Pad Wives Assemble Unfiltered

In this powerful episode ofPad Wives Assemble Unfiltered, we’re tackling the harsh reality of social media trolls and the stigma that military spouses face for simply sharing their truths. From the challenges of deployment to the ups and downs of military wife life, many of us are met with judgment and criticism online for speaking out. We’re here to share our personal experiences with trolling, how these negative comments affect our mental health, and why it's so important to continue amplifying our voices despite the hate. Join us as we challenge the misconceptions and reclaim the narrative for military spouses everywhere. Let’s break the silence and own our stories!

In this week's Reddit of the Week, we dive deep into a shocking relationship dilemma from the Am I The A**hole (AITA) subreddit. A Reddit user is confronting the painful reality that their partner is having intimate and sexual conversations with their best friend, and they don't know how to handle it. Are they in the wrong for feeling betrayed? Is this a deal-breaker, or can trust be rebuilt? 🔥

Join us as we explore this emotional situation, share our thoughts, and discuss the AITA community's responses! If you've ever faced a tough relationship situation like this, or want to learn more about how Reddit reacts to drama, this is the episode for you.

In this episode, Kirsha and Sophs draw from their 8 years of experience in recruitment, helping candidates perfect CVs, ace interviews, and navigate career transitions. Kirsha shares her personal journey from waitress to admin to a qualified auditor and now in the field of Quality Assurance. Together, we discuss key topics such as working from home, identifying transferable skills, and preparing for interviews across various industries.

We also dive into career flexibility, especially for those who may need to move around often or balance work with family life. With tips on communicating with employers about deployments or childcare, we share some valuable insights into making work life fit around your personal life.

Plus, we shine a light on some amazing charities like ForcesEmploymentCharity and Recruit for Spouses, offering support and resources to those transitioning into new careers. And don't miss our exciting announcement: a new FREE resource pack will be available for download soon!

Finally, stay tuned for this week’s Ick of the Week and keep an eye out for a bonus episode with our Reddit of the Week pick!

Hit subscribe and join the conversation – it's career talk, with a twist!

That’s a wrap on another unforgettable season of Pad Wives Assemble Unfiltered! In this special 2-minute bonus episode, we’re looking back on all the laughs, cringeworthy moments (30+ icks, anyone?), and the outrageous stories we’ve shared along the way. We’ve had a blast, but we’ve also tackled some important topics that matter in our community—and we couldn’t have done it without YOU! Your support means the world to us, and we’re just getting started. 2025 is going to be bigger, better, and packed with even more fun, so stay tuned! Thank you for being part of this wild ride—see you next season!

Keep sharing and recommending and have a VERY Happy Christmas, we hope Santa Claus brings you Leroy.

#SeasonFinale #PodcastRecap #IckOfTheWeek #OutrageousStories #CommunityMatters #PodcastLaughs #ThankYouListeners #BiggerBetter2025 #PodcastSeasonWrap #CringeWorthy #FunnyMoments #PodcastHighlights #SeasonEnd #GratefulForYou #PodcastJourney

Join us for a fun-filled Christmas Special episode, the last one until the New Year! We chat about our childhood Christmas traditions, what we do now with our own families, and share some brilliant budget-friendly gift ideas from small businesses. Plus, we dive into our upcoming charity event in January to raise money for Scotty's Little Soldiers, and showcase our new While You Were Away kids' activity journal—perfect for Christmas gifts with a cause! £1 of every order goes to Scotty's.

Of course, we've got our fan-favourite Ick of the Week and Reddit of the Week—including a jaw-dropping £1000 spent on sex toys (yikes!). In the debrief, we revisit our interview with Andy McNab, Kirsha's hair makeover, the chaos of the Christmas mess do, and the hilarious moment when Soph was left a little saggy after her bra got swiped, but Kirsha has something to own up to...

Soph also presents her insights on ADHD in women at work... but, of course, not without a little stumble, in front of 40 of her colleagues.

Guaranteed laughs as we look back on an incredible first year and showcasing our Spotify Wrapped 2024 where we charted at 23 in the UK, and in the top 10% of video podcasts!!

