The Irreplaceable Man Podcast
By Ian Lobas
Each week, we feature high-level irreplaceable men who have evolved their lives to become the best version of themselves for themselves, their families, their communities, and the world. We give our listeners a full, in-depth, unfiltered look into the systems, strategies, and support it takes to truly become an irreplaceable man.
The Irreplaceable Man PodcastAug 08, 2022
Effective, Clear, and Powerful Communication with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 312
What you will learn in this episode:
- The most common communication challenges men experience in their marriages.
- The impact that communication challenges have on your relationship with your partner and how your partner is feeling.
- Strategies for identifying the personal communication challenges you are struggling with.
- Choosing which communication habits resonated with you the most and how to implement them.
- Integrating these exercises into your daily life to improve your communication skills in your home and work life.
- Implementing active listening techniques in your relationship.
- How to best respond when your partner is not using active listening techniques.
- Communicating your needs and desires more effectively to your partner.
- Handling communication breakdowns in a more productive way.
- Strategies to prevent communication breakdowns from happening in the first place.
- How to incorporate & practice active listening
- How to build upon & strengthen your current communication skills to strengthen your relationship with your partner.
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#Communication #Activelistening #Improvecommunication
Trust Transformed: Resetting Financial and Physical Trust with Your Spouse with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 311
What you will learn in this episode:
- Strategies for rebuilding physical trust by creating a safe and supportive environment
- Tips for rebuilding financial trust by being transparent and honest about financial matters
- Techniques for establishing clear boundaries and expectations around financial matters
- Setting clear boundaries & Expectations around physical & financial goals.
- How to ommunicate effectively about what you want from your partner physically.
- Addressing past traumas & triggers that affect your physical & financial world.
- Why building intimacy gradually is massively important
- Staying patient with yourself and your spouse as you build the foundations back up.
- Creating a positive physical environment for you & your spouse to feel safe.
- How to set clear financial goals together and stick with them.
- The benefits of creating a joint budget.
- Why practicing transparency will get you farther faster.
- Set financial expectations & boundaries with each other and honoring your commitments.
- Getting clear about each others relationship with money and how to help each other grow through it.
- How to practice regular financial check-ins with your partner.
- Why celebrating small wins & staying positive is crucial to your foundation & future.
- Addressing underlying issues quickly and purposefully.
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#trust #physicaltrust #financialtrust
Restoring & Rebuilding Communication & Competence Trust In Your Marriage with Meredith and Ian Lobas - Episode 310
What you will learn in this episode as well as questions to ask yourself and your partner to gain clarity & traction quickly!
Ways to rebuild competence trust by improving decision-making and follow-through skills
What specific decision-making or follow-through skills do you need to work on to rebuild trust in your relationship?
What specific actions can you take to improve your decision-making and follow-through skills?
How can you hold yourself accountable to follow through on commitments and decisions?
How can you communicate your decisions and actions to your partner in a way that builds trust?
What barriers or challenges might you encounter in rebuilding competence trust, and how can you overcome them?
What support or resources do you need to successfully rebuild competence trust in your relationship?
What systems & structure can you put into place to ensure that you will be consistently rebuilding competency & reliability trust?
Tips for rebuilding communication trust by being honest and transparent with your partner:
What fears or concerns do you have about being honest and transparent with your partner?
How can you communicate your feelings and needs in a way that is honest and respectful?
How can you actively listen to your partner and validate their perspective?
What specific steps can you take to rebuild trust through honest and transparent communication?
How can you repair trust if you have been dishonest in the past?
What role does empathy play in rebuilding communication trust, and how can you cultivate it in your relationship?
Techniques for improving communication skills and building a deeper understanding of each other's needs and perspectives:
What communication patterns or habits do you need to change to build a deeper understanding in your relationship?
How can you actively listen to your partner and seek to understand their perspective?
How can you express your own needs and feelings in a way that is clear and respectful?
What techniques can you use to avoid defensiveness and conflict when discussing difficult topics?
How can you build empathy and understanding for your partner's perspective, even if you don't agree with them?
What role does self-reflection and self-awareness play in building a deeper understanding in your relationship?
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#communication #trust #marriage
Rebuilding Emotional & Reliability Trust with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 309
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The 6 Types of Trust In Your Marriage with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 308
What you will learn in this episode:
- The 6 Trust Types
- How they are broken
- How they can be repaired
- Why you are breaking trust and How to stop repeating the cycle
- Our story of how we broke and repaired each one of these
- An exercise you can use to start doing the work now!
- Much More!
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Weekly Planning Guide for Couples:
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6 Trust Types Assessment:
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#trust #relationship #marriage
Deepen The Trust In Your Relationship with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 307
What you will learn in this episode:
The hidden ways trust is broken
What your wife is thinking and how she feels
How the little things add up to be a big deal
What causes trust issues in a relationship
What you can do to start to course correct
Examples from our marriage on how we rebuilt
Systems & Strategies you can use now.
Your value outside of provider and protector
The Replaceable Man Avatars
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#trust #relationship #theirreplaceableman
Building Irreplaceable Trust with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 306
Episode 306 dives deep into the journey of personal growth and development in both individuals and as a couple. We discuss how being a work in progress and how taking ownership of your own growth can benefit not only yourself but also your partner.
One common theme that we explore is the idea of men feeling like they have no other value in the world besides money. We challenge this notion and talk about how bad behavior can become a reflection of fear, and how showing up as the man your partner needs you to be is an important part of creating a strong, healthy relationship.
We also address the unfair expectation that wives need to do all the work in marriage and the assumption that women do not need us just because they are strong. We discuss how mother's instincts and trauma triggers can impact relationships and marriages and the importance of addressing these issues head-on.
Throughout the episode, we stress the importance of communication and building a strong bond of trust between partners. We talk about how changing doesn’t necessarily mean that your partner will automatically trust those changes.If you want to improve your relationship with your partner or even just yourself, check out our website and apply to join our community https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/.
Quick Timestamps 00:01:53 What Meredith’s Thought Process Was When She Was About to Leave 00:04:33 When Ian’s Replaceability Began 00:05:01 Being in a Delusional State 00:06:56 Husbands Expecting Wives to Do All the Work 00:09:48 Attaching Your Value On Money 00:11:00 The Misconception Behind Being a Mediocre Husband 00:13:37 Building the Life You Want vs. Facing the Regret in the Future 00:15:16 The Assumption That Our Wives Do Not Need Us Because They Are “Strong” 00:16:40 The 12 Patterns Guide 00:22:04 Natural Motherly Instinct 00:27:24 Being Constantly Busy Is An Excuse 00:28:57 Trauma Triggers 00:30:11 Changing Doesn’t Mean Your Wife Would Automatically Trust Those Changes 00:37:10 The Karma Gross 00:42:31 Putting Down the Fear of Being Judged 00:44:21 Trusting Yourself Through Evidence-Based Action 00:50:37 The Toxicity of Not Addressing Problems 00:56:01 Membership Announcement
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#PersonalGrowthAndDevelopment
#HealthyRelationships
#CommunicationIsKey
Purpose Comes From Pain With Raylen Davis - Episode 305
Episode 305 examines the choice between victimhood and taking ownership of your life, and how it impacts your success.
In this episode, Raylen Davis from the Elevated Coaches Academy joins us to discuss the power of leaning into discomfort to achieve success. We explore the importance of focusing on the emotional and inner self, and how mentorship can be a powerful tool for growth.
We also discuss the detrimental effects of creating meaning around things and the steps to take in turning your life around. Raylen shares insights on choosing between victimhood and letting go of it, and decoding the formula for success. Taking full ownership and responsibility of your life and marriage is essential to finding fulfillment, as is being present and understanding your authentic desires. We delve into how to access the power that is already within you, the benefits of slowing down to speed up, and how a serving mindset and language can transform your life.
As Raylen says, "purpose comes from pain." Join us as we explore this concept and gain valuable insights on how to live a more purposeful life. Listen to the episode and learn more from https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/.
Quick Timestamps
00:04:47 Raylen Story About Programming
00:06:47 Leaning Into Two Things for Success
00:07:46 Focusing on the Emotional Side (the inner self)
8:27-9:56 IAN GOLD
00:09:58 Power of Mentorship
00:12:06 Creating Meaning Around Things
00:12:59 Raylen’s Defining Moment
00:16:10 Creating Meaning Around Things
00:16:34 Decoding the Victim and Success Formula
16:59-18:15 IAN GOLD
00:18:55 Taking Full Ownership and Responsibility
19:41-20:52 IAN GOLD
21:34-23:46 IAN GOLD: Ball Off the Foot
00:23:57 Taking Responsibility
00:25:55 Being Present
00:31:04 Understanding What You Want
31:56-36:50 IAN GOLD: Defining Success
00:37:14 Self-Mastery by Robert Green
00:38:00 Power vs. Force
00:38:39 How to Access the Power That Is Already in You
42:57-44:19 IAN GOLD: Slowing Down
45:22 - 47:36 Should & Could Mindset
00:47:38 Power of Cold Plunge
00:49:07 Serving or Not Serving
01:00:00 Purpose Comes From Pain
Books or Articles mentioned: Self-Mastery by Robert Green & Power vs. Force by David Hawking
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❤️ Website: elevatedcoachesacademy.com
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raylendavis/
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#victimhood #takingresponsibility #purposefrompain
Building Range in Your Irreplaceability With Garrain Jones - Episode 304
In this episode, we explore the transformative power of affirmations and how they can help us create the life we desire.
Our guest, Garrain Jones — shares his personal journey of overcoming adversity and how he used affirmations to change his mindset and manifest his dreams. He emphasizes the importance of creating a personal formula and blueprint for our lives, and how this can help us become irreplaceable individuals as a whole. We delve into the role of energy transmutation in turning negative experiences into positive ones and how it can help us cultivate inner peace.
Through personal stories and insights, Garrain and I discuss the importance of surrendering to the universe, being true to ourselves, and using affirmations to align our thoughts and actions with our deepest desires.
QUICK TIMESTAMPS
6:57 Garrain’s Story
08:22 -09:12 When a Giant Mountain Is on You
09:28 - 10:38 Mom Taught Me to Be Calm
12:40 No One Is Coming to Save You
13:54 Voluntary Discomfort
17:33 Training Your Life Force for Calm Inner Energy
23:02 - 23:32 Whats Easy to Do Is Easy Not to Do
23:33 Moving to LA and Becoming a Model
26:12:00 Not Letting Other People’s Good Opinions Get To You
35:06:00 Channeling Inner Peace Through Surrender
43:24:00 You Cannot See the Picture From in the Frame
48:37:00 Cranking up the Obsession of Perseverance
49:42:00 Losing Authenticity
52:32:00 Hitting Rock Bottom and Casting the Vision
54:46:00 Energy Can’t Be Destroyed, It Can Only Be Transmuted
56:45:00 Don’t Let Your Life Be Stolen
1:01:03 Being an Irreplaceable Husband
1:01:18 Creating Your Formula and Blueprint for Your Life
1:06:45 Creating Powerful Affirmations for Yourself
1:11:42 The Universe Becomes Plastic When You Become Who You Are Designed to Be
1:12:02 - 1:14:58 IAN GOLD
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: garrainjones.com
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/garrain.jones/
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/garrainjones/
📚 Book: Mental Makeover
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#irreplaceableman #affirmations #transformation
Becoming an Irreplaceable Family Man With a Business with Jon Vroman - Episode 303
As men, we have a natural desire to provide for our families and achieve success in our careers. Frankly, this is how most men avoid dealing with their problems. And the problem with that is it hurts the people we say we are working hard for. I remember Meredith saying to me, “You say you're running the race for us, however every time you get a chance to celebrate with your family, you run right by us.” That hurt and hit deep. She was right. I was saying one thing and doing another. I was acting as a business man that happened to have a family. My life changed when I met Jon Vroman who introduced me to the concept of being a family man with a business and the mindset shift that came with it. The pursuit of professional goals can sometimes come at the expense of our family life.
