Refine{d} The Podcast
By Refine{d} The Podcast
Refine{d} The PodcastFeb 28, 2023
Your life is held-A conversation with Rev. Summer Joy Gross
If I had to choose one word to describe my friend Summer, I think the word I would choose is: Faithful. Summer's whole life is oriented around the person of Jesus--His love and His invitations to love God, and others well, and Summer's faithfulness to this is contagious.
This conversation was a gift, and it will encourage you to consider the ways you connect with God, while inviting you to reflect on your own attachment styles. Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review and share this episode with friends. We are grateful for YOU! Connect with Summer HERE, and on her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revsummerjoy/
Honorable Mentions:
Walking On Water (Madelin L'Engle)
Wilderness Time (Emilie Griffin)
Women In The Castle (Jessica Shattuck)
The 6 Needs of Every Child (Amy Elizabeth Olirck & Jeffrey Olirck, PH.D)
On listening to nudges, sustainable growth, and staying faithful in the process- A conversation with Megan Ericson
Megan knows what it is to make big career changes and find purpose in the process. Her encouragement to try new things, to take chances and step out on a little nudge, might be just the encouragement you need today.
Listen in and let us know what you think!
Connect with Megan on IG at @meganericson
Honorable Mentions:
The Perfectionist Guide To Losing Control, by Katherine Morgan (Book)
Interview with author, Lore Ferguson Wilbert
Join us for this thoughtful conversation around writing, spiritual growth, community, loss, change, and hear a little about Lore's upcoming book, The Understory. Connect with Lore (pronounced, Lore-EE) at LoreWilbert.com
When Refining Seasons Become Defining Seasons--An interview with artist & author, Bette Dickinson
Bette Dickinson shares about a refining season that became a defining season, and how the work itself is the gift, who we create for, the power of healing prayer and more. Connect with Bette on her website .
Honorable Mentions:
The Artist's Way, (book by Julia Cameron)
The War of Art (book by Steven Pressfield)
Making Room In Advent (book by Bette Dickinson)
Sacred Echos-Repetition, Unusual Words And Surrender
This episode is a little different than our usual format, but I hope this encourages you to listen to your tears, to listen for those "sacred echoes" and to pay attention when God speaks.
Merry Christmas, friends. We'll be back in the New Year with New episodes and much joy.
On Taking Inventory, Living Intentionally and Lessons Learned Along The Way with Author, Shawn Smucker
What happens when you ask yourself, "Why am I doing what I am doing?" Shawn Smucker reflects on taking inventory, on choosing to live your actual life, living intentionally, and lessons learned along the way. Connect with Shawn at his website
Honorable Mentions:
This Is Happiness (Niall Williams)
Gregory Isakov (Musician)
Girls Talking Life-A conversation with Yohonna Smith
Friend and fellow podcast host, Yohonna Smith sits down with Kris to chat about following God, doing hard things and trusting that you're moving in the right direction. Yohonna's podcast Grisl Talking Life is 5 this month and you can enter her giveaway at the link here in the show notes. (Entries close November 10, 2023)
"Grow Your Faith" Giveaway Bundle Link
Girls Talking Life on Instagram
Honorable Mentions:
Human(Kind): How Reclaiming Human Worth and Embracing Radical Kindness Will Bring Us Back Together by Ashlee Eiland
Redeeming Your Time 7 Biblical Principles for Being Purposeful, Present, and Wildly Productive by Jordan Rayner
Makers In A Thinkers World-A Conversation With Author, Amy Pierson
Calling all our creative friends! Join guest, Amy Pierson on the podcast today as Kris and Amy talk about brain science, creativity, beauty and faith.
Connect with Amy on her website and on Instagram
Register for Refine {the retreat}
Honorable Mentions:
The Deep Down Things- A conversation with Amber & Seth Haines
What happens when the bottom falls out and you find yourself plunged into a season of deep loss and abuse recovery? Listen in as we explore grief, hope, faith and The Deep Down Things in today's conversation. Don't miss this generous and generative conversation with Seth and Amber.