In this episode, Sophs, Kirsha, and Chloe dive into the wild world of dating apps as Chloe shares some of her most bizarre (and hilarious) dating app encounters. From unexpected profile revelations to awkward message exchanges, it’s safe to say she’s seen it all! The trio also reveals their “Ick of the Week” and reacts to funny first-date stories straight from Reddit. Expect plenty of laughs, surprises, and maybe even a little dating wisdom. Tune in for unforgettable stories and lots of laughs! #tinder #dating #redditstories #tinderstories

Season 2, Episode 8

Hosts Sophs and Kirsha connect with friend of eight years Chloe to discuss the challenges and joys of maintaining their friendships even after moving away due to partners military service.

They dive into the realities of supporting a friend or family member who is frequently relocating, and how to stay flexible with plans when life gets unpredictable.

Together, they explore the feelings of drifting that can arise when friends are separated by distance, but also share how those connections can remain strong with intentionality and communication. Sophs and Kirsha offer insights on meeting new friends through military circles and finding community among fellow spouses, highlighting the importance of navigating these unique challenges.

Join them for an honest conversation about the complexities of friendship, the ups and downs of military life, and the ways to cultivate lasting bonds, no matter the miles between you.

Struggling with Friends and Family back home? This is a great episode to understand and see both sides, on how to support as a spouse in the Military or even as a friend or family member back home.

Season 2 Episode 7 - Battle Scars, Alex Harrison's Journey from Combat to Civilian Life Part 2

*Trigger Warning:* This episode discusses sensitive topics, including the loss of an eye, mental health challenges, PTSD, and suicide. Listener discretion is advised

In light of Mental Health Awareness Day last week, In this deeply moving two-part episode , we speak with Alex Harrison, a veteran who lost his eye in Afghanistan. Alex opens up about his personal story of survival, his struggles with PTSD, and how he navigated the difficult transition from military to civilian life. We also dive into the emotional complexity of supporting someone with mental health struggles—how to be there for a loved one without overstepping, and what Alex found most helpful on his journey.

Despite the heavy subject matter, we still have plenty of laughs and great banter, because that's what we do at *Pad Wives Assemble*. Alex shares how he turned his experiences into something positive through social media, where he doesn’t hold back on the details, offering a raw and relatable look into his life post-combat.

This episode is for everyone—whether you're trying to understand how to support a loved one with PTSD, mental health struggles, or the transition from military to civilian life, or if you’re a veteran yourself, looking for a story that hits close to home. We also talk about the pressure loved ones face when they want to help but don’t know how.

As always, we bring our signature Pad Wives banter and humor to the conversation, including the ever entertaining Ick of The Week, but with a goal of providing valuable insights, support, and relatability for anyone listening.

If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to someone you trust and seek professional help. Here are a few UK military charities that offer support for PTSD, veterans, and mental health:

- *Combat Stress* (combatstress.org.uk)

- *Help for Heroes* (helpforheroes.org.uk)

- *SSAFA* (ssafa.org.uk)

- *Walking with the Wounded* (walkingwiththewounded.org.uk)

- *The Royal British Legion* (britishlegion.org.uk) 

You don’t have to go through it alone.

Key Words: Military, Veteran, Combat, Military to Civilian, Mental Health, PTSD, Mental health support, British Army, British Forces, True Story, True Life, Military stories, Veteran Story. 

Battle Scars, Alex Harrison's Journey from Combat to Civilian Life Part 1 - Please bear with us on the audio it is a new set up.

*Trigger Warning:* This episode discusses sensitive topics, including the loss of an eye, mental health challenges, PTSD, and suicide. Listener discretion is advised

In light of Mental Health Awareness Day last week, In this deeply moving two-part episode , we speak with Alex Harrison, a veteran who lost his eye in Afghanistan. Alex opens up about his personal story of survival, his struggles with PTSD, and how he navigated the difficult transition from military to civilian life. We also dive into the emotional complexity of supporting someone with mental health struggles—how to be there for a loved one without overstepping, and what Alex found most helpful on his journey.

Despite the heavy subject matter, we still have plenty of laughs and great banter, because that's what we do at *Pad Wives Assemble*. Alex shares how he turned his experiences into something positive through social media, where he doesn’t hold back on the details, offering a raw and relatable look into his life post-combat.

