
say what?
By Say What?
On the say what? podcast, we help Christian women overcome toxic purity culture, be confident in their sex lives, heal from painful sex, and feel less alone!
Hanna believes that everyone has a seat on her couch, regardless of who you are, and it will never be too full for you to sit down. She currently lives in North Carolina with her husband, Thomas, her son, and her dog. Let's talk about things people don't want to say... out loud!
Hanna believes that everyone has a seat on her couch, regardless of who you are, and it will never be too full for you to sit down. She currently lives in North Carolina with her husband, Thomas, her son, and her dog. Let's talk about things people don't want to say... out loud!

say what?Feb 05, 2025
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27:55

I Had A Miscarriage
TW: baby lossHanna experienced a miscarriage and is sharing her experience. If you’ve been through this, you are not alone ❤️
Apr 14, 202552:41

How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex
Talking to your partner about sex doesn’t have to be scary or awkward! Today Hanna breaks down how to talk about sex, how to initiate, and how to talk about it when you’re engaged.Condoms LubeThe Christian Sex Educator Courses
Apr 02, 202530:55

Purity Isn’t The Enemy, Purity Culture Is
Hanna is back after taking a week off! We catch up about the past few weeks and then talk about how purity isn’t the enemy, but purity culture is.Hanna’s new fave tank top!! She wears MediumThe Eden USE CODE ‘POD’
Mar 26, 202535:28

“Un-Sexy” Products That I Can’t Live Without
Today Hanna shares some of her (and yours!) favorite daily products that you can’t live without, or just elevate your life and make it better!All Productssay what? Instagram
Mar 12, 202534:55

How To Track Your Fertility
Hanna is joined by Holly Grigg-Spall from the Daysy team! Daysy is a hormone-free fertility tracker device. They chat about why tracking your fertility improves your overall health, how using Daysy can help with pregnancy planning, and how knowing your data helps you plan for your life. Use code SAYWHAT for 15% off Daysy!Daysy on instagram
Mar 05, 202544:37

How to Look Forward to Sex w/ Kingdom Sexuality
Alana and Tiera from the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast joins us today to help the Christian girls actually ENJOY sex, so it’s something you look forward to! Kingdom SexualityFollow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram!
Feb 26, 202554:21

Is Masturbation a Sin?
Today Hanna chats about a very nuanced topic, masturbation. Miss Virginia Williams StoryInstagramTikTokYouTube
Feb 19, 202558:07

Your Hairstyle Means You Consented to Sex?
TW: Sexual abuseHanna chats about a new law in Colorado that makes it illegal to say “what was she wearing?”! More Info About The Lawhttps://sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/
Feb 12, 202526:29

Getting Pregnant Is Hard
Hanna is not pregnant, but would like to be! Today she shares life updates, thoughts on The Grammy’s, and gets vulnerable about trying to get pregnant with baby number 2.
Vaginismus & Valentine’s Day grwm vlog!
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Feb 05, 202527:55

Unequally yoked relationships, condoms, & imposter syndrome
It’s time for an advice column! We chatted about red flags in relationships, what to do when painful sex isn’t getting better, and tips for finishing during sex.
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Jan 29, 202546:04

Men Can Handle the Mental Load - VIDEO
Today Hanna gives life updates about getting hit on at Target, her sourdough journey, and her vision board. She talks about a piece of marriage advice that is game changing for your lives!
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Jan 22, 202544:26

Men Can Handle the Mental Load
Today Hanna gives life updates about getting hit on at Target, her sourdough journey, and her vision board. She talks about a piece of marriage advice that is game changing for your lives!
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Jan 22, 202544:22

Shifting Your Mindset about Vaginismus w/ Jess Seitz
Jess Seitz from Pain Free Intimacy joins us today to use The Eden specifically for overcoming negative mindsets with vaginismus. We talk about lies you believe while having vaginismus and how to replace them with truth.
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Jan 15, 202553:37

At home date night ideas!
This year we are having more date nights at home! Hanna shares how to prep & plan the coziest & most connecting date nights at home.
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Jan 08, 202529:42

