StumbleWell Podcast
By StumbleWell Productions
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StumbleWell PodcastFeb 20, 2019
EP058 My Partner is Getting Fat & My Love Is Conditional 👀
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In this, #DearStumbleWell episode of the podcast we're discussing working through body changes with a long-term partner. Why is it considered shallow to end a relationship based on physical appearance? We'll unpack the struggles of one listener who wrote in to ask for our advice as they navigate working through their partner's weight gain.
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EP057 // Is a house (in Atlanta) worth it? // Our thoughts 6 years later after short selling our first home
Once upon a time, we bought a house. It was one of the worst decisions we ever made in our marriage. Now, we live in Atlanta and are considering purchasing a home again but with much caution and many mixed feelings.
If you're new and had no idea that we used to own a house 😅 prepare yourself emotionally and start here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2Pk3OAowrpv-cdWtGZ3c_Sl0EWrBUxqz
Costa Rica is officially confirmed! We've got 10 spots left if you're interested: https://trovatrip.com/trip/central-america/costa-rica/costa-rica-with-hallease--aug-24-2024
CONTINUED READING:
End Hedge Fund Control Over American Homes Act: https://www.merkley.senate.gov/wp-content/uploads/imo/media/doc/end_hedge_fund_control_of_american_homes_act_bill_summary.pdf
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EP056 // A subscriber found him a job 👀 // My nurse husband spills the tea on healthcare
Buy me a coffee so Mr. Hallease will stop dragging me : ko-fi.com/hallease My first group trip goes live on Wednesday: https://trovatrip.com/trip/central-america/costa-rica/costa-rica-with-hallease--aug-24-2024 Healthcare Market Place: https://www.healthcare.gov/apply-and-enroll/how-to-apply/ A few months back we talked candidly about Atlanta and how adjusting to this bigger city was a struggle for Mr. Hallease. Then, in an amazing twist of fate, a subscriber suggested that he switch to a remote job based on his skillset and now here we are! This episode is a celebration of the community and a candid conversation about the American healthcare system.
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EP055 I'm an Asian Muslim Woman. He's A Random White Guy. Is This Our Meet Cute?
Our first #DearStumbleWell episode! We answer audience-submitted questions and give our completely unqualified but solicited advice. This will they wont they scenario comes from someone crushing hard on a work colleague but struggling to work up the gumption to approach him. They come from different cultures, but is that reason enough to sit on the sidelines?
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EP054 // The Men Are Not Okay... // Male Drift And Dating
It's been well documented that things are awkward in the dating scene across the country but now male drift is becoming another issue on the scene. Hallease and Mr. Hallease wildly speculate and give an anecdotal analysis of the phenomenon from friends and colleagues.
Hey y'all! Realized we never defined male drift! "men turning away from college, dropping out of the work force or failing to look after their health" ARTICLE THIS EPISODE IS BASED ON: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/11/opinion/marriage-women-men-dating.html?unlocked_article_code=1.CE0.4eAq.W3_IQBXjBjR5&smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShareMORE ON MALE
DRIFT: https://www.wbur.org/onpoint/2022/11/11/richard-reeves-gender-equality-boys-school-men
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EP053 // He doesn’t like it here // Our first 5 months in Atlanta as Texans #StumbleWellPodcast
It’s been a while since we’ve put out a couples podcast, and we like to keep it 100 on feelings whenever we do. In this episode, Mr. Hallease talks about how he’s (not) adjusting to being in Atlanta as a registered nurse. We cover social anxieties, feeling like you’re backtracking professionally, being a simpleton in a big new city, and much more. If you’re new to the podcast, thanks for watching/listening! We’re happy to have you. Transitions are hard. Welcome to a slice of ours!
LISTEN TO HOW DOES THIS END: https://open.spotify.com/show/7zCnZPLpoQveIoJlcrMQ0i?si=0d75b507c0e94136
CHECK OUT OUR NEW APARTMENT: https://youtu.be/wgOOcO579OY
Hey everyone, welcome to #StumbleWell a video #CouplesPodcast featuring Hallease and her husband -- Mr. Hallease. We discuss different aspects of marriage, society, science, technology and of course -- culture. Thanks for stopping by and we hope you subscribe to the channel.
EP052 // But is it cheating tho?!
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Read the full article: https://www.thecut.com/2023/04/outsourcing-my-orgasm.html
In this episode of the StumbleWell Podcast, Hallease and Chris discuss an article in which a married woman decides to receive an erotic massage to reclaim her sexuality. Through the podcast we ask a simple, yet complicated, question is this cheating? The answer to that question aside, this article opened up our conversation to issues around sexual frustration that can come up in heterosexual relationships and how difficult it can be to repair miscommunications during intimacy. Keep it classy in the comments!