This episode is for everyone—whether you're trying to understand how to support a loved one with PTSD, mental health struggles, or the transition from military to civilian life, or if you’re a veteran yourself, looking for a story that hits close to home. We also talk about the pressure loved ones face when they want to help but don’t know how.

As always, we bring our signature Pad Wives banter and humor to the conversation, but with a goal of providing valuable insights, support, and relatability for anyone listening.

If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to someone you trust and seek professional help. Here are a few UK military charities that offer support for PTSD, veterans, and mental health:

- *Combat Stress* (combatstress.org.uk)

- *Help for Heroes* (helpforheroes.org.uk)

- *SSAFA* (ssafa.org.uk)

- *Walking with the Wounded* (walkingwiththewounded.org.uk)

- *The Royal British Legion* (britishlegion.org.uk)

You don’t have to go through it alone.

Key Words: Military, Veteran, Combat, Military to Civilian, Mental Health, PTSD, Mental health support, British Army, British Forces, True Story, True Life, Military stories, Veteran Story.

In this episode of Padwives Assemble, the hosts discuss how to make military housing feel like home. They share personal experiences, insights from guests, and practical tips for decorating and organizing military homes. The conversation covers the challenges of military life, the importance of community support, and creative solutions for making a temporary house feel cozy and welcoming. In this episode, the hosts discuss various topics related to military housing, including maximizing storage solutions, decorating tips for rentals, essential products and hacks for home improvement, and a light-hearted discussion on conspiracy theories. They also delve into a dramatic Reddit story about family dynamics and the choices made by a mother regarding her daughter and husband.

Takeaways

• ​Making a military house feel like home is important.
• ​Community support plays a crucial role in military life.
• ​Decorating can be challenging but rewarding.
• ​Personal experiences can provide valuable insights.
• ​Storage solutions are essential in military housing.
• ​Using candles and flowers can enhance the homey feel.
• ​DIY projects can be fun and fulfilling.
• ​Engaging with the community can lead to new opportunities.
• ​It's okay to personalize your space, even temporarily.
• ​Sharing stories can help others feel less alone. Maximizing storage is crucial in military homes.
• ​Radiator covers and paint can transform a rental space.
• ​Peel and stick tiles are a versatile home improvement solution.
• ​Command strips are essential for renters.
• ​Rugs can significantly enhance the coziness of a room.
• ​Conspiracy theories can lead to entertaining discussions.
• ​Family dynamics can be complicated, especially in blended families.
• ​It's important to prioritize children's well-being over adult relationships.
• ​Cleaning hacks can make home maintenance easier.
• ​Product recommendations can help improve daily life.

Titles

• ​Making Your House a Home
• ​Insights from Military Life Maximizing Storage in Military Homes
• ​Decorating Tips for Military Rentals

Sound Bites

"I'm really excited about what's coming up."

"It's really insightful and it's really nice to see."

"It's a deep episode, let's be honest."

"Look at all this storage!"

"What would you recommend?"

"I will always take peel and stick tiles."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Making a Military House a Home

03:15 Exciting News and Upcoming Guests

05:54 Insights from Alex Harrison's Experience

08:18 Personal Updates and Family Life

10:38 Decorating Military Homes: Challenges and Solutions

13:39 Creating a Cozy Atmosphere

16:12 Practical Tips for Home Decoration

19:01 Storage Solutions for Military Housing

21:32 Final Thoughts and Wrap-Up

35:15 Maximizing Storage in Military Homes

36:43 Decorating Tips for Military Rentals

40:13 Essential Products and Hacks for Home

45:23 Conspiracy Theories and Fun Discussions

50:18 Reddit Drama: Family Dynamics and Choices

Keywords

military housing, home decor, community support, personal stories, military life, home improvement, podcast, decorating tips, storage solutions, military families, military housing, home decor, storage solutions, family dynamics, cleaning hacks, rental tips, parenting, conspiracy theories, product recommendations, home improvement

In this weeks episode, Kirsha and Sophs discuss the various challenges and coping mechanisms associated with military deployments. They share personal experiences, emphasizing the emotional impact of separation on relationships and parenting. The importance of communication, community support, and finding ways to connect during absences is highlighted, along with light hearted anecdotes that provide a sense of relief amidst the serious topics.

