You Ain't Crazy Podcast, A Narcissist Has Two Faces!

Phillopians. 4:13, Through Jesus Christ, all things are possible, if you believe. Faith without works is dead. What are you doing with your 24 hours?

When the mask slips, you will truly see the narcissist just for who they are. Don't be bamboozled by the facade. They don't want you to see them for who they really are. If so, they know most people wouldn't dare accept their abuse. They would run away so fast. Overall, they will show you exactly who they are. Stop ignoring the red flags. Simply put, narcissists are mean and evil spirited.

Here are some survival tips on how to build your self esteem and confidence. Stop thinking you can change someone else.. Changing your own bad habits is hard enough. Start putting the work in Daily! Focus on yourself and nobody else for 28 days. Practice makes perfect! Of course, take care of any minors! However, make sure your mind is clear so that you can do so! Be the person you want to see change in. You got this!

Narcs are very sensitive and easily offended without you even trying to offend them. They will blame you for everything without taking any accountability. They don't know how to regulate their emotions and lack empathy. So, don't feed into their drama. They are the ones with the problem You don't need their validation. Keep your head up high. Believe in yourself. You ain't crazy. What you're feeling is very real!

Check out some of the major toxic relationship characteristics. You might not even know that you're being emotionally abused and manipulated. Knowledge is power!

The #Narcissist hates the thought of you doing great They want you to do bad forever.. The thought of you winning, irks their soul! Take your power back and never give it away again!

Greater is in you than he that is in the world. 1 John 4:4. Stop letting toxic, abusive people make you feel less than. You are more powerful than you can imagine. Change starts with you. If you don't like the way something is, what are you doing to change it?

It is important that you really know who you are. The narcissist wants you to believe they know you better than you know yourself Don't feed into their nonsense. You're really better than they could ever imagine. Once you start walking in your purpose, you will see you deserve better!

Practicing self love and forgiveness is key to your healing. Remember, God gave you push through and healing power to defeat the narcissist! It's up to you to believe it, receive it and walk in it!

Happy Mother's Day! Today might be a vulnerable day for some. Be strong, mindful and wise about the ways of a narcissist. Be careful to not allow yourself to get hoovered back in thir evil web. If you do, plan to be tortured and treated 10 times worse!

Happy Mother's Day! It's not a badge of honor to allow someone to mistreat you in a relationship or a marriage. However, it is a sign of strength and courage when you set boundaries and stick to them. Also, I want to correct my math in this episode, before y'all judge me. My mom transitioned 24 years ago. I accidentally said 34 years ago. Happy Mother's Day!😊

Without conflict and some kind of drama going on, the narcissist gets bored. They yearn for supply to torture. That supply is you! It's their oxygen to breathe. Which is why they will always find something to argue about. Even if they have to make up a lie. Don't take it personal. Projecting, manipulating, and gaslighting is what they do or they wouldn't be a narcissist.

A Narcissist will show you signs. You just have to lift your head up out of the sand. Call a thing a thing. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's a duck! Do your own research about the personality type, watch the pattern and make your own assessment.

A #narcissist will show their true colors eventually. Learn about the personality disorder and look out for the red flags in the beginning of the relationship. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then it's a duck. Don't make excuses for weird behavior. Move accordingly and protect your peace!

A Narcissist will intentionally try to control you. They want to be your puppet master. Don't fall for it. You came in this world alone. You're going to leave alone. Never put all of your trust in Noone, but God!

Narcissists are all around us. At some point in your life, you will have a personal encounter with one. You can't escape the possibilities. Raise your discernment and emotional intelligence by gaining as much knowledge as possible so that you're prepared when it happens.

Hopefully, you don't care about what the narcissist wants or don't want. Unfortunately, there are those who still ruminate about the narcissist. If you're someone who still desires to be with someone who blatantly treats you terribly, you might not want to listen to this episode. Unless, you're ready to take your power back and love yourself more than you love the narcissist.

Don't be surprised when others gaslight you to be believe that you're the problem when sharing your horrible experience from a narcissist. Or, they tell you, it's not as bad as your saying it is. Stand in your truth by setting boundaries and sticking to them. Show yourself some self love and keep it moving towards something better and to someone else who will respect and love you, just for who you are.

Stop living in the past and look towards what's ahead of you. You can't change what happened yesterday, last month or last year. Stop trying. It'll never happen. It is what it is. Learn from your error and do better moving forward. Seize the now moment.

