Adventures of a Social Stoic Dancer πΊ
By Pablo Martinez
Instagram: @social_stoic_dancer
It is about my daily stories and how I use stoicism, practical psychology, social skills, and dancing to find my passion in life πΊ
It is about my daily stories and how I use stoicism, practical psychology, social skills, and dancing to find my passion in life πΊ
Adventures of a Social Stoic Dancer πΊApr 21, 2018
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58. She messaged me back π€·π½ββοΈ
Work on your instagram profile because it could be one of your best wingmen
Apr 03, 201905:19
57. Networking π₯
Make friends with anyone you come in contact with. One of them could be the person that could change your life.
Mar 31, 201906:32
56. I got rejected again π
"I knew a man once who said, death smiles at us all. All that man can do is smile back."
Mar 31, 201907:25
55. Keep your eyes in the target π―
Work on social circle even when you donβt see the results right away because the wait and the fruit of that labor is worth it.
Mar 30, 201907:33
54. Make friends π«
Another update and on main tip: Focus on Making Friends π
Mar 27, 201907:58
53. Update πΊ
Iβm just giving an update of what has been happening in the last 4 months.
Sep 12, 201807:40
52. Taking a break βΊοΈ
Apr 27, 201808:33
51. They reject your approach not you π€π½
Girls donβt reject you, they reject your approach. Work on having a strong body language.
Apr 21, 201806:40
50. I canβt stress enough about social circle βοΈ
Apr 20, 201807:28
49. Be always on the offense βοΈ
Apr 19, 201807:28
48. Social Circle is King π
Apr 18, 201809:12
47. Laugh at yourself π€‘
Sometimes you are going to be in awkward situations. Just make the most out of them and know that it ok to laugh about it.
Apr 17, 201807:16
46. It is working ππ½
Celebrate the small victories and even when is dark in your road to success have faith in you and endure.
Apr 15, 201808:20
45. Donβt wait for no one π
Have an abundance mentality. If somebody rejects you, donβt wait for them to accept you just move one into the next person.
Apr 14, 201807:23
44. Document your journey π£
Take a moment to realize how far you have come or start documenting your journey towards success because it feels good to see your growth.
Apr 13, 201807:16
43. I like rejection π€©
Everybody sucks at the beginning of the learning process and if you donβt have talent or knowledge, rely on persistence and hard work ethic.
Apr 12, 201805:06
42. Make friends with the competition π€
Sometimes there is guys who are better than me and make me feel intimidated. Sometimes there is guys who steal the attention from me. I used to hate on them but now that Iβm in higher level, I want to make them my friends.
Apr 11, 201808:25
41. Be the first to give π
Apr 10, 201808:07
40. Three events on the same day π₯
Apr 08, 201807:04
39. The more you do it the more it becomes part of you π
Without even noticing the skills will come to you as long as you are consistent with your practice
Apr 07, 201807:49
38. More instagram tips π·
Always follow up with the people that gives you their contact information. Donβt let more than 48 hours pass that way your impression is still fresh in their mind.
Apr 06, 201807:48
37. Value is infinite π
Every time you meet someone, always be the first who gives value. It will be extremely beneficial to you in the long term.
Apr 05, 201806:46
36. Surround yourself with winners π
Iron sharpens iron and action creates emotion.
Apr 04, 201804:41
35. Mindset π§
There has always been doubts when I decided to follow my passions that have been detrimental in my life but since that has happened to me a lot now I know how this story ends so I what Iβm going to do is the right thing because I have done the wrong thing for so long.
Apr 03, 201808:02
34. Disguises πΉ
You have better chances of succeeding in the game of life if you see everything that comes to you as a blessing and an opportunity.
Apr 01, 201806:20
33. Get over yourself π
Once in a while I get self conscious about me going out or executing towards my goal. Thatβs why is very important to practice self awareness and know your North Star.
Mar 31, 201807:52
32. If you donβt take it, it has never been yours π
If life offers you an insult but you donβt take it then you have never been insulted. Always give more value then what you want in return.
Mar 30, 201806:18
31. Wake up callπ¨
It is always good to visit levels that used to be hard for you so you can see how far you have come and what you still need to work on.
Mar 29, 201807:49
30. @social_stoic_dancer
Finally, I made an Instagram page!!! Go head and follow me!! @social_stoic_dancer
Mar 28, 201807:52
29. Consistency pays off π°
It is ok to doubt on yourself for a moment as long as you have a clear vision of your North Star and are willing to never give up.
Mar 27, 201806:57
28. This is not happening π§
I didnβt perform as I expected in two of the events that I was excited about and really looking forward, but I gotta love the game
Mar 25, 201808:14
27. A lil more about me π
Some of the people that have influenced me are Ryan Holiday, Robert Greene, and The Greatest Of All Time: Gary Vaynerchuk
Mar 24, 201806:11
26. Kiss me π
Put yourself in situations were you might fail or be embarrassed so you can practice at staying cool under pressure.
Mar 23, 201806:28
25. Embrace your dark side π€
No matter what mistakes you did in the past, as long as you are willing to grow and be a better person, be proud and own them because thanks to them you are the person who you are right now.
Mar 22, 201807:22
24. Let some opportunities go ππ½ββοΈ
It is ok to give up on some opportunities as long as that action takes closer to the big picture.
Mar 21, 201806:24
23. Be water π§
Don't be fixed on seeing just one path. Be willing to accept other ways as long as they go towards your North Star.
Mar 20, 201806:46
22. Tips for the ladies ππ½
I went to 2 social dances in the same night for the first time. One went really good but the other one was ok. I got good insights from both though.
Mar 18, 201808:38
21. Be friendly but always have boundaries π§
If someone is not bringing any value and is just taking away, you have to let them go.
Mar 17, 201804:30
20. Know when to Destroy the Ego πΉ
It is hard to be your true self, specially, in social interactions but I know there is going to be a great prize once I completely master that task.
Mar 16, 201807:39
19. Fun is just a state of mind π
It is your responsibility to make the most out of every situation. Even when everything looks negative, you can make your mind perceive it as a positive.
Mar 15, 201806:14
18. Keep giving no matter what π
Be picky with who you hang out but always keep adding to your social circle.
Mar 14, 201806:43
17. Bachata Consistency π
Persistence, endurance, and consistency are keys for success on anything.
Mar 13, 201804:20
16. A lil bit of my personal life π₯
Since my night was not as productive, I decided to share a little bit about my life.
Mar 10, 201808:03
15. Keep embracing your nerdy side π€
I'm still having problems with maintaining the same confident state of mind throughout the night but now I know what to focus on.
Mar 09, 201806:46
14. Instagram game is a must β
Be grateful for what you have! If you only get one thing from my podcast let it be that SOCIAL CIRCLE is the greatest skill that you should learn.
Mar 08, 201807:50
13. Frustration and Acceptance π
Embrace your weird and nerdy side that way you don't lose energy trying to covering it.
Mar 07, 201806:06
12. New idea π‘
I'm planning to read, listen, and watch material related with social skills and stoicism so I can share my perspective and how I apply it on that night.
Mar 06, 201806:05
11. 5am confusion π
Still struggling with my mental game.
Mar 04, 201804:17
10. Honor commitment and be grateful π€
The advantages of executing the right action even when you don't feel like it
Mar 03, 201806:10
9. In my head π€
The struggle of being in my head and what I do to do the right action.
Mar 02, 201806:49