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Come along on this mind opening discussion as Drew shares his journey and navigation of being a Bi-Sexual Bull. He starts by talking about the struggles of being bi-sexual in a a close minded family and the discouragement he faced early on and how it hindered him from exploring this side of himself.  Mr. Mocha shares his own journey from homophobia to understanding and the effects of our society's homophobic programming.  They discuss the many aspects of being a bi-sexual bull from making sure you inform couples from the start, navigating a typically straight focused niche of the cuckhold lifestyle and what questions to ask couples to see how open they are. Drew also covers levels of bi-play, how to be comfortable in your own skin as a bi-bull, the differences between full Bi and hetero-flexible and how to communicate with other bulls in the lifestyle who may be open or not open.

#Bull 

#Bisexual 

#Black Bulls 

#Cuckold Lifestyle 

#swingers 

#theLifestyle 

#LifestyleJourney

#SwingerJourney  

#lifestyleEducation 

#swingerEducation

#cuckold 

#bisexualBlackBulls

#ofacez

#mochaSplash

#StagandVixen 

#Hotwives 

#Hotwife

#cuck 

#HotWifeCouple 

#MrMocha 

#SplashMocha 

#LGBTQIA+

#homosexual

Mr. Mocha interviews The Creator of "Cuck Corner" Craig McKinney live from Splash Mocha. Enjoy the chat and interaction from the live audience. Mike from Keys and Anklets joins the show to help us wrap. Just set back and enjoy the random chats .

Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx at chop it up with J Prez, mistaeastcoast Craig, Tina from Splash Mocha and a few more guest. Sex, laughs , and flogging. Just Tune in and enjoy!!!!!!

Sorry the feed got cut at the end so if you were not with us live you missed it forever!

Mrs. Mocha is Back and joined by.... Angel Minx, Siren, Coco and more talk dirty at Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Nothing like sexy ladies talkin about sex sex and more sex. In classic Dirty girls style they are wide open, all over the place, and Fun as hell to listen to!!!!!!!!!

Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx pregame at the Splash Mocha live the day before it kicks off. They start off with DFW Goliath and Craig and are invaded by Mrs. Mocha , Angel Minx, Coco and more! The pregame show was all over the place and yet it is a great listen and will get you primed and ready for the following shows! Enjoy!!!!!!!!!

On this episode. Mr. Mocha and the rest of the panel welcome guest contributors Doyle and Socrates.
The guests share their personal stories on the cause of low or no self love. They share the effects that has had on their ability to deal with rejection both in and out of the lifestyle. Doyle contributes with his perspective on going down the rabbit hole of self doubt and how easily it is to fall into negative patterns when you lack an affirming upbringing.  Mr. Mocha by comparison shares his own experience of self love and confidence which was grown with his fathers guidance. They also discuss how self talk affects your self esteem and how to change your self talk to boost your self esteem. They round out the discussion by talking about rejection and all its inner and outer workings. How males rejecting each other has an effect but also remembering that a NO right now may not mean NO forever. Come along with this group of experienced lifestyle men as they dive deep into male emotions and experiences. #LowSelfEsteem#FearOfRejection#swingers 

#theLifestyle#LifestyleJourney #swingerEducation

#lifestyleRejection  #MenAndTheirEmotions#THeMaleEmotionalJourney

Mr. and Mrs. Mocha interview Wayne and Tina 3 days before Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Get it from the Owners mouth. What is Splash Mocha ? Where did it start? and How did it evolve? What makes Splash different from other events? And get personal and Learn about Splash Mocha's owner Wayne and his wife's intro into the Lifestyle. Customer service manager Tina shares her and her husbands LS intro and how they met Wayne and his wife.

