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The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness

The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness

By The Modern Dandy

The Modern Dandy’s Guide to Manliness. Join Wes, Liam, and guests in a weekly conversation about manliness in the modern era, with perspectives from across backgrounds, generations, and genders. From how to develop a personal style to achieving success in life, love and your chosen career, these frank and often humorous conversations between friends provide an outlook on what it means to be man in today’s world.
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The Definition of Dandyism, with Natty Adams

The Modern Dandy's Guide to ManlinessMay 18, 2020

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The Augmented Man (featuring Mudcat)

The Augmented Man (featuring Mudcat)

From hair dye and teeth whitening through tattoos to cosmetic surgery and body modification, there are a plethora of readily available ways for a man to alter his appearance. Mudcat rejoins Wes and Liam to discuss the motivations, opportunities, and challenges associated with procedures for altering or augmenting your body.

Apr 29, 202401:01:52
Charm, and other magical social skills (with Greg Delaune)

Charm, and other magical social skills (with Greg Delaune)

Charm is an ephemeral concept which can be a potent tool for success in life. However, it's often misunderstood and for some it’s a old-fashioned idea. So has charm, hospitality, and other good manners gone out of style? Or has it simply gone unnoticed?

Apr 15, 202457:27
Accessories, and other Complications

Accessories, and other Complications

Adding accessories to outfits can really boost your style by creating a unique, personalized look. But what are accessories, and how do you choose them? Wes and Liam finally broach a topic they’ve been wanting to discuss since the very origins of the podcast: how accessories fit into your fits.

Apr 01, 202457:24
The Dandies, Re-booted and Re-Suited

The Dandies, Re-booted and Re-Suited

The Dandies are back, and are returning to the original premise of the podcast to discuss topics relevant to the modern man.

Apr 01, 202409:59
The 90's are Cool!
Sep 12, 202201:04:27
Should We Stay or Should We Go

Should We Stay or Should We Go

Liam and Wes are back for a fourth season of The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness!

Join them as they try to make sense of "trending" styles in open toe footwear, regrettable haircuts, and most importantly... should we stay or should we go?  Take the leap and listen in!

Jul 25, 202258:20
Religion, Revisited: with Rebecca Brown

Religion, Revisited: with Rebecca Brown

Why - or perhaps when - is religion important? The Dandies revisit the discussion about religion and the modern man, looking at the importance and merits of having an ethical system and its role in helping navigate the challenges of contemporary life.


Outro Song: Hey Believers by Peter Bradley Adams

Sep 13, 202101:00:25
Dandynomics 101: What the Hell is Going on?

Dandynomics 101: What the Hell is Going on?

Liam and Mudcat discuss some of the main topics in the markets, from GameStop and NFTs to housing and energy.

Jul 19, 202101:17:19
Being Your Authentic Self with guest Dan Ahern

Being Your Authentic Self with guest Dan Ahern

It can be a challenge to be true to your ambitions, creativity, and sense of adventure. Peer groups, media, family and friends can often exert influence on what you wear, do, and pursue. The dandies are joined by Dan Ahern to discuss being your authentic self at any age, so sit back and enjoy a rollicking conversation about  both finding and being your most genuine man.

Jun 28, 202101:05:10
Men and Mental Health
May 10, 202158:10
Becoming an Entrepreneur, with Farrah Boutia
Apr 12, 202149:15
Making the Most of the Pandemic, with Emily Gregg
Mar 22, 202154:24
Welcome Back - Things we're looking forward to

Welcome Back - Things we're looking forward to

Welcome to Season 3 of The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness.  Liam, Wes, Mudcat and Josh welcome each other to 2021 and check in on their sanity as the pandemic continues and share what they look forward to in the months to come.

Mar 01, 202137:26
Who's Your Dandy? - Liam Edition

Who's Your Dandy? - Liam Edition

He's lived on three continents, speaks multiple languages and absolutely does NOT work for the CIA.  Join Wes, Mudcat, Josh and Liam as the Dandy's host the final installment of Season 2 and the last Dandy Origin story "Who's your Dandy?"  In this edition we learn about our favorite Tasmanian, Liam.  His love of the outdoors, people and the cultures of the world.  And ballet!


