The His & His Show

Why didn’t they just go to Canada? Our Queen & Slim Movie Review. It’s Week 3 of self quarantine for your favorite podcasting couple coming to you from Thailand. 

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In light of recent adjustments we’re all having to take globally, we take a few moments to check in and offer  suggestions for other couples "living" in close proximity for the next 'however-long-we’re-in-this'.   Please subscribe and share with your friends. If you haven’t yet, check out our other videos, comment with your feedback, and like!!!  #NoseyNeighbors #THHS #RobAndSijay  Leave us a voice message: 1-347-499-5959  https://www.instagram.com/thehisandhisshow/  AMAZING | https://open.spotify.com/track/0naqtc2pkBX5gV7uZinw7U

3:50 Open relationships: You asked for it, and it just so happens we watched a film on it. While the world is practically on lockdown because of Covid19, we're both working from home in our 600 sq.ft.  2Bdrm in CBD/Bangkok condo.  34:50 We touch on adjusting to life inside and around one another for 24 hours basically.  Subscribe you #NoseyNeighbor!!   Leave us a voice message: 1-347-499-5959  https://www.instagram.com/thehisandhisshow/  Open (TV Movie 2020) | https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11808450/  AMAZING | https://open.spotify.com/track/0naqtc2pkBX5gV7uZinw7U

Take a trip down memory lane with Rob & SiJay as we recall our wedding day 2 years ago. 12:20 A much needed getaway.  15:43 Who said "I love you" first? 20:05 "How did you know you loved me?" 22:50 Who proposed to whom and how did we pick the date? 24:50 Some ish to think about before you get married. 34:53 What have we learned/what's changed in the 2 years of being married? 41:45 Rob's answer. 49:40 "Why Y'all don't have rings?" 56:24 How to pimp my low budget a$& ceremony 58:18 one piece of advice to newlyweds  https://open.spotify.com/track/0naqtc2pkBX5gV7uZinw7U Subscribe you #NoseyNeighbor!!   Leave us a voice message: 1-347-499-5959  https://www.instagram.com/thehisandhisshow/  #NoseyNeighbors #THHS #RobAndSiJay

What’s your love language? Are you a giver or a receiver? Do you prefer positive affirmations or quality time?   In this episode we discuss our love languages and how that influences how we love and how we expect to be loved.

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ITE: the misconception that people often have with long term relationships and share our experience from couples therapy while giving you some tips on how to navigate the tough times in your relationship   Subscribe you #NoseyNeighbor!!   Leave us a voice message: 1-347-499-5959  https://www.instagram.com/thehisandhisshow/

ITE: The Phobic comments of Bastard Troy towards Lil Nas X and how his 2 Grammy wins 01:01 How a toxic upbringing  affects your child  09:19  The problems we face within “the community”  29:42 Suicide rates among shamed youth and adults  39:40  We highlight a few LGBTQ Black History Icons 46:12

ITE: the misconception that people often have with long term relationships and share our experience from couples therapy while giving you some tips on how to navigate the tough times in your relationship   Subscribe you #NoseyNeighbor!!   Leave us a voice message: 1-347-499-5959  https://www.instagram.com/thehisandhisshow/

ITE: we discuss SiJay’s Depression and how it’s affected us both in our relationship.  We explore the ways to be there and help your partner when they aren’t feeling their best. Rob gives his perspective and how it’s shaped the way he expresses his concern.      Subscribe you #NoseyNeighbor!!   Leave us a voice message: 1-347-499-5959  https://www.instagram.com/thehisandhisshow/

In this episode we answer YOUR QUESTIONS!

When did you know you were gay: 04:52

I elaborate more on Support: Strangers | Family 12:00

Did we plan to live a life without Children: 26:29

Virginity Stories: 34:12

Would you rather date someone you Loved vs someone who Loves you 01:05:38

Recalling our First Date: 01:12:13

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In This Episode we discuss Is an EX/Fling/Hook-up, Off limits to your friends? 01:34

why it’s important to communicate what it is you want Clearly 07:14

We discuss the importance of planning your future together 14:04

SiJay’s social anxiety 29:45

Rob’s Why Does it Matter Segment: 46:55

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SiJay Plays a  “Problematic”  video and we discuss our reaction to said views . 01:24 & 11:30

 SiJay shares his experience in white spaces as a black man and clears up his views on interracial relationships. 23:50  

Rob checks his own privilege as a lighter black man in a world that demonizes darker black men. 36:40 

Don’t worry, we pick up the mood. SiJay & Rob recount an outing at a New York club in the earlier stage of their relationship…some hilarious moments. 42:25    

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Episode 3 Up All Night   This episode we discuss A Thot Box VS Thot’s Box, What advice we would give our younger selves at 18, 21, 25, (and 30 for SiJay) In addition to the fashion choices of a drug dealers wife. This episode was rather long so we made it two parts, Episode 4 won't have an intro just as this one doesn't have a closing but you still here and u know what it is lol enjoy it and be sure to subscribe and tell a friend to tell a friend   https://www.instagram.com/thehisandhisshow/

Rated MA for mature audience AKA Grown Folks!  

"Bridges"  In this episode we discuss Rob’s experience in Bangkok, 

Dating options for celebrities, the importance of representation, 

a few random questions through out with fun facts about us as well as Bridges being burned.   

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Welcome to the premier of The His & His Show. A couples podcast about our life and experiences discussed over whisky and music. In this episode we talk about being in a relationship for almost 10 years and what that means.