A Lo Oscuro

The bill is finally done! The last part needed is that Donald Trumps signs it! In this episode we will talk about who will receive the stimulus check based on this not yet signed billed. Hopefully it does get signed and we have our stimulus check this weekend coming up. 

Across the world we all have different views on sex and whats the proper way to have it. Here we the BEST sex tips from some of the countrys. What is your countries best sex tip that you have heard? Drop a comment and dont forget to subscribe. 

On this episode we spoke about Tekashi 6ix9ine calling out El Alfa El Jefe a Lambon and how that battle between both of them is turning out!

Alledgedly, Odell Backham Jr a football superstar like to get number 2s on his chest and rocked on. 

Lastly we spoke about the famous SILLAZO that they gave a girl on IG Live in italy!

How should you be texting someone to arouse them and get them in the mood for sex? Well we have the answers for you right here in this Bonus episode of A Lo Oscuro Podcast with Negrosparty. In addition, we dive into the different forms of dirty talk and how to manage them with your partner! 

This was an episode on the fly with my mom and brother. But enjoy the story!

Dr. St.John hands you a mindful approach to integrate discussions of sexuality, relationships, decision making, and other relevant topics into everyday conversations.

Talking to your kids about sex is hard. And, oh so awkward. But...important. Especially if you want your kids to grow up confident and have

healthy relationships (it will save you thousands on future therapy!). Sexologist and mom, Dr. Lanae St.John, aka, The MamaSutra, believes it’s time to shake up the status quo and normalize sex and sexuality. Dr. St.John uses “The Five Building Blocks to a Healthy Sexuality” to ensure children and adults of all ages have the best resources, support, and skills to make good decisions and grow into a happy and fulfilling sex life.

You’ll be given tools like:

¡ how to identify your own hurdles when it comes to discussing sex.

¡ how to stay ahead of today’s information overload and guide your kids

to the best information to support their curiosity.

¡ the steps to open the door of communication with your kids and keep

the eye-rolling to a minimum.

Children at any age want information when it comes to their emerging sexuality, physical, and emotional health. Dr. St.John hands you a mindful approach to integrate discussions of sexuality, relationships, decision making, and other relevant topics into everyday conversations. No matter where you are in your parenting journey... it starts with sex-positive parenting.

Jorge Ruiz (Newark, NJ) - Survivors of childhood trauma deserve to be happy, feel secure and have peace in a loving relationship. But sometimes our past haunts us without knowing how. A history of abuse and neglects can show up in your adult relationship in many forms, like trusting other people being a huge issue. So when it comes to trying to form an intimate relationship with another person can be terrifying and confusing.

I sat down with Riana Milne a Certified Global Life & Love Coach; Childhood & Love Trauma Expert to talk about Ten Adverse Childhood Events that Sabotage Relationships.

Here are some of traumas we spoke about  and in the video you will see how they affect our relationships today.

Living at home with some type of addiction ranging from alcohol, gambling, porn or the newest social media and more.

Seeing the verbal abuse being done to a family member or it being done to you

Its as simple as you working a 9 to 5 and letting your children let themselves in to the home

The famous switch and being "disciplined" for certain behavior. And sexual abuse ranging from sexual molestation to rape

A parent or special person in your life not being present ( Fault or No Fault)

Having to go live with another extension of the family or living under the system.

Feeling different from other people or being on the free lunch programs at school.

From your sibling bullying you or having to receive more attention because of some health problems. In addition, this may also be cause if you have a sibling that was considered the golden child.

Dealing with a family member incarcerated, moving around a lot or community trauma like the one we are currently living with Covid-19 or Community shooting.

Having to deal with a parent that has mental trauma and how they deal with their children.

Jorge Ruiz (Newark,NJ) - Today we spoke about the ‘Ellen DeGeneres Show’ Workplace to Be Reviewed by WarnerMedia. In addition, some of the allegations made from some previous and current employees.  They declared they suffered discrimination and a very toxic environment to work in.  On the other hand, I challenge some of the statements that were made.

In addition, I spoke about mistakes men make before getting to the bedroom. And how this change in mentality can improve your sex life and performance.

Last but certainly not least, one of our listeners reached out to ask about how someone that is 40+ should take dating  after a long relationship. These are advice you can take at any point to improve your dating life and perspective on dating.  

Jorge Ruiz (Newark, NJ) - There is a large amount of myths about the female sexuality, most of which are old saying or just straight up stupid. On the other hand, there are some myths that we battle with because we hear different opinions from females themselves.

