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Conversations Cave Podcast.

Conversations Cave Podcast.

By Kanotha Gatua

“Just because no one else can heal or do your inner work for you, doesn’t mean you can, should, or need to do it alone.”

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THE CONVERSATION.... HABITS

Conversations Cave Podcast.May 30, 2023

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THE CONVERSATION.... HABITS

THE CONVERSATION.... HABITS

“It’s the small habits. How you spend your mornings. How you talk to yourself. What you read. What you watch. Who you share your energy with. Who has access to you. That will change your life.”
May 30, 202325:24
THE CONVERSATION.... FEELINGS

THE CONVERSATION.... FEELINGS

“There’s no ‘should’ or ‘should not’ when it comes to having feelings. They’re part of who we are and their origins are beyond our control. When we can believe that, we may find it easier to make constructive choices about what to do with those feelings.”
May 26, 202329:07
THE CONVERSATION....RECOVERY

THE CONVERSATION....RECOVERY

[Mental health] recovery is not the same as a cure. Recovery means being able to create and live a meaningful life and contribute to your community, with or without mental health issues. Recovery is about all of your life, not just your symptoms. It involves: finding hope, and developing self-esteem and resilience; having a sense of purpose and meaning in your life; building healthy relationships; [and] gaining independence.”
May 23, 202325:08
THE CONVERSATION..... GRIEF

THE CONVERSATION..... GRIEF

“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, of unspeakable love.”
May 18, 202322:26
THE CONVERSATION.... OPINIONS!!

THE CONVERSATION.... OPINIONS!!

Opinions. Everybody’s got one, and a lot of people think that their’s are the only ones that matter! Which is fine, and each to their own, however there’s a huge difference between constructive opinions vs. destructive opinions; today, I’m going to be focusing on the negative effects of destructive opinions alongside the positive effects of constructive opinions.
May 11, 202319:22
THE CONVERSATION.....REGRETS

THE CONVERSATION.....REGRETS

regrets will eat away at you if you let them, but they serve no useful purpose other than to show us what to do differently in the future. You cannot change the past, only learn from it. If you made a mistake: learn the lesson you need to learn, put things right and forgive yourself… then get on with living your life, one day at a time and with your eyes forward, instead of constantly looking back over your shoulder. Treat yourself with kindness and compassion, and choose to live a life where you reject regrets and, instead, embrace personal growth.
May 09, 202323:02
THE CONVERSATION....FEAR!

THE CONVERSATION....FEAR!

Fear. It’s one of the most basic survival instincts we have – it’s what helped our ancestors to know when it was time to run so they wouldn’t be eaten by a sabre-tooth tiger or one of the other thousands of giant things that were trying to have them for dinner. As our lifestyles have evolved over the centuries and millennia, we’ve moved beyond the need to be constantly ‘on alert’ in order to survive, however for a lot of us that instinct – the ‘fight, flight or freeze’ response – can be over-active, or it can be hard to push through it so that we can do things that challenge us. Today we’re going to discuss how to get past fear so you can live your life to the fullest.
May 04, 202325:10
THE CONVERSATION....SELF - TALK

THE CONVERSATION....SELF - TALK

We all have that little voice inside our head that tells us when we’re doing well or where we might need to do better. But when that voice becomes overly critical and belligerent, you need to remember that you don’t have to put up with that crap – take control and stop giving that voice power. Good mental health takes daily effort, and if you’ve had difficulties with negative self-talk then know that it is absolutely possible to turn it around with continued practice, and taking it one day at a time.
May 03, 202320:49
THE CONVERSATION……STRESS!!!!

THE CONVERSATION……STRESS!!!!

When stress gets out of control, however, and you feel constantly nervous or on edge, then it can be utterly exhausting, and if it goes on for more than just a few days then it can cause long-term damage to both your mental and your physical health. That’s why dealing with stress is so important because it’s bad for your health and there is absolutely no sugarcoating that fact, so let’s be clear – too much stress can kill you.

Feb 09, 202322:18
THE CONVERSATION……BAGGAGE

THE CONVERSATION……BAGGAGE

This week we’re talking about baggage – what emotional baggage is, why we can sometimes become weighed down by unresolved stuff from our past, and how to work through it so you’re not carrying it around for the rest of your life. So, let’s talk!