Outro - Fig Jam by Butterfingers

Jan 11, 202101:10:37
A Disagreement Between Dandies
Jan 04, 202139:41
Farewell 2020
Dec 31, 202017:35
Being a Good Date

Being a Good Date

Going on dates might seem a wistful ambition from the past, but the Dandies feel it's even more relevant now. Wes, Mudcat, Josh and Liam provide their thoughts on why dating is an important Dandy skill, how to be a good date, and why dates are not just for dating.

Nov 09, 202049:42
Bad jokes, dad jokes, and rad jokes

Bad jokes, dad jokes, and rad jokes

Having a sense of humor is an essential element of being a dandy. One of the most famous dandies, Oscar Wilde, was famed for both his scripted humor and  quick cutting wit. We're not even going to aspire to that ... but we do have jokes for days.

Oct 26, 202043:37
Death in the Family

Death in the Family

A death in the family, whether of a parent, sibling, grandparent, or close personal friend is one of the most traumatic experiences someone can face. With the recent death of Liam's mother, the Dandies discuss how they deal with the passing of a close family member or friend.

Oct 12, 202001:10:06
Politics and Participation - A Perspective on Inclusion, with Guest Rebecca Tweed part 2

Politics and Participation - A Perspective on Inclusion, with Guest Rebecca Tweed part 2

Part 2 in our conversation with Rebecca Tweed; Wes, Mudcat, Liam and Rebecca continue to discuss how politics and society today are impacted by the ability (or lack thereof) to listen to each other and hold back preconceived notions and judgement based solely on party lines.

Sep 30, 202039:25
Politics and Participation - A Perspective on Inclusion, with Guest Rebecca Tweed

Politics and Participation - A Perspective on Inclusion, with Guest Rebecca Tweed

In our discussions on religion and politics the Dandies raised the importance of establishing your own credo - the principles you deeply believe. Part of that is respecting and being open to discuss the viewpoints of others, even if they don't necessarily match your own. Wes, Mudcat, and Liam are joined by Rebecca Tweed to discuss how this is playing out in politics and society today.

Sep 21, 202045:55
Make Mine a Veniting: A Dandy Guide to Espresso-ing Frustration

Make Mine a Veniting: A Dandy Guide to Espresso-ing Frustration

Even Dandies need to have an outlet for their foils and frustrations. So when and where is an appropriate time to lose your cool and go large* with your emotions? Josh, Mudcat and Wes discuss the need to venti and its importance in staying otherwise frappe, while Liam tries to take a more philosophical approach. 


* See what we did there?

Aug 31, 202043:38
The Importance of Local Government

The Importance of Local Government

In the face of so many global and national issues, individual contribution to change can seem overwhelming. So how can a Dandy do something to better the world they live in? Join the Dandies, Liam, Josh, Mudcat and Wes as they discuss the role of Local Government and how it impacts the world around you. 

Aug 24, 202051:23
The Importance of Story-Telling

The Importance of Story-Telling

Why is story-telling so important? Communication is so critical in all aspects of modern life, but the simple statement of facts in a chronological order would bore even the most analytical clerical worker.  Join The Modern Dandies Josh, Liam, and Wes as they explore the elements of authentic and effective story-telling in both personal and professional life

Aug 17, 202001:07:40
The Southerners do Breakfast

The Southerners do Breakfast

Mudcat and Liam warmly, if not begrudgingly, invite Wes to join the Southerners in a beloved conversation about breakfast.  What's your starter meal? Sweet? Savory?  How about a healthy pour of Bollinger (not a sponsor... yet) and Eggs Imperial?

Aug 10, 202039:50
The Dandy's on Religion

The Dandy's on Religion

They say there's three topics to never bring up in polite conversation: Politics, Religion, and Money. However what to "they" know, anyway? The Dandies discuss what's shaped their views on religion and how they see it fitting with being a modern man.


Closing Music by Elvis Costello - Peace, Love and Understanding

Aug 03, 202001:01:29
The Modern Dandies Summer Break_Season 2 Part 2

The Modern Dandies Summer Break_Season 2 Part 2

Where have all the Dandies gone?  If you have been missing the Dandies as much as they have missed you, fear not.  Your favorite bespoke conversationalists return AUG 3rd with new episodes.

Jul 20, 202004:47
Who's Your Dandy? - Watchcat Edition - LIVE

Who's Your Dandy? - Watchcat Edition - LIVE

The Modern Dandies first LIVE episode opens with a special Birthday edition of "Who's Your Dandy?"