We decided to sit down with Nina Cudney a mental health and sexuality coach. We talked some of most common myths of female sexuality and some general clarifications people should know.

Check this video out for all the myths you need to clear up!

Porn has been around for a very long time and its been controversial as well.

Some people are offended by it, some take part of it, others use it on a regular basis (myself) and some become "addicted" to it. It all comes down to personal preferences, choice, category or kink.

It’s important that you know that  “porn addiction” isn’t an official diagnosis recognized by the American Psychiatric Association (APA). But not being able to control the impulse to see porn can be a problem.

The American Psychiatric Association states that "Addiction is a complex condition, a brain disease that is manifested by compulsive substance use despite harmful consequence. People with addiction (severe substance use disorder) have an intense focus on using a certain substance(s), such as alcohol or drugs, to the point that it takes over their life."

People may struggle to talk about this, its hard to know if people are enjoying porn on a regular basis, or cannot live their regular life without seeing it.

Heres Joshua Shea story and how it dealt with his porn addiction.

TRENDING TOPIC

WAYFAIR CONSPIRACY

SUCIERIA DE NEGRO

RULES OF SEX APPEAL

RANT OF THE DAY

Will Smith / Jada Smith (Entanglement)

Jim Goetz is has passed both the chiropractic and physiotherapy National Board exams, and pursues a passion in the optimization of human performance. He is a certified strength and conditioning specialist through the NSCA and holds numerous other certifications in human performance fields. Jim Goetz's expertise is in the advancement of human performance.

Jim Goetz has an extensive background in the field of strength and conditioning. He has coached a variety of athletes in strength and conditioning, ranging from high school national wrestling champions, NCAA Division I football, NFL, MLB, MLS, USA Gymnastics, Olympic Athletes, NCAA Womens basketball, professional boxing and NPC womens figure and bikini divisions.

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Vanessa Guillen a soldier that made a commitment to serve this country we call the United States. More than 10 weeks after she mysteriously vanished from Fort Hood, human remains were found in a grave a couple miles away from the army base. Her supposed killer committed suicide when the police was going to arrest him for the murder of Vanessa Guillen. The same name that Vanessa said that was sexually harassing her, Aron Robinson. I believe the army was trying to cover up the misbehavior of this soldier along with the murder of Vanessa. Who was found in the same spot they search FIVE times, FIVE! Not once or twice but FIVE TIMES. Below you'll find a timeline of important incidents in this case.

April 22 - Vanessa Guillen was last seen int he parking lot of a headquarters at  Ford Hood.
April 27 - The Army's Criminal Investigation Command offered a reward for information $15,000
May 1 - Family members held a rally demanding answers in her disappearance.
May 22 - Another peaceful protest outside of  Fort Hood with Vanessa's Family
June 10 - The Guillen family hold a new conference in Houston asking for a federal investigation
June 11 - National attention after Selma Hayek posted a picture of Vanessa Guillen in which she said "Bring Us Back Vanessa"
June 22-  K-9 and Dive Teams joined the army and Texas rangers in the search near the Leon River after a tip. THEY DIDNT FIND ANYTHING AFTER SEARCHING FOR THE FIFTH TIME. Its the same place where Vanessa's remains were found on June 30th
July 1 -  Aaron Robinson kills himself before the police can come and arrest him

SUCIERIAS DE NEGRO
I had period sex! Something that might gross some people out and others will say " Me too". Another taboo subject that very few people will talk about or even admit that they would like to do it. But I lucky don't fall in that category. Here are six reason why I think you should do and and we should freak out about having some blood on a towel. 

1. Take advantage of the HORNINESS
So Ive heard this from plenty of women that right before their period they become very horny. In addition, Ive had women agree that when they are on they period its the horniest they ever get. Fellas, I say we take advantage of this biological moment in life and have sex.

2. You may have a more Intense orgasm
Who doesn't like to orgasm? I sure do. While women are on they period their uterus swells and puts pressure on nerve ends in her vagina. As a result making her much more sensitive and for some women this equals a higher chance of reaching the climax of a lifetime.

3. You DONT need lube.
Listen this is pretty clear! You save a few buck and you get to have sex. The blood acts as a lubricant actually better than must lube brands used by a lot of people.

4. Helps her deal with the pain
During her period you have heard of the mood swings, the cramps, needy, ect. So how can having sex while on your period help this? Well according to the certified sex therapist Donna Oriowo "Orgasms can lead to the uterine contractions, which can help the process of shedding the uterine lining along". In other words, get laid with the intentions to have less cramps and hopefully an shorted period.

