, we chat about the identity shifts that often occur in grief. We also discuss coping mechanisms and the importance of physical health. 

To learn more about Michelle you can find her on Instagram @michellevandehey and here https://linktr.ee/michellevandehey

Share your story! email me allierosefelker@gmail.com

Follow along on Instagram @mourningdovepod

Jan 17, 202201:09:25
Julie’s Story | True Acceptance

Julie’s Story | True Acceptance

Dr Julie Shaw is the creator of Hello I’m Grieving, a grief visibility and awareness brand. Julie’s sister died from complications with lupus in 2020. In our conversation Julie shares her grief journey and insights surrounding grief. I know our conversation will bring hope and encouragement as we talk about what it really means to find acceptance and the importance of self love.
Jan 10, 202253:21
Another Year of Grief | Affirmations, Goals, and Connection

Another Year of Grief | Affirmations, Goals, and Connection

As the year comes to a close I want you to congratulate yourself on surviving year of grief. Maybe you lost your person this year. Maybe you are processing multiple losses. Maybe you are feeling the weight of another year missing your person. Wherever you are at I want to encourage you. You have made it through the year and though you may not feel like it, you are standing strong. Let’s finish out this year together and connect with our person as we set intentions for 2022 while affirming ourselves for 2021.
Dec 27, 202114:43
Amy’s Story | Loving Yourself After Loss
Dec 18, 202101:11:14
Eileen’s Story | Time to Fly

Eileen’s Story | Time to Fly

Eileen Robertson Hamra is the Author of Time to Fly, a memoir in which Eileen shares her journey mourning the loss of her husband Brian. I know our conversation will bring encouragement and hope as we chat about parenting after loss, grief in children, and other insights in mourning. 

Reality, as Eileen Robertson Hamra perceived it, instantaneously altered the moment authorities confirmed that the plane her husband was piloting had crashed, and he had not survived. In the process of mourning her loss, with three young children in tow, where Eileen wandered and landed was nothing short of miraculous. Between the valleys of grief and the peaks of hope, she discovered that keeping promises to those that have left this world is a lifelong act, and honoring one love does not mean foregoing the freedom and joy that is found in reopening your heart, trusting in new love, and expanding your definition of family. Her book, Time to Fly, shares her story, her insights and more. 

To learn more about Eileen you can visit her personal website www.eileenrobertsonhamra.com and add her on Instagram @eileenrhamra 

To learn more about her work visit Fittogetherllc.com

Dec 17, 202153:11
Reyna’s Story | De-stigmatizing Baby Loss

Reyna’s Story | De-stigmatizing Baby Loss

I am honored to share my conversation with Reyna about the loss of her son Weston. Reyna and I share many similarities in our stories and our grief journeys. Reyna shares her experience in her blog and has connected with other loss moms on Instagram. Her work aims at de-stigmatizing baby loss and helping other women feel less alone. 

To learn more about Reyna visit her blog www.thebabylossdiary.com/home and on Instagram @reyyy____

To learn more about the Mourning Dove and engage with our grief community add us on Instagram @mourningdovepod

Dec 06, 202101:06:52
Michelle’s Story | Feel to Heal

Michelle’s Story | Feel to Heal

Today I am honored to share my conversation with Michelle Ann Collins co-author of Phoenix Rising, Awakening the Divine Feminine, and You Can’t Make This St*ry Up. 

In this episode, Michelle shares her belief “you have to feel it to heal it!” After experiencing multiple losses Michelle found herself numbing the pain with drugs and alcohol. A meditation and yoga practice taught Michelle how to heal from past traumas. She now helps others through her writings and coaching.

You can learn more about Michelle and her work by visiting her website InhabitJoy.com https://inhabitjoy.com/

Also, find her on Instagram @Michelleanncollins_ https://www.instagram.com/michelleanncollins_/

To learn more about the Mourning Dove Podcast and join our grief community add us on Instagram @mourningdovepod https://www.instagram.com/mourningdovepod/

To share your story or insights on grief email me allierosefelker@gmail.com

Nov 30, 202101:06:46
Navigating Holiday Grief | With Aimee Wingen

Navigating Holiday Grief | With Aimee Wingen

On today’s episode my friend Aimee and I chat about grieving through the holidays. Thank you to everyone who submitted your advice and insights on how you love and incorporate your person, set boundaries, and grieve during this time.
Nov 22, 202146:07
Allison’s Story | Grief and Self Love

Allison’s Story | Grief and Self Love

Allison found that she could not hide from her grief after two ectopic pregnancies, the loss of her grandparents, and the end of her marriage. Her grief led her to pursue therapy, teaching her to love and accept herself. To learn more about Allison and to follow her fertility journey find her on Instagram @ivfcouldonlyhaveyou and personally @_a.renee24

To learn more about the Mourning Dove Podcast and to join our grief community, follow us @mourningdovepod

Nov 15, 202101:19:21
Christine’s Story | Navigating Hope

Christine’s Story | Navigating Hope

Today I am honored to share the story of Harlan's life as told by his mama Christine. 

