Through the eyes of a submissive heart

I hope everyone had a fantastic holiday season! I had a few announcements. Don’t worry. I haven’t forgotten about you all. I really miss y’all, though, and that’s why I’m making this announcement.

I read both books simultaneously, as they’re both kinda connected. I still will never forgive Stephenie for killing Bree, but either way, it was a…… well, shall we say “interesting time?” Listen down below or where ever you get podcasts and let me know what you think.

Y’all seem to like this, so I’m gonna keep doing this. At least until the series is over. Enjoy my thoughts on New Moon, the second book in The Twilight saga.

After 17 years of waiting, I’m finally reading Midnight Sun for the first time, and what a ride it’s been so far. I’m not done with it, but I wanted to say what I thought about it so far. If you like this podcast, be sure to follow me on Instagram and Twitter at the handle LunaTheKitten92, or join my Facebook group, Through the Eyes of a Submissive Heart. Thanks for listening!!

Twilight is either a book you love, or one you absolutely hate. It could also be one you love to hate on!!! But for me, it is timeless, capturing my heart when I watch the movies, or just recently, started rereading the books. I try not to spoil the plot, but I may have at some point, so be aware of that. Enjoy this episode if you’re one of the aforementioned people.

There are people who love to ask this question so many times, and well, what can I say? I like to answer these questions!!!!!! Hopefully, at the very least, people can relate.

I really like doing these for y’all, and I really hope you feel the same. I’ve been looking forward to this flavor. Every time I’ve tried to order it, it’s been out-of-stock. Now all flavors are back! Listen to find out what I think down below.

I thought it would be a cool idea to answer some questions I get asked on a semi-regular basis. If you like this episode, feel free to review it where ever you listen to help others find me. It really helps. 😊

Last year was a year of learning lessons. One of which was how to set boundaries and how to stick with said boundaries. My boundaries are probably stupid to some, but that’s ok. They’re mine and that’s what matters. I had to learn that if people don’t accept my boundaries, then I don’t have to accept their friendship. I recorded this episode to let y’all know that if you’re facing this problem, you’re not alone. It’s a hard thing to learn, but I’m so glad I did. Thanks for listening, and I appreciate all of you.

I’ve been away for awhile, and I’ve missed y’all!! I wanted to tell y’all what’s been happening, along with a story I find amusing. I hope to be back to a regular posting schedule soon. In the meantime, enjoy this episode!!

2021 was an interesting year, to say the least. It was full of good and bad. And towards the end, I started looking towards the future and figuring out what I wanted to do in 2022. I really don’t consider them resolutions. Just stepping stones, if you will. Curious? Listen below!!

If you’re a brat and say that coffee is, in fact, water, you’re not wrong. It is with this thing. Curious? Listen to find out!!!! Do you like Cirkul? Hate it? Haven’t tried it? Let me know. I wanna hear your thoughts. *not sponsored by the company.*

It’s been an ok year, as far as year’s past go. I’ve learned and grown a lot, and hope to continue to do so. I hope the rest of my listeners have had a great year, too. It’s really hard to say “goodbye” to everyone, but I’ll be back next year, and will hopefully have a great year in 2022. •••if you like this episode, be sure to follow me on Instagram and Twitter at the handle lunathekitten92. You can also join my FB group by searching for Through the Eyes of a Submissive Heart Podcast. Finally, you can leave a voice message at the link below.

This episode was inspired by chanwills0 on TikTok and partially where the inspiration for the running gag about Voldemort and his lack of shoes. This episode perfectly encompasses my middle side, which is a very sacred thing for me.

It’s not often that I talk about this kind of thing, but I think it’s about time that I do. Too often, this kind of thing happens, and apps don’t care, so long as they’re making some kind of profit. I really hate when this happens, especially when I’ve been using something for a long while, and then it stops working! I’m sure I’m not alone with this struggle.

Sometimes, people love to say that someone isn’t valid if they don’t participate in their in-person BDSM community. What they fail to realize is that maybe the people can’t physically get to the locations. Maybe they’re not comfortable in social settings with strangers. Or maybe, they get their fulfillment elsewhere. Neither way is wrong. I hope this episode helps someone understand this.

One of the hardest kinks I have trouble accepting is my masochism. Not everyone I’ve had relationships with understands it. Quite frankly, neither do I, but here we are. I talk about how I discovered my masochist side, and how difficult it actually is. •••• if you like what you hear, a review would be really appreciated. You can also send a voice message at the link below. You can follow my Twitter and Instagram at the same handles: LunaTheKitten92. You can also join my Facebook group by searching for Through the Eyes of a Submissive Heart Podcast. And finally, you can ask for the link to join my Discord server. Thanks for listening!!!!

After a year, I finally want to talk about my last break up. It was awful, and it still hurts sometimes, but I’m finally over it. It took a couple of months, and lots and lots and lots of love from my friends, but I did it! And I want to reflect on what happened before, and how I felt afterwards. There is no crying in this episode, thank goodness. But I am doing much better now, and I’m quite happy with life at the moment.

