Tea Bags & JoystiXXX
By Tea Bags and JoystiXXX
Intended for Mature Audiences containing discussions about sex and other mature themes.
Tea Bags & JoystiXXXDec 23, 2023
Ep. 61: If Video Games Brands Made Adult Toys
This week were delving into the realms of what if and asking, what if our favourite (mostly) video game brands made adult toys or other such equipment?
We work out what style of toys different borderlands brands might make, what each console platform might be related to and even some game studios and how they would definitely monetise things.
Meanwhile in Tea Chris quizzes us on the most common DnD character name and Si is having fun and games with 3D printer deliveries.
Finally in Joysticks Chris is back on RimWorld whilst Simon finds that nostalgia isn't all its cracked up to be when it comes to some Old School Mario Kart.
Ep. 60: Corporal Punishment
a.k.a. Fun Hurty Stuff
This week Si and Chris talk about corporal punishment, or maybe it's canes and paddles. But there's definitely nothing corporate about it (listen to the episode to find out what on earth I'm talking about here). So what's so fun about pain?
In tea, Chris has a gripe about the German football team's new kit now, and Si shouts out to Mercury and Jory's Tiktok-a-thon for Trans Health (link here).
And for joysticks, Chris completes the Phoenix Wright Trilogy, while Si plays Super Smash Bros and Mario Kart locally.
Ep. 59: Porn v Reality
This week Chris and Si are talking about some ... Movies. Videos. Ok we're definitely not turning into a movie podcast. But we are talking about the consumption of porn and maybe some unrealistic aspects of it. What do we think could be the best way out? Some disagreements? Maybe!
For tea, Si covers the England football shirt "flag" controversy, while Chris reports on scientists removing HIV from cells.
And in joysticks, Chris and Si get themselves addicted to playing Balatro, the rogue-like poker game (if you haven't already seen it / heard it).
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Ep. 58: More Animals of The Scene (Part 2)
This week Chris has got his voice back so we're able to continue with the animals of the scene where we look at if The Advocates definitions of the types of people you might encounter on the LGBTQ+ scene are still accurate
For the 5 minute Marvel this week we're discussing Echo the latest Marvel TV series on Disney Plus
For Tea this week Si gets really frustrated with Tinder Chris talks about encountering theme tunes in the wild and both are excited for the new Wicked trailer.
Meanwhile in joysticks this week Chris is playing Baldur’s Gate 3 and Si is playing Palworld
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Ep. 57: Media Round Up
No kink this week, Chris and Si catch up on the Marvel stuff they've missed talking about in the last half a year and also on the Doctor Who specials. It's geekery all around!
For tea, Si wants you to have a look at his side-project "For Whom It May Concern".
And for joysticks, Chris is on his road to Baldur's Gate and Si plays Mario Kart: Double Dash on an old console.
Ep. 56: The Animals of the Scene (Part 1)
There's still no Five Minute Marvel this week because at time of recording Marvel titles were still struck works, we plan to have a catch up session at the start of the new year!
For tea, Si is disappointed his holiday plans were thwarted by a volcano, while Chris had an unusual experience at the Sexual Health Clinic.
For Joysticks, Chris serves coffee and listen to stories in the Coffee Talk series, Si plays several mobile games and he wants to let you know.
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Ep. 55: Post-Locktober Run Down
This week Si and Chris are chatting about the past month, which they spent locked up in chastity. The highs and lows, the benefits and disadvantages, some things they have observed, and what they discovered about themselves.
For tea, Chris celebrates Cyril Leroy, the founder and captain of the first gay French rugby team, who was honoured by World Rugby and Land Rover during the recent Rugby World Cup, while Si managed to have found another group of (mostly) non-kinky people who also celebrated some sort of "Locktober".
For joysticks, Chris pursues justice in the Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney Trilogy, while Si gets frustrated in the pachinko machine of Peglin.
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Ep. 54: Of Locks and Keyholders (TB&J List: Chastity Special)
This week Si and Chris are joined by Craig for The TB&J List: Chastity Special! Where we generate two random* pop culture characters and decide between them who is going to be locked for Locktober and who gets to keep the key!
*(random-ish)
For tea this week, Chris wonders why the British media has suddenly picked up on the term "situationship", and Si joins the chorus of complains when subs are told "Locktober is coming".
In joysticks, Chris hasn't quite get round to exploring space in Starfield, and Si goes carting without the power-ups in Crash Team Racing Nitro-Fueled.
