Real Talk, Real Muslims

By Roann & Rund

Real Talk, Real Muslims is a podcast by two young Muslims covering the good, the bad, and the ugly of life as a young Muslim today.

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Episode 4: Unpopular Opinions

Real Talk, Real MuslimsMar 07, 2021

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Episode 4: Unpopular Opinions

In this episode, we talked about our opinions regarding unpopular opinions ranging from our thoughts on wearing socks while sleeping, to Harry Potter, to the idea of drinking milk as grown adults, and so much more. Honestly, this episode gets heated at times, so get ready! We hope that you enjoy this episode and we would love to hear your thoughts regarding these unpopular ideas! We wanted to leave you with an important question: Are you #teamsocks or #teamnosocks? There is definitely a right answer.

Mar 07, 202123:13

Episode 3: Taboo Series - Let's Talk About Gender Relations with Yasmin Elhady

GUYSSS!! The last episode of the taboo series is now available!! 🥳

✨ In this episode, we spoke to Yasmin Elhady (@yasguru ) about all things related to gender relations in Islam. We talked about female sexual desire, the right way to approach a guy/girl, interracial marriage, self-worth, and so much more! Yasmin is a successful lawyer, comedian, relationship consultant, mother, wife, and overall the coolest human being! She has a series on her social media called #MarryMondays that deals with everything dealing with relationships - absolutely love it! Check it out!

✨ Our conversation with Yasmin was very open and insightful and she answered your questions in detail and did not shy away from the “taboo” ❤️

✨ Yasmin was spewing straight facts in this episode! Get cozy because this episode is a ride to the unfiltered reality! Hope you all enjoy it! Can’t wait to hear your thoughts! ❤️

Feb 13, 202156:05

Episode 2: Taboo Series - Let's Talk About Homosexuality

Before recording this episode, we sat down with a knowledgeable individual to ask them about the questions you all submitted to us. In this episode, we talked about many aspects that deal with homosexuality in Islam. This episode was a very uncomfortable one to record, but that is why we created the taboo series. We answered questions regarding whether or not homosexuality is allowed in Islam, what our stance on homosexuality should be as Muslims, what to do if someone you know comes out to you, what it means if you are a homosexual Muslim, and so much more. We hope you all benefit from this episode and we would love to hear any feedback or thoughts you all have - whether or not you agree with us! We shared our unfiltered thoughts and opinions with you, but at the end of the day, Allah knows best.

Jan 30, 202140:34

Episode 1: Red Flags & Toxicity in Relationships, Importance of Boundary Setting, & The Journey To True Self-Love

Welcome to the first episode of Season 2 of Real Talk, Real Muslims! We are so excited for this season and all the exciting upcoming episodes and plans.

We are starting the new season & new year by delving into important topics that we can implement throughout this year to help us improve our relationships, overall well-being, and vibes for this year.

In this episode, we talked to Dr. Nahla (@imdoctornahla) who is an aspiring psychiatrist, mental health advocate, and an overall amazing person who is really making an impact in our community by shedding light on stigmas surrounding mental health & various taboo topics. Through her social media platforms, Dr. Nahla encourages others to seek the care that they need in order to improve their overall wellness.

We spoke about an array of topics in this episode- from red flags to look out for in relationships (whether romantic ones or not), to toxic friendships, to the importance of boundary setting, and finally, the journey to true self-love without all the social media cliches. We really hope that you all benefit from this episode and are able to implement the lessons from this episode into your own lives. Can’t wait for you all to listen & to hear your thoughts! Get comfortable - you’re in for a captivating listen!

Jan 09, 202147:09

Episode 33: A Year To Remember - Lessons From 2020!

