NO H3ZZI Talks
By RJ Mendoza
NO H3ZZI Talks dives deeper into human experiences from regular people just like you and me. On this journey I learn and grow through deep conversations, and hopefully share unique stories with you all.
NO H3ZZI - "No Hesitation" exists by 3 pillars: live freely, love freely, & experience freely. One of the ways we can accomplish this is through open, authentic, and meaningful conversations.
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NO H3ZZI TalksFeb 13, 2022
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01:16:45
Is it resentment that holds you back?
It's 2022 and I'm back! New year, new episode, and a new co-host. Please help me welcome my girl Vonne to the show.
In episode 3, Vonne and I explore the concept of residual resentment. We've been on this continuous journey to become the best versions of ourselves, and recently I asked the question, "Is it resentment that holds you back?" Are there events or past traumas in your life for which you still have resentment and didn't even know it? Have you fully healed, or are you subconsciously still holding on to that resentment?
Listen in as we share some of our realizations, and how we're moving forward in our journey today.
#resentment #childhoodtrauma
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SOCIALS:
❤️VONNE❤️
TikTok: @mommavonnee
IG: @mamavonne
Podcast: www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_descriptionandredir_token=QUFFLUhqa0VxLWRxNkEyMk03ZUNlNHFCU1BfZk1vT01Dd3xBQ3Jtc0ttZk1DSTl4UTNnUDQ1U2k5Z1pkMFkweUJObW5MNjN4NkhWOElyU0w3bnIxY2dDUVNraEdWSUZEczdUODVoMkJKRXZ5OG5nZVBHU2FENDFRQ0ZQYk54X3hpMWNNSWRiZHYxX3hZcTc1eTE5Z3QxbFhVSQandq=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.buzzsprout.com%2F768392 (https://www.buzzsprout.com/768392)
❤️RJ❤️
TikTok: @tiktoknrj
IG: @rjmm81
In episode 3, Vonne and I explore the concept of residual resentment. We've been on this continuous journey to become the best versions of ourselves, and recently I asked the question, "Is it resentment that holds you back?" Are there events or past traumas in your life for which you still have resentment and didn't even know it? Have you fully healed, or are you subconsciously still holding on to that resentment?
Listen in as we share some of our realizations, and how we're moving forward in our journey today.
#resentment #childhoodtrauma
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If you loved the Pod, check out the gear!: www.NOH3ZZI.com
Donate to NAMI: www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_descriptionandredir_token=QUFFLUhqbkxpczYtbGdWeVI3N3FDcDc4OWdjWjR6b1h2QXxBQ3Jtc0trTEpsYU5vSUM1VHREWUpPdk5mZ2loVUtLUEtqOVI4cF9QeF9NNjdjbVpvUzA1TFQtckdwUE9EcVBnQTU4eHo5UWhmVVhEOEVqMDdSSlA4eENWX3JueERrRlNscjZVNjNmLU1xOUlPSDZMT0RKZklFNAandq=https%3A%2F%2Fdonate.nami.org%2Fcancergang (https://donate.nami.org/cancergang)
SOCIALS:
❤️VONNE❤️
TikTok: @mommavonnee
IG: @mamavonne
Podcast: www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_descriptionandredir_token=QUFFLUhqa0VxLWRxNkEyMk03ZUNlNHFCU1BfZk1vT01Dd3xBQ3Jtc0ttZk1DSTl4UTNnUDQ1U2k5Z1pkMFkweUJObW5MNjN4NkhWOElyU0w3bnIxY2dDUVNraEdWSUZEczdUODVoMkJKRXZ5OG5nZVBHU2FENDFRQ0ZQYk54X3hpMWNNSWRiZHYxX3hZcTc1eTE5Z3QxbFhVSQandq=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.buzzsprout.com%2F768392 (https://www.buzzsprout.com/768392)
❤️RJ❤️
TikTok: @tiktoknrj
IG: @rjmm81
Feb 13, 202201:16:45
My Gay Daughter
In episode 2, I talk to Christine who's daughter came out as #gay at the age of 21. I get Christine's perspective as a parent on her daughter's coming out.
I have to admit that coming into this particular episode, I had made some assumptions based on my own coming out experience. In other words, I was expecting some drama. To my surprise, it was quite the opposite. And Christine reminded me, that I need to keep my heart and my mind open, and that love is love no matter what.
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If you loved the Pod, check out the gear!: www.NOH3ZZI.com
Donate to NAMI: donate.nami.org/cancergang (https://donate.nami.org/cancergang)
SOCIALS:
❤️ CHRISTINE ❤️
TikTok: @christinez.tiktok
IG: @foxymama1
❤️ RJ ❤️
TikTok: @tiktoknrj
IG: @rjmm81
I have to admit that coming into this particular episode, I had made some assumptions based on my own coming out experience. In other words, I was expecting some drama. To my surprise, it was quite the opposite. And Christine reminded me, that I need to keep my heart and my mind open, and that love is love no matter what.
