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THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA

THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA

By Narah Valenska

THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST is a weekly show by Life Writer, Speaker, Coach, and Political Scientist, NARAH VALENSKA, who shares about her journey to her true self so that you may be inspired to go on your own. At age 37, Narah made the choice to leave her comfortable life knowing it was not representative of who she really was. Ten years later, at 47, she found *the* piece that brought every part of her together in a single moment of truth and instant transformation. In this podcast, you will learn how to connect to your own heart and soul to heal, grow, and BECOME THE REAL *YOU* LIVING too!
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Relaunching Anew: Getting Out Of Your Own Way
May 04, 202326:11
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Aug 05, 202127:27
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Jul 29, 202138:36
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Jul 22, 202128:26
How To Stop Being Too Nice And Start Setting Healthy Boundaries

How To Stop Being Too Nice And Start Setting Healthy Boundaries

Are you being too nice to people and allowing them to walk all over you? I get it - you prefer to forgive people their trespasses against you, they don’t mean it, you feel sorry for them, you want to help them. Somehow you've learned that other's needs are more important than your own and that’s a BIG problem! It is NEVER too soon to set some healthy boundaries that show people how to treat you. In fact, there’s NOTHING more important unless you enjoy getting treated like garbage which I’m sure you don’t! Let’s get to it and learn how to turn things around… STAT!
Jul 15, 202132:28
No Excuses

No Excuses

Season 2 is here! This is Episode 17 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA - “NO EXCUSES!” Listen to the episode and find out what I’m referring to and how it might apply to you!

Links mentioned in the episode:
---> START HERE "FREE RESOURCES LIBRARY" -
https://bit.ly/2V46DaI
---> APPLY FOR YOUR STRATEGY / BREAKTHROUGH SESSION - https://narahvalenska.com/apply
---> I'M READY TO GO RIGHT NOW! - https://RockYourLifeBootcamp.com

And, as always...

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Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called, and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others.  Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  

Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!    

XOXO's,
Narah

Jul 08, 202126:22
The Real You Living Podcast with Narah Valenska Is Currently On Hiatus

The Real You Living Podcast with Narah Valenska Is Currently On Hiatus

The Real You Living Podcast with Narah Valenska is on hiatus until further notice. It is expected the podcast will be on hiatus until Summer 2021. Stay tuned!

Dec 12, 202003:08
Levels of Consciousness

Levels of Consciousness

This is Episode 16 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to those people who are FULL-ON CONSCIOUS and PLUGGED IN! Being unconscious is something I want NO part of because not being fully aware and connected is too huge a loss not only personally but to the whole world and life itself. How conscious are you? Listen to the episode and find out!

Links mentioned in the episode:

---> https://narahvalenska.com/apply

---> https://RockYourLifeBootcamp.com

And, as always...

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---> https://narahvalenska.com/podcasts 

Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others.  Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!    XOXO's, Narah

Oct 07, 202027:28
Developing Your Focus

Developing Your Focus

This is Episode 15 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to those people who have mastered the art of FOCUS. Focus is a non-negotiable skill in life. If you don't have it - and, even if you do - listen to this episode so that you may be successful in what matters to you and, especially, in being who you were created to be!

Links mentioned in the episode:

---> https://narahvalenska.com/apply

---> https://RockYourLifeBootcamp.com


And, as always...

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---> https://narahvalenska.com/podcasts 


Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others.  Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!  

XOXO's,
Narah

Sep 30, 202029:59
The Common Good

The Common Good

This is Episode 14 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to those people who want to do better and are struggling with getting out of their own way but FINALLY do it - FINALLY break free and ask for what they want or need! They are such an inspiration to me!

A lot of different topics in this episode... can't wait for you to listen to it!

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---> https://narahvalenska.com/podcasts 

Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others.  Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!  

XOXO's,
Narah

Sep 24, 202030:30
Living an Extraordinary Life with Special Guest Robert White

Living an Extraordinary Life with Special Guest Robert White

This is Episode 13 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to those awesome people out there who make a difference in the lives of others by helping them grow, whether they be a coach like myself and my guest or not.