Connect with Seth
Connect with Amber
Grab a copy of The Deep Down Things
Register for the 10th Anniversary refine {the retreat}
Honorable Mentions
Never Split The Difference, Chris Voss
Anna Tivel, singer/songwriter
Distinguishing God's Voice from the "Harpees", Hugging Your Younger Self, & Short Stories. An Interview with Author, K.C. Ireton
Thanks for listening. Join the conversation by leaving a comment on this episode, or hit us up on Instagram @refineretreat
Connect with Kimberlee:
Sign up for the A Yellow Wood Book Club
A Yellow Wood is available on Amazon, Bookshop and at Barnes & Noble
Want to experience more from Refine in person? Join us at our 10-year anniversary weekend retreat in March. Register HERE.
Why Not? On Creativity and Living a "Confetti Cannon" Life, with guest, Linda Chivington
My offline friend, Linda Chivington is one of the most creative people I know. Join us for a conversation about what it means to live a "confetti cannon life", asking "why not?" and learning from experiences when things don't go as planned.
Honorable Mentions:
John Clease's book, Creativity, A Short, Cheerful Guide
Linda's Etsy Shop, Cutting Up
On Creativity, Asking in prayer, and being a "Juicy Christian" with artist, Nathifa Sligh
This conversation with artist Nathifa Sligh was a fun one! Nathifa sits down with Kris on the podcast to share about surviving a civil war in Liberia, coming to the United States as a child, and discovering a love for making, and sending beautiful letters. This episode is full of real talk and encouragement, plus, Nathifa shares how she came to be known as "Juicy Christian" on Instagram. Connect with Nathifa on her Patreon, Youtube and Instagram, as well as her website.
Honorable Mentions
Snow Leopard, Category Pirates (book)
The War of Art, Steven Pressfield (book)
The Practice, Seth Godin (book)
Recovery Creativity With Kelly B Pittman
It was a comment that Kelly left on Kris's Instagram post that sparked a deeper conversation about recovering creativity while navigating healing from trauma. Join the conversation by leaving a comment and sharing this episode with friends. Connect with Kelly on her Substack and on Instagram.
Honorable Mentions:
Walking Through Fire , by Veneetha Risner
*Please note* Neither Kris nor Kelly are therapists. Both are speaking as artists and practitioners of the Christian faith and creative practices.
Friendships in the Middle Years-Sheila Atchley Returns to the Podcast
Guest, Artist, Sheila Atchley returns for a second Refine{d} the podcast, conversation. We jumped right into it and hit record just in time. Listen to our conversation about friendship in the middle years and share your thoughts with us after the episode.
Honorable Mentions
Luke 10:6
"Idol factories" quote (John Calvin)
"Praise To the Lord, The Almighty" (Hymn)
"First things" quote (C.S.Lewis)
Kimberly Coyle on Dreams, Idols and Delight
Join this gentle and important conversation about the death of dreams, learning to let go, laying down our idols and finding delight again. Writer and Teacher, Kimberly Coyle generously shares how she came to find herself back in the classroom--this time as a teacher, doing work she did not set out to do. Listen in as Kimberly shares about the ways grief can overshadow delight and how to reclaim wonder in the practice of delighting again.
Connect with Kimberly on Instagram and through her newsletter.
Honorable Mentions:
Marmee: A Novel Of Little Women (By Sarah Miller)
On The Transformative Power of Beauty & Making Space for Healing-A Conversation with Christy Jones Jackson
Today's conversation features our guest, Christy Jones Jackson, founder & Director of The Guest House Project, a retreat for women recovering from sexual betrayal in their marriage. Christy shares how she started the Guest House Project, how that work continues to minister to her in her own healing, and reflects on her most recent time at Refine {the retreat}.
Honorable Mentions:
Sabbath, by Dan Allender (Book)
Anne of Green Gables, By L.M. Montgomery (book series)
Of Note:
Registration for Refine {the retreat} is now open. Find details and reserve your room at Refineretreat.com
On Being "Middle Makers" with Sheila Atchley
Kris and artist, Sheila Atchley, sit down for a conversation about being "Middle Makers," --women coming into their art/vocation in the middle years of life. Listen as Sheila unpacks WHY encouraging women extends far beyond our wildest imagination, and what "trauma, drama, and trauma-drama" have to do with stepping into your vocation. Connect with Sheila on her website and on Instagram.