Jon and I discuss the challenges of balancing family and business, and share insights on how to prioritize both aspects of our lives family first. We explore strategies for setting boundaries, managing our time, and communicating effectively with our loved ones.
Our guest, Jon Vroman — shares his personal experiences and the lessons he has learned as he navigated through the competing demands of work and family. He offers practical advice on his website https://frontrowdads.com/ on how to maintain a healthy balance making him an irreplaceable family man with a business.
Quick Timestamps
09:19-11:13 IAN GOLD: Finding the Most Serving Mentor
00:11:20 Jon’s Story
00:14:09 Family Men With Businesses
15:39-18:48 IAN GOLD: Misalignment Kills
00:19:07 Checking In on Your Ego
23:23-27:01 IAN GOLD: Living a Regret-Free Life
00:27:11 Buying Back Your Time
29:07-31:29 IAN GOLD: Feeling Insecure
00:31:31 Leadership Imposter Syndrome
00:30:55 Relationship With Significance
00:35:46 Wisdom Should Be Crowdsourced Responsibly
35:36-36:00 IAN GOLD: Balancing the All or Nothing Mentality
00:36:08 Being Present
00:36:22 Designing Your Life for Success in All Areas
00:39:11 Paying Attention to What’s Working and Not
00:40:08 Sticking With the Challenges in Business
00:42:00 Formula for Constraints That Serve Your Strengths
00:45:09
Conquering Fears Around Growing a Team
00:48:44 Systems That Help Us Be Conscious
00:51:43 Recognizing Patterns for Course Correction
00:54:09 The FRD Story and the Magic of How It Works
00:56:25 Creating Psychological Safety
01:09:08 Expectations Management: Intentions vs. Expectations
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: https://frontrowdads.com/
📷 Instagram: instagram.com/jonvroman/
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonvroman/
📩 Email: jon@frontrowdads.com
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#irreplaceableman #businessman #familyman
Becoming an Irreplaceable Husband with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 302
Marriage is not just about two people living together. When you’re married, you don’t have a housemate, you have a partner that you have made a commitment to. Not just to provide for or take care of, your commitment also has to do with who you are and who you become. Constant personal evolution and growth is a must.
For the first couple years of our marriage, I wasnt following those rules. In my mind, because I was providing financially at a high level and we were living a great life, thats all the contribution that was necessary.
Yeah, I was a fucking failure as a husband and then the day came when Mere had enough. She gave me an ultimatum that hit me square between the eyes. It broke me and knocked me onto a course of deep level personal growth and development. The fact that not only was I replaceable in my marriage, I also realized that like most men, I was also replaceable as a leader in my business, as a professional and sadly, as a father.
Everything changed when the fear of her being with someone else kicked in and I would have let her go knowing that I could have done something however I remained selfish and in my ego. It was beyone fear, I felt and sensed the immense regret I would feel later on in life knowing that I had the chance to make it better and didnt.
So the first commitment was to me, to put me first in a serving way and focus on my growth while I learned about what she needed and who she needed me to be.
In this special episode, my wife (Meredith) and I put everything on the table and talk about our relationship from the beginning. We are vulnerable and honest about the ins and outs of our marriage in hopes of helping every man out there to transform into their best selves and finally become The Irreplaceable Man & Husband that they need to be, the one their wives want to be with and the one their wives will never leave.. Yes, brother, its all on you!
Now that we have switched over to The Irreplaceable Man podcast, you can expect 2x episodes a month with Meredith and I digging into a new topic that stop marriages from being amazing and stop men from being irreplaceable.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:03:07 Ian’s Fear: His wife never getting over the resentment from who he used to be
00:04:30 Great Partnership = Great Marriage
00:06:22 Moving Past Resentment to Instill Good Communication
00:07:57 Meredith & Ian’s Story
00:10:07 Wanting to Be the Provider
00:11:12 Making Money Your Identity Could Destroy You
00:11:55 Angles of Avoidance
00:14:29 Creating A Curriculum for Yourself
00:16:29 What It Means to Be Replaced
00:19:05 Take It All On You
00:21:24 The Feeling of Stability
00:23:29 Rushing into Relationships and Feeling Obligated
00:28:04 Creating Time for Just You and Your Spouse
00:29:05 Seeking Approval Externally
00:33:51 Change Before She Pulls the Switch
00:35:55 Postpartum Depression & Anxiety
00:38:02 Men Having the Fear to be Vulnerable
00:38:13 Feminine Flow Energy
00:41:38 The Fear of Loving Too Much
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#marriage #irreplaceablehusband #commitment
Stop Outsourcing Your Happiness with Sam Kabert - Episode 301
Episode 301 is about putting yourself first and making sure you are working on your fullest potential, because what you have financially and materially is not always the truest form of happiness.
The truth is, all the money and material possessions in the world may not make you happy. In fact, if you don't feel complete you will probably never let yourself enjoy what you have. Put yourself first and work on your self-depreciation issues, so that you can get out of your own way and achieve real happiness and success.
Today, Sam Kabert, a successful Serial Entrepreneur turned Spiritual Seeker, joins us in searching for our own life mission. He is known for his ability to put together virtual teams to execute the vision as efficiently as possible so that all involved can spend more time adventuring and experiencing the beauty the world has to offer outside of traditional work.
Do not get caught up in achieving what society has taught you was valuable instead of knowing within yourself what is most important for your life. Let’s find your new passion and purpose in life together. Let’s make each other proud of our own self-discovery journey. Follow us at https://menonpurpose.net/apply/.
QUICK TIMESTAMPS:
00:06:31 Sam’s Story
00:10:10 Numbing Depression
00:13:35 Set Site on the Money
00:13:44 Money Was My Identity
15:30-17:14 IAN GOLD: Legacy
00:17:39 Slowing Down and Comparison
00:19:55 Outsourcing Happiness to Materialism
00:21:02 Getting to a Place to Slow Down
00:21:18 Avoidance Tactics
00:23:25 Tapping Into the Feminine
00:24:37 Working on vs Working in the Business
26:26-27:43 IAN GOLD: Slowing Down
00:27:46 Ways to Slow Down
00:29:26 Taking in the World Around You
28:42-29:58 IAN GOLD: Eliminating People From Your Life
00:32:17 Soul Contracts
32:39-36:09 IAN GOLD: Purpose
00:35:02 Doing the Inner Work
00:47:10 Waking up and Adjusting to the World
00:49:41 Quantum Physics
00:50:18 Self-Love
50:40-52:33 IAN GOLD: Finding True Purpose
00:55:31 Integration
00:56:54 Creating Space
00:59:38 Closing
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: http://samkabert.com/
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samkabert/
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kabert/
📩 Email: mailto:sam@samkabert.com
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#happiness #purpose #money
Every Great Marriage is on the Doorstep of Divorce with Keith Yackey - Episode 300
Episode 300 is about why even great marriages could still be at the brink of divorce, and how going through self-transformation could remedy such a situation.
There is a common misconception that if you are married, your marriage is guaranteed. This is not the case, and anyone who says otherwise is either unaware of or in denial of the issues concerning the reality of marriage. According to The National Center for Health Statistics in the United States, at least 50% of marriages will end in divorce (Jones & Schulz, 2000).
Today, Keith Yackey, founder and CEO of The Married Game & The Ascend Brotherhood, has been committed to helping married men learn how to get their wives to “want” to have sex with them again. He will be discussing communication, attraction, integrity, supporting yourself and other winning formulas that could help you and your spouse rekindle your connection, as every great marriage could be on the doorstep of divorce. It's not a question of “if,” it's a question of “when.”
The ability to overcome challenges helps us heal from pain, transform disappointment into victory, and rebuild trust. You don't have to go through the crisis alone. Get advice and guidance from our episodes. Follow us at https://menonpurpose.net/apply/.
It's time to stop letting your marriage fall apart!
QUICK TIMESTAMPS:
00:07:02 Keith’s Story
00:10:03 Every Great Marriage Is on the Doorstep of Divorce
00:11:30 Wife Lost Attraction for Me
00:13:22 Who Were You?
00:15:21 Am I Willing to Go All in on Me?
00:15:53 Do I Even Like Me?
00:16:40 Learning the Skill of Discipline
00:19:20 Become a 10 at Everything in Your Life
19:58-21:43 IAN GOLD - Doing Whatever It Takes
00:22:11 Keeping the Bitch Voice at Bay
00:23:14 Empowering Yourself
24:54-26:36 IAN GOLD - Inevitable vs. Probable
00:27:24 Making Decisions Out of Desperation
00:29:15 De-emasculating Behavior
00:31:21 The P Formula
00:33:30 Attractive and Unattractive Things
00:36:07 The Vicious Cycle of Pleasing Your Wife
00:38:35 Self-Love and Self-Care
00:39:11 Put Time Into Yourself
00:42:43 When Are You Going to Get Tired of Not Being You
45:46-47:16 IAN GOLD - Self-Celebration
00:50:01 Resentment and Regret
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: www.keithyackey.com
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keithyackey/
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/keith-yackey-13289915/
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#divorce #marriage #transformation
It’s Not Trauma, It’s a Programming Experience (Part 2) with Paul Cope - Episode 299
Episode 299 is about generational traumas and experiences, and how we cope with it differently in our varying paces as individuals.
As we grow older, we may not even realize that we are living with the effects of generational traumas. Our coping skills are programmed into us by our parents, siblings and other environmental factors — even if it doesn’t seem like we’re hearing it directly from them. Each generation has nuances, but the bottom line is that we must break these patterns if we want to move forward.
Generational trauma is defined as the psychological consequences of traumatic events that are experienced by a second or subsequent generation through inherited family systems. This form of intergenerational trauma can lead to physical, emotional and mental health problems.
Today, Paul Cope, a highly accomplished consultant, coach, business owner and corporate lawyer possessing a powerful transformative presence with the ability to provide insights that are invaluable to any organization — reminds us of the impact of generational trauma and how we must cope with it. He shares that as humans, we are hardwired to deal with crises and trauma by connecting socially with other people in our community. As a result of our experiences with trauma and loss, it may be difficult for us to trust others or reach out when we need help, hence why he wrote the book How to Solve Any Problem in Life.
