Finding Family Purpose: Bring Hope Home

Mike Bateman from Jeremiah House talks about recovery during the PBLA live podcast.

https://jeremiahhouseok.org/

The conversation today focuses on how conflict develops in a marital relationship and how listeners can deal with that. 

Show notes:

0:00:12

Heading: Finding Family Purpose Podcast: Bringing Hope Home with Dr. Larry Roberts

0:02:51

Interview with Larry Roberts, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

0:07:49

Heading: Exploring Conflict in Marital Relationships: A Conversation with Larry and [Name]

0:10:11

Conversation Summary: Adam's Task of Naming the Animals

0:12:13

Conversation Summary: Exploring the Significance of Adam Being Created Alone

0:18:26

Heading: Exploring the Creation of Adam and Eve and Its Implications for Intimacy

0:20:21

Conversation on God's Design for Humanity and Marriage Relationships

0:22:50

Heading: The Importance of Connection and Intimacy in Marriage

0:25:46

Heading: Understanding Intimacy and Conflict in Marriage

0:28:43

Conversation on the Source of Conflict in Marriage Counseling

0:30:54

Conversation on God's Design for Intimacy in Relationships

0:36:26

Heading: Understanding the Cries of the Lonely in Marriage Relationships

0:38:50

Conversation on Navigating Conflict in Marriage

0:40:51

Exploring the Cycle of Stress in Relationships: An Example

0:42:40

Exploring the Cycle of Disconnection in Relationships

0:46:25

Heading: Taking a Risk to Reconnect: Understanding and Sharing Emotions in Marriage Counseling

0:48:10

Heading: Navigating Conflict in Marriage Through Vulnerability

0:50:10

Conversation on Responding to Vulnerability in Marriage

0:55:33

Conversation on Understanding One Another

0:57:15

Conversation on Understanding Each Other in a Marriage

1:02:24

Conversation on Taking a Risk and Understanding Each Other

1:03:54

Conversation on Intimacy in Marriage

1:05:54

"Achieving Intimacy in Marriage: Principles for Relating to Each Other"

1:11:48

Conversation on the Foundations of a Healthy Marriage

1:13:37

Heading: "The Power of Connection in Marriage: A Conversation with [Name]"

1:15:37

Interview with Larry Wilder: Bringing Hope Home Through Marriage

Understanding youth can be difficult, Join Phil Dietz and Courtland Clark as Phil describes youth culture and the role of parents in the youth ministry. 

Show notes:

4:30 Being a Youth Minister

10:00 LIFE

17:35 Incorporate

21:35 Feed

31:00 Equip

36:44 Gifts

41:40 Role of parents

Resources:

Authority and Power https://www.amazon.com/Authority-Power-Spiritual-Warfare-Darkness

Phil Dietz - https://evergreenbc.org/our-staff

Courtland Clark - https://www.abcshawnee.org/leadership

Chuck Robinson is a substance abuse expert with wide-ranging qualifications and experience. He joins the Finding Family Purpose podcast to discuss his understanding of addiction. Robinson's definition is simple - it’s when someone uses an external thing such as a substance, person, or thing to change the way they feel. He also believes that mental health issues have become more clinically obvious due to isolation associated with COVID-19, as well as marijuana legalization in Oklahoma. 

01:43 Intro

06:03 Mental health issues highlighted by isolation.

16:00 Recovery is contagious and possible.

19:02 Overcome generational issues with Christ.

27:38 Seek wise counsel for help.

37:05 Christians: be non-judgmental.

50:33 Change problematic sin to grace.

51:13 Share podcast with others.

References:

https://refinecounseling.org/

https://refinedsilver.org/

"Loving the Addict in Your Pew" - Charles Robinson

https://tinyurl.com/y28f72rd

Jared Landreth is the creative, arts and worship minister at Immanuel Baptist Church in Shawnee, Oklahoma. He is passionate about connecting the message with media to the audience, and has extensive experience with technology, music ministry, and media production.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. How can media be used to effectively communicate the Gospel in a media-saturated culture?

2. What are some practical approaches for parents to guide their children's use of technology?

3. How can churches better equip their members to use media in a meaningful way?

02:12 Intro

07:59 Effective use of media

10:28 How can small churches start a media ministry

14:04 How can media be used in the home to disciple children?

19:23 How can a parent manage the role of Media in the home?

26:54 Pastors and current generations

29:56 Exposure to social media

41:26 Discipleship

Resources:

Jared Landreth 

http://ibcshawnee.org/about/staff

www.rightnowmedia.org

www.covenanteyes.com

"Family Discipleship: Leading your family through Time Moments and Milestones"by Matt Chandler & Adam Griffin, Crossway, Wheaton, Illinois.

https://tinyurl.com/mrad4rtz

www.axis.org 

www.ibcshawnee.org

http://ibcshawnee.org/family-discussions (password: Faithathome)

Courtland and Dr. James Wilder are back in the Finding Family Purpose podcast studio. They are thrilled to welcome Dr. Brian Camp and Dr. Alan Bandy, who are talking about church and human sexuality and how to have healthy conversations about it. They emphasize the importance of using healthy biblical language, rather than connecting biology to morality, realizing that sexuality is always tied to morality.