In this episode, I speak with my very first personal coach from back in the Summer of 2009 when I began my journey to my true self, the amazing Robert White. Even though we have been in touch through the years via direct messages, texts, and emails, we have not spoken directly until this moment and what a joy it was! My goodness! So SO fun!

Listen to us catch up and discuss how we came into coaching and the huge difference Robert made in my life at one of the highest and yet lowest points in my life when I was dealing with the breakup of my 20 year relationship / marriage and taking care of my late-fiance, Steven, who passed away in April 2010 from cancer all while discovering who I truly was and what I REALLY wanted my life to be moving forward.

There are few people in the world who hold you to a higher standard and call you out with love and respect in support of you being your best self. That is who Robert was to me and I could not be more grateful for his contribution to my life. As he says in his book Living An Extraordinary Life," which I say as well, "Life is simple." Robert also adds "This does not mean it is easy." which I also believe and which is why I believe personal development and coaching are so fabulous.

To be sure, life is a balancing act and we all need help and support navigating it. In this episode, we both give you some pointers to do just that as my intention for this episode is to help you to see how valuable having a committed listener who has your best interests at heart is and how valuable the journey to fulfillment and become your true self is. Have a listen now and enjoy!

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---> https://narahvalenska.com/podcasts 

Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others.  Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!  

XOXO's,
Narah

Sep 16, 202001:07:24
How Life Brings You To Your Moment
Sep 10, 202030:37
Spiritual Partnership with Special Guest Scott Smith

Spiritual Partnership with Special Guest Scott Smith

This is Episode 11 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to all the people who know a SPIRITUAL PARTNERSHIP is possible!

Listen to my husband
Scott Smith and I talk about our life together and how we overcame the tough times and strengthened our relationship and how we keep growing and evolving individually and together.


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Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others.  Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!  

XOXO's,
Narah

Sep 02, 202001:00:25
How To Free Yourself: The Death of Your Ego
Aug 26, 202030:11
How To Start Rocking Your Own Life FAST!

How To Start Rocking Your Own Life FAST!

This is Episode 9 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to EVERYONE struggling with some negative self-issue or situation. This episode contains the exact tool you can start using today.

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---> https://narahvalenska.com/podcasts 

Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others.  Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.    Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!

Aug 19, 202026:50
Love Is Who You Are

Love Is Who You Are

This is Episode 8 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to my late former father-in-law, Tim Anderson, who passed away last Thursday night - August 6th, 2020 - at the age of 80.

Even as I've had a list of all my episodes up to number 11, never in a million years did I ever think this - Love Is Who You Are - would be the episode today. It wasn't on my list as number 8, 9, 10 or 11 and I, of course, did not know my beloved Tim would pass either.

That being said, I'm so glad this topic came to me through him and that I get to dedicate this episode to him. I don't think there is a more important topic in all of life than Love. And, particularly, BEING LOVE, as that is what and who we ALL are. Tim was that to me and to many who knew, admired, loved, and respected him.

This was a tough episode for me to record in the sense that I could feel the electricity of this beautiful LOVE energy that we all are running through my whole body throughout. It was so powerful as if it was showing me and telling me, This is what you are! Feel it. Harness it. Use it for good!

Wow! What an experience even as I type this right after finishing the recording of the episode. I am blown away!

But, I am not surprised. That is precisely how POWERFUL love is which is precisely what I speak about in this episode.

Listen in to find out what exactly is the MIRACLE we seek, what exactly is THE MAGIC PILL, and how claiming it and understanding it can change not only our personal lives but life itself as well as the world we live in right now on our Planet Earth.

Thank you for listening and for caring enough to forward this message to others if you so kindly will. It is SO important. Let us rule and command this world from Love as we were born for this and nothing else!

And rest in peace, my dear Pop. I love you forever and ever and ever more!

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Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others.

Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  

Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!

Aug 12, 202030:43
Immigrant

Immigrant

This is Episode 7 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to every single immigrant not just in the United States but everywhere out in the world in honor of the courage it takes to be a newcomer in a foreign land and start all over again from nothing.