Takeaways

• Every deployment is unique and affects individuals differently.
• Coping mechanisms vary; what works for one may not work for another.
• Solo parenting during deployments can be incredibly challenging.
• Engaging in community activities can help alleviate feelings of loneliness.
• Maintaining communication through letters or videos can strengthen connections.
• It's normal to feel a range of emotions during and after deployments.
• Creating family traditions can help children cope with a parent's absence.
• Support from friends and community is crucial during tough times.
• Adjusting to a partner's return can be just as challenging as the deployment itself.
• Sharing experiences with others can foster a sense of belonging and understanding.

Keywords

deployments, relationships, coping mechanisms, communication, military families, emotional support, community, parenting, friendship, personal stories

In this episode, the Kirsha and Sophs discuss various topics related to military life, including exciting announcements about new merchandise and discounts, personal updates, and the challenges of navigating relationships during deployments. They share their experiences with basic training, offer advice for partners of military personnel, and reflect on the importance of patience and communication. The episode also features a humorous Reddit story that highlights the complexities of relationships.

Takeaways

• The Padwives Essentials planner is designed for military spouses.

• Adjusting to a partner's return from deployment can be challenging.

• Communication and patience are key in military relationships.

• Personal growth and self-care are important during transitions.

• The hosts emphasize the importance of community support.

• Experiences with basic training can vary significantly.

• It's common to feel overwhelmed when partners return home.

• The hosts share humorous anecdotes about their relationships.

• Military life can lead to unexpected and humorous situations.

• The importance of sharing experiences to help others feel understood.

Keywords

military life, relationships, deployments, basic training, personal growth, mental health, military spouses, podcast, community, support, best friends, old school, school trends, reddit, reddit stories, comedy, girl talk

"Pad Wife Stigma Showdown: Debunking Dependapotamus Myths and Laughing at Leroy"**4

In this week’s episode of "Pad Wives Assemble - Unfiltered" we're taking on the wild world of military spouse stereotypes head-on! Buckle up as we dive into the hilarious and often frustrating stigmas attached to being a "pad wife." From the outrageous assumptions about our careers to the absurd idea that Leroy, the mythical "other guy," shows up whenever our service members are away, we're setting the record straight with humor and honesty.

What We Cover in This Episode:

• Stigma Breakdown: We address the strange labels and assumptions that military spouses face, including the outdated belief that pad wives don’t have careers or ambitions.
• Leroy Myth: Explore the absurd myth of Leroy—the so-called "other guy" who supposedly appears when service members are away. We’ll debunk this and highlight the reality of our lives.
• Weekly Icks: Relatable and often humorous moments that every pad wife experiences, guaranteed to make you nod in recognition.
• Reddit Madness: Share in our disbelief as we discuss an unbelievable Reddit story that’s so outrageous not even we can get our head around

Plus, we’re bringing you this week’s “icks” — those relatable moments that every pad wife knows too well — and an unbelievable Reddit story that’s so jaw-dropping, it’s practically begging to be shared.

Join us for a fun and eye-opening discussion that tackles these stereotypes with a good dose of humour and a lot of heart. Whether you’re a military spouse or just curious about the real life behind the uniform, this episode is for you!

Keywords: Pad Wife, Military Spouse, Military Life, Stereotypes, Myths, Leroy, Career Myths, Weekly Icks, Reddit Stories, Podcast, Military, Girl Talk, Best Friends

Don’t forget to subscribe and tune in for more episodes where we debunk myths and share the real stories behind the military spouse experience!

Season 2 and Pad Wives Assemble is back but UNFILTERED. We are diving into some outrageous March in stories from Military Housing that will have you gasping, laughing and maybe even cringing. From shocking inspections to unexpected guests in the bathroom! We are pulling no punches in sharing the wildest tales from Military life.

This week we're also debuting a brand new cohost - Kirsha! Get ready for unfiltered takes and hilarious reactions as we break down the chaos.

We've got our fan favourite segments:

Ick of the Week

Reddit of the week

Padcast Faves

No Limits, no filtere and absolutely no dull moments. Tune in, laugh along, and share your own outrageous housing and rental stories (not just Military!)

