Ofacez

In this no-holds-barred episode of O-Facez, Mr. and Mrs. Mocha answer the steamiest, most vulnerable, and most asked questions from listeners deep in—or just getting curious about—the swinger lifestyle.

From managing emotions and setting boundaries to the wild stories.

What’s it really like to open your bedroom—and your relationship—to others?Expect real answers, intimate moments, and plenty of laughter as the Mochas mix honesty, heat, and humor in a conversation that speaks directly to couples—and inspiration for the bolder women who are ready to explore connection, chemistry, and sexual freedom together.

In this explosive episode of Ofacez, Mr. Mocha hosts a no-filter, no-apologies debate that dives straight into one of the most talked-about questions in the lifestyle world:

👉 Who truly holds the power in cuckolding and hotwifing—the couple or the bull?

Joining the table:
🎙 Michael C., one of the most recognizable and respected voices in the cuckold and hotwife lifestyle from the Keys and Anklets podcast, and
🎙 Socrates, a bold new voice and emerging personality from the Bulls Brotherhood podcast.

Moderated by The Sigma Male (also from Bulls Brotherhood), this debate goes way beyond surface-level lifestyle talk. Mr. Mocha (firmly Team Couple) and Michael C. (Team Bull) reignite their long-standing disagreement—but this time, Socrates steps in with his own fire, challenging both sides with a raw and unfiltered perspective.

This episode is funny, intense, honest, and long—but worth every second for anyone serious about the lifestyle.

🔞 Topics Include:

• Cuckolding vs. Bull power dynamics

• Who’s really in control during play: the bull or the couple?

• Bull psychology, dominance, and expectations

• Would you rather have to many or to few options

• Real male experiences inside the lifestyle

Whether you're in the swinger lifestyle, exploring cuckold/hotwife dynamics, or just want unfiltered conversations with real men who live it—this is essential listening.

🎧 Press play on this long ass, uncut, and unforgettable lifestyle podcast episode .

Mr. Mocha and Manicorn Q are day drinking and saying whatever the hell they want in this unfiltered, boys-only edition of Ofacez: The Cutting Board. They rope in Stag Rizza, who kicks things off with a wild question: Why do so many Black men leave their socks on during sex? From there, it spirals—in the best way possible.

This episode dives into the swinger lifestyle from a male perspective, mixing real sex talk, cultural truths, and politically incorrect laughs. If you're into hotwife dynamics, stag/vixen play, open marriage, or just raw, unedited lifestyle conversations with no sugarcoating—this one’s for you.

🎙️ Topics include:

• Swinger culture & male performance

• Stag life & hotwife perspectives

• Black men in the lifestyle

• Funny sex habits and taboos

• Drinking, honesty, and everything in between

Warning: This is a locker-room-level, drink-in-hand episode. No filters, no fluff—just straight-up real talk from real men living the lifestyle.

In a seductive twist, the mics are turned on Mr. and Mrs. Mocha as Brian Morgan, better known as The Sigma Male, takes over hosting duties on the Ofacez podcast. A long-time admirer of their dynamic, Brian is on a mission to pull back the curtain and uncover the roots of the relationship that so many in the lifestyle look up to.

What follows is a deeply personal and intimate conversation, where the Mocha’s share the raw, real, and sometimes messy journey that shaped their unbreakable bond. From lust to love, from trust to full-blown sexual liberation, Brian digs into how their relationship evolved—and how they managed to build a connection strong enough to not just survive the lifestyle, but thrive in it.

Listeners get a front-row seat to the kind of honesty and vulnerability rarely captured in the lifestyle space. For wives craving emotional depth and husbands who want to understand how to lead with both strength and softness, this episode is a masterclass in modern love, sexual freedom, and radical partnership.

Whether you're curious, committed, or craving more from your own relationship, this candid interview peels back the layers—and the clothes—of what makes Mr. and Mrs. Mocha such a powerful couple both in and out of the bedroom.

Day 2 of the Mr. and Mrs. Mocha live podcast at Splash Mocha was pure fire from start to finish. If Day 1 warmed things up, Day 2 turned up the heat and let it burn. With a packed studio audience and a panel that was ready to get raw, this episode dove even deeper into the realities, fantasies, and downright sexy chaos of the lifestyle.