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EP51 // He's going back to work...
After taking 2 years off from nursing, Mr. Hallease will be going back to work. Why? Well, in short, taxes. In long, we're in the process of relocating to another state and that coupled with what we owe for 2022 in taxes that math wasn't finna be mathing anymore. Anyway, in this episode of the podcast, let's get into it. We'll discuss potential regrets, fears about moving, and much more.
CONTINUED READING:
https://www.taxpolicycenter.org/taxvox/bidens-budget-would-raise-taxes-high-income-households-cut-them-many-others
https://apnews.com/article/biden-medicare-budget-tax-prescription-drug-costs-99e50b8e956118110dd4a7516318d2cc
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2023-03-09/capital-gains-tax-nears-45-in-biden-s-soak-the-rich-budget#xj4y7vzkg
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EP50 Are we trapped in our marriage?! A Response to Kimberly Foster
Are we trapped in our marriage together? I hadn't thought about it before until doing an interview with Kimberly on her YouTube channel where we talked candidly about the power dynamics in our relationship and how money impacts that. It was after that conversation that I couldn't help but wonder, "Am I the drama?" In this episode of the #stumblewellpodcast Mr. Hallease answers that question.
If you haven't watched it yet, check out Kimberly's video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8isiv4Lxro4
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EP049 She Daydreamed about Him Dying 💀
Is it weird to daydream about your partner dying? Apparently not. According to marriage counselors and researchers, wanting a hard reset in a relationship is pretty normal. So normal, it has a name, a phenomenon known as the spousal death daydream. In this episode of the StumbleWell podcast, we'll talk about this peculiar phenomenon and how it's changed over the course of our relationship. #marriagepodcast #couplespodcast #stumblewellpodcast
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EP048 Are We Still Monogamous?! // 7 Questions To Ask Your Partner For A Relationship Check-in
We've talked about student loans before on the #StumbleWell podcast: https://youtu.be/fVbCrW0ASfs
Read the full article from the NYT: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/07/01/well/family/relationship-questions.html
In this episode of the StumbleWell podcast, Mr. Hallease and I are answering questions that help foster conversations with your partner. Some of our answers surprised us! Consider this a relationship check-in. #marriagepodcast
THE QUESTIONS:
What do we like to do together for fun?
Who takes out the garbage now?
What is one thing we like about our sex life?
How have we helped each other through hard times?
Are we still on the same page about monogamy?
What is something that's worrying you that you haven't told me yet?
How can I help you feel more loved?
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EP047 // My husband quit working to become a writer, here’s how that’s going...
He's had an interrupted year of writing for his podcast "How Does This End?" and he's working on his first novel. Let's catch up with Mr. Hallease on how his creative writing career is going. We'll also touch on the struggles of needing external validation for your work and fighting the urge to return to traditional means of employment. #StumbleWellPodcast #marriagepodcast
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EP046 // How Many Versions Of Me Have You Lived With?
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How many versions of your spouse have you lived with? In this episode of the #StumbleWell podcast, we'll talk about going through the different phases of marriage and the different iterations of each other we've lived through.
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EP045 // Why is The Pope always doing the most?!
The Pope recently went on the record scolding couples who decide to have pets instead of kids. On this episode of the #StumbleWell podcast, we discuss his statements. Full disclosure, Hallease is not catholic and Mr. Hallease is a "cafeteria catholic" at best. We discuss how Pope Francis' comments can be tied back to different ideas around race, gender, and money. If you've watched a few episodes of the podcast then you know we're comfortably child-free currently so we found Pop Francis' comments interesting but also not surprising. We also discuss the bigger struggles of larger institutions as well. Keep it holy in the comments y'all!
Continued Reading
New York Times: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/06/world/europe/pope-pets-kids.html
Fertility Rates: https://www.bbc.com/news/health-53409521
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EP044 // Working with your spouse is complicated...
In this episode of the #StumbleWell podcast, we're discussing how we've handled working with each other as creatives now that Mr. Hallease is writing full time and working with my production company, StumbleWell. We'll also try to give y'all some tangible takeaways so you don't make the same mistakes we've made this year.