Everyone has weaknesses. The difference between a narcissist's weaknesses and a person who isn't a narcissist is, the narcissist's weaknesses hurts the other person intentionally. That's what you have to think about when you're thinking about giving them a pass. Learn as much as you can about a narcissistic personality type to protect yourself, heart, mind, energy and your peace!

A Narcissist doesn't like rejection or abandonment. Despite the fact that they are the main reason for it happening in the relationship. They're going to work overtime to smear your image and hurt you in any way possible. The good news is, there is hope for you and a light at the end of the tunnel. However, you must play your cards right. Start off by shutting up! DO NOT let them know anything else about you. Kill them with kindness. Start playing Chess and not Checkers.

A Narcissist is up for the challenge at breaking you down. Or, they'll just move on to an easier prey. If you get away to save your life, consider yourself truly blessed and never look back!

I'm about 50 minutes late with this episode. Nevertheless, better late than never. I want to wish a Happy Women's Day to women all over the world! Happy Women's History Month as well! Don't let the narcissist steal your joy!

A narcissist will never accept accountability. They will always have an excuse for mistreating you. They will tell you that it's your fault. "You made me do it." Everything that's going wrong, is because of you. They want to brainwash you to believe their lies. Don't fall for it! You'll never win the battle until you take your power back and keep it. Move on to higher heights in your life and let them be. Learn to love some people from a far!

After a break-up, your average person will feel or show some kind of compassion towards the other person. Not a narcissist. They will act cold as ice, unless they still want or need some supply from you that the new supply isn't giving or can't give. Count your losses and keep it moving to save yourself from any additional heartache. If you go back, you're going to look weak and they're going to then treat you 10 times worse! I know it sounds harsh. However, it's the truth.

Plan to be tortured for eternity if you stick around. It will never be a win for you, until you take your power back. Set boundaries and stick to them. A narcissist doesn't want you if you're weak and don't want to keep you if you're strong, even though they chased you to lock you down. It doesn't matter. They only wanted you to start the abuse process. That is why you're experiencing the hurt now. Please start matching the energy they're giving you and move accordingly. Don't let them take you out of character. Move with class. Do it safely and tastefully.

Happy New Year! Wow, I can't believe 2022 is over. Welcome 2023! This episode consists of some New Year's Resolution ideas to start healing from Narc abuse and avoiding it at all cost when you can. Of course, always put safety first.

A Narcissist can show fake affection. It's not genuine. It's only for their own gain. Don't fall for it. Be respectful and learn to love from a distance, if you don't want to get hurt again. They can't help themselves. Unless they're in therapy multiple times per week for NPD, there's just no hope for them. Do you really want to live the rest of your life this way? That's the million dollar question.

If you think you need someone to make you whole, that's when you need to love on yourself more! Spoil yourself! Don't let the narcissist convince you to think or do otherwise. Don't allow them to overstep your boundaries and cause drama between you and your loved ones. That's their mission. Stop engaging and defending yourself. The narcissist knows exactly what they're doing to you. Step away and laser focus on your dreams and aspirations. If you can dream it, you can be it! You're enough, period!

Children learn what they live. It is the parent or guardian's responsibility to provide a safe and stabled emotional environment for them to grow up and develop in. Stop giving attention to people and situations you can't change. Stop the generational curse that has haunted so many people in today's society. Change starts today with you!

A Narcissist expects you to be emotional and angry when they're torturing you. If you can, get away from them all together. If you can't because of children, business or other extenuating circumstances, definitely go grey rock. Have very little engagement with them. Say little to nothing. Remember, they're waiting to edit your narrative to work in their favor, always! Keep your power by staying true to your character, morals and values.

Dealing with a #narcissist can be very draining if you allow yourself to engage. Give that time back to yourself. Do something constructive and productive. Do something that moves you forward and will enhance your life. Otherwise, you will find yourself wasting time with the hours God has granted to you.

A Narcissist can make you feel good temporarily or for a moment. At the end of the day, they are human beings. However, you must remember they have a personality disorder. So, there will always be a motive or an agenda behind their actions, good or bad, that's only in their favor. It has nothing to do with you. Don't let your guards down. Keep gaining knowledge to protect your mind, heart, soul and peace.