 Let's talk about it!  Mrs. Mocha invites Salacious Scarlet from the Slut Sisters to share in a discussion about new advancements in sexual health. We are sharing our lived experience as sexually empowered women who take excellent care of our sexual health. Stigma surrounding STI's contributes to sex negativity in our culture. 
Topics discussed include:

• PrEP for HIV prevention
• DoxyPEP, a revolutionary new treatment protocol that provides post exposure prophylaxis for bacterial STI's such as Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and Syphilis.
• Vaginal health products for the ladies that promote healthy ph and vaginal microbiome.

Part 2 with Drew Marston. Mr. Mocha and Drew talk finding the right couples. What he looks for and what he avoids. Understanding bonds and boundaries. Responding to having personal boundaries push.... and so much more!

Drew Marston is an experience Bull in the lifestyle as well as the founder and publisher of Spades Magazine. This is the first in a series of interviews with Drew. In this episode Mr. Mocha gets Drew's origin story. How he found the Ls, how long he's been in the LS, and his journey from rookie single guy to successful BBC Bull!

Dive into single male etiquette with Mr. Mocha and Q as they discuss the dynamics and roles for single men in the lifestyle.

Mr. Mocha discusses the various roles, relationships and dynamics in the lifestyle and how the single male interacts with each one.

They take you step by step from building a profile on lifestyle sites, approach, managing and responding to rejection and knowing how to read a room. 

They encourage observation and the importance of being selective.

#theLifestyle 

#Swingers 

#Interracial Swinging

#Pineapple 

#upsidedownpineapple

#LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence

#SwingerCommunity

#lifestyleEducation

#swingerEducation

#slutsisters

#EmotionalSupportGroup

#cuckold

#StagandVixen

#cuckoldCouples

#Unicorns 

#Hotwives 

#lifestyleRejection

Come along for the ride as Mr and Mrs Mocha take us on their journey through the lifestyle and the art of sport F*cking.

Hear how they manage  their challenges with juggling life's responsibilities, children and jobs to make time for play!

They discuss the ins and outs, and ups and downs of growing through their lifestyle experiences from hosting parties, attending events to going to clubs and solo play experiences.

The biggest game changer being the Splash Mocha events.

Learn the importance of checking in with yourself and communicating with your significant other in order to keep the lifestyle fun and entertaining without causing unnecessary issues.

Listen along as they discuss the various interactions they have had with couples and other play partners. 

And we know you are dying to hear how Mr. Mochas "BIG Dick" created challenges during play!

Single or a part of a couple we know you will gain something from this experienced duo that you can apply to your own lifestyle journey.

#Upsidedownpineapple 

#swingers 

#theLifestyle 

#lifestyleterms

#swingerEducation

#lifestyleEducation 

#LifestyleJourney

#pegging

#Kink

On this episode, Mr. Mocha and Michael C the host of the keys and anklets podcast invite us into their conversation on the subject of BBC. The conversation is sparked by a black female author who finds the term offensive and objectifying. They cover the history of the term BBC and how the term has been used throughout American history. Also discussed …how men of all races view being  “objectified “ by women and the perspective of black men’s views on the term BBC . Is it truly the objectification of black men or is it simply a description and fetish?They discuss how to approach guys with a BBC in a diplomatic and complimentary manner. The conversation is wrapped up by inviting any black men who have played interracially BUT do NOT like to be called BBC to comment but to also beware that they will be called out if they have taken advantage of that fetish.

Mr. Mocha, Mr. Minx Join Pagan, and guests as they discuss the affects of growing up in strict cultural and religious families. They tackle tough topics head on …follow their journeys on how they overcame the fear, guilt and judgements of organized religion with a focus on how religion affects our values, judgements and choices in the LS! #ReligionInTheLifestyle#ethicalNon-Monogamy#theLifestyle #Pineapple #Upsidedownpineapple#swingers#lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#Cuckold #RelgionsAndEthicalNonMonogamy#ReligeousCults

Part 4 in this continued series on emotional intelligence for men, Mr. Mocha, Mr. Minx, Craig McKenny & guests, describe Pre-nut vs post nut brain. They also cover a wide range of male emotions and reactions including, your brain trying to resolve unresolved issues through dreams, Jealousy and envy amongst single men, Bad actions from single men, and Dealing with rejection. They also dive into specific management techniques for the Cuck vs. bull. Also covered are The Lifestyle Journey for new couples. Specifically being open to your partner’s undiscovered fantasies, lifestyle specific desires and giving your spouse the gift of true honesty. Wrapping up the session with a Q & A for our listeners. You won’t want to miss a minute! 