From the moment the mics turned on, the energy in the room was electric. Real couples. Real bulls. Real conversations. No scripts, no filters—just genuine people sharing their wildest moments, unspoken desires, and the emotional highs (and curveballs) that come with living the lifestyle out loud.

Mrs. Mocha kept it spicy, asking the questions everyone’s too shy to say out loud. Mr. Mocha, as always, brought balance with humor, insight, and a few jaw-dropping reactions of his own. The audience didn’t hold back either—adding to the kind of vibe you just don’t get behind closed studio doors.

Was the sound perfect? Nah. But that only made it feel more real—like you were right there in the room, drink in hand, heart racing, and a few ideas you might just take home with you.

Whether you're deep in the lifestyle or just curious about what really goes down at these conventions, this episode is a wild ride you don’t want to miss. Sexy, smart, and straight-up unforgettable.

Step into the electrifying energy of a live studio audience as Mr. and Mrs. Mocha take the stage at Splash Mocha, the ultimate interracial hotwife convention! This episode delivers raw, unscripted, and unfiltered conversations with a dynamic panel and audience participation that takes the discussion to the next level.

While the sound quality may be a little rough, the passion, excitement, and authenticity shine through as guests and attendees dive into the realities of the swinger lifestyle. From jaw-dropping personal experiences to candid confessions and spicy debates, this is one conversation you won’t want to miss.

Experience the thrill of live podcasting where anything can happen—because when the Mocha’s and a room full of open-minded, sexy people get together, you know it’s going to be an unforgettable ride!

Buckle up, press play, and get ready for the heat!

Trigger Warning: Provocative Content Ahead!

This week on Ofacez, Mr. Mocha sits down with the outspoken Manicorn Q, who kicks off the conversation with a fiery statement: "Your wife is not as hot as you think she is." Dive into an unfiltered discussion that touches on dynamics within swinging, hotwifing, Cuckolding, and ethical non-monogamy. Manicorn Q's candid insights and bold opinions are sure to spark intense reactions. Mr. Mocha provides a space for raw and passionate exchanges, so buckle up for a steamy, reality-TV-like episode that might challenge your perspectives. Are you ready for the heat?

As the countdown to Splash Mocha begins, Mrs. Mocha is practically buzzing with anticipation. In this steamy pre-event episode, she shares her excitement about rekindling old connections and embracing the thrill of new, pulse-quickening experiences. With Mr. Mocha’s expert touch guiding her into the perfect, uninhibited mindset, she’s ready to unleash her wild side in ways that will leave listeners breathless.

But this episode isn’t just about passion—it’s about connection. Mrs. Mocha emphasizes the importance of couples deepening their bond before, during, and after the event, reminding listeners that intimacy isn’t always about sex. Sometimes, it’s about stolen glances, whispered confessions, and the unspoken promise of what’s to come.

For the wives yearning for something more—for excitement, for seduction, for a taste of the forbidden—Mrs. Mocha offers tips on staying energized, engaged, and ready to indulge in the kind of unforgettable nights that romance novels barely dare to describe. This episode is a must-listen for any woman craving adventure… and a partner who knows exactly how to ignite her deepest desires.

Tune in, turn on, and let's talk dirty.

Ever wondered what really happens at sex parties? Or how stepping outside the "norm" can reignite the passion in your relationship? Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are bringing the heat in this episode as they sit down with Tammy, who took a leap into the world of ethical non-monogamy after a chance encounter at a bar introduced her to the lifestyle.

From nervously attending her first sex party to finding confidence, connection, and erotic freedom, Tammy shares her unforgettable journey—complete with awkward moments, thrilling encounters, and the unexpected friendships that changed her perspective on relationships and intimacy.

She dives deep into what it’s really like to explore new desires, navigate pleasure with confidence, and embrace the power of female sexual empowerment. But here’s the twist—Tammy isn’t just another lifestyle explorer. Spoiler alert: She’s also a sex and relationship therapist and coach, bringing expert insight into why so many couples feel “stuck” and how they can break free to rediscover passion.