In our Pilot Season Finale- Episode 15 and Jess’s last episode as cohost to end on a high, Sophs and Jess talk to Lauren Hyland, a Military (RAF) wife, about her experiences living abroad and starting a family. We delve into Lauren's journey of starting a family and the unique ways she stayed connected with her husband whilst he was away and how her social media grew to winning a Forces Families Social Media Award.

We cover topics of military housing, Lauren sharing her experience in Cyprus and offering advice for those moving there. We also touch on the process of applying for a house and the varying conditions of Military housing. Overall providing an insight to military lifestyle and the importance of community and support.

Key points

- Starting a family while in the military can be a challenge, but finding creative ways to stay connected, such as videos and using visual aids can help bridge the distance.

- Military housing conditions can vary, it is important to have realistic expectations and be prepared for potential issues

- Building a supportive community of other military partners can provide a sense of belonging and help navigate the unique challenges of military life

Key words

Military, Army, RAF, Royal Air Force, Deployment, Solo Parenting, Mum life, Cyrpus, Military Family, Military Lifestyle, Girl talk

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost and Kirsha our Season 2 host stands in for Sophs.

Kirsha from ep.12 joins Jess to co-host this week! They talk all things making friends as well as the usual Padcast Faves and Ick of the Week! What has been your experience like with making friends in the military community?

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

Our first ever video podcast! Yay, we are still working out the lighting so bare with us, but we talk the struggles of booking holidays when someone is serving, our best budgeting hacks to keep the cost down, and the different phases of booking holidays and all the laughter innbetween!

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost, and introduction to Kirsha our Season 2 host!

Would you live on a military base? In military terms this is called behind the wire. We have all lived behind the wire and we have all lived on an estate. We delve into Pros and Cons as well as your messages! You can watch the video on our YouTube channel!

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

If you are applying for you’re first SFA and looking for insight, you’re moving to your next or you’re just dang nosey like us! We share our first experience of Military Housing, how we did it, what we found helped and more! All the giggles, the frustrations and all the fun bits! Next week we will cover everything behind the wire pros and cons with a special guest! Don’t forget to give us your orders! xoxoxo

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

Well this week was…..chaotic. So grab a brew and join the chaos! We are honest, brutally honest and we lacked motivation this week. So let’s have a good old gossip!

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

A more in depth discussion and insight into what is expected and what spouses day in the life is like. From Leroy to military slag, holiday planning and more…. With your normal banter, giggles, icks and in appropriate honesty!

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

So if you follow us on Tik Tok you will know that we had an argument, an actual argument… where we didn’t speak for 24 hours and dramatically both said that there would be no podcast this week. Well SHOCK HORROR, this did not last but we like to keep it real and honest here - so here is the beef.

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

A very special episode as we convinced the husbands to be Special Pad Wife Guests! A chaotic insight into our relationships with a part 2 spooky twist of Posting and Ghosting! Welcome Tom & Josh

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

Do you believe in Ghosts? We creep it real in this episode whilst we discuss our own paranormal experiences and read some of your stories! Have your own experiences? Email the padcast email and we will read out your stories or even get you on the show! Want a part 2? Let us know! Of course we didn’t miss out on regular Ick of the week and Padcast Faves!

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

In light of last week being Mental Health Awareness week. We have dedicated Episode 5 to raise awareness, talk about our own struggle, and to open up in a safe space.

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

Would you stay with your partner if they were unfaithful? We talk all things loyalty in this episode and we want to know what you would do! We also have a giveaway with your chance to win a Stanley cup, Steam Cleaner, Pad Wives Mug and SOOO MUCH MORE!

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

All your normal PadCast favourites including; Product, Hack and Ick of the week! This week’s topic is How to Cope with a Long Distance relationship! Plus an added segment for Moulage Au Tampon!

What was going to be a guest appearance, Jess decided to join as our Season 1 Cohost.

The first full Episode of the PADCAST, and why you just should not give a FXCK! Includes: Weekly Pad Wife Debrief, Ick of the Week, Padcast Faves (Product/Hack of the week) & GIVE YOUR ORDERS! Where you the listeners have your say!