Welcome to another episode of Real Talk, Real Muslims! This is our last episode before hopping into season 2, and it has been so long since we've released, but we are so excited to be back! We wanted to end this season by talking a little bit about what we have overcome this year, what we have learned, and what we will be taking with us into this new year and the years that come after, inshAllah. We are super excited to be back with you all! We hope that you all enjoy this episode & we encourage you all to take the time to sit with yourselves and reflect upon your own journeys with this year! And as always, we would love to hear about your experiences and the lessons that you have all learned from 2020. Remember, you can always reach out to us through DMs or our email, realtalkrealmuslims@gmail.com, if you ever want to share anything with us! Thank you for following along with us on this journey. Get cozy with a cup of chai or hot coco and give our new episode a listen!

Dec 26, 202040:39

Episode 32: Let's Talk About The Stigma Surrounding Mental Health with Dr. Nahla

In this episode, we talked to Dr. Nahla about the stigmas surrounding mental health in our communities. Dr. Nahla earned her undergraduate degree in Health Sciences where she learned about the social determinants of health, igniting her passion to support and advocate for underserved communities and minorities as a healthcare professional. Nahla is breaking the stigma associated with mental health in minority communities and encouraging proactively seeking the care they need in a way that is meaningful to them. We answered many of the questions that you all asked including: "How can one respectfully explain to people the importance of seeking professional help and that mental illness is not linked to being a bad Muslim?" "How can young Muslims seek mental health help? What should they do if their parents/guardians do not approve of it or do not understand their struggles?" "How should someone deal with having suicidal thoughts or when they know that a friend is having suicidal thoughts?" "Even if someone does have access to therapy/counseling, what things should they consider as a Muslim going into therapy?" and etc. Tune into this episode & share your thoughts with us. Our DMs are always open.

Oct 03, 202042:35

Episode 31: Misconceptions About Islam Pt. 2 with Tesneem Alkiek

Welcome to Episode 2 of the Taboo Series - Misconceptions About Islam Part 2. In this episode, we spoke to Tesneem AlKiek, who is currently a Ph.D. candidate in Islamic Studies at Georgetown University with a focus on the development of Islamic law, where she answered many of the questions that you all had about Misconceptions About Islam. We answered questions including: Is Islam sexist, does it oppress women, does it condone violence, why is polygamy only allowed for men, why do women wear hijab, & what are rubric Muslims? Tune into this episode & share your thoughts with us. Our DMs are always open. We are super excited about this episode! It’s about to get REAL! 🤩

Sep 26, 202033:16

Episode 30: Misconceptions About Islam Part 1 with Tesneem Alkiek

Welcome to Episode 1 of the Taboo Series - Misconceptions About Islam Part 1. In this episode, we spoke to Tesneem AlKiek, who is currently a Ph.D. candidate in Islamic Studies at Georgetown University with a focus on the development of Islamic law, where she answered many of the questions that you all had about Misconceptions About Islam. Tune into this episode & share your thoughts with us. Our DMs are always open. Get pumped! It’s about to get REAL! 🤩

Sep 19, 202028:22

Episode 29: Let's Delve Into The Taboo Series!

In this episode, we will briefly talk about why we decided to create the taboo series and what you all can expect from us during this time. As you all may know, we started this podcast with the goal to discuss the good, the bad, & the ugly of life as a young Muslim today. We started this podcast to create a platform for young Muslims, somewhere where they feel heard & represented. So far, we have spoken about so many topics in relation to the life of a young Muslim; however, in order to continue to fulfill the purpose of this podcast, we want to dedicate more time to those topics that are considered shameful and stigmatized in our communities. Tune in to this episode & share it with your family & friends! Get pumped, peeps! It's about to get REAL!

Sep 12, 202013:00

Episode 28: Growing Into Our True Selves!

Welcome back to another episode! In today’s episode, we talk about the journey of growing into our true selves. The process happens as we get older and is a life long journey, in our opinion! We believe that everyone’s journey is different; however, as young Muslims, we have seen that there are many unique elements that overlap within this process. We hope that you all enjoy this episode & we encourage you all to take the time to sit with yourselves and reflect upon your own journeys, and we would love to hear if you were able to find bits of your story in this episode. Remember, you can always reach out to us through DMs or our email, realtalkrealmuslims@gmail.com, if you ever want to share anything with us! Thank you for following our podcast journey. We appreciate everyone single one of you!