Join Mr and Mrs Mocha in this juicy and unfiltered episode as they dish out advice on breaking free from lifestyle peer pressure and embracing your authentic, sexy self . Whether you are new to the scene or a seasoned Explorer they encourage you to break out of cliques , explore different lifestyle communities,  and unlock the full potential of your wildest fantasies.

And because Mocha always bring the heat , she shares a hilarious explicit tale about her freshly (waxed kitty ) and how it held up during some steamy , friction - filled fun. Spoiler alert it's as spicy as it sounds!

If you are a curious couple,  a swinging soul, or a bored housewife craving more passion in the bedroom , this episode will inspire you to let your freak flag fly , laugh a little (or a lot ) , and dive into new adventures without shame . Sexy, sassy, and O-so-relatable -- this is one episode you don't want to miss .

Tune in , turn on ,and let's talk dirty . 

Dive into the steamy world of the swinger lifestyle in this sizzling episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Mocha podcast! Joining us all the way from the UK are none other than Secret Vixen and her husband, Secret Stag, for a no-holds-barred conversation that’s as hot as it is revealing.

Discover how this power couple first dipped their toes into the lifestyle and how it reignited Secret Vixen’s confidence, bringing her “Sexy Back” in ways she never imagined. They share intimate details about their very first experience in the lifestyle—a moment that set Secret Vixen’s passion ablaze and inspired her to create a blog where she openly answers burning questions and shares her adventures.

Things heat up as Secret Vixen opens up about her recent trip to the US for Splash Mocha, the ultimate interracial hotwife convention. Hear her gush about how empowered and sexy she felt at the event, and her excitement for more U.S.-based experiences.

But it doesn’t stop there. Mrs. Mocha doesn’t shy away from turning up the heat, encouraging Secret Vixen to explore even wilder fantasies, including taking on multiple men at once. By the end of the episode, sparks are flying as Mrs. Mocha and Secret Vixen make plans for a sexy team-up to take on a group of irresistibly hot men.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the swinger lifestyle, looking to spice up their relationship, or just seeking a fun, adult-themed escape. Whether you’re into sexy reality TV, couples’ sexual therapy, or just love a good, naughty story, this podcast delivers it all—raw, real, and unfiltered.

In our latest live episode, "The Men of Ofacez," recorded at the Splash Mocha Interracial Hot Wife convention in Orlando during the New Year’s Eve event, a powerhouse panel featuring Mr. Mocha, Demetri VC, Chris Minx, Misdaeastcoast, Andre, and Pussy Licka shared their insights.

They spoke about the importance of the Lifestyle community—a space that empowers, educates, and teaches accountability. The panel explored themes of normalizing sexual freedom and embracing the reality that men can be vulnerable while still embodying true masculinity.

This isn’t your typical relationship podcast—it’s a no-holds-barred exploration of connection, freedom, and the pursuit of pleasure. Tune in and discover what it means to live unfiltered.

"In this episode, recorded live at Splash Mocha in Orlando, Florida, an interracial hotwife event, Mr. Mocha and Mrs. Mocha explored the dynamics of sexual freedom for women within the lifestyle community. They engaged with the audience, including a discussion initiated by an experienced bull about the authenticity of Queen of Spades, and explored the topic of being a married bull in the lifestyle. Mrs. Mocha also shared her journey and how she's become more open sexually, challenging societal norms. The lively audience participation added a fun, sexy, and exciting element, making it a fantastic way to end 2024."

Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are joined by party goers live from Splash Mocha Houston 2024. Off the rails from the start but fun and unfiltered! So no subject is off limits. Let's talk sex!

Brian define what it means to be a Sigma Male in the Lifestyle. How he was introduced to the LS . And how he it has changed his life. Sex as a single male and the way he brings sexual excitement to lives of couples. He introduces the topic of the " Quality Bull". Join Mr. Mocha and Brian and enjoy the show!

Mrs. Mocha is finally back to her old ways and loving life. She is back on the D! She is catching out for lost sex and moving full steam ahead!