Ep. 53: Kink Protocols
This week Si and Chris sit down and talk about protocols within kink, why they find them important, what they get out of them, some examples of how they can be used both in private and in subtle ways day to day for a kinky couple.
In Tea this week Si talks about FOMO around the women's world cup whilst Chris discusses the Somerset Gimp.
In Joysticks, Chris dives down the Giant Blue Hole as Dave the Diver, while Si messes about in the world of The Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom.
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Ep. 52: Watersports
a.k.a. Britain's Number 9 Favourite Fetish
This week Si and Chris talk about piss, golden showers, watersports, whatever you want to call it (or urolagnia if you want to be really medical). We talk about the degredation and objectivication aspects of it, the health risks, the gear and set up and any prep work! And then we go to the story books and talk about our own embarrasing experiences.
In tea, Chris celebrates Quinn on becoming the first transgender non-binary player to play in a football World Cup, and Si complains about the current messy state of social media sites and apps.
In joysticks, Chris builds an empire with trains in Transport Fever 2, while Si can't wake up to the alarms in Pokémon Sleep.
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Ep. 51: Pride Culture & Counter-cultures
a.k.a. The History of Pride, Part II
This week Chris and Si do another whistle stop tour in honour of LGBTQ+ Pride Month (and we came late). We look at the umbrella acronym itself; various forms of self-expression including clothing, norms and codes, as well as more explicit forms like badges and patches; before finally discussing the history of the AIDS Quilt.
For tea, Chris gets confounded by a stupid saying and Si gets angry over a protest hijack. And for joysticks, Chris attempts to save his spaceship crew in Jumplight Odyssey.
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Ep. 50: Disability and Neurodiversity Inclusive Kink
Si sits down with Craig from Kinky Boys Podcast share stories and anecdotes from their own experiences being Autistic, ADHD and more to explore how it is possible to take advantage of the curb cut effect to make Kink and BDSM scenes inclusive of people with Neurodiversity and Disabilities.
Before that however they kick of the show discussion the Apple Vision Pro and work out exactly who it is aimed at (hint: a particular group of kinksters)
Then in Joysticks there is a more in depth look at Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom from Si whilst Craig discusses Cereza and The Lost Demon.
This episode also marks the official announcement that the podcast website is now live at: http://tbnjpodcast.com
Special thanks to Craig from Kinkyboys Podcast for filling in for Chris this week!
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Ep. 49: Community Spotlight: Switched App
This week we sit down with the 2 man team behind the new "Switched" app that the kink community has been talking about to see who they are, what their plans are and what they're bringing to the table that's different to other offerings out there. We discuss everything from how they got started, their first couple of weeks live, community questions around why certain choices got included when others didn't and an exclusive look at what's coming in the future versions of the app.
Tea this week couldn't really be anything but Eurovision Campness whilst over in joysticks Chris is playing Pan'orama and Si is exploring Minecraft and Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom
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Ep. 48: Dating Apps (Feat. Louise)
a.k.a. APP-solutely Fabulous
This week we have Louise to talk with us about dating apps. The three of us tend to use these apps looking for different things (surprisingly) and we talk about our experiences with these apps. Some of out histories with different platforms over the years and some golden rules for using them.
In tea, Chris brings up some dubious reports on Coke and Pepsi's effect on testicles and Si takes issue with the UK's handling of inviting citizens pre-written pledge of allegiance to the King.
And for joysticks, Chris once again returns to his islanders in Animal Crossing; New Horizons while Si builds his perfect village in Dorfromantik after having several issues building his new PC.
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Ep. 47: Penis Size Fetish
a.k.a. Can't Take My Size Off You
This week Chris and Si are talking about cocks. When do they not talk about cocks, I hear you ask. Nah it’s a bit more specific than that. Penis size fetishes are all over the scene. Small, big, long, short, thick, thin, you name it, someone has made a fetish of it. This week we have a look at what people get off on about dick sizes.
For tea, Chris gets Si confused about religion, and Si is disappointed with Manchester Pride.
And in joysticks, Chris hits up the beat in Hi-Fi Rush while Si rolls back the years to Pokemon TCG.
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Ep. 46: Transformation Kink ft Mutt Banjo
a.k.a. Banjo the Bluie?
Si finally moved house and we're back! and man do we have a lot to catch up on. This week friend of the show Mutt Banjo talks to us about Transformation as a kink concept and how that is played out both in the real world and online.