Just like Paul, we want to help guide men in whatever it is that they might be going through.
QUICK TIMESTAMPS:
9:28-11:00 Programming From Parents
00:11:13 Programming Experiences
11:58-14:17 IAN GOLD - Programming
00:14:35 Don’t Cry
15:22-16:59 IAN GOLD
00:17:03 Compassion
00:18:04 Programming of Past Generations
00:20:54 Every Parent Says the Same Thing
22:16-26:05 IAN GOLD
00:29:54 That’s Just the Way It’s Done
31:05-37:16 IAN GOLD
00:37:46 How We Feel About Ourselves Inside
00:41:13 We Are All Flawed
00:41:42 Must Have Duality in Your Life
42:42-46:38 IAN GOLD
00:46:50 Depression and Anxiety
00:48:40 You Must Look After You First
53:37-56:54 IAN GOLD
00:57:16 All the Reasons You Can’t Make Time for You
00:58:17 Extrovert vs. Introvert
00:58:47 Change the Question You Put In Your Search Engine
00:59:18 IAN GOLD - Language and Environment
01:08:00 IAN GOLD - Rocket Boosters Peeling Off
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: www.paul7cope.com
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul7cope/
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-cope-transformation-coach-speaker-a28b8119/
📚 Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Solve-Any-Problem-Life/dp/152729305X
Books or Articles mentioned:
How to Solve Any Problem in Life by Paul Cope
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#generational #trauma #behavioralpatterns
Wrapping Your Head Around You Mattering with Matt Zemon - Episode 298
Episode 298 is about acknowledging and accepting your core, including loving who you are with the help of discovering new realms.
At some point in our lives, we all go through the deep and dark hole of self-discovery. We fear that what we are or who we are could be deemed as unacceptable by society — that we think we need to achieve so many things and become so powerful just to be praised by others. We often fail to realize that this acceptance, respect and praise that we crave are highly rooted within ourselves.
Today, Matt Zemon, the author of Psychedelics for Everyone and the Co-Founder of HAPPŸŸ — a mental wellness company that specializes in psychedelic-assisted oral ketamine therapy along with digital therapeutics that promote life-transforming outcomes, challenges us to keep an open-mind to welcome the proper usage and benefits of psychedelics as powerful medicines. He will be with us to speak about his transformation and how psychedelics were able to help other people overcome anxiety, depression, addiction, PTSD and many more.
As Matt said, “You are enough right now. You are loved right now. Just go. Just be.” So, join us as we face life with gratitude. May we start counting what we have, rather than complain about what we do not have. Allow us to guide you as we provide support for men through their self-discovery journey. Follow us at menonpurpose.net
TIMESTAMPS:
00:07:44 Matt’s Story
10:13-13:19 IAN GOLD
00:14:57 The Big Surprise
00:16:54 Love, Acceptance and Safety
00:19:21 Finding What’s Missing
00:20:06 Wrapping Your Head Around You Mattering
21:31-24:00 IAN GOLD
00:24:31 Living With Purpose
00:24:49 IAN GOLD
00:26:05 Programming From Birth - Winning & Producing
00:28:19 Removing Shame, Blame and Guilt
00:28:53 Programming Through Generations
00:29:22 Relationships With Parents
00:30:05 How Were You Promoted in Life to Solve Problems
00:31:12 What Are the Roles I Created for My Life
00:31:47 IAN GOLD
00:33:30 Making Excuses
00:35:44 IAN GOLD
00:36:55 Driven By Different Motivators
00:37:04 Sitting Still
00:39:02 Being Productive and Changing Habits
00:40:02 IAN GOLD
00:41:59 Shifting Old Habits
00:43:58 What Really Is Security
00:44:12 Where to Find Psychedelics
00:45:49 Compassion and Connectivity to Others
01:11:00 Unlock Something in You
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: https://www.mattzemon.com/
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matt.zemon/?hl=en
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattzemon/
📚 Book: Psychedelics for Everyone by Matt Zemon
📩 Email: matt@happyy.me
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#psychedelics #self-discovery #acceptance
Confronting What You Are Most Afraid Of with John David Latta - Episode 297
Episode 297 is about embracing the mystery of death, our spiritual connections with others and how it can transform us.
Most of us fear the idea of death, because we all fear what we do not know. We fear that we might no longer be able to do what we could have done when we still had the chance. Indeed, we regret more the things we did not do than those we did, and this is what makes today’s episode very special — as it teaches us how we could possibly handle the concept of dying and how it involves a lot of acceptance.
Today, former founder and CEO of a successful multimillion-dollar consumer products company, John David Latta, opens our minds and challenges our emotions when it comes to the inevitable. He is a mystic, teacher, and author who shares intimate and personal stories and teaches workshops on leadership, healing, transformation, awakening, love, synchronicity, and wisdom that unite and expand human experience.
As John shares, “We are constructed at a soul level. A cat doesn't die, but the body dies. A human being doesn't die, but the body dies.” Death is a mystery, but death is also part of life and a natural, spiritual experience. To understand what happens when we die, we need to see ourselves in the context of relationships that connect us with others and with something beyond our individual selves.
Just like John, we value relationships and connections the most, that is why we provide support for men in all works of life — an extraordinary opportunity to live life more fully and connect with those they love.
QUICK TIMESTAMPS:
00:05:31 John’s Story Before Hitting Rock Bottom
00:06:46 Confronting Death and Losing All in a Blink of an Eye
00:07:38 Unbelievable Fear of Death
00:10:14 Synchronicity and Spiritual Connection
00:17:05 Plunging Into Your Feminine Side
00:18:47 Factors That Define Your Life
00:20:44 Actual Direct Experiences and Stories
00:21:40 Looking Back at Failed Relationships
23:06-25:22 IAN GOLD - The Difference Between the Human and the Authentic
00:25:33 The Difficulty in Getting Out of Bad Habits
00:26:57 The Truths Behind Transformation
00:30:02 It’s Time to Be a Different Story
32:37-36:26 IAN GOLD - Changing Old Habits
00:39:32 Blaming Other People
00:44:09 The Parking Garage of Life
00:46:29 Parents as Children’s Safe Space / Guiding Children How to Handle Death
00:51:35 The Grief in Ending a Life Season
00:55:14 Embracing the Mystery of Death
00:59:46 The Fear of Death That People Are Facing
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❤️ Website:https://linktr.ee/johndavidlatta
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johndavidlatta/?hl=en
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-latta-006431232/
📩 Email: john@johndavidlatta.com
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#acceptance #mysteryofdeath #spirituality
It’s Not the Pursuit of Happiness; It’s the Happiness of the Pursuit with Randall Crowder - Episode 296
Episode 296 is about personal development and being purposeful in your life journey.
When opportunities arise in your life, do you realize how often you discredit yourself? Because our episode for today tells us straight up that discrediting yourself is not only negative for you; it also insults those who believe in the value that you bring. Discrediting yourself is a dangerous thing to do. When you start believing that you are not good enough, that belief can spread to other areas of your life, and it will cause you to make bad decisions.
Today, CEO Randall Crowder of Phunware — a technology company in Austin, TX developing mobile and data solutions for major brands and launching a unique cryptocurrency called PhunCoin, encourages us to be critical in our life choices. Our life choices include a lot of self-actualization and self-reflection, and this episode is about owning up to your choices, because whatever you have, wherever you are, and whoever you are now, is all on YOU.
As Randall shares, “We are not human beings. We are human BECOMINGS,” and that speaks volumes about who we choose to be in life. That is why we provide support for men in all works of life, to help you become the person you ought to be. Follow us at https://menonpurpose.net
Quick Timestamp:
00:06:29 Randall’s Story
00:11:32 Immediately Going to the Negative
00:15:34 Measuring Success and Making Time for You
00:16:02 Spending More Time With Spouse
00:18:03 Biggest Fallacies; Busy Isn’t Productive, Productive Isn’t Effective
18:22-20:38 IAN GOLD - Getting Ahead of the Competition
00:21:32 Being Purposeful About What Matters
00:23:12 Self-Love and Imposter Syndrome
00:28:06 Series of Moments Build Self Confidence
00:30:32 Pushing Through the Fear in All Areas of Life
00:34:57 Gaslighting
00:35:55 Open Communication in Relationships
00:37:08 IAN GOLD - Betting on Yourself
00:39:09 Self-Sabotage and Disclaiming Yourself
00:43:13 IAN GOLD - Authentic Self vs. Natural Self
00:47:10 Controlling Your Anger and Not Comparing Yourself to Others
00:49:01 Stop Giving You Power Over to Others
00:50:36 IAN GOLD - Opening Up Space
00:53:23 IAN GOLD - Scarcity Mindset and Breaking Integrity
00:54:38 How You Perceive Your Wife in Public
00:57:19 Imposter Syndrome Leads to Insecurity
00:59:46 IAN GOLD - It’s All on You
01:02:20 Self-Actualization and Over Correction
01:02:55 Intention Matters and Is Crucial
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website:http://www.phunware.com
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/randallcrowder/
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallcrowder/
📩 Email: rcrowder@phunware.com
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#authenticself #purposeful #notonegativity
Mastering Your Inner Game with Shea Hillenbrand - Episode 295
Episode 295 is about surviving the dark hole in pursuit of our true purpose and happiness.
Sometimes when things are going so perfectly in our life, that’s the exact moment we feel lost. We get consumed by fame, power and money, thinking all of it should be enough, that it is all that we need — that we forget what it truly feels to LIVE. We start asking ourselves, is this all life has to offer?
Today, a former MLB baseball player and MLB all star, Shea Hillenbrand gets to share with us his journey towards the pursuit of his true purpose and happiness. He hid all of his childhood dreams and then realized that none of them were his actual dreams, that all he was doing was chasing the money, fame and the identity of his popularity to appease his ego. So in this episode, we are going to dig deep into our childhood traumas, face our fears, and surpass all the hurdles we thought only the grand things could solve, and we are going to do this together.
As Shea says, “Don’t miss the meat of the method: POWER and PERSPECTIVE,” so rediscover yourself with us. We provide support for men in all walks of life. Follow us at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/.
Quick Timestamps
00:04:43 IAN GOLD Shedding the Identity
00:06:25 Shea’s Back Story
00:07:26 Finding Your Safe Space
00:08:43 Creating My Story from What Happened
00:13:34 The Pain That Stays After the Achievement
00:16:05 Is This All Life Has to Offer?