Harlan was diagnosed with a Lower Urinary Tract Obstruction when Christine was just 19 weeks pregnant. His parents fought to give him the best quality of life and though he only lived for four days, he made a huge impact. 

To learn more about Christine and Harlan's story you can follow her on Instagram @christineeee_andreaaaa

To join our grief community and engage with the podcast, follow us @mourningdovepod

Nov 08, 202101:26:30
Heidi’s Story | Honoring Alison

Heidi’s Story | Honoring Alison

Heidi Low shares her story of losing her daughter Alison at just five years old. Heidi’s perspective on her grief journey is unique and helpful as Alison passed away 17 years ago. In honor of Alison, Heidi created Ohana Oasis, a nonprofit that serves grieving parents and helps them on this journey. 

I really enjoyed my conversation with Heidi as she provided so many helpful insights on grief and child loss. I know that anyone who is processing their grief, or simply curious about the journey, will benefit from this episode. 

Heidi is also active on Instagram and her website where she posts blogs about life and grief. To learn more visit www.heidilow.com and @heidilowofficial on Instagram. You can also learn more about Heidi's nonprofit at www.ohanaoasis.org and on Instagram @ohana_oasis 

Nov 01, 202156:52
Vicki’s Story | Dissociation and Grief

Vicki’s Story | Dissociation and Grief

Today I chat with Vicki the creator of @mama_grow_home on Instagram. Vicki began sharing her motherhood journey after experiencing recurrent losses. Her posts help normalize pregnancy loss, grief, and all forms of motherhood. Our conversation touches on some common but unspoken symptoms of grief including dissociation and hallucinations.

To learn more about Vicki and read her work visit @mama_grow_home on Instagram and www.mamagrowhome.com. To join our grief community and engage with the podcast add us on Instagram @mourningdovepod

If you have a story or an insight to share, email me at allierosefelker@gmail.com. 

Oct 25, 202101:08:36
Sarah and Jared | Part 2 | Grieving Our Lost Loves

Sarah and Jared | Part 2 | Grieving Our Lost Loves

In this episode, we continue my conversation with Sarah with the addition of her boyfriend Jared. Both Sarah and Jared have suffered terrible losses which has also enabled them to support each other. Sarah and Jared share their grief journeys and offer insight into the experience of mourning the death of a spouse. 

To learn more about Sarah and read her writings on grief visit her website www.sacredunraveling.com and Instagram @sacredunraveling

To engage with our grief community join us on Instagram @mourningdovepod

Oct 18, 202101:09:18
Sarah’s Story | Grief, Faith and Religious Trauma | Part 1
Oct 11, 202101:17:14
Rachel’s Story | Remembering Edith

Rachel’s Story | Remembering Edith

In April of 2020 Rachel went to her doctors visit alone and learned the terrible news that her daughter Edith was no longer alive. After two days of labor Rachel delivered her firstborn child. In our conversation Rachel and I discuss her grief journey as well as what it is like to be a stillbirth mama. To connect with Rachel visit her on Instagram @ralislel To engage with our grief community join us on Instagram @mourningdovepod
Oct 04, 202152:00
Tracy’s Story | Creating Grief Conscious Community

Tracy’s Story | Creating Grief Conscious Community

For our final episode of Season 1 I get to chat with Tracy Gilmour-Nimoy of TGN Therapy. Tracy is not only professionally trained in providing mental help for those in grief, she has also walked her own grief journey after her daughter Addison was stillborn last year. Tracy is an expert in perinatal mental health. I am so honored to share her insights as I know they will be helpful for anyone touched by grief.
Aug 09, 202149:03
Jamie’s Story | Cherishing Grief