Aug 29, 202037:55

Episode 27: We're Not Really Strangers - Let's Talk!

In today’s episode, we pulled questions from the “We’re Not Really Strangers Game” & answered them together. This is not an ordinary game; it gets you to self-reflect, have meaningful conversations, & pushes you to become vulnerable & self-aware. The goal of this episode is explore how to become more comfortable to be vulnerable at any time even when we do not feel particularly “picture perfect.” We hope that you all enjoy this episode and take the moment, with your family, friends, and us to find the answers to these questions for yourself.

Grab a beverage & a snack and get ready to tune in to this week's episode!

Aug 15, 202032:56

Episode 26: Muslim Representation In the Media

In this episode, we delve into detail about many aspects regarding Muslims & the media. There are two sides to this topic: the way the non-muslim world represents Muslims & the representation inside the Muslim world & how Muslims treat influencers & etc. We talk about the huge lack of Muslim representation in the media, and we dissect & give our perspectives on the few, current examples of representation. Grab a snack, get comfy, & tune into this episode. Enjoy! ❤️

Jul 04, 202049:45

Episode 25: Racism, colorism, & discrimination in the Muslim Community

In this episode, we cover many different aspects related to racism in our Muslim community. We talked about what is happening in the United States right now & the importance of acknowledging that it is opening up conversations & highlighting the fact that we have a lot to work on both personally & as a society. We delve into our personal experiences & what examples we have seen of colorism & discrimination in our communities. Grab a snack & a friend & let us know your thoughts on this episode & if you related to anything we spoke about.

Jun 20, 202042:49

Episode 23: The Status & Roles of Women: What Islam Tells Us Vs. What Culture Tells Us

In this episode, we cover the cultural expectations and stigmas that women face and contrast that to Islamic teachings. We delve into our personal stories and experiences with these issues, and finally, we wrap up with some recommendations for how we can do better as a community. Grab a snack and a friend & let us know if you relate or agree with this episode!

May 23, 202001:14:26

Episode 22: Modest Fashion, Decision Making, & Intercultural Marriage: A conversation with Dr. Aisha Sindhu

In this episode, we spoke to Dr. Aisha Sindhu, who is a Diagnostic Radiology resident physician, about many aspects of life. We talked about the current COVID-19 situation, decision making when it comes to choosing to go to medical school, how Dr. Aisha got into modest fashion & social media, & interracial marriage and the stigma surrounding it. Take a listen for some great advice and life lessons from our incredible guest!

Where to find Dr. Aisha:

Website: http://aishasindhu.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/draishasindhu/

YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/c/AishaSindhu

May 09, 202052:17

Episode 21: Maintaining Your Spiritual & Physical Health During Ramadan Ft. Harun & Janisha Raja

In this episode, we spoke to two amazing members of our Greenville community: Harun & Janisha Raja. We spoke about how to mentally, physically, and spiritually prepare for Ramadan. We had a great conversation on how to maintain/attain a healthy lifestyle, maintain our goals & energy, & most importantly, how to keep the Ramadan spirit during this time. We are only on the second day of Ramadan, so listen to this episode for some great tricks & tips on how to make this Ramadan a successful one! Harun Raja is the owner and head instructor at Raja Academy. Raja Academy is a Martial Arts School for Muay Thai, Wing Chun, Derobio Escrima, and more. You should totally check them out! In these trying times, Harun Raja is opening the opportunity for online martial art academy training to anyone who is interested! Here is the link to Raja Academy: https://rajamartialarts.com/online-video-training/ Instagram: @rajaacademy Facebook: Raja Academy of Martial Arts

Apr 25, 202058:02

Episode 20: Preparing for Ramadan: Featuring Amasi Decor

Are you ready for Ramadan? With Ramadan looking very different this year due to COVID-19, it can be easy to feel discouraged or out of the Ramadan spirit, but don’t worry — we’ve brought in 2 experts on Ramadan and Muslim holiday spirit: Saja and Suha, the founders of Amasi Decor. In this episode, we talk about Ramadan and Eid traditions, how to maintain spiritual practices throughout the whole month of Ramadan, how we can prepare for Ramadan in light of COVID-19 and keep its spirit alive, staying positive during these times, and so many more tips for making your Ramadan and Eid amazing this year.