00:16:42 Having Everything Except Fulfillment
00:17:57 Leaving All Behind
00:20:44 When You Are Empty Inside
00:21:11 Ego Can’t Bring Sustainable Success
00:23:03 Using Drugs and Alcohol to Numb and Run
00:23:29 The Aha Moment
00:24:18 You Must Rescue Yourself
00:25:09 3 Most Powerful Decisions in Life
00:25:48 Getting Started
00:27:00 The Need to Go Back to Level 1
00:28:26 Who Will Stand Guard for Your Mind
00:30:45 The Anger Resentment Story
00:32:21 Only Reaching a Fraction of Your Potential
00:32:44 The Emotions of Our Stories
00:34:54 Pain Not Transformed Is Transmitted
36:48-37:31 IAN GOLD I
00:38:03 Why Parents Must Communicate With Their Kids
00:42:38 Vulnerability & Sharing Powerfully
00:46:24 Fear of Past Self
00:46:53 3 Pillars of Life: Personal, Private & Professional
00:48:41 Not Present So We Buy Presents
00:49:41 How Do You Act On the Results You Have
55:19-55:57 IAN GOLD II
00:58:09 Serve From Your Heart Not Your Ego
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❤️ Website:https://linktr.ee/riplpm
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/riplpropertymanagement/
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheahillenbrand/
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#findingyourself #purposefulways #fame
Healing Your Disappointing Love Life with Dr. Thomas Jordan - Episode 294
Episode 294 is about diving deep into the human experience.
When we deal with our emotions, especially when it comes to love, it’s helpful to identify our patterns. This could resolve a lot of issues when it comes to intimacy, traumas, and even grief. After all, the opposite of love is grief. You love somebody you can lose. That’s an unforgettable line we got from Dr. Thomas Jordan — whose clinical specialty is treating adults who are depressed and anxious about past or present unhealthy relationship experiences, people who are struggling with low self-esteem, feelings of loss, or an unhealthy love life.
Today, Dr. Thomas will be with us to talk about the psychology around love, and how you can change your love life by changing your psychology.
Overcome any emotional dive with us. We provide support for men from all walks of life. Follow us at menonpurpose.net
Quick Timestamps:
00:01:09 Guest Intro & Background: Dr. Thomas Jordan
00:05:46 How Thomas Got Started
00:07:39 What You Need to Work On to Have a Great Relationship
00:09:08 What Love Is
00:10:00 Examples of Sabotage
00:14:25 Variation in Attraction
00:15:35 Consciousness Is the Key
00:16:48 Will Is a Decision That You Have to Act On
00:18:42 The Differences in Women: Independence, Control, Intimacy
00:21:19 How the Psychology of a Person Affects Their Experience
00:22:51 Change Your Love Life by Changing Your Psychology
00:23:39 Healthy and Unhealthy Attachment to Thoughts
00:26:28 The Idea You Could Be in Love and Not Get Hurt
00:31:21 Parentified Child
00:32:02 Sharing Your Emotions With Your Child
00:34:12 Starting the Journey of Self-Healing
00:34:42 The Greatest Gift You Can Give Your Kids
00:38:54 What Wakes People up From Old Patterns
00:39:59 Dealing With Loneliness
00:43:34 Stop Wasting Your Time
00:44:05 The Importance of Intimacy
00:46:49 Getting Trust Back in a Relationship
00:50:45 The Psychology of Caution and Paranoia
00:53:19 Letting Go of the Past
00:55:39 The Opposite of Love
00:58:03 Schools Should Teach Love and Grief
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❤️ Website:https://lovelifelearningcenter.com/
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovelifelearningcenter/
📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drthomasjordan/
📚 Book: https://www.amazon.com/Learn-Love-Guide-Healing-Disappointing/dp/1543987877/ref=sr_1_1
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#psychologyoflove #breakingpatterns #healingjourney
Revealing the Diamond Means Breaking the Stone with Andreas Widmer - Episode 293
Episode 293 is about the diamond in the rough.
When we work, we don't just make more. We become more. That's advice from the Pope himself. I got to hang out with Andreas Widmer, who used to work for the Pope and now works for you. For years and years, through his stories and experience, Andrew has helped men declare value for themselves. He's shared how the answers are within you and that change is never done.
He offers a ton of wisdom for entrepreneurs and is interested in getting the word out of self-love especially for men. We cover a lot of ground including: choosing yourself, what it's like to work directly with the Pope, dealing with your inner conflict, how to deal with feeling used, the need for validation and overcoming it. Today we'll dig into Andreas's insights of authenticity, facing conflict, and doing conscious work towards finding your purpose.
To help you break through and see the diamond inside, we provide support for men in all walks of life, follow us at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
TIMESTAMPS:
00:07:26 Andrea’s story
00:12:01 Working for the Pope
00:14:20 When we work we just don't make more, we become more
00:16:55 Feeling used
00:21:15 Feeling validated
00:24:35 Becoming the best version of yourself
00:26:00 Ian Gold
00:28:06 The miserable state
00:29:00 The birthing process
00:30:03 Making a career change
00:31:10 The answers are with you
00:32:45 No one else can want for you what you must want for you
00:34:40 The change is never done
00:35:30 Francis Michelin Story
00:35:45 You must break the stone to reveal the diamond
00:40:15 Story of the inventor of box wine
00:40:39 2 kinds of people; creators and harvesters
00:49:00 Setting goals and managing yourself
00:49:38 Making decisions now
00:49:45 Declaring value to yourself
00:54:00 Recalibrating schooling
00:59:45 Self-love & self-advocation
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website:https://andreas-widmer.com/
📚 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreaswidmer/?hl=en
📷 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreaswidmer/
📷 Email: widmer@cua.edu
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The War Without Will Never Cease Until You Cease The War Within with Gary De Rodriguez - Episode 292
Episode 292 is about relationships and leadership:
Ever notice that a lot of successful individuals can easily figure out how to win in business - how to be successful in business. But most of 'em down at home are a complete and utter trainwreck. And you may be one of 'em and not even be aware of it---because you're actually a pretty good husband and a pretty good dad, but your finances suck. Or, you're actually a great dad or husband---but your business sucks!
Why is that so? And why is it so common? The solution seems simple enough, why can't we do it just like that.
Gary answers this and more. Turns out that it is simple, but it's all a matter of going deep enough. And it all starts with the quality of your relationships. Gary's seen it all, he's trained the highest level executive in developing relationships and taught teenagers and parents to overcome trauma. This is a gold spill of wisdom you won't want to miss.
Join us and find support at the Men on Purpose community, where we can help you manifest the life you really want, today! Follow us at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
QUICK TIMESTAMPS:
00:04:58 Gary’s bio
00:08:07 Power of adaptability and flexibility
00:12:12 IAN GOLD
00:16:06 The secret skill; a capitalistic edge
00:18:26 A blend of feminine and masculine
00:21:39 Accountability is key
00:24:26 Keeping people inspired
00:26:36 Quadrants of success
00:28:54 Controlling your reaction
00:29:47 Misaligned core values
00:32:03 Striving to feel good enough
00:34:39 Blueprint of relationships
00:40:10 When I look back on my life
00:42:12 Two things that motivate human behavior
00:45:49 Self-leadership
00:48:13 Parents resolving trauma in children
00:51:41 As a leader, what do you stand for
00:55:07 The war within
00:58:29 The thought manifests the word
01:04:18 How do we develop our world view
Connect with Guest (Relevant Links to be provided)
❤️ Website:http://garyderodriguez.net/
📚 Course: https://garyscourse.com/
📷 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/garyderodriguez/
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#relationships #leadership #purpose
Only Your Future Self Can Manifest the Life You Know is Possible with Nick Devlin - Episode 291
Episode 291 is about manifesting your future.
You can manifest your future today. Nick Devlin was an Army Ranger veteran and has been through the toughest situations for a man to ever be in, literally things he cannot speak about to anybody. He took the life lessons that came with this experience and has used that to help men today become a better version of themselves. There are no pseudo-spiritual manifestations required, just pure and genuine commitment to change. And it’s not easy, no. Today, we talk about soldiers as adventure, and how we can transfer skills into our personal lives, and how to overcome discomfort when it matters most. Nick shares his most authentic self and dives into what men struggle with the most today. It’s a very enlightening episode and Nick is as genuine as he is easy to listen to. You are an adventurer in this life too, but you don’t have to do it alone. There may be uncertainty, and it will never be easy, but commitment helps you triumph all.
Join us and find support at the Men on Purpose community, where we can help you manifest the life you really want, today! Follow us at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:01:35 What you will learn
00:06:43 Men being replaced in their families
00:09:32 Getting stuck in financial success
00:17:06 Nick’s past and service
00:24:40 You create your own freedom
00:29:04 Discipline and passion
00:32:28 Transferring skills to your personal life
00:34:47 True satisfaction and aligned values
00:37:58 Committing to take that next level
00:41:48 Going on an adventure
00:44:46 A lot of men feel their window is closing
00:47:30 Avoiding uncomfortable conversations
00:49:12 Trust and believing
00:50:48 Running formulas in life
00:53:10 Training, growth and learning
00:54:25 Living the life your past created
00:57:59 Putting yourself first
01:01:24 Pain and inevitability
01:05:35 Choosing your life
01:09:57 You’ve already taken the step
01:12:32 Invest in yourself
01:15:22 One conversation can change your life
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: https://www.nickdevlincoaching.com/
📚 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealnickdevlin/
📷 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nick-devlin/
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#manifesting #future #purpose
Evolving Into More Than Just a Walking Powder Keg of Denial with Gabriel Keczan - Episode 290
Episode 290 is about transforming your pain.
Turn your pain into something powerful. Gabriel Keczan is a visionary writer, speaker, mythologist entrepreneur, and executive men's coach. He's the author of a bestselling international book Alive on Purpose, UNC Clenched From Fear and Step Into Your Power with Backbone Heart and Balls. When he was 18 he had a dark night of the soul. He spent 30 days in a psych ward battling his inner demons. Now he is a brand new man helping others get out of their dark place and see the light at the end of the tunnel. Join us now to learn more about becoming a better you!
Do you want to know your mission? Our Men on Purpose community provides support and invites inspiring guests, so we all learn together in this path. Follow us on https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:06:31 Alive on purpose
00:08:28 You are your purpose
00:10:49 Dark night of the soul & 30 days in a psych ward
00:11:42 IAN GOLD
00:16:19 Turning toward our pain and face it
00:17:43 Rejection and abandonment
00:20:56 Going numb and forgetting
00:21:34 Difference between success and fulfillment
00:22:38 Networth isnt your self worth
00:23:42 Danger vs dangerous
00:24:42 IAN GOLD
00:26:42 What is a nice guy
00:27:38 Being a player coach
00:29:13 Covert contracts and shadow contracts
00:31:15 IAN GOLD - Convert Contracts
00:33:43 Present, Claim, Penetration
00:35:27 What women want
00:36:23 Surrender and letting go
00:37:16 Trusting the process of the journey
00:38:31 IAN GOLD
00:44:05 Time scarcity
00:44:29 Why therapy doesnt work for many guys
00:44:52 Guys need to be confronted by the truth mirror
00:48:02 Guys dying again and again
00:51:42 IAN GOLD
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Aligning With & Inspiring Your Personal Life Mission with Lane Belone - Episode 289
Episode 289 is about finding your life mission.
What's your mission in life? Lane Belone, former Special Forces Green Beret and now an elite entrepreneur coach, co-author of Unleash Your Humble Alpha, host of Exactly What The Moment Called For and creator of the Joyful Sovereignty Experience. As a special forces soldier he built strength, discipline and healthy habits - but when his service was over he felt like there were parts missing from him; something to live for once out of the military. Lo and behold, he found his next mission. It was to make the world a better place by helping humans unlock their potential and find their mission in life. Join us now to learn more about yourself!