5. The GLOW UP
Aside from the fact that its taking away cramps, the body releases endorphins and oxytocin during sex that lead to lowering your stress level. Which comes in handy during your period

6. She deserves it! Shit WE Deserve it
A period only stops a sentence and Ive taken a few stop signs. No women should feel ashamed of any natural process of her body. During this time of the month you should not feel obligated to not partake in certain sexual activities. And If your man isnt down then put him on time out for another week and tell him you think hes on his period.

TRENDING TOPIC OF THE DAY

FUTURE IS THE BABY DADDY OF ELIZA REIGN

But how do you deal with  not knowing who is the Bady Daddy?

 Option 1: The mystery approach. Just don’t tell anyone anything. Just make vague references when asked. “The father, oh yes, he was a good man. A solitary type of man.” Purse my lips, shrug. “Oh yes, the father, well, he died in the war.” Adjust my perfect ’50s-style chignon as I walked away, hips swinging, heels clinking. Option 2: Eeenie-meenie-minie-moe-pick-a-father-since-you-don’t-know. But that was low, even for me (and I was feeling rather low).. Option 3: Honesty. With everyone. No matter how much it hurt (it did). No matter how much it sucked (greatly). Watch every face fall in disappointment, hear every sigh, every insult (and those said behind my back that I had to feel instead), have every difficult conversation, and dive headlong into my feelings of shame. SCARYMOM.COM 

GROOMING AND HYGINE DURING QUARANTINE
WOMEN NOT SHAVING, WAXING DURING QUARANTINE DOWN A 25% TIED WITH GOING TO WORK, SCHOOL, OUT LONGEST 

SUCIERIA DE NEGRO

I’m A Parent Making Porn To Make Ends Meet During Covid Quarantine For some of us, porn-making and digital work are our only real option to provide for our families right now. LIVE CAM - KINK REQUEST - SEXTING - NUDES QUOTE: “is context-appropriate for her age; she’s 8. She knows that “Mommy works in a business called a strip club and dances for people and tells them jokes, gives them hugs, and gets tipped money for doing so, because bodies are interesting and beautiful and people will pay money to appreciate them, and because companionship is important.” “ RENT, MORTAGAGE BENEFIT - “ HELP ME SLOW DOWN THE PACE OF MY HUSBAND” 

EXCESO DE PORNO EN CUARENTENA: CONSECUENCIAS el consumo de pornografía se iba a ir por los cielos POR EL CORONAVIRUS. El uso compulsivo de pornografía no está técnicamente clasificado como una adicción.  Bueno, a lo largo de la última década, las investigaciones han relacionado a la pornografía con disfunción sexual, es decir, con problemas de excitación, atracción y desempeño. Bueno, a lo largo de la última década, las investigaciones han relacionado a la pornografía con disfunción sexual, es decir, con problemas de excitación, atracción y desempeño. Los viernes hay menos visitantes que el resto de la semana, lo cual puede sugerir que las situaciones sociales limitan las oportunidades de uso de la pornografía. 

RANT OF THE DAY 

Top 5 excuses girls use not to be in a relationship 

IM NOT READY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP
IM TALKING TO SOMEBODY ELSE
MY FRIEND HAS A THING FOR YOU
MY MOM DOESNT REALLY LIKE YOU
YOUR LIKE A BROTHER TO ME

Nicky Jam - El Ganador  AND THE JOURNEY HE TOOK TO COME BACK FROM SUCCESS AND DRUGS. EXCLUSIVE INFO ON HIS NEW FILM OF PR KID THAT INHERITS A BARBERSHOP IN COLOMBIA

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND $135,000 IN A BAG? RETURN IN ? YEAAA I KNOW I WOULDN'T. BUT DO KNOW WHAT  THE LAW SAYS

I BRING TO YOU THE BEST Sex toys guide (6 MUST BUY) AND REASON TO USE SEX TOYS

LAST BUT NOT LEAST WE HAVE ALL HEARD A GIRL SAY “ GUYS AINT $#!% “ WELL I'M GOING TO GIVE THE 5 MOST COMMON REASON WHY

May 8th we had the pleasure of have one of the most entertaining artist in history! If you dont have a clue who im talking about , you should looking into 6ix9ine! Today we went live on instagram and had over 2 MILLION people tune in! Destroying Tory Lanez and Don Miguelos Live records. We talk about the rappers that are mad hes back and the so called street code! Let me know what you think.