Before that we spill Tea on hypocrisy around the Homophobic Chanting by Football Fans and share our opinions on the dragons dung that was the Dungeons and Dragons OGL v2 debacle.
Finally for Joysticks we get stuck in to Fleet Battle - Sea Battle by smuttlewerk interactive, Red Nexus Games' Peglin and Marvel's Midnight Suns.
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Ep. 45: Checking on the Naughty List
Ep. 44.5: The Catch-Up Episode
a.k.a. Tag, You're It
Since we had been off air for a while, Si and Chris decided it was time to play a game of tiggy so we can catch up with our listeners about what has been happening. So it was mostly just tea this week.
Chris starts off with a sportsball corner piece about Pride flags at the MLS Cup final. Then we talk about UK politics, the Queen's passing, the sauna, the Mario movie, Google Stadia, Twitter, Doctor Who and a whole bunch of stuff about the MCU.
(This was recorded pre-Black Panther: Wakanda Forever, so there won't be any spoilers.)
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Ep. 44: Rubber / Latex (Gear 102)
a.k.a. Shiny Shiny Latex
We're starting Season 3 of Tea Bags & Joystixxx with a bang, no sorry, squeak! The topic today is latex, the most popular (no official data) kind of rubber play. Si and Chris talk about their experiences with rubber / latex, the various outfits we and other people have come up with and how kinksters should be treated while wearing gear.
Tea this week, we discuss how the Australian football team, the Socceroos, have addressed the Men's Football World Cup in Qatar (Chris refuses to use its official name) in a video statement, and also how the UK's foreign secretary have suggested how LGBTQ+ football fans should behave.
In Joysticks, Chris finishes the Two Point Campus campaign, and draws random lines in the free parody puzzle game The Looker; while Si battles out in card game Marvel Snap, and strategises in the crossover worlds in Mario + Rabbids Sparks of Hope.
Once again, apologies we took a break longer than expected.
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Ep. 43: The Sex We Don't Talk About
a.k.a. What Else We Do in the Shadows
It's our last show of the season as we take our (delayed) summer break of about a month, but that doesn't mean we don't have plenty to talk about before we go... This week we're talking all about the bits of Sex that don't usually get discussed. We touch on a little bit of everything from cuddling to douching, condom fit to losing your erection, and finding the prostate through to finding, or even not finding that final orgasm.
In tea this week Chris brings up Call of Duty's F1 inspired map whilst Si talks about how Pokémon Card artists know exactly what they're doing.
Meanwhile for Joysticks this week Chris talks a look at Two Point Campus and Si dives back into Borderlands 3's Mayhem Mode.
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Ep. 42: Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth
a.k.a. Spider: It's Coming Home
This week Si and Chris chat with Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth (Instagram)! We talk about his challenges (plural) to the title, his plans of being a title holder, his very special Spider suit and the growth of the superhero fetish. We also discuss incorporating superhero cosplay into a kink scene, and the fun and challenges of roleplaying a superhero (whether it's an established character or a character you made up yourself).
(Was going to type 'a made-up superhero', which is ridiculous, because obviously all superheroes are made up.)
For tea this week, we talk about how Chris hurt his own back in a really stupid way, and in another sportsball corner, we join in to celebrate football's homecoming, with England's victory at the European Championship. And in joysticks, Chris returns to the SFW(-ish) version of Rimworld once again with plenty of mods, while Si sets up his D&D campaign with TaleSpire.
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Ep. 41: The List Strikes Back
a.k.a. We Are Getting Our Star Wars References Back to Front (Since We Have Already Done Return of the List)
This week Chris and Si are doing another game with the TB&J List. Take a random pop / geek culture character, add three kinky activities, and choose which one is the most fun (or just most "safe") to do. Would you get fisted by Wolverine? Get kidnapped by Bowser? Yes? No? Let us know what you think!
For tea this week, we bring up the Marvel Studios presentation at San Diego Comic Con, and criticise seven NRL players for skipping a game instead of wearing a Pride jersey. For joysticks, Chris talks about the emotional blinking game that is Before Your Eyes, while Si takes part in the game show in Dicey Dungeons.
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Ep. 40: Events, A Survival Guide
a.k.a. How to Go to Events and not Die
This episode is dedicated to Tim Davidson, a friend of ours and a former member of Manchester Rubbermen team, who passed away suddenly recently.