Keep your guards up by gaining as much knowledge as you can about NPD. Knowledge is power. It will help you set boundaries and keep them in place at all times. Narcissists are master manipulators who love to see you sweat, be confused and sad. They love to be the cause of your tears and then act as if they're clueless and don't know why you're hurting. Don't be fooled any longer by their games. Take your power back by never letting your guards down when dealing with a narcissist.

A Narcissist has no clue as to what he or she is looking for in a spouse or partner. Never believe them or try to live up to any of their expectations. It's 100% a waste of time! Put that time into people who genuinely love and respect you. Those who reciprocate what you give to them. You'll never get anything real from a narcissist. They will always have a manipulating agenda. Don't ever trust one! Period!

The #Narcissist is invested in trying to make your life miserable. Don't fall for it. This episode gives you some tips on how to resist the manipulation from the master manipulator aka Narcissist! Focus on you and your child or children. Light and darkness can't be around each other at the same time. It's like oil and water.. They don't mix. Don't feed the dark Vibes any energy. Keep positive vibes no matter what and you'll always win!

We're entering into the holidays of Thanksgiving, Christmas, Qwanza, Hanukkah and many other holiday celebrations. It's a time when society makes you feel like being alone and loving yourself and enjoying self time is weird and wrong. Don't fall for it.. It's a beautiful thing, when you choose yourself and your peace, over chaos, drama and confusion. You might be tempted or persuaded to compromise on your, "No's." Don't give in. Trust your gut and stick to the boundaries that hopefully you have in place. You just might save your life! You will definitely protect your peace and sanity!

Try the spirit by the spirit! Read the energy a person gives. Not only to you, but to others as well. Raise your discernment. A narcissist doesn't discriminate. Whatever they do to someone else, it's just a matter of time before they're going to do the same to you, without any guilt or empathy. They are very empty evil souls.

Narcissists have very fragile egos. It doesn't take much to cause a narcissistic injury. They never take accountability. It's always the other person's fault. When you finally choose yourself over them, leave or discard them, they feel highly insulted and injured, regardless of all of the pain they inflicted upon you! Set boundaries and stick to them and Knowledge Up!!

You can count on a narcissist revealing their true colors. It's only matter of time before the mask will slip. The question is, will you believe the mask or believe the character behind it?

A Narcissist feels like the world owes them something. That means you and everyone else. They take no accountability nor do they genuinely reciprocate what you do for them. Trust and believe, there's always a twist to their fake good deeds. They can't help themselves. Do yourself a favor and never get comfortable with them. Their good deed is just an investment to control your mind, body and soul. Unfortunately, it's never genuine.

If you have to ask yourself that question, I believe you already know the answer. Trust your gut. Watch what a person does and not just what they say. Their action will give you your answer.

It's time to have some self-awareness. Are you addicted to the pain and drama from your abuser. What's keeping you stuck in a situation that's hurting you and not moving you forward? What's causing you to keep making excuses for your abuser and giving unlimited passes? You might just have a trauma bond or Stockholm Syndrome.

Narcissists feel empty inside and they lack confidence, despite how they look and what they might have. They have loads of insecurities and project them onto their victims. Stop giving up your power by not engaging when they come for you. Go no contact if you can. If you can't, go gray rock. Give the simplest response. No matter what you say, they only hear themselves. You're just an object to them. Protect your peace and mental by planning your exit asap and leave them for good.

Very often society rewards and embraces narcissistic behavior. The narcissists appear to be very charming and persuasive to those they are not involved with on a regular basis. Anyone who stays around one long enough, will definitely see their true colors. However, if you're dealing with one, gain as much knowledge as you can about the disorder. Once you have a clear understanding, you'll be better equipped with knowing how to make your next move. You'll understand how to play chess and not checkers and how to use reverse psychology to regain your power and peace.

A Narcissist is one with a personality disorder. The likelihood of them changing, is the same likelihood of you winning the mega million, slim to never. Nobody is perfect. However, a narcissist will never take blame unless it makes them look good in front of other people. Otherwise, anything that goes wrong, will always be your fault. Take your power back and stop falling for their manipulative tactics. You got this!

Narcissists knows everything they're doing to you. It's intentional because they are unhappy, empty creatures who wants you to feel the same. They don't discriminate. No one is exempt from their abuse, if you allow them to abuse you. Your power is your knowledge. Your peace is you moving in silence with action. You're not alone. There's nothing you're going through that someone else has not made it through. Keep your head up high. You got this!