2025 Dreams
Happy New Year!! Hanna shares how she’s feeling going into the new year & her hopes and dreams for 2025!
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Jan 01, 202534:29

Healing Vaginismus w/ Vagina Rehab Doctor, Dr. Janelle
Dr. Janelle Frederick joins Hanna today to chat about the MAPP process of healing your painful sex. They also discuss ways to spice up your sex life while dealing with painful intercourse.
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Dec 19, 202401:00:19

How to Prioritize Your Marriage w/ Young Kids
Prioritizing your marriage with young kids is difficult, but not impossible! Hanna shares what has worked in her marriage and what she wished she’d done differently in the early stages.
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Dec 11, 202440:52

Surviving Vaginismus During the Holidays
Hanna shares her life updates (a big one for Tate!) and her guide to surviving vaginismus during the holiday season! Getting through the holidays with vaginismus is hard, but not impossible. You are not alone!
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Dec 04, 202434:21

Vibrators in the Trunk
This week Hanna reads some of your insane Thanksgiving stories!!
Nov 27, 202423:06

Boundaries Are Getting In Your Way
Today is one year since Hanna had surgery on her leg due to breaking it! She talks about how she was taken care of by her family and community and how life changing that was. She talks about how sometimes boundaries can stop us from doing nice things for others.
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Nov 20, 202429:59

Disconnecting Your Sexuality from Your Worth
Today Hanna chats about disconnecting your sexuality from your worth as a person or wife. She talks about purity culture linking your purity to your identity and then when you get married, the harmful effects of obligation sex.
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Nov 13, 202430:28

Someone's Screw Is Loose
Dropping in some quick encouragement for you today. Whether you’re rejoicing or grieving, we are called to be kind to others. Hanna shares life updates that include hospital visits, a loose screw, losing a medical bill battle, and more!
Nov 06, 202419:44

Spooky Purity Culture Stories!
It’s a haunted house, but it’s actually your teacher making you put a quarter in your pants to see how tight they are?? These stories are truly CRAZY! Nothing actually *scary* in this episode though, no worries!
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Oct 30, 202431:41

MEET THE EDEN!!
Hanna reveals her new product: THE EDEN! Hear the story of how she got this idea, created it, the Lords blessings over it, and more!
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Oct 23, 202428:46

Recovering From Purity Culture with Dr. Camden Morgante
Dr. Camden Morgante joins us today to talk about her new book, Recovering From Purity Culture! We talked about the 5 myths of purity culture, soul ties, deconstruction and more!
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Oct 16, 202449:16

My Husband Asks Me “Men” Questions!
It’s Thomas’ turn to ask Hanna some questions about “men” things!
Oct 02, 202445:37

Encouragement for the Vaginismus Girlies
If you’re experiencing painful sex or have vaginismus, this episode is for you
Sep 25, 202430:05

Overcoming Intrusive Thoughts
Today Hanna chats about turning her crappy day around, spiritual warfare, a recap of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, and shares how she overcomes her intrusive thoughts.
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Sep 18, 202438:56

A Guide to Increasing Sex Drive with Ladies Talking Love
Hanna is joined by Ariel Finlinson to chat about how to increase your sexual desire! Do you feel like your desire is basically none? Honestly, it’s probably not that low, it just doesn’t look like we think it should.
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Sep 11, 202450:48

Asking my husband “women” questions!
Hanna’s husband Thomas joins her today to answer questions like “what’s a peplum top?” and “what’s a wand?” Lots of laughs were had.
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Sep 04, 202430:34

Vaginismus, period products, BJs, and more!
Hanna is giving you her best advice today! From husbands writing in about vaginismus, to helping 18 year olds make a decision about college, she really covers it all!
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Aug 28, 202436:01

We Need Equal Dress Codes
We need equal dress codes and it’s time to talk about it!
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Aug 21, 202429:53

IUDs & being a WFH mom
Hanna shares her insane story about her visit with her grandma, the recent news around IUDs, and her experience as a work from home mom.
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Aug 14, 202442:15