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EP 043 // He quit his job and started a short story podcast ✍🏽
This StumbleWell podcast was recorded back in June of 2021. After much pushing, Mr. Hallease has officially stepped away from nursing and is now writing full-time. In this episode, we're talking about the process of him leaving nursing and also how our parents responded. We also touch on how this is even possible financially (Adobe Creative Residency) and the inherent privileges that come along with making a big decision like this one. It's interesting to fit into the "people who quit during the pandemic" statistic, especially in this season of "I don't dream of labor." It's been an interesting 2021, to say the least, thanks for sticking with us through it all, and hopefully, we'll have more episodes coming your way soon.
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EP042 // He's Making Big Changes! Plus A Short Story
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My life partner Mr. Hallease has made some huge changes for 2021 and also made some big strides in 2020 – even with the pon de replay. In this podcast, we'll talk about student loans, as well as, Mr. Hallease's creative goals. Let us know down below how you liked the story.
📝 RESOURCES 📝
The Food of the Future, Today: https://stumblewell.medium.com/the-food-of-the-future-today-1dc4dca5bdd4
Jim Carey Speech: https://youtu.be/V80-gPkpH6M?t=678
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EP041 // She left him because he didn’t do the dishes // Should love be unconditional?
She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288
In this episode of the StumbleWell podcast, we’re unpacking this essay that was published through their now closed HuffPost Contributor platform. In it, a now divorced man explains why his wife left him for not putting dishes away but obviously it wasn’t about the dishes it was about something more. Mr. Hallease gives his take as a still married man on the topic, and begs the question — did you truly learn the lesson? Hallease tries to give him the benefit of the doubt acknowledging that at least he got to this point of acceptance, which can maybe lead to more growth. Is anything solved by the end of the podcast? Nah.
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EP040 // Are we childfree or childless? // Married 9 years with no children
On this episode of the podcast Hallease tries to make sense of her inability to decide if she wants children or not while Mr. Hallease argues that having children is not based on logic but emotion. Ridiculousness again ensues quickly.
READINGS:
// The Case Against Kids: Is Procreation Immoral? // https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2012/04/09/the-case-against-kids
// In the COVID-19 Economy, You Can Have A Kid or A Job. You Can't Have Both. // https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/02/business/covid-economy-parents-kids-career-homeschooling.html
// Sapiens: A Brief History of Human Kind // https://amzn.to/2LibnVp
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EP039 Do you miss being single?! // We Answered Your Questions
We're back with another StumbleWellPodcast! This time we answered some of your questions! Thank you so much for continuing to comment with potential topics, it's really helpful.
QUESTIONS ANSWERED:
What creative projects have we always wanted to do and why? - 2:29
Low touch vs high touch partners is there a compromise? - 5:43
How do you support each other mentally? - 13:17
Have you always been involved in each other's career? - 22:21
What do you miss about being single? - 32:47
Is being married to someone in STEM hard? - 41:48
Were you ever in love before being with each other? - 49:30
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EP038 - Would we be ex-pats or immigrants? On leaving the US and "living abroad"
Over the past few months, we've been having numerous discussions about leaving the United States to live abroad and the implications of that. Within this broad topic, we cover a lot of themes and questions. For example, what is the difference between an ex-patriot and an immigrant? We discuss our American privilege around leaving and potentially impacting another country's economy.
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EP037 - Should we buy a house...again? // StumbleWell podcast
In 2018, we purchased our first home and long story short, we ended up homeless. We learned a lot from that experience, not only about homeownership but what we each individually want out of life. One of our Patreon producers asked if we would ever purchase a home again and let's just say, even though it's been over a year since we settled our lawsuit the wounds are still fresh.
The House Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFniCS96m_c&list=PL2Pk3OAowrpv-cdWtGZ3c_Sl0EWrBUxqz&index=3
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EP036 - We Tried the GQ Couples Quiz // StumbleWell Podcast
Mr. Hallease wanted to see how well I actually knew him, so he fashioned some questions for us to answer based on the GQ Couples Quiz series. If you want to see and extended version of our answers check out the patreon.
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EP035 - Do you wish I was a virgin?
As two people who were both raised in different sects of the Christian faith, we've both had conversations around virginity in marriage. Neither of us was virgins when we met. In this episode, we pose the question to one another "do you wish I was a virgin when we met?" We also use this topic to discuss the lack of proper sex education in schools and a myriad of other sub-topics within this prompt. Go ahead and clutch your pearls because we're diving deep.
How Married Are You Podcast Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVl8DmU0s-4
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EP034 - Has COVID-19 affected our marriage? \\ StumbleWell Podcast
As the pandemic continues, a lot of you have reached out to us asking how we're doing-especially since Mr. Hallease is a registered nurse. The short answer is, we're figuring it out. The long answer is this podcast episode. In it, we talk about some of the unexpected realizations we've both had during this time.
