Tossed Salads & Scrambled Eggs

In different ways and instances, people will come to you or to a group of people (friends, family, lovers) with some pure tomfoolery. Some foolishness they know they shouldn't be walking in with. In this week's episode, we talk about some of those different things such as threesomes, interracial dating, and ya grandpappy having fiddy-eleven families! Enjoy!

Should everyone have a fair opportunity at romantic happiness? Is there a such thing as being worthy of love? Is it too damn hot outside? Should your raggedy ass be wearing a mask if outside? These questions and more all answered, next time on Tossed Salads and Scrambled Eggs!

Yeah I wasn't really sure what I wanted to discuss this week so the first half is a mix of different things that were on my mind at the moment and the second half is about the joys of phone sex. Enjoy!

As much as people as a whole discuss sex and sexuality, we don't often discuss when people decide they do not want to have sex. If we do, it's usually more so in a shaming way. The truth is sometimes for one reason or another, sex just may not be of interest to you. In this episode, we talk about abstinence vs celibacy, some guidance if you are trying to avoid sex if you're only abstaining for a certain period of time, and sexual performance anxiety as the icing on the cake. Enjoy!

With all the new ways we have to communicate in this day and age that our parents and grandparents may not have access to, it's surprising how people more often use it to avoid direct communication altogether. This week we discuss the newly coined terms people use when it comes to dating that would make our parents' heads spin and the fine art of thirst trapping. Enjoy!!!!

This week, we over some more gender roles material, some new and some possibly a rehash, how Boosie is a raggedy (which is nothing new) and how it's OK to live and let live. Everything is not for everybody and it doesn't have to be. Hope yall are being safe out there and enjoy this episode!

In this episode, I explore one of my favorite discoveries since embarking on this journey to becoming a couples counselor and sex therapist: an actual created map of human sexuality! I run down as much of the poster as I can, discussing all the many  fetishes and kinks on the map as well as define quite a few of them.

Yes, you do want to grow up and be a different kind of Toys R Us adult (R.I.P. to the real Toys R Us. So many cherished memories!) ! The toys discussed in this episode are definitely not for kinds. Listen as I explore some of the many options we all have when it comes to bring toys into the bedroom or wherever it is you decide to engage in sexual pleasure, bet it solo or with others. 

In this episode, I discuss some of the different things I've personally learned along the way as well as some things others have experienced that have come to be things that ,if you plan on dating successfully, you probably should avoid doing. 

This week, we are in the realm of guilt, shame, embarrassment, and how these constructs/concepts relate to general life, relationships of all kinds, as well as sexuality.

This week, it's all about sex! Yes, you read that right! In this episode I discuss sexuality in terms of how little talking directly and out loud we actually do especially if we are talking about sex education. As with all information, when the facts are not talked about often over the course of life due to embarrassment, shame, and guilt around the topic, it becomes easier to spread misinformation as well as myths. I discuss some of these myths as well as share from my own experiences what happens.

This was something I decided to do in honor of my late big brother, may he rest in peace. Just a small rant and P.S.A advocating for black men to take care of their physical health as you should with all forms of your health.

This week, I discuss from my current knowledge base and point of view some of the occupations and jobs within the realms of or related to sexuality. I make this a baseline for myself as there are so many others I may have missed as well as a wealth of experiences that I personally have not had yet. I hope as the years progress, I learn and experience much more to be able to pass on to the masses!

This week, I discuss self care. In the general sense and yes in the figurative sense as well. From telling muthafuckas no and meaning it to knowing and loving your own body to satisfaction nd for pleasure, I discuss my views on self care and why I believe it is such an important issue.

This week, I talk about as many facets of how we communicate as I can as well as how we as a people suck quite bad at it as a whole and some communication no-nos. No one is perfect at it even the best communicators in life have missteps and it's all about getting better at it each and every day!

When folks get bored in these Twitta streets, some topics end up on the timeline over and over again. There is no avoiding them. This week, I discuss some of the more known ones from past to present.

This episode tries to tackle the question of what each sex wishes the opposite knew in regards to understanding them.

On this week's episode, I talk about dealbeakers of all kinds......that's about the best way I can sum it up! Enjoy!

This episode. I'll be discussing intimacy and things related to intimacy such as sex not necessarily equaling intimacy and vice versa as well as things I believe you can not avoid if you are trying to create an intimate space with someone.

This week's episode is around the topic of online dating! Listen as I talk about things such as:

• Different site expeiences
• Catfishing in all its forms
• Getting flewed out
• Being safe on these online streets

Just an introduction to me and the podcast itself. Getting use to talking solo and this podcasting thing. Be gentle!