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QUICK TIMESTAMPS
00:11:32 Applying the high performance professional formula to your personal world
00:12:24 Disbursement of energy
00:15:12 Ian Gold
00:17:27 Well off vs broke
00:22:27 Not taking ownership to our journey
00:22:45 Co Creating an integrated life
00:22:39 Integration over balance
00:25:33 Special forces balance analogy
00:27:58 Finding your purpose and mission
00:30:17 Focus attention and energy on you first
00:31:28 Dialing in and getting yourself aligned
00:31:53 Asking yourself who you are
00:33:40 Ian Gold - trust
00:41:39 Lanes life story - a rock paper scissors bet
00:44:57 Belief: If someone else can do it, so can I
00:49:04 Facing your fears in the moment
00:51:30 Gamifying your search for purpose
00:53:40 Ian Gold: Will they give you a statue or a sentence
00:56:51 Small micro steps that helped build a solid foundation
00:58:02 Finding purpose after military
00:59:22 Aligning with my spiritual path
01:00:55 Power of plant medicine
01:02:33 Ian Gold
01:06:51 Different mission sets
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#mission #align #purpose
Life Changes The Moment You Realize You Are Worth It with Brian Pannuzzo - Episode 288
Episode 288 is about changing your life.
Find the needle that truly moves you in your life. Brian Pannuzzo is a men’s health and corporate wellness coach, founder of the Success Lift and host of the Success LIft podcast. He started as a Wall Street trader for 20 years before becoming frustrated with his lack of success outside his job (despite being successful at it). It was then that he discovered something about himself through an epiphany – and found his way back to pursuing what made him happy: A fulfilling personal life - taking care of oneself so they could spend more time with family or friends - everything else fell into place when one knows exactly what they want to do in order to achieve their desired results. Join us and know more about topics of changing your life.
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00:08:09 Brian's Story
00:11:00 I made a decision at 17 that shaped my life
00:12:35 The hamster wheel
00:13:48 I was broken down
00:19:20 My role models were failing me
00:24:23 Ian Gold - SNIOP
00:27:00 Benefit of hindsight
00:27:38 Sometimes the affect show up ten years later
00:29:04 People dont change because of discomfort
00:32:05 How the hell do I get out of this
00:32:44 Ian Gold
00:36:07 Root causes and starting there
00:38:39 Disconnecting from pain
00:40:55 Your wife is not your therapist
00:42:09 Ian Gold
00:46:43 4 stages of learning
00:50:48 Time as context
00:51:30 Focusing on your children
00:52:23 Your mess becomes your message
00:54:49 Getting out of the rut
00:56:24 What was the moment you realize your true mission and purpose
01:00:28 The moment you knew your life needed to change
01:02:01 When I realized I was worth it, I started working on me
01:02:22 Focus on what you value
01:02:57 5 second rule
01:03:50 How to increase confidence
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#moment #discipline #change
Your Biggest Advocate is YOU! with Dr Anthony Balduzzi - Episode 287
Episode 287 is about learning to assess yourself.
You are your own number-one cheerleader. Dr. Anthony Balduzzi is a naturopathic doctor, national champion bodybuilder, and founder of the Fit Father Project and Fit Mother Project- online communities for empowering busy parents to get healthy, lose weight, and build muscle through practical nutrition and exercise plans. He advocates for having a healthy well-being; he believes in mental, physical, and spiritual health. We all make mistakes but correcting those mistakes--aligning ourselves on the right path--is what really matters here. A track of our progress or errors can keep us motivated in the long run: while building up foundations for our habits or goals. Let's come together now to learn more about how we can take care of ourselves.
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QUICK TIMESTAMPS:
00:06:06 Ian challenges
00:07:55 Solving challenges in your personal and business life
00:12:09 Being in a lower place in your life
00:12:24 Quarterly check in's
00:12:57 Seeing through pain
00:15:05 Gut health
00:26:32 Becoming your own #1 advocate
00:28:18 Every challenge is unfolding for you and your journey
00:29:23 Alan Watts - waves have a peak and trough inside and outside
00:31:10 Our journey is our journey
00:33:24 Energy and vibration
00:38:23 Ian Gold
00:42:04 Got to have an arrow and target - discipline and determination
00:44:01 Faith and Patience
00:56:10 Hold your desires and faith
00:57:30 Goal is not to be where you once were, its about where you are now and going
00:58:07 Setting landmarks and milestones
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#mental #physical #spiritual
Reclaim Your Creative Edge with Costa Michailidis - Episode 286
Episode 286 is about making innovations.
Innovation is the key to evolution. Costa Michailidis, an athlete and coach, created Innovation Bound- a full service innovation consultancy focused on teaching individuals how they can solve their own problems. And while as an athlete he learned early on what it meant to have discipline and built habits that would transition across parts of his life, his focus has been to teach others how they can use those lessons in order to create something great for themselves too.
Join us this time around for another exciting look at developing one's own ideas with all the tricks of the trade!
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Quick Timestamps
00:06:06 Making your mission measurable
00:11:37 A million is enough to make impact
00:18:01 Leading with humor
00:19:08 The study of creativity
00:21:03 Anything is possible
00:26:01 Reclaiming creativity in education
00:27:25 Habit - creating new ones
00:30:26 Coming up with ideas
00:32:36 Co develop ideas with audience
00:37:58 Evolving ideas
00:41:24 Comedians Innovating
00:44:21 The more ideas the better
00:54:02 How do you sit in it and stay with it
01:03:06 Difference between stubborn and persistent
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#innovation #ideas #develop
Understanding the Difference between Dreams & Goals with Dane Espegard - Episode 285
Episode 285 is about making your dream come true.
Set your goals up high and dare to dream bigger than ever before. Dane Espegard is an entrepreneur and coach; he grew up in a loving home with parents and siblings. One day he noticed himself wondering what kind of business culture would set the tone for his company—something centered around people pursuing their dreams? Then, before long, it had morphed from just being about him to also including his own family - as they created lists together that ranged from big dreams to small ones (and everything in between). Eventually, after perfecting this process thanks to the support from those closest to him—he felt ready (and excited!) to share these ideas with others. So he wrote The Dream Machine, which is freely available online for anyone who wants guidance on how to live out their wildest fantasies or pursue even smaller ambitions! Join us now for today's episode.
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Quick Timestamps
00:06:36 Dane's Story
00:10:12 Parents Divorce
00:11:53 Cohabitating parents
00:16:02 Marriage vs partnership
00:16:51 Wanting kids to see us have conflict
00:20:09 Working with different kinds of people
00:24:04 Finding your tribe
00:25:03 Thats just the way I am
00:31:33 Bridge analogy
00:34:08 Divorce is off the table
00:37:05 The Dream Machine
00:37:52 Creating a dreams list
00:39:08 Year end review
00:41:04 I love sports
00:52:07 Spouse trust is a must
00:53:44 Dreaming with your kids
00:57:08 Dreams vs goals
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Regret, Resentment & Keeping Your Integrity Intact with Dr. Calvin Sun - Episode 284
Episode 284 is about finding your way.
Being comfortable with the uncomfortable. Dr. Calvin Sun has been working as an Emergency Physician and Clinical Assistant Professor in Emergency Medicine for most of his career, but he always knew that there was something else for him out there; one day he got it! His love for travel came after losing a bet to explore Egypt, where his curiosity took hold and never let go since then. Fast forward now, Monsoon Diaries was born – it is an organization founded by people who are dedicated to exploring life in its fullest form while discovering the globe’s unexplored corners.
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Quick Timestamps
00:07:42 Living a double life
00:09:05 Parents loved me the way they did
00:12:49 Speaking with your kids about emotions
00:18:04 The loss was so sudden
00:20:13 Pushing against a boulder
00:22:09 Regret comes from not communication sooner
00:26:35 Ian - Story about Dad
00:35:43 Becoming a doctor - Its fascinating
00:38:39 I was alone
00:42:38 Total Freedom
00:47:21 Being comfortable with the uncomfortable
00:51:51 What kept your integrity intact
00:56:55 Trust the process
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#process
#journey
12 Lessons For a Successful Life with Branch Isole - Episode 283
Episode 283 is about being irreplaceable.
How do you find your purpose and become irreplaceable? Branch Isole is an author, poet, and story-teller. After spending 15 years in the corporate world, he became disillusioned with who he had grown into - so he quit his job to pursue a new venture. In doing so, he discovered himself again by
studying different spiritual belief systems.
One fateful day at the age of 45 when he decided to go back to school for his Masters degree in Theology, he wrote a book about finding one's spiritual path. From then on out, he kept writing; 25 years later producing 22 books containing various topics and messages on how to find one's true purpose in this world.
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Quick Timestamps
00:05:11 Branch's experiences
00:05:46 Theres are only so many hours in a day
00:08:05 Who am i in the world
00:09:48 Tapping into fears
00:11:36 Being lost at sea, what does this bring up
00:16:09 Need, want, status, love, fear - 5 motivation
00:18:26 Exercises of choice
00:20:25 Controlling our destiny
00:21:18 Money over purpose
00:22:38 Love, approval, agenda and spiritual grounding
00:24:23 Achieving balance
00:26:10 Fulfilling a need the world can't fulfill
00:26:43 When it's all about me
00:27:29 Processing through external needs
00:28:53 Our choices are filled with consequences
00:34:00 Replaceable vs Irreplaceable
00:36:16 Something is missing
00:37:46 My purpose as a man
00:38:37 Getting spiritually grounded
00:41:33 Is this all there is to life
00:43:18 Connecting with source through the master
00:46:11 An esoteric connection to the source
00:47:13 Right and wrong and reward and punishment
00:47:40 Spiritual grounding reveals the truth of the world
00:54:26 12 Lessons of life
00:58:32 This is how you free yourself
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#journey
Separating from the Inauthentic Identity You Created with Dave Selinger - Episode 282
Episode 282 is about innovation.
Don't judge a book by its cover. When Dave Selinger was an early employee of Amazon, he led the research and development arm of Amazon's data-mining and personalization team. He co-founded Redfin, which helped change the status quo in real estate. Now he has his own company called Deep Sentinel. David is on the autism spectrum but he never let that stop him from living life to its fullest potential - instead, he harnessed what talents and skills came naturally to him. In order to devote time to both work and home life, David makes sure his family gets all of the love they deserve.
Do you want to know how to innovate yourself? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:06:35 Dave's first computer
00:07:29 Trouble connecting with others
00:11:18 Noticing patterns in my life
00:14:19 Fitting In
00:15:43 Epiphany at 9 years old
00:16:36 High Functioning autism
00:20:44 Social norms and adverse effects
00:23:49 Parental support and issues
00:28:15 Meeting your kids where they are
00:30:34 Dialing in your response rates to people
00:37:46 Leaving college to work for a startup
00:39:51 Definition of loss and failure
00:44:29 Work is important, it's just not everything
00:48:15 I'm going to work my ass off, just won't let it poison my family
00:52:43 Amazing years - working with Jeff Bezos
00:54:13 Joining amazon
00:59:45 Starting Redfin and disrupting the RE market
01:02:47 Encouraging my kids to be engaged with the world
01:05:37 Morning exercise is a budgeting exercise
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A Life Out of Alignment is a State of Mind with Dr. Fred Moss - Episode 281
Episode 281 is about moving forward.
