Pre Marriage 101
By Santos Ortiz Jr
Pre Marriage 101Jan 17, 2021
Why Do You Want to Marry Me?
This question needs to be asked before marriage so that you both have a clear understanding on why you both want to be with each other. This should give you and your partner clear knowledge on the real reason, and it may not be why you think.
Sex
This weeks episode we discuss the popular subject of sex. This isn't the conversation about what you want to do to one another, but what should be talked about beforehand; the uncomfortable stuff. The stuff we avoid because of our pride or because its so taboo to talk about. This week I'm venturing into new territory with the inclusion of the Clubhouse app. This gives me a live audience and numerous guests; making my podcast more interactive than most. Hope you enjoy the changes and one day join in on my Clubhouse room, PreMarriage_101.
Necessary Space
In all these scenario, you or they may need some or a lot of space. Some ppl don’t require any space. And, there are those who require someone to be there. Do you know enough about yourself to answer these? Can you handle someone who is the opposite? Can you come to a medium, find a middle ground that benefits both of you? Or, are your needs non negotiable, there’s no way around them, you need some one there or that space?
This is very important because there are time we need to recharge or heal. Everyone’s process is different. Some need someone there to help pick up the pieces or comfort them to heal. Some ppl need that alone time. If you aren’t given this, you can’t be mentally healthy. And this will destroy a relationship.
Chores & Responsibilities
Co-parenting and Discipline
How do we approach discipline between your partner, your child, and your co-parent?