OUT OF SHADOW - NAME OF THE FILM ON YOUTUBE 

THERES ALOT BETWEEN HOLLYWOOD STUDIO EXECUTIVE AND POLITICS TODAY THAT WE SHOULD LOOK INTO
EXAMPLE HARVEY WEINSTEIN - HUGE BENEFACTOR TO THE HILARY CLINTONS PRESIDENTIAL CAMPAIGN - Feeding America the information that the CIA wants the public to consume
“This is extremely dangerous to our democracy” 

CIA in Hollywood
Walt Disney served as a secret informer for the Los Angeles office of the Federal Bureau of Investigation, according to documents that have come to light under the Freedom of Information Act.
CIA HELP DISNEY BUY SWAMP LAND IN FLORIDA WHY HELP? AND USE SHELL CORPORATIONS
He hired two notoriously shady men Paul Helliwell, who ran CIA operations in Southeast Asia, and William "Wild Bill" Donovan, head of the World War II spy organization that eventually became the CIA.
THE SWAMPS TURN TO SHADES OF GREEN
Shades of Green is a resort owned by the United States Department of Defense (DOD) in the city of Bay Lake, Florida, near Orlando, Florida on Walt Disney World property. It is one of five Armed Forces Recreation Centers (AFRC) resorts and a part of the military's Morale, Welfare, and Recreation program (MWR).[1] MOCKING BIRD PEOPLE GETTING PAID BY THE CIA TO PUBLISH CERTAIN WORDS
PROGRAM ENDS BUT ITS NOW “VOLUNTARY”
WHEN HAVE YOU HEARD OF PEOPLE INVESTIGATING THE CIA? 

Operation paper clip :
BROUGHT THE NATZI SCIENTIST TO THE USA
took all experiment done on humans (INCLUDING CHILDREN)
MK ULTRA ( human experiment and mind manipulation)
People’s mind with electric treatment and then implant the message they wanted
LSD EXPERIMENT - having people describe the usage of the drug and what they were hallucinating  
Sleep treatment for 23 days Richard helm stopped the project and destroyed all the documents 

CIA HONEY POTS OR HONEY TRAP “In espionage terminology, honeypot and honey trap are terms for an investigative practice involving the use of romantic or sexual relationships for interpersonal, political (including state espionage), or monetary gain, and are often seen in media portrayals of female espionage” Playboy Mansion Orgy Island EPSTEIN'S PRIVATE JET Compromising positions to shut people up Used as blackmail people so they can’t talk 

JEFF EPSTEIN WHO?! The financier, with ties to celebrities, politicians, and royalty, was arrested earlier this summer 2019 sex trafficking Jeff epstein “killed himself” Owner of the island to this ring Famous people His former associates include kevin spacy, hilary clinton, Bill Clinton, Donald Trump, and Queen Elizabeth's son Prince Andrew. All his friends that went to the island. 

PIZZAGATE A participant on 4chan connected the phrase “cheese pizza” to pedophiles, who on chat boards use the initials “c.p.” to denote child pornography. On Dec. 4, Edgar M. Welch, a 28-year-old from North Carolina, arrived at Comet with a military-style rifle and a handgun. The police said he fired the rifle inside the pizzeria, hurting no one, and surrendered after finding no evidence to support claims of child slaves being held there. pizzagate (fact or fiction) Dc restaurant Code words for something else Besta Pizza is 2 doors down from Comet Pizza In the context it didn’t make sense The logo of the pizza spot is aligned with the symbols that mean boy lovers WE HEAR A LOT FORM MIKE SMITH AND BRAD MARTIN- stunt man ARE WORK FOR DISNEY AND PRODUCED/BEEN PARTOF MOVIES LIKE SPIDER MAN 2 THE MATRIX RELOADED BATMAN V SUPERMAN LIZ CROKIN WAS A JOURNALIST FOR BIG JOURNALIST COMPANIES SUCH AS THE OBSERVER ELITE DAILY US WEEKLY TO NAME A FEW AND THEN THERE'S KEVIN SHIPP REFERRED TO THE CIA WHISTLE BLOWER HEROES/SNITCHES THAT EXPOSE CRIMES AND CORRUPT ACTIVITY EVEN THOUGH THEY WILL BE PUNISHED HARSHLY BY THE GOVERNMENT FOR EXPOSING THOSE SECRETS

This weeks episode took longer than usual but totally worth it. Big thank you to Nairobi for coming and joining us. 

