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Sit on the Floor

Sit on the Floor

By Stephanie Tonneson

What do you want in life?

Not what your parents, friends, society, or even a less authentic version of yourself thinks you want -- what do YOU truly want, and why do you want it?

This is the burning question that we, Stephanie Tonneson and Rachel Cyr, want to ask everyone we meet. And each time we do, we usually find that -- if we dig deep enough -- most of us all want the same things.
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#05 Language Professor: "I'm interested in people, period."

Sit on the FloorSep 28, 2021

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#21 Eulogy for John R. Tonneson

#21 Eulogy for John R. Tonneson

"Love is not about understanding someone. Love is about showing up, even—and especially—when you do not understand."

Jan 18, 202312:35
#20 Dad, Hospice Patient: "I'm at peace."

#20 Dad, Hospice Patient: "I'm at peace."

John Tonneson (my Dad) knew he was about to die. Still, he felt at peace.

Jan 18, 202339:34
#19 "Hi, Dad" [Short Film]

#19 "Hi, Dad" [Short Film]

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Jan 18, 202303:41
#18 Cross-country Movers: "These questions don't go away."

#18 Cross-country Movers: "These questions don't go away."

What is it like for people twenty years apart to be grappling with the same life questions?

When we sat on the floor of Karim’s airbnb in Joshua Tree, CA, he and his friend, Jonah, told us.

Apr 26, 202201:09:30
#17 Immigrant: "Don't forget where you come from."

#17 Immigrant: "Don't forget where you come from."

What is it like to immigrate from Mexico, raise ten kids, and become an 82 year-old shopkeeper?

When we sat on the floor of his roadside antique store in Santa Anna, TX, Francisco told us. 

Apr 19, 202223:26
#16 Cardiologist: "It's a calling."

#16 Cardiologist: "It's a calling."

What is it like to have other people's lives in your hands every day--literally? 

When we sat on the floor of our airbnb in New Orleans, LA, Singh told us.

Apr 12, 202233:29
#15 Home-Sharer: "I've never met a stranger."

#15 Home-Sharer: "I've never met a stranger."

What is it like to open your home up to everyone you meet?

When we sat on the floor of her house, The Bywater Wonderland, in New Orleans, LA, Stacy Hoover told us.

Apr 05, 202232:03
#14 College Graduate: "It might take eight years."

#14 College Graduate: "It might take eight years."

What is it like to give up on a goal and achieve it eight years later?

When we sat on the floor of his girlfriend's house in Atlanta, GA, Dylan Schutte told us.

Mar 29, 202234:29
#13 Influencer: "I still struggle with wanting to be smaller."

#13 Influencer: "I still struggle with wanting to be smaller."

What is it like to be celebrated for your appearance and still wish you looked different?

When we sat on the floor of her house in Atlanta, GA, Claire Di Meglio told us.

Mar 22, 202227:34
#12 Dive Bar Regulars: "Without love, you can't live."

#12 Dive Bar Regulars: "Without love, you can't live."

What is it like to turn strangers into chosen family?

When we sat on the floor of Steady Eddy's Pumphouse in Matthews, NC, Travis, Stick, and Sarah told us.

Mar 15, 202235:48
#11 Wall Street Investor: "A corporate job is like a drug."

#11 Wall Street Investor: "A corporate job is like a drug."

What's it like to hate your prestigious, high-paying job?

When we sat on the floor of the office space in his apartment complex on Wall Street, [Anonymous] told us.

Mar 08, 202235:46
#10 Ex-Mormon: "Keep questioning."

#10 Ex-Mormon: "Keep questioning."

What's it like to question a belief you were raised on?

When we sat on the floor of her apartment in New York City, Jenny, former member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, told us.

Mar 01, 202232:17
#09 Chef: "We're still here."

#09 Chef: "We're still here."

What's it like to give everything to your dream?

When we sat on the floor of her restaurant, Moonshine 152, in Boston, MA, Asia Mei told us.

Feb 22, 202225:25
#08 Restaurant Owner: "The miracle will come."

#08 Restaurant Owner: "The miracle will come."

What's it like to realize what's most important to you after losing your life's work?

When we sat on the floor of her restaurant, La Bodega, in Watertown, MA, Analia Verolo told us. 

Feb 15, 202225:11
#07 Cross-Country Walker: "Your native environment is your authentic life."

#07 Cross-Country Walker: "Your native environment is your authentic life."

What is it like to walk across America, write a book about it, and then discover the deeper, more psychological reasons why you did it?

When we sat on the floor of his friend's barn in Freeport, ME, Andrew Forsthoefel, author of "Walking to Listen," told us.

Feb 15, 202226:58
Sit on the Floor: Season 2 Trailer

Sit on the Floor: Season 2 Trailer

On Season 2, Stephanie Tonneson and Rachel Cyr take a month-long cross-country roadtrip, where they sit on the floor with people they meet (and people they know) and ask them about some of the most transformative moments of their lives.

Feb 01, 202201:59
#06 I'm Moving to LA [Audiomemoir]

#06 I'm Moving to LA [Audiomemoir]

Steph quit her job. Now she's moving across the country.

Sep 30, 202113:38
#05 Language Professor: "I'm interested in people, period."

#05 Language Professor: "I'm interested in people, period."

Adriana Borra grew up in three European countries. Then she came to America.

Sep 28, 202144:03
#04 Artist + Performer: "The real work doesn't have an audience."

#04 Artist + Performer: "The real work doesn't have an audience."

Princess Nostalgia used to share her innermost thoughts on social media. Then she deleted it.

Sep 28, 202131:25
#03 Recent Grad: "I want to be average."

#03 Recent Grad: "I want to be average."

Margit Burgess had her whole life planned out. Then she graduated.

Sep 23, 202129:41
#02 Self-Employed: "Who was I without a fancy, shiny job that my parents expected of me?"

#02 Self-Employed: "Who was I without a fancy, shiny job that my parents expected of me?"

Rachel Greene was working a job she hated. Then she quit.

Sep 21, 202141:48
#01 Touring Musician: "I was pretty committed to sacrificing anything."

#01 Touring Musician: "I was pretty committed to sacrificing anything."

Devin Mauch was “married to the band.” Then he left.


Sep 12, 202101:02:34
Sit on the Floor: Season 1 Trailer

Sit on the Floor: Season 1 Trailer

Who are you, really?

Sep 02, 202101:37