#ethicalNon-Monogamy#theLifestyle #Pineapple #Upsidedownpineapple#swingers#jealousy #the7DeadlySins#LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence #lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#Cuckold 

Part 3. In this episode we continue to discuss emotional intelligence for men in the lifestyle (Cuckholds, Bulls, Married men and Manicorns)*Creating a “safe space" for men to talk about their feelings*What are the underline issues of what you are feeling *The importance of support groups, fellowships and / or mentoring to help men in the lifestyle *Managing expectations *The ability to be vulnerable and the “Process” of vulnerability*How unresolved emotional issues will come out in the lifestyle*We hear from the audience and “Slut Sisters” on their take on emotional intelligence for men in the Lifestyle *How respect is the cornerstone of lifestyle*Ownership of couples *Dealing with negative or unwanted emails #theLifestyle#Cuckhold #stagAndVixen#Swingers #Interracial #Swinging#Pineapple #upsidedownpineapple#LifestyleEmotionalIntelligence #TheManCode #ethicalNon-Monogamy#EmotionalManagement#LifestyleEmotionalManagement #HardConversations#HardConversationsintheLS#CommunicationinSwinging#SwingerCommunity#lifestyleEducation#swingerEducation#EmotionalSupportGroup

In this continuation of “Men and their emotions with Mr. Mocha and Lupe Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx discuss how men can navigate their emotions in the Ethical Non-Monogamous Lifestyle They discuss the “Active Seeking of the Knowledge” How do you deal with the feelings of watching your wife play or interact with another male. How do men manage their emotions when seeing their partner being pleased by other men in a way that you haven’t or when the play is even better then yours. How to develop Emotional intelligence for men in the Lifestyle And How to build a strong foundation with your S/O in the lifestyle

Mr. Mocha and Mike C from the Keys and Anklets podcast finally record a random conversation. Mr. Mocha and Mike C spends hours in random conversation . After every chat they both say.... we should have recorded that. Half way thru a conversation they agreed to record and share!

Mr. Mocha chat with Demetri Vc about what a Cuckold couple should expect from his as a Bull. He talks sexual boundaries and kinks. They also speak on his introduction to content and why prefers Lifestyle creator. They take a moment to answer questions from listeners on twitter spaces.

We all have emotions but how do we manage them ? Mr. Mocha and Lupe chat about the male emotional state when dealing with different thing men experience in the lifestyle. Lupe shares a moment of insecurity after watching his wife Micha's response to a guy that she was sexually attracted to. This episode was recorded live on twitter spaces with interactions from listeners.

Mr. Mocha shares with the listeners how he share the experience when Mrs. Mocha has a playdate. He talks about his feeling from and their interactions for the time she plans her date until the date is over.

Mrs. Mocha's back in action... Kinda. After missing the friend, excitement, and sex of the party for a few events we are back. On this episode we talk about being back in the thick of it. The Mocha's share what they did and saw.

On this episode MR. Mocha and I recap some of our past Splash Mocha experiences and share some of our hopes for the upcoming Mocha. If you are not familiar with Splash Mocha , It is a Hotwife/BBC party that travels the country doing events ! So if you want to know a little more this is an episode you do not want to miss!

On this episode of Ofacez we interview long time loyal guest Mike Tremor , we talk about how he was introduced to the Lifestyle . We discussed what his experiences were in the US compared to Europe , along with some other fun stories about his Lifestyle journey ! Happy Listening SF!

