T.A.P. (The Authentic Podcast) I.N. (Intriguing Nerds)
By James Turner
T.A.P. (The Authentic Podcast) I.N. (Intriguing Nerds)Sep 07, 2020
Episode 41 - He's Not Your Friend, He Just Wants to Smash w/Koko Bolo
Episode 40 - Respect, Honesty, & Lying to get the Cheeks w/Cojo (Imani Produced)
Ep 39 - Boss Women Talk w/Mikeal J, Tiffany Ramm, Tiffany Toney, Bobby Bandos and other Boss Queens
Timeline of Episode:
:30 - Intro of ladies 14:23 - Ladies get into their journey here in LA finding themselves, the proper friends and circle. 21:27 - JT gets the ladies to break down their journeys Dating as a Boss Woman and being independent. And do independent black women intimidate men. 35:21 - Toya (ThickFitFitness) asks for the ladies advice on Dating as a 17 year veteran that has her own fitness business without intimidating men. 40:32 - Diana Sabb breaks down Dating as a Wedding Planner whose experienced many marriages thrive and many crumble. 45:30 - The ladies give a refreshing take on their biggest issues when it comes to dating. 52:58 - JT breaks down how women don’t know how to let go of long term relationships because the time they put into it instead of the lack of growth holding both back. 54:25 - JT breaks down while many women unconsciously and consciously ignore the red flags and really love the toxicity he brings because she’s toxic. 55:20 - The ladies break down why women lack accountability in their dating choices and why women fall for men who carry a certain image. 1:00:00 - Bebe breaks down why women don’t even ask the right questions when it comes to meeting the right man. 1:01:23 - JT breaks down how women may respect honest men but sleep with the men who are dishonest faking the honesty part. 1:05:23 - Mikeal Jinae Lee breaks down her marriage and her process which started as friends. She breaks down her willing to grow, listen and communicate to make everything better. 1:18:20 - Bebe asks the guys what they look for when they meet or want to court a woman. 1:22:10 - The girls are convinced JT is the problem in his relationships and JT of course had to pop off back about how folks don’t believe a man can grow and changed from years ago till now. 1:26:28 - Being raised by both parents makes a huge difference. 1:31:45 - Jasi Badu joins late to give her take on the discussion. Jasi talks about what’s important in being with your partner. 1:35:00 - JT has a serious gripe with women who curve men in their prime years yet they try to give him a chance once she’s over the hill. And how certain women can be loved properly if she properly knows how to be loved.
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Episode 38 - Toxic Black Couple Role Models
Episode 37 - JT’s Birthday High School Reunion w/his son & Childhood/High School Friends
Timeline of Discussions:
:40 - Mindset Difference between now and before I was a dad.
2:10 - Charlotte and JT talk about their business and personal friendship.
4:43 - Introducing special guest host, Charlotte Plummer
6:50 - JT brings in his LA best friend, his son's Godfather, Tim Welch to join the show and talks his support of JT since day one moving to LA .
9:25 - JT's six-month-old son, Asher-JaMyi speaks for the first time.
9:53 - JT explains the stigma about him getting into it with folks and him and Tim talk about their competitive battles.
13:15 - Tim breaks down potentially getting married and having kids once he finished his Lawyer degree and JT threatens to crash Tim wedding if he’s not a Groomsmen.
16:34 - JT talks his favorite rap lines that’s kept him surviving LA over these past ten years and memories of JT acting a fool in front of celebrities in LA.
19:51 - Tim and Charlotte have no clue about what Clubhouse is.
22:03 - Tim brings up buying some Asher Blue shoes in reference to JT's son.
23:35 - Tim breaks down what he wants his legacy to be.
27:03 - Bringing on Bruce Daley, Keith Sneed and Hosni Ali.
34:31 - Keith Sneed talks nine surgeries on his back in less than three years including five in 2021 and the impact it has had in his life.
46:31 - Bruce Daley breaks down his inspiration for his poetry and his three daughters.
52:12 - Bruce brings up memories growing up with JT from his poverty struggles, football, inspiration to his writing.
56:21 - JT shoutouts his college professor, KenYatta Rogers bday which was same day as the podcast and the guy who inspired JT to get the confidence to move to LA.
1:02:56 - Brandon Conway enters the room and talks wrapping up his first podcast that day.
1:08:44 - Brandon talks Life after High School and meeting his wife and the journey it took to get to where he's at.
1:17:57 - Hosni and Keith break down things they thought how things would be after high school compare to what it is now.
1:22:35 - JT brings in his best friend/cousin, Edwin Campbell who also went to the same high school as the other guests.
1:30:30 - Charlotte asks the fellas about what would they tell their High School selves and what would they tell their children?
1:50:58 - Talk about What they learned about women from high school till now. Edwin and Brandon talk about their love for their wives. Keith talks what he has learned as well as Bruce.
2:09:10 - Final thoughts from the fellas on relationships, honesty and how to put yourself in proper position for you to love her.
2:18:01 - First Lady, Imani Fe joins late into the discussion.
2:34:15 - JT, Charlotte and Imani close out the show.
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Episode 36 - Long Distance Love with Matt Malcuhy (Produced by Cairo)
Co-Host, Cairo Spencer produces this episode as he brings on his roommate, Matt Malcuhy to talk what it's like being in a long distance relationship and what it's like to live with Cairo as a roommate.