Jamie’s Story | Cherishing Grief

Jamie Elizabeth Metzgar is the creator of Widow Wellness Coaching, a coaching program and website that provides a much needed resource for young widows. In our conversation we discuss some of the misconceptions surrounding grief, along with Jamie’s concept of moving up not moving on.
Aug 02, 202101:01:04
Cara’s Story | Tied Together Forever
Jul 26, 202101:14:12
Heather’s Story | An Emotion Called Grief
Jul 19, 202101:14:46
Pregnancy After Loss | Instagram Request

Pregnancy After Loss | Instagram Request

Today I’m chatting about a topic that was requested on Instagram. This is also something I’m currently experiencing. Pregnancy After Loss is a complex emotional rollercoaster. Every pregnancy is different and the emotional experience will vary. I hope this episode brings understanding and familiarity to anyone listening.
Jul 12, 202149:50
Melissa’s Story | Remembering Oliver

Melissa’s Story | Remembering Oliver

Melissa gave birth to her son Oliver in April of this year. In this episode, Melissa shares the story of her pregnancy and delivery and her grief journey after Oliver was stillborn.
Jun 28, 202101:10:54
Lauren’s Story | Grieving a Beloved Pet

Lauren’s Story | Grieving a Beloved Pet

Today my friend Lauren and I chat about pet loss and the grief we experience when loosing a beloved pet. Lauren shares the story of Tiger, her family dog and her grieving process after his death. Our pets hold a special place in our hearts and our lives and it is natural to grieve their passing.
Jun 14, 202145:23
Emma’s Story | Termination for Medical Reasons

Emma’s Story | Termination for Medical Reasons

Emma Belle is the creator of tfmr mamas, a resource dedicated to creating connection for parents who have experienced a medical termination. I am very appreciative of Emma’s time and work in this area as the help she provides is desperately needed. Stillbirth and miscarriage are still taboo in our culture. TFMR is even more hidden. I invite you to hear this conversation with an open mind and an open heart.
Jun 07, 202101:05:37
Karen’s Story | Empowered in Grief

Karen’s Story | Empowered in Grief

Karen’s story of grieving the death of her husband Simon shows us how we can deny our right to bitterness and anger, and choose healing. I am honored to share our conversation and I know her insights will bring encouragement and hope.
May 31, 202101:05:31
Kristin’s Story | Faith and Wrestling

Kristin’s Story | Faith and Wrestling

I am so honored to share my conversation with Kristin Hernandez author of the upcoming memoir Sunlight in December. In this episode we discuss wrestling and questioning our faith after loss. I hope this conversation brings you validation and encouragement in your grief journey.
May 24, 202101:14:24
Both | And

Both | And

Many aspects of life are not either or. Today I share how the concept of both/and has helped me in my life and grief.
May 17, 202114:16
Danielle’s Story | Normalizing Baby Death

Danielle’s Story | Normalizing Baby Death

In this episode Danielle Otlin shares the story of her journey to motherhood and her passion for normalizing grief. We discuss medical terms and misconceptions about pregnancy loss, as well as the ways grief can be accepted.
May 10, 202156:34
Empathy | Loving Yourself and Others

Empathy | Loving Yourself and Others

Today I share my thoughts on empathy and how to be empathetic in the grief world.
May 03, 202119:27
Sarah’s Story | Hope After Child Loss

Sarah’s Story | Hope After Child Loss

I am so excited to have my good friend Sarah Kamp on the podcast! Sarah’s insight on grief and pregnancy after loss help provide awareness and understanding. I hope that you feel encouraged and validated though our conversation.
Apr 26, 202101:19:09
Things that Help | How to Support Your Grieving Friend

Things that Help | How to Support Your Grieving Friend

Here are some practical and emotional ways that your can support your grieving friend. Whether immediately after a death or in the years to come, these tips will help you understand how to help in a way that is validating and supportive.
Apr 19, 202152:52
Our Stillbirth Story | Henry’s life

Our Stillbirth Story | Henry’s life

This is my story of our son Henry’s life and death. Baby Hank is why I created this podcast and he lives on in our home and our hearts. I hope you find encouragement and familiarity in my grief journey. Connect with me on Instagram @allierosefelker and the podcast @mourningdovepod
Apr 15, 202144:07
Introduction Episode | Goals and What’s to Come

Introduction Episode | Goals and What’s to Come

Hey! I’m Allie. Today I shared my goals and plans for this podcast and what you can expect from future episodes. In this space I hope to normalize the grief experience while providing insights for grievers and their loved ones.
Apr 10, 202118:43