You're not defined by your mistakes. Dr. Fred Moss - a physician, coach, and psychiatric expert. - found his calling. He wanted to make an impact on the world by helping people. Thus Welcome to Humanity was born; it's a movement about empowering others for change through healing themselves. Communication, connection, creativity, and conversation seem to be at the heart of all healing for Dr. Fred; without these aspects people just don't heal. And with them? Miracles happen on a daily basis. Voices can heal - listening can too. It seems like whenever we're connected to one another in some way things are better because we're finally accepting our true selves for what they really are - something worth listening to!
Do you want to know your inner self? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:02:09 Fred's story
00:04:04 Words and communication center of human connection
00:07:44 Quitting college because of lack of communication
00:12:17 Bringing communication into psychiatry
00:15:07 The introduction of prozac
00:16:58 Hard to go against the status quo
00:19:07 Not all doctors have earned the respect that the MD brings
00:19:59 So many people doing things out of integrity
00:21:08 Out of alignment is a state of mind
00:22:27 Taking people off medication
00:26:11 The medicines perpetuate the conditions they are supposed to treat
00:33:22 My heart was more important than my job
00:34:35 Relinquishing the responsibility for our lives
00:35:42 Being accountable for your self sabotaging behavior
00:38:22 Speaking our true voices
00:39:49 Being inauthentic provides protection
00:41:36 The power of environment
00:44:51 Don't be a prisoner of your past habits
00:46:19 Knowing where you are misaligned and when
00:47:48 Authenticity vs genuineness
00:49:11 The creative 8
00:51:58 Easing someone's burden, pain and restrictions
00:53:16 Help someone do anything to ease their pain
00:54:59 The power of podcasting
00:55:44 Authenticity overtakes agreement
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The Dangerous Addiction to Validation with Cole Rodgers - Episode 280
Episode 280 is about knowing your why.
Knowing your ‘why’ is knowing your purpose. Cole Rodgers, after being addicted to substances turned his life around when he found out his why. He met the right people, read the right books, did the right habits and listened to the right podcast. His ‘why’ was to be a better person for his wife, children and brothers. Cole followed The Man's Ethos and applied it in his life. And a man he truly became. Join us in this episode where we will explore how you can find yours too!
Do you want to know your why? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:04:17 Deep level convo
00:06:34 Men aimlessly walking through life
00:09:56 Men's Ethos
00:12:16 Intentionality is a rear trait
00:13:58 Dont mistake movement for progress
00:16:09 Unhealthy addiction to validation
00:16:57 The self sabotage ride
00:21:12 Chronic masterbation and sexless marriage
00:23:59 Being addicted to the achievement ride
00:28:21 Breaking through the programming of the past
00:32:00 Cognitive Dissonance
00:35:24 How does your partner let go of past resentment
00:37:48 Dealing with being unconditional output
00:38:47 Atlas shrugged passage
00:42:39 Getting out of the attachment of business making you significant
00:43:59 Stop giving yourself unearned rewards
00:45:30 If you dont stand for anything you will fall for it
00:45:52 Reprogramming self talk
00:48:24 The addiction spectrum
00:49:13 Get into the right network whose living at a different frequency
00:52:44 Better men are focusing on what matters the most
00:54:08 Ian explanation of getting into action
00:55:20 Going through the fire not just reading the book
00:55:43 Taking action to get traction
00:56:34 Aim small, miss small
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Own and Recognize Your Contribution in Relationship Failures with AJ Grossman - Episode 279
Episode 279 is about knowing your why.
Commitment is the single most important key to a successful relationship. With a background in business administration and information technology, AJ Grossman now practices law as a result of an internal force - his calling. He knows what he wants from life: to help people turn around their marriage for the better so that kids can grow up with happy parents.
In a marriage, there needs to be an equal balance between both partners. Otherwise, the marriage will fail. However, if you know what you want from this relationship from the start—that may help you decide whether or not to stay. It's vital that people can take care of themselves first before they are able to take care of others.
Do you want to know your why? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:04:45 AJ's story
00:08:33 I felt like I fit
00:12:28 How are we going to separate ourselves
00:12:51 Going with the flow of things
00:16:50 Idea on marriage
00:17:20 Getting married too young
00:17:49 Core values
00:19:24 Recognizing your own contribution to a failed relationship
00:21:01 Lenses we look at the world through
00:21:50 Every failed relationship is an opportunity
00:26:43 Cheating doesnt have to end in divorce
00:29:26 Seeking opportunities
00:31:00 Adverse childhood experiences
00:34:01 Getting married later in life
00:36:18 Stale marriages
00:40:29 Distractions in marriage
00:43:44 Fear of the unknown
00:44:17 Using marriage as identity
00:46:08 Self worth and esteem in marriage
00:48:39 Doing things to fit in vs align with purpose
00:50:18 Aligning with the true you
00:52:38 Victims picking themselves up after divorce and thriving
00:54:01 Victimhood is self created
00:56:06 How do you know divorce is most serving
01:03:53 Holding your standards too high
01:06:54 Marriage vs partnership
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Evolving Into The Authentic You with Bill Huffhine - Episode 278
Episode 278 is about finding your authentic self.
Yin and yang. The light and dark. The balance of life. Bill Huffhine left his corporate job because he finally realized that wasn't what he wanted to do. After years of questioning himself, he found out that there were stages in life and he named these five seasons of life. Out of this revelation came a coaching practice, not from money-seeking but from the genuine desire to help others find who they really are and create successful businesses using their own reclaimed purpose. Come and join us on this enlightening episode!
Do you want to find your authentic self? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:08:00 Bill's Background
00:09:12 5 seasons of my life
00:11:10 The Season formation
00:12:45 The person we are becoming
00:13:52 The season of commencement
00:16:57 Cognitive experiential Dissonance
00:19:03 Getting your world view shaken-up
00:20:56 The season of undoing
00:25:48 Not knowing what to believe about my life
00:27:43 Liminality
00:29:55 The circle of light and darkness
00:35:06 4 impulses of circle of darkness
00:37:59 My breaking point
00:39:27 I need to figure out who I really am
00:39:49 The season of revision
00:41:17 Realizing my purpose and who I really am
00:42:41 Battling Imposter syndrome
00:43:29 Arresting the dark, embracing the light
00:45:41 Its not about money its about people
00:48:34 Season of authenticity
00:53:03 Pushing through my limiting beliefs
00:55:54 Our process of our lives and the seasons of our lives are all ours
01:03:20 Its not about finding your purpose, its about becoming the most authentic operator of that mission
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Money and Freedom Are Not Synonymous with Damien Fahey - Episode 277
Episode 277 is about finding your authentic self.
Damien Fahey is a writer for the television show Family Guy who grew up as a DJ in his 20s. Having to cope with ADHD and struggling to connect with his father, who came out gay after staying closeted throughout most of Damien's life was not easy for him to get through- even when he has a successful career. It’s challenging, but it shouldn't be impossible. This episode won't be filled with jokes and laughter; instead we'll be delving deep into what it takes to find your authentic self and own your feelings.
Do you want to find your authentic self? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:05:42 Damien's Story
00:09:57 Diagnosed with ADHD
00:13:23 Special education
00:16:52 Growing up in the 80s
00:20:39 Lonely childhood
00:22:17 My dad came out gay
00:27:57 People pleaser
00:31:23 Feeling of inadequacy
00:34:09 Authentic you
00:38:00 Foundation of freedom in therapy
00:40:27 Learning from being wrong
00:41:41 Programming of a man
00:43:11 Curated version of yourself in social media
00:46:18 Life is temporary
00:51:24 Being gay in the 50s, 60s
00:56:33 Channeling emotions
00:58:50 Getting into MTV
01:08:25 Life After MTV
01:11:05 Being confident
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❤️ Wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Damien_Fahey
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Your Freedom is In You with Robert Althuis - Episode 276
Episode 276 is about soul searching.
We are not humans experiencing life for ourselves; we are eternal spirits living a human experience. Robert Althuis, author of “Never Enough It's: Getting What Money Can't Buy”, shares his own experience that money is just one part of success. As a child, he had all the trimmings: money, houses and cars too but something felt amiss. There was a deep-rooted emptiness inside him waiting to be filled. He discovered that what matters most is what satisfies our souls—those intangible things that make us feel alive from within. Soul, the core of our existence. If we don't nourish the soul, nothing is gonna happen to us. We don't know our purpose and our calling. Join us in this enlightening episode as Robert expands on this topic.
Do you want to find your sole purpose? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:06:15 Robert's Story
00:10:11 Bankrupted my soul
00:12:56 Dealing with Anger and Resentment
00:14:37 Trying to prove myself to my father
00:16:11 Parents instill beliefs
00:20:34 Dad Work
00:23:08 The color of the fishbowl we are swimming in
00:23:53 When I get to that level, ill be happy
00:24:21 Moving the goal post
00:24:57 The happiness never comes in that mode
00:27:20 Numbing the pain inside
00:33:25 Getting lost in doing
00:33:50 Transmuting the pain
00:41:39 Going through the dark periods
00:44:39 You don't have to carry the guilt and shame from past
00:47:25 Creating change inside of you by separating
00:48:06 We aren't the mind or body, only the soul
00:49:07 Giving away mental real estate
00:53:17 Duality vs Polarity
00:55:41 The same we are playing here
00:58:35 The role of competition
01:01:02 Finding the love for the game
01:03:01 Finding our unique gifts
01:05:07 Believing in yourself and your dreams
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-althuis-ceo-coach-life-coach-conscious-capitalism/
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📚Book: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Enoughitis-Success-Emptiness-Overcoming/dp/1544518056
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Discovering Your Purpose with Dr. Eric Holsapple - Episode 275
Society tells us that happiness requires material possessions: a car, house, money.
But in reality, you can be happy without those things. It's about the journey rather than the destination. Dr. Eric Holsapple learned this lesson after he chased what he thought would make him fulfilled - only to find himself lost and without purpose.
But after some time had passed, he discovered himself. He realized what his purpose was - to serve the people of this world and give back to the communities. His goal is to change the world by helping everyone who needs it. It's almost like a ripple effect; when you help one person, they'll go on and do things for others too, making it a better place for us all.