Honorable Mentions:
"Middle Makers" (Art workshop with Sheila Atchley, hosted by Jeanne Oliver)
Beauty Chasers, by Tim Willard (Book)
Delighting In The Trinity, by Michael Reeves (Book)
On Grief & Creativity- A Conversation With Kristin Vanderlip
Kristin Vanderlip is a writer and artist and the creator of the "Rest Journal", A Journal For Lament. In this episode we dive deep into a conversation about grief and creativity, and what it can look like to unbury your calling. If you're one well acquainted with grief, I pray you find encouragement here. You're not alone.
Connect with Kristin on Instagram and on her website.
Honorable mentions (Books)
Atlas of the heart (Brent Brown)
Spare (Prince Harry)
What My Bones Know: A memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma (Stephanie Foo)
The Year of Magical Thinking (Joan Didion)
Special Note:
*This episode deals with the topic of infant loss. While this isn't the focus of our conversation, if you're sensitive to this topic, take care when listening.*
On Creativity, Humility and Community--A Conversation with Author, Christie Purifoy
"Creativity needs community", that's the comment that Christie Purifoy made that launched a whole beautiful tangent in today's conversation on creativity, humility and community. Listen in and be encouraged. This episode is full of goodness.
Connect with Christie Purifoy on Instagram at @chrsitiepurifoy and @maplehurstgarden and connect to her online community, The Black Barn.
Honorable Mentions
Thursday Murder Club Series (Books)
When God has you in a "Waiting Room" with Singer/Songwriter, poet and artist, Joy Ike
Joy Ike wears a lot of beautiful hats. As a singer/songwriter, poet, artist and entrepreneur, Joy makes art out of her whole life.
Join us for a delightful, soul-filled conversation about season’s spent in “the waiting room”, painting on the porch, and how Joy’s latest adventure, “Wearing Love” is an invitation and a reminder of a better way to live.
Connect with Joy on Instagram and at Wearing Love Apparel
Stream her music wherever you listen to your favorite tunes.
Honorable Mentions
Interview With Author, Rachel Marie Kang
Today's guest, Rachel Marie Kang, is the author of the book, "Let There Be Art", and the Founder of Fallow House. Rachel shares about navigating the writing life, when criticism becomes an invitation, and about the book she could not bring herself to return to the library for months (but eventually did).
Mentioned in our conversation
You Are Good, Kari Jobe
Let Me Tell You What I Mean (Joan Didion)
SuperHero Grief (book)
Connect with Rachel on Instagram, & Follow Rachel on GoodReads
On pivoting, and pivoting again...and again.
Kris sits down with Author and book publisher, C.S. Fritz to rehash what it has looked like to pivot, and pivot again, and again, and how God has ordered Casey's steps all along the way. This conversation is a mix of fun, serious, and rich discussion around following God down a distinct path, pushing back against people pleasing and what it looks like sometimes, to march to the beat of a different drum. Enjoy the ride!
Connect with C. S. Fritz at Albatross Book Co. and on Instagram @casey_fritz, and listen to his podcast, Vulture Boys
The Writing Life, And Owning Your Own Gifts
This conversation is GOLD. Writer, Maile Silva shares how she navigates the writing life, while also being married to a writer, and what the journey has looked like for her to come into owning, and giving attention to, her own gifts as a writer.
Be encouraged, friends.
Connect with Maile at The Stories Between Us podcast & The Stories Between Us community
Creative Refining: Growing in faith when God calls you to something else
Welcome new friends and listeners to Episode 1 of the Refine{d} Podcast! Artists and Poet, Susan Mulder shares a bit of her story about experiencing God's refining through her art and vocation. We talk about the ups and downs of obedience, the creativity of God, and how unusual ways of seeing the world around you can inspire you to make ordinary things out of unusual materials.
Connect with Susan Mulder on Substack and Instagram
Discover Refine {the retreat} for yourself.
Music used with permission, Music Unlimited via Pixabay
Introducing Refine{d} the podcast
Welcome to Refine{d} the podcast--stories about the ways God shows up in our refining seasons. We hope that these stories of God's faithfulness and Presence encourage you in your own journey, and inspire you to keep leaning in to whatever God is doing in your life. God is FOR you! (And so are we!)
Follow us in between episodes on Instagram @refineretreat and learn more about joining our private, online membership community, or attending one of our in-person retreats at RefineRetreat.com