3:30 - Imani as a Blow Up Doll 7:20 - JT fears paying for a woman body and she leaves him after for another man. 11:10 - Cairo talks about his date with his potential boo thing. 13:22 - Why Imani will never been labeled a nerd because of her looks. 15:15 - The guys debate Kevin Samuels and Derrick Jaxn comparisons. 17:40 - Why accountability is a women kryptonite. 21:47 - Breaking down Kevin Samuels message 24:00 - Why Men don’t take many women with kids as serious. 27:20 - JT feels Kevin Samuels doesn’t give black women hope. Imani feels KS life doesn’t practice what he preaches. 30:23 - JT talks why he’s qualified give his relationship perspective and doesn’t need any validation because of his track record 32:57 - JT feels Derrick Jaxn is a false prophet. He doesn’t practice what he preach. You can’t give relationship advice yet you hiding a whole wife. 36:50 - DJ using his dark skin and his career as a come up and why he will never change. Only becoming more egotistical. 42:00 - Cairo brings on our first ever white guest, Matt whose also his roommate. 47:40 - Cairo and Matt talk about how it’s like living with Cairo and all his antics. Matt puts Cairo on blast. 55:00 - Matt laughs about Cairo’s dating antics. Cairo is an interesting character. 60:33 - Matt’s best memory with Cairo which includes Matt walking in on Cairo getting some head. 71:45 - Cairo is the ultimate sly devil. 73:00 - Matt talks his beautiful long distance relationship story and how it can work if you two put in the effort. TAP IN with us! Subscribe, Like, Comment, Share. We need our algorithms up. Thank you.
Episode 35 - Temptations of a Brother w/Juwan Haynes from Temptation Island season 3 on USA network.
SHOW LESSTimeline for Episode 35 1:45 - Cairo turning Up 5:45 - LA Opening Back Up 7:45 - JT smoke session with Comedy Legend, Miss Laura Hayes 10:40 - Generation C babies 14:10 - Prince Henry Megan Markle situation similar to Princess Diana. 19:43 - Celebration of Memory for Imani Fe cousin who lost her battle to Cancer at age 5 22:00 - Women trying to date you after they continuously curve you 28:18 - Experience on Temptation Island Season 3 with Juwan Haynes on USA Network and how it changed his perspective on life and relationships. 41:58- Men lack of vulnerability and chasing other women effects his ability to truly love a woman correctly. 46:30 - Temptations of a Black Man. Can he smash other chicks and still love his woman. 49:18 - Guys living a false persona to impress chicks they shouldn’t be entertaining and still never satisfied. 51:35 - Is there a woman good enough for a man to not actually cheat? 56:35 - Men think about his woman every time he cheats but his flesh and selfishness overweights his morals. 60:04 - Imani Fe asks Juwan her normal question to our guests of If a man once is a cheater always a cheater. He gives his college experience as a life changing moment. 63:22 - Men egos drive their cheating ways. JT breaks down why men can cheat and not dwell on it no matter how bad he may feel about it. 66:26 - New P***y drives men because it feeds our ego. Mature men who are not driven sexually may not succumb to the lust. Like, Comment, Share, Subscribe to us and keep TAP IN with us!
Episode 34 - From Incarceration to Inspiration & Women Shooting their Shot w/Jason Thomas
Episode 33 - Toxic Masculinity & The Power of a Phat Ass w/Tenn Stacks, Nikki St. John, Gabriel Nketiah
JT finally switches over to Iphone. 4:10 - Men comparing themselves to other men and vice versa on social media 5:20 - Early Toxic Masculinity signs. 13:04 - Emotionally unavailable Men 17:03 - Shoutout Imani Fe's Uncle Jermaine for the full support of the podcast. 20:00 - Introducing guests, Nikki St. John, Gabriel Nketiah and Tenn Stacks. 26:10 - Nikki St John's definition of Toxic Masculinity 27:41 - Overly Sexual Liberation. 33:26 - Fake Alpha Men 48:16 - Women Making the First Move on Men 50:06 - Toxic Masculinity in Women 62:30 - Women Savagely Fucking Men with No Emotions & Sleeping with your Friend's Boo 87:20 - The Power of a Phat Ass 90:30 - Women Expecting Men to Spend Money or He's Considered Broke in their Eyes
Sz 2 Ep 7 (Ep 32) - Love Languages, Booty Calls and Women Using their Male Friends w/K Lene
Intro Music by Mac Bezzie - Turnt Up
Sz 2 Ep 6 (Ep 31) - Were You his Only Valentine?
Sz 2 Ep 5 (Ep 30) - Super Bowl Treat
Sz 2 Ep 4 (Ep 29) - Single Mother's Journey to Sustainable Love w/Dasharra Bridges
The TAP IN gang is back as JT, Cairo and First Lady of the pod, Imani Fe deep dive into a conversation about why women find certain men 'corny.' (3:15) They joke about the legacy of Imani Fe' Clappers and it's impact on the show's success. (20:33) They paid homage to the late Kobe Bryant as JT gives his story about working at Staples Center for the Grammy's when the news broke. Remembering Cicely Tyson as well. (25:50) JT admits not paying Cairo when Cairo and Imani were both actors of JT's play, Confessions of a H.O.E. (30:01) KT comes on later to brag about her dogs being groomed. (45:10) Our guest, DaSharra Bridges joins the show to talk her novel turned stageplay, Journey of a Single Mother. She talks about her inspiration behind the project years ago to turning it into feature film, written by JT. Now she just casted for the stageplay for it. (50:51) JT comes with a crazy theory about how SOME men see single mother's as fetishes and desperate. (57:41) What makes young single mother's so vulnerable? (62:03) Dasharra talks the biggest obstacles in single mother's finding true love and much more. TAP IN with us!
Music by Mac Bezzie "Turnt Up"
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