Let me just take a moment here to say what ‘dealing with baggage’ isn’t about. It isn’t about just sucking it up or getting over it. It isn’t just about saying “it is what it is” and thinking that you’re all done with your baggage. And it’s not something that you just do once and tick off your list – it’s a journey, not just a destination. And yes that’s a cliché and no I don’t care, because every cliché is grounded in truth and has something to teach us.

Feb 02, 202331:44
THE CONVERSATION….SELF CARE

THE CONVERSATION….SELF CARE

What things do you do every day to look after your physical, mental and spiritual health? What do you do to relax? And what things do you do to relax that might not be in your best interests? We all have control over what we do every day to look after our health and wellbeing, and it’s the choices we make and how highly we value the need for self-care that can determine what happens next in our life. Today I’m going to be talking about what self-care is (and isn’t), what effective self-care looks and feels like, why self-care plays such an important role in our lives, and some of the things you can do every day to maintain or improve your mental health and wellbeing.

Jan 31, 202322:21
THE CONVERSATION.......TAKING CHANCES

THE CONVERSATION.......TAKING CHANCES

Have you ever wanted to do something you were passionate about but haven’t because something has held you back? This week’s episode is all about taking chances – what holds us back, the difference between a calculated risk and a regular risk, as well as how (and why) to push through and take more calculated risks in life.

Jan 24, 202317:28
THE CONVERSATION....OVERTHINKING

THE CONVERSATION....OVERTHINKING

Serious over-thinking is different to an ear-worm though: at its worst, it goes round and round (like a record – sorry, I had to!) in your mind and it can distract you from rational thought which moves you forward. That’s what we’re talking about this week: why it happens, and what to do about it.

Jan 17, 202318:20
THE CONVERSATION.... PRIORITIES

THE CONVERSATION.... PRIORITIES

What are your priorities?.....What's really important to you?.....What kind of a person do you want to be?....Let's talk about getting our priorities in order which is an essential part of good mental health and wellbeing.
Sep 16, 202218:56
THE CONVERSATION:- MISTAKES.

THE CONVERSATION:- MISTAKES.

Mistakes are never easy to contemplate or deal with, especially in our society where PERFECTION is seen as an ideal to strive towards with,but they're an unavoidable part of life because LIFE ISN'T PERFECT....Let's talk about using our mistakes as a learning opportunity that can actually be a positive thing for our mental health and wellbeing,and how to be OKAY with making mistakes when they inevitably happens.
Aug 25, 202219:32
THE CONVERSATION:- RESETTING.

THE CONVERSATION:- RESETTING.

This is Episode 4 and I’m talking about RESETTING.– making a conscious decision to take control if there’s some aspect of your life that is making you feel miserable. Let’s talk!: So, let’s talk all about it!
Aug 23, 202216:26
Let's Talk Self Awareness.

Let's Talk Self Awareness.

Welcome to Conversations Cave Podcast, the weekly podcast full of simple ideas for better mental health by Kanotha Gatua. Each episode focuses on practical and simple things that you can do every single day to improve and maintain your mental health and wellbeing, based on quality research.

This is Episode 3 and this week I’m talking about self-awareness. I’ll be discussing what self-awareness is, why it matters and, most importantly, how to become more self-aware every day. So, let’s talk all about it!

Jul 18, 202228:38
Faith And Mental Health:A Christian Response.

Faith And Mental Health:A Christian Response.

Does mental health matter within the kingdom of God?This episode seeks to briefly explore the nature of the relationship between contemporary concerns about mental health and the mission, ministry and teaching of Jesus about the kingdom of God within the synoptic Gospels.
Aug 13, 202128:08
Mental Health Check: Mental Health at Work.

Mental Health Check: Mental Health at Work.

We all have times when life gets on top of us-sometimes that's work-related,like deadline or travel.Its vital that we protect the value of the productivity at work by addressing Mental Health at work for those with existing issues,for those at risk and for the workforce as a whole.A TOXIC WORK ENVIRONMENT CAN BE CORROSIVE TO OUR MENTAL HEALTH.
Aug 09, 202115:47
Messy

Messy

Just Ride Along 😊
Aug 04, 202101:03