Come along on this mind opening discussion as Drew shares his journey and navigation of being a Bi-Sexual Bull. He starts by talking about the struggles of being bi-sexual in a a close minded family and the discouragement he faced early on and how it hindered him from exploring this side of himself.  Mr. Mocha shares his own journey from homophobia to understanding and the effects of our society's homophobic programming.  They discuss the many aspects of being a bi-sexual bull from making sure you inform couples from the start, navigating a typically straight focused niche of the cuckhold lifestyle and what questions to ask couples to see how open they are. Drew also covers levels of bi-play, how to be comfortable in your own skin as a bi-bull, the differences between full Bi and hetero-flexible and how to communicate with other bulls in the lifestyle who may be open or not open.

#Bull 

#Bisexual 

#Black Bulls 

#Cuckold Lifestyle 

#swingers 

#theLifestyle 

#LifestyleJourney

#SwingerJourney  

#lifestyleEducation 

#swingerEducation

#cuckold 

#bisexualBlackBulls

#ofacez

#mochaSplash

#StagandVixen 

#Hotwives 

#Hotwife

#cuck 

#HotWifeCouple 

#MrMocha 

#SplashMocha 

#LGBTQIA+

#homosexual

Mr. Mocha interviews The Creator of "Cuck Corner" Craig McKinney live from Splash Mocha. Enjoy the chat and interaction from the live audience. Mike from Keys and Anklets joins the show to help us wrap. Just set back and enjoy the random chats .

Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx at chop it up with J Prez, mistaeastcoast Craig, Tina from Splash Mocha and a few more guest. Sex, laughs , and flogging. Just Tune in and enjoy!!!!!!

Sorry the feed got cut at the end so if you were not with us live you missed it forever!

Mrs. Mocha is Back and joined by.... Angel Minx, Siren, Coco and more talk dirty at Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Nothing like sexy ladies talkin about sex sex and more sex. In classic Dirty girls style they are wide open, all over the place, and Fun as hell to listen to!!!!!!!!!

Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx pregame at the Splash Mocha live the day before it kicks off. They start off with DFW Goliath and Craig and are invaded by Mrs. Mocha , Angel Minx, Coco and more! The pregame show was all over the place and yet it is a great listen and will get you primed and ready for the following shows! Enjoy!!!!!!!!!

On this episode. Mr. Mocha and the rest of the panel welcome guest contributors Doyle and Socrates.
The guests share their personal stories on the cause of low or no self love. They share the effects that has had on their ability to deal with rejection both in and out of the lifestyle. Doyle contributes with his perspective on going down the rabbit hole of self doubt and how easily it is to fall into negative patterns when you lack an affirming upbringing.  Mr. Mocha by comparison shares his own experience of self love and confidence which was grown with his fathers guidance. They also discuss how self talk affects your self esteem and how to change your self talk to boost your self esteem. They round out the discussion by talking about rejection and all its inner and outer workings. How males rejecting each other has an effect but also remembering that a NO right now may not mean NO forever. Come along with this group of experienced lifestyle men as they dive deep into male emotions and experiences. #LowSelfEsteem#FearOfRejection#swingers 

#theLifestyle#LifestyleJourney #swingerEducation

#lifestyleRejection  #MenAndTheirEmotions#THeMaleEmotionalJourney

Mr. and Mrs. Mocha interview Wayne and Tina 3 days before Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Get it from the Owners mouth. What is Splash Mocha ? Where did it start? and How did it evolve? What makes Splash different from other events? And get personal and Learn about Splash Mocha's owner Wayne and his wife's intro into the Lifestyle. Customer service manager Tina shares her and her husbands LS intro and how they met Wayne and his wife.

 Let's talk about it!  Mrs. Mocha invites Salacious Scarlet from the Slut Sisters to share in a discussion about new advancements in sexual health. We are sharing our lived experience as sexually empowered women who take excellent care of our sexual health. Stigma surrounding STI's contributes to sex negativity in our culture. 
Topics discussed include:

• PrEP for HIV prevention
• DoxyPEP, a revolutionary new treatment protocol that provides post exposure prophylaxis for bacterial STI's such as Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and Syphilis.
• Vaginal health products for the ladies that promote healthy ph and vaginal microbiome.