Do you want to find your purpose? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:06:51 Eric's Story
00:11:35 Money is the result of your purpose being fulfilled
00:19:21 Life is like a baseball game
00:20:51 Relationships are most important
00:22:37 Running from intimacy
00:25:13 Yoga woke me up
00:28:13 Being rewarded by the system
00:28:28 BE DO HAVE
00:31:52 The procession effect
00:34:05 Community contribution
00:37:42 Affluence vs influence
00:38:18 Givers vs takers
00:40:41 Giving is the basis of influence
00:42:42 How do i move the needle in my community
00:49:13 Finding your purpose - inner and outer
00:51:54 Overcoming self sabotage
00:53:41 Habits supporting a commitment
00:54:24 Face your fears and own your commitments
00:57:25 What is the right amount of money
01:04:36 Livinginthegap.org
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Behavior Modification Isn't True Transformation with Rob Lohman - Episode 274
Episode 274 is about getting over your addiction.
Some addictive behaviors are harmless, but for the most part they're destructive. How can you break free from these patterns? Rob Lohman, previously an alcoholic and now turned to a great coach on addiction, deals with this topic. He explains this in his upcoming book Addiction Intervention.
Did you know that addiction is hereditary? Epigenetics has everything to do with it. Just because you feel there's something wrong with you, doesn't mean there actually is! What really matters most, though, is how we respond to our addictions; how they are transformed within us.
Do you want to overcome addiction? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to break these patterns. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:05:12 Rob's Story
00:08:11 Digging Deeper
00:08:54 Epigenetics
00:12:15 Is substance abuse genetic
00:16:01 Other people's agendas
00:18:30 Not about behavior modification its about transformation
00:21:25 How do you let go of something you know you need to
00:22:52 Aren't you tired of playing the game
00:24:10 Identity
00:24:40 Identity trying to please everyone else- people pleaser
00:27:10 Arguments against genetics and substance
00:28:07 Talking to kids about substance
00:29:41 Triggers - pushing the goal post back
00:30:26 Sober sections
00:32:43 High functioning victim
00:33:36 Treatment didn't work for me
00:37:20 Trauma - how to pinpoint what's at stake
00:38:07 Trauma and the stories
00:46:04 Evidence vs emotion
00:50:02 Being on purpose and doing the work
00:53:51 I'm the steward of the movement
00:54:32 Bringing others into your movement
00:57:14 It's not about quitting it's about evolving your behavior
01:00:34 The ever moving goal post
01:01:10 Ghost ending on the trail, setting unrealistic expectations
01:01:49 What's driving the addiction
01:05:59 Sharing authentically the bandaged cut not the open wound
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#addiction
#change
#transformation
Alignment is the Only Assignment with Eric Bigger - Episode 273
Episode 273 is about trusting your intuition.
Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear. Eric Bigger—former superstar from the 13th season of The Bachelorette and entrepreneur turned coach—got over his fear to pursue what he wanted. As a child, Eric was observant; he didn't follow in the footsteps of his drug-dealing, absentee father. Instead, Eric listened to his intuition which guided him towards a more successful life. He started reading books, watching podcasts, attending masterminds and buying courses. In this episode, Eric will share how to tap into your intuition for success!
Do you want to overcome fear? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to conquer your fears. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:06:07 Motivation has always been my anchor
00:08:58 How did you escape being a byproduct of a negative environment
00:09:27 The power of a great mentor
00:10:12 I was never a follower
00:11:05 People pleaser mentality
00:14:36 Constant curiosity of what else was possible
00:15:45 Don't get off my alignment and onto someone else assignment
00:17:09 How do you trust your intuition w/o evidence?
00:19:36 The world programs us to gather all the facts
00:20:02 How does someone tap into the intuition
00:23:56 You will never have certainty in uncertainty
00:26:21 Fear of pain in the present not greater than fear of regret in the future
00:29:24 If you don't follow your idea you are failing yourself
00:29:44 Pouring into yourself
00:35:15 How did you calibrate the down cycles
00:37:28 The way I get help is I take action
00:38:30 How to discipline yourself to have fun
00:41:02 Choosing your inner circle
00:44:25 Who are you without your exterior self
00:46:55 When you eliminate the things that are affecting you and why, your ideal life is there
00:50:29 I know who I am
00:52:35 Having integrity when no one is watching
00:53:06 Getting negative people out of the way
00:53:45 Acknowledging when you are wrong
00:54:21 You don't want to die with regrets
00:56:35 Its miracle season
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrichman/
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Beginning the Journey to Actually Living On Purpose with David Richman - Episode 272
Episode 272 is about connecting with yourself.
When we look at the mirror, what do we see? David Richman found out who he really was—a man who used to be overweight and chain-smoke until his eventual transformation back into himself. He grew up with a mother hating him, despite everything he did to love her. He used this as a motivation to become a better version of himself. When he looked at his reflection in the mirror, one day and asked Who am I?—his entire life changed.
He never trained for an IronMan Triathlon, but instead just went ahead and did it. Same with quitting smoking cold turkey. He rode his bicycle nearly 5 thousand miles across the US - all while telling stories about his journey through this best-selling book called Cycle of Lives, which has given hope to thousands of people who were struggling with mental illness and trauma. This is one ‘pedal to the metal’ episode that will inspire you.
We all go through cycles in life. Do you feel like you're lost and don't know your whole identity? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:05:07 David's Story
00:07:48 A mom that didnt love me
00:09:47 How to rekindle my relationship with my mom
00:14:20 Writing a letter to someone you want to forgive
00:15:15 I am a 10,000 piece puzzle with a couple of pieces missing
00:23:48 How did you shed the old ways and start becoming who you are today?
00:24:08 Mirror work
00:25:54 1st ironman triathlon - setting my sights high
00:26:20 Starting a journey to actually start living
00:27:50 The guy in the mirror opinion was finally more important than anyone elses
00:29:47 No once cares what you are doing, no one is watching
00:35:12 If you quit, no one cares but you will
00:38:43 True freedom is when you matter to you
00:40:21 My 3 step process - mirror work, forgive myself, what can i learn
00:41:48 Mastermind self talk
00:44:00 Everything is a learning exercise
00:45:12 You have to know when to give up
00:46:59 Set your goals based on what's at stake
00:49:56 I set goal based on I thought about me
00:50:44 Biking 5000 miles across america
00:53:05 How to talk to people about heavy emotional stuff
00:55:02 How the participants were affected by the deep level of emotional conversations
00:56:55 Understanding people traumas from childhood and why its difficult
00:59:44 You never know what someone is dealing with or what they have gone through
01:01:27 Take a minute to understand someone at a deeper level
01:05:53 Have the deep conversations are easier when you are connected with you
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrichman/
✉ Website: https://david-richman.com/
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Seeing the Blessings in Disguise with Christian Elliott - Episode 271
Episode 271 is about finding the blessing.
There are moments when we think things will always go our way. But suddenly, BOOM! they're gone. In one instance, Christian Elliott had it all—a successful business and money in the bank too. Problems arose and his company went bankrupt. He didn't let his loss become too much for him. Rather than relying solely on prayer or waiting for miracles to occur— he did something about it. And along the way, he found himself.
Starting with a clean slate, everything was perfect. His wife supported him; his children inspired him. He listened to podcasts and read books—anything to improve himself. And then it suddenly clicked: he had figured out what was wrong, but now wasn't the time for celebrating. There were still plenty of hurdles ahead on this lifelong path toward being a better version of himself.
This can be your story too. This episode is where we prove that anybody can turn their life around and find a better version.
Especially if you feel like you are stuck in a rut. Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to cope in times of trouble. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:06:29 Christian's story
00:07:47 What is it I am supposed to be learning in this season of my life
00:10:20 Facing bankruptcy and shutting down the business
00:10:44 Clean slate moment
00:13:12 Scaling the business
00:17:26 Slowing down
00:19:52 Learning the skills I didn't know i needed
00:21:28 Facing down the next challenges
00:27:55 Ian description of extreme ownership
00:36:37 The benefits of clean slate
00:37:15 Ian dialogue about regret now vs future
00:39:25 The goal post kept getting moved
00:40:17 Personal development strategy
00:44:44 Removing distraction and being present
00:45:41 The value of mentorship
00:48:44 How can I add value to others from this situation
00:51:28 Being intentional with my learning
00:55:16 My song isn't over
00:55:51 Going through life fascinated vs frustrated
00:56:46 A spouses trust
00:58:38 You reap what you sow
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/truechristianelliot/
📖 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/truehealthandwholeness/
✉ Website: https://www.truewholehuman.com/?r_done=1
📚 Course: https://www.healthtransformationtype.com/sf/6cdb5758
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Transforming Grief, Finding Purpose with Phil Cohen - Episode 270
Episode 270 is about dealing with grief.
Sometimes life isn't all about rainbows and butterflies. We are faced with tragedy. Phil Cohen lost his 14-year-old son in an accident. His son went on a ferry trip and a storm came by and they never came back. The coast guards searched for 7 days, still, no bodies were found. Those 7 days were grueling to Phil, he was in the storm with him during those 7 days.
Griefing is a difficult process. We don't know how or what to feel. We get lost on what to do. Phil, after a long time healed. He heard his son's voice telling him to let go and live his life and that's what he did. You all know what they say, when you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about. Are you prepared for the storms you are about to encounter? Watch this episode now.
Struggling with grief? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to deal with the grief that will transform a better you. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:05:55 Phil's professional identity
00:11:42 Back Story
00:19:14 My life changed in a moment
00:23:18 The process I went through
00:30:07 The 5 stages of grief
00:31:00 The other things i experienced
00:33:09 Why is a reasonable question for a reason
00:37:45 What it changed it all
00:39:08 My son wouldn't want me like this
00:40:52 Where your focus goes your energy flows
00:41:57 How I started to heal
00:43:36 Healing does not mean forgetting
00:43:53 The feelings are mostly selfish
00:48:50 Questioning my future
00:49:41 Every obstacle is an opportunity to practice a virtue
00:51:29 I made a decision to face my point not run from it
00:54:06 Buffalo and cow story
00:56:11 I found myself in tragedy
00:58:16 The pain of therapy
01:03:19 Higher power guided to a higher purpose
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cohenphil/
✉ Website: https://www.philcohen.com/
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ABRACADABRA: With These Words I Create My Life with Mark England - Episode 269
Episode 269 is all about not being a victim.
Abracadabra. We all know this word as 'magic' but in Aramaic, it means 'with my word I create or with my word I influence'. By Webster's definition of a spell is a word or a combination of words of great influence. Basically, we’re talking magic. Mark England, who is a beast of a coach, entrepreneur, TEDx speaker, you name it, the whole 9 yards shares his experiences on how we can tweak our words and stories to change the narrative in our minds thus changing our actions, perspective and self-talk.
According to the Bible in the beginning was the word. What we say or speak to others and ourselves affects us mentally and emotionally. The story you tell yourself is how your life goes. The formula is simple, you tweak the words, you tweak your attitude, you tweak your attitude, and your whole life changes. BOOM! So pack your shit up, cause we're going in for a ride. Don't miss this badass episode and learn the importance and power of words.
