Wonders of Love - Olugbemi Sowemimo

Achieving success in life requires us all to learn how to manage our time, energy, resources, and people. God and your spouse are the primary sources of your connection. Remember this at all times, and establish your priorities appropriately.

Making the effort, which is not always simple, is necessary if you want your marriage to succeed. Encouraging your partner and making sure they are truly happy is the definition of commitment.

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A lot of people admit that their first loves still have a special place in their hearts. Those feelings are quite strong. Rekindling a friendship with someone you used to desire to spend your life with is not always the best idea...

The 'return of the first love' has wreaked havoc on many happy couples. Do not allow this happen to you! If you need to relive the past with your ex in order to recover, go ahead and do it, but do not go any farther. Playing with fire should be avoided at all costs.

Avoid bringing this individual into your regular routine to avoid resurfacing old sentiments. In the midst of it all, keep in mind that the friendship with your spouse is the one you need to focus on and strengthen.

You may believe you have subdued your emotions, but that might alter if you are tempted. In contrast, you can be OK and ready for friendship while your ex or besties is still in love with you.

You have no idea what another (wo)man is thinking or planning, so do not go in with both feet. Think about it. There are two considerations to keep in mind while deciding whether or not to keep friends with an ex: Use your brain and be aware of your surroundings.

Never forget this."Money is everywhere but your Family and Relationships are Irreplacable".

It takes a conscious effort to make a Happy Relationship and Marriage. It won't be a god idea to start with Mistrust.There are things you need to do to protect your Relationship or Marriage from Affair.

Communication is a proof of life in any relationship.

Improving yourself doesn't mean you change who you are. There is a difference between personality and behavior. You can only change your behavior not personality.

Having clarity, living your purpose and creating the life you want all lies on the focus of love. The focus of love should be the person you are dealing with and not your self.so today we will be looking into temperaments and how we can relate with them.

How do we communicate filters in relationship and marriages. Join me on the podcast as i unravel the reality of the filter theory.

Getting good at love simply means having a successful relationship. Having a successful relationship requires the idea of a soulmate which involves finding the right person you are meant to be with. Through discussions with my mentors and examning the relationship of my own life i believe the reality that true soulmate are made and not born.

It's always a good idea to make an assessment in a relationship. As a single or Married, being the ideal partner is not just about being romantic but it has to do with some aspect of your individual life as well. It is important to consider who you are and how to make things better by becoming a better you for yourself, a better spouse for your partner a better parent for your children and other aspect of your life so as to have a better life.

Dating is the process of being involved in a relationship where both parties are consciously looking out for compatibilities that may lead to courtship and the ultimate  goal marriage. Dating is not an end to itself, it should be a means to an end.

There comes a time in your life when you fall in love with someone and love seems to be a good thing.  it makes you feel on top of the world and so alive. However as time goes on you discover this love fades with time and then you ask yourself if love fades out of time. Allow me to share some few points with you on how to keep Romance and Love Life alive.

Encouragement to make your spouse your best friend.

Always be accountable to each other.Talk about anything and everything with your spouse. Don't keep secrets. Value his/her opinion. Invest time in creating lovely and positive shared memories together. Hang out with your spouse, Discover each other's areas of strong interest and mutual interest and decide to nurture such interest together.Be his/her biggest cheerleader. Love his/her family and Observe your spouse and look for the qualities that make him/her unique and wonderful.

Marriage has a way of bringing people into union and unity, while at the same time amplifying their unique differences! 

Calling your spouse ‘stupid’ or ‘crazy’ or ‘a liar’ are definite ways to send that marriage crashing.

Your spouse should feel secure and esteemed when he or she is with you. He should never feel small or insignificant.

IMPROVING YOUR COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR SPOUSE - OLUGBEMI SOWEMIMO

Build companionship through activities of mutual interest.

Be deliberate about having mutual friends.

 Take genuine interest in each other's careers.

Parent your children together.

 Tickle your spouse's funny bone. In other words, make each other laugh

Intimacy is defined as having a close familiarity or friendship with someone. it insinuates Nakedness, Transparency and vulnerability. My question is "D you think there can be anything more intimate than sex? Lets learn more on this podcast.

This week’s situation is “SEE FINISH!” In Nigeria, the slang, ‘see finish’ is like the saying, ‘familiarity breeds contempt’- when a person feels their availability has negatively impacted his or her perceived value. So, how do you build a marriage where a sense of appreciation, love, honour and respect will not wither? To do this, you have to build a culture of appreciation, sustained value and daily activities that won’t let you take your conquest for granted.

We all have some private experience that dwells within us and affects our lives and relationship with people around us. we can deal with this baggage by being conscious of it and the making effort to end it so that it wont have a negative effect on our relationship and most especially not to cause a long term bitterness in our marriage.

Breakups – both for single and married people can be hard to deal with. For this episode, however, I will be speaking more to the singles. If you have been in a relationship for years, you might have had high hopes of it ending in marriage or at least an engagement. The fact that it turned into a break up can make an already tough situation worse. Breakups are more prevalent because people are rethinking their lives and making resolutions about their futures. These decisions can also mean ending certain relationships. Don’t hang on to a bad relationship that isn't meant for u. Any relationship that made u feel worthless, needy, unhappy, taken for granted, angry, jittery or fearful is a bad relationship. A good relationship should bring the best not the worst in you. Please take the time to evaluate your relationships and decide where improvements are needed and/or if you need to call it quits. Commit to making the right decision and I pray you have the courage to follow through.

Today on another episode of wonders of love we are considering the how we handle our relationship and how we give up so easily when we face storms in our relationships and marriages. we need to have a "STAYING POWER" in other to scale through the storms of marriage and also believe in God to help us build our relationships and marriages.

This program is designed to strengthen marriages & relationships that will lead to marriage, with wisdom from God.

Hello! My Name is Olugbemi Sowemimo and I am your host on this series Wonders of Love.

Relationships and Marriages is a union that needs to be enjoyed and not endured so if you have a relationship that you find difficult to deal with, you don't need to blame yourself or your partner for it What you need to do is just find a way to be the best in the relationship and make things work.

However the purpose of this program is to talk about how to take responsibility for your relationship tand coopeerating with God to make it work

Love is sweet, beautiful and wonderful. Join me as i unleash these wonders of love to better your relationship.

May our marriages and relationships be sweet. God bless you