People always tell me to have other interests outside kink, and surprise!!!!!!!!! I do. Some of you already know. Some of you don’t. And either you will think me insane, or you’ll think I’m not. But either way, I wanted to do a Halloween episode, and thought this would be a fun one. Hope y’all have a happy Halloween and please do be safe. 💀👻🎃

This episode was made on the fly. So this may not be every single protocol ever used by every DOM and sub in their dynamic. If anyone has suggestions, please do feel free to let me know. There could be a part two. Happy listening, and thank you so much for filling the world with hearts. ❤️

Last week, there was a lot happening on KinkTok. There was a discussion on people getting out of punishments by using safewords all the time. There was also a discussion about a sub saying they didn’t care about whether or not their Dom reached domspace, and that it was ethical bratting. I tell y’all what I think about both these conversations.

On Reddit, there was a lot of discussion about punishment and some creative punishment ideas for a Dom’s submissive. I tell you some ideas, as well as what not to do.

While using the silent treatment as punishment might work for some, it doesn’t work for me. Listen to find out my thoughts.

On Reddit, I see a common discussion: How do I make my partner more dominant or submissive? This question really gets under my skin, and I’ll tell you why.

I wasn’t going to discuss this, because, as usual, I didn’t know what to really say about it. But then, I saw primalempress’s video on KinkTok and decided to talk about it. I still don’t have answers, but hopefully, someone will, and this will make sense to someone out there.

Thanks to Pink Kink for the inspiration to tell my full story.

Back with another KinkTok discussion about invalidation in the BDSM/kink community and why it’s not good for anyone.

There was a lot of discussions on KinkTok about aftercare and if it was a requirement in D/s play or relationships. I wanted to weigh in on the discussions.

There’s been a lot of talk about honorifics on KinkTok, and I have thoughts. They may be all askew but they’re thoughts, nonetheless. I hope y’all enjoy this episode. Thanks for listening!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥💜

This is a bonus episode of sorts to explain why I’ve been gone for awhile for those who don’t know. It feels great to be back.

Yes. We gonna talk about Bonding. Did I like it? Hate it? Did I think it was an accurate portrayal of BDSM? Well, click the magic button to find out what I thought. If you like this episode, a review to help others find me would be great!!!! You can also follow my social media. Twitter: LunaTheKitten92 - hang out with others who wanna fill the world with hearts. Join my Facebook group. Just search for Through the Eyes of a Submissive Heart podcast on Facebook. Check my pinned tweet for the link to the special podcast Discord server.

This was inspired by my best friend, who gave her sub a task to watch Fifty Shades and write a movie report of things he liked/didn’t and how he’d change the ending if he could. Rather than writing it down, I figured I’d come here and tell y’all how I liked it, what I didn’t like, and how I’d change the ending. I hope y’all enjoy this as much as I enjoyed making it.

This was posted in a Facebook group and a lot of things about it bugged me… so I figured I’d talk about the things that annoyed me. There are things I agree with him on, but for the most part, I don’t. Listen to find out more… after you’ve put your pitchforks away, that is.

As is the case for most episodes, I reached out to the community for help. If you’re new to the scene, or know someone who’s new to the scene, this episode is for you.

Everyone is discussing red flags. I thought I’d jump on the topic. Thank you, Shannon_ATX, for the topic idea. I’m sure I missed a whole heap of them, but hopefully I got most of them.

It’s been a year, and I think it’s about time to share my story, for better or for worse. I really hope people can learn from this, and know that, if they’re unlucky and have gotten outed, they’re not alone. It really sucks, especially when it comes from people you thought you could trust. I hope y’all enjoy this episode, and I appreciate everyone who listens. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

The media, unfortunately, in my view, doesn’t understand BDSM, which is a shame. The bad outweighs the good in most cases, and usually, when there could be something good to report on, it still gets misconstrewed by people. Listen to find out what else I think about this topic.

Thank you to 4 very special people. Your education and sense of community means everything. I love what y’all do, and appreciate y’all’s help with my journey.

A listener came up with this topic, and I could rant about it all day, so I thought it was a good idea. Title stacking is when you label yourself as many different things e.g. sub/slave/pet/little. See what I think by listening below.

Most people sadly don’t know what vetting even is. I’m gonna tell you what little bit I’ve learned about it. I hope everyone enjoys this episode. If you have anything to add, follow me on Instagram: LunaTheKitten. Follow my Twitter: LunaTheKitten92. Join my Facebook group. Just search for Through the Eyes of a Submissive Heart Podcast. Join my special Discord server for podcast listeners! Link is pinned to the show profile. Leave a good review to help others find me. ❤️

I get asked this question so so so many times. Here’s the answer.

Based off Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s prompt, entitled “Negotiation is just a fancy word for talking.” I decide to give y’all my tips!! Do y’all have any to share? If so, tweet me @LunaTheKitten92, on Instagram @lunathekitten or join my special podcast Discord server. The link should be on the show page. Thanks for listening!!

I know it’s taken a really long time to get my thoughts in order with this one. I’m not sure if they’re really in order or not. I’ll let y’all be the judge.

I took to social media to ask my friends, and anyone else who wanted to participate, if they had anything that drove them crazy that vanilla people do when they know that you identify as kinky. I hope everyone enjoys this list because it was a lot of fun to see what people had to say. if you like this podcast, be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss the fun.

We’re on day 2 of the Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s challenge. Yes, the blog post was a bit longer than the last one, but I still wanted to elaborate a bit. I hope y’all enjoy this one too.

Taking the plunge and writing about my experiences with D/s, and my thoughts on certain kink topics. Thanks to John Brownstone and Kayla Lords of the Loving BDSM podcast/community for thinking this prompt idea up. If y’all want more of these just let me know.