Self Talk = Self Care. Our Men on Purpose community can help you with positive affirmations that will help you with your overall well-being. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:06:33 Mark's Story
00:07:22 Meaning of Abracadabra
00:12:55 Continuing Mark's Story
00:14:37 Falling in love 2x
00:15:25 Victim Mentality
00:17:24 Moved to Thailand
00:19:04 Atellaphobia: The Fear of not being good enough
00:21:28 Its the meaning we give
00:23:56 The victim mentality definition
00:24:25 Shifting self talk
00:24:54 Becoming the loser you were afraid of being
00:25:20 A great poop changed my life
00:31:01 Emotional detox
00:37:59 Power statements we run our life by
00:39:54 Mark's power statement and fear
00:42:25 The importance of words
00:44:04 Your life is the result of the stories you tell yourself
00:45:22 You won't find opinions in science
00:45:48 Definition of a spell
00:47:34 Reticular Activation System
00:51:34 What words to you more and less of
00:56:37 Language games
01:05:57 Your life is a formula
01:12:53 The story you tell is how your life goes
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❤️Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enliftedcoaches/
✉ Website: https://enlifted.me/
🎧 Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-enlifted/id1611959870
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#selftalk
Navy Seal Confessions from the Heart with Diego Ugalde Episode 268
Episode 268 is about finding our truest selves.
War is dangerous. It's chaotic. But do you know what's even worse? A war with yourself. Diego Ugalde is a former navy seal and now an entrepreneur. Becoming a navy seal is not a walk in the park. You have to go through hell in order to pass. He started his training but ended up being a paramedic. Being gripped by his shame, he used it as a motivation to go back and shoot his shot again. BANG! He got in and became a successful navy seal.
Life is all good and suddenly we hit a wall. Diego seems to have avoid inside him, he felt something was missing. He was unfulfilled.
And luckily, he found the answer through Mother Nature, psychedelics. Psychedelics are not like any other drug, it connects you to the source. Taking it will get you into an ego-death state that will connect you to your highest self. Introspect with us and dig deep into this episode. Much like training like an elite navy seal. Our Men on Purpose community can help you bring your A-game everyday. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps:
00:03:15 Biz grows to the extent that you do
00:04:17 Being unfulfilled
00:06:05 Being hard wired to go - how to slow down
00:08:05 Laden with failure
00:10:13 How not to let the external environment affect your internal self
00:11:24 The power of psychedelics in personal growth
00:14:07 Dealing with identity and finding yourself
00:19:02 Connecting to your deepest self
00:19:51 Level of fear
00:24:06 Power of plant medicine
00:37:59 Epigenetics
00:45:54 What good can you do for the world
00:47:15 Failure as a seal - I became a seal out of shame
00:55:38 Processing shame
00:59:04 Pushing yourself through self imposed limitations in the flow state
01:03:54 Accessing the flow state
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diegougalde/
✉ Website: https://thetridentapproach.com/
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I Earned a Phd in Mistakes with Bew White - Episode 267
Episode 262 is about learning from our mistakes.
Getting a PhD is hard but getting a PhD in life is even harder. Bew White is one of these people who earned their PhD of Life. He quit his family business to start his own, he worked an insane amount of hours when he was just getting started and he even got into a huge problem why all of this was happening. He wrote all his experiences in his book Summer Classic.
Learning from our mistakes is what makes us. It's either you get stuck or you move forward. Sometimes we are alone and sometimes there are people who help us but at the end of the day, it is you who will help you get back up and running. Doesn't matter what pace, as long as you're on the go. Having faith and trust in yourself is what Bew talks about in this episode.
Want to learn how to fall 7 times and get up 8? Our Men on Purpose community can help you rise from a fall. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:04:57 Leaving the family business
00:08:47 I earned a Phd in mistakes to the tune of 30m
00:11:57 What led up to the decision to leave the family business
00:14:08 Regret
00:16:32 Wifes support/partner or support group
00:17:10 Working through failures
00:24:27 Did it hurt or strengthen your marriage
00:28:39 Family meetings with kids
00:39:42 What does success mean to you
00:40:25 6 traits of an entrepreneur
00:51:51 Thinking i was going to die brought clarity to life
00:54:39 Faith and trust
Connect with Guest:
❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bew-white-a58a371b/
✉ Website: https://www.summerclassicshome.com/bew-white
📖Book: https://www.amazon.com/Summer-Classic-Bew-White-Story/dp/1939358299
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#mistakes
#lessons
#business
Confessions of a Tech Entrepreneur with Brian Weaver - Episode 266
Episode 266 is about becoming an entrepreneur
In today’s episode our guest Brian Weaver shares lessons about taking chances , betting on yourself, and becoming an entrepreneur. At the age of 14, Brian was angry because he couldn’t do anything except mow lawns. When he turned 26, he was fired from his job and decided to start his own company by buying the company from which he got fired from. Fast forward to today, he’s the founder and CEO of Torch. AI, a sophisticated and well trusted AI platform.
Are you thinking about taking control of your life and becoming an entrepreneur? What challenges do you foresee as you imagine quitting your job and being on your own? Brian shares his journey with us and helps us see a clearer picture of how to get started and what it takes to become an entrepreneur.
Quick Timestamps
00:04:51 What's an entrepreneur/founder
00:06:35 How to know if you have what it takes
00:07:00 The sickness of entrepreneurship
00:08:31 Where I started understanding success
00:09:26 Creating space for others is leadership
00:10:02 Building a team
00:13:25 Introvert vs extrovert leader
00:14:15 Failures are the bricks that are building your house
00:14:46 Athletic performance and business optimization
00:17:19 How to get started
00:18:26 Listening vs hearing
00:21:47 Dealing with fomo
00:23:47 Taking chances on ideas
00:25:11 Intrapreneur vs entrepreneur
00:26:15 Understanding the economic model
00:31:33Now vs future planning
00:33:35 Spousal support and its importance
00:36:05 Dealing with distraction
00:36:33 Investing in the relationship/marriage
00:39:16 Focus on the client's experience vs the money. It's all about them, not about you
00:43:41 The importance of coaching, mentorship and advisors
00:45:19 Be curious and of service
00:49:46 Introvert leader
00:52:51 What's the worst that can happen mentality
00:54:20 Trust the universe
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/briangweaver/
✉ Website: https://torch.ai/
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#entrepreneurship
#leader
#notaboutyou
Leaving The Security of a Paycheck with Glenn Lobas - Episode 265
Episode 265 is about leaving the security of a paycheck
In this episode, Ian’s father is back to impart to us his entrepreneurial wisdom talking about his fears and ways he was able to get over leaving the security of a paycheck”. Today he talks about his journey, and how he was able to develop the confidence to quit his job and start his own business. Do you one day dream of being able to quit your job and work on your own terms but fear the unknown? What steps can you take to develop courage and finally take the leap from working a nine to five to achieving independence and success? This episode is full of useful information. Check it out to know more at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
07:32 - Glenn’s childhood fascination
09:00 - Building confidence
12:15 - What motivates you to leave the security of a paycheck
15:25 - Odds stacked against you
23:00 - Maintaining Momentum
25:45 - Practicing patience
27:25 - The satisfaction doesn't come from the money
33:30 - It's not failure, it's a journey
35:00 - The power of mentorship and coaching
36:20 - Positive mindset
43:45 - Keeping fear at bay
51:00 - No matter what, you must believe in yourself
53:00 - Find your niche
59:00 - Steps to plan your ideal life
01:00:00 - How to get out of the box
01:03:30 - Avoid social fears
01:06:30 - Set a timeframe to work within
01:11:00 - Having courage and fortitude
01:11:20 - What's really holding you back
01:13:00 - How do you react to things that trigger you
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#paycheck
#security
#quitting
Is Death the Greatest Teacher? Life Lessons from a Funeral Home Owner with Chris Meyer - Episode 264
Episode 264 is about lessons of death
Chris Meyer has a unique life story. He thought he was going to be a lawyer but then he found something that threw him off: an unexpected career path. He quit the law firm to pursue his passion for the funeral business and learned more about life than he could ever have imagined. As a funeral director, the lessons he learned are way beyond compared to what he learned at law school. He shares these experiences in a book he wrote called 'Life In 20 Lessons'.
'Memento Mori', a philosophical saying that translates to 'remember death'. Our time is finite here on earth and it is also the greatest commodity. So what are you doing with your time? Are you learning from your failures, are you spending time with your loved ones? Chris elaborates how we can be brave and face life when the time is ticking. As a famous roman-emperor said "Death smiles at all, all a man can do is smile back." Don't miss this jarring episode and watch now at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:02:15 Chris' Story
00:04:27 Failed the bar, mom encouraged to appeal
00:07:14 Staying focused
00:08:04 Kids are the turning point
00:09:48 Dad as inspiration
00:12:26 Facing your financial fears
00:13:29 You are going to work for your whole life, might as well love it
00:14:36 Failures are the bricks that are building your house
00:16:02 Comparing yourself to others
00:17:43 A valuable piece of paper
00:25:26 Teaching children kindness and empathy
00:27:01 Are you replaceable
00:29:21 Whos will be there at your deathbed
00:31:15 The most valuable thing in life is time
00:33:18 Burial vs cremation
00:36:53 What is legacy
00:40:29 We are all equal in death
00:44:42 Lessons from a funeral home
00:46:55 What happens after failure?
00:54:35 How do you not internalize emotions of exterior situations?
01:05:18 Seasons of life
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-meyer-6a5545124/
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📖Book: https://www.amazon.com/Life-20-Lessons-Funeral-Discovered-ebook/dp/B07WK83276
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#death
#brave
#empathy
Side Hustle to Successful Second Career with Sergio Altomare - Episode 263
Episode 262 is about the law of attraction.
Sergio Altomare is an ambitious entrepreneur who understands that working smart is the key to success. As a kid, Sergio knew what it meant to work hard and be successful. He has used this early knowledge to create his own business to become one of the most prominent entrepreneurs in the country today.
How do you become successful? It's all about knowing your vision. We live in a vibrational world, and the law of attraction is at work all around us. He believes in the power of a positive attitude and tuning in to the right frequencies to attract what you want in life. In this episode, Sergio will teach us the power of thought and how to utilize it.
Have you ever wondered how to awaken your potential? Do you know how to find the right vibration to attract it? Our Men on Purpose community can help you tune in those frequencies and awaken that deep potential within. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:03:14 Sergio's Story
00:05:15 Where am I living now
00:08:27 Working hard at school
00:10:21 ADD advantage
00:13:14 What do you wish your dad would have asked you
00:16:04 Angry with my father
00:19:31 I wish my parents knew themselves
00:20:44 Living in the past
00:24:47 Being present in personal and professional life
00:30:46 How do I make more impact
00:33:43 Wasting time and how to avoid it
00:34:48 How do you choose what to spend your time on
00:37:09 How do you build habits that are serving of your vision
00:40:46 Understanding the 5 Fs
00:42:07 Bring intentional with your life
00:44:18 Modeling and finding a mentor
00:50:12 Power of belief
00:57:41 Secrets to working with your spouse
01:07:52 Self storage benefits
01:15:04 No such thing as a perfect life
Connecting with the Guest:
Website: https://hfireholdings.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sergio-altomare-7823294/
Biggerpockets: https://www.biggerpockets.com/blog/contributors/sergioa
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#frequencies
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#self