I know the feeling intimately as thirty-eight years ago today, August 5th, 1982, I arrived in the U.S. as a 10 year-old going into the 7th grade NOT speaking a single word of English. I was scared to death and share with you my experience so that you can see from my experience what an immigrant goes through in this episode AND I also share how the issue of immigration fits into the grand scheme of things of life itself and who we are as human beings.

Gotta be honest... I cried when listening back to this episode after I recorded it, right at the part when I talk about coming to this country NOT speaking a single word of English and then several other times as I talked about so many different things, including our days being numbered and not knowing how our lives will end, and the importance of connecting to your heart and looking deep within to find your deeper truth and your true north.

Going through the motions without any real purpose and connection to yourself and to life will never do. Everything is ONE. We are ALL one and we are ALL in this together in this world. I truly believe life is about people and community and how we interrelate and live together on this planet. This is the context from which I look at Life. To me, it is about loving each other and making things work for everyone instead of desensitizing and having no empathy by labeling others and not connecting to their life experience or pain at all. That's just too easy... and evil, if you ask me.

We can do so much better. We were meant to. It's why we are even born. Listen to this episode and see how you can impact life and the world. I believe in you and your part. I believe in US all bringing all the pieces together as ONE.

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Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others. Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!

Aug 05, 202030:42
How Virginie Went From Feeling Lost To Discovering The Powerhouse She Really Is

How Virginie Went From Feeling Lost To Discovering The Powerhouse She Really Is

Although Virginie loved life and always knew everything was gonna be alright, she was struggling with it mightily! She didn't know what direction to take and was very frustrated because she knew she was someone who could do things but felt completely stuck.

Virginie knew she had the strength, she knew she had what she needed to be able to do things yet she was basically lost. No direction, no energy, 50 and scared to start from nothing again, Virginie felt lost about everything - relationships, work, the weight she'd gained after having her son 5 years ago that she'd been unable to lose. As she says, "I was lost in all main parts of my life."

When Virginie reached out to me, she was sleeping a lot, napping throughout the day, watching TV with no real interest at all and just for entertainment. She was in her own words a "couch potato" who was depressed and felt she had no reason to wake up because she didn't even know what to do with her time anyway.

Virginie would get up and do what she needed to for her son but would feel too exhausted and overwhelmed to do anything else. She would listen to some inspirational things and watch some inspirational videos but nothing would change. She would eat and drink without really paying attention and just try to make it through each day. She was basically surviving.

Virginie felt like she was losing time and although she knew that she could do something with that time, she simply didn't know where to go, where to start. And then she did my ROCK YOUR LIFE BOOTCAMP and everything began to change completely from the word go!

Listen to Virginie share how the very first step, exercise, and lesson, which was right there immediately surprised her and got her right back on track and how each step in the course then built logically one upon the other and led her to a complete 180 degree change in her life.

Virginie went from feeling lost to feeling confident. From exhausted to knowing how to generate her energy even when she feels tired. From hopeless to dreaming knowing everything is possible and that she can do it! She lost 12 pounds without even trying, is working on creating her own business, fully enjoys her time with her son and has a completely different relationship with him now which is nothing but a pleasure, and it's not only she who feels better - it's everyone around her who notices the difference in who she has become!

Listen to this podcast and allow her to inspire you to live with a great sense of satisfaction at the end of the day.

No more guilt, worry, or depression.

No more not knowing where to start or freaking out wondering how far down the drain will she go.

Virginie is full-on taking steps in her life, no longer procrastinating on things she wants to do because of being unsure or because of stories she told herself before that it was too late or that it would take too much time or that it'd be too hard.

She's more patient with herself and others, loves herself better and takes care of herself, she's doing things that make her happy, creating and having fun! All the doors of possibility are open to her now that she has discovered who she is and what she is capable of.

Virginie is not scared of anything anymore because she knows what a POWERHOUSE she actually is!

She did the work for herself AND also for her son whom she's now able to positively influence.

And she shared so beautifully here because she wants to help others.

As she says in the podcast, "It's right there, just reach out for it. You can dream again! You can feel better too!"