This week Si and Chris talk about all the mistakes they have made going to kinky/pride events, and some friendly advice on how not to do the same as they did! Everything from booking, getting your gear ready, overexaustion, all the way to event drop, Si and Chris have learnt the hard way until they figured out their preferred ways to attend these events. You may have to do something wrong first too, until you find out for yourself!
In tea this week, Chris reports on London Pride attendees hijacking the hijackers, while Si talks about a community-led protest-y Pride march in Bristol. For joysticks, we have the card-based village builder game Stacklands and the ever casual game show game Fall Guys.
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Ep. 39: Handler EU '22 Quincy
a.k.a. The Bumper Show with Leads
This week's show features Handler EU Quincy (they/them)! We talk about their journey through to being a title holder and their next steps, what it is about being a handler, various different forms of pet play, and every kinkster's favourite topic during pride month: kink at pride.
Tea this week we talk about a mischievous mod for Microsoft Flight Simulator. And for Joysticks, we round up our thoughts on the non-E3 showcases for gaming in the last few days.
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Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Ep. 38: Pride Washing
a.k.a. When Pride Become Hubris
a.k.a. A Sense of Pride (and Accomplishment?)
It's Pride Month 2022 and with pride month comes the rainbow tidal wave. With that in mind we dive in and look at some of the ridiculous pride washed merchandise they try and trick us into buying.
For Tea this week, we discuss the UK's only openly gay footballer Jake Daniels coming out and the sadness that is the impending closure of the leather bar Backstreet in London. Meanwhile in Joysticks, Si recounts his difficulties the balances of power in both Sea of Thieves and Satisfactory while Chris explores H.P. Lovecraft in Arkham Horror: The Card Game.
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Ep. 37: Militaria / Military Fetish
a.k.a. Sir, Yes Sir
This week we broadcast a long overdue conversation with Adam about the military fetish. We talk about the origins of such a fetish, the dos and don'ts when exploring, what to be aware of when acquiring more specialist militaria gear and the ethical considerations when playing with military gear.
Tea this week we talk about a gay dog adopted by a gay couple, and the casting of the new Doctor in Doctor Who.
In Joysticks we pit Transport Fever 2 against Satisfactory.
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Ep. 36: Community Spotlight: South West Fetish Men
a.k.a. Tangent Queen
This episode we are joined by Jonathan from South West Fetish Men, where we had a hilarious conversation about the social side of kink and gear, organising events and the upcoming South West Fetish Weekend 2022 in Bristol, England. Contains lots of tangents.
Tea this week includes Elon Musk's takeover of Twitter and user authentication for vulnerable groups, and how Jon made his mechanic scream.
Joysticks this week we revisit Dorfromantik, recall the Age of Empires series, and dive into Tiny Tina's Wonderlands.
Visit South West Fetish Men at southwestfetish.co.uk,
Twitter @SWFetishMen, Instagram @swfetishmen, Facebook @southwestfetish.
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Ep. 35: Cuckolding
a.k.a. A Cuck in His Hand, Two in the Bed
Content warning: At the start of this episode we are discussing the UK Governments U-Turn on Trans Conversion Therapy Ban. Listeners who are sensitive to this may wish to skip the episode to the 17:30 mark.
This week we talk about cuckolding, how we define it and how many people may find themselves into it without realising that might be the case.
For Tea this week we discuss the UK governments U-Turn on Conversion Therapy for Trans people whilst in Tea we discuss Dead Cells and Sea of Theives Shenanigans
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Ep. 34 Pt. 2: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken
a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo!
We continue our conversation with Pups Titan and Trakken about pups! We talk about how to not get yourself injured when pupping out, and some seriously bad faith arguments against pup play. We also talk about expectations about the Moon Knight series. Joysticks this week we have Kirby and the Forgotten Land, the Rim Effect mod for RimWorld and some chats about Dungeons & Dragons.
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Ep. 34 Pt. 1: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken
a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo!
We're joined by Pup Titan and Trakken this week as we let the pups off their leashes to talk about Puppy Play. Unusually were splitting this episode into two parts because we talked for a VERY long time. In this part you'll find Discussion on; What is it, why our guests love it, what Pup Headspace is, and discussion on degredation Vs praise in the kink.
Tea this week comes in the form of the Hawkeye Soundtrack Song Titles, Batman & that Will Smith Academy Awards moment.
