Secrets of Spiritual Sex

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to EJ Love, a sex, love and intimacy coach, about initiating the masculine heart into deeper intimacy. EJ discusses what she learnt during her experience as an escort whilst working with both men and women over many years and the importance of acknowledging emotions in intimacy. We speak of the dangers of the men who run the ‘nice guy role’ and then shut down their ability to penetrate for fear of being a predator. Want deeper, more heart-felt and connected penetration? Want to get the spark back in your relationship? Want to access your inner sacred slut and bring a whole new level of devotion to the bedroom? Tune in and turn on.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Stacey O’ Gorman, a women’s wellbeing mentor, about sex-less marriages, attempts at reigniting the relationship fire and then life after divorce. We explore the possible reasons for the current ‘sex recession’, including the existential and expectational and the dangers of our entertainment-soaked existence. From zero-body awareness and a life of dissociating through corporate success and excessive busy-ness, Stacey speaks of her journey towards releasing the toll of an unsustainable lifestyle and diminishing hormonal health, debilitating exhaustion and depression. Stacey reflects on her own return home to her softness and sensitivity with tangible tools and tips for nurturing our feminine wisdom.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Mercy Jay, a professional Dominatrix, about the magic of living life in a deeply unconventional way. We speak about how to live from the guidance of your pussy and how kink can not only enrich your sex life but can invite you to meet areas of yourself that can greatly increase your love of life. Mercy defines polyamory as the freedom to customise your own relationships and highlights the freedom that comes with opening your relationship and whole-heartdely inviting your partner to explore their sexual desires with others. We end with tips and tools for incorporating BDSM in your bedroom and why it’s well worth it to lean in to your pleasure curiosity.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Lorin Krenn, a deep intimacy coach and writer about the gift of death as a potent teacher. Lorin speaks about the dangers of spiritual bypassing and the initiation that followed where he gave himself permission to embody both the fierceness of the cock and the tenderness of his heart. We explore the origins of performance anxiety, the damage of porn as an influence and penetrating a woman from a place of presence.  We get real about the most common issues affecting men right now in the realms of sexuality and intimacy and Lorin provides refreshing new angles on harnessing the power of cock energy. This episode is a potent reminder of the magic that follows when one drops the script and becomes open to what is truly alive in the moment.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Tony Thorn about his journey of growing up ‘loving illegally’ as a gay man in New Zealand. We speak of the wounding within queer consciousness and his own inner struggle with sex addiction and unhealthy power dynamics. He speaks of his own journey from sexual obsession to sexual repulsion and back again, and why too closely associating worthiness with intimacy became a dangerous trap of self sabotage. A deeply inspiring episode of finding one’s path out of victimhood and into one of confronting, yet powerful sexual healing.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Michelle Panning, an intimacy alchemist, about the continual importance of cultivating self-worth in order to have fulfilling intimate experiences. From a 10 year history of stripping and disembodied intimacy, Michelle speaks about the magic that happens when one f*cks with both the pussy and the heart. This episode looks at the dangers of measuring your own self worth by the responses of others, the importance of personalised boundary setting and how vaginal numbness can be an invitation to dive into exactly what we have spent years avoiding.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Ritva Maria, a holistic facilitator of personal transformation, about non-physical communion and the massively under-researched topic of energetic sex. We also dive deep into the ways that our personal stories provide fertile ground for powerful transformation, if we commit to radical self responsibility. We discuss ways to navigate feelings of guilt, regret and ultimately, forgiveness as a pathway to opening the heart again for honest intimacy. An inspiring conversation that proves no matter how tumultuous our backgrounds, we hold more power than we know by playing a significant role in directing the next chapters of our lives.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Winter Jade Icely, an international teacher of sexuality and spirituality, on the pleasure, magic and mystery that lies deep within (...your bum). Real life stories and experiences reveal the ways in which anal play is it’s own type of spiritual odyssey. With tips and tools for accessing more of your own truth, this episode is designed to rewrite negative programming surrounding the anus and invite you into conscious communion with yourself and your lover. Tips for anal novices and existential expansion for anal pro’s, this episode reminds us all that to get to the spiritual, you have to face the shit.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Hamish Daley, a relationship dynamics coach, about the ways in which our earliest experiences show up in our current relationships. Why do Avoidant Attachers seem to hold all the power in the relationship? Why are Anxious Attachers so needy? In what ways did our initial relationships as infants form a blueprint for how we relate throughout our lives and is it even possible to rewrite some of these patterns? Join us for this entertaining introduction to developmental psychology and find out why opposites are destined to attract.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Ramya Jade, a feminine embodiment coach, about alchemising trauma into fuel for deeper intimacy. We discuss how common it is to split the heart and the sex when we relate with others and ways to prevent this internal divide. This episode gives tools and tips for getting honest about your patterns of sexual relating and speaks candidly about how to own and love what we once rejected in ourselves.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Tyran Mowbray, a men’s health and sex mentor.  Tyran shares his journey towards heart-centered sexual empowerment having overcome porn addiction numbing sexual behaviours. We discuss the importance of cock consciousness, the power of vulnerable communication and why it’s well worth releasing damaging beliefs about masculinity if you wish to deeply love a man.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Kara Leah, a lifelong student of non-dualistic Tantra on what exactly is traditional Tantra and why we get it so confused with the modern movement of neo-Tantra. This episode unpacks what it means to truly live life as a Tantrika and why it is so much more than cuddle-puddles and lingam massage. Smashing societal conditioning and pre-programmed patterns of relating, living and loving, this episode is a game-changer for those deep into the quest for Truth within.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Australia’s leading men’s sex coach, Cam Fraser, on busting some of the myths surrounding male pleasure. From ejaculation control to de-stigmatising the anus, this episode is an informative deep dive for those who have a penis and those who love penises.

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to registered midwife and yoni mapping therapist, Ylia Sawitzki, on the differences between yoni mapping, yoni massage and de-armouring. We cover what’s involved in a session with a yoni therapist and for whom this work may benefit. For anyone interested in (giving or receiving) a vaginal massage - this episode is for you.