To be honest, we were hesitant to do this episode because everyone is experiencing this pandemic differently. Some of us, are really struggling right now. Maybe you've lost a loved one to the virus (or a few loved ones) or you've been laid off from work and are struggling to make ends meet. Parents have it hard right now with childcare -- as if it wasn't already difficult! Wherever you are on the spectrum of this, we hope and pray that you're able to see the other side of this crisis. Also, everybody please wear a mask. It's a small ask to save lives.
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EP033 - Our journey to understanding race as a couple and how we cope together
There's a lot going on in the world right now. Issa whole lot. We decided to have a candid conversation about our journey as a couple in understanding race and privilege. We really wanted to show that these conversations will inevitably be messy, hard, and uncomfortable -- even when they're rooted in love and a willingness to understand. Also, there is an evolution to understanding and unlearning institutions, and it doesn't happen quickly. Mr. Hallease explains what it was like for him to experience that and how he approaches allyship.
All that to say, this episode is a little bit longer than our usual podcast topics, partly because we go off script (sorry) but also because while editing it I wanted to include the awkward pauses, the moments of backtracking, the difficulty of communicating effectively. So that when you find yourself in an awkward but necessary conversation you can know that this is what it is. You're not necessarily doing it wrong. It's just hard.
THE VIDEOS I MENTIONED + Extras:
Are We Woke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZd7StnNVrA
You're not black enough: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMnP8aZKCCw
Evelyn's "How to be an ally" CFC: https://youtu.be/hjhQTQ-EOyI
Beleaf giving his sons the talk: https://youtu.be/1f7lvVIK2f0
Why Black people are annoyed right now: https://youtu.be/bftJQ11f_XA
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EP032 - We almost didn't make it last year || Going to couples therapy
In this episode of the #StumbleWellPodcast, we're talking about our different perspectives of 2019. We almost didn't make it last year, and not necessarily because either of us did anything epic or hurtful but because we were mostly just tired. Ultimately, we figured it out but the hardest part was finding a therapist and remembering to communicate from a place of love and patience.
RESOURCES
Evelyn From The Internets - Therapy Q&A is in her highlights: https://www.instagram.com/evelynfromtheinternets/
Therapy for Black Girls Podcast: https://therapyforblackgirls.com/podcast/
Therapy for Black Girls Database: https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/home/
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EP031 - Arguing about money, again || Our 2020 budget
In this episode of the #StumbleWell podcast we're talking about our budget plans for 2020 along with our personal goals. This episode came about after having a heated discussion about finances and how to pay back Mr. Hallease's student loans. How in-depth do you and your partner get about finances? Mr. Hallease wants me to buy a new car as well and I'm looking around like "with what coins?!"
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EP030 - Chicken Parmesan, an aphrodisiac?
Apparently, Chicken Parmesan is an aphrodisiac for singles dating in New York accordingly to The New York Post. In this episode of the StumbleWell Podcast we use this interesting phenomenon to discuss what is an ideal first date meal and the power food has on relationships.
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EP029 - Our student loan debt and how we plan to pay it down
We have over 6-figures of student loan debt. In this episode of the #StumbleWell podcast we're talking about how we got here and also how we plan to pay it down over the next 4 years while also having a candid discussion about finances and what it means to be financially free.
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TWO CENTS: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL8w_A8p8P1HWI3k6PR5Z6w
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EP028 - Buying your first house? Learn from our mistakes!
In this episode of the #StumbleWell podcast, we're talking about everything we learned from buying our first house including inspections, mortgages, realtors, motivations for buying a home, and many other things. Buying a house is a big decision, and for many, is the most expensive thing you'll ever purchase. Hopefully, we can provide you with a few tangible takeaways to consider before or while purchasing your first home and help you avoid some of our biggest mistakes. We're rooting for you!
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EP027 - So, you married a "creative"...
In this episode of the podcast, Mr. Hallease and I talk about our marriage and being married to a "creative" or artist. This episode is a collaboration with #HMAY a marriage podcast featuring Beleaf in Fatherhood and Yvette - Mrs. Melanin. There are a lot of things you have to learn to handle, not only as the artist but as that artist's spouse especially if you are interested in partnering with them to grow their business.
EP026 - Trial marriages, do they even exist?
In this episode of #TheBeastCast, Hallease, and Mr. Hallease discuss trial marriages and if they existed what rules would they put on each other to engage in one. What do you think about the concept of a trial marriage?
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Should you move for your partner?