In this episode we speak from Drakes $400k Mattress to Donald Trumps and his lysol recommendations, Shootings in Paterson NJ. En Las sucierias de Negro we dived into los 8 consejos para mejorar el sexo oral along with an onlyfans women who win $100K a year! And at he end the rant was about aliens and their play in today and great conversations keep on going. Hope you enjoy!

The coronavirus continues to make a large mark in history. Obligating people to stay home, like the artist that was able to paint Bad bunny! In addition, we will talk about the Kenya Governor that wants Henny in the food packages for the families. Rene from call 13, Residente, tweets that his girl wants to have sex twice a day and seven days a week and that he need a vibrator as soon as possible. Lastly, instagram is the new outside and we went from live talk shows, to strip clubs, to casino to Blessing looms.... 

Spoiler alert! Hablo sobre la casa de papel y mucho de lo que sucede! TikTok y el poder que tiene china sobre el. Los mejores lugares en donde pueden tener sexo en publico y cuales son las expectativa!

Today we are going to talk about one of my favorite drama kings, Takashi 6ix9nine and his release today. In addition, to the social takeover of Tiger King and how everyone is loving Joe Exotic and hating on Carole Baskin. Moverover, we talk about these text that I started getting because i danced on IG with baby oil which leads us to sexting. And lastly, keep the same energy....

As we continue to deal wit the coronavirus, the biggest condom producer shut down. So I thought this would be a perfect opportunity to talk about ways to have safe sex. In addition, I posted a picture on my instagram that brought up a large amount of questions and concerns. This post ended up being a snowballing moments (Find out what it is). And yes, all of your friends are getting married BUT THESE ARE THE REASONS NOT TO MARRY!

Due to the current situation (CORONA VIRUS CARDI B VOICE) the economy is taking a hit and as a result the US government has proposed a stimulus check for every adult up to $1200 to help the economy ($2 Trillion in total). 

Whens the right time to say I Love You, I don't know the answer to that but what I do know is that during sex its NOT the best time to do it.

You feel some type of way cuz everyone is getting engaged, your boyfriend of 20 years hasn't proposed yet, all your friends are building a family well you might want to listen to this episode. 

In todays rant we spot golden showers and how some people are in love with the act of having “urine play” or “water sports” ― is slang for a sex act involving urine. It’s the act of peeing on or around your partner(s), or getting peed on yourself! We debate if females squirting on you falls under the same category. In addition,  relationship break! Something that may be needed when no matter how hard you try, it just isn't working and you are losing your connection, but still love each other; love each other enough to hold on. A relationship break means actively creating the space to step out of the complexity and friction. Last but not least, for the relevant topic of the day we spoke about immigration and the Donald trump

The rant continued on whats the proper time to start having the conversation as to where the dating is going. How not having a title does not secure the future to people and how Negro believes titles add unnecessary pressure. How some guys find it okay to be someones girlfriend forever and the pressure girls receive from other females. In addition, to the expectation that females are applying to the right man and pushing them away. 

And todays rant starts with us talking about losing hope on finding real love. Ms Rant speaks about a recent event that made her lose total hope in finding love and more. Relationship goals from social media and their impact on todays relationships. In Addition, the struggle that women have with a man that does make as much as them. 

Today we tackled the debate of what is worst, to get cheat on or the lie? We discussed on some would rather get lied to that confront the truth. I strongly believe the lie is the worst because it add on the what was done wrong already. Relationship can work on the reason why one of the partners lead to cheating but one of the toughest situation is dealing with recovering someones trust. In addition, Nairobi and the voice of god got into a heated conversation about the responsibilities or being part of a relationship or the wants of one. Moreover, we speak on the unrealistic expectation "relationship goals" are having on todays relationships and how that is affecting them. Lastly, we allow our followers to leave a comment with topics they would like for us to talk about. 

Porque comenzar un podcast?
Habra niveles de infidelidades?
Vulnerabilidad
De donde viene el machismo?
Como podemos aduenarnos de nuestras sobras?
Adicto a la pornografia
Derechos a la clave de tus redes sociales

Do men judge women if they sleep on the first night?

Whats the average penis size?

Is it worth having to wait the 90 days?

Guys that cant go round 2

Girls talking to other girls about their mans sexual performance

The impact of certain condoms

Ways to check if your boyfriend has the need to verify his masculinity to his friend

Are strippers, bartender, bottle girls the same?

What level of restaurant is your  vagina worth?

There are probably a lot of great guys out there! I know ladies sometimes hard to believe but its true. In this episode we are going to tell you what the 12 qualities that mean you should NEVER let him go. It might just happen to be that the guy in you DM that you have not answered yet, has all these qualities. Enjoy