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If you loved the Pod, check out the gear!: www.NOH3ZZI.com
Donate to NAMI: donate.nami.org/cancergang (https://donate.nami.org/cancergang)
SOCIALS:
❤️ CHRISTINE ❤️
TikTok: @christinez.tiktok
IG: @foxymama1
❤️ RJ ❤️
TikTok: @tiktoknrj
IG: @rjmm81
Jun 21, 202150:24
Straight to Gay (relationships that is)
In episode 1, I talk to Mae and Vonne who were both in heterosexual marriages, got divorced, and are now in their first www.youtube.com/hashtag/gay (#gay) relationships.
We talk about their past relationships as well as the transition to their new relationships with women. What has the experience been like? What were some of the challenges? Have they been able to successfully navigate these new waters?
It's my very 1st podcast episode! As with all things new, it's never perfect the first time out. Please excuse the audio issues. What's most important though is the conversation. Hope you enjoy the www.youtube.com/hashtag/episode (#episode) .
www.youtube.com/hashtag/pride (#pride) www.youtube.com/hashtag/pridestory (#pridestory)
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If you loved the Pod, check out the gear!: www.NOH3ZZI.com
Donate to NAMI: www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_descriptionandredir_token=QUFFLUhqbkxpczYtbGdWeVI3N3FDcDc4OWdjWjR6b1h2QXxBQ3Jtc0trTEpsYU5vSUM1VHREWUpPdk5mZ2loVUtLUEtqOVI4cF9QeF9NNjdjbVpvUzA1TFQtckdwUE9EcVBnQTU4eHo5UWhmVVhEOEVqMDdSSlA4eENWX3JueERrRlNscjZVNjNmLU1xOUlPSDZMT0RKZklFNAandq=https%3A%2F%2Fdonate.nami.org%2Fcancergang (https://donate.nami.org/cancergang)
SOCIALS:
❤️MAE❤️
TikTok: @mommaeeeeee
IG: @mommaeeeeee
❤️VONNE❤️
TikTok: @mommavonnee
IG: @mamavonne
Podcast: www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_descriptionandredir_token=QUFFLUhqa0VxLWRxNkEyMk03ZUNlNHFCU1BfZk1vT01Dd3xBQ3Jtc0ttZk1DSTl4UTNnUDQ1U2k5Z1pkMFkweUJObW5MNjN4NkhWOElyU0w3bnIxY2dDUVNraEdWSUZEczdUODVoMkJKRXZ5OG5nZVBHU2FENDFRQ0ZQYk54X3hpMWNNSWRiZHYxX3hZcTc1eTE5Z3QxbFhVSQandq=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.buzzsprout.com%2F768392 (https://www.buzzsprout.com/768392)
❤️RJ❤️
TikTok: @tiktoknrj
IG: @rjmm81
We talk about their past relationships as well as the transition to their new relationships with women. What has the experience been like? What were some of the challenges? Have they been able to successfully navigate these new waters?
It's my very 1st podcast episode! As with all things new, it's never perfect the first time out. Please excuse the audio issues. What's most important though is the conversation. Hope you enjoy the www.youtube.com/hashtag/episode (#episode) .
www.youtube.com/hashtag/pride (#pride) www.youtube.com/hashtag/pridestory (#pridestory)
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If you loved the Pod, check out the gear!: www.NOH3ZZI.com
Donate to NAMI: www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_descriptionandredir_token=QUFFLUhqbkxpczYtbGdWeVI3N3FDcDc4OWdjWjR6b1h2QXxBQ3Jtc0trTEpsYU5vSUM1VHREWUpPdk5mZ2loVUtLUEtqOVI4cF9QeF9NNjdjbVpvUzA1TFQtckdwUE9EcVBnQTU4eHo5UWhmVVhEOEVqMDdSSlA4eENWX3JueERrRlNscjZVNjNmLU1xOUlPSDZMT0RKZklFNAandq=https%3A%2F%2Fdonate.nami.org%2Fcancergang (https://donate.nami.org/cancergang)
SOCIALS:
❤️MAE❤️
TikTok: @mommaeeeeee
IG: @mommaeeeeee
❤️VONNE❤️
TikTok: @mommavonnee
IG: @mamavonne
Podcast: www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_descriptionandredir_token=QUFFLUhqa0VxLWRxNkEyMk03ZUNlNHFCU1BfZk1vT01Dd3xBQ3Jtc0ttZk1DSTl4UTNnUDQ1U2k5Z1pkMFkweUJObW5MNjN4NkhWOElyU0w3bnIxY2dDUVNraEdWSUZEczdUODVoMkJKRXZ5OG5nZVBHU2FENDFRQ0ZQYk54X3hpMWNNSWRiZHYxX3hZcTc1eTE5Z3QxbFhVSQandq=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.buzzsprout.com%2F768392 (https://www.buzzsprout.com/768392)
❤️RJ❤️
TikTok: @tiktoknrj
IG: @rjmm81
Jun 15, 202157:39