Recovering You

This one is obvious, or is it? Is addiction a red flag you should run from or work through? Listen in to find out.

Anger management is a real thing. In this episode, we talk about the emphasis on the management part of anger management. Everyone gets angry, but it’s how we manage and control and utilize that anger that makes it a red flag or not. Tune in to learn more.

Have you ever gone shopping for a car? Or any major purchase? Do you know how the salesman will always tell you that you have to act fast or you will lose out on the deal. That is what the blitz flag is all about. It’s all about getting you into a committed relationship as fast as possible so that leverage can be used against you. Join us in this weeks episode to learn more about how do identify and avoid this type of person.

Before any sort of physical contact with romantic intentions starts with a dating interest begins, know your line, don’t allow that line to be crossed. And if your date bases the worth of your relationship on what you’ll give them physically, they are toxic and a Red Flag individual who you should avoid at all costs.

A person who is always the victim and only sees the world as stacked against them and blames everyone else for their failures, is a toxic and dangerous person to be with. They are poison to the soul and will never be satisfied with their life and will not allow you to be satisfied with yours.

It’s important for you to understand what makes you laugh and feel free and happy, and what makes you feel embarrassed or vulnerable or exposed or humiliated. And the beginning stages of starting today is the best time to communicate these things as the situation’s arise. You never need to feel bad about being made to feel bad.

We have been given emotions to help us navigate through life to help us discern where there might be danger, where we feel most connected, where we feel most safe, where we need to protect ourselves or others. For some reason, so many people think that they need to give their emotions over to the person. They are in a relationship with as a sign of trust, or Love. At no point should we ever allow someone else to be in charge of our emotions. This is a common tactic for control and abuse and needs to be pointed out and identified as a red flag. Listen in to get more details.

Whenever we meet someone we are interested in, we put on our best face. We say, and do, and dress, and act, and smell, exactly how we think will attract that other person. Which is totally normal…Until it’s not.

We step into Psychological and Spritual Intimacy. This is where we begin to join together in our thoughts, our dreams, and with God. It’s no longer just about us and what we think. It’s about making changes to ourselves to align with each other and to meet the expectations of God within the bonds of marriage.

Intimacy is so much more than a honeymoon night, or heated moments of passion. It’s an aspect of relationships to be worked on, cared for, practiced and developed just like anything else we are passionate about. We discuss how it’s more like a pyramid, with the foundation being Verbal intimacy, then Cognitive Intimacy, and then Emotional Intimacy. The other three top parts of the pyramid will be discussed in future episodes. So if you’re looking for a way to have a healthy and beautifully intimate relationship with your significant other or even to have closer and more connected friend and family relationships, this one is for you. Please share and rate us so this important message can reach more of those who need to hear what we have to say.

There is a lot of work that goes into being an effective spouse. It’s about adaptation, the ability to change, the recognition and willingness to show up for the other persons needs without being asked. It’s all about clear, communication and a productive responses. This episode is all about how to be effective in the way, you treat your spouse. Join us and unlock the secrets to a perfect marriage… Just kidding. But there is a ton of information in here that will be useful and valuable.

Luke Gordon, founder of “Choose Recovery”, and LCS affiliate joins us to talk about his journey through multiple rock-bottom‘s and going to places of darkness he never thought possible. Then, taking us through the Evolutionaries changes that needed to take place in his life over multiple years, learning how to be honest, even knowing that the consequences could mean the end of everything he held dear. Luke story is one that truly shows that we cannot go beyond the reach of the atonement of our Savior Jesus Christ. And that with the right amount of effort and hope, the greatest happiness imaginable is still obtainable. It just takes time and evolution, like a long sunrise leading up to the most beautiful morning imaginable.

This week we are joined by Dr. Brock Johansen who dives into the dangers of conforming to the norms of societal pressures, lifetime medications, and religous/familial expectations. How do we discern truth amidst so much information? Who do we blame for our current situation? Where do we turn for lasting recovery and healing? And where does grace come in to play? We also take advantage of Brock’s in-depth knowledge of how to get off of medications by resolving the root issues through science and discovery. It could be environment, nutrition, or a more mental imbalance. Whatever it is, there is hope and help. And through it all, even as we are broken down and molded into something stronger and better, God is taking part in the process.

You wouldn’t typically think that bringing a child into this world would be something that would cause you to lose a part of yourself. But it is one of the most common things for a woman to experience. Struggling through postpartum depression affects a huge percentage of women every single year. And the symptoms can be absolutely devastating and even dangerous. I was lucky enough to be joined this week by two amazing women (Kyra and Danica), who spoke about their struggles and fights that they went through after giving birth, and why it is so important to recognize the symptoms of PPD and to talk to someone about what’s going on. There is no shame in seeking help and taking medications to balance the internal system that has been thrown off by child birth. For the sake of both Mother and child help is available.

Cameron is joined by Brandon J. An awesome recovery superstar who talks about his Emergency Warrior System, and the value of understanding his identity. As well as how he fought through multiple divorces and had to completely revamp who he was in order love who he is.

Stephen Joins us to share his story about how his opening up and talking about his problems, picking your closest 5, and using the DPAR system, led to healing and a happier lifestyle.

We have everyday objects that we use for our benefit, our improvement, even our gratification. However, people are NOT meant to be on this list. In this episode we discuss the powerful persuasion that objectification of others has on the world, and how to fight against it.

Who are you supposed to talk to when impulses and temptations get tough, or you've just relapsed? In this episode we go through the process of finding the RIGHT accountability partner and talk about how they should treat you and help you most effectively. We also breakdown specific questions that should be asked regularly and answered honestly. I'll list a link to those questions below. Please Rate and share our show with anyone you care about that may be struggling with addiction in order to help us continue to bring hope and light to as many beautiful souls as possible. And as always, remember that today is a new day, and you are a warrior! We love you and appreciate all your support.
TOOL: 1. Do you desire sobriety and freedom from the lies and manipulation of Satan?


2. Are you willing to do whatever is necessary to protect your sobriety for the next 24 hours, including rigorous honesty, praying to God, calling on others, forgiving all resentments, refusing all hits as toxic, reading literature, setting boundaries, surrendering your fears and anxieties, and maintaining an attitude of gratitude and love for those around you?


3. Are you willing to turn your life and your will for the next 24 hours over to the care of God?


4. Are you willing to humbly ask God to remove your defects of character for today, so that you can better serve his will?


5. Are you willing to keep all commitments today as they relate to your sobriety program?


6. Have you completed your daily goals today and done Border Patrol?


7. Have you lost a battle in the last 24 hours? If you lost, what technique did the enemy use to defeat you?


8. Are you planning to do anything that you would be ashamed of in the foreseeable future? What strategy will Satan try on you next?


9. Name at least one thing that you are presently grateful for.


10. Why are you fighting? Why don’t you just give up