Purity Hacks Podcast
By Jeff Fisher
Jeff Fisher, director of PurityCoaching.com invites you into an awakening. If you are a sexual struggler or are helping strugglers, you need this podcast. Jeff has been free from his his own sexual addiction for 10 years, and is now able to help others with coaching, support, tips, and strong action plans.
Purity Hacks cuts through to the core of the sexual struggler. How to change. How to stop the bad stuff and start the good stuff. How to find healing for your struggles. How to find fulfillment. How to avoid the landmines of the enemy.
jeff @puritycoaching.com
Purity Hacks cuts through to the core of the sexual struggler. How to change. How to stop the bad stuff and start the good stuff. How to find healing for your struggles. How to find fulfillment. How to avoid the landmines of the enemy.
jeff @puritycoaching.com
Purity Hacks PodcastMay 23, 2018
00:00
15:33
PH007 - Hacking Your Story, Pt.1
Jeff of PurityCoaching.com talks about the importance of your recovery story. You have Deliverance stories and you have Work In Progress stories. He talks about the difference between the two.
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jeff@puritycoaching.com
May 23, 201815:33
PH5 - Hacking Your Travel Struggles
Jeff Fisher of puritycoaching.com shares tips on how to travel and be successful in your purity journey. Practical tips. Straight truth. No fat.
jeff@puritycoaching.com
jeff@puritycoaching.com
May 21, 201815:17
04 - Hacking Your Longing for Porn (heart)
On the last podcast we talked about our Porn looking behaviors. Today we go deeper. Our porn looking is driven by our porn longings. And really, our longings are not for porn at all, but for much deeper things.
Here are the key points from the podcast. Use these to help reflect an evaluate what's really going on underneath the surface.
Porn means something to you.
How does it make you feel? (before, during, climax, after)
What are you in need of?
Jesus wants to inhabit those places
The spiritual battle for your heart is huge.
The sin / flesh battle is huge. Your power is not enough. Your solo devotion to Jesus is not enough. You need "one another".
What alarms are going off inside you? Not just an attraction to nudity or sexual things. The visuals are triggers that set off something deeper inside you.
Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com
Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal - FreeMusicArchive.org
Here are the key points from the podcast. Use these to help reflect an evaluate what's really going on underneath the surface.
Porn means something to you.
How does it make you feel? (before, during, climax, after)
What are you in need of?
Jesus wants to inhabit those places
The spiritual battle for your heart is huge.
The sin / flesh battle is huge. Your power is not enough. Your solo devotion to Jesus is not enough. You need "one another".
What alarms are going off inside you? Not just an attraction to nudity or sexual things. The visuals are triggers that set off something deeper inside you.
Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com
Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal - FreeMusicArchive.org
Apr 07, 201813:16
003 - Hacking Your LOOKING at Porn
Why do you look at PORN? Why can't you stop when you want to? Why can't you stop your bad behaviors?
1. Your habit grew over time
2. Lots of physical things are happening in your brain and with your body. Things that you like.
3. It feels good. The brain chemicals.
4. You have influences in your past that have shocked you, pushed you and nudged you in this direction.
5. Key people in your life have encouraged you in the porn direction.
6. You have key "milestone" experiences in your past that you look back on as building blocks.
7. Your environment encourages you to access and look at porn.
8. You keep secrets. You cover up, hide, lie, and deceive others in order to keep your secret.
9. You have no defenses.
10. You have no accountability.
11. You have no self-discipline.
12. You have no boundaries (rules, guidelines)
Jeff@puritycoaching.com
Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com
Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal - FreeMusicArchive.org
1. Your habit grew over time
2. Lots of physical things are happening in your brain and with your body. Things that you like.
3. It feels good. The brain chemicals.
4. You have influences in your past that have shocked you, pushed you and nudged you in this direction.
5. Key people in your life have encouraged you in the porn direction.
6. You have key "milestone" experiences in your past that you look back on as building blocks.
7. Your environment encourages you to access and look at porn.
8. You keep secrets. You cover up, hide, lie, and deceive others in order to keep your secret.
9. You have no defenses.
10. You have no accountability.
11. You have no self-discipline.
12. You have no boundaries (rules, guidelines)
Jeff@puritycoaching.com
Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com
Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal - FreeMusicArchive.org
Mar 24, 201814:56
002 - Hacking Your Need For a Teacher
WHY DO YOU NEED A TEACHER?
You lack experience
You lack knowledge
Your thinking is immature
You have blind spots / self-deception
You need a safe person / place to practice winning and failing with
You need someone to challenge you
WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – TOP AWESOME 3 – GO FOR THESE
Purity ministry leaders
Sexual addiction support groups and leaders
Counselors that understand sexual addiction
WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – HIT OR MISS – BE CAREFUL WITH THESE
Ministers
Wise friends around you
Best friends|
WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – BOTTOM 3 – NOT YOUR TEACHERS
Spouse
General friends
Books / videos / podcasts
KEY CORE REALIZATIONS
You have to say “yes” to your need for a teacher
You have to say “yes” to making first contact
You have to say “yes” to continuing to reach out; persevere until you find the right teacher
You have to say “yes” until you find the teacher with the right chemistry for you
Jeff@puritycoaching.com
Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox
You lack experience
You lack knowledge
Your thinking is immature
You have blind spots / self-deception
You need a safe person / place to practice winning and failing with
You need someone to challenge you
WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – TOP AWESOME 3 – GO FOR THESE
Purity ministry leaders
Sexual addiction support groups and leaders
Counselors that understand sexual addiction
WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – HIT OR MISS – BE CAREFUL WITH THESE
Ministers
Wise friends around you
Best friends|
WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – BOTTOM 3 – NOT YOUR TEACHERS
Spouse
General friends
Books / videos / podcasts
KEY CORE REALIZATIONS
You have to say “yes” to your need for a teacher
You have to say “yes” to making first contact
You have to say “yes” to continuing to reach out; persevere until you find the right teacher
You have to say “yes” until you find the teacher with the right chemistry for you
Jeff@puritycoaching.com
Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox
Mar 19, 201812:34
001 - Hacking Your Motivations
Jeff Fisher of puritycoaching.com talks about:
What hacks are.
How purity hacks can help you.
And he goes through the first hack you need to learn of Motivations.
HOMEWORK; Make a Top 5 list of reasons you want to stay pure, or reasons why you don't want to do certain sexual behaviors.
HOMEWORK: Reach out to someone else for help with your purity journey.
jeff@puritycoaching.com
What hacks are.
How purity hacks can help you.
And he goes through the first hack you need to learn of Motivations.
HOMEWORK; Make a Top 5 list of reasons you want to stay pure, or reasons why you don't want to do certain sexual behaviors.
HOMEWORK: Reach out to someone else for help with your purity journey.
jeff@puritycoaching.com
Mar 10, 201811:16
000 - Intro to Purity Hacks
Meet Jeff Fisher, Director of PurityCoaching.com and PurityHacks.com.
Jeff shares a bit of his story and sets up the core values for the Purity Hacks Podcast.
jeff@puritycoaching.com
Jeff shares a bit of his story and sets up the core values for the Purity Hacks Podcast.
jeff@puritycoaching.com
Mar 08, 201807:16