Amasi Decor's Website: www.amasidecor.com/
The 30 Days of Good Deeds in Ramadan Printout: www.amasidecor.com/ramadanprintout
The Ramadan Playlist: www.amasidecor.com/ramadan-playlist
The Eid Playlist: www.amasidecor.com/eid-playlist
They are also including a promo code of 20% off the entire order for our listeners: REALTALK20

Apr 11, 202034:29

Episode 19: Making a College Decision with Lyla Warsi, Sofia Siddiqui, and Amani Altwam

With college decision day rapidly approaching, we invited 3 current college students, Lyla, Sofia, and Amani, to give their insight and advice about their college experiences at the University of South Carolina, Furman University, and Clemson University, respectively. We talk about everything from dorm rooms, types of professors, what to do for fun in college, and being Muslim on a college campus. Good luck to everyone making a decision!

Mar 28, 202033:43

Episode 18: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly: Dealing with Burnout

In this episode, we get real about burnout, the unique burnout struggles that first-generation people go through, how social media contributes to burnout, and most importantly, how to maximize your breaks to get back to your healthiest self and to recover from burnout! We hope you enjoy this episode & remember to WASH your hands & stay safe!

Mar 14, 202031:02

Episode 17: Hate, Jealousy, and Arab Superiority in Muslim Communities: What we can do about it

We are back! It has been a while since it's been us & the mic alone. We realized that we've missed it. In this episode, we talk about hate, jealousy, and Arab superiority, topics that often come up in our personal one-on-one conversations. We did not hold anything back - it's raw & unfiltered, and most importantly, our true & honest opinions. Let us know what your thoughts about these topics are. Have you ever encountered any of these issues? Instagram: realtalkrealmuslims Facebook: Real Talk, Real Muslims Gmail: Realtalkrealmuslims@gmail.com Don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts!

Feb 15, 202045:18

Episode 16: Following your passions: A conversation with MahaDotCom!

Join us for a discussion with Maha El Gawly who you may know by her Instagram and Youtube channel “@mahadotcom” We discuss everything from her decision to go to medical school, what medical school is like, how to stay motivated when studying, relationships in medical school, and how to keep going when things get tough. Make sure to check out our awesome guest on Instagram @mahadotcom & on Youtube “Mahadotcom” The first round of exams are almost here! Grab a hot beverage, a fuzzy blanket, and a snack & start listening for some motivation!

Feb 01, 202032:35

Episode 15: New Year, New You? - Health, Wellness, & Islam with Leilani Fletcher

In this episode, we spoke to Leilani Fletcher about so many different topics - health, wellness, lifestyle choices, and her conversion to Islam! Leilani Fletcher is an amazing person. She is a certified Holistic Health Coach and has taught nutrition education in schools and community centers, and has led holistic health workshops and worked with private clients to help them achieve greater wellbeing. Leilani spoke to us about these topics in such a new & unique way! We really learned so much from this episode & we really enjoyed recording it. This is one of our favorite episodes so far! We hope you all enjoy this episode as much as we did! Grab a healthy snack, set back, relax, and enjoy this episode! Don't forget! We have something exciting for you all! This episode was sponsored by Muslim Avenue! Muslim Avenue is a Muslim owned and run jewelry brand that sells beautiful pieces. It’s really important for us to support other Muslims in their successes and endeavors, and they are a great company. We have a discount code for you guys, and it is 10% off anything from January 17 - 25. The code is “Real Talk” Happy shopping! Check out Muslim Avenue: Website: https://www.muslimavenue.co/ Instagram: Muslim.ave

Jan 18, 202034:54

Episode 14: Coffee Talk with Bayan Abunijem & Shahd Abdeladl

In this episode, we talk to two of our very close friends, Shahd Abdeladl and Bayan Abunijem, about hijab, relationships with parents, split culture, moving away for college, and friendships! We had a lot of fun recording this episode, and we can not wait for you all to listen to it! Check out our latest Instagram post of our "glow-ups" and send us yours too!