0:00  Intro 

04:28 How do we address human sexuality in the church?

06:12 Use biblical language.

15:05 Name things accurately.

20:03 Train your dragon of sexuality.

30:04 Talk openly about sexuality.

32:22 Reclaim language for healing.

43:36 God's grace is abundant.

51:06 God redeems all sin.

59:40 Create a safe, supportive community.

1:06:34 Live with healthy sexuality.

References:

Dr. Alan Bandy

https://nobts.edu/Faculty/bandy-alan.html

Dr. Brian Camp

https://www.okbu.edu/directory/brian-camp.html

"Openness Unhindered" - Rosaria Butterfield

https://tinyurl.com/yampxcy4

"Pure" - Linda Kline

https://tinyurl.com/3p53c6jp

Janelle Paris

https://www.messiah.edu/a/academics/facultydir/faculty_profile.php/?directoryID=9&entryID=642

"Mere Sexuality" - Todd Wilson

https://tinyurl.com/2p8s2mar

"Divine Sex" - Jonathan Grant

https://tinyurl.com/3m47m24f

"Washed and Waiting"-Wesley Hill

https://tinyurl.com/2yxt6jmt

In this episode of the Finding Family Purpose Podcast: Bring Hope Home, special guest Dr. Mario Melendez talks about deconstruction, losing a generation, and how to work on that, both in our ministries, in our churches, in our families, and in our individual lives.

01:06 Intro

02:07 What is deconstruction

09:45 Deconstruction caused by hurt

13:55 Generations

22:28 Unrooted

26:47 Family encouragement

35:08 Final thoughts

References:

Dr. Mario Melendez

https://www.okbu.edu/directory/mario-melendez.html

"Radical" - David Platt

https://tinyurl.com/56xxc7pa

Shawn Crawley and Dr. Chris Shirley discuss how to incorporate discipleship into parenting.  Don't miss this great show!

Parenting and Discipleship 

0:00 Intro 

2:05 Interview Starts

6:50 Four Corners approach to discipleship 

7:34 1st corner family 

8:46 2nd corner church 

11:10 Partnership 

12:45 3rd corner discipleship 

13:28 4th corner ministry 

14:40 Parenting 

30:50 Prioritization 

References: 

Dr. Chris Shirley

https://swbts.edu/staff/chris-shirley/

"Family Ministry and The Church" Dr. Chris Shirley 

https://store.randallhouse.com/product/family-ministry-and-the-church/ 

"Limited Church: Unlimited Kingdom" Rob Rienow

https://www.amazon.com/Limited-Church-Unlimited-Rob-Rienow/dp/089265676X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3EKSSJY8FNAUV&keywords=Limited+Church%3A+Unlimited+Kingdom&qid=1665519181&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjAwIiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=limited+church+unlimited+kingdom%2Caps%2C852&sr=8-1

"The Legacy Path: Discover Intentional Spiritual Parenting" Brian Haynes 

https://www.amazon.com/Legacy-Path-Intentional-Spiritual-Parenting 

Richard Ross, PhD 

https://richardaross.com/ 

Follow this exciting new podcast from Pott-Lincoln Baptist Association! Enjoy this trailer and come back for weekly updates

Shawn Crawley and Dr. Chris Shirley discuss how to incorporate discipleship into parenting.  Don't miss this great show!

Parenting and Discipleship 

0:00 Intro 

2:05 Interview Starts

6:50 Four Corners approach to discipleship 

7:34 1st corner family 

8:46 2nd corner church 

11:10 Partnership 

12:45 3rd corner discipleship 

13:28 4th corner ministry 

14:40 Parenting 

30:50 Prioritization 

References: 

Dr. Chris Shirley

https://swbts.edu/staff/chris-shirley/

"Family Ministry and The Church" Dr. Chris Shirley 

https://store.randallhouse.com/product/family-ministry-and-the-church/ 

"Limited Church: Unlimited Kingdom" Rob Rienow

https://www.amazon.com/Limited-Church-Unlimited-Rob-Rienow/dp/089265676X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3EKSSJY8FNAUV&keywords=Limited+Church%3A+Unlimited+Kingdom&qid=1665519181&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjAwIiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=limited+church+unlimited+kingdom%2Caps%2C852&sr=8-1

"The Legacy Path: Discover Intentional Spiritual Parenting" Brian Haynes 

https://www.amazon.com/Legacy-Path-Intentional-Spiritual-Parenting 

Richard Ross, PhD 

https://richardaross.com/ 

Follow this exciting new podcast from Pott-Lincoln Baptist Association! Enjoy this trailer and come back for weekly updates