Part Two will follow in a week and will feature our Joysticks for this period.
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Ep. 33: Kinksters talk Self Expression
a.k.a. Self-Express Yourself!
This week we tackle the subject of how kink and self expression can overlap. Discussing "kinksters" as a subculture akin to bears or twinks within the LGBTQ+ spaces. How we personally approach our self expression with our kinkster culture in mind, and some of the considerations that we take in account both in LGBTQ+ spaces and in day to day life.
For tea this week we talk about Early Reveals of pride month covers from Marvel and DC comics and how narratives are being twisted on twitter to perpetuate vile hate. Joysticks meanwhile takes a look at Kirby, Octopath Traveler, and more.
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Ep. 32: Lost in Translation
a.k.a. Google Translate Does Kink
Warning: This episode contains brief discussions around the conflict in Ukraine and breathing difficulties due to a host’s ongoing health issues, listener discretion is advised.
This week we throw out the show we had planned for something to lighten the mood and dive into some light-hearted Google translating as Chris challenges Si to figure out what words, phrases and kink related topics he's run through Google translate.
Tea this week includes the attempt at renaming an Airport Short code because it's. Well... "GAY" while Si introduces the Gay-Squared rule. Joysticks this week sees us discuss The Pedestrian and Taiko no Tatsujin.
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Ep. 31: Kinky Bucket Lists
a.k.a. Kinking the Bucket
Warning: This epsiodes contains discussions of acts in a fantasy setting that should not be attempted. Do not try these things at home.
This episode we discuss some of our more out there fantasies and items on our Kinky Bucket Lists and set our kinky new year resolutions.
For Tea this week we discuss inclusion of pronouns and neo pronouns in The sims and that Microsoft/Activision takeover. Meanwhile in joystick we discuss Diablo 3 and Gaurdians of the Galaxy.
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Edited by TBnJ Si with oversight from TBnJ Chris
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Ep. 30: Game of the Rear Awards 2021
TBnJ is back for 2022 and, as per tradition, we bring back the TBnJ Game of the Rear awards for 2022. This week were joined by Mr Ian and Dio A.K. as we determine the winner of this years awards finding what we feel the best and worst of gaming in 2021 was for us.
(Note: This is a video game heavy episode that doesn't have a kink topic. We will return next week to our usual kinky selves)
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More-than-Five Minute Marvel: Spider-Man: No Way Home
Because we can't wait till the new year to talk about Spider-Man: No Way Home. Obvious spoilers. Involves us completely ignoring the five minute countdown clock.
Ep. 29: Full of Christmas Queer
Ho ho ho! It's Christmas and Si and Chris engage in a silly game involving the infamous "TB&J List", where we try to argue why a randomly selected kink with a randomly selected character should be considered Christmassy. None of this makes any sense, and that's the fun!
Tea this week we congratulate France on banning LGBTQ+ "conversion therapy" and Keanu Reeves's take on NFTs. And for Joysticks, we talk about the indie title Unpacking and the AAA blockbuster Halo Infinite.
PSA: We will be taking a mid-season break. Expect the next episode around the third week of January 2022.
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Ep 28. Leather is Forever (Gear 102: Leather & Bootblacking/Leather Care)
Tea this week includes Inclusivity on the set of Hawkeye and how Crusing is causing problems for wildlife in Gran Canaria whilst on our Joysticks this week we talk about Forza Horizon 5 and Islanders.
Edited by TBnJ Si, Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak, Soundboard: A combination of Royalty free audio. Special thanks to Criag from Kinky Boys Podcast ( @kinkyboyspod ). Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Send in a voice message – anchor.fm/tbnjpodcast/message
Ep.27: Earning A Collar
Ep. 26: The Legend of Quora
This episode marks the 1 year anniversary of TBnJ and so we thought we would have a bit of fun by diving into the internets treasure trove of questions otherwise known as quora for this bumper episode. We talk about everything from why the Triskellion is on the Kink pride flag to T-Posing for dominance in KFC.
For Tea this week we return to sportsball corner and discuss the coming out of Josh Cavallo and we talk about our 1 Year "on the air"
Meanwhile, in Joysticks this week Chris has been playing "The Avengers" game whilst Si Explores Animal Crossing New Horizons 2.0.
Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Soundboard: A combination of Royalty free audio and a short 5 second clip from Start Wars: Episode IV: A New Hope owned by Disney
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Ep. 25: The Lion, the SWITCH and the Wardrobe
This show we are in for a spooktacular chat about witches. Oh, no! Switches? Not light switches, not Nintendo Switches, but BDSM switches. Both Si and Chris identify as switches to some degree, and some people on the scene find it weird. Why? How do we make a role-reversal scene work? And is playing with a switch that different to someone that only goes one way?
In Tea we talked about Marvel's Eternals and Ready Player Two. And for Joysticks, we revisit Robin Morningwood Adventure and explore Metroid Dread.
Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Ep. 24: Feeling the Heat in Saunas (Bathhouses)
Tea this week is the UK Conservative Party conference and Chris taking the mickey of Si’s locktober task. For Joysticks we have Hades (yet again) and Halo: Master Chief Collection Crossplay.
Edited by TBnJ Chris
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Ep. 23: Locktober? I hard-ley know 'er!
This week Si and Chris discuss the growing annual festival that is Locktober. We talk about how we got into it, and what it entails for kinksters with different levels of experience in chastity play.
Tea this week is about Si's cameo over at Kinkyboys Podcast and about over-doing yourself at the gym. In joystixxx, we have Forza Horizon 4, Microsoft Flight Simulator and the Halo Infinite tech preview.
Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Ep. 22: Return of the List
Tea this week involves being Gay on Time and that unusual ways podcasting crosses into real life whilst our joysticks this week consists of Hades, Lumines and Metal Gear Acid as well as the experamentalist period of videogames.
Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. - soundcloud.com/matt-doak
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Ep. 21: Best Lain Only Fans
This week were all about the TEA as we're joined by Only Fans content creator W.A.S.P Hunter to talk about the Only Fans Porn Ban 180, what affect it had on content creators and how content creators feel about the platform going forward. We also Spill Tea on an Si's recent health scare and Chris brings us an unfortuante article for discussion. Meanwhile the 5 Minute Marvel Returns and on Joysticks this week we talk Gamecube Nostalgia with Hunter, Boyfriend Dungeon with Si and more.
Edited by TBnJ Si
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Special Thanks to W.A.S.P Hunter for making this episode possible (Contains Mature Content: Twitter: @TheWaspHunter)
Episode 20: All Bois Are Degraded Equally (Degradation/Humiliation 101)
Tea Bags and Joystixxx is back for Season 2! This week we delve into the topic of degradation and humiliation. What does it involve? Why are people into them? How do we not get hurt while engaging with these kinks?
For tea this week we talk about Manchester Pride's ongoing controversy. While for Joysticks, we cover Microsoft Flight Simulator and Minecraft.
Edited by TBnJ Chris
Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. - https://soundcloud.com/matt-doak
Sound bite (14:35) from Becky Want show, BBC Radio Manchester on 11 Aug 2021 - https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p09q0824 is included here under fair dealing for commentary, review and criticism purposes
Episode 19: The one where we explain whats going on...
Si and Chris sit down this week and explain what happened that took us off air for a short while and mark the official "end" of season 1 of Tea Bags and Joystixx. Theres no Kink topic this week but we do have breif Tea about tech woes, The Olympics and local allyship, we also talk about Mini Motoroways and have a 5 Minute Marvel to cover some of what we missed.
We will be back with Season 2 of the TBnJPodcast in a few weeks time (before the end of august) and we look forward to bringing you more fresh content then!
PSA: Technical Difficulties
Episode 18 - What If... Kink Were a Video Game?
This week Chris and Si "create" a role playing video game based on kink! From fighting the Vanilla Witch Karen, bondage skill trees, and dominant/submissive level ups, we let our imaginations run wild and write a pitch for our "game"! For tea this episode we talk about Pride flags-inspired sofas and the UEFA Euro 2020 kerfuffle (also about Pride flags). In joysticks, we have GolfTopia and A Pirate's Life expansion for Sea of Thieves.
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Episode 17 - Taking Pride in our History (Pride Month 2021)
This week we look at the history of pride. From what was happening before the legend of Stonewall, to the passing of Marriage Equality in the UK we take you on a whistlestop tour of pride in the second of our pride month specials. But not before spilling Tea why Ebay's Adult Content Ban spells trouble for LGBT+ Archival work and Youtube's take down of Australian comedy channel Ding Dong I'm Gay. We also get some time on our Joysticks on Carto and Mech Warrior 5: Mercenaries.