Join in the fun while Liam, Josh, Mudcat dive into the awkward dating and "odd" style choices of the Birthday Boy himself, Wesley Watchcat!

Jun 01, 202001:08:47
The Modern Dandies Go LIVE - AWA Promo

The Modern Dandies Go LIVE - AWA Promo

Saturday May, 30th at 6pm Eastern the Modern Dandies will have their first LIVE event.

got to themoderndandy.life to get the event link (ONLY accessible from a computer running CHROME browser.  Your phone or tablet will NOT work)

May 26, 202006:55
Do not Adjust Your Mindset, Reality is at Fault

Do not Adjust Your Mindset, Reality is at Fault

Mudcat, Liam and Wes attempt to record a podcast...  They attempt a discussion on appropriately dressing for business and friends on internet events. but then... well...

Sometimes you just have to release an episode because it's scheduled :)

May 25, 202025:01
The Definition of Dandyism, with Natty Adams

The Definition of Dandyism, with Natty Adams

With his two wonderful books on Dandyism, Natty Adams has both captured and refined what it means to be a dandy. Wes, Liam and Josh chat with Natty about how he became fascinated with Dandyism, the creation of his books, and what he sees next in his continuing obsession with elegance. 

(Find Natty’s books, I Am Dandy and We Are Dandy, at good booksellers.)


Natty makes mention of the musical group The Frightnrs - Our closing song is "Gotta Find a Way" from the "Nothing More to Say" album

May 18, 202056:40
Keep Calm and Dandy On - Coping with Isolation and the Pandemic
May 11, 202001:09:28
Hats: Getting Your Head in the Game

Hats: Getting Your Head in the Game

An alternate title was Giving Good Head, but ... no. Matthias, a Modern Dandy listener from Germany, joins Josh, Wes, Mudcat and Liam on a discussion about how hats can set you apart, promote your personal brand, and be practical all at the same time.

May 04, 202040:56
Divorce and Rediscovering Yourself - Part 2 of 2

Divorce and Rediscovering Yourself - Part 2 of 2

A divorce is one of the most life-altering, soul-crushing, confidence-destroying events most men will face. Using it as an opportunity for reflection and re-invention can seem impossible at the time, but every life change is also an opportunity. The Dandies are joined by James to talk about how they each have handled the challenges of divorce and the need to reinvent themselves.

Apr 27, 202037:44
Divorce and Rediscovering Yourself - part 1 of 2

Divorce and Rediscovering Yourself - part 1 of 2

A divorce is one of the most life-altering, soul-crushing, confidence-destroying events most men will face. Using it as an opportunity for reflection and re-invention can seem impossible at the time, but every life change is also an opportunity. The Dandies are joined by James to talk about how they each have handled the challenges of divorce and the need to reinvent themselves.

Apr 20, 202043:16
How to Win a Freak Gasoline Fight

How to Win a Freak Gasoline Fight

If you really, really, really want to be good looking* then it's time to up your accessories game. From rings, bracelets and pendants to pens, watches and cufflinks, a touch of bling can elevate your look and refine your personal style. So why do men wear jewelry, and are there rules? 


(* Yes, this is a tribute to Zoolander. Expect more throughout the episode.)

Apr 13, 202041:19
Avoiding Financial Ruin in the Time of Corona (or any crisis)

Avoiding Financial Ruin in the Time of Corona (or any crisis)

In the immortal words of who-knows, "shit just got real". The stock market has been tanking, unemployment is rising, oil prices have crumbled, and borders are closing. The Dandies chat about their thoughts in making financial and other important life decisions amongst this uncertainty.

Apr 06, 202056:56
Staying Healthy and Sane During Social Distancing
Mar 23, 202049:53
Best Dressed Film Characters Part 2

Best Dressed Film Characters Part 2

We love the cinema, the characters, the action and of course... the costumes!  Join Liam and Wes as they discuss their list of Best Dressed Film Characters in this two part series from The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness.