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The next ROCK YOUR LIFE BOOTCAMP begins Monday, August 3rd, 2020.
Learn More --
https://bit.ly/GoRockYourLifeBootcamp

Jul 29, 202001:07:32
Choose Your Soul

Choose Your Soul

This is Episode 5 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and it is dedicated to my children - Ian, Dylan, and Faith - as well as my Hubby Love Scott's son, Brannon, whom I also consider my own. Check out Show Notes link below for more info on this show as well as info on my ROCK YOUR LIFE BOOTCAMP which I mentioned on the episode and which I'm currently having a FLASH SALE on. This is the last time the course will ever be offered at this price point so if you are interested, this is the time to register! Time to level up for me AND for you, friends. Let's rock! XOXO's, Narah

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Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help spread this message far and wide to others. Also, feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below with what you got out of the episode and I may include it in a future Q&A and Feedback episode! Of course, with your permission first.  Again, thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!

Jul 22, 202031:24
How To Feel Great and Peaceful Every Single Day
Jul 15, 202030:26
You Are Worthy

You Are Worthy

This is Episode 3 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and probably the single-most important episode I will ever do. Listen in to find out why it holds the key to not only improving yourself and your life but to making the world a much better place too!

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Be sure to subscribe for new episode updates, leave a rating and review if you feel so called and would like to help, and feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below.

Thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!

Jul 08, 202029:55
Life Is Too Short and Too Beautiful To Waste

Life Is Too Short and Too Beautiful To Waste

This is Episode 2 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA and if you know me at all, you know that "Life is too short and too beautiful too waste" is my mantra!

Have you ever made plans only for everything to go nowhere near according to them? You're not human if you haven't so I'm sure you have! That's because we're in control of some things but not everything... God's divine timing does have quite the say.

Now, that being said, IF you allow that and flow with that, you will find LIFE IS JUST GORGEOUS AND SUPREMELY BEAUTIFUL.

And so, if I'm here to do anything on this planet, it is to really to ask and encourage and inspire you to go on that journey of being called from the heart and being told "this is what you are to do."  

Step into your power with faith... with God / Higher Power / Source / Holy Spirit / Jesus (whatever you call that which runs this life)... because this power has WAY BIGGER DREAMS for YOU than you could ever have for yourself!

That's what I have done in my life - especially this last year with my work - AND even in this episode. You see, this episode was completely written out at least a month ago but God has a way of getting your attention and got mine this week with a death that hit close to home.

Find out how death has informed my life and why it's the basis of my "Life is too short and too beautiful to waste" mantra and motto, what it taught me as a kid, what has changed recently in my life and how YOU can change as well and lead and live from LOVE and INTUITION instead of from FEAR.

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Subscribe for instant updates and feel free to send me a direct voice message in the link provided below.

Thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!

Jul 01, 202030:47
Welcome to THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA (Part 2 of 2)

Welcome to THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA (Part 2 of 2)

This is Episode 1 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA aptly named Welcome to THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA. There are 2 parts to this episode... this is Part 2 of 2.

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Be sure to see the Trailer as well as Episode 1 - Part 1 of 2 if you haven't already, Subscribe for updates, and leave me a review if you like it and if you don't, some feedback via the voice messages link provided below.

Thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!

Jun 24, 202025:54
Welcome to THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA (Part 1 of 2)

Welcome to THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA (Part 1 of 2)

This is Episode 1 of THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA aptly named Welcome to THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST with NARAH VALENSKA. There are 2 parts to this episode... this is Part 1 of 2.

Be sure to see the Trailer if you haven't already, Subscribe for updates, and leave me a review if you like it and if you don't, some feedback via the voice messages link provided below.

Thank you for listening. I look forward to hearing from you!

Jun 17, 202030:57
INTRODUCING THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST WITH NARAH VALENSKA

INTRODUCING THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST WITH NARAH VALENSKA

Join Life Writer, Speaker, Coach, and Political Scientist NARAH VALENSKA as she shares about her decision to become her true self, the call from our hearts to become who we were created to be, her hope for the world, and our individual and collective part in it. In this trailer, you will hear about what THE REAL YOU LIVING PODCAST is and isn't, some of the topics that will be covered, and the different formats you can expect. New episodes will be released on Wednesdays, starting June 17, 2020. Subscribe now for updates.

Jun 09, 202005:13