If you're in or have been in a long-distance relationship, knowing when to take that leap and move is difficult. It's also hard when you both live in the same city but one partner is considering relocating for work or better opportunities. In this episode, we discuss the times we've relocated for each other and how we stumbled through it. #MarriedPodcast
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Do you Sabbath or nah?
Whew, y'all this is a silly episode of #TheBeastCast. We're talking about keeping a Sabbath and how we balance work with life. As a creative, I'm slowly realizing how important it is to build stipulations and ground rules for myself in terms of taking breaks and recharging. Needless to say, Mr. Hallease's coffee didn't kick in until about halfway through the episode though so bear with us on this one.
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Getting a Sleep Divorce...
We're back with more Beast Cast episodes! Today we're talking about getting a Sleep Divorce and if it makes sense to not sleep in the same bed as your partner. Also, what types of relationships maybe work best by not sleeping in the same room/bed. This whole topic was sparked because we recently bought a new mattress.
Menopause was wild! My mother talks candidly about raising a creative || The Beast Cast
My mother joined me on this episode of #TheBeastCast to talk about raising two daughters and everything that came with that. From how she felt when I eloped with Mr. Hallease to discussing if/when I'll ever have my own children -- all through the lens of her faith. If you want to listen/watch the extended version of this episode become a producer. #MothersDay
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Our Astrology Signs & Personality Test Results || The Beast Cast 21
"Take back your voice" Communication is our 2019 theme | The Beast Cast 20
This year on #TheBeastCast we're focusing on communication. We want to make sure we're communicating more in our marriage but also in our work relationships -- whether that be with different clients, bosses, or coworkers. This means focusing on the words we use and not making assumptions about others. It's a simple topic but as you'll see in this episode -- a very poignant one.
Did we get married too young? || The Beast Cast 19
Hallease met Mr. Hallease when she was 19 and they were married by the time she was 21. It's a beautiful thing finding a forever partner so early in life, but it has it's drawbacks as well. Did they get married too young? #TheBeastCast #CouplesPodcast
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Finding a silver lining || The Beast Cast 18
Another late night episode where Hallease works through her feelings of being overwhelmed and Mr. Hallease tries to understand her point of view. This is a pretty raw conversation and shows how we actively work through communicating with each other.
Can we find a new normal? || The Beast Cast 17
After a long and challenging 2018, we've settled into our apartment and are now having to contend with figuring out what our new normal is as a married couple. We had learned how to weather the storm, ignoring individual grievances to stay sane, but now that the load is lifted who are we?
Alzheimer's, Caregiving and B. Smith || The Beast Cast 16
Mr. Hallease and I weigh in on the much-debated discussion of B. Smith and her husband Dan Gasby. What does it truly mean to love someone "for better or worse" and "in sickness and in health?" How does the definition of marriage evolve as we age and our roles inevitably change? This was a really hard topic to cover on the Beast Cast, it forces us all to come to terms with mortality and the different ways we can lose a spouse even when they're still technically living.
Below are some more resources about Alzheimer's and caregiving:
https://www.alz.org/alzheimers-dementia/what-is-alzheimers
https://www.caregiver.org/alzheimers-disease-caregiving
He called me pudgy || The Beast Cast 15
He called me pudgy, y'all! After the initial shock, it got us both thinking about communication again and how much honesty is a crucial part to any relationship. How can you be honest with your partner without "going nuclear" as well? Is there a recipe for communicating potential negative traits without debilitating your partner's self esteem?
You're NOT black enough || The Beast Cast 14
Am I black enough when I'm with you? What does it mean to be black enough when there are infinitely many ways to exist? Is your blackness invalidated when you marry outside of your race? In this episode of The Beast Cast Hallease and Mr. Hallease discuss the intricacy of her black identity juxtaposed to their interracial relationship.
The romance is gone. || The Beast Cast 13
Are we minimalists now? || The Beast Cast 12
One of the subscribers asked us to talk about different ideas around "The Art of Tidying Up" and minimalism. What have we given up to bring more joy to the marriage? Turns out I've given up quite a bit without even realizing it.
You're NOT my best friend, you're my wife. || The Beast Cast 11
"You're NOT my best friend you're my wife."
In this episode of The Beast Cast we unpack that statement. This topic was provided to us by one of our Patreon Producers. Is your partner meant to be your best friend? Do these titles need to be mutually exclusive? We discuss.
Bachelor Apartments & Dodo Birds || The Beast Cast 10
Are you my soulmate? || The Beast Cast 09
The Science of Kissing: www.britishcouncil.org/voices-magazine/kiss-science-smooching