On this Episode we talk about awkward moments that happen with single males or with couples , Are you sexually Awkward sometimes ? Well some of the Dirty girls elaborate on their experiences and how they either got out of it or just made it fun ! We throw in some rants about couples that get tested once a year but do not use protection ! We also discuss being freqeunt flakers . As usual Happy Listening SF!

On this episode Mr Mocha and Mrs. Mocha discuss how you should approach other couples , single males, and single females when they do not post or share face pics or body pics but want you to share everything about yourself ! Please listen to this episode if you have ever ran into this issue , we still make jokes but MR. Mocha shows how "passionate" he can get on certain subjects ! lol Happy listening

On this episode we Celebrate Women's History Month and all the Sl$%s that share our stories! We discuss being a proud sl$t and the empowerment we want other ladies to have by telling our stories and making their own from listening to ours ! Being your best self!

On this episode Mr and Mrs. Mocha talk about what things are important to them so they can stay connected and balanced in the Lifestyle.  We discuss some of the things we both need and what we do to make it work for us between lifestyle parties, content parties , regular life and many other scenarios ! For all you couples and singles out there that struggle with balance , this is an episode you want to listen to ! Happy listening !

We are all back on the Dirty Girls Corner  . On this episode we discuss several different subjects . We talk about some of our more recent lifestyle challenges , some of our newer playdates and a little bit about some of the content parties we have had recently . As usual some side stories about what fun we have had !

On this episode we interview the ever so famous Subgirl and her awesome Hubby Domboy. We discuss how they started in the LS and what made them decide to transition over to content creating .  We also discuss a few of the funniest stories about their journey into the Lifestyle and their dynamics , along with some awesome side stories as per usual . This is one interview you will not want to miss !

Mr. and Mrs. Mocha finally kick back and catch everyone up on the whirlwind of events we had this summer . We start with Splash Mocha in March and try to go from there but end up with a lot of stories. You know we love side stories lol! So buckle up for the summer of "Fun" that we experienced this summer !

On this Episode of Dirty Girls Corner We talk about signaling men that you are interested ! We also discuss Our "dry spell' and how it makes us a little grumpy! lol Megan tells us about her travel that she did for her surprise bday trip with one of her favorite Boy toys. We saved the best for last please make sure you make it to the end for mine and Megan's and I "fun stories"! We are catching up from weeks past so lots more fun stuff to hear.

On this episode of the Dirty Girls Corner- Carrie lays out some "unwritten rules " of the lifestyle. How to navigate some situations and the best ways to avoid having bad experiences. Sometimes even the seasoned lifestylers need reminders on some things or to self-evaluate. We also talk about Megan attempting to date a vanilla world which usually leads to ridiculous stories. The ladies get thrown off by some wild porn that leads to some interesting convo about growing old in the lifestyle.

Mrs. Mocha and Carrie are back on "The Dirty girls Corner". They talk about recent Sexcapades and how they continue to evolve in the lifestyle. Carrie tells about her recent vacation and the fun she had. Mrs. Mocha talks pushing her personal sexual boundaries and opening herself to new experiences and much more.  

On this episode we are excited to have an almost vanilla guest on and one of Megan's life long friend's that also does her own podcast about her single lady ventures. SJ tells us how she was introduced to the Lifestyle and how much she is enjoying being part of the community so far. We also discuss some of our usual antics and apologies ahead of time but you know it would not be a Dirty Girls Corner if Mrs. Mocha did not have a least one technical difficulty lol. Happy Listening!!  

PS. If you have any questions or comments about anything feel free to reach out to us on Twitter @Ofacez1 or you can email us at Ofacezlyfe@gmail.com

Lupe and Micha talk about going from making home sex videos to becoming full time content creators. They speak on the Pros and Cons of content creating and the challenges of balancing vanilla life, lifestyle, and content creating.