Anyone to add?  Email us@themoderndandy.life

Part 2 Characters:

- Luther from Luther (Edris Elba)

- Johnny Quid from RocknRolla (Toby Kebbell)

- Morpheus from The Matrix 2 (Laurence Fishburne)


Notable Characters of Teenage Influence:

- Conor MacLeod from Highlander (Christopher Lambert)

- Tyler Durden from Fight Club (Brad Pitt)


Part 1 Characters:

- John Wick from John Wick 2 (Keanu Reeves)

- James Bond from Casino Royale [2006] (Daniel Craig)

- Indiana Jones from Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade (Harrison Ford)

Mar 17, 202044:11
Best Dressed Film Characters Part 1

Best Dressed Film Characters Part 1

We love the cinema, the characters, the action and of course... the costumes!  Join Liam and Wes as they discuss their list of Best Dressed Film Characters in this two part series from The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness.

Anyone to add?  Email us@themoderndandy.life


Part 1 Characters:

- John Wick from John Wick 2 (Keanu Reeves)

- James Bond from Casino Royale [2006] (Daniel Craig)

- Indiana Jones from Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade (Harrison Ford)


Part 2 Characters:

- ?????

Mar 09, 202040:30
PIVOT! (Making a Career)

PIVOT! (Making a Career)

Making a major career change can be equal parts terrifying and exhilarating. Joy joins the Dandies to share her experience of making the transition between two very different industries, and Liam shares a story of his first - and most dramatic - career move.

Mar 02, 202054:52
ARRIVED: with Bethany Wrede

ARRIVED: with Bethany Wrede

Wes and Liam speak with Bethany Wrede, the host of the podcast "ARRIVED: Bringing your A-game home", about what led her to focus on interior design and why she's dedicated her podcast to helping single young men make the first moves in creating unique home spaces for themselves. 

Exclusive offer for listeners of TMDGM podcast – Book a complimentary 60 minute consult and action plan with Bethany

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Feb 24, 202001:00:51
Toxic Masculinity Today

Toxic Masculinity Today

The term "toxic masculinity" frequently comes up in relation to everything from the #metoo movement, the rate of college sexual assaults, to school and mass shootings, Silicon Valley corporate bro-culture, and the socio-political "war on women".  But if that is "toxic masculinity", then what is "healthy masculinity", and how do we achieve it?  How can that contribute to creating a better society?

Feb 17, 202056:50
Cologne, and other Confusing Infusions

Cologne, and other Confusing Infusions

Men's scents, including cologne, aftershave, and deodorants, can be a pretty daunting challenge. So why should a Dandy care, and what goes into choosing, using, and hopefully not abusing the smelly stuff?

Feb 10, 202035:33
The Thrills, Temptations, and Trials of Traveling Abroad

The Thrills, Temptations, and Trials of Traveling Abroad

Traveling abroad is one of the most foundational of experiences. As Mark Twain said, "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness", and thus something the Dandies believe should be pursued. But why can it be so transformational, and what are the ways of doing it well?

Join Mudcat, Liam, Josh and Wes as they begin Season 2 of The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness!

Feb 03, 202054:33
2019 Year End Bonus Episode

2019 Year End Bonus Episode

The Dandies ponder over what song best captures their year and send us off on our journey to 2020

Dec 31, 201913:59
A Life in the Year of the Modern Dandies

A Life in the Year of the Modern Dandies

As the first year of The Modern Dandy's Guide to Manliness draws to a close, the Dandies discuss what they've learned over the past year and what they'd like to achieve in the year ahead

Dec 23, 201901:07:23
Talking Timepieces Part 2 - The Secret Episode

Talking Timepieces Part 2 - The Secret Episode

The Modern Dandies are off on Holiday and wishing you and yours a lovely Thanksgiving.  And for our listeners around the world, Happy Thursday!  So enjoy this unreleased second half of Talking Timepieces with Liam, Wes and our Dandy Guest, Kyle as we discuss complications, beautiful whiskeys and the infamous 1986 Chrysler LeBaron!

Nov 25, 201926:26
Fall Fashion

Fall Fashion

Liam, Josh and Wes fall into their favorite seasonal styles for Autumn.  Learn about balancing your layers for color, pattern and fabric to the delight of all in your general sight line; just don't cuff your chelsea boot!

Nov 04, 201947:44
Who's Your Dandy? Josh Edition

Who's Your Dandy? Josh Edition

Wes leads an exploration of some of the life events and personal experiences of the most thoughtful - and impressively bearded - of the Dandies.
Oct 14, 201947:30