Go check out Bayan's Dental Account and Shahd's Photography and Painting For A Purpose Account:

Bayan: @braceyourself.23

Shahd's photography: @shahdabdeladlphotography

Shahd's Painting For A Purpose: @paintingforpurpose2019

Jan 04, 202048:03

Episode 13: New Year, New Boost of Confidence!

This is our last episode of 2019! In this episode, we talk about the best ways to boost your self-confidence as we head into the New Year. We talk about everything from drama to traveling to gaining self-love. Join us as you write your New Year’s Resolutions and on our collective journeys of self-growth! Happy End of the Decade!
Please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! We would love to hear your feedback!
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Dec 21, 201923:01

Episode 12: #KeepingUpwithTheMasjidsss

In this episode, we dive into the state of Masjids in America today and talk about everything from the problems Masjids face to Sunday Schools to the need for youth spaces and so much more. Grab your chai and grab your blanket and get ready to listen to this week’s real talk!

Please let us know what you all think! Your feedback means a lot to us! Connect with us on any of these platforms! :)

Instagram: @realtalkrealmuslims

Facebook: Real Talk, Real Muslims

Email us: Realtalkrealmuslims@gmail.com

Thank you for listening!

Dec 07, 201930:13

Episode 11: "Finals Week... You Don't Scare Us!"

Can you guys believe that we have been podcasting for six months? It has felt like way longer than that, but we have enjoyed every moment of it and can not wait to see what the future holds!

In this episode, we share 10 tips with you all about how to finish this semester out strong! Thank you to all of you who gave us advice and tips you all use! They were really helpful; we shared them with everyone in this episode! We hope you all use these tips in the next couple of weeks in order to finish your semester out strong! We believe in all of us, we CAN do it!

Instagram: @realtalkrealmuslims

Facebook: Real Talk, Real Muslims

Email: realtalkrealmuslims@gmail.com

Nov 23, 201920:16

Episode 10: #muslimstruggles

From having our names completely butchered to struggling to find a decent place to pray, Every day Muslim struggles are REAL struggles! In this episode, we cover the ones that have impacted our lives the most! Let us know what every day Muslim struggles you have all encountered!
Warning: Lots of laughter involved.
Let's start the convo!

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Nov 09, 201920:27

Episode 9: When Passion Meets Purpose: A Conversation with PaliRoots

Join us for a conversation about passion and purpose, taking pride in our culture, incorporating philanthropy and business and so much more with PaliRoots Co-Founder Hussein Musa!

Oct 22, 201938:57

Episode 8: "Leading Your Way Through Life" - With Rami Kawas

In this episode, we had the pleasure of speaking to Rami Kawas, who is the Executive Director and Instructor at the Oaktree Institute, about the value of young Muslim leadership in American Muslim communities. Rami gave us some insightful tips on how we can increase youth leadership in our communities while also working together to make a lasting impact.

Follow Rami Kawas and the Oak Tree Institute:

Instagram: @Oaktreeinstitute and @Rami_Kawas

Instagram: @realtalkrealmuslims

Facebook: Real Talk, Real Muslims

Intro/Outro Music: Alive by Neptunica

Oct 08, 201927:58

S1:E7 “The One Where Two Young Muslims Talk About Friendship”

In this episode, we delve into the importance of surrounding ourselves with good friends. We did a little mashup of some questions about our friendship while also giving you our thoughts about what good friends look like and how they can shape your life. At the end of this episode, we announced our first giveaway! Keep your eye out for a post with more information!

Sep 24, 201929:42

Episode 6: Hijab - not only a piece of cloth, but a relationship!

Have you ever wondered what it’s like to wear hijab? Or have you personally experienced it and wished someone could relate to your struggle? Join us for a discussion about our hijab stories, what it means to us, and the struggles that accompany wearing hijab today!