Part 2 with Drew Marston. Mr. Mocha and Drew talk finding the right couples. What he looks for and what he avoids. Understanding bonds and boundaries. Responding to having personal boundaries push.... and so much more!

Drew Marston is an experience Bull in the lifestyle as well as the founder and publisher of Spades Magazine. This is the first in a series of interviews with Drew. In this episode Mr. Mocha gets Drew's origin story. How he found the Ls, how long he's been in the LS, and his journey from rookie single guy to successful BBC Bull!

Dive into single male etiquette with Mr. Mocha and Q as they discuss the dynamics and roles for single men in the lifestyle.

Mr. Mocha discusses the various roles, relationships and dynamics in the lifestyle and how the single male interacts with each one.

They take you step by step from building a profile on lifestyle sites, approach, managing and responding to rejection and knowing how to read a room. 

They encourage observation and the importance of being selective.

#theLifestyle 

#Swingers 

#Interracial Swinging

#Pineapple 

#upsidedownpineapple

#LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence

#SwingerCommunity

#lifestyleEducation

#swingerEducation

#slutsisters

#EmotionalSupportGroup

#cuckold

#StagandVixen

#cuckoldCouples

#Unicorns 

#Hotwives 

#lifestyleRejection

Come along for the ride as Mr and Mrs Mocha take us on their journey through the lifestyle and the art of sport F*cking.

Hear how they manage  their challenges with juggling life's responsibilities, children and jobs to make time for play!

They discuss the ins and outs, and ups and downs of growing through their lifestyle experiences from hosting parties, attending events to going to clubs and solo play experiences.

The biggest game changer being the Splash Mocha events.

Learn the importance of checking in with yourself and communicating with your significant other in order to keep the lifestyle fun and entertaining without causing unnecessary issues.

Listen along as they discuss the various interactions they have had with couples and other play partners. 

And we know you are dying to hear how Mr. Mochas "BIG Dick" created challenges during play!

Single or a part of a couple we know you will gain something from this experienced duo that you can apply to your own lifestyle journey.

#Upsidedownpineapple 

#swingers 

#theLifestyle 

#lifestyleterms

#swingerEducation

#lifestyleEducation 

#LifestyleJourney

#pegging

#Kink

On this episode, Mr. Mocha and Michael C the host of the keys and anklets podcast invite us into their conversation on the subject of BBC. The conversation is sparked by a black female author who finds the term offensive and objectifying. They cover the history of the term BBC and how the term has been used throughout American history. Also discussed …how men of all races view being  “objectified “ by women and the perspective of black men’s views on the term BBC . Is it truly the objectification of black men or is it simply a description and fetish?They discuss how to approach guys with a BBC in a diplomatic and complimentary manner. The conversation is wrapped up by inviting any black men who have played interracially BUT do NOT like to be called BBC to comment but to also beware that they will be called out if they have taken advantage of that fetish.

Mr. Mocha, Mr. Minx Join Pagan, and guests as they discuss the affects of growing up in strict cultural and religious families. They tackle tough topics head on …follow their journeys on how they overcame the fear, guilt and judgements of organized religion with a focus on how religion affects our values, judgements and choices in the LS! #ReligionInTheLifestyle#ethicalNon-Monogamy#theLifestyle #Pineapple #Upsidedownpineapple#swingers#lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#Cuckold #RelgionsAndEthicalNonMonogamy#ReligeousCults

Part 4 in this continued series on emotional intelligence for men, Mr. Mocha, Mr. Minx, Craig McKenny & guests, describe Pre-nut vs post nut brain. They also cover a wide range of male emotions and reactions including, your brain trying to resolve unresolved issues through dreams, Jealousy and envy amongst single men, Bad actions from single men, and Dealing with rejection. They also dive into specific management techniques for the Cuck vs. bull. Also covered are The Lifestyle Journey for new couples. Specifically being open to your partner’s undiscovered fantasies, lifestyle specific desires and giving your spouse the gift of true honesty. Wrapping up the session with a Q & A for our listeners. You won’t want to miss a minute! 

