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Smut's Up? It's the sex-positive comedy podcast your parents forgot to warn you about! Join us and feel accepted and know that you are not as weird as you think you are. Who knows, you might even learn something along the way! Don't count on that though...
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22. The 5 Pillars of Consent with Zach Budd

Smut's Up!Aug 02, 2022

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22. The 5 Pillars of Consent with Zach Budd

22. The 5 Pillars of Consent with Zach Budd

Deep and Luxa are joined by Zach Budd, consent and polyamory educator and Golf Coast advocate for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom https://ncsfreedom.org/, to discuss a system Zach’s developed to help people understand consent, called The 5 Pillars of Consent, as well as discussing the problems with the “no means no” model. Zach also shares about his personal journey into the work which he is now doing and why understanding consent is in everyone’s best interest.

Thank you for listening to the Smut’s Up podcast! Please send you thoughts, comments, suggestions and complaints to smutsup69@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/smutsup/

To reach Zach Budd: zinvictuz@gmail.com

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom’s Consent Counts: https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs-2/consent-counts/

National Sexual Assault Hotline: Confidential 24/7 Support: 1-800-656-4673 https://www.rainn.org/resources

National center for domestic abuse https://www.thehotline.org/

Global resources for domestic shelters

https://www.domesticshelters.org/resources/national-global-organizations/international-organizations

Out of the Fog: Helping family members & loved-ones of people who suffer from personality disorders https://outofthefog.website/


Aug 02, 202201:44:29
21. Deep Penetration Pt. 3: Feats of Feet w/ Stevie
Jun 22, 202201:13:54
20. Pervert's Grab Bag Pt. 6: Hotter Than Hot
May 04, 202201:38:41
19. SexTECH Pt. 1
Feb 01, 202201:04:60
18. Pervert’s Grab Bag pt. 5: WAM, Teratophilia, Kleptolagnia, Spectrophilia, Matrix FanFic, & Sexy Table Legs ft. Amy and Chad from Unreathing Paranormalcy Podcast
Nov 19, 202101:37:16
17. Deep Penetration Pt. 2: Flood from Ex V Planis
Oct 30, 202101:30:19
16. Pervert's Grab Bag Pt.4: Trichophilia, Chess Fet, and Melon Sex
Oct 21, 202101:12:32
15. Deep Penetration Pt. 1: Malcolm
Oct 11, 202101:35:01
14. Pervert's Grab Bag Pt. 3: Anasteemaphilia, Actirasty, Porn Flash Games, & Sexy Food Mascots
Jul 19, 202101:14:02
13. Masturbation Master Station
Jun 29, 202101:18:55
12. Shibari with Nerdz Rope
Jun 07, 202101:13:04
11. Pervert's Grab Bag Pt. 2: Clopping, Sounding, Embarrassment, & Henry VI's Sex Coach
May 31, 202159:11
10. Introducing: The Green Mushroom Podcast Network

10. Introducing: The Green Mushroom Podcast Network

The Stepfamily makes a special announcement!!!  

May 26, 202101:32:24
9. Pervert's Grab Bag
May 17, 202101:28:17
8. Vore: Please Climb into My Mouth
Apr 02, 202101:02:26
7. Bad Comedy With A Side of Tentacles
Mar 11, 202101:34:24
6. Porn: I Know It When I See It!
Mar 11, 202147:41
5. DIY Dildos
Sep 29, 202001:04:15
4. Dildos Through the Ages
Sep 15, 202044:48
3. Meow...meow? Arf!
Sep 01, 202048:06
2. What's Your Fantasy?

2. What's Your Fantasy?

Ever wonder if your sexual fantasies are “normal”? Find out, as Ray, Deep and Luxa discuss the most common types!


***The asterisk of consent is always present, and it always applies!***

Email us at smutsup69@gmail.com

Join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/3493620117335739/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/SmutsUp69

Some Links to Mental Health Care Resources- please take care of yourself, we love you!

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255

https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

List of international Suicide Prevention Resources:

http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html

National Helpline Database, a diverse list of mental health resources:

https://www.verywellmind.com/national-helpline-database-4799696#samhsa-national-helpline

Sources: The Prevalence of Paraphilic Interests and Behaviors in the General Population: A Provincial Survey. The Journal of Sex Resarech. 2016. (PDF) The Prevalence of Paraphilic Interests and Behaviors in the General Population: A Provincial Survey

These Are America's Most Popular Sexual Fantasies. Maxim.com. 2018. Most Common Sexual Fantasies? The Most Popular Sexual Kinks and Fetishes

These Are the Top 5 Kinks in the US. Vice.com. 2018

These Are the Top 5 Kinks in the US

Pornhub popular post report

https://www.inverse.com/article/26011-pornhub-post-popular-porn-report-2016

Aug 18, 202045:60
1. Why Am I Into This?

1. Why Am I Into This?

Smut’s Up? It’s the sexpositivity comedy podcast that your mom warned you about! Join Deep, Ray and Luxa as they ask this question about kink; “why am I into this?”

***The asterisk of consent is always present, and it always applies!***

Email us at smutsup69@gmail.com

Join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/3493620117335739/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/SmutsUp69

Some Links to Mental Health Care Resources- please take care of yourself, we love you!

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255

https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

List of international Suicide Prevention Resources:

http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html

National Helpline Database, a diverse list of mental health resources:

https://www.verywellmind.com/national-helpline-database-4799696#samhsa-national-helpline


Sources:

Fetish. Psychology Dictionary.org. 2013. https://psychologydictionary.org/fetishism/

Sensual, Erotic, and Sexual Behaviors of Women from the “Kink” Community. Archives of Sexual Behavior. 2015.  https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-015-0524-2

Sexual imprinting in human mate choice. Bereczkei, Gyuris, and Weisfeld.  Royal Society Publishing. 2004.  https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1691703/

Understanding Imprinting Psychology. Better Help.com.  2019. https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/general/understanding-imprinting-psychology/
Aug 18, 202038:51