Instagram: @realtalkrealmuslims

FB: Real Talk, Real Muslims

Email: realtalkrealmuslims@gmail.com

Intro/Outro music: Alive- Neptunica

Sep 10, 201922:38

Episode 5: Back to School!

Join us for our back to school advice covering everything from praying at school to self-care! We also discuss one of your responses to our survey question at the beginning of this episode, so sit down, relax, and have a listen to an advice-packed episode.
Instagram: @realtalkrealmuslims
Facebook: Real Talk, Real Muslims
Email: realtalkrealmuslims@gmail.com
Intro/Outro Music: "Alive" by Neptunica

Aug 27, 201929:43

Jun 25, 201915:48

Episode 1: Welcome to Real Talk, Real Muslims!

In this episode, we dive into why we are doing this podcast and what to expect. We then hit the ground running by talking about the struggles of finding your identity as a young Muslim living in a non-Muslim country today.
To stay updated, follow us on Instagram @realtalkrealmuslims, like us on Facebook at "Real Talk, Real Muslims," or email us at realtalkrealmuslims@gmail.com.
Intro/Outro Music: Neptunica - Alive (feat. Matt Defreitas)

Jun 11, 201909:50

Real Talk, Real Muslims

By Roann & Rund

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Episode 4: Unpopular Opinions

Real Talk, Real MuslimsMar 07, 2021

Episode 4: Unpopular Opinions

Episode 3: Taboo Series - Let's Talk About Gender Relations with Yasmin Elhady

Episode 2: Taboo Series - Let's Talk About Homosexuality

Episode 1: Red Flags & Toxicity in Relationships, Importance of Boundary Setting, & The Journey To True Self-Love

Episode 33: A Year To Remember - Lessons From 2020!

Episode 32: Let's Talk About The Stigma Surrounding Mental Health with Dr. Nahla

Episode 31: Misconceptions About Islam Pt. 2 with Tesneem Alkiek

Episode 30: Misconceptions About Islam Part 1 with Tesneem Alkiek

Episode 29: Let's Delve Into The Taboo Series!

Episode 28: Growing Into Our True Selves!

Episode 27: We're Not Really Strangers - Let's Talk!

Episode 26: Muslim Representation In the Media

Episode 25: Racism, colorism, & discrimination in the Muslim Community

Episode 23: The Status & Roles of Women: What Islam Tells Us Vs. What Culture Tells Us

Episode 22: Modest Fashion, Decision Making, & Intercultural Marriage: A conversation with Dr. Aisha Sindhu

Episode 21: Maintaining Your Spiritual & Physical Health During Ramadan Ft. Harun & Janisha Raja

Episode 20: Preparing for Ramadan: Featuring Amasi Decor

Episode 19: Making a College Decision with Lyla Warsi, Sofia Siddiqui, and Amani Altwam

Episode 18: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly: Dealing with Burnout

Episode 17: Hate, Jealousy, and Arab Superiority in Muslim Communities: What we can do about it

Episode 16: Following your passions: A conversation with MahaDotCom!

Episode 15: New Year, New You? - Health, Wellness, & Islam with Leilani Fletcher

Episode 14: Coffee Talk with Bayan Abunijem & Shahd Abdeladl

Episode 13: New Year, New Boost of Confidence!

Episode 12: #KeepingUpwithTheMasjidsss

Episode 11: "Finals Week... You Don't Scare Us!"

Episode 10: #muslimstruggles

Episode 9: When Passion Meets Purpose: A Conversation with PaliRoots

Episode 8: "Leading Your Way Through Life" - With Rami Kawas

S1:E7 “The One Where Two Young Muslims Talk About Friendship”

Episode 6: Hijab - not only a piece of cloth, but a relationship!

Episode 5: Back to School!

Episode 4: Getting to Know Us Q & A!

Episode 3: Culture and Islam

Episode 2: Being a Young Muslim in College with Omar Mayar!

Episode 1: Welcome to Real Talk, Real Muslims!