Sex drives & healing updates!
Hanna’s leg is healed!!! Today’s episode she shares a vacation recap, the miraculous healing of her broken leg, and her recent discovery about sex drives.
Aug 07, 202435:05

Talking to Your Kids About Sex w/ The Christian Sex Educator
Carlie Palmer-Webb, The Christian Sex Educator, joins Hanna to chat about how to talk to your kids about sex. Hanna and Carlie talk about the barriers that keep you from talking to your kids, how to prevent assault, how to talk about abstinence, and more!
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Jul 31, 202453:05

INSANE in-law stories
Hanna’s bestie Caroline joins her to chat about life updates (spoiler: Hanna cut her hair and she hates it) and shares your insane in-law stories.
Jul 24, 202432:51

healing isn't happening...
Hanna shares her disappointments with her physical healing. She also talks about the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders!
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Jul 10, 202433:04

Helping Women Overcome Porn Addictions w/ The Victory Collective
Amanda Aanestad from The Victory Collective joins Hanna to talk about having a porn addiction as a woman. We talk about her story and experience, and tips for overcoming the addiction.
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Jul 03, 202401:02:19

For the MOMS!
I’ve been a mom for 18 months and wanted to share some things I’ve learned! Not an expert by any means but here’s some advice
Jun 26, 202452:46

Initiating sex, coconut, and squatty potties w/ Kristen Lemmon
Kristen Lemmon joins us today to talk about purity culture, sex, talking to your kids about sex, removing shame, and more! We laughed until we cried !!!
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Jun 19, 202401:05:46

spice it up & try new things!
Hanna chats about trying new things with your partner and how to make it FUN!
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Jun 13, 202428:19

she's NOT a Christian! abstinence-only sex education talk
Today we are chatting about abstinence only sex education and how people on the internet were telling Hanna she’s not a Christian (spoiler alert, she’s very much a Christian).
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Jun 05, 202445:10

premarital sex, porn, & female friendships
It's time for another advice column!! Hanna gives her big sister/friend advice and answers your questions. She talks about premarital sex, husbands watching porn, being dependent on your bff, how to reignite intimacy, and more!!
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May 29, 202438:51

A Response to Harrison Butker
Harrison Butker recently gave a commencement ceremony speech at a Benedictine College. His speech spoke directly to women, telling them they have been lied to about their roles in society.
Read the transcript to the speech here: https://www.forbes.com/sites/jamesfarrell/2024/05/15/heres-harrison-butkers-controversial-commencement-speech-in-full/?sh=df53abe79374
Watch the speech here: https://youtu.be/-JS7RIKSaCc?si=FD7SEYv9Bk7ADK8_
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May 22, 202457:32

Breast Implant Illness & Doula Things w/ Misty Stewart
Hanna’s doula Misty joins her on the podcast today to talk all about her journey to becoming a doula, why a doula is needed, breaks down some misconceptions about being a doula, and more! She also shares her experience with Breast Implant Illness and removing her implants recently.
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May 15, 202454:50

Purity is for the boys, too!
Hanna chats about Taylor Swift controversy, an update on her first postpartum period, and talks about how we are ALL called to purity.
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May 08, 202429:17

your partner’s beige flags
Hanna reads your submissions about your or your partner’s beige flags… like getting out of the shower and never drying off?? Enjoy lots of laughs today!
May 01, 202424:11

Dilating in the Desert with Jess Seitz
Hanna is joined by Occupational Therapist and Vaginismus Coach Jess Seitz to talk about the mental load of dilating! We talk about how to view dilating in ways other than a chore and we answer your questions.
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Apr 24, 202443:58

All About Breastfeeding
Hanna shares her experience with breastfeeding, the good, the bad, and the hard. She shares one piece of advice she wishes she could tell every woman who breastfeeds, and how to navigate breastfeeding in public.
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Apr 17, 202427:09

Your CRAZY Sex Stories!! w/ Caroline Hughes
Hanna is joined by her bff Caroline to share your crazy and funny sex stories! From breast milk to animals getting involved, these stories are so good and funny. Remember, sex isn’t like the movies!
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Apr 10, 202446:59