#ethicalNon-Monogamy#theLifestyle #Pineapple #Upsidedownpineapple#swingers#jealousy #the7DeadlySins#LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence #lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#Cuckold 

Part 3. In this episode we continue to discuss emotional intelligence for men in the lifestyle (Cuckholds, Bulls, Married men and Manicorns)*Creating a “safe space" for men to talk about their feelings*What are the underline issues of what you are feeling *The importance of support groups, fellowships and / or mentoring to help men in the lifestyle *Managing expectations *The ability to be vulnerable and the “Process” of vulnerability*How unresolved emotional issues will come out in the lifestyle*We hear from the audience and “Slut Sisters” on their take on emotional intelligence for men in the Lifestyle *How respect is the cornerstone of lifestyle*Ownership of couples *Dealing with negative or unwanted emails #theLifestyle#Cuckhold #stagAndVixen#Swingers #Interracial #Swinging#Pineapple #upsidedownpineapple#LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence #TheManCode #ethicalNon-Monogamy#EmotionalManagement#LifestyleEmotionalManagement #HardConversations#HardConversationsintheLS#CommunicationinSwinging#SwingerCommunity#lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#EmotionalSupportGroup

In this continuation of “Men and their emotions with Mr. Mocha and Lupe Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx discuss how men can navigate their emotions in the Ethical Non-Monogamous Lifestyle They discuss the “Active Seeking of the Knowledge” How do you deal with the feelings of watching your wife play or interact with another male. How do men manage their emotions when seeing their partner being pleased by other men in a way that you haven’t or when the play is even better then yours. How to develop Emotional intelligence for men in the Lifestyle And How to build a strong foundation with your S/O in the lifestyle

Mr. Mocha and Mike C from the Keys and Anklets podcast finally record a random conversation. Mr. Mocha and Mike C spends hours in random conversation . After every chat they both say.... we should have recorded that. Half way thru a conversation they agreed to record and share!

Mr. Mocha chat with Demetri Vc about what a Cuckold couple should expect from his as a Bull. He talks sexual boundaries and kinks. They also speak on his introduction to content and why prefers Lifestyle creator. They take a moment to answer questions from listeners on twitter spaces.

We all have emotions but how do we manage them ? Mr. Mocha and Lupe chat about the male emotional state when dealing with different thing men experience in the lifestyle. Lupe shares a moment of insecurity after watching his wife Micha's response to a guy that she was sexually attracted to. This episode was recorded live on twitter spaces with interactions from listeners.

Mr. Mocha shares with the listeners how he share the experience when Mrs. Mocha has a playdate. He talks about his feeling from and their interactions for the time she plans her date until the date is over.

Mrs. Mocha's back in action... Kinda. After missing the friend, excitement, and sex of the party for a few events we are back. On this episode we talk about being back in the thick of it. The Mocha's share what they did and saw.

On this episode MR. Mocha and I recap some of our past Splash Mocha experiences and share some of our hopes for the upcoming Mocha. If you are not familiar with Splash Mocha , It is a Hotwife/BBC party that travels the country doing events ! So if you want to know a little more this is an episode you do not want to miss!

On this episode of Ofacez we interview long time loyal guest Mike Tremor , we talk about how he was introduced to the Lifestyle . We discussed what his experiences were in the US compared to Europe , along with some other fun stories about his Lifestyle journey ! Happy Listening SF!

On this Episode we talk about awkward moments that happen with single males or with couples , Are you sexually Awkward sometimes ? Well some of the Dirty girls elaborate on their experiences and how they either got out of it or just made it fun ! We throw in some rants about couples that get tested once a year but do not use protection ! We also discuss being freqeunt flakers . As usual Happy Listening SF!

On this episode Mr Mocha and Mrs. Mocha discuss how you should approach other couples , single males, and single females when they do not post or share face pics or body pics but want you to share everything about yourself ! Please listen to this episode if you have ever ran into this issue , we still make jokes but MR. Mocha shows how "passionate" he can get on certain subjects ! lol Happy listening

On this episode we Celebrate Women's History Month and all the Sl$%s that share our stories! We discuss being a proud sl$t and the empowerment we want other ladies to have by telling our stories and making their own from listening to ours ! Being your best self!